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Why are you so worried about it, did you want to date your guy friends? Women pressure men into all kinds of things, I'm surprised you haven't thought about it.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 12:02 AM
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You met them over text?
/r/askTRP24/04/18 12:00 AM
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Your best friend found out? I'd have to do the math on that real quick, one second. 1 plus 1 equals, you told him you read it! It sounds like you are having growing pains. Everyone makes mistakes when they're learning. Now you know how ready the matriarchy is to defend itself. In the future, I would be more covert.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 08:56 PM
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Don't understand, how did you have "flings" but remain a virgin? I would picture the girl you want to lose your virginity to. Then, don't talk to that girl. Talk to as many girls LIKE that girl as you can, and work on finding one interested in you. Welcome to the sub
/r/askTRP02/04/18 08:51 PM
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I'd recommend not acting like there's a leader. Sure some kids are more popular than others, but that doesn't stop Reddit user from being friends with whoever he wants.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 07:39 PM
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Idk do you have anything else in common besides the drink and helping her like an IT guy? Are you asking for a way to make her take you seriously?
/r/askTRP01/04/18 07:37 PM
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You're reading too much into it. Some girls have total bullshit lives where they make drama for themselves when they aren't watching shitty TV. You dodged a bullet, find something else to worry about.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:42 PM
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One of my favorite things about TRP is that no one is the authority on it yet. There are too many things wrong with pick up artists or mens rights activists for everyone to agree to follow one other person. Ultimately however, videogames are primarily designed for kids (yes, even the shooters and esports.) I expect they will be seen as a hobby equivalent of toys for a long time yet, until people currently ~30 pass out of participating in public opinion.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 08:12 PM
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No f close on the first date? Hard next, don't go to the same gym anymore. Just kidding. Seems like you could ask her about her ex but if she starts waffling on about it tell her what you really want to think about is if you two can get together more. If she reacts negatively to something like that then, you could find someone more available.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 08:05 PM
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No, this girl likely has you cemented in her mind as a friend not a romantic interest. Not to say you won't learn anything from asking her, or to say for certain she would reject you. But really, I'd say accept that some people you proposition will be disgusted and you will "lose" them because they weren't expecting it. The good news is it probably doesn't hurt you in the long run. You can maintain 50 friends at once but 50 friends with benefits... Friends are just easier to come by.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 08:02 PM
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For some people attraction flickers on and off much faster than others. I don't think all cheaters are the same. If you're worried that someone is cheating on you, the worst you can do is accuse them and look jealous and paranoid. The best you can do is decide how much you're still attracted to them, factoring in that yes, they may consider being unfaithful from time to time, and decide if you want to move away from that person in your life.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 07:57 PM
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Pros: you are now possibly genetically immortal. Cons: girl may become less invested in you as an assumed investment in her (I had his kids, now he HAS to be around to help me raise them, that's what my matriarchy does for me.) So if you are okay with your relationship with that girl and her family and maybe your own family becoming strained as a result of still valuing yourself despite having kids, that's something to consider.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 03:07 PM
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Just remember, hierarchies bounce around all the time. Its fine to relax when its so easy to display some posture and frame later and feel like top dog again, if that's your goal. Hard to be like that all the time without some kind of performance enhancing drugs imo, wouldn't recommend that route either.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:18 PM
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Harder to talk with a movie on so just get some serious teasing on beforehand.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:15 PM
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No just get it out of your mind really and onto paper
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:36 AM
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Sounds cliche but try doing a journal every time you get anxious. Just write down why you're anxious. Guard it with your life though, don't want someone to find out all your weaknesses.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:09 AM
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Are you young? It could be your taste in a partner is just changing. It happens. Of course there's probably a million other ways to rationalize it. Can't tell you for certain.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 11:59 PM
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I don't get it. You seem to already know what all your problems are. What are you looking for someone else for? Are you sure you even need clarification on anything?
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:13 PM
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There is such a thing as being too agreeable. If someone says something you objectively disagree with, and you stay quiet or worse reply with some confirmation like "Yeah", you can be percieved as acting too nice and going along with anything anyone says around you. You have to be able to look people in the eyes and tell them you have a different opinion than theirs. But, this is just a guess at what could be your problem. You might literally get on the floor like a human carpet for all I know.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 06:55 PM
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This isn't really the "how to argue with your teenage sisters better" sub
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:00 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP11/03/18 07:47 PM
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Flirting is good for when you're starting out with someone new but it sounds like you fundamentally want to keep a girl around. This sub teaches you shouldn't try that. The best way to stop trying that, is to stop wanting it. Want to have women, not keep women. Nobody likes being chained up really, but society invents rules and places expectations on people anyway. If you still really think your problem is flirting, then learn to flirt with your eyes. Its bigger than voice altogether,
/r/askTRP11/03/18 07:44 PM
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Idk do her comments really hurt? If she says "your room is dirty" just say "yeah its my pig sty."
