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You don’t know too much. You have your experiences and observations. We all have slightly different ones. Just because a married woman flirts with a good looking guy doesn’t mean the marriage is ruined. Agree Agree, usually necessary, although not always. I know who some girls from poor socioeconomic backgrounds who became linked to their men permanently. Agree Not always Agree; and if a girl has low quality friends she will learn to exhibit bad behavior herself. I learned this sadly the hard wa…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:24 AM
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I think you’re being dramatic. Trust me. The bottom line is you just have to be alpha. Once you’re in a longer-term relationship with a girl, either it’ll sizzle out and end or it’ll become locked in. Many many many great couples out there, fully loyal, best friends, and the guys are naturally doing what is “required” to keep their girl in check. And usually those high quality girls are truly that…high quality…humble, not selfish and self centered, and admire a quality relationship with a good m…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:36 AM
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This is red pill to retardation level. No one listen to this please. Companionship actually is real, you can find a woman to marry and stay with, etc. Red pill reality does not render these things untrue.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 05:09 AM
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Same. I used to get a decent amount of matches in college, but now I barely even get matches anymore despite my SMV being the best it’s ever been and being in vacation towns. Either the algorithm is broken and my account has some kind of shadowbanning happening, or girls are only swiping on pure chads and nothing else. Maybe my age is getting too high as well at 25 who knows. Idk what age range 18-22 year old girls put in. But I suspect they shadowban my account because got 5 likes the first day…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:55 PM
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You don't find the unicorn. But you can find a serious, hard-working woman who might be very much like you, and it might be very compatible. You aren't going to find her on dating apps or playing social media games, though. You're going to find her in a professional, or active hobby environment in-person. She may not be a 6-8, but she isn't going to have this social media clout that you have to worry about. She's going to have a real job and live a regular life. So stay away from the petulant so…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:32 PM
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Yep, the girls I tend to be around are usually all short anyway. Several inches shorter than me. Good enough. The hair is a real problem, and unfortunately I have the gene so strong that I can’t regrow my original hair. It gone. If I grow it out I have some left, but it looks like a wispy tumbleweed. Terrible. And since the bald look isn’t great on me at my age, that’s why I went ahead and ordered a hair system and I’m going to go meet with the stylist who does my dad’s hair systems. It instantl…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 08:46 PM
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Yet popular, supposedly high value young guys who aren’t even that good looking have girls throwing themselves at them. I’ve never understood this. Like you can workout, have a good body and looks, be smart, and be ignored by young girls while they throw themselves at the chubby popular reckless guy with no discipline or goals for anything in life.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 05:44 PM
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Yes that is my ONLY remaining insecurity. I had a few as I transitioned into adulthood, but took care of the ones that I was able to. Crooked teeth…did Invisalign and now I’m completely content with my smile. The hair thing is the one thing I can’t just fix. The gene runs strong in my father’s family and we all lose our hair young. I’m only 5’7”. It’s too aggressive of loss to treat with medicine or transplantation. But, my dad wears hair systems, and they look completely real and make him way m…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:33 PM
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"Regret" is relative. You have no position to declare what other people desire in life. OP gives many signs he only feels regretful because he looks around and sees other people doing certain things that seemed fun, and feels like he missed out. But perhaps he never wanted or valued that from the heart in the first place, and his thinking is environmentally created. Hooking up with a bunch of people is not something everyone needs to "get out of their system." In fact, high-value people who care…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:37 AM
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Yeah, you're exactly right. It's kind of sad...just a few years ago, when I was still figuring myself out, it was in a way easier to get things going with a girl...both of my girlfriends were my "type" for sure, but at the time we were all still figuring out who we are and what we value. Now that I'm more mature and know myself and what I want my life to look like, it really narrows the field of girls who I am interested in. Out of shape? Can't do it; I'm a fitness guy and need a fit girl. Likes…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:31 AM
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Most of the advice here is terrible. Don’t obsess over trying to get into hookup culture now. You’ll forever trail behind what would be truly meaningful. You sound like you only want that because you have retroactive fomo. You missed out compared to some others, and you feel bad about that. I get it. I had those feelings too (I’m the same age). But then after doing a true, honest evaluation of where I’m at, it’s clear that I desire to take things more seriously. It’s ok that I never got into the…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:17 AM
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Well I do live by standards because I’ve had many girls interested in me who I rejected because they were not to par with value I desire. I desire people who take care of themselves, so physical health is important, and people who are humble and genuine and serious. I’ve had to reject people who don’t have those qualities, so I am going in the right direction.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:11 AM
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Appreciate the words. I have made great strides with self confidence and will continue to do that. But, I gotta make sure I’m at least a decent looking guy and maximizing the physical, because so much of it starts with looks from a distance. So lay it on me honestly; am I at least somewhat attractive? If I know where I’m starting at then I can carry my personality accordingly.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:13 AM
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Some pics of me: https://imgur.com/a/xx9DNfG Please evaluate my attractiveness and who I’m compatible with. Thanks!
