bluemind361 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	[deleted by user] Bro, “Let’s do something.” Is right there.	/r/seduction	03/08/22 03:39 AM
112	[deleted by user] I wouldn’t take a girl I don’t know that well to a wedding. I’d rather try to meet women at the wedding than take someone I’m not with.	/r/seduction	02/08/22 11:48 PM
1	Talking/flirting with a girl when other people are around? You don’t need to care if other people care. Talk to who you want to talk to.	/r/seduction	02/08/22 10:50 PM
2	Which one? Which one? Come on man all women aren’t the same. It’s all in the individual and their personality type. Some will and some won’t. Simple as that. You can only control what you do though so take the initiative if you don’t want to leave it in their hands.	/r/seduction	02/08/22 08:42 PM
2	How to keep going after cold approaching? Ask about things she likes to do, places she’s been, things she would like to experience. Listen to her responses. Maybe you have common interests. If not, ask her to talk more about her’s so you can learn. Try to throw in a little humor when possible. If she has a cute outfit or accessory on, you can compliment her style. So many things to say. There is no script to this, it’s just supposed to be a naturally flowing conversation. Try not to dwell too much on how hot she is and think of it as a …	/r/seduction	02/08/22 07:57 PM
2	Why do some guys get seen in a sexual light immediately by most women whilst others don’t? Energy. In my life a big difference came when I showed that I didn’t care what anyone thought and I was happy with myself. I had my own style my own way of carrying myself and wasn’t seeking approval from anyone else. That made me stand out.	/r/seduction	02/08/22 07:49 PM
1	[deleted by user] Absolutely. It won’t always be successful but you just have to find the right one.	/r/seduction	03/07/22 02:45 AM
1	[deleted by user] I’ve done it many times and met new people often. You have to be confident enough to strike up conversations with people though. Sometimes people start talking to you.	/r/seduction	26/06/22 04:57 PM
10	The number one sign that a girl likes you is proximity That’s fine. On to the next.	/r/seduction	10/12/20 04:48 PM
1	Reading too much is bad bc you convince yourself you need to do 100 things to attract women. You develop the belief talking to them is hard. This makes you nervous in front of a woman. She senses your fear, feels uncomfortable, then rejects you. Which reinforces your false belief this is hard. All those things you talk about vary on the person and situation. You have to learn how to read things. The same things won’t work for every time and place. You have to understand what’s going on and react accordingly. It may not come naturally at first but with practice you learn these social cues.	/r/seduction	16/09/20 11:19 PM
6	Reading too much is bad bc you convince yourself you need to do 100 things to attract women. You develop the belief talking to them is hard. This makes you nervous in front of a woman. She senses your fear, feels uncomfortable, then rejects you. Which reinforces your false belief this is hard. So true. Being a fun, easy going and charming person helps a ton. Makes people want to be around you and feel comfortable with you.	/r/seduction	16/09/20 12:59 PM
35	Guys I fucking did it. I love your story. So many guys get stuck on someone being “out of their league”. Self pity never does anything. You have to be your best self and love it.	/r/seduction	03/09/20 08:43 PM
2	How exciting of a life do I really need for a girl to want to date me? I wouldn’t worry about that. Many women aren’t doing anything exciting or looking for you to be “exciting”. You want to find a woman that’s into you regardless of what you have going on.	/r/seduction	02/09/20 09:07 PM
2	"The guy who fails at the game is the one who goes out looking for women to make him feel good about himself. The guy who succeeds at the game is the one who goes out and makes other people feel good about themselves." - Neil Strauss, Rules Of The Game, p.116 The best thing is when you don’t seek outside approval. People can tell if you are that way and it’s a weakness. You need to approve of yourself. Not everyone is going to want you and that’s ok. Don’t worry about them. If you have things going for yourself, you will people that will be into you.	/r/seduction	01/09/20 10:59 PM
1	Be confident and you'll attract women Backpedaling? This doesn’t make sense. I stick to what I say. I’m not posting pictures of friends to prove anything. Believe what you want. Everyone cares about looks including you. But to act like that’s the only factor is nuts. You’ve never heard a woman say “he wasn’t my type” or “I wasn’t attracted to him at first” but they got together anyway? How do you think that happened? One thing you don’t seem to understand is “ugly” isn’t universal. Have you ever disagreed with friends on whether a g…	/r/seduction	26/08/20 03:22 PM
0	Be confident and you'll attract women I’m a man first of all and I don’t know what you are going on about. I have friends who get women and if you saw them you wouldn’t think women would love them based on appearance but they do very well for themselves. They obviously have something that makes them attractive to the women they get. You can believe me or not. If you think only “hot” guys get laid you’re crazy. Maybe these guys have a totally different attitude than you do and aren’t on here complaining about women and life not being…	/r/seduction	26/08/20 12:05 PM
0	Be confident and you'll attract women Ugly is in the eye of the beholder. I don’t look at guys as ugly or whatever. Someone’s ugly can be another person’s cute. Are we talking deformed or something? Again, I’ve seen plenty of guys who aren’t close to what that society sees as “hot” or “sexy” and they get women. These are regular people. And the women they get look good.	/r/seduction	25/08/20 07:31 PM
2	Be confident and you'll attract women You can’t tell me you’ve never met or saw a man who wasn’t conventionally attractive or was rich or anything like that but was able to get women. If not, you haven’t been out much.	/r/seduction	24/08/20 11:18 PM
2	Be confident and you'll attract women Confidence is power. People can sense when someone is insecure and it’s seen as weakness. When you know you are being your best self and are secure in that, others will be attracted to that energy.	/r/seduction	24/08/20 06:11 PM