bluepvtstorm Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
42	Choose better is always the response when women are in bad relationships? Do you show the worse parts of yourself when just meeting someone?	CMV	bluepvtstorm	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 09:08 PM
38	Why do Childfree women bother so many men?		bluepvtstorm	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 11:04 AM
33	Has anyone’s opinion or outlook on certain beliefs changed based on engagement here?	Discussion	bluepvtstorm	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 05:20 PM
17	Why are you mad when women accept your no?	Question For Men	bluepvtstorm	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:15 PM
13	You get the woman you deserve by what you do or don’t do.	CMV	bluepvtstorm	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 09:45 AM
13	Single dads are probably the worst partner for a woman to consider.	Discussion	bluepvtstorm	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 12:34 PM
9	What’s the plan?	Discussion	bluepvtstorm	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 11:03 PM
6	If you don’t agree with no fault divorce, how much are you willing to change?	Discussion	bluepvtstorm	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 01:13 PM

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2	People who clown on age gap relationships are toxic They don’t gravitate towards old men. The old men try to chat them up. Old men are full of confidence thinking the young girls want them. They don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 10:23 PM
3	People who clown on age gap relationships are toxic They are looking for the second prettier wife. They had to give up some assets to get rid of the first wife. In the field that I work in, most people come off the street making at least $75k. It’s not amazing but it’s good for a young woman starting out in her career.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 09:52 PM
8	People who clown on age gap relationships are toxic Let’s be honest, the average man that age that is single does not have enough to up anyone’s standard of living. Where I work the young women have a better quality of life that they provide for themselves without attaching themselves to some old lecher that wants a pretty girl on his arm. A lot of those guys are divorced, paying off marital debt with disrespectful children. Why would anyone want to sign up for that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 05:31 PM
5	People who clown on age gap relationships are toxic Every time a young girl that I work with gets chatted up by an old ass man I immediately tell them not to even think of it and why. Men that age are looking for a nurse and a purse. I care. Old ass men trying to steal these young girls youth. It’s gross.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 01:42 PM
1	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? You haven’t told me once how it’s hatred. Who am I hating my deciding to not go through a process with an undetermined outcome when I can go through a process with an outcome solely under my control. Also if I have the money to plan for being a single parent including a nanny, why would you think I wouldn’t consider things like potential illness and planning for my child. A type A person that is willing to go through the process would never leave something to chance like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:44 PM
1	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? Men learned the word misandrist and think that it applies to everything. It means hatred, dislike or prejudice against men. I obviously don’t hate all men. However I would never want to parent with one. There is little a man would have to offer my child in the parenting aspect when I considered it. He was my parent, why would he care more about someone else’s feelings over mine. He wanted what was best for me. As do most parents. Again, men hate when women have options they exclude them. If I wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:15 PM
1	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? I adored my father. He was extraordinary. That man was everything. He was what men wished they could be now. Smart, charismatic, handsome, kind, empathetic. He was the ultimate girl dad before it was thing. They do not make men like my dad anymore. He saw how sucky dating was. He gave me the gift of discernment and knew I would be perfectly fine raising a child on my own so he was fine with me choosing a sperm donor. He knew I would never tolerate someone trying to come in and be in control of m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:02 PM
1	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? I wasn’t trying to make a super human. You do realize that I was looking for things that I already had like a degree, a non family history of heart attacks or high blood pressure, no sickle cell trait. Things that if people were smart they would do as well. I know my genetic profile and didn’t want to have any input from a man on how I would raise my child. Sperm donation is a way better solution than some random man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 01:35 PM
7	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? Again when I was considering having children, I didn’t need any tax support. Like at all. I made enough to purchase a house, have a nanny and pay for private school for my proposed kid. Every woman who considers having a kid solo does not need government support. That’s the lie that men tell themselves to cope. Most women who seek out actual sperm donation are pretty well off. I am glad I didn’t have children but it was much nicer looking over screening documents, degrees and medical history rat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 01:53 PM
7	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? When I was considering having children, I was looking at donor sperm. I wasn’t partnered and didn’t want to deal with a baby daddy so if knowing you have to do it alone it makes the most sense to get the best possible sperm that is screened than some random man that may try to come back and want to parent in some ways. If a woman chooses to do it alone than remove any chance of hearing a man’s mouth about how the baby is raised makes way more sense. At the time I was making more than most men, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 01:47 PM
-1	Why are western women so hateful toward men? No one hates men. We are apathetic towards them. Men are more and more becoming a non-factor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 01:17 PM
2	Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are not No one is even thinking about men except other men. Women do not care if you are forever single. Great. Be amazing and do things that bring you joy. No one cares. Except you and the other men you compare yourself with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 03:19 PM
6	Men should have primary custody of their kids by default. Most men who go to court and fight for some version of custody get it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 10:16 PM
–	How undesirable are single dads? Highly undesirable. I have zero interest in raising a child, talking to a child’s mother, trying to do the blended family thing, pretending I like your kid, using any of my resources for a kid. Men with children should only date women with children and vice versa. Don’t put your burdens on people with no kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 04:46 PM
1	If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there. You got out reasoned by a man. In everything you wrote that is the least believable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 11:11 AM
9	Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it. As a Black American woman, I have never considered having or raising children as something that would be joyful. Any children that I would potentially have would start with a higher rate of maternal mortality. I am more likely to die giving birth. My children would be automatically aged up by society to be more mature than what they are. So my 7 year old could be perceived as a threat even if they are only 7. My teenagers even those raised in a two parent high income household which is what my p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 07:38 PM
3	Most men don't understand what rape is because they think of women as less. Why would I ever want to complement a man. They are overall less qualified in all things. They are not good people. They are intellectually uncurious. They are resource hoarders and selfish. They lack complete self awareness. Nothing they create is done without stealing the idea from someone else. They are genuinely displeasant and contribute the bare minimum while seeking maximum resources. I find the idea of being complementary to a man abhorrent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 03:23 PM
7	Most men don't understand what rape is because they think of women as less. Anora was not a popular movie. It won an award but it wasn’t a popular movie which is why I went super basic with Bridgerton.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 12:17 PM
5	Most men don't understand what rape is because they think of women as less. Men have birth to the current system. You nitwit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 11:39 AM
6	Most men don't understand what rape is because they think of women as less. That is their own fault. They created the system. It is up to them to tear it down. Men are allowed to express their most base and destructive emotions and still blame it on women. Anger, greed, rage, jealousy. Those are all emotions. We all come pre-installed with the same ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 11:16 AM
6	Most men don't understand what rape is because they think of women as less. Of course it’s not worth responding. I literally gave a broad ass topic that was a major news story and not just here randomly on Reddit but you go to but you aren’t worth it because you can’t refute it. It was a massive story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 11:14 AM
16	Most men don't understand what rape is because they think of women as less. Were you around during COVID? When Bridgerton dropped there was a lot of fucking conversation around the fact this woman just raped a man in a television show that was supposed to be a soft romance. Everyone was like wait a gotdamn minute. Her naivety does not take away the fact that she did not have his consent. They even went to the source material and said what she did in the book was far worse. You don’t see it because you stay in your smaller circles but people talk about women assaulting m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 10:45 AM
1	Most men don't understand what rape is because they think of women as less. Are you just realizing that men see women as less? That’s the whole reason why we are even here. For the whole of humanity, men see women as less and so when we ask for things to be equal it feels like they are losing something because women gained not even equality but more than what they used to have. I started thinking of it this way and will never stop. When in the history of anything has the creation been more than the creator. Men cannot create other men without women. Women are greater th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 10:16 AM
1	Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur. Men are so slow in here. Like do you really think that becoming a raging asshole is going to make more women date men? The numbers are already showing that women don’t want men or relationships. Do you think it will get better acting like this? Andrew Tate is the role model you want to emulate. The man whose entire spiel is to get money from men with low self esteem. Please be for real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 11:39 PM
6	Artificial wombs will displace female hierarchy You still need women even if artificial wombs exist. Do men have eggs? Do you really think there is just an abundance of eggs or embryos ready to be bought to term so men can have babies without women. Where are you getting the eggs from? If you say harvest them from women then you don’t understand the process and women aren’t just going to go through all of that struggle just to give them away to random men. If you say random embryos. They belong to someone and already have someone’s DNA. You c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 09:29 AM
11	Question for lesbian/bi women of reddit. What was your "EUREKA" moment when you start dating other women did you notice that you finally start understanding mens issues? I agree. Women aren’t hard to date at all. They tell you what they want and you can decide if it aligns or not. I have never had a woman lie to me about what she is looking for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 01:11 PM
3	Do Women Actually Believe Men's Dating Struggles Are Real? I believe it is a problem of their own making. So yes, men struggle but their actions created the struggle. So it’s kind of like, yeah but you did it to yourself. All the superficial women, the panhandling, the lack of women being open to meeting in the wild are are because of men’s actions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 10:54 AM
14	Women, especially women aware of their privilege, have made it abundantly clear that men have no reason to harbor even basic goodwill towards them or regard them as potential allies in any endeavor. So they can have more reasons to be violent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 02:14 AM
19	Women, especially women aware of their privilege, have made it abundantly clear that men have no reason to harbor even basic goodwill towards them or regard them as potential allies in any endeavor. Men confuse apathy about them as harboring animosity towards them. It’s not. Men have proven themselves to be absolutely horrific to women with no sense of empathy or concern about anything because they aren’t getting sex So women are like ah well, you’ll figure it out. Men are already hateful toward women. They already don’t like us. They already use women. Even the men that women marry are harmful to them. So yeah, women are like nah I’m good. That’s the problem that men created and are trying…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/26 11:34 PM
6	Men’s social skills are far better than women on average. The only reason it seems women have better social skills is because society is set up to cater to women. Men absolutely do not have better social skills. They are kind of horrible to deal with. They monopolize conversations. They will talk and talk and talk and leave no space for anyone to say anything. They do it to men and women. They are food aggressive. Men are the only people I see who will do all they can to take the most and best of a meal before seeing if everyone else has had any. They do it at work potlucks, they do it at home, they do it at social gatherings. They do it everywhere and to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 02:32 PM
11	Do you try to avoid men who don't have empathy for women's issues? That’s the bare minimum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/26 02:04 PM
1	Men should be more radicalised and actively work against women's interests. [ Removed by Reddit ]	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 01:37 PM
8	Do men go down on you much/at all? If they don’t do oral they are not a viable partner for me and I am out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 06:09 PM
6	Do men go down on you much/at all? How are women having sex with men that don’t do what they like in bed. This is a communication problem. If you spend time discussing what you like then you will get what you want. I am not even getting naked for a man who doesn’t do oral. I have not once been with a man who doesn’t do oral.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 11:13 AM
8	Childless liberal women have guaranteed an illiberal future by selfishly not spreading their legs. Why would I care. I will be dead and leaving no children to deal with any of it. I don’t care what happens to a place that has been so hostile to my sex and race. It could fall off the planet or be blown up by giant aliens playing pool with our continents. It doesn’t concern me. I made a choice. I live my life the way I want now and when I die, no one I care about will be impacted. This is an illogical argument if I do say so myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 01:15 PM
–	Why are women often more religious than men? I would like to know that too. I have never ever wanted to be a part of a church or any religion. My dad was big on me not being indoctrinated into any faith because of how woman are treated as great for support not for leadership. Women do a bulk of the support tasks in church’s and other faiths but men are leaders but don’t do a very good job of leading. My dad and then I refused to be a part of any organization that treated me as less than and then they have these really awful morality rules …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 01:40 PM
–	Most women are NOT happy being single You people are delusional. I swear. I love being single. I would not ever in life live with a man again. Ever. Yesterday it was a snow day. I went outside, used my snow blower to clean my driveway. I came back inside made an epic chicken quesadilla from chicken I had left over from a roasted chicken because I didn’t have a selfish man eating everything. Then I made some pizza dough so I can be ready for the summer when my friends and I use my new outdoor pizza oven. I made chicken broth and froz…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/26 03:05 PM
1	If men stopped caring so much, they would have the upper hand in the dating world. I am no longer looking for any partner. Men are not a good investment of time or energy or effort. I am a decent human to most people except those that raise my ire by being horrible people. Men fumble good woman all the time by looking for the next best thing and not being good partners to the people they are with. So yeah I am good on all of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/26 08:58 PM
0	If men stopped caring so much, they would have the upper hand in the dating world. If men stopped caring so much they would leave women alone and go do manly endeavors that don’t require them to play games or be a decent human to their potential partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/26 03:45 PM
1	What's something you find attractive in men that you think men wouldn't find attractive in women? Curiosity about everything. Ask questions, do research about things you don’t know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/26 11:34 AM
1	If you were single could you really resist the interest of a high value man? Men like that are high value to men. You have listed no qualities other than they may potentially have money. That’s what men value. I have dated professional athletes, congressmen, really rich men and nothing about their money moved the needle for me. I can always make my own money, I can never trust a man who leads with money. They have no other personality qualities but money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:23 PM
3	"Men leave their sick wives" and how women lie about their "lived experiences" It’s amazing how a man who has never been to a gynecologist or given birth knows what they ask women. Yes they do ask women if they are being abused or if they need an STD panel specifically because they are pregnant. Men are more likely to cheat on pregnant spouses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 11:36 AM
1	Question for Blue Pill: If kindness is as important when it comes to attraction as the mainstream says, how do you explain all these horrible men having girlfriends? Do we have to tell you again. The men that men know is not the men that women know or meet. It’s that simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/26 12:37 PM
-1	Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable I also find it frustrating for people to say 100 dates is this really high number when it really isn’t that high of a number is someone is single and actively dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 12:14 PM
3	Why is slut shaming wrong? Yeah. I didn’t get that gene at all. It must have skipped me and then some. I have never gave a fuck about what anyone thinks of me. Ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 12:12 PM
1	Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable Yeah. I was not even having sex during that time. Funny how men think dates equal sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 12:11 PM
22	Why is slut shaming wrong? Shaming works on people who seek external validation. If you don’t care what people think of you then slut shaming mean absolutely nothing. I have never in life considered what anyone ever thinks about me. I was raised to know I am not for everyone and it’s fine to not worry about what others think. Group think means nothing to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 01:33 AM
3	Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable Nope. I think you see 100 and don’t do the math. It’s 16 dates a year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 12:49 AM
-1	Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable So started dating at 16. 6 years of dating. That’s 16 dates a year on average. 16 dates out of 365 day is not a lot, it’s less than 1 date per week.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 12:46 AM
3	Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable I mean I guess. If I cared I would be bothered by this but I don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 05:53 PM
0	Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable This was also pre internet. I wasn’t swiping. I was literally living my life. Some of this was in high school and I went to all girl high school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 05:38 PM
1	Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable I mean ok. If you say so. You think I had sex on those dates. That’s weird. I was a teenager for some of that time. But of course, men think dates mean sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 05:36 PM
-7	Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable You guys think 100 dates to find a husband is a lot. 100 dates in your whole dating history is nothing. I think I went on 100 dates by the time I was 22. It’s dating. You do it to see if you are compatible. Men also seem to think women never plan dates. You would be wrong. Women plan dates all the time for men who show initiative. I am amazing at planning dates but everyone doesn’t get or deserve that effort. 100 dates is not a lot. That’s weird that people would think that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 04:43 PM
0	Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wing How about women shouldn’t date or have sex with anyone whose values don’t align with theirs. More women voted for this nonsense than men did. The voting numbers show that the biggest group of voters for this debacle. White women. So they are fine with whatever is happening and they are fine with the men who instituted these policies because it typically doesn’t affect them. They will always be protected by men who baby them. Your entire premise is based on the assumption that they care about any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:20 AM
6	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing They have done the scans on men’s brain. Men get visibly angry when women they deem unattractive or fat are even in their presence or attempting to talk to them. But sure they don’t have standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 03:59 PM
17	Why do women advice men that if they want a great sex life, they should marry a promiscuous woman? Why does a man need to MARRY a promiscuous woman to benefit from her sexual experience and high libido? I will be so happy when men are released from the chokehold of worrying about what vaginas have down before them. The freakiest most sexually promiscuous women are the ones that feel safe loved and secure with their partners. If your partner isn’t feeling that then you get basic boring sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 11:52 AM
1	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. I have never gone on TwoX. Every other place I have seen on the internet has been women saying this is messed up. If that’s your only source then your sample size is skewed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 05:53 PM
12	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. She has been getting thrashed everywhere. You want a performance so you can see someone saying something. Open your eyes and look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 04:36 PM
25	Why do women dislike the bottom 50% of men? I find most people in life spend way too much time thinking about what other people think about them. I don’t care about the sexual status of anyone. Top of bottom 50%. I literally dont care. None of the people I associate with care. We don’t talk about. It’s never even brought up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 10:16 AM
-4	People do give men a bunch of chances before giving up on them. Men are given way more chances than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/25 04:33 PM
-3	People do give men a bunch of chances before giving up on them. Men are vulnerable to elements. Men are predators to vlunerable women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/25 04:33 PM
4	People do give men a bunch of chances before giving up on them. Certain things are done in society to protect the most vulnerable. Shelters exist because it is extremely dangerous for a woman and child to be unhoused. They are mostly unhoused because they are trying to escape an abusive man. Welfare benefits are available to men. They just need to apply. But welfare benefits that benefit children exist because a man is not paying to support his child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/25 04:01 PM
4	Would you date a bi man? Same. I have found bi men to actually be better partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/25 11:05 AM
2	Could it be that single woman are only happier because they still belive the perfect men will just dropp from the sky? I am happier being single because I never have to consider a man. I don’t have to live or plan my life for what a man could do or what a man could be in my life. I live my life exactly the way I want and never consider men at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 11:52 AM
8	Q4W: What lie that a man tells you to get into a relationship/into your pants, would be seen as the biggest betrayal? He doesn’t have kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 04:33 AM
6	We need more two-way empathy, not sympathy I have been for decriminalizing prostitution for years. It makes it better for women in the long run anyway. There are a lot of women who wound up trapped by men because they couldn’t sell the thing men valued most. I also don’t care if men go to legal prostitutes	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 04:17 PM
13	We Need More Reserved, Scolding Women So you want women to slut shame women for men. The only vagina I need to mind is my own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 01:42 PM
9	Is “holiday dick” and “boyfriend dick” actual terminology that women use or am I just mindbroken by the internet? I thought you were asking about something relationship tinged. Like when we are home he gives me boyfriend dick. It’s sweet, loving, romantic. Holiday Dick is when we are on vacation and we mess up the sheets and the wall and the bathroom because we being extra dirty. Nope. It’s just another penis size question. I should have known better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 03:07 PM
5	Question About the friendzone Men should listen to the women they are interested in. We are not all the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 11:21 AM
5	Question About the friendzone It’s cool to get to know a woman before trying to date them but if you want to be a friend then be a friend. I don’t date my friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 01:25 AM
4	Question About the friendzone The people that are my friends are usually people I have met at work, as part of a group, friends from school, an activity something. I think those people are my friends and that’s the bucket they are in. They will never be of romantic interest to me. They are all fairly attractive stable adults but they are friends. I don’t like being approached in the streets because I am usually doing something. I do a few dating apps but that’s not really my thing. I mainly meet people at events where I am j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 12:42 AM
6	If a man tell you to shut-up do you think it’s wise to keep talking There’s a reason I get my knives sharpened every 3 months.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 02:29 AM
–	Were the guys who hurt you the most actually hot? Nope. It has been my experience that ugly dudes are the most hateful. They come in with the most insecurities and act like it. The jealousy, the anxiety, the hatefulness because nobody ever chose them so they do everything to make you feel like shit. I will never give an ugly dude a chance again. They write their own self fulfilling prophecy of being unlovable because they act unlovable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 05:42 PM
22	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women Nothing about marriage or having kids is appealing to me. Kids are way too expensive if you want to raise their correctly. Husbands are a terrible return on investment. It looks so boring and sad and requires giving up way too much independence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 01:47 PM
-3	The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happy Nobody cares about passport bros until they start talking about American women. Date who you want. Leave us out of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 03:08 PM
3	Regretting not having kids When one removes the emotions from having kids and does a pure cost/benefit analysis of having kids vs not, the calculus for women usually lands on the side of women having a happier life not having children. The other piece that is often not said is that people who are purposeful about not having kids would probably be the better parents because they considered what the reality of child rearing is and not just the parts that are fun and romanticized. People love to tell me I would be a great mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 09:27 PM
5	Women would have less trouble finding partners if more women had personalities Men are some of the most boring people I have ever met. They lack a basic curiosity about anything that isn’t related to them and their interests. They are severely lacking in any sort of attributes that make women want to talk to them. Most men have the exact same hobbies and will do anything to discredit women who aren’t interested in their hobbies. Men suck at being interesting enough to even listen to. They don’t ask questions. They vomit information about things no one cares about and expec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 11:01 PM
1	Another blue pill lie: The romanticization of "blended families" Why would my mom be offended by any woman. She gave birth to me and would always have priority over me. She doesn’t need to parent with anyone except my dad. She doesn’t need anyone’s opinion on her parenting except for the person that she had a child with. I had two parents. My stepmother married my dad. She did not inherit children in the marriage. She got a husband which is what she signed up for. I was not her child by any stretch of the imagination. I didn’t even want her to cook for me bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 01:08 PM
0	Another blue pill lie: The romanticization of "blended families" I had parents who took care of me. Why would I consider anyone else? I had a grandmother who was very involved in my care. Why would I think a stranger who means nothing to me would be required to participate in my caregiving? I find it very odd how many people are out here just randomly accepting these new adults in their life. I would have never spoke to my father again if he ever insisted she have any role in parenting me. That’s weird AF. My parents are my parents. They are the ones I got an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 02:01 AM
-2	Another blue pill lie: The romanticization of "blended families" Why would I treat her like a friend. She wasn’t my friend. She was the lady my dad married. This is why it is so hard for people to deal with boundaries in relationships. I did not choose this lady, I was not mean to her. She was there because my dad wanted her there. He did not abdicate his parental role to her and my mother was still alive and active in my life. What purpose did she serve me besides making my dad happy? Why would I care anything about here except as his wife. She was there. Sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 03:04 PM
2	Another blue pill lie: The romanticization of "blended families" I literally said I did not have a negative experience. My stepmother was nice but she wasn’t my parent and she was never going to be my parent. My parents didn’t try to force me to love her or anything. She was just a lady my dad married. She was never going to be anything more than that to me. I had two active parents and did not need another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 02:32 PM
2	Another blue pill lie: The romanticization of "blended families" I am absolute blue pill but one thing you will ever convince me of is how step parents are a good decision for the kids. For women and men it’s a resource grab. Men want someone to help watch their kids and provide maternal support. For women it’s usually a financial grab and the kids are stuck in the middle having to be nice to someone because their parent wanted sex and stability. I had a stepmother who was a nice person but she was never going to get the same respect as my mother. I hated her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 01:37 PM
0	Thoughts on the “Tea” app? Even when women lie they aren’t believed so this is a cop out answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 03:09 PM
1	Women manage feelings of loneliness better because they maintain social ties better Honestly I don’t know. I don’t think about men like that. My dad had the same beat friend since he was 8. My uncle had the same best friend since he was 6. The only men I know who can’t form male friendships are the men who have some other things going on with them being genuinely terrible people. But that’s just my experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 03:09 PM
3	Women manage feelings of loneliness better because they maintain social ties better Jesus. It’s right there and men just keep glossing over it. Women build relationships with friends. That’s it’s. You aren’t lonely if you have friends. If you develop friendships in the hope of having sex that’s not friendship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 02:53 PM
-1	Thoughts on the “Tea” app? The fact that men here don’t understand why this is necessary is why it is necessary. Men had a similar app up for a few days and you know what they chose to do with it. Revenge porn. There was also a group chat found with over 10k men discussing how to rape women. Men are not the same with women that they are in front of men and until that is clearly understood any method that women have to warn other women is better than nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 07:22 AM
-2	A noticeable amount of women care more about hating men than they do about helping women It has more of a context than that. Some of you have never sat in a debate class or team and it shows by the way you don’t understand specificity in language.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 05:47 PM
5	A noticeable amount of women care more about hating men than they do about helping women Ok so don’t date them or be around them. Problem solved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 03:35 PM
8	A noticeable amount of women care more about hating men than they do about helping women To men accountability is punishment. They never can articulate what accountable looks like. Thats why it’s never taken seriously. Also women have actual relationships with other women in real life who hold them accountable so they don’t need some grifting woman selling them courses on how to be accountable to men. Men are big mad that they can’t go to their circle of friends to get support and actual feedback. They want to hear women get eviscerated for existing the same way they do and they wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 03:34 PM
0	Therapy is harmful and doesn't actually help women. Men should not go to therapy. You cannot use the ADHD thread as a reality of therapy. Just do it doesn’t work for anyone with ADHD and that’s why people were telling her to find a new therapists. Anyone with ADHD needs to have a specific type of therapists. The same as someone who has been sexually assaulted. Therapy is not one size fits all and that’s probably why so many men don’t continue in therapy. They have a bad meeting with one and don’t try to find one that works for them. This is the dumbest take I have seen in a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 11:02 AM
–	Women of reddit. What is your honest reaction to hearing constantly on social media the dating woes of men? Unbothered. It’s not an issue I created or one I can fix. They might as well be talking about a ball of string. I don’t consider the conversations around a thing until they are more solutions based without playing the blame game. I also knew that most men who are red pilled have been taken in by a bunch of grifters who don’t give a crap about them and have made a lot of money selling things that don’t work. Men are complaining and not listening. Until men come up with a reasonable plan that is s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/25 02:34 PM
7	Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing? I tend to not date people that have hobbies that are incompatible with my lifestyle so in that way I am selfish but they wouldn’t know that going in because that’s a screening question for me. I don’t date golfers because checking in golf clubs at an airport sounds like torture to me. I don’t date gamers because I find that an intrusion on how I live my life. I am fine if people don’t want to date me because of my hobbies. The goal in dating is to find people who make a good match and if people …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 09:57 PM
3	Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing? If I don’t like fishing and I play this out in the long term then there are going to be some scenarios that will involve fishing that will somehow clash with how o live my life. I don’t want to have to negotiate a trip where fishing is on the agenda because I hate fishing and don’t want any parts of it. I don’t want to have to clean or somehow prepare the fish that is caught or find storage space for it in the freezer. I don’t want to have to figure out where to store fishing rods, tackle boxes,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 08:28 PM
1	Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual. There’s a word for that specifically and it’s called Pansexual which means that they are specifically attracted to the person no matter what the genitals are. That’s a catch all for wherever you land on the attractions spectrum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/25 11:00 AM
1	Women who got fit/in shape, how did your physical standards for a partner change? It hasn’t ever changed. I usually date tall men who look like football players who play an offensive position. I don’t really like lanky types. Even at my heaviest, I always attracted that type of man.i have dated shorter men that I knew for an extended period but men that typically approach and date me are taller athletic build.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/25 04:30 PM
10	What do you think about the idea that most women won’t date a bisexual guy? Do you think it’s true? I will do this again. There is a lot of homophobia when it comes to dating bi men. However there was a period of time when bi men who were not forthcoming about being bi increased the HIV infection rate for women. So the homophobia is partially born out of the idea that bi men can be deadly to a woman but also generally homophobia. If you didn’t live during the down low era then you wouldn’t fully understand but kids were dying because their mothers were feeding them breast milk while being HIV …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 12:00 PM
17	What do you think about the idea that most women won’t date a bisexual guy? Do you think it’s true? Girl please, straight men fall over themselves to date bi women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 11:55 AM
2	Women who have de-centered men completely, what drove you to this? I am actually moving to the land that my family bought from the family that enslaved us. So today no but will have it in the very near future. By the end of the year. So excited.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 09:12 PM
1	Women who have de-centered men completely, what drove you to this? All good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 02:25 PM
12	Women who have de-centered men completely, what drove you to this? At a conference and a man asked if I was interested in meeting up later to discuss some of the stuff at the conference. I asked him specifically what he wanted to discuss. He had no real points just trying to get me to go someplace solo with him later. No thanks. I mostly post pictures of food I cook from scratch. Things that I literally make from milling the flour to growing the basil for pesto. That’s what I spend my time doing. Making things at their base level. Some man reached out and tried…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 11:58 AM
18	Women who have de-centered men completely, what drove you to this? When I decided I wasn’t interested in having kids with a man, it really pushed me to stop factoring them into anything going ón with my life. It grew from there. I still look young and probably will for the foreseeable future so my actual experience dating men isn’t known when men try to still date me. They think I am much younger and can’t tell their bullshit when they try it. They try to play the games and when I call them on it then they get sheepish because it still works on some people. I h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 10:28 AM
1	How do you screen for political compatibility, and how important is that for you when dating? Nope. If they identify as Republican in this era, there is no need for me to ask them any questions about what books they read, how they feel about any other subject. It’s a non-starter. Also saying they are apolitical or don’t vote are also equally non- starters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:17 AM
1	How do you screen for political compatibility, and how important is that for you when dating? That’s the starting point. If you identify as Republican automatic no. The list gets longer from there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 06:23 PM
18	How do you screen for political compatibility, and how important is that for you when dating? I ask immediately. Who did you vote for in the past election? There is no grey area, there is no room for flexibility or consideration. Automatic no. There used to be a time when one could date someone across the aisle and co-exist because while there may have been things that you disagreed on, both parties were trying to do things for the betterment of all Americans. I dated Republicans back in my younger days before they lost the plot. That is no longer a truth and I would die alone with cats …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 11:34 AM
17	Women, would you be okay with your man getting eggs from another woman and having a baby in your womb? Nah. I’m good. Go be with your genetic match. Also for me as a black woman there’s a nuanced level of black bodies being used for the care of nourishment of other children and not even being able to take care of our own. No thanks. I would get a hysterectomy for spite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 06:08 PM
31	Women, would you be okay with your man getting eggs from another woman and having a baby in your womb? Why be with me if you don’t like things about me. I am not a fucking incubator. This is gross as fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 01:16 PM
8	Girls do well in school not because teachers prioritize them, it's because the female "nature" is more suitable for that environment than the male nature is. My dad did his masters thesis on the benefits of single sex education for girls and boys. You will find studies that’s show that it is more beneficial for girls and boys to be in a single sex educational environment due to learning styles. I only went to all girls schools including college except for a one semester period in my life and I hated every moment of being in a co-ed space. I have much more overall confidence in my general life. I work in a male dominated field because it was limited t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 05:58 AM
–	Would you date a man who is unemployed or starting his own business? No. I would not date a man who is unemployed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 11:20 AM
126	Why are modern woman so keen on "vetting" a man? I mean didn’t men say Choose Better. What did you expect to happen?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 04:32 PM
4	CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correction I’d rather be mauled by a bear than be subjected to the perversions of a man. Any day. Let that sink in. I would rather die than deal with whatever atrocities that a man can come up with about a woman’s body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 10:01 PM
1	CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correction I mean did white people thank the people they enslaved for allowing them to amass wealth due to unpaid labor? Did white people thank those they enslaved for raising their children? Did white people thank those they enslaved for building the homes and structures they revere including the White House. Did white people thank the Chinese they exploited for building the railroads. You sound silly. No one is deserving of gratitude for being given rights that shouldn’t have been in question in the firs…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 09:58 PM
–	Woke isn't coming back Your generational wealth is also flawed because you are taking into consideration the added benefits of home values being depressed as well or the added value of a college education which was used as an artificial barrier in factories to keep black men from being promoted. That means a reduced pension fund and the ability to afford less house. It’s the dominoes after the one action. You see the small microcosm of the privilege while ignoring all the other underlying things that the privilege cre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 04:47 PM
–	Woke isn't coming back Sir, do you know what White Privilege means? It literally means that while you may have challenges, you life is not made harder because of the color of your skin. That’s it. Whatever feelings you have created about those two words mean nothing. Especially when there is empirical evidence that things were made infinitely harder for minorities because of the color of their skin. Here are five government programs that made life harder for black or minority families. Denial of home loans and GI Bill…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 03:40 PM
–	Woke isn't coming back I also find it humorous that you use the word intersectionality in your erasure of the word woke when in this context it was coined by Kimberlé Duncan to describe the overlap of race and gender when discussing feminism. She was a civil rights activists and a legal scholar and that term was developed to discuss how black women have been left out of the feminist discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 03:18 PM
–	Woke isn't coming back The modern usage is a direct erasure of its original etymology. The whole CRT debate was made up as well. The whole problem is that white men were butt hurt that the Republican Party sold them out so they blamed everyone for it. The party of Reagan sold white men and the middle class out in the 1980’s and instead of doing the work to assimilate into the economy the Republicans wanted, a knowledge based economy, false flags were created to preserve whiteness. CRT was never taught in elementary sc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 03:12 PM
–	Woke isn't coming back No it’s not. That’s the bastardized version that white people use. Woke is a term that is deeply entrenched in the black power and social justice movements beginning in the 1950’s and 1960’s. It became a common refrain amongst the Black Panther Party as a reminder to stay alert due to the FBI infiltrating any movement that was dedicated to the improvement of black lives such as free breakfast programs for kids in Oakland and open carry by the Black Panthers to combat police brutality. The phrase…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 02:49 PM
2	The largest cohort preventing boys from excelling are precisely the people who say they need to lift themselves from their bootstraps I mean they told black people that for years. Why can’t the male population do it? It’s been sound advice for everyone else except white males for the entirety of this American experiment but especially for any minorities. What’s so different now? Are the bootstraps broken somehow?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 09:03 AM
–	Women don't mind men being starved for intimacy. Women do mind if men find a fix for it that does not involve them or if they walk away or worse if men decide to deny intimacy to them. You do realize that when most relationships open up, it’s the men who have an issue finding willing partners and not the women. Men can find partners but it usually takes longer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 08:38 AM
1	Motherhood is disrespected from both the left and the right — no wonder women are having fewer kids Thank Ronald Reagan for this. He created the Welfare Queen trope which was based on a lie but ever since then the social networks that supported families have continued to be decimated. Thank Reagan also for not acknowledging the AIDs epidemic and making condoms ubiquitous for most sexual encounters for about 2 decades and the lowered teenage pregnancy rates. You can also Thank the Satanic Panic of the 1980’s on why there are less day cares. You can also thank big businesses that got rid of pens…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 08:41 AM
2	4B movement after Trump's victory did not last long last That would be a really bad take. The women who are taking themselves off the market are very desirable women by any metric. Young, attractive, funny, smart. Women without kids and good jobs. Women who are not interested in climbing the corporate ladder. All kinds of women. That’s what people aren’t seeing. Men especially in here love to pigeon hole everything into well she wasn’t wanted anyway. The women you think wouldn’t be doing this are doing it. The women you men want are doing it and they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 02:30 PM
