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Anyone wanna help me out with my tinder profile? https://imgur.com/a/Eu6Hb I've had it for half a day now and I got one super like, but no other matches. Wondering if there's something I can improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 08:59 PM
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I'm more than happy to share with you my personal information and instagram to prove your assumptions false. I have tried tinder for a week and got zero tinder matches. I also get shit luck on okcupid as well. In real life I only managed to get a date with a 5'3", 180 lbs girl who ended up ghosting me. He's my confidence was shattered greatly after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 05:34 PM
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Provided they're attractive first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 05:33 PM
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For fucks sake with the relocation thing. Unless I plan on living there forever, it's not going to guarantee that I get into a relationship here, where I'm probably going to he living for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 05:32 PM
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It's not a waste of time for me. There's a relief in being able to rant from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 05:31 PM
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Well the only girl that I managed to get a date from was 5'3", 180 lbs. And even then she ghosted me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:42 PM
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Bouldering is something I do sporadically. Getting into rock climbing would require a sizeable money investment, I'll give it a try when I have the money. Actually I went out with a few friends last night and smoked a couple joints. Never has my mind been quieter in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:15 PM
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Yeah. It would make me less lonely if I had a child to take after when I'm old enough. It would be selfish though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:06 PM
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It's a rhetorical question. Obviously I hold no power in any relationship, whether for sex or commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 02:58 PM
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Can't change my height or face or ethnik status, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 02:57 PM
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My league is probably a 200 lbs woman shorter than me. Am I satisfied with my league? No. Is there snything I can do to improve my league? Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 02:36 PM
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Not really. I'm still searching for answers on what I'm dipped to do, and the only answers I'm getting are sex robots or hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 02:34 PM
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It becomes really harder to fulfill that, "taller than them" requirement when the average woman is your height and most women shorter than you are highly sought after.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 02:29 PM
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It's important enough that some women on here equated a 5'5" man with an obese woman. When I tried online almost every match or response I got asked for my height, and when I told them my real height I got ghosted. I've also never been in a relationship or had sex, so take of thst what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 02:27 PM
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Since men are the gatekeepers of relationships, am I able to get a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 02:25 PM
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I'm entering my fourth year in University and I've been single that whole time. A University that is full of at least 55,000 people and a gender ratio of 66% women. What does that say about my chances of finding a date once I leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 05:02 AM
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Ask yourself what romantic relationships offer you, and find alternate ways of fulfilling those wants. A romantic relationship would make me feel both sexually and romantically desired as a human being. I don't think there's a substitute for that. Prostitutes will give you better sex than most regular women. Yes, but without the feelings attached to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 05:00 AM
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That's actually a hobby I do. Both kickboxing and grappling I do at least once a week. I let out a lot of rage lifting weights, and frankly it's the easiest for me to do because it only requires myself. It's not easy to arrange a kickboxing meet every day like it is to head to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:59 AM
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A 3 would be a girl who's shorter than me and 180 lbs. Could I be attracted to that? Probably not, but I have tried to date someone that I considered within my league solely for the sake of not being lonely. Honestly, holding her hand felt like a heroin rush. When she came and kissed me she realized I was a virgin, I admittedly said I was, then she flaked on me after that. So I don't know, I can't even convince 3s to give me a chance. I'm 20. I've felt this way since I was 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:58 AM
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Lol, that's not something that can easily be portrayed through an anonymous message board.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:55 AM
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I'm out of options for happiness to be honest. Maybe a weekly weed sesh is what I need to cool down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:55 AM
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That helps a lot too. I have a good number of friends that I hang out with daily. Some close ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:51 AM
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I'll try it out. I don't have the means at the moment, and my parents wouldn't allow us to have a pet in the house, so maybe later on when I graduate and live away from home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:49 AM
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Badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:46 AM
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Well I'm never going to enter a relationship, so I need to figure out ways to cope with life until I finally die. The faster I can figure out the perfect substitute to romantic relationships and sex, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:46 AM
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I don't know anything about sex bots but I have experienced VR porn when I bought a google cardboard some time ago. It was a surreal experience; It feels like you're actually close to the woman as she's doing stuff on you. I'm sure if I also get a fleshlight I should be able to simulate accurately what sex might feel like. Getting a good virtual reality headset and a fleshlight would cost around $500-700 in total, but can be used indefinitely. I don't know whether that is better or hiring escort…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:42 AM