/r/askTRP11/03/18 07:35 PM
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Hmm does she work on the weekend?
/r/askTRP11/03/18 07:31 PM
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She invited you over at 3am to play Mario Kart? It had better have been the wii version. Sounds like she spelled it out for you, you are friendzoned.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 07:26 PM
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I've seen guys pick some of the worst girls as their "perfect 10" and I just think... They must be really narrowing their perspective for it to be true. I think it goes without saying that taste is relative.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 01:17 AM
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Some things can't be fixed, some people and relationships can't be fixed either. You aren't in control of your dads expectations of you or his world view. Best you can do is be yourself and set a good example for the people you stand a chance of influencing.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:20 PM
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I've been in the same situation, its true you pretty much have to live with a girl or nearby to be in a relationship. Just think what you want, disregard for a minute what she wants. Is she worth changing things around in your life over? Warning: overcommiting can be very costly.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:31 AM
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You could go do anything on a college campus
/r/askTRP05/03/18 10:21 PM
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Being rejected feels bad but, the best thing is to not lose sight of your goal because one person turned you down. Just because one hot chick turns you down doesn't mean you arent going to get with somebody you like.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:19 AM
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Ok which guideline?
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:14 AM
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Youre sure she doesn't have someone she's serious with? Why do you think she would have changed her status?
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:14 AM
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Huh? Slipping how?
/r/askTRP04/03/18 01:54 AM
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I'd recommend just don't screw the whole store. If you have one hot coworker then that's cool. Just be clear its a casual fling if that's what you want.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 01:53 AM
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Ouch she canceled to go with her church? I think since you're low on her priority list you should look for someone less willing to blow you off
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:35 AM
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Ok. Does she have a boyfriend
/r/askTRP26/02/18 11:49 PM
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Definitely proof wamyn are a hive mind, as Tesla suspected long ago
/r/askTRP26/02/18 11:29 PM
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Start by introducing yourself
/r/askTRP26/02/18 11:26 PM
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Mad Men, you'll figure out which character
/r/askTRP26/02/18 11:24 PM
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Since its impossible to ask her the reason without seeming whiny or needy, you basically have one option. Move on to what's next for you.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 10:09 PM
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Capitalizing the first letter of every sentence is scientifically proven to raise your self esteem
/r/askTRP25/02/18 10:07 PM
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Who you can always do stuff with. The best way is to narrow down stuff, so you get friends based around a mutual activity. If you want some kind of Scooby Doo ass gang to roll out with you in the mystery machine every time you need them, that's hard. But forming a group identity around a specific stuff to do is much easier.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 08:08 PM
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Its easy to romanticize and feel guilty about it. Any girl can feel like "the one" at some point or another. Didn't read besides the TLDR, so I didn't see you had a kid. Kids always have complicated lives, even the most coddled will hate you over something. Do what you can to be a good example for them and be happy.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 09:18 PM
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Try finding someone new so you have a rebound. There's always someone else out there who will like your company.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 08:37 PM
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I think he wants to have his cake and eat it too... Off of a plate.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:51 PM
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How would you suspect its done? If you have girlfriend you aren't willing to offend or break up with but you want to see other people, you are making your life very hard. If you have problems with your girlfriend work on getting over her and moving out. Unless you can mentally prepare your girlfriend for you sleeping around, and you won't be offended when she does so too, lmao.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:44 PM
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What level of disrespect are we talking about? You may need to evaluate if you have a thin skin, if I can pose that to you gently. People will always do things you don't like, up to you what to do about it besides moving to the next person who does things you don't like slightly more or slightly less.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 09:33 PM
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Do whatever you want in bed as long as its what you want. You aren't going to be replaced by a vibrator, lmao. Unless you buy some kind of alpha male android with a vibrator peenicle,
/r/askTRP12/02/18 02:41 AM
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Keep it in a Batman style belt so you can tackle a girl and make her take it. But really, its not hard for a girl to go get it themselves, I wouldn't be paranoid about it. Having it on you doesn't necessarily increase the chance a girl will take that in a timely manner.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 09:00 PM
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I can speak for looks. Looks feeds into status, which feeds into "game." What speaks the loudest about you, to someone on the street or the bar or even a building window? Your clothes and grooming. People don't think about it but clothes are like a disguise. People categorize you based on how you look whether they want to or not.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 01:39 AM
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She already gives him free drinks all night, he should keep using her for that and "plate" someone else lmao.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 01:35 AM
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The number of people you've banged doesn't have to be a mystery, you can be proud of that one. Typically a good badge, plus if you've done kinky shit in bed before girls love to find out about it. Just don't brag about it, you have to have finesse.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 09:13 PM