2	4B movement after Trump's victory did not last long last Some of you are so very slow on the uptake. Women aren’t talking about the 4B movement. They are just doing it. I know lots of women who are just not engaging with men anymore. A lot of women I know are signing up for another degree. I was in a beekeeping class a few weeks ago. All women. What I saw in that class was women saying yeah, let’s meet up and talk about how we can help each other. I am in a lot of large women only spaces and they are not talking about men at all. They are discussing t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 12:31 PM
1	To all: Have you ever broken up/divorced and then the aftermath it made you feel that "I should have fought harder in that relationship/marriage"? No. I don’t even think about them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 11:07 AM
11	Why do men not want women to accept their rejection? No it’s not the same for either sex. We go on five dates and then you are too busy. I’m good. People make time for what they want to make time for. He gave no further context or indicators besides too busy. Life is too short to wait for someone to decide well maybe now I can figure something out. Effective communication could have staved off some of this but also people aren’t sauces waiting on the simmer burner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 02:22 PM
1	Why are so many women almost absolutely incapable of making or unwilling to make the first move? Why would I approach a man and ask him out on a date? I don’t have to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 09:27 AM
1	Women, would you find it inappropriate for a man to cold approach you at a nice restaurant? If you know how to do it you would do it. There’s a way to make this scenario work out in your favor and if you don’t know how then it’s not in your wheel house to try.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 02:40 AM
12	Women on this sub make it sound like they're single because they're unwilling to compromise on being in a great relationship, but in reality they're single because most men don't want them My god. The amount of cope in this post. Sit, I am single by choice. I am considered conventionally attractive and have been my entire life. I gained weight while taking care of my dad. Still had men who wanted me. I lost weight. Still have men who wanted me. In the area I live there are plenty of six figure attractive men. I also have a social circle with very attractive men who are absolutely an option to date. None of them, not one of them, have given me any incentive for changing my life as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 10:50 AM
1	Does the behavior of online incels make you less willing to give a chance to a virgin man? I am going to say this one more time and hope it sticks with someone. No one cares about you being a virgin. No one cares if you have never dated before. No one cares if you don’t have a 10 inch penis. Women care if you are a kind and decent human being who is thoughtful and considerate. Women care if you make an effort to communicate. Communication includes sex and how to make them have a pleasurable experience. No one cares except you and when you harp on it instead of doing something about it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 11:28 AM
2	Women, is it a dealbreaker if a man doesn’t tip much? Even if he’s generous in other ways? I am a non critical thinker because I think your behavior is abhorrent. That’s just another way to absolve yourself of your noxious behavior. I am not the only woman who said they wouldn’t date someone like you. I don’t date any men from Reddit ever so it wouldn’t be in my realm of possibility. You are a cheapskate who wants to skirt by on well it’s not my norms and even after being told it’s harmful to people you don’t give a damn. That’s non critical thinking. People who are critical thinkers …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 12:00 PM
2	Women, is it a dealbreaker if a man doesn’t tip much? Even if he’s generous in other ways? I don’t give a damn if you do question it. I will not be with someone who is embarrassing. You know how men in here like to talk about how women want men who have status, etc. Do you realize how embarrassing it is to be eating at a restaurant and a man leaves a bad tip. I would never want to show my face anywhere with a man that is a bad tipper. Make up any excuse you want but men who are bad tippers are not dateable. They are assholes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 11:46 AM
0	Women, is it a dealbreaker if a man doesn’t tip much? Even if he’s generous in other ways? I do care more about a server who is not being treated properly than my own options. Any person who stiffs service people is not a good human.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 07:10 AM
0	Women, is it a dealbreaker if a man doesn’t tip much? Even if he’s generous in other ways? Dude why would I go fuck the server? I am a woman who is considered conventionally attractive. I have options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 11:49 PM
3	Women, is it a dealbreaker if a man doesn’t tip much? Even if he’s generous in other ways? It’s asshole behavior because you know what the cultural norms are. You know that you are basically shafting another human being and you don’t care. Then you try to justify why your way is the right way after being told, hey there is a reason why this is done, the people are paid a low salary. You shrug your shoulders. That makes you a complete asshole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 11:48 PM
9	Women on reddit who claim to be single and perfectly happy due to potential dating partners not meeting their standards are often miserable in reality. Dick is the easiest thing in the world for women to get. Relationships are easy for women to get. When something is as easy to get as chewing gum, is there really any need to spend time pursuing it if you have to work harder at it than being single. Nope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 07:18 PM
5	Women, is it a dealbreaker if a man doesn’t tip much? Even if he’s generous in other ways? If a man is a bad tipper, I would be so embarrassed, leave a tip and block him in front of his face. He’s an asshole. There is no excuse about cultural norms or whatever nonsense you are trying to say here. Stay the fuck home if you don’t want to tip your servers. I am not a server and think this is gross.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 01:06 PM
–	The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting men I gave a very detailed explanation of how one of the best experiences I have ever had was with a person that had one the size of my pinkie and was told I was lying. It was good enough for me to remember details 20 years later. His first middle and last name and what color underwear he had on. Nope I must be lying because I have also had sex with someone that was 10 inches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 01:04 AM
22	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture This comment is saying the same thing women have kept saying. Patriarchy is bad for everyone. Not just women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 11:39 AM
–	CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the norm Please stop saying most. It’s not most. It’s women that you know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 11:46 PM
–	CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the norm It’s not the same and you know it. I don’t engage in debates made on bad faith.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 11:43 PM
–	CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the norm I do not care what anyone does sexually as long as it involves two consenting adults with no power imbalance. Sex work is work and as long as the woman performing it, isn’t beholden to a pimp, I don’t care if a man that I may date in the future decides to pay for a service. Maybe he will learn some new tricks we can try in the bedroom. If he is taking his sexual health seriously and gets consistent STI screenings and shows results or willing to go together in the future. I give zero fucks what t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 07:45 PM
9	It's OK to pay male teachers more than female teachers if it improves boy's educational outcomes. Equal pay between genders isn't the top priority in children's education. Women should be willing to take a "hit". Still not a reason to be sexist about salaries. I mean none of you really have a problem with sexism in salaries anyway. Also the belief that male teachers are going to be so willing to take these poor fatherless children under their wing and mentor them to be better men is laughable. Men are pretty selfish why would they want to mentor some kid they aren’t related to. If they wanted to they would already be doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 02:08 AM
8	It's OK to pay male teachers more than female teachers if it improves boy's educational outcomes. Equal pay between genders isn't the top priority in children's education. Women should be willing to take a "hit". Yeah it’s really not but of course it doesn’t fit with your world view.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 02:05 AM
23	It's OK to pay male teachers more than female teachers if it improves boy's educational outcomes. Equal pay between genders isn't the top priority in children's education. Women should be willing to take a "hit". I men if men didn’t leave their kids to be mentored by other men and actually showed up as parents and mentors we would not to have this discussion. Men should be better men, fathers and family for the boys in their family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 01:41 AM
6	Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference? I have had everything from pinky size to what is considered XL and honestly it’s how it is used.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 02:24 PM
8	Is it a red flag for a guy to have a high opinion of his ex? A great big giant red flag is when a man has hateful thoughts about an ex. That is usually a bigger red flag than someone who has fond thoughts of someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 11:48 PM
1	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them That’s the difference between your lived experience and mine. In an environment where compassion and community is fostered early and often there isn’t some social hierarchy beyond Seniors have more privileges than freshman. The environment establishes the norms and bullying, gossiping, social status was not tolerated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 03:02 PM
–	Women aren't supposed to be independent or survive on their own. I hate the whole women are more emotional. Anger is an emotion and men do more things out of anger than women do out of almost every other emotion except love. Stop pretending men are more logical and can manage their emotions better. They literally cannot which is why they rage so much in real life when things don’t go their way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 08:55 PM
12	Money standards between two adults when it comes to dating. I as an ambitious person would never date a person who is not matching my energy. It’s that simple. I have a plan and goals and will be doing what I can to reach them. I will not drag someone alone with me who cannot match my earning potential. That would be detrimental to me in so many ways. No thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 06:33 PM
3	Q4W: For $1 million, would you be willing to permanently forgo sex/romance? If not, how much would you need? Probably $5M because I would still want the resources to do what I want and never have to work or interact with people much at all. The land alone in my area is close to $1m. Then I would need to build a house and then plant the orchard, install the greenhouse, set up the cheese cave, get all the equipment for the stuff I want to do. So I am already at $2.5m right there when you add infrastructure. Once you add cost of animals and daily living expenses. I would need the extra $2M for just in cas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 01:09 PM
3	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them How can that be true when people are pairing up with folks that don’t have those traits every single day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 01:05 PM
6	Q4W: For $1 million, would you be willing to permanently forgo sex/romance? If not, how much would you need? Yup. I love being single as much as I love being partnered. They are equally advantageous to me. I would like to have about $10 Million so I can buy my land and build my dream house with space to do all my crafts , garden, learn new activities but I enjoy my own company and being alone. It’s the original factory setting for me. My best friend and I are already planning on buying land and build houses there so giving me money to do it makes it that much easier to do today vs in 3 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 11:44 AM
1	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them I understand. Thanks. I don’t think the men in here want to admit they are part of the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 11:31 PM
3	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them Not really and all of you keeping echoing that when it’s not true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 11:31 PM
3	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them It is. I never said it wasn’t. Thank god I had the parents I had. I was never allowed to fall back on my looks. Their parents failed most of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 10:15 PM
1	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them Sure. That still doesn’t change the fact that men will still look for vapid women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 09:27 PM
0	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them Most of you are though. Starve them of attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 07:42 PM
1	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them Ok. There is never anything men want to be accountable for when it comes to women. Most of you do the same behaviors, get the same outcomes and still say it’s a woman’s fault. Keep giving ick women attention and being upset they won’t give it back to you. Ya’ll are always the victims of your own decision making.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 07:41 PM
2	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them Good for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 05:25 PM
1	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them Can you explain further what you mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 05:23 PM
9	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them It’s idiotic to say men who order desserts are an ick. Men who get excited are an ick. Those people are idiots. They are idiots mainly because they want to say bash the patriarchy while upholding standards of patriarchy. They lack emotional depth and maturity and are fine verbalizing it. Better to be an idiot and no one knows than say something and everyone knows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 04:19 PM
2	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them You don’t have to accept anything that you don’t want to accept but also putting so much attention people with vapid personalities continues to create those personalities. Starve them for attention. Dont go out with them. If they show shitty behavior call them out on it. Hey that’s not cool the way you treat the server. That’s not cool how rude you were to the person in the line. Stop giving them a pass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 04:17 PM
2	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them So first, we didn’t have that vibe in my school. It was kind of a rigorous academic environment where we wanted each other to win. I know it’s hard for people to believe because of what they think they know about women but you can have 750 girls in a school and not bully each other. Second, if you watch people you can tell. Are they mean to servers, do they talk shit about their friends, are all of their friendships really short term, do they have outside interests that are focused on bettering …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 04:07 PM
1	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them I didn’t say you had a shitty personality. I was clear to not make any value statements about you at all. I said hey if you put out an aura of desperation people are going to pick up on it and you are going to attract shitty people. Where did I say you were shitty. I didn’t. I also didn’t say there was anything wrong being single. I said you can be lonely in a relationship with the wrong person. Also your numbers are way off. It’s not 2/3 or 1/3. You pulled that out of your ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 04:03 PM
4	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them They do though or at least most of them do. Men just don’t try to discern that behavior early because they are looking at the pretty girl. I have been objectively attractive my entire life. I have not ever been shallow or vapid. My only ick which could give someone pause is I don’t date picky eaters and that ick is solely because I have done it before and it was not for me. I also wasn’t bullied in school my dude. I went to all girl schools where those girls were my sisters. I just learned to pi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 03:38 PM
1	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them And that’s where you have the issue. Your desperation you wear like a coat. People can smell it on you. So you attract what you put out in the world. Willing to accept a shitty human so I am not lonely. Here’s the gag, a crappy human with a crappy personality will make your feel more alone in your relationship that being single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 03:33 PM
9	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them So leave shitty people to themselves. The one thing I know about shitty people especially women is they cannabalize themselves. Their friend groups are disingenuous. They are never happy with themselves and they usually wind up with other vapid people. People have to learn to leave people behind early and often. Stop giving people a chance to continue to be assholes to you or people around you. On a date with an asshole girl, tell her in public, hey you are being kind of an ass. Block her and mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 02:01 PM
21	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them No I blame men for giving attention to the shallow and vapid women. If no one paid them any attention or did not date shallow and vapid women then you wouldn’t have this issue. Men are always the ones saying, I don’t care what she earns. I don’t care if she is smart. I want her to be attractive and not fat. So you get out what you put into the system. You get shallow women who don’t want you to order dessert or be excited about anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 12:55 PM
55	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them Only an idiot would have icks like this. Men for some reason are attracted to pretty idiots so that’s what you get. They may even be smart people on some levels but lack serious maturity to open their mouth and say someone eating dessert is an ick. So this is what you get. Superficial idiots who say stupid shit and get validated for it because they are pretty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 11:46 AM
7	The patriarchy is good. Every single successful society in history has been patriarchal, and non-patriarchal societies are doomed to fail. Iran is probably the greatest indicator of what happens when you become a full on patriarchy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 12:17 PM
20	The patriarchy is good. Every single successful society in history has been patriarchal, and non-patriarchal societies are doomed to fail. I hate to tell you this but it has now been proven that a good number of male innovations were stolen from women. Look up the scientist stole the work about DNA from a woman. Also Einstein stole a lot of his work from a woman or at least heavily collaborated. The concept for actual computer programming came from a woman. We have WiFi due to a woman. So the big innovations you are talking about all came from women. Their work was just stolen. Your whole theory crumbles when you do the actual rese…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 10:57 AM
1	Most dating advice given to men tries to turn them into something they're not. Again, sorry that is your experience. Again, I have spent my life curating the relationships that work for me including friendships. In my friendship group I know about 3 cuckold couples, 2 guy who is in 24/7 chastity. I also know men who are switches, women who are Dommes, women Switches, a couple of bulls, a few stags, quite a few women who switch. It really is just the way you curate your life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 10:39 AM
1	Most dating advice given to men tries to turn them into something they're not. I am so sorry that is your experience. In my real life I have a lot of friends that are in kink spaces and I know quite a few relationships that are FLR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 09:08 AM
0	Most dating advice given to men tries to turn them into something they're not. All women don’t desire that though. There is a whole subset of women who want submissive men. There’s a whole subset of women who desire men who are less dominant and want the woman to be more in charge. The problem is men place such a high value on what other men think that they don’t seek them out or maybe they don’t have the introspection to say, I want to be in a feminine led relationship. All these dude bros give very specific and general advice and fill men’s head with them being a problem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 04:38 PM
34	Most provider men do not end up with traditional women I am so happy I had the parents and family I did. My grandma, one of the silent generation told me, leave early, leave often. I was not wasting any time on folks who didn’t match me. If it wasn’t a match, I was done yes even to provider minded men. My dad told me, not to waste my pretty. Meaning don’t give my youth or my time to people not worth it. Spend time doing things that fulfilled me. Men want traditional but cannot fulfill the traditional role anymore. If I can fix more than you and have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 04:50 PM
2	Gen Z seem to be low-key allergic to accountability Why would I want anything out of old balls. That’s weird. Men complaining about women taking advantage of them meanwhile telling I should have taken advantage of them. Sir, did you read. I had a whole ass father who was more than capable of taking me of me and did so my entire life. There was nothing an old man could give me that my dad wasn’t prepared to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 12:18 PM
7	Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct? I am mostly unaffected by celebrity in general. I have worked in a career where celebrities are a very common thing and it was trained out of me to leave people alone. I sat next to a few celebrities on planes and see them in lounges when I travel. I always leave people alone so I would expect the same if I am engaging in an activity like reading that says leave me alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 09:04 AM
6	Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct? Henry Cavill himself could walk up to me while i am reading in public and I would be pissed. I am reading to read. Not to be bothered. The book is always the purpose. Not some random man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 06:27 PM
2	Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse? Right wing men love to preach about their masculinity but prefer to be able to take that coat off sometimes. They don’t have to be alpha bro with their left leaning partners. I have no respect for any left leaning woman dating a conservative man. He is completely against everything you stand for and if you are willing to put your morals aside for some penis, then they gave a character flaw. There is no grey when it comes to human rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 04:07 PM
4	gender pay gap, and societal pressure in gender roles All girl school. Gang gang. It’s something about those girls who go to all girl schools. We cannot just go into regular “womens” job. We gotta go for the ones where we play with the men. I am in construction and love e ur single bit of it. I have never wanted to do anything else except build things and now that’s what I day. I build or manage people that build every lasting things. Also, women in all girls schools have been proven to be more secure about their appearance and have less competitiv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 02:27 AM
15	Gen Z seem to be low-key allergic to accountability And it’s disgusting because they know they can’t compete otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 02:38 PM
24	Gen Z seem to be low-key allergic to accountability When I was 18 and grown men wanted to date me because I had a tight body and was so mature, I knew they were full of shit and so did they. No one thinks an 18 year old is that mature and I had been out of high school for two years by the time I was 18 and still knew fuck all except grown men wanted to fuck because I was young. The methods they tried then haven’t changed. Women my age don’t understand me, you are so mature for your age, I feel like I can connect with you and teach you so much. Al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 12:27 PM
1	I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning. You want to keep arguing about the why? At no point did I say that it was the right way of thinking. Again, it is context. I am also not going to keep going back and forth with you because you didn’t live it and refuse to acknowledge that people dying had a massive cultural shift in the way sex and sexuality is handled. Do what you want with the information.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 06:53 PM
1	I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning. I gave historical context for why it is still a topic of concern and conversation? I lived it. I know women who didn’t know their husbands were bi and got an HIV diagnosis. Again if you were not alive when HIV and AIDs hit the street and how scary it was, you will never understand the fear. At first, it was thought women couldn’t get it because it was framed as a homosexual disease. Then when women started getting it, it was terrifying. There were people passing it to their kids through breast m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 05:26 PM
1	I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning. So, as a grown woman who has filtered my friend group down to the bone, I don’t have any friends who are homophobic from either gender. In fact a lot of my female friends have openly been expressed a preference for bi men for reasons that are way too nuanced for this group. I have dated bisexual men in the past and since my formative dating years were in the 1990’s with a far better sex education than what people are getting now, there are minimal reasons for me to be concerned about being expos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 04:50 PM
1	I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning. I never said I don’t date Bi men. I am giving historical context because a lot of people didn’t have it. There are people today who don’t know how much of a death sentence HIV used to be because so few die from it now. I am giving an additional data point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 04:39 PM
4	I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning. Some of you in here are really young and missed out on a lot of things. There was a period of time in the 1990’s where bi men who were not truthful about not being bi were having unprotected sex and increased the level of HIV transmissions to women. The term used was down low men. It was really a hard time because there were so few options for treatment for HIV and women were dying or transmitting it to their kids in utero. Bi-Men became the big bad boogie monster of dating. It was more compound…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 05:40 PM
5	What do women value the most? Traveling, learning new things, learning new skills, creating new recipes, hanging with my friends, teaching people about random esoteric things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 03:46 PM
9	Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting? People have a really and habit of not accepting no. They feel like if they keep you talking then they can change your mind. Some people feel like you need a reason to stop dealing with them that fits their narrative and not yours. So if I feel like they are that type of person, it’s a block. If the conversation falls off then I am good and leave it at that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 03:38 PM
4	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? Dude, when you are a good person, people show up for you. Thats it. I rearranged my entire life once my dad got sick because he needed me too. So did my mom, so did his former coworkers, so did the kids that he helped in foster care. If you consider that being a doormat than there is no hope for you and that’s fine. Men die alone more than women anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 11:51 AM
1	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? Sir, dad had two wives and a lot of female relationships before he met my mom and got married. I promise you, dad had no issues with women wanting to be with him. He was kind of a problem even when he got old. He was a silver fox with a twinkle in his eye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 11:11 AM
3	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? You people use Simp like it’s the answer to why no one sticks around, meanwhile Daddy by your metrics would be called one but never spent a day alone. Daddy was in the hospital after a stroke and still had women trying to go out with him even after he lost some of his speech and the ability to use one of his hands. He was over 60 after a stroke and lost most of his speech. Women still wanted to hang out with him. I literally had to take his phone so they wouldn’t program their number in his phon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 11:07 AM
2	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? What examples did I give that costs men anything. Also do you know men can be treated at planned parenthood. If you get an STI, men can go to planned parenthood and receive treatment for that on a sliding scale. How did daddy being an active father take anything away from him? How did protecting his coworkers from abusive clients only benefit women? Y’all will say anything to not be proven wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 10:56 AM
5	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? Here’s three I learned from my dad. 1. Treat women with respect even if you don’t have sexual access to them. My dad used to go to his ex- wife’s mother house, my grandma every year to help her take change her curtains. He didn’t have to do that. My parents were divorced. He was no longer getting sex from my mother but he was still kind to my grandmother because he was a decent human. Invest in things that may not benefit you but society at large. My dad was an old school Republican. Smaller gov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 09:01 PM
9	She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of Relationships I have never been on hormonal birth control. Never needed it in my 47 years. No IUD’s none of it. Here’s what I know to be true as a person who tracks my periods for birth control. When a male partner is failing, his failing is amplified when I am close to my period. I hate him that much more but my periods don’t make my love turn to hate. It just makes his breathing that much more annoying. His behaviors made me stop liking him. My hormones made me want to stab him if he opens his mouth one mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 08:40 PM
2	Do men understand how much women are influenced by the subconscious fear of men? In what world do men who assault women go to jail? Is that on Earth where we have a chronic backlog of rape dna cases and a severe problem of under reporting of sexual assault? Where are predators overwhelmingly going to jail. I want to move there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/25 07:02 PM
3	Q4W: Would you hate a man if he divorced you for quitting your job? Quitting is very different from laid off. If I quit with no conversation I would expect to be left. If I am laid off and he wants to leave, I am not in the business of keeping what doesn’t want to be kept.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/25 12:32 PM
1	Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin men I find all of these generalities so weird. If a man is a virgin because he didn’t find the person he wants to have sex with oh well. If he decided well you are the person I would like to have sex with then it’s a matter of conversation of ok what do you know, are you willing to learn and what are you interested in trying. Not super hard to do. Why are you people so weird about sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 02:27 PM
2	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. Dad wasn’t an expert. He was a social worker. His goal was to always help the kids. So when he would do his report, his advice was pretty boiler plate. The same as it it now. Be active. Know stuff about your kid. Know their schedules, allergies, friends, parents of friends, hobbies. Document interactions. It hasn’t changed in over 40 years. So when you go to court, you aren’t sitting there like an idiot knowing nothing about your kid while asking for more custody time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 05:56 PM
3	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. Dude, my dad was a social worker and spent a lot of time coaching men on how to get custody and access to kids. Most of the men he was GAL for were doing their case Pro Se. In context with watching the court process, when men try to get access to their kids, they can get access to their kids. Men will use any excuse to not continue to fight. You can file paperwork for minimal dollars and get cases done. You can file contempt against the mothers if the don’t follow through. It’s not as hard as me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 05:13 PM
-2	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. They are from all over the country. So I would say it’s pretty indicative that there is a process for men to advocate for themselves in the court system. Washington State, Michigan, Iowa, New York, Texas, Georgia all stream their child support, custody and divorce courts. When men show up and advocate for themselves with documentation, they are far more likely to get better outcomes. I have seen some women who are reckless get their ass handed to them and go to jail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 03:46 PM
5	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. I randomly watch live court trials on YouTube. When the father wants to be involved and goes back consistently for custody and the mom denies him access they get it. The judges send moms to jail, they change custody, they grant make up time. When the men put in the effort, they get the access they want to their children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 12:01 PM
3	The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone. I love this idea for men. It fixes so many things. If you can’t get a date, don’t date. If you aren’t trying to date then you have no interest in anything related to women. We will hear less opinions on what women wear, who they date, what they do. This is pretty good. Focus on yourself. I am here for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 11:26 AM
8	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 03:18 PM
–	Toxic Women Push The Sexual Culture That's Ruining Things For Other Women Do you actually know a cohort of women? Like an actual group of women who know each other in real life? None of this is factual. I am elated that all of my friends have different taste in men. I am elated when my friends make choices that are different than mine. I am so happy that I have friends who are hoes, friends who are housewives, friends who are boss babes and everything in between. We call each other on our shit and we move on. What are you blathering on about again? Are you trying to c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 01:51 PM
7	If Women Truly Want Good Men, Why Aren’t They Their First Choice? I wish men could be a woman for 3 months. Just 3. You would be exhausted by the amount of manipulation happens. You would want to turn in your bra after two weeks. The guy who is nice to you at work and you think it’s a good working relationship. He wants to fuck. The guy you met through a mutual friend who everyone thinks is amazing, nope he’s a douche. The man you met in Home Depot who asks you pointed questions about why you are in Home Depot douche The man who says he’s single but really he …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 11:52 PM
5	If Women Truly Want Good Men, Why Aren’t They Their First Choice? My dude, bad men are very good at pretending to be good men. If some are wearing a mask and some are not but they all look the same, it’s a fact finding hunt to figure it out. Also men seek out way too many insecure women who think they need social validation. If that is an issue for them then they aren’t good women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 11:36 PM
10	If Women Truly Want Good Men, Why Aren’t They Their First Choice? I think men severely underestimate the amount of masking that men do for women. The bad behaviors you see exhibited are not what they are showing women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 11:17 PM
10	If Women Truly Want Good Men, Why Aren’t They Their First Choice? Too many men conflate nice with good. They are not the same and those that think they are good but actually nice are some of the most problematic. There are good men who are attractive and there are men who are less than attractive and still steaming piles of garbage. The problem as a whole is there is lots of filtering that need to be done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 11:07 PM
4	Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms??? Yes they do. Especially if they have to pay child support. They are looking for someone to help split the rent and bills. Men are as predatory about resources as women when they have kids. They also are looking for someone to help with the domestic labor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/25 08:34 AM
1	Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms??? It’s a resource question. If he has kids his resources can’t go to hers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 06:25 PM
11	Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms??? I tell all single people never date single parents. You are seen as a resource to them. I would never do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 06:24 PM
2	Women are dating the same terrible dudes I don’t want to know anything about you. You have revealed things about yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 04:17 PM
1	Women are dating the same terrible dudes Your characterization of where drugs are sold tells me all I need to know about you. I am not the only one that said drugs are sold on college campuses and businesses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 01:37 PM
6	Women are dating the same terrible dudes They know it is and I know they are wrong but Daddy Fox and the news told them who it is when really it’s those that are close to them but don’t want to admit it. So they tell me and you, no it’s not that when it really is. Meth is not a drug found in most urban communities but it’s one of the biggest drug issues in this country, who is selling it to all this folks in Appalachia or in the Midwest. It is certainly not the urban dealers and it’s not party drugs. The stereotypes are what causes the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 08:31 AM
12	Women are dating the same terrible dudes Ma’am do you know who moves the most cocaine weight in this country. The most pills, the most meth. It’s not who you were insinuating. It’s the fresh faced young men who can blend in with the people who want the Adderall, the cocaine, the benzos. You have been around more drug dealers than you think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/25 11:16 PM
9	Women are dating the same terrible dudes Considering most drug dealers are the fresh faced white guys who are selling to their frat bros. You probably know more than you know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/25 10:34 PM
–	Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'. I don’t date men below my tax bracket and my earnings are more than 70% of Americans. I can’t speak for what other women do because I was raised to be self sufficient. Another thing Red Pill men seem to hate. If I make too much well then I am emasculating them but I make too little then I am a leech. Just say you want women to be dependent on me so they can’t leave and be done with it. I would never put myself in a position where a man has control over me financially or pay for him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 01:29 PM
–	Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'. If she has to contribute for another person to join the trip or go to less expensive outings because he can’t afford it, that is lowering her quality of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 12:56 PM
2	Why is it more rare for Women to fall for their guy friends? No. They are my friends. I am not interested in them. It has nothing to do with wanting mystery or danger. These men are simply friends and I value their friendship. No it means I am able to have friendships with people that are conventionally attractive but I am not interested in being with them in that manner. When I am interested in dating someone, they have qualities of being decent people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 02:04 AM
6	Why is it more rare for Women to fall for their guy friends? No. I have highly attractive, all the 6’s, everything friends. I genuinely am not attracted to them. Not at all. They are people who are good people and we have common interests and I am not attracted to them because they are friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 05:55 PM
5	Why is it more rare for Women to fall for their guy friends? I have some very attractive male and female friends. When we are friends we are friends. I literally don’t see them as a sexual object or even as a romantic potential. It automatically shuts off for me. I don’t get a crush on them. None of that happens. It’s like friends become a blob of human that is put together but comes out as a friend and not anything sexual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 05:54 PM
4	Why is it more rare for Women to fall for their guy friends? They are friends. There is no world where I get attraction for a friend. They are in the friend bucket which means I don’t look at them as anything but that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 04:56 PM
20	Most “I want a traditional woman” claims translate to “I want a woman who can rely on me so she won’t be able to leave” I mean if you are ok being the creepy predator have at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/25 12:20 AM
48	Most “I want a traditional woman” claims translate to “I want a woman who can rely on me so she won’t be able to leave” Let’s be honest most men can’t afford a “traditional” wife. Especially if she has lived a full life and has a job or anything going for herself. He won’t be able to maintain her standard of living, let alone enough for kids and him. There’s a reason they go for younger and foreign.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/25 09:25 PM
–	You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”. It’s not a minority of men. Go spend time on any Reddit thread and you will see plenty of women saying he wasn’t like this. We talked about this. We planned to do this and now he isn’t the same. I am so happy more and more women are choosing to be single. The echo chamber for men is ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 07:19 PM
–	You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”. He died you idiot. I met this dude as my father in as dying. So how about you shut up about what you don’t know what you are talking about. He was dying and I wasn’t paying attention. Today was his death anniversary. Good on you for being the moron that doesn’t read a thread before responding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 06:22 PM
7	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job He called a gold digger didn’t he?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 06:03 PM
–	You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”. My god you are an idiot. Considering I had a dad who was like that in my life for me and I still was made a target. Also let’s not forget men didn’t like being told they had to be active and present and help in the house so they decided that if they wives divorced them they would also abandon their children and become weekend parents. Please stop acting men were these benevolent bastion of protection for the women in their lives. They weren’t. Men saw the value that women had in their lives from…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 06:02 PM
–	You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”. Practice. It’s absolutely practice. It’s a skill. The same way women practice flirting. The same way women practice saying all the right things to get a ring. Its practice. This isn’t a difficult concept. Liars learn to lie by lying more and figuring out what works. Is it brain surgery. No. It’s mimicking behaviors that get a positive response and suppressing behaviors that don’t then they get the women caught up in their emotional web and the mask comes off. Not a revolutionary concept. The per…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 05:28 PM
–	You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”. Dude. It is not that easy. Seriously. There are men who perfected the art of lying. I am really fucking smart and this guy managed to get close to me while I was mourning the death of my dad and I couldn’t see it until it was too deep. Also remember this part, men don’t see what women are presented. The version of man that you get is never the version they show up to women. So you may see the douche and we get Prince Charming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 03:02 PM
–	You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”. When men stop lying about their personalities and who they actually are and what they actually want from women, then choose better is a valid statement. Men lie about everything. They lie about how much money they make, they lie about their height, they lie about their personality, they lie about what level of commitment they want. They lie. And then men will say well if they didn’t lie then no one would date them. Which is exactly the point. They know they are trash but until men stop lying to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 02:39 PM
–	Do you ever get tired of compliments? Do what works for you. I don’t need to make up a reason for why people are complimenting DNA I had nothing to do with. I am not focused on it at all. My face is my face. The same as my toe is my toe. Neither of them have done anything except provide covering to nerves and bone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 08:12 AM
1	Do you ever get tired of compliments? I always tell folks to try a good Rooibos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 09:46 PM
2	Do you ever get tired of compliments? Nope. I don’t make compliments about men’s looks either. If I see someone and I think they are attractive I can admire them, say nothing and walk away. I am not compelled to act on something because it’s nice to look at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 06:23 PM
3	Do you ever get tired of compliments? You are assuming I don’t know about PÚA 101. Dude I had a dad who had daughters and had all the ladies showing up mad he got married. Do you think he sent me out in the world not knowing. Please my pick up tactics will make you blush all learned from my dad. My dad was also the one who was clear that my looks are low hanging fruit. He made sure I was an interesting person that didn’t have to rely on being told I’m pretty to have high self esteem. My looks literally contribute nothing to this wor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 06:21 PM
20	A significant cohort of single childless women are about to hit their 40's. How do you think it's going to affect the conversation about navigating modern relationships? I am in the age range you talk about and every time I say it people in here love to tell me that my life would be so much better if I had kids. I don’t want kids. The idea of having kids gives me the same ick as being married. It feels like someone trying to throw an albatross around my throat and expecting me to love my new piece of jewelry. For starters no one has made parenthood look fun or even interesting. It looks absolutely miserable. The noise, the schedule, the smells, the sticky stuff,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 06:02 PM
2	Do you ever get tired of compliments? Your experience that they act weird or annoyed. Anyone who has dated me knows that I don’t enjoy it and don’t do it. If your go to thing to get women to talk to you is to mention her looks then you lack game. One guy chatted me up because he asked me about my travel backpack. Went on a date. One guy asked what tea I recommended in the line at a coffee shop. We talked for 6 hours. My looks are not interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 05:43 PM
–	Q4M: A well-traveled adventurous woman? Or sheltered homebody? Will do. It is doing its first rise now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 03:30 PM
–	Q4M: A well-traveled adventurous woman? Or sheltered homebody? So I do ground bison with a seasoning mix. Then I do pico de gallo from scratch, black beans, corn salsa, guacamole, sour cream, pickled jalapeños that I made. <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 01:51 PM
–	Q4M: A well-traveled adventurous woman? Or sheltered homebody? It’s not even that they ask they just assume you want them there and then they take over. So nope, I will continue to do the things I like to do in my space. Today I am going to bake a new kind of bread, make nachos from scratch and add more leaves to my compost pile. There is literally no real reason to change my life. Here’s hoping cranberry, white chocolate walnut bread turn out well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 01:34 PM