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Maybe I should consider getting a pet? That might get rid of some of the loneliness, can't be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:37 AM
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I should probably do more of both to be honest. The last time I smoked weed was a year ago, and I rarely game anymore since I found some new hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:36 AM
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My ethnicity is not popular in North America, that's all you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:22 AM
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That's basically inceldom, which is where I'm at now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:18 AM
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I'm neither Indian nor Chinese.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:12 AM
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Couldn't find another one after her, and her flaking on me basically shattered my confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:10 AM
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I've lowered my standards down to a 5'3", 180 lbs girl. Only went on one date, and even she flaked on me. So I don't know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:09 AM
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Well, you got muscles boy? I'm 5'5" 140 lbs at 13%bodyfat. 6 ft equivalent would be something around 190-200 lbs, which would be very imposing. so yes, I am muscular and I spent a ton of time at the gym. Can you make a woman laugh? If you're attractive enough, women will laugh at anything you say. Fuck a couple hookers at least, get started. Some HOT ones, so you can get that out of your system. I'm still on the fence regarding escorts. I really don't want my first romantic/sexual experience wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:05 AM
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I just legitimately doubt that you'd be totally fine being in my situation if you've never experienced my situation to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:03 AM
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What was the longest time you've lived single and with absolutely no attention from the opposite gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:59 AM
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Have you ever been in a relationship? What was the longest time you've lived single and with absolutely no attention from the opposite gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:58 AM
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Okay, but would you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:58 AM
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None of that will help if you're 5'5", not white living in a white majority country, and have an ugly face. I've tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:57 AM
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Would you be able to live a life like that, having no sexual partners no romance in your life, with your only purpose being to help your other siblings in their romantic lives? It's mental and psychological torture. If that's what I have to put up with then I'd rather (not mentioning it because for some reason it's forbidden here).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:56 AM
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Red pill also offers no solutions for men who are physically unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:53 AM
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Fuck that. Basically a life of slavery without a benefit. A fate worse than death.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:51 AM
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So what's the point of life for those males that are not meant to reproduce?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:49 AM
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Yeah, I always hear either lower your standards or become more attractive. Becoming more attractive is something that a woman can do with proper dieting and such. It's not something a man can do if he already started out with the wrong genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:43 AM
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Whichever one you want to answer, but obviously one that helps you pursue your sexual strategy easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 01:54 AM
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As if Redpill tactics work. The only true thing that works is being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 01:00 AM
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Woah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 12:21 AM
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I can deadlift 350 lbs so I should be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 08:14 PM
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Typically every time a survey like this is done, women's N-counts are remarkably higher than men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 06:39 PM
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20 year old guy, 0 N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 06:32 PM
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Fucking a girl you're not attracted to and wouldn't share about to your friends isn't validating either. I've almost been there, it's miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 03:14 PM
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You're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 12:47 PM
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I got redpilled hard when I realized that women don't even see me as a man because of my height and boyish looks. I got blackpilled shortly after.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 03:30 AM
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Not very flirty. I treat them like I treat guys. Got several but admittedly I have much more male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 10:22 PM
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Okay, buy a fleshlight? Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 10:15 PM
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Yeah I don't understand how many guys can just fuck a girl they're attracted to just to get a nut in. Wouldn't porn and fapping be easier and more preferable?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 10:12 PM
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Almost every girl in my age group (18-22, I'm 20) uses or has used tinder at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 09:49 PM
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Ded. Was actually joking about giving pics, but I'm not lying when I say that she had over 200 matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 09:48 PM
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Girl friend. She's a friend that's a girl, not a girlfriend. Just because I'm incel doesn't meant I don't know how to be friends with girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 09:12 PM
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Okay how does this help me? My main problem is getting my foot in the door, not sealing the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 09:01 PM
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It doesn't change that fact that if tiny men never get laid everyone would be over 6ft and the population of the earth would be a lot smaller Tiny women are still attractive to the majority of men, that's why the Earth's population is smaller than what it should be. A tiny woman can still give birth to a short son, which was how I was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 09:00 PM