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She gets you free drinks all night? Holy shit get her attention with some flowers or some shit. That is way more useful than a "plate" lmao. It sounds like this girl may just really like one night stands, maybe not the right type for you? Don't get too fixated on bending her that way, there is another girl out there that will take less effort from you.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 09:10 PM
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Really? I don't usually spout "the terms" but preselection is a big deal. Don't want to go encyclopedia about it though. Its like she doesn't want you to start off being "just hers", she wants you to be someone already popular with the ladies.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 09:02 PM
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If you're having trouble bringing up sex, just bring up stuff you've done with other women. 100 percent works.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 08:55 PM
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Invest in the education, then you will feel like you have to learn something from it.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 12:44 AM
1

You can say it straight away, might be my California slang acting up but I would say it as short as possible, "you're cute,"
/r/askTRP05/02/18 12:35 AM
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Seems like pretty good prospect, maybe next time you could go to her place for a date then. Some girls like ramping up the physical affection in private.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:19 PM
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Pumped full of xans feelin' like a hero. . . Antidepressants, though. That's mine,
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:15 PM
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Depends on your confidence in the situation. Do you feel like on a second date she will want more from you? Did you guys talk about relationships and dating or did you only talk small talk crap? Those are the questions you should be asking.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:04 PM
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I personally go for the somersault into the air guitar riff. But really, maybe you could start talking to her on common grounds to show interest, like what's she reading. All due respect you aren't going to need to work like a gymnast to get to know someone in a library, all of the "approach" is for clubbing (in my opinion.) I don't go clubbing though, I'm more of a library guy myself.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 08:51 PM
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Don't look for people to "pardon your sins" about a relationship. People talk about "building" relationships and not "fucking up" the relationship. Its all bullshit, either a girl is attracted to you enough that she will do anything for you, or she isn't. Don't get so fixated on one person. People here will spamtard you with "oneitis" like they know what it means. Just start thinking about what you can have instead of what you "might be missing."
/r/askTRP04/02/18 08:44 PM
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If you can't recall the situation because you were blackout drunk step one is to not be blackout drunk next time.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 06:41 PM
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People do all kinds of things when they're bored I wouldn't read that far into it.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 06:39 PM
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Idk if someone sounding Presidential is a turn on for anyone, it's not a very socially aware way to speak. Male radio hosts often have a more seductive manner of speaking if that's what you want (no homo.) Uh... That's all I have to say about it I guess. Maybe if you are a politician that will help your game too, Lol.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 01:53 AM
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I'd say don't be wishy washy and commit to your offer of going bowling, she must have had to think about it. Though I wouldn't expect anything from her, like don't expect to "trade" a night out bowling and listening to her for sex, it isn't going to work like that. If you want to get laid go on a regular date or to the bar or what have you.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 01:50 AM
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No, you aren't the only one. Sounds like a great date my dude, good luck on your future sex-scapades.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:00 PM
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It's easier to not think of it as a competition, you could instead find a girl who you think has the same goal you do, who you suspect would want to get intimate. That way you won't be thinking of winning or losing or gaining the upper hand, just helping the both of you out. As a standard I'd recommend paying more attention to body language, just spend less time with your eyes away from the person you're interacting with. Hope that helps.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 01:15 AM
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She doesn't want you to feel bad I'm guessing, since she knows you she empathizes the rejection. Make up is powerful! I would agree. I'm not one of the ones who bitches about it, for sure. Are you asking how to make all of your relations with other people more Red pilled, or are you just saying you are having a lot of trouble with it?
/r/askTRP22/01/18 10:55 PM
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If I had to give you different advice, I would say that a girl you don't find attractive isn't worth this amount of "game". The easiest way to achieve anything is to visualize what you want. Harder to visualize being intimate with an unnatractive girl versus one you like. So, harder to do anything with someone you clearly define as unattractive.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 10:30 PM
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Don't you think you're over thinking this? Why not spell out whether you want her or not instead of doing all of this mental gymnastics weighing every decision? These little choices aren't what matters so much. Just be more clear and if she doesn't respond positively you know you should spend time elsewhere.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 10:11 PM
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I find it hysterical the idea of Billy popping out of the shadows, blowing him away and then standing there waiting for the inevitable affection in a superman pose. I think that if we turn back time and its tribal wars accross the planet, maybe Billy would kidnap Shiela post murder and then Stockholm syndrome would set in eventually. Modern day he's a murderer forevermore. A good thing. Although, of you ever watch The Last Samurai, it prominently features Tom Cruise doing exactly what you just s…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 09:21 PM
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Well? What is it someone would do that would prove they are worth lifetime commitment to you?