–	Q4M: A well-traveled adventurous woman? Or sheltered homebody? Nope. I play for both teams and having a woman in my space would be less than ideal too. I don’t like people in my space but a man even less. They ask for too much and do too little. The return on investment is garbage. The learning curve is ridiculous and the likelihood of me wanting to be with them long term is less than 1%. They never want to go away. It’s like once you feed a cat they keep coming back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 01:09 PM
9	Do you ever get tired of compliments? I hate compliments related to my looks. I have done nothing to earn them and they are the least interesting thing about me. If you compliment an outfit or an accomplishment great but if you compliment my face or my body I am immensely annoyed. I have lost weight, I don’t want to hear about. If you knew me before I lost weight and mention, I immediately cut you off. My looks have zero to do with me as a person. It’s a combination of DNA from a two people and it happened to create something that i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 01:04 PM
–	Q4M: A well-traveled adventurous woman? Or sheltered homebody? I have no cats. I would never want a pet. I stay traveling way too much. Again men always think women are upset about not having a male partner. Having a man in my house would be the absolute least ideal life of any version of life. Having to actually deal with men and what they want on a full time basis, absolutely not. I would rather adopt a paraplegic diabetic dead dog that I am allergic to than deal with a man every day. Ugh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 12:52 PM
–	Q4M: A well-traveled adventurous woman? Or sheltered homebody? None. I am literally not in debt at all. I have seen the world and will see more and have zero debt. I also bake bread and do home things. You people are weirdos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 10:17 AM
7	Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs? Dude. I literally live the best life. I don’t even work, I travel, I do my hobbies and I chill. It is quite possibly the version of life most people wish they had. Sorry you don’t have the same joy and options that I do. I will bake some cookies in your honor. Probably a salted caramel peanut butter chocolate chip.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 03:22 PM
6	Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs? You really think so. Sir I have stopped dating men for many things. Here’s my list He chewed too loud He had really bad athletes feet I didn’t like his mother I didn’t like the types of books he read. Do you really believe I have a problem not dating a man because his values done align with mine. I don’t need a man for money or stability or children. So yeah they can stay with the women who want to be with them and make them work for affection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 11:36 AM
1	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? I’ll say the quiet part out loud, men get emotionally attached really easily when their needs are met. The person that I am in my own space organically is in all likelihood what most men would want in a partner. So when they spend time with me, they tend to get attached quickly. So it’s never just a FWB and they have to be a genuine friend before they even get to the benefits part but they are getting all the other things met so then they want to try to evolve it into a relationship. Which is no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 04:00 PM
2	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? I have lived with someone before. I don’t mind sleeping in the same bed with someone as long as I am not constantly mauled just because I come to bed. I don’t know if I want to be married. It seems like a lot bigger risk for a woman like me. Way too difficult to extricate myself if it goes poorly and this is not ego men I date never seem to want to leave a relationship amicably. It’s always some version of why do you want to leave, I can be better. Blah blah blah. I just want to go. So marriage …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 02:14 PM
1	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? I have lived with someone and not talked all day and not because I was mad but just because I didn’t feel like talking. However I do find that when I am into someone, I am more likely to share random parts of my day with them with no requirement for fake enthusiasm just I thought this was cool. Now you know I thought this was cool. People are also very used to instant response. I am older and remember when you had to page someone and wait for a call back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 01:34 PM
3	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? I love doing things alone. I didn’t get the gene of needing to be attached at the hip. There are times when I prefer to do even coupled things alone. Movies by myself is awesome. I can choose my seat, eat my snacks and not consider anyone but me. I love going to restaurants alone. People have decided that life experiences need to be witnessed by someone to count. The experience is what counts not who sees it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 11:27 AM
4	Men dont care about men’s issue. That’s where the bravery comes in. Because a place is unwelcoming doesn’t mean you don’t try. If I felt like I wasn’t welcome I would never do anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 11:23 AM
3	Telling women not to change for men is actually toxic advice I am maliciously non-compliant to any man who asks me to change while actually being 98% of the things they want. I just won’t give it to them. Everytime I see those ridiculous lists of what most men want, I am pretty much all of those things. I just won’t do them until it is earned. How does one earn it? By not being a dick. The more you ask or cajole the less likely I am to do anything and then just stop talking to you. I love it. It brings me great satisfaction to watch them flounder and get …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 02:06 AM
3	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? Possibly but I also know those people are short term presence in my house. At some point a romantic partner wants to live with you and that changes the dynamics of your life. I can tell my friend. Girl it’s time for you to go home and she will go and then back to doing my own thing. I never wanted to have kids so that wasn’t an issue for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 10:48 PM
8	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? For someone like me they almost have to be like a cat. Pretty independent, self sufficient, leave me alone most of the time, give some attention occasionally but not too much. I don’t want my life to change much. Be able to discuss topics and recommend good sci fi shows. Appreciate when I cook but don’t expect me to cook. Be able to manage their own life because I don’t want to. Be willing to travel to new places and be willing to learn new cultures. Be polite to service workers. Read interestin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 10:07 PM
11	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? Their presence would be a change in what I do daily. I would have to take them into consideration for things. What they want to eat, where they want to go on vacation, how much space they take up in the fridge, them breathing while I am trying to read. Just the natural rhythm of how I move throughout my house would change if there is another person there. They would have to be extraordinary to make me change the way I do things now. Alone is not a problem. It’s my preferred default.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 10:01 PM
17	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? When the profile is empty, when they try to obfuscate information, when they try to make lots of sexual innuendos. I see men who are attractive all the time. They match with me and then I read their stuff and nope right out of there. I usually will talk to someone a bit before a date and then they reveal more about why they suck so I decline the date. You have to remember, the competition is always how amazing my life is now. I am a stay at home single with no children. Today I baked some bread,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 07:37 PM
21	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? I am not young but look young because genetics. I can read and their profiles are awful and I am not interested in awful profiles. I also know that my status as childfree at my age is a huge draw for my dating demographic however if they have kids, it’s a no go for me. If they aren’t my type, immediate swipe. I genuinely enjoy my life as it is. I have a really good freaking life so adding anyone would jeopardize that so they gotta be extra freaking special for me to even consider it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 07:04 PM
17	Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs? Absolutely not. Conservative men and their values don’t align with mine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 06:53 PM
5	Men dont care about men’s issue. I’ll say the thing that isn’t being said. There aren’t enough men in schools to protect boys. Why, they don’t want to go into education. Men know it is a necessary function of society. They know its work that is valuable and needs to be done but the salary is trash and men know that too. So they make a choice to not go into a career field where the salary isn’t great and teachers are treated like shit by the rest of society. So they leave that work to women. It’s vital work that needs to be done…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 03:57 PM
12	Would you consider visiting an escort in the past a dealbreaker? Nope. I don’t care. Sex work is work. I also don’t care about what another person did sexually before me as long as they weren’t a rapist, a coercive manipulator or a pdf. My expectation is that people lived a life before me and made decisions that were right for them in that time. If our sexual compatibility doesn’t measure up because you had a bad experience previously then ok but that’s all I really care about. I literally do not care one iota.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 08:08 PM
-1	You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them. People conflate nice and good. Most women know nice guys are pretty creepy. So they don’t want to engage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 09:54 PM
6	Do women with brothers understand the struggles of men better I don’t ever discuss that but it was bad enough that everyone has cut him off. My grandmother made us promise not to even tell him she died.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 07:51 PM
1	Do women with brothers understand the struggles of men better I am not being dramatic. The vitriol he is receiving is exactly what he deserves. He probably deserves more but since shanking someone is illegal here we are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 06:01 PM
7	Do women with brothers understand the struggles of men better Nope. Fuck him. A person born with just a brain stem would know how much of a piece of shit he is. They contribute more to society than he does. I would rather empathize with a rabid raccoon than him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 04:13 PM
8	Do women with brothers understand the struggles of men better No. I hate my brother as a person. I would have less empathy for men if I had to use him as a gauge. He’s kind of a garbage human and I feel bad that the earth is subjected to a person like him. His only real contribution is when they hopefully burn him and the carbon he produces helps another life form.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 01:43 PM
–	The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over men White women are not. They do not. Do the research and stop believing the propaganda. White women have the most resources dedicated to them in the hierarchy. Do the work. It’s not black lesbians. I don’t know who told you that. It’s simply not true. Look it up so you can’t say I cherry picked something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 02:44 AM
–	The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over men Literally not. White women are at the top of the DEi ladder. Same as it has always been since affirmative action took place. They have benefitted the most and have then closed the door behind them. Your issues with white women in the work place in HR. Affirmative action, your issue with women getting more help in college, white women. Your issue with more funding going to specific women’s causes white women. However it’s easier to blame black lesbians because that’s who you have been programmed …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 09:28 PM
–	The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over men So you know who it covers and still think it’s not valid ok. This still won’t help men get a date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 06:44 PM
–	The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over men I am going to assume that you are ignorant of why DEI was needed in the first place. Fully qualified people were not getting selected because people were choosing unqualified cronies. That’s the whole point. Have you done any research on this topic or simply heard soundbites? The purpose was literally to say hey, there are fully qualified people that are not even being allowed to interview because they don’t know someone in the hiring room. A person is not being chosen on merit if they aren’t go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 05:55 PM
–	The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over men We can barely convince men that DEI does include a significant population of men. Veterans, old men, men with mental health issues, men who have visible disabilities are all part of DEI.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 03:44 PM
27	High maintenance women get bitter at low maintenance women who are happy. I will say it, I feel sorry that they accepted less than. There is never a reason to have a child with a man who does not respect you enough to marry you. With the amount of vitriol in this sub alone about single mothers, no women should be having kids with any man without a ring. They have very few legal protections. I am not mad at them, I am sad for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 02:55 PM
11	Inconvenient truths about each gender in modern society The properly raised bit is gross.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/25 01:11 AM
2	Why is it so rare for "HVM" to be childfree? I know quite a few HVM who have never wanted kids. It’s a choice whether you do or you don’t. One of them I know has not wanted kids since high school. He was meeting the markers of HVM in high school. Still never wanted kids. I think it depends on where you live and the values of that area as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 10:40 AM
6	Empathy gap is real: Mother attempts to murder-suicide her son, people go, "Awww, poor women." If the perpetrator was a father, people would go, "Men are evil" Anyone who attempts to murder suicide their child is on some sort of psychotic break. I don’t feel any less awful about either. When the circumstances are because of a custody battle I am even more inclined to believe there is a mental deficit. You hate someone so much you would kill a child. May I never get to that point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 11:11 PM
3	How certain do you think someone should be that their relationship will not play out as both partners intend before they’re ethically obligated to end the relationship? Leave early. Leave often. Life is too short to spend any time in a relationship that is going to be shit. My grandma told me a long time ago that it’s better to leave early so you aren’t wasting my time. Anytime I see issues that show we are not compatible and I stay it becomes a shit show. More people should be honest and get out early. It will save everyone time, money and heartache.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 07:41 AM
11	To women who had sex on a first date in the past - would you date a guy who openly says he prefers to do this prior to meeting? Any man who says this doesn’t have the charisma to pull off sex on the first date. If you have to say it, you won’t get it. Your past history with dead bedrooms or whatever else is going on has no bearing on my attraction to you. If you want to have sex on the first date then it happens organically and a person coming from a dead bedroom is probably lacking something that inspires that sort of passion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 08:37 AM
3	A man has been dating a woman for years before telling her he's into crossdressing. What are your thoughts? I don’t care. I am not checking his underwear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 11:34 PM
7	The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countries White women seek to uphold patriarchy even against their own needs because that’s the cost of admission not fall down the social hierarchy. Their compliance is the cost of admission to stay above black men and black women. They are the biggest beneficiaries of every affirmative action policy in this country by far and are the biggest perpetrators of patriarchal standards because they don’t want to be “less than”. It’s why they are struggling with the idea that people are seeing them for who they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 01:15 PM
2	Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing. I am in my 40’s too. I always get the stink eye when women ask my skin routine. It’s water, purity made simple and a random face cream with SPF and chapstick. Some lady got so mad because we were the same age and she was already getting Botox. I got lucky with genetics and I know that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 04:33 PM
2	Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing. I never enter into the wall conversations because that’s not my story. I get how it can affect some folks but I will look the same for the next 20 years. I just checked my fertility, the numbers are the same from when I was 34. Plus I have eggs that I preserved. The wall conversation is never directed at black women. We aren’t afraid to age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 04:25 PM
4	Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing. Except for black women. Folks can’t tell our age once we hit 35. I stopped aging at 32. Side by side I look exactly the same. Mom is 76 I think. Still no face wrinkles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 03:52 PM
1	why won't women engage with men? Before the pick up artist thing was even around I had a CSM in the army tell me this when I was breaking up with a guy. He told me simply stop talking to him. If he can get me to talk, he can try to change my mind. That was over 20 years ago. Now when it’s done, it’s done. For most things in my life not just men or relationships. I cut people off. No explanations needed or required.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 11:00 AM
1	why won't women engage with men? I am objectively attractive. I know this, he knows this. There is no need to bring it up multiple times in a quick conversation. It’s weird and I hate it. It’s also the thing I earned the least or care about. I can tell people who are less than smart just by the way they have a conversation. If they lack curiosity that’s a sure fire sign. Asking nothing about me but saying a lot. Just the way they put sentences together. I also have my ways of gauging.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 10:58 PM
1	If TRPillers were honest with what they´re saying, they would have 0 issue with single women, cat ladies, sluts etc. It was an insult. I don’t go around saying this to people. The whole concept was to hurt his feelings. All he cared about what people thought of him. I don’t think this about most people. Except this one guy. Fuck that guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:52 PM
9	Hyper independence is making men and women incompatible. And women are not. Men don’t have a monopoly on protection anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 03:03 PM
2	why won't women engage with men? That’s the problem. You want to call me shallow because I want to be sexually attracted to my partner. Meanwhile men in here complain that women are sexually attracted enough to their partner. I am not shallow or vapid. I am just not wasting his or my time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 01:58 PM
43	Hyper independence is making men and women incompatible. Men are not the protectors they claim to be. They are really bad at being protectors to be quite honest. They have a perception that they are good at it but if they were, men wouldn’t be out here abusing women, raping women, and all the other vile things men do to women because the protectors would be doing the work to keep those men in line. If men were the protectors they claimed to be, women would probably be more likely to have their guard down in general. Women are guarded and hyper indepen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 01:21 PM
12	If TRPillers were honest with what they´re saying, they would have 0 issue with single women, cat ladies, sluts etc. My worst insult to a man has never been about his sexual prowess. My worst insult to a man was about his lack of ability to have anyone care about his existence at all. Waste of space, air and basic building blocks of carbon. Their mere existence has stolen the required necessities for an item that could actually serve a purpose on this planet. They have nothing, are nothing, will always be nothing and will continue to be a non-factor to anyone they ever meet shows how their carbon was wasted. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 09:50 AM
1	why won't women engage with men? I didn’t say anything about looks in the first part. The things about skin, teethe clothing etc aren’t just physical things in the nature of how they are out together. Its do they have good skin, do they take care of their teeth, are they well groomed, what do their shoes look like, are their nails clean and hands moisturized. It’s more about grooming than about is his jaw chiseled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 09:44 AM
2	why won't women engage with men? I am a single high earner. Men have a bad habit of assessing if they can move into my house by saying slick things like oh I see you big money or why do you need so much space. Things like that. It’s a subtle way of seeing how willing I am to not require them to pay their own way in life. You have to pay attention to the subtleties.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 09:41 AM
3	why won't women engage with men? No. Who told you that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:22 AM
0	why won't women engage with men? I swear you men don’t get it. A man who is fuckable for every person and it’s not the version of what men think. I’ll give an idea. Nick Kroll is objectively not super attractive. He isn’t objectively handsome but he looks like he would be good in bed to me. He’s just got a fuckable energy. He isn’t objectively handsome but there’s something about him that says yup he would be good in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:20 AM
5	why won't women engage with men? This is an absolute do not date list.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:16 AM
6	why won't women engage with men? Please stop pretending that the initial assessment of person isn’t based on sexual attraction. It’s just a thing where you look at someone and assess do they look like they would be good in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:14 AM
4	why won't women engage with men? It’s not looks and that’s the part black pill keeps getting wrong. There are ugly men who have charisma that are totally fuckable and that’s something that is captured early. It’s not just about looks. It’s a quick assessment of their possible performance in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:12 AM
2	why won't women engage with men? If a man can’t make me smile within 10 minutes. If he doesn’t show a modicum of intelligence. If he is overly aggressive or overtly sexual If he makes any comment about things that I do in derisive manner. If he gets too familiar too soon. If he asks questions about my living situation. If he has kids If he comments on my looks too much. It’s pretty easy for me to figure out things in about 10 minutes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:10 AM
6	why won't women engage with men? If I am not interested in a person then talking to me is not going to make me become interested but men like to somehow feel like well as along as she is talking to me I have a chance. For someone like me who doesn’t play those games anymore, it’s not worth my time. Talking to me beyond what I want to talk is going to annoy me and piss me off. I no longer go against my instincts about men. Every time I have tried to give a guy a chance, it has been a shit show. So nope. I leave early and often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:05 AM
1	why won't women engage with men? I said what I said about 30 seconds to do a decent enough analysis. Skin, teeth, clothing, shoes, cleanliness, posture, hands, overall energy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:01 AM
18	why won't women engage with men? It takes time to get to that level of comfort. When I was younger, I was firmly coached in Be Nice and give men a chance. It never works that way. Every time you are nice and not fully attracted those men show their ass the worst.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 11:18 PM
34	why won't women engage with men? I know within the first 30 seconds if a man is fuckable. Any conversation after that is to see if they are worth entertaining. I can usually tell within 10 minutes if I want to spend more time getting to know them. Anything after that if I am not interested in dating isn’t worth my time, especially because men have been taught they can keep me talking my mind might change.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 10:55 PM
-1	Q4Men: what does a society that prioritizes men do? Girl porn has been around since the Roman era. There were whole places where men could go to see naked women even during the time of Alexander the Great. You can take a tour of Rome and see mini penises on the wall pointing people to brothels and courtesan houses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 09:19 PM
14	The Origins of Why Women Are Both Empowered and Weak, and Why They Blame Men for Their Own Limitations, and Why Merit Equals Privilege, Not True Capability So are you saying we should start shanking men? What the fuck is all this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 07:56 PM
13	Would you help a desperate man who has 2 weeks to live? What would you do to help? Why are drunk people talking to me like this? There is no way in hell I am even entertaining anything about this conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 06:57 PM
–	Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is? Ok sir. You win. I don’t have time to keep arguing with someone who barely dated before this dumb book came out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 05:29 PM
–	Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is? 50 was written in 2011. By the time 365 came out enough people had been cos playing the language of kink for almost 10 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 05:09 PM
–	Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is? Where do you think he got it from? This was not the topics of conversations about dating 15 years ago. Men heard submission and domination and saw it played out as a popular romance trope and decided that’s what all women want since the book became popular. This was fan fiction and not even good fan fiction. Women want the same things they wanted then. Men to be Gentlemen. Not be slobs be able to take care of themselves and be able to satisfy them in bed. The part that was missed from all of thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 03:05 PM
–	Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is? I wish the book 50 shades of grey never existed. I say that because I find that most of the dialogue I found around a lot of these topics of submission and dominance wasn’t a big part of the dating lexicon. Men were more often than not told to be gentlemen. Somehow someone got the idea that a woman’s Twilight Fan Fiction was what women really craved. This was a woman writing a very poorly researched idea of BDSM relationships. The self help gurus have run with this idea and ruined dating. No one…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 02:34 PM
0	Men improving themselves wont fix the dating market, women need to lower their standards. Stop arguing with them. They know. They already know and don’t care they are being ridiculous. Stop feeding into it. They want attention. Give them none. Every time they bring this up they get plenty of valid arguments about why this is a bad faith take and they come back with it in another week. Stop feeding into it. Do something better with your time. They don’t care. The goal is to distract you from doing something better	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 03:57 PM
1	We should stop gender splitting in competitions where brain power is the only deciding factor We simply cannot disqualify that as much as people like to ignore this, this country had a slave breeding program for hundreds of years. The strongest men were chosen to breed with selected women to make slaves that were hardier and stronger to survive the atrocities of being enslaved. So there are going to be traits that are passed that create dominance in specific sports. We can always gloss over that part though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 12:11 PM
3	Not all women are "like that", but many are. It is literally the same thing. Women describe a negative trait that they have seen with males and men say well not all men. They are defending the brotherhood. It is literally the same but for opposite sex. Also women have already decided. Cool. No LTR. Brunch instead. For those that want to deal with men there are enough that will do it no matter how many MGTOW.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 08:55 PM
–	Most women do not "learn to be misandrist" from their fathers No his list was based on things he knew about the nature of men. My dad was young hot stuff. Then he was a Marine. Then he was in a black fraternity. My dad knew men. Lots of them. He was not about to send me in the world with no tools. If I am picking through a group of men, blanket disqualifiers make it easier to sort. There are a lot of men who don’t have relationships with their fathers and it deeply affects them. They don’t know how much it can but it does. These type of men have a hard tim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 08:52 PM
–	Most women do not "learn to be misandrist" from their fathers So my dad is dead now but he was quite possibly one of the most sane and calm people I have ever met. Men who don’t have relationships with their fathers have a very poor idea of how to model being a healthy man in their relationships. They are quite possibly some of the worst men for a woman who has a present father to date. Men who have mothers and sisters they are enmeshed with allow their woman family members to treat their partners poorly. They like to do a lot of games, one upmanship and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 07:27 PM
1	The APA's guidelines on men and boys that were published in 2019 encourages therapists to violate the modern interpretation of the Oath of Hippocrates and suggests that American men are largely justified in distrusting therapy/mental healthcare as they don't have their best interest at heart Nope. Therapy isn’t shit. If you have never tried it, you don’t have a leg to stand on. Reading things to confirm one’s bias is kind of stupid. The problem stated was therapy was too female focused. I gave a link to therapy focused on men. You should give it a try.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 03:50 PM
5	Not all women are "like that", but many are. Ok so why do men have such a problem and want to “not all men” women to death? If AWALT then certainly all men are too. No need to comment not all men then. Look at that. Solved a big problem today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 03:01 PM
0	The APA's guidelines on men and boys that were published in 2019 encourages therapists to violate the modern interpretation of the Oath of Hippocrates and suggests that American men are largely justified in distrusting therapy/mental healthcare as they don't have their best interest at heart What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 02:52 PM
–	Do these women exist? So you want what you want on your terms. What do they get out of doing things the way you want to do? How does your partner benefit from leaving you alone until you want to engage with them. Do you attempt to go out with them? Do you try to talk to their friends or do you clam up and make every engagement unenjoyable so she stops asking you to go anywhere? The hard part of adulting is figuring out how much are you willing to be flexible. I hate meeting new people but the work I do I am required …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 12:01 PM
–	Do these women exist? I am 100% introverted and hate being around people. I am crazy confident. I don’t have any major insecurities. I am a reader so my ideal day is spent reading and not dealing with another person. However when in a relationship I am willing to be around the other person. I am also a person who believes my partner is not my sole source of people exposure so I have friends. I go out to brunch, I go out for coffee, I do things. You want your introverted behavior to make them a prisoner to your whims.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 11:11 AM
–	Most women do not "learn to be misandrist" from their fathers My dad was a therapist. The stuff he heard in therapy from men formed a list so long. Yeah he was not playing about his child and the weirdos out here. Here’s just five of his disqualifies. No or poor relationship with their father Too close of a relationship with mother or sister Men who refuse mental health check ups. (He viewed it as a regular part of your health like a physical) Men who didn’t date when they were teenagers. Men who don’t drive. There are more but those he was really big on m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/25 11:45 PM
0	The APA's guidelines on men and boys that were published in 2019 encourages therapists to violate the modern interpretation of the Oath of Hippocrates and suggests that American men are largely justified in distrusting therapy/mental healthcare as they don't have their best interest at heart Although this is targeted for black men. How about some of you start here. Find a male therapist and move along. https://therapyforblackmen.org/	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/25 08:30 PM
1	Male mental health and victim blaming I acknowledge my privilege on this topic but I also have cultivated a friend group that lives in the same space. I choose not to be friends with people who haven’t done the hard work mentally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 10:56 PM
0	Male mental health and victim blaming I’ll frame it like this. My dad is gone. He was a good fucking human being to most people in the world but he was the dad that people dream of having. He was my person. So now I am out here in the world without my dad. So when the world is unkind or cruel, I don’t have my safe place to land anymore. That’s a vulnerability. I always knew no matter what trouble I got myself into, Daddy would be there even if it was just to let me vent. This world isn’t a good place for people raised in kindness. M…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 10:29 PM
2	Male mental health and victim blaming This is going to be so widely unpopular but here goes. This is another way that the patriarchy has failed men. If there were more male therapists, there may be a more willingness for men to open up. However one of the most common non medical therapists are licensed social workers. That work is considered women’s work so the initial salaries are pretty low and you need a masters and licensing to get to the counseling part made harder by how low the initial salary is. The work is not seen as worth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 10:20 PM
5	Male mental health and victim blaming I am the kid of a therapist. I wasn’t taught to have arguments that way. My biggest pet peeve is when someone gets off topic of the discussion. I will actually walk away. My tolerance for stuff like that is super low. Again the kid of a therapist that allowed me the full depth of emotions at a young age. Which is why I don’t date men who have a bad relationship with their father.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 06:43 PM
2	Male mental health and victim blaming Did you see where I said. I have never done it before and will don’t see myself doing it again. One person earned that behavior from me. I once dated a grown ass man who had kidney issues. He used to wet the bed. He used to always try to rush and change the sheets. I knew what happened but in never shamed him for it. I just had him go to the doctor and get medicine. I got him a water proof mattress cover. He knew that I knew. When we broke up. It wasn’t a thing. I never said it when we had disag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 05:52 PM
1	Male mental health and victim blaming I didn’t fantasize about it before I met the person that pushed me to that point. How we got there is in an argument he said at least his father was still alive on the anniversary of my father’s death. So yeah he earned that one. I have never done it in the past and I have never had to do it again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 05:31 PM
6	Would you rather marry a guy 20+ years your senior or remain single and childless for life? Single and childfree. I have been a caregiver to an ailing man. It was my father and I was honored to do it for him but he earned it by being an amazing father. There is no man that I would do this for again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 05:28 PM
4	Male mental health and victim blaming Which is why I said leave this behind in 2024. Two more days and then tell them to fix it themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 05:26 PM
9	Male mental health and victim blaming Where is that number from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 05:25 PM
5	Male mental health and victim blaming My dude. I read the paper and it still stands that until words are spoken, nothing gets fixed. Depressed people are told, hey you need to take charge of your care. Men do have assistance if they open their mouths. Have you ever heard the statement, closed mouths don’t get fed. That’s what happening here. You want to be fed while ignoring that you haven’t expressed you need to eat. No one can create anything if no one is willing to say anything. How do you expect any of this to be fixed? What do …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 05:25 PM
-1	Male mental health and victim blaming I’m not sure what this narrative around women not wanting to be vulnerable is all about. I hear it a lot but I honestly don’t know women who do this. Could be I don’t hang out with assholes. I don’t want vulnerabilities dumped on my lap with the expectation that I will fix them. I find that men and women use their partners vulnerabilities against the other especially in anger. So if he can dish it out but can’t take it and call a woman not be accepting then he should think before starting a figh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 05:00 PM
16	Male mental health and victim blaming How is it blaming to say, no one can change anything until someone opens their mouth. Until mind reading is created in the world, people have to communicate. How does anyone expect to get help if they say nothing? How is this a difficult concept?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 04:32 PM
35	Male mental health and victim blaming My dad was a therapist for years. Even if men don’t like to do the talk therapy route. Words need to be said to help explore the problem. One cannot address the problems if no words are said. You have to start somewhere. Would I blame a person with an eating disorder, no. But would I also make them responsible for starting by saying I have a problem and need help. What I read is that men don’t ask for help based on assumptions. They perceive mental health is only for women without entering into …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 04:03 PM
21	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics Ladies once again, what do you get out of engaging in this debate. You are simply providing fodder for revenge porn fantasies. There are plenty of answers to this question. Anyone who refers to woman as a product isn’t worth the data to respond and data is unlimited. You don’t need validation from grown men who are still trying to figure out life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 01:37 AM
–	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating This would be a great screed for anyone but me. I am probably one of the most vocal woman in this subreddit about how rape if young males is a big problem. I actually stand on business on that one all the time So you didn’t own me with that one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 07:56 AM
–	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating Oh it’s still taught. Here you go sir. https://www.aamc.org/news/how-we-fail-black-patients-pain https://globalhealth.harvard.edu/racial-bias-in-medicine/#:~:text=Race%2Dbased%20physiological%20myths%20have,to%20underestimate%20black%20patients’%20pain. Also most things known about gynecological behavior is because a white man practiced on enslaved women using no pain medicine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 07:12 PM
–	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating If only medical bias didn’t exist in this country. If only they weren’t still teaching that black people feel less pain. If only they weren’t adjusting for different markers for certain things. The problem is still a problem because of access to proper medical care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 09:50 AM
–	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating She literally said in red states abortion is favored. You said source. I gave you one? Where is the confusion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 08:34 AM
–	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating I like this. Males get nothing so women stop dating them. This works. Males with poor penis management are big mad they have to pay so now males are more big mad and want women to suffer. Sounds on par for the human male species.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 08:32 AM
–	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating I am 100% pro choice. Abortion is a medical procedure nothing more, nothing less. The problem I have with the way all of this is done is the astonishing lack of medical professionals being in the room while the rules are written. People are dying from sepsis, people are being forced to have children literally die in their uterus before procedures are done. People don’t understand ectopic pregnancies and women are suffering from that. The outcome if this continues is not less abortions, it women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 08:30 AM
–	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating Kansas a deeply red state voted to codify abortion rights into law sir.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 08:17 AM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. There is still a better use of time and effort. This echo chamber circle jerk of animosity to women is not going to serve any woman in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 12:48 PM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. It should become a space where men talk amongst themselves since they don’t care to listen anyway. Why do men even want women here? There is hardly anything kind or pleasant said in here about women except when it comes from men who are already partnered. Males have no concept of anything that doesn’t degrade women for any choice they made. Everything is a woman’s fault. They just want to pile on and make women feel like shit for not choosing the nice guy. To their own detriment the young women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 12:43 PM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. Go spend 20 minutes reading through here. I have literally read and responded and concurred with peoples idea in here. Things like men are victims of sexual assault and need to have more focus on that. Male children who are molested need more support than they are given. Males need more socialization than what they are getting. Where I draw the line is that women should try to fix it. These are male issues and males should lead the charge to fix it. And once again why should I care about anyone’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 10:11 AM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. A man should ask once and if told no then take the no. That’s it. It’s not hard or brain surgery. No is no. Again, the men I have in my life would never need to be told this or to have this conversation. That’s the difference. Grown ass men who have done the actual work of being adult humans don’t need to be explained this very simple concept. Since they understand this concept so well, they have access to way more sex. Women are happy to go out with them. Enjoy their company and if the night le…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 10:06 AM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. I have been one of the few women that give thoughtful analysis as well as even historic context for how things got so fucked because anyone under 30 has no context for why things are so difficult in the dating landscape. I give men the benefit of doubt on a lot of things. I give a complete roadmap on how to improve outcomes on things that serve the male population. I give feedback on things that are based on false narratives. There is no debate here. None of the males want to do anything but bla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 09:07 AM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. How many milligrams is your prescription for muscle relaxants? The amount of reaching you are doing must have your body in all kinds of knots. For the last time, if a woman has to be talked into sex then it’s not enthusiastic consent. If the choice is fuck so he will leave me alone or fuck so I can get out of here alive or fuck because he has me so emotionally manipulated that it’s easier to just say yes than that’s not enthusiastic consent. What I am not going to do is explain nuance to some of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 08:47 AM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. That’s a false analogy and you know it. Has anyone’s mind ever changed in here. Nope. It’s the same bitter arguments every day. Usually from the same men about how things are so unfair while doing nothing to fix anything. Anytime the solution that is reasonable for men to fix a problem, it’s always well women should help and if women don’t help we won’t care about their issues. Males already don’t care about their issues as seen in a post about enthusiastic consent. The only issue males want to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 08:24 AM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. I actually do. I have a few trusted friends that I hang out with and travel with. I have curated my life in such a way that not one person in real life would even think to ask some of these asinine questions. The fact that you are thinking this is a valid debate question is why women should leave men alone. Standards evolve and change and people learn better ways of doing things. Enthusiastic consent was decreed to remove the grey area that happens because of date rape or intimate partner rape. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 08:17 AM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. If you are a woman in this space. Let this week be the last week you explain anything to the males in here. They have been told and don’t care about almost anything. It’s time to stop giving them dissertations on anything related to male/ woman relationships. They have chosen to remain willfully ignorant on anything requiring a modicum of external thoughts outside of their own needs and desires. They know and don’t care. It’s time to stop engaging on anything related of these topics and stop eng…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 07:36 AM
2	Q4W: Who are your role models (real or ficticious)? Ida B Wells - investigative reporter and fought for black womans suffrage when white women left them behind Maggie Walker - First black woman to be president of a bank and then became a disability advocate after she was paralyzed Mary Church Terrell -one of the first black women to receive a college degree. Shirley Chisholm - first black woman in Congress. Ona Judge- she escaped George Washington after he decided he was going to bequeath her to someone else. She moved to New Hampshire and lived …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 07:52 AM
27	Would you date someone from the purple pill debate reddit ? No thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 01:47 PM
11	How would you react if you found out your husband had a son/daughter from a previous woman that he was unaware of I’m leaving. Want nothing to do with any of that drama. Don’t want new people around. I am gone. Good luck with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 05:47 PM
–	How Women Have Devalued the Role of Boyfriend in Modern Dating I don’t know about them but I am sure there are men out here who have salivated after them too. I look for men who have traits like my dad. I also use his tools he gave me when I first started dating. The only time I ever chose poorly was right after he died. Grief had me wearing blinders. Now even at my hit the wall age, men are still out here trying to date me or even in some cases marry me. Men want to be chosen as much as women do. Perhaps even more than women do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/24 04:27 PM
–	How Women Have Devalued the Role of Boyfriend in Modern Dating Feel free to do so. There has never been a day since I grew boobs that men were not available to me. Even quality ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/24 02:45 PM
–	How Women Have Devalued the Role of Boyfriend in Modern Dating You said a lot of words to say women are no longer pick mes and explore their best options. Do you think women should care about being chosen to be someone’s girlfriend? It’s not a sense of pride for me to have a man. They are the easiest things in the world to get. Quality or otherwise. Please let me know when we get to the chapter where I can be super excited about all the awesome stuff I have accomplished by myself and able to share my exuberance and pride over that. Men are men. They will al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/24 09:33 AM