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White? Cos we're all racist. In North America, it's more important than you think. Maybe less in less conservative cities. I don't think most women are bothered by height to that extent. Not until you're 5'5".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 08:33 PM
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You wouldn't have known he existed had he not been attractive to you first, so yeah his behaviour may have sealed the deal but his attractiveness got his foot in the door, which is what is hardest to get without being born with the right genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 08:32 PM
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Women like assholes is the biggest cope used by niceguysTM to try to rationalize away the fact that they just aren't attractive enough. It doesn't matter how you behave. You can be nice to women or mean to them, and you'll still be successful as long as you're 6ft+, white, have a good face and are physically fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 05:01 PM
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What if the main things affecting your SMV are your race and height? I'm pretty physically fit and muscular for my height, I'm also very social and outgoing and have good fashion, but I lose out because I'm 5'5", not white and not very good looking. And it's not like I'm rejecting offers from women that aren't 8/10, I don't even get offers from women who are 180 lbs. Last date I had was two years ago to a woman shorter than me and 176 lbs. She flaked on me. I was clearly c willing to lower my st…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 06:21 AM
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Many incels have tried to compete but can't overcome their race, height and not that attractive face. So in a sense you can't become a more attractive lid even if you wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 06:17 AM
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Half age plus seven is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 11:56 PM
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Fuark idk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 09:32 PM
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If women are told to be modest then men should be modest too, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 06:01 PM
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Exactly what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 04:23 AM
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He probably got frustrated after being turned down so many times. He should have known that pick up artistry doesn't work if you're not attractive. Because let me tell you, I've seen tall, attractive white men cold approach women many times on campus and end up getting dates and compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 03:57 AM
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Attempting to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 03:51 AM
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Okay, here is a link to the emails that were sent to everyone on campus: http://imgur.com/a/nDCTN
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 02:44 AM
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Okay, here is a link to the emails that were sent to everyone on campus: http://imgur.com/a/nDCTN
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 02:42 AM
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Okay, here is a link to the emails that were sent to everyone on campus: http://imgur.com/a/nDCTN
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 02:42 AM
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Okay, here is a link to the emails that were sent to everyone on campus: http://imgur.com/a/nDCTN
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 02:42 AM
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Okay, here is a link to the emails that were sent to everyone on campus: http://imgur.com/a/nDCTN
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 02:42 AM
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His name was Thurston
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 02:26 AM
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I'll see if I still have the email on the archives, but afaik he was very persistent and has been known to do this on various other campuses too. Many girls he tried to hit on reported him for sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 01:40 AM
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Point still remains that the media doesn't shy away from saying that looks matter, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 11:39 PM
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I don't have a link. This was back in 2015. The campus security emails said that he was known for approaching girls on campus, being sexually suggestive and telling them nice tits or asking them to blow him, and he wouldn't budge when they weren't interested. It didn't help that he was an Asian manlet who didn't lift either, proving again that creepiness is about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 11:18 PM
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He was being sexually suggestive and asking girls to blow him, that's what I know. But I don't think he actually groped a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 11:17 PM
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Yeah you're right. It's actually crazy how many guys in a hot girls social circle want to get with her, and that likely leaves no time for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 11:07 PM
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Wow, exact same thing happened in Calgary. Some dude got 6 months jail for cold approaching on campus, using tactics from a PUA workshop.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 11:06 PM
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The only superhero movie I know that was played by a shortish, beta dude was the original spiderman. The new spiderman is not like that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 07:25 PM
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It's sexy if she's already attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:06 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 02:32 PM
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The best advice I've gotten from a friend is, "It's lower than you think." Haven't tested this advice yet though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 03:38 AM
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I do masturbate daily. I just think it's better use of my time to fap and put some porn on than try to woo a girl I'm not even attracted to just to have sex. It still takes effort to have sex with a hambeast, but it takes less than five seconds to open a porn site and start fapping to a hot pornstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 03:23 AM
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testosterone. I get that but don't get that. I would never fuck a girl I'm not attracted to. but they don't take the options. I'm curious what would happen if the options went away though. Would women suddenly start becoming thirsty?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 03:15 AM