/r/askTRP14/06/21 02:15 AM
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Here are pictures I use for Tinder and social media: https://imgur.com/a/BSFHQ5n Lay the truth on me…is my attractiveness decent or am I just ugly?
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:09 AM
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This really helped a lot. Thank you. Right…I know the type of people I want to be around, and the types I don’t. Unlike some others who just join up with anyone and everything without giving a fuck, I’m more deliberate and specific about what I want to be involved in. This one coworker I met a few months ago seemed to be a cool guy, but he kept asking me to drink and smoke with him every single week in his apartment with his girlfriend and wasn’t the active type. To each their own, but I just do…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 06:28 PM
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Don’t stop. If it comes naturally and it’s who you are, don’t stop. You might feel like it’s forced if no one else talks like that much. But that’s their problem. And people who aren’t polite are truly assholes. It’s alpha to appreciate things and be polite. Think Dwayne The Rock Johnson. Do you think he makes sexual comments about girls in public? Absolutely fucking not.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 07:31 PM
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There might be some truth there but it’s not all “shallow” stuff. Yeah a lot of them use stuff and just hang out like that all the time; they don’t have real jobs, etc. That’s true. I guess I’m just so in need of feeling like I belong somewhere, I’m desperate to get into an environment that makes me highly active and gives me joy. I haven’t found that yet and the clock is ticking on my youth.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 07:16 PM
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I think you’re being a little dismissive and closed minded saying that. I’m not saying everyone should aspire to be like them, but there’s nothing wrong with some people wanting that kind of life. It works for some people. What are they doing wrong? They’re working hard at something, and sharing content actually inspiring people to do something healthy and good. Wanting to be like them is better than aspiring to be an average, lackluster man who drinks all the time at his hometown pub for “fun,”…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 06:41 PM
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I did not say I had such judgment. But the social system has a hierarchy. You don't ever see the coolest, most popular guys hanging out with the people living in the projects and not taking care of themselves. Ever. They don't intermingle. I'm saying that I naturally connect with the people near the bottom because I like helping and teaching, and I can often do that with those types. I have always had difficulty connecting to higher-value people, is the point I'm trying to get at here, and I wan…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 03:03 PM
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I disagree that they’re living a “fake life.” It’s not fake, it’s their real life. That’s what they do every day, and they have that network of people that is likeminded, and get to travel and do fun stuff and make money doing it. It may be a new type of thing, but it’s far from “fake.” Thanks but I already have gone without friend groups. I have always been a lone wolf; the issue is now I realize I’m unhappy being that way because I have nothing fulfilling going on and not many satisfying relat…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:20 AM
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Why exactly the FBI? Also even though I liked my major, which is a B.S. in Geography btw, I don't know how enthusiastic I am about just getting a private-sector job in that field. I don't want to sit at a computer desk all day. I want to be active and in a social hierarchy that is fun and fulfilling.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:43 AM
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Great question for me to weigh in on since I just had it done a few weeks ago. You want white teeth, yes. But if you’re talking about laser teeth whitening in-office, whether it’s worth it depends. I paid $249 for 1 hr laser whitening, but I already had pretty white teeth because I take great dental care and don’t drink anything that stains. For me, it wasn’t worth it…because I was already in great shape. I barely noticed a difference after. They only got a little bit whiter. Hardly even noticea…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 09:26 PM
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Yes very few. That’s like 3 girls out of the hundreds or thousands you’ve known through high school and college. More are doing it now but it’s still a super small minority. Busy people don’t got time for that because if you don’t put some effort into your content you make very little money. A girl I went to school with and actually respected very much just recently broke up with her longtime boyfriend who I also knew from high school and started making her Instagram an OnlyFans promotion page. …
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:56 PM