–	Can you honestly claim modern feminism is about equality, or is it just about power? I am saying men need to start championing their own things that don’t require women to be in support or responsible for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/24 09:29 AM
10	Q4W: Do you think it's sexist/misogynistic/problematic for a man to fully avoid and decenter women? I think this is amazing for him. I am so excited he made that choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/24 12:50 AM
5	Can you honestly claim modern feminism is about equality, or is it just about power? I will say what I always say, when men start championing their issues not as a response to women’s issues but actually doing the work with a plan then they may get the attention they want so bad. Stop focusing on what is bad for men but great for women. Start focusing on what is bad for men and how can we help men. Male suicide is bad. What is the cause? How can we help that doesn’t require women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 06:03 PM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women I am not. I am pro-choice all the way. I am also for enforced child support if there is an income disparity and there is not 50/50 custody.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 08:30 AM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women Every single solitary person who makes a consensual decision to have sex has chosen to assume the risk that a child is a potential outcome. Once everyone comes to terms with that, it’s a matter of negotiations. Don’t want a baby, don’t have sex. It’s the most simple biological outcome known to man. All of this well men have no say. They did. They had a choice of whether to have sex or not. Considering they don’t have autonomy over another humans body, they should be doing the most consideration …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 09:56 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism It really ís that simple. Both parties have an assumption of risk when they engage in sex. If you don’t want a child, not having sex is the single best option. Then people start building on those options of protection. Start at forms of birth control and work from there. Do the risk analysis at every interval. Both parties have made a decision that an acceptable outcome of any sexual encounter is the potential of pregnancy. Once that risk is assessed and deemed acceptable all other risk analysis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 09:51 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism Men have the privilege of walking away. They become the weekend parent. You only consider it privilege because you value money over time. The time invested in keeping a child alive is way more than the actual financial costs. Why do men want to be repressed so bad? If you don’t want kids, don’t have sex. It’s literally that simple. If you don’t want to be on the hook for child support, the solution is so simple. Do not insert your penis into a vagina or even near a vagina.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 08:55 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism There are different options for men and women. I am not against abortion but that is a part if a woman’s risk analysis	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 07:23 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism All the opting out options happened before sex. Once you have sex you are held to whatever that outcome is. Your chance to not be on the hook for anything financially ends once you make the decision to have sex. Thats it. You have an option to not do it or to do it. Once you do it then you deal with the consequences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 03:45 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism Sex as a whole is a cost/benefit and risk/reward analysis. If people want access to sex then they have to do the math of it all. It’s another data point in relationship calculus. If men want access to sex then they do the risk/reward calculus. Is this a woman I want to have sex with? Yes. Is this a woman that I want to have as a potential partner? No. Do I still want sex? Yes. Is this woman capable of being a decent parent? Yes Do I want to have a child with this woman? No. Is having sex with th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 02:05 PM
70	Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects? Alright for the people who didn’t live life. If you are a late GenX or early Millennial there are some major shifts that happened in the dating landscape that is too often forgotten. The war on drugs. Mass incarceration was a big thing. It affected black and white men alike. So remove entire groups of men from the dating pool. There was the AIDS crisis. People forget it wasn’t just gay men dying. They were just the canary to the crisis. People remember crack but they don’t remember heroin which …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 10:28 AM
–	Q4W has Trump winning again made you think worse of men at large? We aren’t fragile. Just tired of dealing with the bullshit from white people who want to disqualify everything. Everything is a debate about our lived experience. It’s the same thing over and over and it’s never from a Genuine place. It’s always trying to be dismissive or to disqualify. So I especially give no time or credence to white women and their tears and their bullshit. I just don’t and they can stay mad about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 10:41 PM
0	How exactly do you think you can "sniff out bad personalities"? Please shut up. I don’t argue with white women about my lived experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 09:53 PM
1	How exactly do you think you can "sniff out bad personalities"? No. I am not trolling. You can do a basic google search and it will tell you it is a term that is used to define what marginalized people have to do in order to assimilate into the majority culture. It’s the most basic definition of the word. It is mostly used when discussing black people in the work place but has expanded to include other minorities. It is not the general overarching concept used by everyone to fit in. It has a specific meaning and usage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 05:26 PM
2	Q4W has Trump winning again made you think worse of men at large? Not explaining any of this. Have a good day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 05:21 PM
1	Q4W has Trump winning again made you think worse of men at large? And here we are not engaging with you. You figure it out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 04:15 PM
-2	How exactly do you think you can "sniff out bad personalities"? Please stop saying humans do this. Code-switching is a unique phenomenon found in black culture as a way for us to assimilate into society that is less accepting of AAVE and the language structures found in the black diaspora. Your use of that particular language is an erasure of a very particular group. It is not something humans do. It was a term coined specifically for the way black people have had to respond in the US and other Eurocentric spaces. You are trying to colonize a word and use it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 10:07 AM
1	Going through a hoe phase (or just having the ability to go through it) would fix most modern men's brainrot about women. I am misunderstanding. What exactly is a hoe phase. Is it fucking or dating? I dated a lot. I went on lots of first dates, a couple of second dates. Had some guys I dated for a few months and said nope. Was I having sex with these dudes. Nope. I was just out there exploring life. I was in my 20’s with a body that I earned from 5:00 AM PT and a lot of pushups. I dated a lot to see what was out there. That’s what your 20’s are for. Date around, see what you are compatible with. Date the shy guy, d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 10:56 AM
3	Q4W has Trump winning again made you think worse of men at large? I am going to say it. It has made me trust white women even less than I did before. The bar was low but it’s even lower now. They are not to be trusted. They lack any sort of moral integrity and will vote against their own self interest while lying about it. That’s why black women are sitting down, shutting up and letting them deal with the fall out. We don’t care about bracelets are feminist ideology. We are literally sitting back and letting white women use their tears to try to cry their way …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 10:39 PM
30	q4w: Being that women in the west fertility (number of babies born) has been declining, what solutions do you all propose to increase the fertility rate? Nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 07:36 PM
19	Older, single cat ladies are not who manospherians say they are Keeping a human alive is exhausting. It requires levels of sacrifice that slowly drains pieces of who you are. My dad had a wife and she was a piece of crap that I wouldn’t leave a rock in her care so the person who was supposed to care for him was incapable of doing so. I don’t like unknown variables so I prefer to direct my own care and to not lose myself. I choose to be selfish and explore everything life has to offer because time is not promised. My dad was one of the good ones. A honest to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 02:54 PM
67	Older, single cat ladies are not who manospherians say they are It’s the revenge porn aspect of it all. They want older cat ladies to be the ladies that either rejected them or rejected societal norms. There isn’t a lot of space or empathy for women who are on the other side of the same coin who are unconventionally attractive or got trapped by familial obligations. Those women don’t get care or consideration because they are women and life is on easy mode for all women. As a woman who is considered conventionally attractive but chose to care for an ill pare…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 11:39 AM
–	"You can change your weight, but we can't change our height" is a failed attempt to shame women's preferences I never care when men go overseas. I care when they make disparaging comments about women and think they will do better overseas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 10:01 PM
–	"You can change your weight, but we can't change our height" is a failed attempt to shame women's preferences Actually of them did. The men with kids also had a major case of narcissism. The men who made less were super resentful of my lifestyle. The short guy was just not fun and make everything else less fun because of his hang ups. The ugly guy tried to make me feel bad and lied on my character so I wouldn’t leave him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:56 PM
–	"You can change your weight, but we can't change our height" is a failed attempt to shame women's preferences Sir, if I wanted it to be a bad experience I would not have done it. I am not a masochist for gods sake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:54 PM
–	"You can change your weight, but we can't change our height" is a failed attempt to shame women's preferences Every single one of my preferences comes from a bad previous experience. Date men with kids, nope. Date men who make less money, nope. Date conservative men, nope. Date men below my height, nope. Date a dude not deemed attractive, nope. Every single time I give someone who goes against my norms it’s always an issue. So I just don’t anymore. Isn’t that what men say we should do. Learn and do better. So by process of elimination, men get crossed off the list.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 06:38 PM
0	How come feminsm treats men as having easy cushy lives when they are victims of the patriarchy too? The work that men don’t want to do like teachers, social workers, mental health pros, CNA’s, home health aides are all jobs that need to be done and are mostly done by women. If they didn’t get done society would crumble in some ways. However because it is deemed women’s work the salaries are laughable. Here’s a fun fact that no one believes but it is verifiable, CNA’s have the highest rate of workman comps claim over any job including construction. It is also 89% women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 03:38 PM
–	Does sex positivity have limits? Ya’ll are so young and cute and it shows. She is not the first porn star to do a stunt like this. Former Porn Star Houston did 500 men at one time. She was big on Howard Stern. It’s a gimmick and this is fringe. This isn’t sex positivity. This is the desperate attempt for a young woman to capitalize on her dying brand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 03:12 PM
13	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked I have said it time and time again in here. Men want attention to their issues with women doing the grunt work for them. I have stated several times, men need to define and declare what issues they want prioritized. If the issue is male mental health then what is the plan for fixing it. Not there’s a male mental health crisis, how do we fix it? When no-fault divorces became a thing and women needed to escape, domestic violence shelters became a thing and before that Nuns used to take care of wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 02:37 PM
4	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked I already did. Spent my time down range with an M-16. So now what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 02:24 PM
24	What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life? Nothing. They get married, have kids and go about their life. Some of them may have caught an STI like PID and may need IVF but generally nothing happens. I know some girls who did all the things. Like 2, 3 or 4 at once plus some extra extra things. She’s got some kids that she takes to volleyball. I know some strippers, married with kids and go to church on Sunday. I could tell you some stories and then some and then see them backing their mini van out of the garage right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 06:57 PM
-3	How come feminsm treats men as having easy cushy lives when they are victims of the patriarchy too? One of the big things I have always taken away from being a feminist is that men do suffer under the patriarchy but are unwilling to dismantle it because of the benefits they get from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 04:27 PM
–	We can at least agree that that too many women are addicted to taking pictures at the expense of ruining a moment I take a assload of pictures and never post them. When is the next time I am going to be in Bali getting my breakfast tray served to me in the pool. Those pictures have served me well. I went to this amazing hole in the wall place in New Orleans that had the best seafood ever. I couldn’t remember the name if I was paid a million dollars. However, I did manage to capture a pic of the menu that had the name and I was able to go back. People take pics to have a memory. One of the biggest things peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 10:58 AM
3	Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs? It takes work but I found people who match me very well. We travel together. Have friends events, show up for their kids if they have kids. Check in with each other. We all blend pretty well. It’s a good mix of men and women. It’s just a whole vibe. Once you find that group it makes life so much easier. Dinners aren’t weird or contentious, travel plans are easy. Even if people in the group date. It’s not weird when people break up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 07:26 PM
7	Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs? Well I am older and have had curated a really good friendship over the years. Most of those friendships have developed in such a way that we are all pretty like minded and share a lot of the same values. The one person who was part of that was someone I have known for a long time but didn’t speak to or hang out on a regular basis. He reached back out trying to reconnect and through his conversations I found out he was in the red pill space so I just faded to black.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 06:50 PM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning I don’t deserve anything except what I earn. That’s the bottom line for life in general. Treatment of that nature is earned behavior. That’s the problem now. It’s expected and not earned. I am giving nothing to anyone who comes into my life expecting to be treated a certain way while doing the bare minimum. My bare minimum and everyone else’s bare minimum are on a whole other level. So if a man asks me can I cook. Yes I can. Will I cook for you. Maybe if you earn it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 06:09 PM
14	Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs? I did the Irish farewell. I just gradually faded from his life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 03:58 PM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning I bring nothing but an acerbic wit, hyperfixations on things that interest me, too many suitcases and a stack of TBR books. If a man asks if I cook or clean that’s an automatic red flag. I went to culinary school and I still won’t cook for a man that asks me to do it. I am also black, we get a cleaning rag in our hand when we take our first steps. It’s offensive to ask me to be someone’s maid. When was the last time a man built a house out of logs that he cut down himself? How many home invasion…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 03:42 PM
14	in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problem There goes that word again. Accountability. Who do women owe accountability to? What exactly are they being accountable for? What is the expected outcome of this accountability?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 01:04 AM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are You do realize I am black right. I see you are a part of the not all men brigade. Did you bring your flag and trumpet player so you can march and be seen and heard. I find it fascinating how every woman I know has been the victim of sexual assault but no men know any predators. You don’t live as a woman so you can’t sit here and say this is all made up by you. The numbers don’t lie and unreported sexual assault was rampant in the 1980’s and 1990’s. Men were horrible to women. They would drive wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 11:23 PM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are No man has ever been able to articulate any sort of plan, strategy, synopsis or playbook that is based on reason on how men should be helped. That’s why women say it’s a man’s problem. Men cant even rank what their needs are. They have no structure around anything except well there’s a problem. All men say is women need to take accountability. That’s it. Accountability always looks like a return to a time when women had less choices. Men don’t say well we need more mental health support. They do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 08:40 PM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are If you say so. We also created an environment where women can thrive. Be whatever they want to be. Have choices that were closed to them and not be forced to marry the first man that breathes her way because he’s nice. Men always see anything not centered in them as bitterness. It’s not bitterness. It’s the ability to de center those relationships. Are men who GTOW bitter or are they just doing what works for them not focusing on women? It’s the same concept. In theory I love men. I had a great …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 06:06 PM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are Do you realize why women stopped being nice to the nice but ugly guy. Those ones were the worst. The nerdy guys were some of the worst to spread lies and gossip because he wanted to be the cool guy. They would make up stories about bow she was the biggest slut and because he had a reputation for being nice and she did him a favor and went on a date. Her reputation got dragged through the mud. So the medium ugly guys who could have been a good partner got left behind. Because why would anyone wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 04:42 PM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are The problem is that men are asking women to do the work for them. They want women to do whatever it is to help. There is no space for that. Women didn’t create this problem. Men did and it is up to men to fix it. Women started going to college at higher rates, why because men didn’t want to hire them so they made arbitrary decisions about certain jobs needing degrees. Well now that has come to bite men and women in the ass. These are problems created by men but are somehow asking women to fix it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 03:49 PM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are But the GenX guy who started the post gave all these reasons about why it’s so hard for men. My response was coming from that generation why it is so ass over head. GenX men did all of you younger men a huge disservice and instead of owning that and claiming it they want to sit in their relationships and say well I don’t know why men can’t date anymore. They fucked it up royally and made it so women distrusted everyone who didn’t have a full FBI screening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 03:39 PM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are So too young to understand to call it a ridiculous take. You didn’t live it. I clearly gave a timeline of what happened and how it happened. Your experience is based on a whole separate set of data facts. Social media was not a part of the dating landscape. Women were out here on a wing and a prayer he wasn’t a weirdo but women did give men chances if approached in the wild. We did go out with co-workers. We would go out with the guy we met at gas stations. We didn’t have a way to check his whol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 03:30 PM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are You are way too young to be a part of this conversation. You didn’t live it and you don’t know what you are talking about but have fun with your dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 03:16 PM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are As a fellow GexX here are things that you aren’t willing to address. Women from GenX were sexually assaulted at an alarming rate. The word Date Rape was created during our era because of the grey area of consent to being in a place doesn’t mean consent to sex. Not only were women being sexually assaulted but men were then destroying her reputation after they did it. They would start a whole whisper campaign of how easy some girl was and then the harassment started. I watched it happen on college…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 02:31 PM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". Ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 12:09 PM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". Ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 11:39 AM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". The bear is the better choice and so is being single. Women know you aren’t the only one who thinks like this. Your friends also know that’s how you think. You just think they don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 11:22 AM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". And that right there is why women don’t trust men. We know what you say is not what you think so there’s a reason why we don’t trust you. Why the bear is a better option, why being single is the better option. Your internal monologue about women is why nothing is trusted or believed. This is why is so frustrating to have men say well you should have chose better. This dude just proved why that’s an impossible task. His entire internal thought process is contrary to everything he says or does but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 10:37 AM
1	Q4W: how important is money when dating? At my age, I don’t date for potential. He needs to be established, have his own money, his own established career and be able to financially take care of himself. It he wants to participate in activities that I do then he needs to pay for himself. Things like travel not basket weaving. I don’t allow men to pay for first dates. They aren’t to be trusted with that much power. I prefer to date in my tax bracket or higher. I don’t have time to massage egos about them making less. I never want a man …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 02:57 PM
9	Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children? This is only a true statement because men die first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 11:34 PM
4	How Can We Improve Dating Sites? In this study right here black men are considered more attractive and most studies say mixed race faces are more attractive. Also black men are more attractive to white women and Asian woman are more attractive to white men https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886910004617 https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00221309.2017.1394811 https://www.mmo-champion.com/threads/1130463-New-Study-Finds-That-Humans-Are-Hardwired-To-Fancy-Other-Races	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 09:01 PM
4	How Can We Improve Dating Sites? It’s not though. It’s programmed that way because it only gets input from white programmers and their input is cherry picked from white preferences not human preferences. Then the worst of the worst people continue to feed it the same faulty data.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 06:04 PM
5	How Can We Improve Dating Sites? Not really but go off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 05:43 PM
-2	Do you have ideas for policies that will address mens' issues? Men are told to shut up when they try to attach a man’s issue as a rebuttal to a woman’s issue. If the issue is women being groomed. Men will say but what about boys being groomed. It’s never, boys being groomed is a problem, what can we do about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 03:31 PM
-1	Do you have ideas for policies that will address mens' issues? So don’t get into relationships and men can have all the free time they want. Sounds like a plan. I like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 03:29 PM
4	How Can We Improve Dating Sites? Nope. AI has already been proven to have bias against any race except white. https://www.ohchr.org/en/stories/2024/07/racism-and-ai-bias-past-leads-bias-future	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 03:17 PM
7	Traveling is such an unattractive and red flag trait in women For someone like me, I am willing to take on the responsibility of planning all the things for travel because I get enjoyment out of it. It’s my ADHD hyper focus. I usually have a schedule, packing list, travel itineraries and all the things. What I am not willing to do is to pay all the costs for a travel partner. At this point your ADHD has become the crutch you use to not try. I am unmedicated and late diagnosed. The driving part I can get. It can hard to do it but the cooking part, that’s a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 11:34 AM
16	Traveling is such an unattractive and red flag trait in women I don’t have the means to travel so I want to piss on people who do. I don’t have the time to travel so I piss on people who do. I don’t get to do cool things so I piss on people who do. She didn’t wait for me to accrue enough time so I can go. She has more vacation time than me. I couldn’t cover my half of the trip so she went with her best friend and I am big sad. Dude if you can’t afford to travel or don’t have the time to travel that’s fine but for people who are travelers they won’t stop. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 08:35 AM
4	When Will Start Recognizing Womens Sexual Abuse You know how men always say that women support each other and leave men to figure it out themselves. This is one of those times when men can step up and say all the words they want about this. In fact men should make this a hot button item. There are way too many men that are sexually molested and abused by close friends of the family. Then they act out. They become hyper sexual, very angry, mistrustful of all relationships. It’s a very sad thing when a male child is sexually molested. Men shoul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 09:35 PM
12	When Will Start Recognizing Womens Sexual Abuse Yes they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 09:29 PM
3	Do you think men are less attentive? Do you think this woman was wrong to decline her engagement due to her bf’s plan? The idea that someone would propose in front of a big crowd with a lot of hullabaloo is torture to me. So if a man chose to do that I would say no. Thats showing a complete lack of regard for my feelings. I hate that kind of attention and if you know me you know I would hate it. No matter how many tingles he may get from it, doing something I actively hate shows we are not compatible. He was told and decided, I am going to just do what I want instead of considering the other person. It’s a lack …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 08:58 PM
4	Conservative women are MUCH better to date than progressive women, and all men should avoid dating progressive women entirely. Date who you want. Fuck who you want. Nobody really cares.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 06:10 PM
10	If your husband/partner suddenly became disabled and required care, would you keep the relationship the way it is or make compromises/leave? Unless you have ever done the job of a full time care giver for a person with extensive needs you will never know how you will react. It is exhausting, thankless and isolating. You can love someone with every bit of your soul and be so overwhelmed that you wish for a way to escape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 12:18 PM
–	Unpacking Consent and Gender: a Humanistic Exploration No one is reading your pitch for a novel. Concise is way better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 07:28 PM
–	Does the vagina look the same after birth? I did. I asked are you really thinking about “diminishing quality of intimacy” if a woman has given birth to your child. Is that an actual thought? There isn’t anything for me to settle down about? Either you think this or you don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 03:20 PM
–	Does the vagina look the same after birth? WTF. Are you seriously saying well, I may not get the same types of orgasms because she birthed my kid. Seriously WTF. You really think that. You aren’t actually joking? I am being dead serious, you are really concerned about the state of the vagina after a kid passes through it and your diminished quality of intimacy? People really think like this? I promise I am not being sarcastic, this is an actual thought when a woman is having a baby?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 02:33 PM
–	Does the vagina look the same after birth? If you are genuinely scared about childbirth then you are very valid in your reasoning. If you are scared about childbirth because your vagina may look less pretty for a man then you have bigger issues. Yes your vagina can tear. Yes they stitch it up but it’s usually the area near the perineum. Yes your labia may have extra blood and stretch. Yes it will probably go back but it may not. If a man is worried about the state of your vagina after giving birth to his child, is that a man you want?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 01:51 PM
2	Why Are Progressives So Bad at Marketing Their Values? Religion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 11:44 PM
2	Is it not advisable for men to date when un or underemployed No one should be dating broke. Man or woman. It’s gross to enter into a relationship as an adult when you cannot take care of yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 06:39 AM
6	Women should be more nice to men or else men will democratically vote away their rights. Right now I am not a serial killer. I have no reason to be a serial killer. There is nothing that says oh kill someone today. The tipping point for me would be being subjugated to be nice to a whole set of people whose just want to get their dick wet and are mad they don’t have friends. That would push me to the point that says, absolutely not and while I am at it let me take some of these folks out. You want me to be subjugated so you can get a smile and a date. Enjoy your date with a dash of a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 10:19 PM
6	Women should be more nice to men or else men will democratically vote away their rights. Because why would I wait. I am going to get them before they even consider me. The stabbing will commence immediately. Saving myself doesn’t mean they won’t eventually come for me. It’s just a when. So nope I am being the aggressor as often as possible. I might be able to get away with it for a while too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 08:23 PM
–	Do you think it aligns with liberal progressive beliefs to view men as inherently more dangerous or predatory? Every definition of “woke” is from an etymology standpoint point wrong. Woke is derived from a common greeting among Black Panther Party members, “Stay Woke”. It was in reference to outside influences like the FBI and the Oakland police department trying to infiltrate the party after the assassination of Dr. King and Malcolm X when they decided to arm themselves. It was a reminder to stay alert and aware that everyone that is claiming to be a part of the cause is not truly there for the right re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 08:01 PM
12	Women in American society are poor prospects. Do we give a fuck. No we do not. Date who the fuck you want. We do not care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 07:54 PM
11	Women should be more nice to men or else men will democratically vote away their rights. Not if I am the aggressor. If the world becomes a play where I have to be nice. I am stabbing first and asking questions later. I don’t drink random drinks from people. I don’t go out because I have a whole house with everything in it I need. I promise, I am stabbing first. I am also not white so I am less likely to be a target anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 07:52 PM
14	Women should be more nice to men or else men will democratically vote away their rights. Then I will go out stabbing and shooting. There is nothing on this earth that will make me “be nice” to have basic human rights and freedoms. I will stab, poison, murder, and maim. If the choice is my rights as a human or taking out as many as I can then I am going full on Dexter. This is a gross ass sentiment. Be nice, go on dates, smile to make men feel better. What the fuck is that all about? I hope I can get a posse of other stabby folks to go around and just randomly stab folks until we are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 07:20 PM
12	Women should be more nice to men or else men will democratically vote away their rights. If the choice is being nice as defined by OP or stabbing, I’m going with stabbing. I may go to jail but at least I won’t be a free use bang maid. Free stabs for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 03:34 PM
1	CMV: More women should join the 4B movement in the US Sir I am a whole black ass woman. What you won’t do is tell me that I don’t live this live and know exactly what the fuck I am talking about. Woke is a word stolen by white conservatives to describe any policies they don’t agree to. It’s literally stolen from the Black Panthers. So please miss me with the go touch grass it’s not racist. We always know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 04:41 PM
2	CMV: More women should join the 4B movement in the US She wouldn’t make it past the primaries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 04:39 PM
1	CMV: More women should join the 4B movement in the US They were wiling to accept the black male. Thats patriarchy. Let me introduce you to a word called intersectionality. What that word means is that there are interconnected ways that discrimination can happen. A black man is combatting racism but he still has patriarchy and misogyny on his side. A white women will battle sexism but still have racism on her side. A black woman will have to battle racism, sexism and misogyny and patriarchy. Do you see how that works. The overlaps of the isms is wha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 02:52 PM
0	CMV: More women should join the 4B movement in the US Nope. It’s racism. Hilary won the popular vote. One thing white folks are going to learn to do is stop telling black people, it isn’t what you think it is. Until you have walked around with black skin and know what’s happening under the surface stop saying it can’t be that. This country is racists AF and if you can’t see it with all the shit happening I don’t know what to tell you. Even in here with your little preferences. That’s based in the concept of white supremacy. For everyone saying well…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 02:41 PM
2	CMV: More women should join the 4B movement in the US They voted for Joe Biden to be president. They didn’t vote for her to be vice president.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 02:35 PM
2	CMV: More women should join the 4B movement in the US I don’t know why people always dance around this topic. You will do anything to not say the thing to make yourselves feel better. It’s racism. White women voted against their own interest because the idea that a black woman would get the presidency before a white woman was too big of a stretch. Kamala had to go against racism, sexism and misogyny. White women were willing to vote for Obama because he was a man but hell would freeze over before they let a black woman get one over on them. Imagine…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 11:18 AM
–	Im a trump voter and am not proud is there any redemption arch? Nothing will change for you. The women in your area are fine with it. Be fine with what you did just leave other people alone about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 05:00 PM
2	Not men's fault (re-upload due to lock, reason has been rectified) Black women are blaming all of ya’ll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 10:15 AM
0	Most men and women are cowardly in dating and relationships This is young people mentality. I tell people all the time, no thank you and move on. I am not explaining my decision so if someone feels that is ghosting that is them but no thank you happens early and often. It’s too hard to keep up with lies. I didn’t get the be quiet gene. So if I don’t like it I say it and then I leave. I won’t be bothered to do things or be around people I don’t like. I am never having bad sex. People are too scared to have sex discussions before they get in bed leading to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/24 03:38 PM
0	Dating is about to get much worse for average men in the USA You’re a 19 year old virgin with zero social skills. You are already left behind and don’t even know it yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/24 07:06 PM
32	US women are not at any significantly higher risk of maternal mortality than the rest of the developed world Why are you arguing with a man about maternal anything? Stop fucking men and getting pregnant. They don’t care and will use any method to convince you are wrong about it. The author of this study is a pro natal family institute weirdo. Also not for nothing but black women die at 49.5 per 100,000k births. They gloss over that number every single time. Stop birthing babies. Get a rose and actually have orgasms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/24 02:56 PM
6	Dating is about to get much worse for average men in the USA Men who lean conservative are already lying on dating apps and when they are found out they get ghosted. Even their little tricks like saying they are apolitical or don’t like to talk politics are big red flags.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/24 03:42 AM
-1	Guys here refuse to believe any behavior can be creepy and/or hinder one’s social life. If more men than women think it’s creepy then it’s probably creepy. The men think it’s awesome. Women consistently say it isn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 05:31 PM
-1	Guys here refuse to believe any behavior can be creepy and/or hinder one’s social life. Creepy is not subjective. From an outsider looking in it may appear the behavior is overlooked but it’s not and charismatic dudes are so used to getting away with it that they double down on their aggressively creepy behavior making it harder for a woman to extricate herself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 05:17 PM
0	Guys here refuse to believe any behavior can be creepy and/or hinder one’s social life. A lot of men do know when they are being creepy but choose to use the politeness or fear that is instilled into young women as their buffer. It’s peak selfish behavior. A woman’s discomfort is way less important than their goals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 04:58 PM
–	Do you know who your dating Ally is? White women treat other women like it is a moral failing. Black women have consistently been telling other black women to De-center men and to not date. This group has a very big problem with separating the dating dynamics and desires of black and white people in the US. The rules of engagement are not the same. Even the way women interact with each other is not the same. So every angsty story of how men are treated are because of who you are pursuing and not the method in which you are pursuing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 09:32 PM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 12:22 PM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Please show me where funding was stolen from prostate cancer? Also I am never having children so circumcision means nothing to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 12:18 PM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Boys won’t become less illiterate because the same education model will be followed. To be frank boys and girls should not be in co-Ed schools when they are young. Their learning styles are too different and boys are punished for it. As a girl who went to all girl schools and have male friends who went to all boy schools when they started school, those boys have a better understanding of the basics as well as better studying habits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 12:07 PM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. In case you didn’t know. Two common STI’s can cause blocked fallopian tubes. They are Chlamydia and Gonnorhea. The first one has almost no symptoms in women and men. The second usually shows symptoms in men but far milder symptoms in women commonly assumed to be yeast jnfection until it becomes Pelvic Inflammatory Disease. Women get Pelvic Inflammatory Disease and it creates a water sac in the fallopian tube which if left untreated causes infertility. Here’s a lovely reference just for you. http…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 11:58 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Do you really think that money is going to be invested in things that benefit men more. The playbook they have is all about protecting young women. I read all 900+ pages of it. They want to allow young men to start working dangerous jobs sooner with less protections. Thought you would be a farmer and get more benefits. Nope. Less help for small rural farms. Men have some of the highest rates of conditions like heart disease, high cholesterol, high blood pressure etc. Well they want to get rid of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 11:37 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. In 100 days there wasn’t much they could do to act on it. They had to choose. We also know there is a population of me who were never going to vote for a black woman. That was lost. She had the albatross of Joe Biden on her back but couldn’t toss him to the wolves. No amount of facts were going to change certain perspectives. Groceries are expensive because of corporate greed. Not inflation. They all admitted it when they put out their earnings reports but it’s easier to say nebulous inflation v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 11:25 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. I have never in my life glorified white women. They are the least to be trusted of everyone here in this country. As much as every man in here thinks they wield all the power they don’t. They wield the power that their proximity to white men allows them to have. They use men as their shield and their weapon. They were the worst perpetuators of actually killing slaves because that’s the only property they could own. So they have a general disdain for black people because they were taught that the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 11:20 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. It doesn’t happen on the same scale. The talk that black parents give to girls is don’t be spreading your legs for every body. The conversation is very detailed about what happens if you have a baby and how little support you will get if you squander this opportunity and get pregnant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 10:54 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Do you realize that the last place one can get proper abortion care on the east coast is Virginia. So West Virginia, Kentucky, Tennessee, North Carolina, South Carolina, GA, and Florida have massive restrictions on abortions. There are a lot of people impacted there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 10:36 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. This will reverberate back on men. Don’t think it won’t. This is going to be bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 09:42 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. No White women did not show up. Black women overwhelmingly did. I don’t know why this freaking subreddit keeps forgetting that black women exist. 92% of black women voted for Harris.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 09:41 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. As a black woman, I will not help a mother freaking soul except other black women. I am done. This tyrant will punish black women the most and nobody will care because we don’t have the social capital to do anything about it. Reagan labeled black women as welfare queens and everyone followed that narrative. Black women as a whole have usually held some of the most socially conservative values because of the black church. When black girls go to college, the drinking and partying and spreading our…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 09:38 AM
–	Women: You're dating a guy and find out he's excited to attend a "White Dudes for Kamala" event. Do you question his sexuality? I would be excited. He might get some oral treats.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 03:50 PM
2	Do you generally heed the advice that your father (assuming he has your best interests at heart) gives when it comes to interacting with men? Why or why not? Probably older than you and I am the rich guy. I take care of myself. I don’t have kids, I don’t want kids. I own my house, car and travel all the time. Dad appreciated that about me too. He was happy as long as I was happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 02:38 PM
6	Do you generally heed the advice that your father (assuming he has your best interests at heart) gives when it comes to interacting with men? Why or why not? My dad was not blue pill at all. He was actually very conservative and raised me to be a wife and mother. However he also gave me skills to make it in this world in case that didn’t happen. He wanted to protect me from the weirdos who would take advantage of my kind heart and softness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 02:19 PM
1	Women can have it all Men have been able to have it all because of the unpaid labor of women. They don’t like hearing it but that’s kind of how things have played out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 01:51 PM
5	Do you generally heed the advice that your father (assuming he has your best interests at heart) gives when it comes to interacting with men? Why or why not? We lived in a state and area that a car was a requirement. I have had a car since I was 16 so he didn’t want me to get in the habit of dating men who wanted access to me because I had a car. There was logic behind it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 01:40 PM
5	Do you generally heed the advice that your father (assuming he has your best interests at heart) gives when it comes to interacting with men? Why or why not? My dad was amazing. He gave great advice because in his field of work he saw some of the worst that humanity had to offer as a social worker. My dad’s rules have alway served me well. Anyone who has a past of domestics violence, automatic no. Any man who doesn’t have a relationship with their father, no. Any man with pervasive long term mental health issues automatic no. Any man with kids, no. Any man who allows his mother too much influence no. Men with no male friends, no. Men with no car, no.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 12:29 PM
2	You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else. I think on the women’s side there will be less anxious women, probably more productivity at night, generally a population that is happier and healthier. All female populations in general are less judgmental of each other and overall friendlier to each other. On the men’s side, I don’t know. I don’t know what men do when they are alone and don’t have to think about women. They may be happier too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 01:15 AM
2	You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else. I have my own house with my own yard. I am fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 04:50 PM
3	You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else. They had magazines. I know what people did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 04:49 PM
3	You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else. Separate men and women. Men can have whichever side of the country they want and women will take our side. That way, we don’t have to deal with each other. If anyone wants to be together, they can go to one of those middle states and mingle there. Leave everyone out of it who wants out of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 03:07 PM
3	You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else. Who does that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 03:03 PM
5	You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else. I would be in jail. I hate being around people and doing mandatory fun day. I don’t ever want to be around people I don’t choose to be around. I am an introvert for a reason and would prefer to never be forced to interact with people I don’t know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 03:02 PM
5	Politics and dating is so annoying If that were true you wouldn’t have a president that raised the deficit to give tax cuts to the rich. We have companies like Amazon and Walmart as the biggest recipients of welfare in this country by allowing them to pay wages so low that employees qualify for food stamps. If you wanted to raise tax dollars, the minimum wage could be raised. The services that are being cut always disproportionately affect the groups that don’t have anyone lobbying for them. It is done out of malice because if it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 05:01 AM