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I think women can potentially have a higher sex drive, but it only activates with men they are attracted to (and maybe have an emotional connection with or they at least know a little). Male sex drive is weird in that a lot of guys will fuck a girl they aren't attracted to just to get a nut in. Never understood that. But no, male sex drive is much stronger than female sex drive. You could argue that the only reason women aren't so thirsty is because they have so many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 03:04 AM
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I'm definitely gonna get into escorts once I start earning decent money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 12:23 AM
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Obviously don't get into a relationship with someone you aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:15 PM
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I'd say demographics play a huge role in explaining why men suddenly have it easier in their 30s. Up until 30 years old there are literally more men than women. After that a switch happens and there are literally more women than men. Look up the stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:14 PM
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Degree names?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:53 PM
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For shits and giggles tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:47 PM
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Starcraft 2 is a competitive strategy game. Watching two players duke it out in a series of matches is similar to watching a soccer game or professional level chess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:33 PM
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This is probably why I couldn't ever date an attractive woman I even if I wanted to. I don't think I'd be able to handle her consistently getting hit on by men with a higher SMV than me. Fortunately I'll never land an attractive girl so I don't have to worry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:32 PM
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Nope, I just want to know about personas and backgrounds. I want to know what would get a person to even consider participating in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:31 PM
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I watch more Starcraft II than I actually play it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:21 PM
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Women are far more likely to be victims of domestic violence and sexual assault. Society is pretty effective in curtailing that nowadays. I have a friend who works at a women's shelter where women who do end up being domestically abused can stay for a time. Women can easily sue their husband for domestic violence and get him jailed (and many women are not afraid to do this). I know a married couple where the wife threatened her husband to be more supportive around the house or she will call auth…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:20 PM
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So women do end up settling eventually, or re-ordering their priorities in a partner. So if that's the case, then your view has no merit. Most men and women end up getting married, the women who cannot find a partner will eventually lower their standards, the women who don't lower their standards will end up worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:02 PM
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If only 2.5% of the male population is considered attractive enough to marry, then how do over half of all men statistically end up married?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 03:58 PM
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Well you first have to define what women's expectations are for the men they're dating and why they're unrealistic. Yes, if women lowered their standards then low SMV men would be better off, but it wouldn't necessarily make women better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 03:47 PM
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Sorry to burst the bubble, but the vast majority of men and women do not have problems finding dates or relationships. It may seem like it, but that's likely because you frequent online forums where people who do have problems congregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 03:38 PM
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What kind of problems affect women in the West that don't also affect men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 02:08 PM
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Feminism needs to gain more traction in areas where women's rights are actually restricted. There should be a greater focus on eliminating the gaps women have in terms of literacy and basic freedoms, particularly in sone third world countries. The problem is that in first world countries you really don't have problems if you're a female, in fact being born as a female in the first world is playing life on easy mode. So yeah I don't know. Clearly there needs to be movements that ensure that women…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 05:30 AM
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I don't really get why you think this is a cultural issue. I was raised most of my life in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 02:22 AM
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The lack of sex isn't the problem, it's the fact that you're not being seen as a sexual being that causes problems. We can argue that humans don't need sex or love, but the lack of those (together of course) is going to cause some serious psychological problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 07:30 PM
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Would the world be better off if everyone was able to get the sexual validation they want from the gender they're attracted to? Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 07:07 PM
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Lol @ getting to work. I've done practically everything that redpill recommended; Lift, get hobbies, be more social, stoic, etc. None of that is helping me. Redpill is not going to change my face and height, which is really what I need to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 06:41 PM
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I get what you mean, but the sex isn't the problem. It's the lack of validation from the opposite gender that's the problem. Paying for an escort won't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 06:36 PM
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I've heard way too many stories about military wives to know that it's a bad idea to do anything but pump and dump if you're in the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 06:33 PM
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I'm 20 at the moment and still a virgin. I'm going to graduate from University next year, which means that last year is my last opportunity to be in an environment where there are lots of women around. After I graduate, I'm likely going to start my military career, where the chances of me finding a woman will become much harder. I'd say that if I still don't lose my virginity by the time I graduate, then I will hire an escort, because it would be clear by then that I'm not worthy enough of a nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 06:23 PM
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