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You’re just stone cold red pill to retardation. If you desire a LTR with a high quality woman, which a strong man SHOULD, and she disrespects you, you should cut off everything…including sex. If you keep that going you’re still giving her the ultimate validation possible for bad behavior. That makes zero sense at all. That teachers her that bad behavior is OK because she can still have sex with who she desires. You should cut off everything.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 01:57 AM
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My bad. Wrote this when I was distracted multitasking haha. Will fix!
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:26 PM
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Last paragraph is spot on in short. Additionally, you can be a sigma and do your own fucking thing in life and stay outside the hierarchy and entertain relationships when they come to you. This is actually most of my life, just the way it has happened so far. I do whatever I want, if I disagree with something I don’t do it, I break rules when necessary, I don’t follow others, I don’t roam in a pack. And it’s pretty satisfying if that’s the way you’re wired.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 07:12 PM
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I agree; I also think many red pill men end up validating it too with their “plate” lifestyle. How can you stand against a woman’s behavior if you’re going to live your life with the same approach? A lot of the teaching here is simply wrong and needs to change. You should pursue meaningful relationships with women and if they disrespect or exhibit bad behavior towards you, you should not “reduce them to a plate”…you should cut them off entirely. And if every man with dignity did that, they would…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 06:12 PM
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Too many red pillers literally validate the bad behavior by choosing not to do anything about it and also engage in bad behavior equally. That doesn’t fix problems and is weak yet I see it being taught here all the time. A girl you genuinely like and form a relationship with starts to behave badly and wants to act single and get with other guys? And the message here is to plate her and rotate your own plate? This is where this community gets it all wrong. That situation calls for you to dump her…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 06:00 PM
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And low key validate them with our own “acceptance.” This bad behavior continues to exist because too many men don’t want to do anything about it and take back control, including so many red pillers. It’s disappointing.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 05:54 PM
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I completely agree with this. However, OP, also just get some contacts in your phone man. Get a job, get friendly with coworkers, make acquaintances, that’s all it really takes.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 01:03 PM
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To each their own. If you think the culture is bad, I’m genuinely curious as to why you validate it then. There’s an argument to be made that strength comes in the power to reject. If you don’t reject what you claim to stand against, then you’re giving up ALL your power. You’re rolling over and letting these things continue when we have the power to set the example.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 11:03 PM
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Right but we have the option to not support or engage with OnlyFans girls and that’s the approach I take lol.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:48 PM
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OnlyFans isn’t a demonstration of hypergamy and hypergamy and OnlyFans are not related in any sense.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:36 PM
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The only “problem” is how sad it is because it contributes to the porn issue that damages women and doesn’t bring them happiness and damages lonely men by making them reliant on porn instead of them getting their lives together and actually forming real relationships with women. That’s the problem. I personally am against the entire lifestyle because I’ve been there and after rejecting it and getting my life together, I’ll never go back.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:34 PM
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I’m not actually more boring than a few years ago; I do way more fun things with my hobbies now. It’s more in my personality. I’m hardened up now. Serious, focused. Not comfortable being reckless or taking big risks.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 04:35 PM
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Excuse my ignorance on exactly what you mean by that. I’m trying to learn how to maintain my seriousness and hard work toward life (because I believe in that as a long term strategy for success) while adopting the ability to be more fun and relatable socially, I guess is what I would say. It just feels like I have to fake so much to do that. I think part of my inability to loosen up is partly a result of the emotional trauma I suffered from a past breakup. The exact thing that brings many of us …
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:13 AM