6	Politics and dating is so annoying Because most conservatives have brought into most of the ideas that black people haven’t earned the things they have on their own merits. They are against any policy that they deem gives black people an unfair advantage. They honestly believe that black people are given handouts just for being black. They are hell bent on destroying anything that benefits anyone who is non white. They want to roll back voting rights and they are really enamored with gerrymandering. Voting rights that had to be f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 12:07 AM
7	Politics and dating is so annoying Are you going to pretend that I would be a guest to anyone on the other side? A black woman, please. The jokes write themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 11:37 PM
7	Politics and dating is so annoying I won’t even be friends with people on the other side of the political spectrum let alone lick a penis belonging to one. I would feel so gross that I allowed them into my space.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 08:06 PM
6	Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men? You may not want to stand ten toes down on the women’s suffrage movement. Those women were actively racists and disenfranchised all the black women that were a part of the movement to get what they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 06:22 PM
2	do women and girls need more protection than men and boys? Conservatives want to control everyone and usher in a country of judeo Christianity which goes against Eve this country was founded on. They want men to believe everything was better when the men were in charge and women stayed home. It wasn’t. It was all built on a lie. Men were working themselves into an early grave. Men were dying from heart failure and cirrosis of the liver They want to erase entire swaths of the population. My dad as a social worker had the hardest kids to place. The medica…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/24 04:08 PM
1	do women and girls need more protection than men and boys? The protections that they are trying to offer girls is no protection at all. Lowering the marriage age with parental consent, contesting the abortion pill being mailed, monitoring periods and reducing access to birth controls are methods of control and allow for more women to be abused. Banning books, putting the Bible in schools, removing fact based sexual education and promoting abstinence only are all things that protect no one. Don’t say gay bills or anything that doesn’t teach about alterna…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/24 03:05 PM
19	Why are men unwilling to date single moms I would never date a man who has children. Single parents in general see childfree people as a resource they can use at their discretion. I don’t recommend it to either sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 03:03 PM
2	To women, how would you feel if your partner spent a lot of money on his past partners but is relatively frugal with you? Yes. Because sexual acts is not the same as someone being a generous partner. I don’t care how you men try to spin it. I am not getting fucked in the ass because you found out I did it once as an experiment and hated it. This is why so many of you are single. You want everything to be this black and white tit for tat transactional thing. Well she did it for that guy why not me? For a multitude of reasons and none of them are remotely related to her feelings about you. If you want a partner that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/24 12:20 AM
1	Trad wife movement should be encouraged. I would 100% be a childfree trad wife. If you add kids to then I am out. However, I am an ingredients house. So I already know how to cook. I was raised by an old black grandmother, no one will ever out clean me. My hospital corners are some of the best. My dad taught me the power of networking so I am always at a party gathering information to be used at a later date. I am living the life of a trad wife now except just for me. I am on sabbatical for another six months. Right now I am baking bre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 05:03 PM
7	To women, how would you feel if your partner spent a lot of money on his past partners but is relatively frugal with you? If I know he is capable of doing more and chooses to do less for me then I am leaving. I am not accepting scraps because he had poor judgment before. Any woman would be a fool to take leftovers and should have more self respect than this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 03:58 PM
27	Sometimes it's Okay to blame the Victim I feel the same way about men. What did you expect when you went after the vapid pretty girl and then had kids and then you became complacent. It’s kind if expected that she would go to court and take your money and your kids. You wanted the pretty arm piece so you got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 11:04 AM
4	Q4W: Have you ever "calmed down" or become less sexual as you got older? It’s manageable. If you knew women and their cycle then you know that there are times when sex is on the brain more than other times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 08:18 PM
7	Q4W: Have you ever "calmed down" or become less sexual as you got older? When I am in a non dating phase, I am fine. When I am dating someone, then it increases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 05:22 PM
3	Ladies, how would you feel/react to a situation like this? I already do have a job and pay for my entire self as I have done most of my life. I don’t allow men to pay for things because they are usually entitled brats but if someone is going to complain about $10 for coffee, that is strictly loser mentality and deserves to be single. Who is quibbling over $10? How does that even calculate in someone’s mind? Let me make sure she’s not a gold digger by complaining about $10. That’s weirdo thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 02:49 PM
2	Ladies, how would you feel/react to a situation like this? We also have a name for people who penny pinch. The fact that men are so caught up on this not wanting to pay for a date. It’s so sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 08:39 AM
0	Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy. Healed men are sexy. Men who have been in therapy to deal with their issues are sexy. Men who do consistent mental health check ins are sexy. It ranks up there with regular dental appointments and STI screenings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 02:44 AM
6	Ladies, how would you feel/react to a situation like this? Considering that I have paid for dates, if you are going to quibble about $10 then you aren’t the type of man I am willing to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 02:40 AM
7	The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debate I guess. I live in an area where that is found very easily. I am 5’4 and have only dated one man below 6’ my entire life. I don’t even have to try hard. It’s really about the location.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 08:03 PM
15	Ladies, how would you feel/react to a situation like this? Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 07:25 PM
18	Ladies, how would you feel/react to a situation like this? For $10 I am going home and blocking. It’s so stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 06:40 PM
24	The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debate Or meet them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 05:46 PM
1	Women, what’s the one quality in a man that instantly makes you interested? I was not even thinking about him because I knew what he was trying to do. He wanted to get a rise out of me and bait me into an argument so I can prove to him how wrong he was about me. They live for that. Beg me to see how much value I have. I won’t ever play with a man who is below my value in all things. He couldn’t match my lifestyle on his best day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 12:23 PM
3	CMfV: Most abortions constitute child sacrifice I am never arguing with a man about abortion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 09:29 PM
3	Women, what’s the one quality in a man that instantly makes you interested? If that’s what you have experienced then I am sorry for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 12:25 PM
3	Women, what’s the one quality in a man that instantly makes you interested? Yeah ok. Enjoy your day sir. I will enjoy mine doing all the things you think I don’t do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 09:46 AM
3	Women, what’s the one quality in a man that instantly makes you interested? Ahh. You are that guy. Sad life so hate on people with a good one. It must be exhausting to exist and be so envious of everything all the time. On my next trip to a third world shit hole country, I won’t think of you at all while drinking my pineapple mimosa while learning something new that I didn’t know before. How are you hating outside the club.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 12:10 AM
2	Women, what’s the one quality in a man that instantly makes you interested? Yeah, I think you may have me confused with someone else. Considering the life I have now and the life I have led, I would probably exceed most expectations of your definition of worldly. It’s always amusing to me how people have such an issue with learning new things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 12:06 AM
2	Women, what’s the one quality in a man that instantly makes you interested? So your assumption is that I am not worldly why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 11:52 PM
2	Women, what’s the one quality in a man that instantly makes you interested? Yeah ok. What is your definition of worldly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 11:45 PM
12	Women, what’s the one quality in a man that instantly makes you interested? Smart. Like extra, extra smart and curious. Curiosity is an undervalued quality in people. If you aren’t curious, you don’t grow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 04:34 PM
1	As far as dress sense and outfits go, what is your favourite type of clothes on your man or on men in general? I prefer men who dress a bit more European vs American. Not a big fan of tennis shoes, jerseys, baseball caps, lots of denim, Timberland boots etc. I do love a man with some dark jeans, some Chelsea boots, button down collared shirt with a sweater and a 3/4 length coat. Suits, I prefer well tailored, crisp white shirt, cufflinks vs button sleeves but I hate white collars and sleeves on a colored shirt. Well shined shoes. If they are going to wear grey sweatpants not too baggy with a thermal long…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 04:16 PM
2	50/50 maybe fair, but it doesn't feel fair which is why it doesn't tend to work If I am doing any task that can be outsourced for money that the other person is not doing then my contribution declines. If I cook and they don’t and the cost of hiring a cook is X dollars then that’s what I am not paying. If I do the laundry and the cost of laundry is X that’s another reduction. I am not doing more daily tasks as a comparison to big tasks like yard work and being told it equals out. No it doesn’t and the financial costs of it tells the truth. Yard work is $260 per month if I p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 04:08 PM
3	Women have an advantage over men in the ability to earn by sex work This is not new news. Female porn stars have always out earned men. It has always been known as the one industry where men are not paid the same. Penis is plentiful. Men willing to show their penis is plentiful. Women willing to show their vagina not as plentiful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 12:44 PM
1	Women Discriminate Against Single Dads Much More Than Guys Do with Single Moms I dated a single dad once. I would rather walk across brown glass than ever do that again. Single dads see childfree women as a resource. It’s a resource of time, money, and effort. Why would a woman who does not have children sign up for that knowing what the potential pitfalls are. Who willingly signs up for a life of less fun, less freedom and less options? No sane person should do that unless they are looking for a soft place to land. The double edged sword of step parent taking on all the r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 04:13 PM
-2	Would you stay in a relationship if you were not the best sex of your partner's life? How do you know you aren’t the best? Did you ask or did she tell you? If you asked then you got the answer you deserve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 08:05 PM
3	Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men? I don’t care what anyone has done before they met me sexually. It’s none of my business. I don’t care because they are taking an STI screening anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 11:19 AM
-1	How would you react if your son was accused of SA, and he denied it? The one thing me and my brother were told was to never put yourself in situations where your character or judgement can be called into question. A series of choices gets you to the space where SA is even on the table connected to your name. It could be his choice of friends, it could be his choice of girl, it could be his choice of activity but a series of choices got him there. My job as a parent would be to teach my child to not put themselves in situations where this could happen. So yeah, it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 10:08 AM
4	How would you react if your son was accused of SA, and he denied it? Knowing people the way I know people and watching how entire families cover up for the pdf’s in their family, I would look at my kid some kind of way if he was accused of SA. I know someone who was SA’s by her own sibling and her mother didn’t believe her until they were in therapy so I am going to say that I don’t put anything past anyone. Externally, I would tell my kid, something happened where you have displayed a stunning lack of judgement and character that this has come up as even somethi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 08:45 AM
2	Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one. The revenge plot for free women is always they are lonely. That’s their biggest man boner. If you don’t do enough to get chosen you will be lonely. It doesn’t work the same way for women. It never has. Even before women left the church en mass they had their church friends that they could hang out with and they became godparents to children and had a whole community of folks that they created. Now women are creating whole communities for themselves where they hang out and create these communitie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 07:09 PM
1	Is it frustrating being physically weak compared to men? No. I have guns.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 07:01 PM
1	Women hate sluts more than men do The scenario I just described is not misandry. You are talking about the show. I moved past it. Read what I read. It is 100% patriarchy. It is men who created this dynamic that men can’t be raped or molested. It’s men who laughed when and gave the pat on the shoulder when they found out the boys first sexual experience is with his mom’s best friend. It’s male police officers who won’t take a police report when a man is raped. Until men can come to terms with the idea that there are harmful thing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 02:57 PM
2	Women hate sluts more than men do I find that society does not pay enough attention to the sexual exploitation of young boys enough. I am always very vocal about it. The harm that it causes to young boys and men is on the same level as it is for young women without the protections of societal outrage. So young boys and youngish men should not be prey for women. It is not spoken about often enough but there are plenty of men even in here I am guessing that have been molested by women in their lives. This sets them up for a lifeti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 02:13 PM
4	Women hate sluts more than men do I would have a problem with that as I have clearly stated in here. I have a problem with women being predatory as much as men. I am vocal about it. It’s morally wrong. The laws in France may be different for age but the show is marketed to a US audience and should not showing that as an acceptable relationship. I find it gross.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 01:36 PM
2	Women hate sluts more than men do I have never watched that show.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 01:28 PM
–	Women are allowed to blame their looks over bad dates or lack of them and its valid, but with men, it's always invalidated. Nope. You have never seen me say anything about men with small peen. I barely discuss peen size because it’s a nonissue for me. It was not me except if I said well women can want what they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 10:39 AM
2	Women hate sluts more than men do Right. I don’t care any woman does with her vagina as long as she is not abusing teenage boys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 10:29 AM
–	Women are allowed to blame their looks over bad dates or lack of them and its valid, but with men, it's always invalidated. I know for a fact that I validated men with small peen in this very subreddit. One of the best experiences I had was with a man with a very below average peen but he had charisma, a really nice smile, he was a gentleman. When we did the act, I knew it was small but it hit the exact spot every single time. It was about the size of my pinky finger but our parts matched where it hit the right spot coming and going. He was also really good at foreplay and oral so it was a good time had by both. We d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 10:27 AM
–	Women are allowed to blame their looks over bad dates or lack of them and its valid, but with men, it's always invalidated. How would I know your penis is small on the first date?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 09:28 AM
6	Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one. No thanks. I like it over here solo. I really do. I honestly can’t think of 10 things I need a man for. One of the benefits of having an active and present dad. All the things men say they do in a house. I was taught how to do it. Last week my garbage disposal was acting weird, I fixed it myself because my dad taught me how to trouble shoot it. I can change tire, put up Sheetrock, run my snowblower, hang televisions. Pretty much all the things men say they do for the benefit of the house and the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 09:14 AM
10	Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one. I respect the work that women do as mothers despite them having to do it with men. Having a useless male partner makes having children harder not easier and the amount of men who are unwilling to admit that men are not out here being the bastions of support they claim to be is why I would never have a child. I would never give anyone the benefit of my domestic labor so he can reap the rewards of sane happy healthy kids standing there like he did something on their wedding day. Absolutely not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 08:55 AM
2	Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one. Never married succeful woman every single scenario. Nothing about being a wife or mother is appealing to me. Birthing kids is the biggest gamble you will ever take in life. Every thing can be going fine and then you have a horrible birth accident and then your child needs full time care. Or you get a kid that hates everything you like in life and then you have to pretend you like it so the kid won’t grow up hating you. You could get a kid with some version of long term mental health issues. And …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 08:50 AM
14	CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother. Everyone has shades of things in their life. On certain morality things, i am a very staunch believer in doing the right thing. Lying about the father of your kid is a pretty horrible thing to do. I am also on the side of if you get found out you deserve whatever justice is meted out to you. I am also a firm believer in fuck those kids when people try to guilt you into staying when you were trapped into it. I wouldn’t owe those kids anything and would forget they existed but that’s just me. Doin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 12:35 PM
36	CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother. I am a woman who is not duplicitous so this wouldn’t be my issue. I am so petty I would leave the country if she even tried.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 10:50 PM
45	CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother. If I were a man, I would leave and never speak to her or that kid again. I am also incredibly good at cutting people off and never thinking of them. I would probably also sue and tell everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 09:17 PM
0	People who move on immediately after a breakup aren’t “filling a void due to your absence” they simply just don’t care, especially about you. Guess you haven’t spent much time on planet earth. Men are most dangerous when women are trying to leave them. So yeah once she has figured out it is done she should be quiet until it’s time to leave. The statistics don’t lie. If I need to the the villain so I can get out safely oh well I’ll do that. But no one is pretending everything is ok. She has stopped talking to you, she has stopped having sex with you. She has stopped including you in her life. Big red signs that say something is wrong. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 11:40 PM
0	People who move on immediately after a breakup aren’t “filling a void due to your absence” they simply just don’t care, especially about you. It’s not. I am there until I am not. I am not arguing, asking begging or cajoling an adult. He got the ask. He didn’t respond. He gets left emotionally first and then physically. If he were smart or even a decent partner he would recognize but since he didn’t respond to the first asks why would anyone assume he would recognize when her emotions shift. It takes time to leave a relationship. Women just process their emotions while executing a plan. It’s never smart to tell someone hey I am leaving…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 08:38 PM
2	People who move on immediately after a breakup aren’t “filling a void due to your absence” they simply just don’t care, especially about you. Nobody makes an agreement to be unhappy and try to wait for the other person to get their shit together. I have never in my life agreed to stay with someone through the bad of their own misdeeds. Breakups don’t have to be mutual. No one is a hostage in a relationship. I will never stay with someone because they cannot be bothered to fix their behaviors. You don’t fix the behavior after you have been told it’s a problem I am leaving. I will never have my time wasted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 04:45 AM
1	People who move on immediately after a breakup aren’t “filling a void due to your absence” they simply just don’t care, especially about you. You got dumped and got mad. How hard is that to understand. You keep bringing up my emotional maturity but you are the one having a tantrum over getting dumped. Once you are dumped then whatever the person does after is of no consequence to you. Why are you making such a big deal about being left. It happens. Nobody is walking around writing the “Dumped Manifesto”. It is a thing that happens in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 12:06 AM
1	People who move on immediately after a breakup aren’t “filling a void due to your absence” they simply just don’t care, especially about you. I didn’t put you down. I stated a fact. You got left and are big mad about it. You are the one who wrote a whole diatribe about being disposable because someone broke up with you. That shows your level of emotional immaturity. You created a whole social experiment about how people are so awful to just move on because you got dumped. How silly is that. People get dumped and then they move on. It’s literally how life works. You can be sad or mad that someone moved on faster than you but to create …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 11:04 PM
2	People who move on immediately after a breakup aren’t “filling a void due to your absence” they simply just don’t care, especially about you. Life is too short to keep repeating myself. That’s the whole problem with relationships now. People want to take no accountability for their inaction and blame the other person for negative reactions. I don’t want to be with anyone that I need to parent or teach them active listening. There is no ambiguity in my statements so there should be no ambiguity in your reactions. Hey, I am not a fan of your mother coming to the house and touching my stuff. Tell her not to do it or she isn’t welcome any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 11:01 PM
2	People who move on immediately after a breakup aren’t “filling a void due to your absence” they simply just don’t care, especially about you. I tell people coming in, I am not a parent. I tell you once what the problem is for me. It’s your choice how you act on it. No action is an action. The more you choose to not make changes. The more I slip away. Life is too short to coddle people who can’t act like adults. You got the information. The choice is now yours. I don’t beg and I don’t nag. Everyone I date knows that going in. It’s not a new standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 09:50 PM
2	People who move on immediately after a breakup aren’t “filling a void due to your absence” they simply just don’t care, especially about you. You would be correct when people are cheaters or have other things then relationships can fall apart but too many people act like they just didn’t know and it’s patently false. They knew because they were told.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 09:28 PM
2	People who move on immediately after a breakup aren’t “filling a void due to your absence” they simply just don’t care, especially about you. Girl, I have been checking out my relationships since 2000. Once I stop talking. I am done. Most of my adult friends have been saying the same things since before social media. It may be new to you but women have been doing it for a long time. You got your feelings hurt fine but it’s nobodies fault that someone doesn’t want to be with you. Stop blaming everyone around you and look at yourself. You got left, it happens. Grow up and stop looking for some social experiment reason why. You got left …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 09:26 PM
2	People who move on immediately after a breakup aren’t “filling a void due to your absence” they simply just don’t care, especially about you. Your version is not the only version. More women agree with mine than yours. You just don’t like it. You are hurt and sad and feel like you got blindsided. You didn’t. There were signs. You just didn’t pay attention because she shut up. There are always signs and if you really sit and think about it. You didn’t get discarded for no reason. You know why. You just don’t like the reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 08:21 PM
22	People who move on immediately after a breakup aren’t “filling a void due to your absence” they simply just don’t care, especially about you. Here’s a helpful hint to men everywhere. When a woman stops talking to you or “nagging”. She is breaking up with you. She is going through the mental and emotional process of leaving you. She has started to detach. Her feelings towards you are no going through the lens of this person is not for me and I need to get them out of my system. So the sex stops, the nice things stop, the helpful things stop, the interest in you stops. She is planning her exit. By the time she leaves, she has already gr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 07:56 PM
1	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me I have been on record in here reading some woman the riot act for the same thing. I am not a fan of it either way and told her as such.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 09:46 AM
3	High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating them Do you think I am bothered by that. If the world is a meritocracy and I am entitled to what I earn by my own efforts then why in the world would I ever allow my efforts be overconsumed by someone else. And how is what I am saying any different from 90% of the men who are worried about being used for their money or losing half in a divorce. It really isn’t. The playing field is simply equal for me. I don’t have to rely on my looks to live a life that men say women rely on their looks for. I don’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 08:36 PM
2	High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating them Do you see how the resentment builds. I am able to live the life that I have carefully curated. I live on my own terms. If someone isn’t able to do what I do then the problem is well why don’t you do less or pay for me to join. I am unwilling to do either because this is the life I planned for myself. I would resent them for me having to do less they would resent me for leaving them behind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 07:01 PM
5	High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating them I don’t think most people get that women who are high earners don’t care. My earnings are my own. All the other traits that men say they care about I have too but I am not willing to allow anyone to come into my life and destroy what I have earned because they want to lead. If you had a plan to be a leader, you would already be doing it and my income wouldn’t be a part of the conversation because they would have their own or be able to match mine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 05:47 PM
1	High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating them I travel for my pleasure. If you don’t have kids and don’t get sick and strategically use days you can get a lot of time to go to cool places. I have tried with people and find it less enjoyable than being alone on most trips. I am also in a travel group and travel with those people. I don’t like funding people’s luxuries which is what travel is. My interests are so broad that all the things you have mentioned I have done alone. Winston Churchills War Room from WWII, British museum to see all th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 06:50 AM
1	High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating them Sir. I travel 8 or 9 times a year. I am not funding every trip for someone. There is never any chance of reciprocity. Also I like my company enough that even if no one is there I have a great time. I am never afraid to be alome which is a very common thing that people try to weaponize. If I give my itinerary of where I am traveling for the year and that person makes no effort to contribute that’s another surefire sign of entitlement which I am not willing to abide by. Hey, I am willing to pay fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 06:00 AM
6	High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating them Since I have dated men in the past who made less than me I know exactly how the resentment works. They get mad because I don’t need their input on my wants or needs. They get mad when I decide to take a trip somewhere and they can’t go. They get mad that I won’t help fund their wants or hold them accountable for their bills. I really did try but the male ego is super fragile when it comes to dating someone who doesn’t need them. I don’t have the energy or inclination to stroke that ego. It’s not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 04:22 AM
5	High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating them As a women who is a high earner, I won’t date a man making significantly less than me because of the resentment and entitlement that comes along with it. I am not downgrading my lifestyle or the way I maneuver through life because someone can’t do what I do. Men want to be leaders by default when according to society the one who has proven to be the main provider should be in charge. So technically, I should be the leader because I have proven that I am capable of going out and generating more i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 03:46 AM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. You know there’s a thing called centrist. Like you can have some parts from some things and some parts from another. It’s so weird how that works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 02:48 PM
–	CMV: it's rude to tell a woman she looks her age There is this thing where people are obsessed with looking younger than their years. Sometimes they don’t but look very good for the age that they are. Responding to someone when they say I know I look younger than I am with, no you do look your age but look amazing isn’t rude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 08:11 AM
4	There isn't more solidarity among women than men Yeah, I don’t hang around a bunch of insecure women. I am also old school enough that if I say it behind your back, I will 100% say it to your face and probably said it to you already. My life experience has not been one where I surround myself with women who don’t enjoy solidarity with other women. I have always been in all girl schools and those girls were my sisters. We helped each other. In the army, my fellow women soldiers were also my sisters. Even if I couldn’t stand someone’s personalit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 02:39 PM
11	There isn't more solidarity among women than men I woke up the other day and called my best friend a raggedy bitch for something random. She called me scallywag for something else. Two days later, her mom was in the hospital and I drove 5 hours so that I could cook and run her business so she didn’t lose money while she was taking care of her mom. What looks like cattiness on the outside is a level of familiarity that comes with time. The main thing is that my women friends show up for each other in ways that are difficult for men to comprehen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 09:01 AM
5	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone Women without means are not great at raising kids alone because they have to figure out how to survive while raising a kid. No one would ever accuse me of being a bad parent but I simply don’t want to. That’s the issue men have. They don’t want to provide for said children while forcing them to be born and making it as difficult as possible to effectively co-parent. Even when I considered having children it was never with a man. I can afford to do it alone and not have many of the stressors that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 08:29 PM
7	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone Why is my empathy required for something I was forced to do? If more women left kids with the father then we can stop a lot of these conversations around single mothers, child support being unfair, pro life vs pro choice. If men want to control the reproductive organs of women then they can bear the burden of raising the outcome. It’s that simple. You want to force births then here you go the consequences of your decisions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 08:14 PM
4	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone No sir. If I am forced to give birth I am abdicating all responsibility. I will literally leave the country and go someplace with no extradition. That is how adamant I am about not being a parent. A baby was born that I don’t want. He can have it and leave me alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 06:28 PM
7	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone Good. As soon as the baby is out, I am walking out the hospital door. There is no way I ever want to raise a child. He can figure it out. I would leave the country. More women need to leave those children with their father. Just let him do it. Pay the money. Freedom is everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 05:15 PM
9	The saying "women mature faster" is a lie. Things are obviously country specific and I even gave credence that it can and does happen to boys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 10:51 AM
12	The saying "women mature faster" is a lie. Women don’t mature faster in the brain sense it’s that women are given more responsibility and emotional work to do at an earlier age forcing them to “mature” faster. Household chores, being nice to the weird kid at school, babysitting the younger cousins, helping out with the new baby, etc. All of those things are things that require higher executive functioning which is forced on girls. There are boys where this happens to and you will seem them as more emotionally mature when they are release…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 08:35 AM
–	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? Dude. I have been in love that doesn’t make me stupid or change my core values. I am childfree. There is nothing a man can do to convince me to have a child. When I was 25 it was nope, when I was 30 it was nope. I was hoping I was coming out on the other side and not be able to get pregnant but nope. I happen to be one of those people that still have freaking egg reserves and hormones like I am still in my damn 20’s and the answer now is still nope. Kids are life altering and cost too much time,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 05:50 PM
–	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? Absolutely the fuck not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 05:39 PM
–	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? It gets more expensive as you get older but I budget for it because I know I don’t have kids. I got it when I was younger so it is a bit cheaper for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 11:35 AM
4	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? My dad wasn’t elderly. He had 1 in 250,000 outcome from a standard medical procedure. So he didn’t have dementia and he wasn’t that old. It was a fluke and he earned my caregiving by being the parent most people wish they had. Was it hard, you better believe it but I would do it again for another five minutes with him because he was an amazing human being, an honorable man and a girl dad before it was a thing. He sewed elastic on ballet slippers, he learned how to do a perfect ballet bun, he tau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 08:02 AM
5	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? I invested in a long term care plan when my dad got sick because I saw that it was a problem. I have a group of childfree friends from all ages. We have bought land and will be build a community there where we have decided to take care of each other. I have a person now who had my medical power of attorney with a back up person. I also have an attorney that has my wishes. That information is easily available on my phone as accessible should something happen to me. Again, as a woman it is far eas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 07:52 AM
106	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? I will say it. I am selfish. After taking care of my dad after he got sick and the sleepless night and the feeding through the feeding tube and all that other stuff. I said nope. I never want to keep another human alive again. The argument of well it’s different when it’s your kid. I don’t give a fuck. I loved my dad more than some people love their own children and it was a challenge and I never want to have to care for another human being that needs me to make life decisions for them. The cook…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 02:23 PM
2	Only "Successful" Lives are Valued Raises my hand in black woman. I think you mean white women are valued.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 10:00 AM
5	Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with! I feel bad that male victims of sexual assault aren’t treated like it is a serious crime. I really like men who are active and present fathers. I always love to see dads in the hardware store with their daughters. Reminds me of my dad. I feel bad that men don’t have the same social support systems that women have. It would make some challenges a lot easier to go through.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 09:05 PM
1	Should the man tell his partner that he is going to get a paternity test? I see what you did there and it’s cute. I said no one does preemptive medical testing. You said people do paternity testing. They are two different things. Also, I know how genetics work and no one is doing preemptive testing for genetic anomalies just because or for transplant purposes. Again, glad you found a girlfriend who is ok with being called a potential whore who would cuckold the man she loves. That’s the undertone of this whole question. I don’t do questions about my character or integ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 05:31 PM
0	Women need to learn to be happy being used for sex When men are happy being used just for their money then they can ask women be happy being used for sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 05:07 PM
1	Should the man tell his partner that he is going to get a paternity test? If he knows his medical history and I know my family medical history and we did the pre tests to make sure our kid wouldn’t wind up with sickle cell then there is no need for all of this. Plus men are not as smart as they think they are and women aren’t as gullible as they think they are. Nobody does these preemptive tests. So trying to dance around it by saying oh it’s for future medical needs. That’s the stupidest sounding thing I have ever heard on this subject and quite frankly if any woman …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 04:58 PM
1	Should the man tell his partner that he is going to get a paternity test? Two things that will never be questioned about me, my character and my integrity. If you are with me and know me and you do that, you also know that I will leave. I don’t care if we have been together 10 years and I gave birth that day. I am leaving. You can cast your suspicions on the next person. I am done. If I found out you did it, you don’t get the benefit of doubt. No one is stupid enough to believe oh I got it in the event of transplant. I am leaving. People get way too comfortable testin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 04:36 PM
1	Should the man tell his partner that he is going to get a paternity test? I don’t check phones. I get an annual STI test when I go to the doctor. If I feel like I need to check your phone, I am leaving. If something is wrong with my STI test, I am leaving. I no longer stay in any situation where the bare minimum of trust is tested. If I think you are cheating, I’m done. I don’t ask questions, I don’t beg for change, I don’t ask for your side of events. I will not spend my life questioning if my partner is being faithful. So much more peaceful on my side of the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 03:28 PM
-2	Should the man tell his partner that he is going to get a paternity test? Tell her, don’t tell her. When she finds out she’s leaving.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 01:15 PM
1	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? I have never said that I don’t have privileges in some things. Dating is one of them. You are correct, I don’t have to date from a place of scarcity. I also don’t really date from a space of getting laid either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 02:50 PM
2	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? That was a poorly worded statement. They have preconceived notions that black women are hyper sexual, hyper independent and are de facto baby mamas with poor boundaries. The challenges are a very different thing, something as simple as hotel shampoo to something like the behaviors of white women in the workplace. Navigating those dynamics if you haven’t done it before requires a lot of emotional intelligence and if you haven’t done it before, it’s a lot to ask of a person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:38 PM
3	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? Not really if you have been me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:35 PM
0	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? Dude. I have never said I don’t have a privileged life. I lead with that often to make sure people don’t say I am oppressed. I am a very privileged person but that doesn’t mean that things aren’t an issue when it comes to living in my skin. There are people who would kill to have access to some of the privileges in my life so I know how good I have it. If things are a default for you then it’s easy to dismiss other smaller things that affect other people. Also you complained about me having stan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 08:46 AM
1	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? I do talk like that because that’s actually what I have to do. Could be all those books I read. I didn’t mention anything about sex or virginity. You threw it in there. Why? Sex wasn’t a part of my discussion at all. How much do you know about being a black woman? Do you know that when I travel I always have to bring my own hair care products because I can’t use what is in the hotels? There’s nuance around dating people interracially and as much as you want to claim it libtard that just shows wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 08:27 AM
2	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? They are yours not mine but go off sir. Hope you find what you are looking for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 07:57 AM
0	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? I am from the US. One of my greatest joys in life is traveling. If someone doesn’t have a passport in the US they aren’t a good match for me. I am very quick to get on a flight at the last minute and go explore someplace new or different. I want someone who understands and wants to participate. Also do you see how your comment assumed that someone who has dated a black woman before has already had sex. Men have preconceived notions about dating black women or they have no idea the challenges of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 07:51 AM
2	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? I had a very present and active father I have also dated men who have not had a present father and most of them have some issues that are deeper than just merits of their character. There are certain things I learned about men and how to be treated by men because of my dad. His presence was a steadying guidance on lots of things. There are certain things that are learned by having that relationship. It’s not a character thing, it’s just the way they move through life. If you didn’t grow up with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 07:42 AM
0	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? If you say so. I don’t date men who never dated black women before because I find they either aren’t really interested and doing it for experimentation in which case I am not interested in being their experiment or I have to spend way too much time explaining things about my lived experiences that they just don’t get. I am a reader, I like dating people who are also readers. It’s something that is a big part of me and it’s not to share something in common I was raised with an extremely involved …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 07:35 AM
8	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? I responded up a few lines ago but their temperament and mine just aren’t a good mix. They aren’t gentlemen. They have this swagger that everyone is supposed to be impressed by and I mainly find it annoying. They always have to be right even when they are absolutely wrong. They are just abrasive and need to be the center of attention. I have dated enough of them to just not be interested anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:46 AM
5	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? I have dated enough of them to find them really off putting. Something about the way they are raised just doesn’t gel with me. Not all of them but enough that I just said no thanks. They are aggressive and need to be right about everything even when they are wrong. They aren’t really gentlemen and lead with this weird swagger like I am supposed to be impressed you are from New York. It’s very off putting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:26 AM
0	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? My list of no’s is pretty large and I don’t back down on my no’s no matter how pretty the face is. I don’t date police officers, truck drivers, men with kids, men who vote Republican, men who don’t know their father, men who don’t read books, men who don’t have a passport, men who use terms like Alpha, men who never dated a black woman before, men who can’t have a casual conversation, picky eaters, men from New York, flat earthers, anti vaxxers. The list goes on and on. I got a whole disqualifyi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:17 AM
3	How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]? All the sluts I know are married with families and kids and husbands out here living their best life. Husbands are happy, kids are happy. Sluts seem to be winning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 11:03 PM
8	How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]? Here’s my question on sexual history, do you have a recent STI screening? You don’t, cool let’s get one. Have you been sexually assaulted or have any triggers I should be worried about? That’s it. If anyone’s asks me more than those two questions I ask them then they are not for me. It’s another weird thing that means absolutely nothing in the scheme of things. People put way too much value on someone’s sexual past. My number is fairly low because I have been in long term relationships and I sti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 11:01 PM
2	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... I would say that sounds terrible. It must have been hard but I try not to get involved with people that have drama that could come back on me. In this era it just feels really unsafe. I would pay for my half of the meal and go home.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:25 PM
7	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... When people say they have a crazy ex, I am done immediately. Why would I invite drama into my life. When someone says they were falsely accused, I am giving side eye and leaving. It means that there is someone in their life who is nuts. No thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 12:11 PM
6	Q4W: Do you find your male partner attractive? Do people really date men they don’t find attractive? I have never once went on a date with someone I wouldn’t have sex with. That’s so weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 08:28 AM