/r/askTRP10/01/18 07:54 PM
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How is anyone permanently worth your time? I have been in love twice in my relatively short life and neither person was determinedly worth the rest of my time or commitment. What will make you decide that you have found that person? What is it they will do that will prove it to you?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 09:46 PM
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You gave good advice imo. Don't be too hard on yourself.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 09:27 PM
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I'm gonna say that depends on age and context. Don't act gay if you aren't though that doesn't make sense. I know maybe you are just using that word as an allegory but, its fine to act attracted to women all the time if you are. Always better to send clear signals.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 09:57 PM
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Can I ask how you found out?
/r/askTRP31/12/17 09:45 PM
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Sounds like you're starting kind of young lmao. Not to say you can't start living trp. There's nothing wrong with using social media. If I were you right now though I would consider spending less time with "close female friends", I learned some admittedly from girls in High school but for the most part not worth a lot of time,
/r/askTRP31/12/17 01:46 AM
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Here's my take. It could just be your personality. Everyone has their own flavor. If you want to be more red pilled it doesn't necessarily mean being more stoic. I was born stern and quiet and work to be the opposite from time to time, but I don't struggle. I think struggling against what comes most naturally to you is unhealthy. Most people have their personality set in stone by middle school. Irreversible. I might be ranting at this point, though. I tell you what though, it is fun to act like …
/r/askTRP30/12/17 10:16 PM
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Honestly. It doesn't mean anything. There are very few girls who are on hormonal birth control and not in a relationship. If you hear about a girl using it to control her pain from having the cycle, you can cringe or do her a favor by telling her it has long term negative effects like loss of sense of smell (ability to smell pheromones, too) Disclosure: I don't talk to a ton of girls let alone investigate their birth control or libido.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 10:06 PM
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No one is worthy of lifetime companionship. Ya dig? How can you read this sub and believe that someone will be? You read the red pill but think that you will find lifetime companionship anyway?
/r/askTRP29/12/17 08:37 PM
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I basically didn't see my dad growing up and never admired the guy, but it's just an anecdotal answer to an anecdotal question
/r/askTRP29/12/17 08:36 PM
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I knew someone would figure out my type, that is true about me. I just don't get what is so scary about the scenario you have described. Of course I'm ready for the girl to be with another guy, if I wasn't I wouldn't be seeing anybody at all. What I should do is ask another question. If you are waiting for the person you are 100 percent sure you want to be with for the rest of your life, and you have a kid with her, and then she dances with a guy who isn't you in front of you at a party, what do…
/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:24 PM
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So even though guys here claim to be so "redpilled" if they have a kid that is out the window and they try to make it work with the girl no matter what? Not to sound accusing but it doesn't seem to follow the talk that goes on here.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:10 PM
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I want to reply to your comment so bad my dude, even though I know it is unproductive as fuck
/r/askTRP18/12/17 07:59 PM
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So if I want a kid I'm supposed to rail against creating a single mom 1000%. I just think no matter how perfect a girl is it isn't really my job nor an achievable goal to try to prevent her from being a single mom one day. I am never going to be 100% convinced to be with someone for the rest of my life because that doesn't make sense to me, if things aren't feeling right then I'm out. But is that too "unfair" to the girl and our kid?
/r/askTRP18/12/17 07:58 PM
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If you are a male human with eyes, and you are, yes you do lmao don't shit me
/r/askTRP18/12/17 07:55 PM
1

How do you think the hot girls you look at in pictures on the internet were born
/r/askTRP18/12/17 07:12 PM
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Feels like I'm far away from a real discussion with the question I asked so maybe I'll post again later, but since you replied once maybe you will again. Have you ever been with a girl and thought "me and this girl would make a cute kid" and weighed your options? What made you decide either way?
/r/askTRP18/12/17 07:10 PM
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I know how to prevent pregnancy lmao I am asking if it is crazy to want to get a girl pregnant, even though I know I would leave her at a moments notice. Am I insane for that? Or is it a realistic way to procreate?
/r/askTRP18/12/17 05:36 PM
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sorry my formatting sucks I legitimately do not know how to use reddit
/r/askTRP18/12/17 05:00 PM
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I know he might not be open to unsolicited advice, but I'm basically the only person he hangs out with lately since his girlfriend broke it off. I can't help but feel like he wants my opinion on his situation when he brings it up. And there's my problem- I think he could do better, but how exactly? Not saying I blame him for trying to control an immature girl, because lots of guys do that more than once in their life times. But is the moment she started seeming emotionally detached the moment he…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 06:30 PM
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