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No I don’t “go out.” Going to bars and clubs is for children; I’ve never been big into that scene and never will be. To each their own of course but that type of thing disgusts me and gives me no joy. The last time I went out to a club I couldn’t fucking wait to leave and go home to peace and quiet. It’s not like the people around me go out either. My ideas of fun are hobbies and travel, movies, spending time with people I love. That’s my life. I recognize that I’m very smart and live a very del…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:27 AM
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But the thing is I am unwilling to go backwards in terms of my own life and personal behavior. I’m so much more fulfilled now after going through difficult, low times and now learning how to be my best which means things like working hard, taking on responsibilities, investing financially, and being generous to others. These things give me a deeper sense of peace and I am unwilling to give this lifestyle up just to get more attention from immature girls. It sucks that not many people are appreci…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:17 AM
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What would you say about the other direction? Aka going from periods of more sexual relationships to fewer as you mature into a real adult. For example in my teens I was awkward as hell and oblivious and didn’t even take good care of my appearance, and somehow stumbled into several relationships at the end of high school and early college. Now that I’m 25, work hard at everything I do, take everything seriously, have a good body built up in the gym, take care of myself, and take on responsibilit…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 04:59 AM
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Sure, whatever. But being busy and on a mission will help keep your mental health up and keep you occupied. It’s really looking like you DGAF about needing a relationship that makes you alpha attractive.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 07:47 PM
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“despite trying harder than literally every other guy I know.” ^ This might explain it. Stop trying so damn hard to force it. That usually has the opposite effect. When you are so busy and successful with life separate from relationships with females, that’s when they’ll want to come along and join you on something. That’s when you’re the most attractive.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 06:47 PM
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Doing this actually doesn’t properly help them forget a guy. It makes them think so but it doesn’t actually. And if you start living your life properly as the best alpha male you can be, she will never forget you, and there’s a good chance she’ll come back around after realizing shallow flings got her nowhere. Become that alpha, the best guy you can be….perhaps a totally new person than when you were with the last girl….and make her seethe at your success and wish she could have you now.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:17 AM
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It can be sad but it’s real and it’s life. Yes, embrace the pain and keep pushing on.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:14 AM
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Didn’t read. It’s ok man. Sometimes it takes a few YEARS. Trust me. Been there. Took me about 2 full years once to feel truly “great” again about life. Just keep pressing on and working hard toward your goals and bettering yourself. One day you will feel good again. I promise. It starts with belief in yourself.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 03:14 AM
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Guys do as they age I think, at least some. I’ve gotten there. I’m at the point where I literally will have girls block me after I reject them, and it’s not because I would ever even message them on any platform…it’s because they’re so hurt that I rejected them that they want to force themselves not to be able to view my pages I guess. It’s pretty crazy but this is a great sign you know you’re doing great things with your life and you have your crown on.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 05:41 AM
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The ultimate alpha thing to do is not even acknowledge him as competition outwardly. A true man will not make an issue of this. If the girl wants to play you and disrespect you and mess around with this guy, then you LET her, and then remove the gf title. Simple as that. Keep your crown on and lay down consequences.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 06:23 AM
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This. Coming across Peterson’s content may have literally saved me from going down a permanent dark hole I may have never recovered from. And it wasn’t an immediate help either. As I taught myself the type of thinking Peterson teaches, I first went through feelings of anger, resentment, and irritability. But I kept pushing on because everything he said made sense and gave me some reason to keep going. And now my life is far better because of it.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:59 PM
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Yes, automatic red flag, not gf material... don’t make her yours.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:31 PM
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Doesn’t mean their hearts aren’t broken lol. Yes they have different timeframes than men
/r/askTRP28/04/21 10:16 PM