9	Q4W: Would you rather reach your 40s alone or being a single mother to 2 severely autistic kids? Single alone. Nobody truly knows the isolation of caregiving until you are in the thick of it. Having done it for a parent, I will never willingly take on keeping another human alive again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 09:50 PM
1	q4w: who was your first Biggest crush? I was obsessed with Gregory Hines. My little dance kid heart loved watching him perform. I was going to grow up and go on tour with him and we would have tap dancing babies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 11:49 PM
1	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan I wouldn’t enter into a marriage where I am not working where I don’t have cash reserves before I walk in the door. That money he would never know about. The roof could fall in and I still wouldn’t touch my escape money. If someone has a SAHM then the partner should willingly set up an account that he has no access to and sends money to on a paycheck basis. If he balks at that then he isn’t worth marrying. People say and do a lot of things when they are in love and act differently when they no l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 06:56 PM
1	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan Honestly, I think that shows that any woman who does that is always looking for a savior. That’s a character flaw. Ang escape plan should rely on your wit and your grit because if the person is so volatile that you have to escape then you are making other people your target. I don’t believe in that either. Since I was 8 years old, my grandmother and my dad always told me to have access to enough money that I could leave any situation. It can be as innocuous as a date to a whole relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 05:44 PM
0	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan I didn’t care about the guy best friend. I would never ask a man to save me. The only thing I care about is making sure you have money and your documents to escape. Having a male best friend is not a part of any escape plan.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 04:55 PM
-4	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan Why would you feel the need to put that in this particular space? What was the point? You know how some women are for other women and some are out here trying to get picked. Guess which one you are. You didn’t need to do this here and you doubled down on it when told that it doesn’t need to be discussed everywhere. Hope you get picked while the woman that is trying to escape has her abuser looking for secret bank accounts and further isolating them. Do better	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 03:35 PM
-3	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan This information has been passed down from grandmother to mother to daughter. All you are doing is putting in public view for men to weaponize it against their wives. All information isn’t for everyone. Some things have been Gatekept for a reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 03:13 PM
2	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment Listen if you want to deal with crazy have at it. I would never willingly enter into a relationship with someone that insecure. You can do all the gymnastics you want. I know women and have been around a lot of women due to that fact. Behaviors like this are always rooted in insecurity and every man they date or marry wind up miserable. Also you keep talking about respect. How is it respectful to try to control someone’s thoughts. That’s the weirdest thing I have ever heard. Also the slippery sl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 01:46 PM
-2	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment Once again people keep using therapy speak and have no idea what it means. Boundaries are things like if you do this behavior then I will do that behavior, Not you aren’t allowed to do this behavior. That’s control not boundary setting. Couples can be focused on each other all they want but having such an extensive amount of rules for your partners sexual behaviors is a control mechanism. Why do you care if he looks at porn? The boundary would be hey I don’t want to look at porn and I don’t want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 07:38 AM
0	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment If only I were a hoe, you might have a chance with someone as awesome as me. However your limited ability to see controlling behavior also shows me that you would be a horribly abusive partner that I would have to poison so it’s a good thing we don’t match in belief systems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 07:25 AM
2	Middle school and High School are the worst periods for dating during the human lifetime I went to an all girl high school and still managed to date frequently. It’s the best time to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 09:03 PM
0	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment Jesus, I have been doing the work since I was 15 years old so I don’t wind up like so many people in here. Also I am the kid of a therapist so I grew up with this language and how to recognize this behavior as a part of my daily life. When people try to control you and disguise it as boundaries or a form of love, it’s rooted in insecurity. That’s it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 08:45 PM
6	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment Yes. You are being insecure because of these weird ass examples of cheating. It’s controlling and it’s unsustainable. It makes you the police of sexual urges and if you can’t see it I don’t know how to help you. You have control issues deeply rooted in insecurity. You don’t own another person. You don’t own their feelings or emotions. You can control you and that’s it. Trying to frame it as cheating is the mental gymnastics of a person who wants to be abusive but is trying to frame it as love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 08:43 PM
7	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment Controlling behavior like that stems from a place of deep deep insecurity. It’s not someone setting boundaries. That’s not how boundaries work. Boundaries are things that you can do but not telling the other person what they can do. There are people who have so many insecurities that they don’t know where they come from but they try to mask it by trying to control behaviors of people in their sphere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 06:25 PM
7	How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily? Nope. I swear people will find a way to make it the woman’s fault every time. I communicate my needs, wants or desires one time. You have the option to do it or not. If you don’t that’s fine. Don’t but I want ask for it again and I am not going to continue to give you the same level of effort. It’s that simple. People do what they want. If they don’t want to, I don’t have to stay and not get what I want. How is that miscommunication. He knows and does nothing. I leave. We both now have no expect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 05:20 PM
21	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment I mean, this is a weird take. I want to control the absolute fuck out of my partner because I have insecurities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 04:37 PM
11	How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily? I have two ways of walking away. During vetting if we are fundamentally not compatible, I say thanks but no thanks and walk away. We can have great dates he can check a lot of boxes but if there is something where we don’t match and it is non negotiable or he shows himself to be an ass, I walk away. I have always been able to do that though. I don’t get too emotionally invested with men early because it’s all a crapshoot. I don’t believe in trying to change a man or asking him for what he isn’t …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 02:53 PM
3	The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible advice I was thinking the same thing. If that js what men think are Chads then we need to level set. She is way more attractive than him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 08:19 AM
1	The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible advice He is not a Chad. She is way more attractive than him. He’s weird looking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 08:18 AM
-2	Q4W: Why can't you detect toxicity/misogyny in attractive men? This question is such a horrible take. Do you think that men who are not good people just show up and are raging abusers and toxic on day 1. They aren’t. That’s the part that all of you keep failing to realize. Their attractiveness has allowed them to learn better manipulation skills. They have more time to hone skills hiding their toxic behaviors. They even learn how to mask it until people form emotional attachment even then it’s not all of out toxicity. It’s a slow gradual process. And if you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 08:15 AM
11	Do you think it's harder to find a good job or a good partner? I have always been able to find a job that pays well and allows me to live a fulfilled life. I have never found a person that meets my needs in the same way. I would still prefer to have a good job over a good partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 08:09 AM
5	If you claim men are angry at women because women treat them badly, why is it hard to accept that the opposite is also true? Unless you are black.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 08:05 PM
0	Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would. You are an idiot for that comment alone. Racist too. You have no idea what the hell you are talking about. Africa as a continent is actually quite puritanical and faith based. The women there are pretty much virgins until marriage. They would never dishonor their families by having sex outside of marriage. Not to mention, your willful ignorance on the intelligence of people who quite literally require their kids to go to college and become doctors, lawyers and engineers. It’s colonialism at its …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 07:02 AM
0	Being a woman in your late thirties or forties is not the handicap it used to be. I’ve noticed they’re dating more and more young attractive men Perhaps but I can still say that it gives me the ick and it is wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 06:55 AM
3	Being a woman in your late thirties or forties is not the handicap it used to be. I’ve noticed they’re dating more and more young attractive men You do realize that older male sperm is a major contributor to higher autism rates. So yeah. If he wants kids he should have them young.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 11:11 AM
0	Listening is not the same as agreeing. Why do many woman equate the 2? How about this, I am not a child and I can see you are deep into the belief that trying to treat women as children has worked for you in the past. Good luck with whatever you got going on. I don’t care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 10:11 AM
4	Being a woman in your late thirties or forties is not the handicap it used to be. I’ve noticed they’re dating more and more young attractive men I don’t know, I get some ick from this and I am a woman in my 40’s. The same standards we apply to men about age gaps still applies here. Depending on his age, this could be a massive type of manipulation that could be unhealthy for the guy. It’s still a power imbalance. I get being told you will hit a wall can feel awful and demoralizing to your ego but I don’t know if the answer is well I’ll show the world how desirable I am and date this younger man and potentially steal some of his best year…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 09:50 AM
0	Listening is not the same as agreeing. Why do many woman equate the 2? Sir, you are the one is mad that I said listen or don’t. Active listening is a skill that men usually don’t have. They listen to respond and agreement is not required but if you don’t agree and it’s a behavior thing then expect to be left. Agreement is not required for most things. A person can choose to do whatever they want with the information received. However, those choices have consequences and more and more the consequences are men getting left behind. It’s that simple. You don’t have to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 09:40 AM
0	Listening is not the same as agreeing. Why do many woman equate the 2? Women are leaving men alone more and more and I love that for us. The numbers aren’t lying. Men asked to be left alone and it’s happening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 07:46 AM
1	What would be the downsides if men believed that women are barely capable of romantic love? Ok dude. You got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 12:32 PM
1	What would be the downsides if men believed that women are barely capable of romantic love? Isn’t that the complaint now, women are leaving men alone? Isn’t the complaint how so many women are not getting married, they aren’t having kids. No one can get a date. It seems to me that women are leaving men alone. They are getting what they asked for. To not have to do extra work in the house, to not have to deal with the fatties, to not have all their money taken in a divorce. The numbers are increasing of women who are simply saying no thank you. So women leave men alone and men leave wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 09:56 AM
6	What advice would you give to a man looking meet/date people while avoiding dating apps? There are plenty of average men in the travel groups I am in. There are men who work on the ramp for an airline. There are men who drive buses. There are all kinds of men. You just don’t like that you haven’t done it. People budget and save and make the choice to travel or not but it’s not this privilege that exists outside of everyone’s opportunity. You plan for it and make it happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 09:05 PM
4	What advice would you give to a man looking meet/date people while avoiding dating apps? My dude, you keep coming back to me asking the same question. The smart thing to do is to look at all different types of advice and compile a list that might work for you. It’s not my job or anyone else’s to help you figure out every permutation of options out there. This is why no one wants to offer any help. You got an answer and are mad the answer you got isn’t tailor made for you specifically. This is an option that I have seen work for other people. Other men including red pill men have com…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 08:35 PM
7	What advice would you give to a man looking meet/date people while avoiding dating apps? No they should find other options. You asked where people can go, I gave an option. That’s my scope of information. Other people have given other options. I don’t know why you are harping on me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 04:27 PM
5	What advice would you give to a man looking meet/date people while avoiding dating apps? You do realize that everything doesn’t have to be for everyone. If it don’t apply let it fly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 04:12 PM
4	What advice would you give to a man looking meet/date people while avoiding dating apps? This is for international trips. Last year I went with 100 people to Japan. Also went to Brazil with about 125 people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 12:20 PM
5	What advice would you give to a man looking meet/date people while avoiding dating apps? The trips I go on usually have a payment plan situation and we have folks from all over the country. You may even be able to find local travel groups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 10:41 AM
6	What advice would you give to a man looking meet/date people while avoiding dating apps? There’s a lot of them on FB. I am in a couple where they host meetups before you go on the trip to make sure everyone knows each other. There’s usually a group chat. You can find one specific for your thing or general ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 08:54 AM
3	Q4W: Which male celebrities do you think only have success with women because of their fame and wealth? Adam Driver. He is just tall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 06:11 AM
20	What advice would you give to a man looking meet/date people while avoiding dating apps? Travel Groups. I am in a couple and have been traveling with them for a while to places I don’t want to go alone. All the men there have way more options because the female/male ratio is pretty much 4-1. On these trips you are with the women for extended periods of time, they get to know you. I have been to several weddings from people that met in travel groups. Last trip I went on there were 8 men and about 40 women. The men were having the best time. Do with that information what you will but …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 06:09 AM
6	CMV: Women aren't entitled to anything, and men would benefit by acting accordingly Yay. You said something edgy and shocking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 06:01 AM
12	CMV: Women aren't entitled to anything, and men would benefit by acting accordingly We get it, you want women to get beat up, gang raped and paraded around naked so you can throw cabbages at them. Guess what, you still won’t get a date. When women say men are not entitled to relationships that’s exactly what we mean. You are not entitled to romantic relationships from women. If that means that you will drink water while walking past a woman being assaulted oh well, you just proved you weren’t worth the effort anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 09:06 PM
4	Q4W: What Lets You Trust a Man? Men can only be trusted as long as you provide some value to them. Trust for them is based on a very limited scope of interactions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 08:19 AM
-3	What would be the downsides if men believed that women are barely capable of romantic love? Good then maybe, they would leave women alone. Anyone who feels things like this should just be in a corner and leave people alone. All of these made up stories about how to protect yourself from other made up scenarios is just a way to perpetuate more failings. It’s the human experience. No one is guaranteed to get out of here without experiencing heartache or pain or sadness. So if you have issues with it and want to create a bubble wrapped life where you put nothing on the line and plan for e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 08:17 AM
1	Would you knowingly get into a serious long term relationship with someone who has a fetish for your type? They haven’t appeared yet so they probably are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 11:10 PM
2	For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women. I don’t care. I don’t own a human. I am also a person who doesn’t believe that one persons emotional needs can be met by one person entirely so I honestly don’t think about what another person is doing if they are not with me. I didn’t get the jealousy bone. I don’t have sex with people without protection and recent test results. I assume people are going to do what is in their best interests most of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 08:17 PM
2	More women need to practice what they preach when it comes to sex and dating If you say so. The face card never declines baby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 07:40 PM
0	More women need to practice what they preach when it comes to sex and dating You are correct. My apologies but yeah even as a fat girl I wasn’t lowering my standards and never really had to. I also have the benefit of being considered conventionally attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 03:51 PM
1	Would you knowingly get into a serious long term relationship with someone who has a fetish for your type? Nope. There’s a very small subset of people who could be my person anyway so filters like that make it easy to move along. I also don’t put a lot of value on finding this mystical person. I have curated a pretty amazing life and love my solitude so much that it would take a really special someone to fit in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 03:50 PM
3	Would you knowingly get into a serious long term relationship with someone who has a fetish for your type? No, it feels terrible. I have had white men date me because I’m one of the good black girls. The not too ratchet ones. It’s a curiosity and I got tired of trying to explain my lived experiences to them. That’s now one of my first questions, have you dated someone outside your race before. If the answer is no, then they aren’t a good match for me. Way too much emotional labor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 11:15 AM
0	More women need to practice what they preach when it comes to sex and dating So say that. Fat girls are not desperate and willing to fuck anything that pays attention because of the stereotypes that they are easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 08:21 AM
3	Banning "low effort dates" are just another way that women hurt themselves. Low effort is just that low effort. Coffee dates are dumb but you know what’s not dumb a date to a free museum or something that requires actual engagement. I turn down coffee dates all the time because they are boring. Some guy had free tickets to a comic book art thing. Not a huge comic fan but I went and we talked and I got to see him doing something he was passionate about and we got to engage with each other. Did we date again, no but neither of us walked away thinking this was a waste of t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 08:20 AM
3	More women need to practice what they preach when it comes to sex and dating This lie needs to die so hard. Just because a woman is fat doesn’t mean her standards are lower. When I was fat I was picky as fuck because I knew that men thought I would be easy. If anything you had to work super hard to prove that you weren’t just trying to fuck. I have been very thin in life and I have been fat. Now I am on the slim thick side. I am telling you, when I was fat I rejected men much harder. I never knew their motives and wasn’t about to be used by some guy trying to get his dic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 07:47 AM
2	'Yes means yes’ is liberal nonsense and a puritanical sexual fantasy. Puritans were witch burners, so are the yes means yes folks. Do you pontificate this much at everyone. Being succinct is a skill that you may want to spend some time working on. I am probably older than you and remember the days of date rape having to even be defined. Men were dumb at the time. Police officers used to actually say well she said yes so there was no crime. I loathe people like you who try to sound smart and have no real memory of how things actually were and make up these dumb ass thought pieces trying to explain why you aren’t getting any …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 01:44 AM
–	"Believe Women" is a conspiracy to profit from destroying men and feminist establishment is party to it. I always find that men don’t like to talk about the rape cases that aren’t prosecuted because if they really think about it they have done some suspect shit and don’t want it to come back at them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 10:34 PM
3	'Yes means yes’ is liberal nonsense and a puritanical sexual fantasy. Puritans were witch burners, so are the yes means yes folks. I don’t know how old you are but it seems like you don’t know why yes means yes came to be. It had nothing to do with sex being joyful or anything. It had to do with men not understanding what coercive sex was. They took no means no and they stretched it. So they started doing threatening acts like if you don’t do this and agree to it then I won’t take you home after taking you to a far away place. Or if you don’t say yes, I will spread rumors about you anyway. Yes means yes had to be explained …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 09:58 AM
–	Child support should be completely optional Actually a women has to do a lot to give a child up for adoption without the fathers consent and fathers are able to get custody of the kid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 08:25 AM
2	Intelligence and Promiscuity I did. I am a reader. It took me about 4 days but I had to do some research on some things they called out. I read fast.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 07:22 PM
-3	At point would you acknowledge a man's efforts are sufficient and the environment he is in is the issue? In this space they will never accept that. This space will be well she was 14 why was she being enticing to men. Or well if she was in Taiwan she would be married with 6 kids already. In here if you say at 11 grown men were catcalling me then the response is well I never saw that. If you say at 15, a grown man groomed me for sex then they will say well you knew what he wanted. This is not a safe space for women at all. Here’s the response you will get, well men get groomed too. Yes we know, it’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 08:36 PM
1	As long as men have to face the majority if rejections in dating, most men won’t be able to empathize in a way that women want or expect My biggest dating standard is to be interesting, kind and fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 08:55 AM
–	Why are you mad when women accept your no? I wish it were. I don’t play games of gender baiting. It’s not my style.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 08:06 AM
–	Could you be happy in a marriage where your spouse isn't your best friend? I think it’s weird to expect your spouse to fulfill every support role in your life. My best friend is my best friend. I do believe that a spouse should like you and you should have things in common and enjoy each others company but I don’t think best friend should be the requirement. That makes no sense to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 09:36 PM
2	Why are you mad when women accept your no? I guess they do. I am not that chick. That would be weird to keep trying to talk to someone who said no thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 04:48 PM
3	Why are you mad when women accept your no? Luckily that’s the gift I got from a very young age. I don’t allow people to play in my face and I don’t beg for attention. I also know that I have privileges that have always allowed me to do that and never think of it from a scarcity mindset. I wish everyone would do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 04:38 PM
4	Why are you mad when women accept your no? In life my motto has always been you only get to tell me no once. I am not some fragile girl who didnt get enough love as a kid. I won’t be reaching out ever again. I don’t go backwards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 04:34 PM
5	Why are you mad when women accept your no? Listen, you don’t like my statement that’s fine. You are the one being illogical by still trying to argue this point. You don’t have to engage with me anymore on the subject. I am not going to change my opinion nor feed your need for human interaction. Hope you find what you are looking for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 02:03 PM
2	Why are you mad when women accept your no? He saw me discussing a topic he was interested in, he said damn you are gorgeous and like the topic I like would you like to chat. I said sure let’s chat. So we did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:51 PM
6	Why are you mad when women accept your no? I would be like ok. He hasn’t met logical women. I don’t get offended about things that aren’t me and I also don’t need to have things explained which are already understood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:50 PM
4	Why are you mad when women accept your no? I really wasn’t lukewarm. We didn’t have a date just a couple of phone conversations where some incompatibilities were revealed. I was willing to chat further to see how deep they went he said we weren’t a match I said ok and then the wall of text. It was weird to see that happen. I don’t mind the rejection because it’s life and I am not for everyone. The reach back was the odd part for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:48 PM
4	Why are you mad when women accept your no? So right now you are not all mening me and I get it. Statistically not all men don’t do a lot of things but in my sample size it has happened enough for me to question why this response happened. I feel like you are getting caught up in the semantics of why do “people” do an act vs engaging in the conversation. I don’t need to be told not all men because a logical person knows it’s not all men but you wanted to pick apart that argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:40 PM
9	Why are you mad when women accept your no? Well then the reach back is what took his power away. Because he is not telling me that he really did want me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:33 PM
4	Why are you mad when women accept your no? I asked some of my girlfriends who has similar experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:31 PM
3	Why are you mad when women accept your no? I am not so unkind as to prank someone. I enjoyed talking to him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:28 PM
4	Why are you mad when women accept your no? Yeah that wasn’t going to happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:24 PM
6	Why are you mad when women accept your no? Men talk to me all the time. I try to be kind and gracious on my first interaction and then move accordingly from there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:23 PM
2	Why are you mad when women accept your no? Glad to see that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:22 PM
3	Why are you mad when women accept your no? So I can emphatically say it wasn’t looks. He alluded to the fact that he was surprised I was willing to talk to him because of my looks. It was really a values issue of why we weren’t a good match.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:14 PM
5	There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for dating I never believed I was owed anything. I believe that is a white middle class belief. The old mantra for every black family is you have to be twice as good to half as much. I always knew I would have to work hard AF to get anything in life. The odds were stacked against me just by being born black with a vagina. The stereotypes that I had to combat every day to not become a baby mama statistic. To be considered kind vs angry black woman. I think this perception that a lot of men have in here shou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:05 PM
5	Why are you mad when women accept your no? We didn’t even have dates. We had phone conversations. No money spent at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:59 PM
6	Why are you mad when women accept your no? I am sure they do but I would be a hypocrite if I went about my life like telling men to leave women alone after they say no while trying to convince a man to date me after his no. Not very feminist of me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:55 PM
6	Why are you mad when women accept your no? I did block him after the second message. I just thought it was so odd to be offended by me just politely saying thanks for telling me. Better luck next time. I guess the big thing is that we are both older so I thought these types of mind games were out the door. Like you speak plainly so you don’t waste each other’s time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:54 PM
2	Why are you mad when women accept your no? I wish. We are older in the dating game so it’s not like we are new at this. It just felt weird that he was so upset that I accepted his no so easily.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:51 PM
1	Why are you mad when women accept your no? Possibly. I left things very vague because I don’t want anyone to think I was trying to crap on him or his character but there were things he said that made me think he was punching above his weight class and was afraid of me rejecting him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:49 PM
8	Why are you mad when women accept your no? If you tell me no then it’s a no all the way around. You don’t get access to my body while saying no I don’t want you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:46 PM
9	Why are you mad when women accept your no? How did I waste his time? We talked twice and then he said well I don’t think we match. I said ok and then moved about my day. He reached back out to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:45 PM
3	Give her the chaos she craves So did I. We weren’t a match. That’s ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:17 PM
2	Give her the chaos she craves No. I stopped dating a guy who was boring because he had nothing to talk about and also didn’t like to travel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:02 PM
3	Give her the chaos she craves No one is seeking a relationship like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 11:56 AM
3	Give her the chaos she craves This is why women don’t trust men and gatekeep everything and have exit plans and divorce them. Jesus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 08:29 AM
8	Since conventional wisdom says men make better single parents, would you support more mothers giving up primary custody of their children to the father in an event of a divorce/ breakup? That was always my plan. If we split. He can take the kids and I will pay child support. Luckily I never had kids but when my parents divorced I went with my dad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 06:53 PM
5	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing If you have to do all that then just get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 09:02 PM
1	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing Ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 09:02 PM
2	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing Those people probably won’t get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 04:23 PM
5	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing Marriage is not necessary until you are listed as Mr. Earls special friend in the obituary and his ugly sister come to evict you from the house or force you to sell it because she is his legal heir. If the response is well, you can always have documents to protect you well then you can just get married and have one document to protect you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 04:14 PM
3	Is it the bare minimum nowadays that men go down on women? That is also a truth but baby girl you gotta work on your discernment skills. If you are with a man and afraid to leave unless you perform a sexual act then he wasn’t a good person to be alone with. This is sexual coercion. It’s a form of sexual assault. You haven’t come to terms with it yet but that’s what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 07:15 PM
3	Have you noticed couples who have their social media profile picture as dyadic (both individuals in their pfp) almost always are happy and in love. When I see that picture or a shared account I always think, somebody cheated and they are trying to pretend everything is ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 07:34 AM
5	Intelligence and Promiscuity The traditional family is perfect for those who want it. Trying to force a return to it by putting a brick on the scales is not the way to go. Creating policies and safeguards for people to want to have traditional families is a much more reasonable way of incentivizing people who want it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 07:06 AM
6	Is it the bare minimum nowadays that men go down on women? Well then you got the short end of the stick. Stop giving blow jobs to men who don’t do it for you first.. At a minimum his face should be in the area before his penis is ever near your mouth. Don’t be manipulated into giving oral in place of sex especially early on. That whole idea of well you teased me and I am so horny is bullocks. If you aren’t interested in having actual sex then don’t give blow jobs. It’s still sex and you are being used as a blow up mouth. Ya’ll have learned nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 11:32 PM
–	Q4W: Which of the following is most concerning in a potential partner, and why? Which do you find most acceptable? Women would have you believe they would only date 1 in 100. They are usually lying. If the numbers were that low there would be way less women getting cheated on. Also I don’t believe that all men have friends who are quality but a lack of same sex friends is a red flag for me. The quality of his friends is also a factor that I would consider.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:23 PM
–	Q4W: Which of the following is most concerning in a potential partner, and why? Which do you find most acceptable? Honestly only about 8-10 percent. I have a lot of disqualifiers. What I have found shockingly is that female friends will go one step further in that defense of their male friends. They will actually harass the victim or try to bully her into taking it back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 06:46 PM
3	Intelligence and Promiscuity I see what you are doing as deflection because you cannot argue merits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 06:29 PM
–	Q4W: Which of the following is most concerning in a potential partner, and why? Which do you find most acceptable? I find that women are way more permissive of certain behaviors from men especially their friends. I find that men who don’t have male friends are lacking something. They don’t know how to function in that dynamic which is the most natural dynamic to exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 05:47 PM
3	Intelligence and Promiscuity Hmmm, so you didn’t read a document that has been identified as the blue print for conservatives that they have been working on since the Reagan administration. Gotcha. See that’s the problem. When we remove things like history from schools, people forget how you get to a certain point. This plan has been on the conservative wish list and agenda since the 1980’s but it really started back in the 1960’s by the Byrd dynasty in Virginia and the Stanley plan. Convincing people it doesn’t matter is a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 05:45 PM
–	Q4W: Which of the following is most concerning in a potential partner, and why? Which do you find most acceptable? If a man does not have any male friends then they are 100% not worth my time. And it’s not because of insecurity or jealousy. I don’t have any of that going on. It’s because developing friendships with same sex people is a basic life skill. In here especially we hear how women should see all these red flags. Well men are two different people for each sex. The man that women get is very different than the man that other men get. Those men get the honest and true person. Men reveal their true selv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 05:32 PM
7	Intelligence and Promiscuity Do you think you have explained why I would be insane? You have provided no legitimate response. I am assuming you haven’t read the document because if you did you would recognize how ridiculous it it and how much of a betrayal of the actual constitution it is. But like most conservatives you can’t argue the basis of the argument but will argue the character of the person. Let’s start here, did you read the document all 922 pages and not the sound bite version of it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 05:27 PM
6	Intelligence and Promiscuity Sir, I read the entire document all 922 pages of it. Because I always want to know what is being considered during elections. It is a weirdly based diatribe on how to circumvent any sort of checks and balances in the United States and turn it into a Judeo-Christian Fascist country. Read the whole thing. Also I do know conservatives, even some black conservatives and this document is focused on removing access to education and making sure there are no barriers to removing money from the public sc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:45 PM
6	CMV: Your wife is not your mommy. Wives should stop enabling husbands. Well getting relationship advice from TikTok is the first problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 01:51 PM
–	Q4W: Which of the following is most concerning in a potential partner, and why? Which do you find most acceptable? The most concerning is the lack of male friends. Men who don’t have other men as friends are a big red flag. Men who cannot function in a social circle of other people like him mean that he has been deemed off in some way and men are better judges of character of other men than women can be. If a man doesn’t have other male friends and I don’t mean casual acquaintances, I mean actual friends, I would not date them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 09:00 AM
1	Do you support no longer sending women to prison ? I think prison for men and women should be revisited. If you know anything about the corporate prison system then you would know that the justice system is another way to get cheap labor for major corporations. Out tough on crime laws created a system where rehabilitation fell way behind punishment. So the rates of recidivism are extremely high. The only thing I would like to see improved for women in prison is access to period products. Women shouldn’t be forced to bleed through their clothing.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 08:53 AM
12	Is it the bare minimum nowadays that men go down on women? The last time someone told me that don’t go down on women was 1998. He didn’t get a 4th date because sir we are not children anymore. I was 20.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 08:05 AM
2	CMV: Your wife is not your mommy. Wives should stop enabling husbands. When women go to that extreme a lot has happened to get there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:40 AM
4	Intelligence and Promiscuity The architects of it are still influential in the Republican Party.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:37 AM
15	Intelligence and Promiscuity If you spend any time reading the rights plan known as Project 2025, they are doing everything possible to reduce or restrict access to information and it is strangely focused on women. The goal is and has been for a long time to remove access to education for women because of a lot of the outcomes we see in this space specifically. The more educated women are, the less likely they are to marry young, stay indoctrinated into a specific religion or even allow their children to be indoctrinated. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 01:56 AM
1	How problematic would it be for a 37 man to have braces? Got my last set at 38 because I didn’t wear retainers. No one cares.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 08:58 AM
3	Women are not entitled to anything from men Sir, if you really want to go back, there’s a whole other set of women who were true lyricists. MC Lute, Queen Latifah Boss, Lady of Rage, and of course the original it girl Roxanne Chante. So no Nicki Minaj is not the queen of rap. But if we look at who sexualized rap first it would be Lil Kim which is why I called her out. Da Brat and Missy Elliott intentionally played down their sexuality in the genre.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 08:55 AM
8	Women are not entitled to anything from men No one is entitled to anything but there is a sense of entitlement from both sexes without any ability to compromise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 09:42 PM
16	Women are not entitled to anything from men That’s a whole lie. Lil Kim did not do everything that she could do so someone could say Nicki Minaj is the queen of Rap. My god that is straight blasphemy especially when there are so many better rappers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 09:42 PM
62	Women are not entitled to anything from men Water is wet. Birds have wings Mice eat cheese.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 08:10 PM
1	CMV: if he doesn't fight for you when you break up, he's not the one My grandma told me and my brother a long time ago, never give a person more than one chance to tell you they don’t want you. A person can show you by words or deeds but once you let me know, I am done. I find the amount of people who need to play these games immature. The same as men who do tests to see if she will pay or women who do tests to see how far they can push someone. It’s all childish games. If you feel the need to test someone than they are not for you. If you say words out loud that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 08:33 AM
2	The friendzone, as so many men see it, Does. Not. Exist.. Women almost immediately know if a guy is a total nope. It really isn’t. Sometimes you just meet people and you click as friends. I have some hot as male friends. I do not want to have sex with them at all. They don’t register for me like that. I truly don’t understand how that is such a hard concept. People can be attractive and still not check the box at all. There are no women in your life who you enjoy just hanging with them with no expectations and she is attractive. Just oh this person is cool. Even if they offered, you would be like nah, I lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 03:52 PM
1	The friendzone, as so many men see it, Does. Not. Exist.. Women almost immediately know if a guy is a total nope. Some of you just want to say this. The girl I like won’t fuck me. She’s nice to me, we hang out, we have common interests but she just won’t fuck me. I think some of you just don’t know how to be friends. I cook for my friends, I go places with them, I make sure to check on them if they are sick and make them soup, I invite them places I think they will like, I give them a hug if they are having a bad day, we talk about all kinds of things. Almost the same things I would do with a male partner. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 03:37 PM
2	Women are equally as guilty when it comes to “the wall” stereotypes. I know you have heard it. Good black don’t crack. So older black women who aren’t overweight generally look much younger for a longer period of time. I stopped aging around 32. I have not one wrinkle, laugh line, frown line, acne scar, no crows feet. Literally nothing. I look at pics from my 20’s and face still the same. I lost weight so I look even younger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 10:26 AM
1	Women are equally as guilty when it comes to “the wall” stereotypes. I hate to be the one to say it but nobody else will. Black women don’t age like that at all. Most black women still aging around 35 and then don’t pick up again until 60’s. Of course there are a larger amount of obesity in the black community but when they lose weight still gorgeous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:14 AM
5	Women are equally as guilty when it comes to “the wall” stereotypes. I try to tell folks all the time. It’a always your attitude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:11 AM
0	The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually available I don’t know that narrative. I happened to be blessed with genes that made me attractive. I don’t wear makeup or filters because I don’t have to. I have never had to. I literally own mascara and lip gloss. I don’t need to wear foundation because I have good smooth skin with no blemishes, my eyebrows grow in a natural arch. I have never had to try hard. That’s a privilege I know but there were plenty of girls who hated that they did all the things you described and still wound up not getting atte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 08:38 PM
1	The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually available I used to be and I was extra picky back then because of the stereotypes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 08:26 PM
1	The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually available If you say so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 07:40 PM
-3	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? Single dads are not attractive. They are as bad or worse than single mothers. They complain about having to pay child support. They want to off load parenting to the person without a child. They never have enough money to fully contribute. They take the joy of major life milestones. Your relationship time is always on someone else’s schedule. There is another person that has control over what happens in your life. If I wanted to have kids, why would I want to have a kid with someone that will co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 01:54 PM
3	The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually available She really is very dumb. Older women are less likely to be available because they have seen all the tricks that are out there and don’t fall for it. I look at the stuff I see these young women falling for and I aghast but then I realize they are young and dumb. There is never a day a man will tell me some of the stuff women are on here asking about and I fall for it. They don’t know anything. Also she also thinks that fat women don’t know about the trope that they are easy. That makes them even …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 12:20 PM
3	The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually available She is mad her fat friends get chosen and she doesn’t. It’s very common with skinny women. They don’t know why the fat girl gets male attention and she doesn’t so it must be something psychology wrong with the men because hey I am young and skinny. It’s a childlike mindset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 12:16 PM
5	The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually available If I am being honest, I don’t have any issue with people being shallow about looks. People are allowed to want what they want. I only get offended when people try to make disparaging remarks about other people. When I was fat, I was never offended that someone didn’t want to date me. But they aren’t allowed to come try to date me now. I am still all the things I was when I was fat but some people assigned morality to my fat as a sign of laziness when it was anything but. Also I didnt get on Ozem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 09:50 AM
8	The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually available What you are trying to do is get away from the read I just gave you. You equate thinness with attractiveness which is your right to do so but please stop talking about obesity like you know what you are talking about. You can be thin and be ill. You can be morbidly obese and your numbers show up better than the girl who eats 5 cashews and a celery stick. You are assigning your values to traits that you find attractive. At my heaviest, I was obese. That’s a fact but I was strong AF. I would go to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 09:44 AM
22	The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually available Tell me you are insecure without telling me you are insecure. Or wait, tell me your fat friends got chose and you didn’t. Why does anyone care who anyone else likes. I know a lot of fat and older women who pull handsome and attractive men all day every day. When I was at my heaviest, I always had hot men hitting on me. I had men dating me out loud and in public when I was heavier. Now that I lost weight, the face card still doesn’t decline. Fat doesn’t mean ugly. If you can’t get them because yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 08:07 AM