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That’s right, there’s nothing abusive about that. Setting expectations and being willing to walk away is good. I literally mean forcing a girl to be a certain way or do certain things or demanding things of her after she’s shown she doesn’t want to comply with what’s right, or putting her down repeatedly to subhuman levels. That can become abusive. I admit I took the verbal way too far with a past experience and she felt controlled because at the time she had no one else and she wasn’t on the in…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 10:04 PM
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This is straight garbage and misunderstanding of rp which isn't uncommon. Being abusive isn't red pill. I took it overboard with a past relationship and the girl left, told everyone how shitty I made her feel, and won't ever come back. There's a difference between being alpha and stoic vs being abusive. Being abusive is not good, ever, and won't make a girl stay around unless you're a 10. Come on now.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 06:37 PM
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Damn. You're genuinely going to break her heart when you leave her because you're "not marriage or family inclined."
/r/askTRP28/04/21 06:35 PM
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Yeah sounds pretty accurate. The difficult thing is, even after you really accept red pill, it’s possible to still have somewhat blue pill feelings naturally even while knowing they’re not going to get you anything specific that you want. For example, I will always love one of my ex’s in a way that women can’t love men. She was born into a crap situation, was taken advantage of by her own family and friends, and was a pretty good person despite being hurt by people who were supposed to care for …
/r/askTRP28/04/21 03:47 AM
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I actually have come to believe more men understand the reality of biological sexuality than some people here think. I think many men have “red pill” in them naturally from the start; they haven’t had to read material and teach themselves these things. It may have been the way they were raised or the social circles they grew up in. I actually think the proportion of guys who are not following a lifestyle based on red pill nature is more like 6 or 7/10.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 03:13 AM
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Yes. Becoming hateful or resentful or angry or extremely arrogant and staying that way is overdosing. No one wants to be around men like that. You ultimately must accept the reality of red pill, keep the ideas in your mind, but create a strong, compassionate, humble, and lively masculine frame to see success. When you’re doing this right you’re not feeling angry; you’re at peace and you just know the truth deep down.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 03:01 AM
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Because they’re desperate for validation and sex because they never ever ever get any so they swipe right on everyone. Do not get with fat people. That’s validating and excusing their fatness and lack of health. If you aren’t a 9/10 in looks then you aren’t going to match with 7-9s. You might get normal weight 4-6s. And that’s where you will accept your fate unless you significantly improve yourself.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 12:16 AM
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This happens... rarely. There are tons of successful, winning, masculine men around leftist leaning, mentally-deranged women. The vast majority of these women reject and stick with their sjw ideology. Otherwise sjw culture would have already died.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 10:40 AM
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Dump. A girl who wants to act single should be treated as such. She’s for the streets, send her back bro
/r/askTRP15/04/21 09:18 PM
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You run shit. You will find the best of friends in other people who run shit too.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 04:00 AM
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It’s natural. Necessary to ensure proper reproduction. If it’s overwhelming to the point you have trouble getting other things done or thinking clearly, jack off in the morning. Should decrease sexual thoughts for the rest of the day. Don’t start overdoing it though. It’s a slippery slope and you need a healthy balance.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:28 PM
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Right, I understand what you’re saying. I was more responding directly to your points than anything with OP. A few things: Yes, most people are sleepwalking through life. You can say we only have control over our own actions, but there is such a thing as influence. We have all adopted ideas and behaviors because we came across them somehow. Current society may be off the wheels, but is that excuse to join in? If you admit certain ideals, and then give up fully on them to join others who are doin…
/r/askTRP05/03/21 09:58 PM
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You got off track somewhere along the way. Demoting sex to a transactional action devoid of emotional connection has been nothing but a bad thing. Everyone is driven to desire sex. But it takes the mental strength of a God in human form to only pursue it with certain partners deemed worthy of that emotional, longer-term connection. Showing off in the gym has nothing to do with being whores. You can show off your success without needing to fuck everything in sight. Men become gods when they attra…