14	Do we have gender flipped passport bros I am going to do all I can to not get deleted because of bringing race into the conversation. There are a lot of black women that I know personally that have started dating men from countries like Ghana, Gambia, Dominican Republic and sometimes Nigeria. Especially if they are looking for marriage. There is a lot of cautiousness for black women when dating out of the country because of the hypersexual stereotypes that exist. I find when I travel out of the country there are certain spaces where I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 08:40 PM
3	RP men have this scenario of fuckzoning women they meet in their 30s when they are more stable/affluent, coz they were rejected in their 20s.... I wonder if they are talking about the same women? The revenge Fuckzoning usually happens only if the woman has had some issues that left her in a position where she is financially vulnerable. As a woman past my 30’s who does not have kids or financial vulnerability, if I didn’t want you in high school I didn’t reach out in my late 20’s or 30’s. Now that I am in a different stage, still not reaching out. Options will always be available to decent human beings who are deemed conventionally attractive. That privilege will always exist for men and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 04:22 PM
1	If most women had the same standards as single parent women the dating pool would be more balanced, women would be less broken hearted, and it would benefit everyone. Right. I know lots of childfree folks over 40.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 09:48 AM
3	Would you consider OnlyFan creators’s husband or partners cucks? Technically that dynamic is called Stag and Vixen. Cuckold usually has an element of humiliation and degradation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 02:15 PM
–	Double Standard I am not interested in doing equal chores if I am paying most of the bills. I do enough and my financial contributions makes up for the shortfall in what I am not willing to do. Making more money buys you freedom of time. That the hard truth that no one wants to say. If I had to fight to get to where I am career wise, I am not coming home to fold laundry. I am not coming home to clean toilets, I am not coming home to do anything that I don’t like doing. I can pay for that and if I can pay for th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 02:08 PM
–	Double Standard That’s fine. I will be a red pilled man then but I am not carrying the bulk of financial load and the household chore load too. That’s why I don’t date men who earn less than I do. It takes a lot of nerve to look someone in the face and say well I am not contributing as much financially but I also want you to do as much or more than me. It’s disingenuous to even say that a woman would have that luxury. She can still be the high earner and take on most of the management work of the house.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 01:55 PM
–	Double Standard I don’t consider it toxic. If there are two adults in the house and one person makes more money and contributes more why would that person still do more chores? I am not doing it. I am not paying for the privilege of earning and working as hard at home. My take is very simple and formed from dating men who have made less than me. If you want me to be follow your leadership and guidance then prove you are worth following. If you can’t prove it to me then why would I follow your ill formed plan. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 12:02 PM
6	Double Standard Honestly I believe that chores should be based on who is better at them if all things are equal. What I’m not going to pay a majority of bill and still do more chores than the other person. I can be single and pay for the chores I hate to be done. Which I what I do now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 11:26 PM
6	Double Standard Men who make less money rarely pick up more of the chores. So now they are being supported and doing was than me in the household. No thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 10:29 PM
3	What Educational Reforms Would You Advocate for to Address Any Pill-Related Concerns/Problems? My dad did his masters thesis on this which is why he didn’t allow me or my brother to go to co-Ed school. The school my brother went to had periods where boys could move around and get their energy out. It was way more experiential than just things by rota. It was designed for boys. For me, I went to a school where girls were allowed to go where their talents took them. It could have been math and science or robotics. There wasn’t competition for funding for sports or any special interests.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 07:07 PM
15	Which trait are you getting rid of? I think most men believe that only a big penis can get the job done even if women tell them other things get the job done. Maybe they are caught up with the aesthetics of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 10:03 AM
30	Which trait are you getting rid of? Getting rid of 7 inch penis. I know for a fact that 4.5 can get the job done really, really well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 08:58 AM
14	Q4W: You and your partner just had sex. They climaxed but you did not, who is responsible? Both are to blame. There are ways to slow him down so that you can somehow catch up but if you haven’t established that type of relationship with your partner and he gets his before you do then the precedent has been set a long time ago. I am not going to sit there and stew about it though. I am pulling out a toy and giving myself 2 or 3 loud ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 02:18 PM
3	What do you consider to be traits of a functioning man/woman in society that you are shocked others do not? Not knowing how to do minor home repairs or basic household maintenance. I am not paying to get things hung up in my house or patching a minor hole. Even things like changing a socket should not be as difficult as calculus. People let things fail safe to other people and then get mad when they don’t do it when they want it done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/24 12:02 PM
–	This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias. I would say being able to have conversations. I have some friends that we all get together and have dinner and we have really good debates. Most of theme are married or dating someone. When we were younger, they were able to recognize when women weren’t interested. They were always respectful with me as a friend. They were able to talk to women when we went out. They were just normal guys who happened to go to all boys school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/24 10:39 AM
–	This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias. Not typically. There were some circumstances where there were joint events but not a lot. I think there were two clases that allowed both to take it but only in senior year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 10:32 PM
–	This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias. I mean, I am pretty close with a lot of the guys that went to my brother school and they pretty good social skills with women. They also aren’t chronically lonely like so many people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 06:46 PM
–	This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias. One of my original deal breakers when I considered having children was forcing my kids into co-ed schools. My sons and/or daughters weren’t going into an environment that wasn’t set up for them to succeed. I only ever attended all girls schools so I can see how I don’t have a lot of self esteem issues that plague women today. The value my family got paying for single sex education is incalculable. I would say it is worth it for families to consider that for their sons to give them a leg up. I My…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 06:28 PM
1	Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit us I love this for them. They are living their best life unencumbered with burdens they don’t want. They are also not out here trying to convince someone they are a good potential partner. They have hobbies and things that make them have fun and enjoy life and not be angry at what they aren’t getting. Why would anyone be mad at this? To that effort, If anyone has picked up bar-b-queuing as their hobby, can you please help me with the smoke ring on a brisket? I can offer up how to make superb Mac an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 05:30 PM
–	This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias. One of the things that I don’t ever see mentioned is the positive benefit of single sex schools for boys and girls. My dad did his masters thesis on this subject he found that boys had better outcomes overall when they went to single sex schools especially at the elementary level. The way that boys and girls learn are very different and behaviors exhibited by boys in the elementary level are seen as distracting and cause higher levels of discipline to male students. For female students the most …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 04:16 PM
1	Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men? You will get no argument from me. I don’t find most men enjoyable to be around long term anyway. I prefer to have a trip scheduled, have a good time on the trip, go home and check in with each other occasionally. If we had a good time on the trip, cool if not oh well. Neither of us hate each other and neither of us are required to see each other again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 01:32 PM
6	From a womans perspective, do you have a hierarchy of negative aspects to men? I would die single if those are the options. Why is anyone considering any of these options? Younger women, you don’t have to put up with any of these options. Just say no thank you and get a vibrator.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 12:47 PM
2	Do you feel like women can kind of have it all in a way men just can't ? All of that is great until she gets pregnant and the man walks away then everything is shifted. A woman’s options become severely limited once a kid is in the mix.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 12:06 PM
1	Parents hardly ever gave dating advice. If youre mad at your parents for not teaching you how to date, you’re flat out wrong. That’s fine. But my dad was a mental health professional and he knew how many people were out in the world causing people harm because they had all these mental health issues and not telling their partners until it was too late. If someone is offended by that question then they are not for me. I am ok with that. I wasn’t asking that when I was 16 but as I got older it became really important. I don’t have the capacity to save anyone and I don’t want to be in a relationship with someone that need…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 11:58 AM
3	Parents hardly ever gave dating advice. If youre mad at your parents for not teaching you how to date, you’re flat out wrong. This was dating in the 90’s and early 2000’s. The rules were very different. My brother was very tall, dark skinned and considered handsome and was an athlete. The girls would try to use him in Al kinds of ways or get pregnant. He was also undiagnosed with autism so he missed social cues. He’s made out fine. Married with five kids. Yes I know his looks helped but he still needed guidance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 11:39 PM
1	Parents hardly ever gave dating advice. If youre mad at your parents for not teaching you how to date, you’re flat out wrong. This makes me sad for so many people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 10:52 PM
3	Parents hardly ever gave dating advice. If youre mad at your parents for not teaching you how to date, you’re flat out wrong. If your parents didn’t give you dating advice they failed you. My mom, dad and grandma gave me all sorts of dating advice to me and my brother. It was specific for the level of dating that we were at and it was a roadmap on how to avoid dirtbags. I distinctly remember them telling my brother to be careful of the types of girls he dated and if they asked for stuff to soon they were probably users. I was never allowed to call boys on the phone. They had to call me. I was only allowed to receive or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 10:52 PM
11	Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men? I am the girl where my libido is deeply attached to my emotional needs being met when I am in a relationship. I am also not going to nag someone to do the things that help them to be met. I am clear and concise. This is the thing that is bothering me, here’s what I think can fix it, do you have any ideas on how it can be fixed. Nope. Ok, it’s not important enough for you to fix cool. Add a check to the list. Get enough checks and it goes from I can’t stand getting out of bed because I am away fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 02:17 PM
-3	Women don't really have high standards, they just like the exact same guy I was giving descriptors because it was easier to use sports analogies. Those are three very different body types.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 05:07 PM
3	Since the music talk is now a thing, as far as taste in music, what do you consider a red and green flag? I, a dyed in the wool R&B head dated a death metal guy. I literally don’t care except when they talk crap about my music.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 04:42 PM
-3	Women don't really have high standards, they just like the exact same guy My friends and I all like vastly different men. Just a whole wide spectrum of very very different men. In nearly everything. Looks, hobbies, even what part of the country they come from. My one friend likes men who are built like linebackers, my other friend prefers swimmers build, I am a fan of a cornerback body. My one friend has a preference for men that are super dark men with bald heads. My other friend likes men who are brown skinned. I don’t have a skin tone preference but I hate long bea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 04:32 PM
–	Men who are not conventionally attractive, why not date a bi woman/queer women who are into men? I don’t have those friends. Also you are in your 20’s. They aren’t friends yet. Those people are mostly your frienemies. As you get older, you will find more authentic friendships where you don’t have to hide your opinions because they may disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 03:08 PM
–	Men who are not conventionally attractive, why not date a bi woman/queer women who are into men? I don’t have friends where we judge each other so anything is open as a topic of conversation. I know it’s hard for people to understand you can have friend groups where we don’t judge each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 12:27 PM
5	The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting. I see this entire conversation and think about how my dad took me to college with him every day while he was getting his masters. The professor set up a little desk for me so I could sit color and read. He worked nights, slept a bit then we went to school. Mom worked during the day, got off and then somehow food was cooked, papers were written by dad and typed by mom. Saturdays were his and I hardware store and IHOP day. Sunday was me and mom’s farmers market day. As a kid I didn’t know this was…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 10:33 AM
–	Men who are not conventionally attractive, why not date a bi woman/queer women who are into men? I do and it’s still not true. I am in many queer, lesbian and bi circles. That’s a lot of my peers and friend groups and every single one of this is different. Most of them dont do the whole well feminine men are a decent enough match. It’s not and it’s also disrespectful to those men, well you are adjacent enough to women for me to scratch my itch. Maybe that’s what your friends do but my friends and community don’t treat people like a fill in for the traits they really want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 10:21 AM
–	Men who are not conventionally attractive, why not date a bi woman/queer women who are into men? Speak for yourself and not for me. I don’t like feminine men. I date women for them being feminine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 10:15 AM
–	Men who are not conventionally attractive, why not date a bi woman/queer women who are into men? For you maybe. For me, my male/female relationships are very different from my female/female relationships. Why would I date a softer more effeminate man when I can just date a woman. I have dated short men before but not because I am more accepting of them because I am bi but because they were decent people although my average male partner height is 6’2”. There some skewing in that average because I had two parters that were 6’5” and 6’6” respectively. I also don’t prefer my male partners to be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 10:14 AM
3	Do you think most men would be willing to forgive a cheating woman if she treated him well after ? If I am cheating then he should leave me. I am obviously a massive asshole and unable to live with my life with any form of integrity. Cheating is not forgivable. Leave my ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 10:02 AM
3	Q4W: What is the difference between having sex with a hot woman NOT striving for marriage and a hot woman who charges (time, energy, money) for sex? Divorces are initiated by women because men are simply too lazy to do it. They are fine with everyone being unhappy as long as they don’t have to do extra work. If more men and women went to therapy and counseling before they got married there would be a lot less marriages. I find most men to be low value even when they have convinced some poor woman to marry them especially when they have nothing to offer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 06:17 PM
2	Q4W: What is the difference between having sex with a hot woman NOT striving for marriage and a hot woman who charges (time, energy, money) for sex? Not really. When you spend time in pre-marital counseling and doing the actual work of having a successful marriage and finding out that you aren’t compatible for the long term that’s more high value than just wanting to have a pretty wedding. Being chosen isn’t just the goal. You literally have to make the damn marriage work and too many people including you obviously have this binary concept that marriage will magically work out and then get mad when it doesn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 07:26 AM
5	Q4W: What is the difference between having sex with a hot woman NOT striving for marriage and a hot woman who charges (time, energy, money) for sex? Three men have proposed to me in public. Two asked my father. Marriage looks like it sucks especially after going through pre-marital counseling. I don’t want to be married, am I medium value?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 10:25 PM
4	CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy? In some states the husband is the presumed father whether he signs the birth certificate or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 10:15 PM
1	If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways. Jesus. There you for assuming again. My dude, two things. I preserved eggs a long time ago in case I ever wanted to have kids so if I wanted kids I already have that option. Two, my ovarian reserves are quite literally on the same level as some women in their early 30’s because genetically the women in my family don’t stop ovulating until mid 50’s. Please stop going around telling people what you think you know. I didn’t want kids when I was 20 so it’s not a cope. The egg preservation was a favo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 08:20 AM
–	How are women treated post-wall? Scared of being alone and thrown away. Baby Girl you are doing exactly what they want you to do. You are panicking over how men treat you almost 20 years from now. You have anxiety about things that aren’t really a thing. I am 46. No husband, no children, not interested in either. Right now I am in the middle of an 18-24 month sabbatical just chilling. Today I made a strawberry pie. A few weeks ago I was in the Philippines. In September I’ll be in Paris taking a class on how to make Croissants. You get one life. You get to choose how…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 01:12 AM
1	If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways. Dude. I am in my mid 40’s and still get asked out regularly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 06:56 PM
1	If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways. The point is there are enough other people having kids. The things that I see happening in this country and other countries shows that we do need a slow down of adding more people to this earth. We have destroyed so much of the earth. We don’t care about children after they are born in the US. Our society as you call it needs to be reset. We are punitive and petty and mean to people who don’t think like us. Most people lack empathy or sympathy. We want to destroy anything that doesn’t fit into s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 03:34 PM
1	If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways. If they didn’t have me they probably could have done so much more but they made a choice to have a kid. Having me is the least important thing I think they did. They accomplished a lot and probably would have been able to do more but they made a decision to get married and have a child. That’s what they chose to do. You also seem to be really upset that I am in my 40’s and on Reddit. Is there an age limit? Should I be doing something else? I don’t have kids so I mean, there’s a book I could be r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 02:41 PM
1	If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways. I had amazing parents who did amazing things beyond me. Seriously. My parents loved me and I feel like I turned out ok but my goodness the things my dad did far exceeded just having a child. Same for my mom. She loves me and she is a really good mom but the work that she did had a much bigger impact than just being my mom. My dad and mom affected so many other lives in so many impactful ways. I couldn’t imagine thinking that their main contribution to the world is me. I am not that arrogant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 01:39 PM
20	If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways. It’s so weird that people think having kids is more important than so many other things. It’s the least important thing that a person can do with their lives. It requires no real skills or even knowledge. Literally anyone can do it and more people are bad at raising kids than are good at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 07:12 PM
45	If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways. Maybe I am too full of self confidence because I have always been prepared to be alone. It has never crossed my mind that I am an awful person because I didn’t get married. I have been engaged three times so someone chose me but with us doing pre-marital counseling it wasn’t a good long term match and I was ok with that too. Having kids and being married isn’t all that I have to offer the world. I always have to qualify with this statement. I am conventionally attractive and have not struggled i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 06:00 PM
–	Women, has anyone in your circle of friends or aquaintances died giving birth? A coworker. She has 3 girls. She was so excited to have a baby boy. We had a baby shower for her. She went out to have her baby and died while giving birth. We never asked why because it wasn’t our business but she died.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 10:05 AM
1	If a guy's GF/wife gets raped, how long do you think he should be willing to stick around with no sexual intimacy? If that is the question in his mind. He should leave when I get back from getting the rape kit done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 04:21 PM
5	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. Well it seems like you have decided that being a decent person means you get treated like shit, then you should be fine if no woman dates you if you aren’t a decent person. You won’t get treated like shit and neither will she.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 03:53 AM
3	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. Well now you don’t have to deal with women. More and more are choosing to just say no thank you and doing their own thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 03:21 AM
3	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. I guess you haven’t done as much research as you think. Men die alone in hospitals. There are very few women who have that same experience even when they don’t have children. Men who do have children and grandchildren are more likely to end up alone with way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 03:20 AM
5	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. No the word has evolved and you don’t like the new definition because it allows people to not be held to standards that you hold dear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 03:18 AM
5	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. Yeah no thanks. It looks terrible and again I have a wide community of other childfree people and it’s always someone like you how much it will be regretted. Most people don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 11:25 PM
9	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. And yet the numbers still show that no one learned anything since 2000 and more women are saying no to marriage and children. The lesson wasn’t learned back then and it still isn’t being learned now. So everyone is single and only one is remotely happy about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 09:54 PM
16	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. Women who don’t marry or have kids don’t care about any of this. Men have been warned time and time again, act like decent people, treat women like decent people. Help out at home and be fair in your treatment. What men hear, she wants me for my money, she wants me for stability so then she can leave and take my money. She wants to eat for free and steal my money. She wants to baby trap me and take my money. Ok, you got it. We don’t want you or your money and we will be over here chilling with o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 09:05 PM
0	why do women insist on dating men making as much if not more than them? Only a fool would not learn from past mistakes. But there are a lot of them out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 02:45 PM
1	why do women insist on dating men making as much if not more than them? I pay for my own lifestyle. I don’t ask anyone to pay for me. I have never. I don’t allow men to pay for my life because they expect something from me. I was raised that when men do things they want sex which is proven abundantly clear in this space. So to avoid having to provide sex in exchange for basic niceties. I pay for my own shit. I don’t ask men for anything. The cost isn’t worth it. I do what I want. Since I am just responsible for me, I can afford to do whatever I want when I want to d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 01:49 PM
4	why do women insist on dating men making as much if not more than them? I’ll be the bitch that says it. I don’t want to downgrade my lifestyle so he doesn’t feel emasculated. That’s it. I want to continue to do what I want to do when I want to do it and not have to pay for the privilege of doing it with someone when there are people that can afford to do it with me and not requiring me to deplete my resources. I get so tired of men always trying to figure out some way to make it seem like having any sort of financial requirement makes a woman a gold digger. Gold dig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 10:01 AM
5	How do men benefit from relationships with women? This was when I was younger. We would meet up, go on dates, watch movies, eat dinner regular couples stuff. We would go to museums or concerts or whatever we felt like. We may spend the night with each other a couple of times during the week but I didn’t do his housework and he didn’t do mine. We dated like couples do. I see why some of you are stuck in this awful dating cycle. The only version of a relationship you seem to understand is living together. If you don’t live together it’s FWB. The …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 10:17 PM
6	How do men benefit from relationships with women? We were dating but I don’t live with men that I am not married to. I did it once and it was a terrible decision. My parents raised me right. They aren’t moving into my house and I am certainly it moving into theirs. I have owned a home since I was 24 I would be stupid to allow anyone to live with me or give up my residence for someone who isn’t permanent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 01:21 PM
10	How do men benefit from relationships with women? When I used to date I was an exceptional partner. I wasn’t doing domestic labor because he was an adult and we lived separately but when I wanted to I would make amazing dinners. I wrote part of a masters thesis because I had a better grasp of the topic. I made medical appointments because they forgot. The amount of resumes I have had to re-write so they would get calls for interviews because they had no idea how to call out what they actually did in a way to get past the ATS. The amount of sala…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 10:27 AM
20	Question for Women: Is it true that you lose respect for men who perform oral sex on you? I would never have sex with a man who doesn’t perform oral. These are some of the weirdest takes ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 03:12 AM
1	What's the most superficial reason that you have rejected someone in real life, or left swiped them on dating apps? He asked why I wore sunscreen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 07:19 PM
3	CMV: affluent bachelors who refuse to marry are selfish cowards I don’t think there is anything wrong with any human being selfish. The word selfish has a negative connotation because it is used to compel people to do what others want you to do in service to them instead of yourself. More people should be selfish in the dating market. Men should be selfish about who they choose to date and spend money on. They should be selfish with who they choose to inseminate. They should be selfish when considering what family they marry into. They should be selfish when…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/24 09:22 PM
7	Why do men care if older single women are lonely? I have been told in this very subreddit that I have wasted my life because I have chosen to be single and have no children despite being raised in a loving two parent home, college educated, attractive by most standards and have nuturing skills. I have wasted my female abilities to be some man’s partner when I like the life I lead now. When women choose to be single, especially women that fit a certain demographic of desirable for partnership, some men feel it’s an affront to them that a woman w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/24 09:14 PM
5	What's wrong with being a cuck? You obviously don’t live on the east coast. I know for a fact that there are a lot of men who make a lot of money who enjoy that kink. I also know a lot of men who are completely submissive when coming home from their very well paid careers. So this is not a truth at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 02:01 PM
5	Do you ever view men as "good breeding material", and do you find it troublesome, or gross that men subconsciously see woman that way? Not my issue anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 12:30 PM
3	Why are people (mostly men) obsessed with relationships/sex/gender? Probably the most logical and nuanced discourse I have seen on this subject. I have opted out of dating men for long term relationships because I am so fulfilled by my friendships and other relationships. I don’t need men to get a sense of family or connection. Friends of friends have become my friends. I can see how much harder it would be to create those interconnections for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 08:20 AM
3	Do you ever view men as "good breeding material", and do you find it troublesome, or gross that men subconsciously see woman that way? His family had a history of really bad athletes foot. Every male in the family had the kind that couldn’t be really cured. Like ugly toenails that had to be lásered. That one seems petty but I never wanted his feet to touch mine. Every single one of them needed the extensive braces package, not the basic one. Like jaw reforming etc. All i saw was a lifetime of dollar signs just to give any potential kids a level playing field. They would probably be attractive but thousands of dollars spent on s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 08:15 AM
8	Do you ever view men as "good breeding material", and do you find it troublesome, or gross that men subconsciously see woman that way? Back when I wanted kids, I dated a guy who had them. Worst decision ever but I knew I would never have kids with him. 3 out of 4 of his kids were neurodivergent. He also said everyone a few people in his family had dementia. There were some other physical characteristics that I was absolutely not willing to risk. Not height or anything like that since he was tall but there was no way I was willing to combine my egg with that minefield of issues. I don’t know why people don’t admit this but if as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 07:23 AM
3	Why there are so few dominant/provider women? You may need to be BDSM spaces but even then there is a significant amount of things that you may have to be willing to accept to live that dynamic. Dominant women do exist but the ask is still going to be the same. You are going to have to completely upend anything you think you know about being home and being submissive. You are seeking a dynamic that doesn’t exist completely in the vanilla world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/24 11:38 AM
–	As a White Man, Black Women get hated for no Reason, and i never understood why this is. In this group specifically the white men hate when I refute them in any way with actual facts. Just yesterday I was called a piece of shit for providing data and facts about the black experience and privilege when I was quite frankly the most polite I have ever been because I am trying to help people understand vs being combative on this particular subject White men as a whole refuse to accept or acknowledge when black women tell them their truth. What black women know to be true early always se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 10:51 AM
2	Men want fairness in mainstream culture and discourse, not any female subjugation or violation of women's autonomy. The undervaluation is a problem when people are trying to sell their homes. A new person can’t get a mortgage for more than the appraised value. So it’s more than just property taxes and divorce. Also let’s say drug crimes. A person still gets more time if they are a black person than a white person for a drug crime. It’s not petty crime and I don’t need to fix the numbers. They are easily available and it tells of your character that you want to call me a piece of shit when I was respectful to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 04:37 PM
9	Men want fairness in mainstream culture and discourse, not any female subjugation or violation of women's autonomy. Have you really done any research into what systemic racism is though? Here are five things that are systemic racism that have a direct impact on black people today. When a lack soldiers came back from WWII they were denied the use of Gi and Veterans home loans. What is the easiest way to pass wealth to your descendants, property. If those families weren’t allowed the same benefits to purchase property then creates a disparate outcome for one generation removed. Redlining. If you don’t know what…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 01:09 PM
0	The reason women have stronger communities/support networks than men is pro-female bias and male disposability. So there’s a saying the west coast is nice but not kind. The east coast is kind but not nice. The south is nice but not kind. The Midwest has their own version of nice but not always kind. I live on the east coast, we might not be nice but we are kind and there is nothing kinder than seeing someone not having a good time and inviting them in. You never know what someone’s story is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 06:14 PM
0	The reason women have stronger communities/support networks than men is pro-female bias and male disposability. I have never seen that happen. Not once. I have all the hobbies and go all the places and not once have any of our group not taken someone under our wing. Not one time. Some guy was alone at a bar we were hanging out in and we invited him along. That guy hung out with us all night. He was in every picture. He got all the phone numbers. He showed up on a trip and got the Norm greeting. We were doing a onsie bar crawl and saw two guys who looked so lost and confused, join us we don’t know but you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 05:50 PM
2	The reason women have stronger communities/support networks than men is pro-female bias and male disposability. I said that people are way more likely to take you under their wing if you just show up. Complaining about how nothing works and making it everyone’s fault doesn’t fix the issue of having to show up. I know it’s easy for me to make friends. I am an extreme introvert that prefers books to people but I showed up someplace. I tried. I didn’t complain and or blame I literally just showed up. I gave examples of how if you show up, people will work with you as long as you are trying with them. This is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 05:31 PM
2	The reason women have stronger communities/support networks than men is pro-female bias and male disposability. I once made a friend because I went to farmers market and gave a tip on how to use a random vegetable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 07:49 AM
4	The reason women have stronger communities/support networks than men is pro-female bias and male disposability. Men I know you are not ok but when are you going to stop complaining and get outside. I have a pretty wide social circle with people from all over the country and all walks of life, every race and every type of random personality. Most of these people are friends because our trips got out the group chat. That’s how we met. We go on trips we hang out for a week and then when we get back, we talk to each other. Every time a new guy shows up, we check on him constantly, we drag him along to the kar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 07:30 AM
–	Women complain that men don't believe them when they say "penis size doesn't matter", but WHY should men believe them in the first place? Hell yeah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 01:15 PM
–	Women complain that men don't believe them when they say "penis size doesn't matter", but WHY should men believe them in the first place? Every time someone brings up penis size I bring out this little anecdote. The best orgasm I have ever had is so with a man that had a penis that was about the size of my pinky finger. I have long fingers for a woman so let’s say about 3.5 inches and maybe two woman’s fingers thick. He wasn’t the great love of my life so let’s throw out that fallacy of my emotions were the reason. He was good at oral but that wasn’t what pushed me over the edge. He was able to find the spot that worked and once h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 11:53 AM
4	Is it tougher being childfree? Oh I know some people in that area. I’ll send you a note. If you are on FB try SINK to DINK.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 09:40 AM
4	Is it tougher being childfree? Don’t listen to this dude. He has an agenda and has no idea about childfree people. The offer stands if you would like to be introduced into some childfree spaces that have age appropriate people then send me a DM. I have a pretty good network of spaces for people like us since it is so niche and I know men don’t get the same amount of representation. I don’t offer to help men very often with stuff like this but you seem sincere enough and there is some childfree woman wishing she could find you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 09:04 AM
5	Is it tougher being childfree? It’s possible to be childfree and find a long term partner. I know a lot of childfree women who would give an arm to find a legitimate childfree man and not a fence sitter. Here’s some advice. Don’t compromise. Don’t date people with children, they want you for your time and money. Only use condoms that you purchase and retrieve from a secure place. Never trust anyone else’s birth control, no matter what they say. Don’t believe she swallowed unless you check. Be upfront early that you are childf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 08:58 AM
1	Most relationships with the woman earning double the income of her partner are doomed to fail from the start Yeah, I am not dating anyone because I don’t want to get married. It is a losing game for me and women like me. It’s looks terrible even the happy marriages have way too much compromise for my liking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 06:15 AM
0	Most relationships with the woman earning double the income of her partner are doomed to fail from the start I have lived with someone before and while I don’t have children. He literally refused to figure out how to do anything. Even though I was making 4 times his salary and he worked from home. Everyday I would come home and hear what’s for dinner. So your lived experience is not more valid then mine especially when other people I know of have the exact same experience with kids thrown in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 06:28 PM
-1	Most relationships with the woman earning double the income of her partner are doomed to fail from the start Ok so you being an anomaly makes what I say false. There are outliers everywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 05:32 PM
-1	Most relationships with the woman earning double the income of her partner are doomed to fail from the start No,but the actual premise of my initial argument is that even when the woman makes more money she still bears the burden of managing the household. She still has to do all the things while having a man that resents her. Men who are SAHP can be very good but they still will resent the partner and treat her poorly due to their insecurities. I never said they were lazy or incompetent. I simply said if both parties are working and he makes less he will resent her and be entitled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 04:35 PM
1	Most relationships with the woman earning double the income of her partner are doomed to fail from the start She takes on more of a burden in that dynamic. Men will marry a woman making more money than them and still expect her to take on the traditional female roles in the household. She will still be responsible for keeping the house clean, groceries, maintaining the kids schedule because he resents her having money and doesn’t want to take on the domestic stuff further emasculating him. In the M/F dynamic she is at least earning her fair share by doing all of the domestic things. If she is a SAHM th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 02:13 PM
-1	Most relationships with the woman earning double the income of her partner are doomed to fail from the start I am not a lesbian. I date women and men. Mostly men but occasionally women so I have the joy of seeing it from both sides. Also you are being petulant because I won’t concede the point that men resent women who make more money than them and become entitled because of it. They feel slighted in some way because how dare a woman outearn them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 01:54 PM
0	Most relationships with the woman earning double the income of her partner are doomed to fail from the start If we change genders, the fair weight becomes the inordinate amount of domestic duties that most women take on. It’s all the cooking, cleaning, planning for life stuff that women shoulder in most relationships. It’s the time off to take care of kids, it’s the career progression she gives up to have said kids. I know women who are SAHM who haven’t brought a bra in years because they feel guilty using his money for something that isn’t a household item or for the kids. The women that I know and da…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 01:23 PM
4	Women of reddit, would you be ok being the breadwinner if it means the husband only gets to have an open ended side of the relationship? Why would I, when my ability to earn has always outpaced nearly every man I ever dated. I treat me way better than any man and I can afford my tastes without anyone contributing. I don’t need to pay for penis. I am an attractive woman with high self esteem. My options for companionship don’t come with dumb as ideals like this. Plus I am bi so I can also date women who earn as much as me and have amazing adventures without the misogyny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 12:41 PM
–	How are western women not embarrassed? Yeah ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 12:30 PM
3	Women of reddit, would you be ok being the breadwinner if it means the husband only gets to have an open ended side of the relationship? Yeah that’s stupid and you know it. When women don’t work they take on all the domestic labor and expected to fuck on demand. You are trolling and I don’t feed them	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 12:30 PM
3	Women of reddit, would you be ok being the breadwinner if it means the husband only gets to have an open ended side of the relationship? If I am the breadwinner, I am doing none of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 12:16 PM
0	Most relationships with the woman earning double the income of her partner are doomed to fail from the start Ok. You don’t have to agree for it to be true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 10:39 AM
-1	Most relationships with the woman earning double the income of her partner are doomed to fail from the start This is exactly what I tell women, never date below your tax bracket. The amount of resentment men carry even silently will impact your marriage or relationship. He will have a sense of entitlement to a lifestyle that he cannot afford and will not carry his fair weight. There are too many women that make too much money that are broke because their male partner will somehow convince them that if he has to pay any bills then she is a gold digger. He will always have money for fun things and you wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 10:04 AM
–	How are western women not embarrassed? Aren’t men embarrassed that women would rather die alone than marry them? Are men embarrassed that they are so distasteful that women would rather not have children than to have children with them reducing the birth rate around the world. Aren’t men embarrassed that they have to pay to play? Aren’t men embarrassed that no wants to even be their friend because they are weirdos? Remember it’s a loneliness epidemic, men can’t even convince other men to be their friend anymore. Aren’t men embarrasse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 09:47 AM
–	One of the factors of the male loneliness epidemic: women not dating down emotionally I don’t believe in religion as any sort of actual therapy and it plays a huge part in some of the crap that women and men are going through. The idea that the Catholic Church is a viable substitute for actual therapy is laughable. The same way I find church based marital counseling abhorrent. Church has a place for a lot of people to focus on their faith. Therapy by a licensed therapists deals with issues that have underlying causes. Things like depression, suicidal ideation, anxiety, etc can be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 09:36 AM
7	One of the factors of the male loneliness epidemic: women not dating down emotionally Women are not emotional support humans for broken men. Get your shit together or stay single. What the bloody hell is this line of thinking. Go sit on a fucking couch and unpack your shit with a licensed professional who can give you actionable advice and help you sort the chaos in your head. Leave women alone. Jesus Christ. 4B sounds better and better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 03:17 AM
1	Parents have to be more conscious about structuring the socialization of their kids, especially boys I know this to be true but that specific statement is one I have found to be the most true statement about first wave feminism. I know they feel the same about DEI and ESG but due to what I have experienced that statement hits hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 06:12 PM
2	Parents have to be more conscious about structuring the socialization of their kids, especially boys Dammit why do I have to agree with you so hard on this statement? Ugh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 10:38 AM
1	I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest group I totally get it. I was a caregiver for my dad and paid out of pocket for a lot of his therapies. The main thing is to try to find people who have things in common with you. That’s the best place to start.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 10:34 AM
3	I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest group Your people are out there. You just have to be open to meeting them. One of my friends said she thought I was a mean girl until she sat and talked to me and figured out I was an introvert that stay watching people and try to figure out who is going to be in someone’s room at night during a group trip. I was usually right. I am a sci-fi nerd. I do Star Wars, Star Trek, Comic books Marvel is superior to DC. But the Warner Brothers animated series are actually really well done. I read a lot so alwa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 09:56 AM
6	I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest group It’s funny how we all came together. One woman I met at a job 25 years ago. We just clicked. We went through all kinds of things as friends. One friend I met when I was learning about canning foods for a homestead. She has all the old skills in case the zombies come. Three ladies I met as part of my travel group. We used to all meet up on trips from the same travel group and then we talked and found out none of us wanted kids. The other ladies I met when I was doing career coaching. One I met in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 05:55 AM
3	I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest group I can probably make that work. Do you collect foreign currencies? I got some Thai baht coins I can send you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 10:10 PM