/r/askTRP05/03/21 09:27 PM
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It is female nature to go for the guy who makes them feel the best; not the guy who is the best on paper or the most intelligent. Their nature isn’t to act on logic; is to act on inherent biology. It takes high IQ and a deeper sense of life and society for a female to do anything to that contrary. There are females who make more logical choices (evaluating more than just how a guy makes them feel) but they are less common.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:12 AM
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A mall? What is this you speak of? Malls have all but gone extinct my man; not a great option anymore. People buy things online.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:06 AM
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You need to find your highest purpose, as I still do too. That’s the answer. You’ve found things you like to do, but you’re still lacking the connection to a higher plane of meaning and you’re aware that you’re lacking that. That’s why you feel exactly this way. I’m right there with you. No amount of girls or sex will be the answer. Why not check out of the game right now? Why continue on? What reason do you have to live this thing out to the best of your ability? Explore those ideas and hopeful…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:58 AM
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They do. But not every single one of them. If you are being a proper man it’s very hard for her to do that. My aunt and uncle are a good example. My uncle is alpha and brings in most of the income. My aunt knows what her roles are (raise the kids, take care of the home, and make the family happy). Even though she’s very emotional and has a roller coaster brain, and has even hit my uncle with lamps and umbrellas (many years ago), she would never do anything to leave my uncle because she is happy …
/r/askTRP04/01/21 09:15 PM
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You go on a journey as two people aligned instead of alone. 2 working together is always better than 1. It’s the best situation for children and their growth to have a mother and a father in a permanent union. Marriage provides stability and makes it harder to make impulsive relationship decisions, which is a good thing. Anyone who seriously thinks there aren’t ANY benefits or good things about marriage have been led badly astray. There are quite clearly good reasons for it and always will be. T…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:55 PM
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I totally agree with you about BLM but not about the other stuff. Most people don't even know what tik tok is and it surely isn't sewing division. You're taking this far overboard. You'll be dead before any of this would even matter on an individual level.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 04:49 AM
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People who think Tik Tok "stealing American's data" is a serious threat of wellbeing to the American people are nuts. The United States government commits far worse crimes against people, both Americans and abroad, every day than a stupid video app does.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 04:35 AM
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You are sickeningly full of shit. lol
/r/askTRP28/09/20 04:27 AM
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Good choice man. She's likely a failure now lol
/r/askTRP04/10/18 12:49 AM
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I agree with this. But do you have any thoughts on what to do about it? Our society has evolved to create these things: education, careers, etc. We're not just savage wild animals. Our intelligence has allowed us to create these advances. But it doesn't align perfectly with nature and biology as you said. Should we devolve back into savagery, or not? Just interested to hear what you think.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 12:47 AM
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Yeah, real intellectual discussion... you're playing stupid games below that stage. If you don't want to get in the same story as me and just hurl criticisms from afar, then just don't comment. You're just wasting your time.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 10:24 PM
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Absolutely not. Sympathy is a joke and a misleading trick. Once again, you aren't comprehending my post. I'm open to all real discussion... keyword REAL discussion. If you're not up to that, then good luck to you too.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 10:21 PM
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You're not understanding anything. I do have fun...I said a derive my fun from different things than maybe most people my age do. That's how I want to be. Try actually reading things in full and crafting a coherent response with proper grammar for once. It's extremely difficult to even read your never ending sentences. Lol
/r/askTRP12/09/18 10:17 PM
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Cool. Getting a little off topic and I haven't gotten very useful stuff from here so i guess I'm about out (of this subreddit, not life). Shame, because people have told me I'd like TRP since I do in fact take many red pill approaches to life. I'm definitely not a blue piller. But I just feel like some of the ways you guys go about "helping" people is completely misguided. Oh well.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 10:05 PM
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I agree with some, disagree with some. I'm not going to party because I don't want to. Regardless of how smart I think I am, I simply DON'T WANT TO. I'm content with my acquaintances who also take a more serious approach to life. I can't "get a better haircut." I have almost no hair. Read post. I agree with the I don't have it that bad which is exactly what I said near the end of my post. But I have a highly conscientious mindset, so stop telling me to "have fun" and not worry. I don't care abou…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 10:02 PM
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Amoral? Really? Perhaps I have misunderstood TRP then, or you're doing it wrong. I've always understood TRP to mean a place for freedom, cold hard TRUTH (not lies), and a way to live the best life you possibly can by playing the game that is life. But not being immoral. Am I wrong? If so, I'll be done here, because you people are doing it wrong, then.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 09:40 PM
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By the way, here's something from your post history: http://imgur.com/a/DAWgf8V This kind of stuff is outrageous and ridiculous. Pregaming, partying, trying to nail as many women as possible... you are contributing poor things to TRP and I couldn't be less enthused about listening to what you'll have to say next...
/r/askTRP12/09/18 09:23 PM
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If you don't want to discuss anything then stop commenting. That's what this place is for. I'm always open to discussion. Don't chicken out. I didn't say everyone was. But we are, largely. Do you have any idea the depths of porn now, what kinds of platforms it's on, how physical attractiveness is flaunted all over social media, and how that changes our brains?
/r/askTRP12/09/18 09:15 PM
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That's such a shallow thing to say. I've seen many cases of the opposite. People who have never had interest in it and don't care, and people who have had tons of it and need more and more constantly. I've felt stuck in between personally for years, even after having it many times. The smarter side of my mind know it's not that important, and knows that I shouldn't even view porn at all (see Jordan Peterson on this psychological topic), but my other half of my mind sees all the wild college kids…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 08:58 PM
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Also, the only real purpose of the human species is to reproduce and then die. That's why we're so obsessed with sex even to the point where it becomes unhealthy. Everything else in life is a social construct.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 08:14 PM
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I don't think I came through right, then. I'm not joyless...I'm just joyless in most things that society finds joy in, and I have my reasons why I feel differently. I'm depressed deep within, but I treat people well. The paragraph about that. I have a very pleasant and kind attitude towards everyone, which is in part why professors have always picked me out from the crowd. Also, this isn't only about social life. I couldn't really care less about that. It's about winning the game of life as a wh…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 07:57 PM
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Alright, I'll consider it. But I once called the counseling and psychological services center at my university and they were 100% useless. I had to lay out the main problem on the phone, set up an appointment for a phone interview later in which I talked about this stuff, while the lady just sat and listened and didn't help me with anything. I won't forget that. If you're implying here that my mindset is wrong, and I need to get it fixed, and that normal people have it right...I feel differently…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 07:45 PM
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I'm not in danger of doing that. I've never self-harmed in any way and couldn't do it. I just meant to say the idea of not having to deal with this suffering of life by no longer existing seems appealing...but the method needed to do that is not something I can do. But I just can't stop feeling like shit every single day. Some days I put on a tough face and pretend everything's great, but then I go back to reality and realize how horrible life is.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 07:33 PM
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Well, there are attention whores. But I don't like the premise of your question because tons of guys are actually depressed...like seriously depressed, whether they talk about it or not. We've all heard recently about the problem of men lacking meaning in their lives and how bad it's getting.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 07:25 PM
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Yeah it's about mental health and life as a whole. I get what you're saying, but I think it's also important to know that someone can have no trouble putting a into b, but still be unhappy and depressed about their standing in life. Putting a into b is not always the end goal.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:15 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP12/09/18 04:37 PM
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