4	I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest group I plan on using it all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 08:41 PM
16	I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest group Resident childfree happy person here. Every single time this comes up I have to say it’s indeed as happy a lifestyle as the traditional route with the added benefit of not having to deal with snot and poop. Happiness as I define it is my ability to do the things that bring me joy on my own terms. I cook, I bake, I learn hobbies, I travel, I read, I go to museums and random events because they look like fun. I literally do what ever I want on my own terms. I don’t have to consider anyone else whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 07:25 PM
1	Men should avoid dating sexual assault victims Men who have been sexually assaulted manifest their trauma in other ways. They absolutely do care they just don’t actualize it in a way that leads towards healing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 06:40 AM
1	Do you think men should ever show emotion in front of a woman? Men who don’t show emotions in front of me are a giant big red flag. Who wants to be with someone where I have to poke and prod to get any information about what is going on when it’s obvious. Men aren’t as good at hiding their emotions as they think they are. Anger and frustration aren’t the only emotions people should experience and if that’s all a man ever shows then he is creating an environment that is fraught with anxiety for those around him. If a man is having a hard time, it usually man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 05:51 AM
3	Women complaining about men only valuing their bodies do not realise how boring the average woman is. Men being Homosocials is only logical. I find interesting people have a unique ability to fit into many social situations. The relationships you have e with your friends is great and should be upheld however men who don’t take the time to have any interest outside of their small niche of interests are also the same men who struggle in finding strong long term relationships. I volunteer to career coach veterans transitioning back to civilian life about how to engage in a manner that is counter to one of the most homosocial environment…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 03:56 PM
1	You aren't in the mood. Your SO promptly masterbates and calls it a night. How do you feel? I am completely fine with it. He had a need, he took care of it. Why would it bother me? Why would it bother anyone? I mean I find it kind of hot when my partners do that in front of me so I would be a tad disappointed because he finished and now I am ready to go. It’s a fact of life that people may have differing sexual desires or needs. I would be weirded out if he went in the bathroom to do it. We have a bed for that reason but ok. Whatever	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 11:18 AM
–	It isn't immoral to have kids before marriage. Yeah, I have no kids and I am pretty pissed at this blatant abuse of the welfare system. And I the kid of a social worker. I know how valuable those services are. It’s pretty freaking disgusting that you are teaching your kids that it is ok to be underemployed to maximize the benefits you can steal from taxpayers. What’s even grosser is that you are exactly who Reagan was talking about while I am accused of it. I won’t ever have children because I was a responsible human who didn’t let some rand…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 11:31 PM
3	"You should get therapy", is chasing women all there is to mans life? Every therapists isn’t the same and they are human so of course they have their own individual judgment and biases. Also I said nothing about what is espoused here. What I said was mental health check ins are important and there may be things that you have even identified as an issue. Depression can sneak up on a person and they not even know it. There’s lot of things that therapy can help with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/24 10:11 PM
3	"You should get therapy", is chasing women all there is to mans life? The same way I tell people they need an annual physical your mental health is as important and needs to be checked on a consistent basis. As we are often told in this space there is an epidemic of male loneliness. A direct mental health outcome of that is depression. Depression can be dangerous and needs to be addressed. Anyone that has some childhood or even adult trauma needs to do the work and it’s not as simple as reading a book or ignoring it. To be frank, I have found that a lot of men hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/24 08:20 PM
15	The only ones who really care about 30+ year olds dating 18+ year olds are older, and/or unattractive and unable to partake I am disgusted by it. It’s gross and predatory on both sides. This whole deal where 40+ year old women are going after 18-23 year old men is gross the same way it’s gross when men do it. I have always been considered conventionally attractive and found it gross when men did it to me and find it even grosser now when there are so many ways to meet age appropriate women. When I was 20 and a 40 year old man wanted to seriously date me, I asked him why and he gave me some bull crap answer about us b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/24 07:47 PM
–	Why is female body hair considered controversial/political He’s talking about pubic hair not a beard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/24 11:49 AM
4	Can refusing sex be a valid reason for breakup or divorce? You are self described as Asexual. You should not marry or date anyone seriously who does not understand that sex is off the table for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/24 06:53 AM
–	As a male victim of serious domestic violence it is heartbreaking some women shut down after I tell them. I am so very sorry you went through that especially because the likelihood of any real punishment happening is slim because you are a man and she is a woman. Here’s a truth, when you are a victim of DV, SA or even childhood sexual abuse there’s shame associated with it. There’s shame that you did something wrong or you are dirty somehow. Anyone who has not experienced it may not have a full understanding of what you have experienced. They don’t know and they can’t ever fully recognize how you ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/24 10:26 AM
2	If women want sex as much as men, why do they consider it “being used,” make men wait, and have the ability to go without sex for extended periods of time? Damn that sucks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/24 08:59 AM
6	If women want sex as much as men, why do they consider it “being used,” make men wait, and have the ability to go without sex for extended periods of time? Nope. Women have ways to combat pregnancy and women release the pair bonding hormone during orgasms not during sex. Men are not as great as they imagine at producing orgasms so yeah masturbation works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/24 08:18 PM
21	If women want sex as much as men, why do they consider it “being used,” make men wait, and have the ability to go without sex for extended periods of time? Masturbation gets the job done every time for women. Men are not known for being satisfactory every time so why have sex with a maybe when you can have a sure thing. Women can wait because we have had enough disappointing sex that waiting isn’t really costing us anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/24 06:16 PM
–	If Society “Doesn’t Hold Women Responsible”, What SHOULD Society Be Doing to Them? An attempt it a cry for help from what I understand. I don’t even understand the attempt. I haven’t met anything yet that I feel like I would be better off dead. Literally nothing and I have had some moments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/24 07:12 PM
–	If Society “Doesn’t Hold Women Responsible”, What SHOULD Society Be Doing to Them? Yeah nope. I have never considered a man as a solution to a problem. Neither have the people that I know who have experienced homelessness. Men are never the solution. They are usually the source of the problem. If life handed me a can of ass, I would never consider how can a man help me. There’s a cost associated with that and I am not willing to pay it. Luckily I can always count on my wit or my grit. There is never a day I count myself out on fixing a problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/24 06:34 PM
–	If Society “Doesn’t Hold Women Responsible”, What SHOULD Society Be Doing to Them? Here’s the funny thing, men lack the resilience that women have for whatever reason so the suicide rate will probably never be the same. Women have the ability to most of the time see through situations so that killing themselves isn’t the first solution or even the 100th solution. There’s a certain set of problem solving skills that men lack when it comes to desperation and a lot of it is attached to being prideful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/24 06:27 PM
–	If Society “Doesn’t Hold Women Responsible”, What SHOULD Society Be Doing to Them? Where is this statistic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/24 06:22 PM
–	Did Your Parents Have a "Get Together" Story? How Did it Affect Your View of Dating? My parents met at a party. My dad had recently got out of the Marines and my mom was just hanging with friends. Dad said she was built like a brick house and he tried to get her to go see the mirrors on his ceiling. She wasn’t going for it. Turns out their parents knew each other and they dated and got married in a big Catholic wedding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/24 09:30 AM
1	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault Oh Jesus. So happy there are so many single people in this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/24 09:01 PM
2	How likely are you to believe someone who says they've been raped? What factors would influence your judgement? Am I the justice system. I am not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/24 09:01 PM
5	How likely are you to believe someone who says they've been raped? What factors would influence your judgement? Dude did you read. I said it for women and men. I don’t discriminate on that. I know what happens to men that never gets reported. I know boys that are molested by older women and they get the old pat on the back. I know men who are groped and felt up and feel disgusted by it. I know men who were tricked into dorm rooms and were too drunk to really consent and because they got hard a woman took advantage. I know men who were sexually assaulted by other men and were embarrassed to tell anyone. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/24 08:22 AM
2	How likely are you to believe someone who says they've been raped? What factors would influence your judgement? I still believe the accuser. I have seen way too many family members get away with predatory behavior and it be swept under the rug because of the shame it could Bring to the family or whatever. Silence is what allows predators to continue to be in polite society. I have no problems cutting a person off to make another person feel safe. I don’t care if someone has never done anything like that before, I hear, they’ve never been caught before. If my woman friends are grabbing random pensies then …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/24 03:43 AM
1	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault Good for you. Too tedious to be let out on the side of the road in a strange place where they were taken by a person with bad intentions but the woman is the stupid one. Not the man being the predatory one. Again, I see why so many men are single and lonely and will remain so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/24 03:39 AM
6	How likely are you to believe someone who says they've been raped? What factors would influence your judgement? If a man says he was raped, I believe him. If a woman says she was raped I believe her. If a trans person say there were raped, I believe them. When it comes to rape, the burden of proof to me is on the rapist to prove they didn’t rape. Especially with how comfortable people are about being dismissive of unwanted sexual acts. Once someone says that the other person is a rapist they goon my list and stay there. I don’t need the accuser to go to the police, because male or female they will probabl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/24 02:38 AM
2	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault And reason number 47 why she chooses the bear. It’s a date, it shouldn’t be this hard and it’s diabolical how men will justify a man’s poor behavior as a woman’s fault. I can see why so many of you in here don’t have partners. Thinking like this is why you deserve to never be alone with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 09:24 PM
2	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault Tell me again how women shouldn’t choose the bear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 09:21 PM
5	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault Jesus. All hope is lost for mankind. We can now justify a woman being assaulted as her fault for believing a man is going to be a decent person while on a date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 04:17 PM
4	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault So getting in a car to go on a date warrants being held hostage or discarded on the side of the road unless she gives up some sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 03:53 PM
10	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault So you are still making it the woman’s fault for being sexually assaulted. She is going on a date. She should take a gun on a date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 01:26 PM
11	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault On a date. Ya’ll will reach to hell to pull out an excuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 01:18 PM
13	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault So once again let me explain, she would not have been in that location but for this man taking her there with nefarious intentions. It’s funny how someone can do gymnastics to say someone is not entitled to a ride when the sole reason they are in that location is by his choice. Say you agree with rape without saying you agree with rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 01:17 PM
10	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault Do you really think they were just going a mile out of the way. The purpose is to make it so there is no choice. She gets out of the car, solo woman walking on the side of the road. She was dressed for a date so probably not wearing hiking boots. Every car that passes is a potential threat for rape or kidnapping. If there are houses nearby, that is a threat for someone with a weapon protecting their property. The men who were doing this weren’t going a mile out of the way. They were going to pla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 11:12 AM
11	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault Date rape is legally punishable at least in my state. People have been prosecuted because of situations like this. And the two aren’t the same. One can have hurt feelings for being used and manipulated. That is morally reprehensible but having a person commit sexual acts under duress does not equate to the same thing. Yes I would feel the same way if it happened to a man. Sexual assault, sexual coercion, reproductive coercion are all things that men AND women should work harder to be taken serio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 11:06 AM
12	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault Sir, he set up the situation where he put her in danger of being let out of the car stranded or have sex. If he had said before she got in the car, if you don’t give me sex then I will leave you on the side of the road she would not have gotten into the car. Again, you are trying to defend something that is coercion and has happened more than woman care to admit. They lost their virginity in a car because a man took them someplace where they had no other option if they wanted to get home. If you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 10:56 AM
12	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault So you are saying it is ok to ask a woman on a date, take her to a secluded location and then threaten to leave her there if she doesn’t have sex with you? That’s what I am saying happened to a lot of women that I knew personally. There is truly no hope for mankind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 10:52 AM
15	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault The bear is probably the best option in this case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 10:50 AM
54	Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assault I am a kid of the 90’s and early 2000’s. I can assure you that there were women who had sex because they went on a date with someone and wound up someplace where the man threatened to leave them on the side of the road unless they performed a sex act. That is coercion. She said yes but what was the alternative. Stranded on the side of the road with a possible bear but at least not raped. Some of you have never lived in an environment where people do bad things and it’s very much giving, I would …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 07:02 AM
3	Men should stop asking women for advice This is another wild take that is particularly stupid. Never in my entire life have I looked at a man who asks first advice as another woman. It is usually a man looking for advice because I am either a SME on the topic or they are looking for advice from a perspective that may be from an angle they didn’t consider. Ex. A man was fed up with his wife and told me their dating story and how they came to live together. I was like my dude she manipulated the situation to force you to allow you to li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 03:57 AM
–	Q4W: Would you marry a male that checks all of your boxes except one - "has great chemistry"? I don’t waste people’s time so it wouldn’t get to the marriage part if we have no chemistry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 10:42 PM
1	I think people need to accept the fact women just don't enjoy sex. I am not a virgin. I never said that I was. How would you assume that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 08:58 PM
1	I think people need to accept the fact women just don't enjoy sex. I am older than most people on this forum so I have a much deeper well of experience on a myriad of things. I am 46.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 07:54 PM
10	I think people need to accept the fact women just don't enjoy sex. It’s weird that he wrote a whole dissertation on his idea that he thinks women don’t like sex. Not the women he has met don’t like sex but that all women are asexual. He tried to frame it as women wanting to have enthusiastic consent as them not wanting or desiring sex. Most women don’t say they don’t desire sex. Normally it’s they don’t want to be pressured into it or used solely for sex. They also want to be able to clearly convey what feels good to them without being shamed for desiring sex t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 07:52 AM
7	I think people need to accept the fact women just don't enjoy sex. I feel so bad for him. Like seriously he has never had a partner that desires sex. It’s so weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 04:03 AM
2	This sub is all negativity and debate. Post what you admire, appreciate, and enjoy about the opposite sex. In the professional work space I have found that men have always been my biggest advocate for my career. They have always been the one to tell me when I am being underpaid. They speak highly of me when I am not in the room and they generally are willing to help when I have a problem at work. Men are also super creative at problem solving. My dad could figure out ways to fix things that just made sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 01:20 PM
6	Do Some Men Prefer Women with Low Self-Esteem? Why? This is a very interesting conversation because men are almost diabolical with their need to humble any woman with high self esteem. It’s pathological at this point. If any women thinks too highly of herself and refuses to lower her standards than she is considered a narcissist. Never mind being diagnosed as a narcissist is actually quite complicated and a series of traits that people with high self esteem don’t have. Narcissistic people typically have very low self esteem and look for external …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 03:43 PM
–	Why do you think casual disrespect by women towards their male partners is so common? Is it really acceptable? The alternative to an eye roll is my reckless mouth which will hurt your feelings more than the eye roll especially if you are doing or saying something that is ridiculous. Choose your battles. My mouth will hurt your feelings way more than an eye roll will. I don’t date jokesters and buffoons for this very reason. It’s embarrassing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/24 01:37 PM
0	Why isn't the phrase "Nice girls finish last" as common? Because no one wants to admit that bitches thrive while pretending to be nice. It’s called passive aggression and certain people have a lock on it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 04:00 PM
5	Why isn't the phrase "Nice girls finish last" as common? There’s a whole book on this phenomenon. It’s called why men love bitches. Nice girls get the same treatment as nice guys. They aren’t the hot girl who gets chased. They get put in the friend zone same as men. They are the forever best friend who sure she is good to hear all the dating problems of her male friends but she doesn’t even get fully treated as anything other than an extension of the friend group. That is not to say, that any one of the male friends would have sex with her but she is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 03:33 PM
0	If a woman can't handle your insecurities, run like you're one with the Speedforce* For some reason, I feel like certain insecurities are on the individual to manage. I can’t do anything about physical characteristics that a person is insecure about. My choosing to be there should be reason enough for that person to understand that it isn’t an issue for me. If that insecurity becomes a running theme in every aspect of of the relationship, I am going to get exhausted of placating feelings about it. Empathy is not an infinite well that can keep be drawn upon because a person has …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 10:46 AM
3	Women aren't happier being single than men as the studies claim. They're never truly single to begin with Dude, you came at me about how i see things as transactional and then you toss out word salad to try to fake the moral superiority argument. I am the kid of a therapist. The one thing I have done consistently is go to therapy my entire life which is why I am able to recognize patterns of behavior so easily and why it is easy for me to not do things that don’t serve me. I treat my therapy appointments the same that I treat a mammogram. It is required so please stop with your fake little platitude…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 10:10 AM
3	Women aren't happier being single than men as the studies claim. They're never truly single to begin with That is factually not true. A man who sits at home and does nothing and doesn’t have any interests or goes out to do anything has zero opportunities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 09:36 AM
3	Women aren't happier being single than men as the studies claim. They're never truly single to begin with Yeah my ego is inflated because I earned it. It’s not overly inflated and you probably hate that too. It’s ok. I don’t have to date you and you don’t have to date me. Every day more women should look at the losing proposition that dating and marriage is for them. Men keep trying to tell women that romance is this thing to strive for and there is the big prize at the end, a man. Quite frankly if they used their logical mind and their business sense they would realize that men are treating marriag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 09:35 AM
3	Women aren't happier being single than men as the studies claim. They're never truly single to begin with Because you are saying that all these casual relationships are exist when they don’t. Women who don’t date, don’t date. Do I have a choice, of course I do, I was born with boobs and a symmetrical face but I don’t actively date. I don’t pursue any relationships, I don’t pretend that I am interested in someone for the purpose of getting to know them for something like term and my casual entertainment is usually I need a friend to go with me to an event that would be weird if I showed up alone. Sin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 09:24 AM
3	Women aren't happier being single than men as the studies claim. They're never truly single to begin with I completely agree. They can’t afford my lifestyle and resent me when I won’t lower mine to their or pay for them to do what I want to do. It’s a proton and electron relationship at this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 09:20 AM
6	Women aren't happier being single than men as the studies claim. They're never truly single to begin with I was on my last trip with about 50 women and 5 single men. Those were the numbers. There was a guy on the trip who was about 5’8” kind of chunky, and just average in looks. That guy had the best possible time ever. He was so charming and kind and funny that he was fighting women off with a stick. He never lacked for female company. He held stimulating conversations, he was the first to show up at happy hour and the last to leave when the night was done. He made a connection on the trip where th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 09:16 AM
4	Women aren't happier being single than men as the studies claim. They're never truly single to begin with I find men to be useful to talk to for a day or to accompany me to an event occasionally but for anything long term, the risk is not worth the supposed reward. I don’t accept mediocrity in my relationships. I learned that lesson hard and fast. So if they can’t meet me at my level, I am certainly not lowering my standards which is why I choose to remain single. I don’t want a man to be useful in the way that they think they are useful. I don’t want their bare minimum behavior and substandard way …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 09:08 AM
6	Women aren't happier being single than men as the studies claim. They're never truly single to begin with Nope and you are stupid for even thinking that. What does a man have that I need from him. I don’t need money, I don’t need a place to live, I bought a house when I was 30. i don’t need him to fix things because my dad taught me how to do that. I don’t need him to take me out to dinner, me and my friends go out to eat amazing meals together all the time and we don’t quibble about who is paying by for the check. I don’t want kids and if I did, i preserved eggs when I was younger so I can even do …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 09:03 AM
10	Women aren't happier being single than men as the studies claim. They're never truly single to begin with Jesus. Why are men so determined to disprove what is lived and experienced by women at every opportunity. I am single. I haven’t actively dated for the past 3.5 years after coming out of a really bad relationship. There is nothing any man can really offer me to not be single. I just got back from a trip to SE Asia. I have been to 6 countries in the last 5 months with an amazing group of women friends. I have been to some of the most epic concerts from some legendary artists all over the world th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 08:00 AM
12	Why is the role that makeup plays in women’s privilege downplayed so much? I am going to sit this one out. I never wear makeup and my face card never declines. This is another weird take. I don’t know if 80% is an accurate number. Most of the people I know are bare faced a majority of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 11:20 PM
–	Why do some men seem to refuse facts to remain miserable? I am a bit older than most posters here and I can tell that most of you never learned discretion at all. How I know this is that, your friends should not be comfortable asking your man’s penis size. If they are comfortable then they don’t respect you or your relationship. This is why so many of you have these failed relationships with 30 parties weighing in. My grandmother once said don’t tell your friends or family what’s happpenjng in your relationship because even when you forgive him, they w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 10:42 PM
–	Do most men want kids enough to do 50/50 childrearing? If people knew all the things that I outsource with no children they would be shocked and appalled. I am capable of doing all the things but I don’t want to. It’s that simple and these men think that women have some innate desire to be the maid in the house. Nope, I am also super petty and will only pay for my stuff if he has a crap attitude which is why I am single and solo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 10:29 PM
3	Do most men want kids enough to do 50/50 childrearing? Probably	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 06:21 AM
10	Do most men want kids enough to do 50/50 childrearing? Even when I wanted kids, a man could not comvince me to have them unless they were willing to pay for a nanny and a maid. Nobody wins when you add kids to an equation that is already inequitable on sharing domestic chores. It needs to be outsourced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 09:49 PM
0	CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibility In the US if you rear end someone even if they slam on the brakes in front of you it’s still your fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 11:43 PM
3	CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibility No. My argument isn’t don’t have sex. My argument is that there is an implied contract when having sex that a child could come from it. The same as it is understood if you drive a car an accident could happen and you not be at fault technically but may still bear some legal ramifications from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 08:58 PM
1	CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibility Jesus, do you know how limited abortions are becoming even in cases of rape. Do you also know that plan B doesn’t work for woman over a certain weight threshold. You want to argue semantics with me about your specific circumstances and I am telling you that there aren’t sufficient protections for everyone who is a victim of sexual assault because it isn’t believed nearly enough. That’s the work that should be done not every specific case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 08:56 PM
3	CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibility Look, I am not going back and forth with you on this. I told you my position, if the law doesn’t work in your favor then you sadly will be in the same position as many women who are raped and have a child from rape. Maybe, you should become an advocate for better laws against sexual assault male and female	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 08:37 PM
2	CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibility Same concept as reproductive coercion. He shouldn’t be responsible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 08:34 PM
5	CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibility Having sex is an implied contract that should a child occur and termination cannot be agreed upon that both parents will bear responsibility. Only in cases of deception like holes punched in condoms or retrieval of sperm from a condom should a man be absolved from paying child support. I am 100% childfree and won’t have kids but also know that sex could potentially create a child. If you don’t want children, don’t have sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 08:12 PM
–	A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that. You don’t have to like it and I don’t have to date you. See how easy that is. Also if I were a narcissist then I would do everything in my power to make people capitulate to what I want. Some of you don’t know what a true narcissist is and throw the word around like it’s some neat thing. It’s not. I was with a diagnosed narcissist which is why I will never live with or date anyone seriously again. Keep your mouth shut on diagnosing people if you aren’t a medical professional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 08:19 AM
11	A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that. Every time I see this discourse it’s always the same thing. I will say it. I am happy alone. I am selfish. I don’t like to share my space. I don’t want anyone’s opinion on what’s for dinner. I don’t like doing anything that I don’t want to do. I like to travel on my schedule and never ask anyone’s opinion on the destination. I am happiest alone. I have been in relationships, I have been engaged, I have done all the things. None of them have made me happier than when I am by myself reading a book…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 11:30 PM
2	Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger men I’m 46 and anyone younger than 42 is an absolute no go. There is way too much difference even for a 30 something for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 02:38 AM
7	Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger men I don’t find young men attractive or interesting. They have very little life experience, they lack any sort of self awareness about a myriad of topics, they are generally selfish in bed, they have questionable opinions about a lot of things, they lack a certain amount of charisma that only happens with age. They just don’t do it for me at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/24 10:53 PM
2	“It is a red flag to date a woman who accepts you as you are, because it means you won’t reach your full potential” do you agree or disagree ? As a woman, I don’t ever date potential. When a woman dates potential, he will eventually grow to resent you as he reaches that potential and see all the other options now available to him and so think lesser of you for being with him when he had nothing. I advise women never date potential. It’s a losing bet for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/24 10:46 PM
19	Why do women like giving blowjobs? Wow, tell me you did not grow up in a sex positive environment why don’t you. Also if you are dating men who don’t perform oral then break up. I have never once in my entire life been with a man who does not enthusiastically eat me like a whole meal, not a snack but a meal then ask for seconds and then thirds. You probably hate giving oral because it makes you feel degraded and used which is totally understandable if you aren’t getting oral and having less orgasms. Here’s a list of why I like to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/24 06:17 AM
–	Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard. Do you live on planet earth? Sex is mostly about men’s pleasure if a woman cums for most men that’s a bonus. I can’t believe you actually said and believe that. Then again on this sub, there are many things that are wild and wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 02:17 PM
–	"You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationships The word most is used so liberally around here I don’t think people know what it means. Hi, I am one of the women that protect my peace over everything and everyone. I will not have a relationship with someone again. I won’t live with anyone, I won’t have kids, I just don’t want to. I am also one of the women that had all the options in the world and still said no thank you. I am objectively good looking, I have always made good money, I had a great relationship with my father, I cook and I was …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 02:10 PM
–	Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard. Here’s the main problem. He didn’t have to remain not the best sex she ever had but because he was insecure, which she probably knew, he wasn’t opening to listening to how to be better. Women put up with mediocre sex because the male ego cannot take any sort of correction when it comes to how to please their partner. Any sort of comment about do this instead of that and men go into a spiral about where did she learn that from? So women mostly grin and bear mediocre sex. If he is a decent person …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 01:33 PM
-2	Has anyone noticed that pick-me women are always single? Why is that? Men don’t really want the pick me girl. They want the girl who has her life together so they can humble and break her. There are plenty of women who want to do all the things that so many men want. They want to submit and stay home and have babies and be led by a man but where’s the fun in that for the man. Where’s the thrill of the hunt? How can the agenda be moved forward if someone isn’t subjugated and a feature in a story where the hot girl who has it all except for the love of a man is sudd…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/24 12:12 AM
1	Study shows men view their ex partners much more fondly than women do, matches up with my experience. What are your thoughts? I can believe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 12:15 PM
2	Study shows men view their ex partners much more fondly than women do, matches up with my experience. What are your thoughts? Ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 01:57 AM
12	Study shows men view their ex partners much more fondly than women do, matches up with my experience. What are your thoughts? I have had really good relationships with all my exes except one. That dude can burn in the fires of Mordor, then he can cross the desert naked covered in honey so the fire ants can nibble at his nether regions followed by some time as Prometheus once the ants are done with him. Everyone else is a fond memory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 11:01 PM
2	Why should women take advice from people who loathe them? That’s fine. Happy for you. I don’t trust first wave feminists either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/24 05:07 PM
1	Why should women take advice from people who loathe them? Yup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 09:23 PM
8	Why should women take advice from people who loathe them? Everyone keeps bringing up Daryl Davis. He is one person that fits the feel good story so he must be the standard. He’s not. The standard is the idiots who marched on Charlottesville. The standard is people who are attacking the Mayor of Baltimore as a diversity hire after a bridge collapsed that has been there since before he was alive. I love how often one feel good story becomes your standard and I should change mine to fit in. They deserve to be ignored until they do the work themselves. It …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 06:50 PM
4	Why should women take advice from people who loathe them? I am not a man so I don’t enter into hostile spaces. Daryl Davis is a towering black man that can easily intimidate a group of men. I don’t have the same luxury. Also, they don’t want friends. They want sounding boards to their echo chamber. Friends consider other people’s feelings. They consider other people’s life and their perspective. They can’t tell if a woman is being friendly or trying to fuck and if she isn’t trying to fuck and she is older than 30 then she is worthless. Do you see where…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 05:02 PM
-1	Why should women take advice from people who loathe them? His point was well seen and mine remains the same. I don’t listen to them and I know they don’t listen to me. It’s wasted time or energy. I don’t empathize with them because they aren’t worth the emotional output of empathy. Something they rightfully earned. Nothing can be said to them that doesn’t fit their myopic view of the world and I am fine with that. The same way I don’t go places that fly the confederate flag, I avoid paying attention to most things that are said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 04:35 PM
7	Men Shouldn't commit anything significant to women or minimize commitment to women Ok. Sounds good. Next hot take. No marriage, no sex. Got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 03:59 PM
-1	Why should women take advice from people who loathe them? I don’t listen to racists or homophobes. There is no reasoning with them. Nothing I can ever say will change their minds. They don’t want to hear me so why talk to them or listen to them. Also anytime you give anyone advice they are in such a defeatist mindset that they don’t want to listen anyway. My stepmother was like that. I found it exhausting to try to convince a hoarder to clean her house. It’s a mental illness and I am not qualified to deal with it. They don’t want to form genuine connec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 03:57 PM
17	Why should women take advice from people who loathe them? Here’s the truth, you don’t listen to them, you don’t talk to them and you encourage other people to ignore them. I treat redpillers almost the same as I would treat a racists or a homophobe. They have severe mental limitations based on a fallacy that they have created in their mind with an echo chamber.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 01:29 PM
21	30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average. Is there a store that sells spinsters ensembles with a set of keys and matronly shoes for all those 30 year olds?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 12:42 AM
0	What exactly do women mourn after a heartbreak? I keep seeing you talk about what a man provides vs his physical self or him specifically. Men can never provide enough of do enough to be a factor once a woman has decided he’s not worth it. His character, actions and behavior get men left. When I leave a man, I never think of them again. I send an email to friends to not ask me about him or give me updates on him. I tell his family we are broken up and I won’t be continuing a relationship with them. I dated one man with kids and I told the kid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 06:49 PM
0	Listening is not the same as agreeing. Why do many woman equate the 2? When a woman stops talking to you she is already gone. She stops talking because you chose not to actively listen. It’s that simple, listen or don’t but don’t be surprised by the consequences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 04:37 PM
3	Listening is not the same as agreeing. Why do many woman equate the 2? Women aren’t the only ones with this trait. Men want to be heard just as much and if women don’t agree that their life is harder then we aren’t listening. See what I did there. Women don’t have a monopoly on requesting active listening, it’s just another cop out that men use to not engage and consider the other persons position. The fallout is this, if a woman doesn’t feel heard then she will actively stop listening to you. You don’t get the courtesy you refuse to extend. Agreement is not requir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 11:39 AM
0	A common form of miscommunication I noticed towards the way many of the men on here interpret dating advice directed at them One day, you will stop making yourself the victim and things will improve. There were a ton of qualifiers on that statement of he was not genetically physically attractive he was an average guy with an amazing smile and a good personality. He was a good person with a nice smile and it made him infinitely more attractive despite being averagely attractive. Every day I can see how the cynicism of the red pill makes each of you less attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/24 09:06 PM
2	What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment? Ok. Well I don’t know what to say about that except there are a lot of overlap in thought processes in the black community around topics of conservatism for women and men wanting submissive women due to their domineering mothers. Black women are caught in the middle because they are dating men who ingest red pill ideals but have no real way to be the providers and leaders. I am socially liberal but fiscally conservative and prefer to not have to train men how to be men because my dad was already…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 11:04 PM
3	What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment? Sir, you can’t even spell cuckolding correctly and if you can’t convince two women to date you at the same time that’s a you problem. Also, men would have a built in friend if they were polyamorous. That would cure the loneliness epidemic. I don’t see many black women on this sub. You have engaged with me in the past so maybe thinking I multiple people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 10:45 PM
1	What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment? Ummm no, that would be weird. I am not into the cuckold lifestyle. I am a black woman, my default is black men so I don’t have to go searching for some magical mythical penis that will fulfill all my fantasies. It falls in my lap when I am dating men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 10:31 PM
2	Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work? Not at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 10:28 PM
2	Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work? Yup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 09:22 PM
4	A common form of miscommunication I noticed towards the way many of the men on here interpret dating advice directed at them Some of it is self fulfilling though. People should care about having good teeth anyway. I described the person I dated who had the most amazing smile who was short and started balding early and I was told I was lying. It wasn’t just his smile. I met him at work. All the things and I was not feeling the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 07:35 PM
4	A common form of miscommunication I noticed towards the way many of the men on here interpret dating advice directed at them I gave a bit of advice once based on my actual preferences and what people I know prefer. It was actual tangible advice and I still got shouted down that I was making it up. It was simple as, hey a really nice smile is something that will get you noticed more so if you can, gets good cleaning and if you need braces, it’s a good investment. I was told I was a liar because smiles mean nothing. It’s the most basic form of communication that says hey I like you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 07:25 PM
2	What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment? Once again making assumptions. I am not on any dating apps. I have not once ever dated someone from an app. Literally never in my life. I am also a person that left a relationship and don’t jump right into the next one. So for now I don’t want a relationship because it’s less than smart to not spend time alone when you end a relationship. Yeah, I also don’t date men who aren’t in my tax bracket and my tax bracket is not any of the lower ones. Your assumptions are laughable because you don’t unde…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 06:49 PM
1	Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work? From my perspective it’s establishing whether someone is worth your time or where they rank in the societal hierarchy. They aren’t trying to take money necessarily but they are trying to see, where you fit within their established idea of acceptable human worth effort or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 04:17 PM
6	Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work? My grandma said this to me, people ask what you do for a living so they can determine the level of respect you are worth. I also live in an area where that’s the second question after your name and can tell how it will play out every time. I have found it to be true 95% of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 04:05 PM
5	What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment? That I can totally agree with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 04:03 PM
3	What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment? It is but of course since I am blue pill I must be making it up. I see it way too often. It’s super predatory and kind of sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 03:31 PM
5	What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment? You are making wild assumptions about a lot of things. Who says men haven’t wanted to be monogamous with me or with anyone poly? You are starting from a place of well I could never. That’s fine. Mono men treat poly women like some men treat lesbians. I can be the one to change her. It doesn’t work that way. I don’t want to be monogamous. Have I done it in the past, yes. Did I like it. Nope. Have I been engaged in the past, yup, did I wake up and give rings back, yup. Mono is not my default. It i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 03:30 PM
2	What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment? Yeah ok. Been doing it for over 20 years, have never been accused of being ugly. Not even once. Not by men or women but you have your opinion. Weird is also very relative. I think it’s weird that men don’t believe women are unsafe. I think it’s weird men believe their life is so much harder. I think it’s weird that men don’t know how to make friends but blame being lonely on women. There are lots of things that I think are weird. I am liberal on social issues and conservative on fiscal issues. A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 01:50 PM
13	What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment? That’s the part right there. It gets a bad name because people are using it to be horrible humans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 01:32 PM
9	What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment? Yeah so not true. There’s a lot of poly people, you just don’t know. A lot of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 01:31 PM
5	What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment? From a poly woman who has been doing this for over 25 years. Poly isn’t new. It’s just more people talking about it. The people who are finding out about it, probably didn’t consider it as an option or they are people who want to explore sexually but didn’t get the chance to. There is a code of ethics and a manner to doing poly that requires probably more open communication and honesty than what you may find in some monogamous relationships. In any type of relationships there are some pretty gro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 01:30 PM
34	Would you rather have a high value person of the opposite sex tell you that they like you but don’t want physical intimacy with you, or would you rather have sex with a high value person of the opposite sex who obviously doesn’t like you? I don’t want to have sex with someone who doesn’t like me. That’s weird AF.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/24 05:49 PM
2	CMV: Forcing people who don't want children/marriage to do it anyways doesn't always make a better society I am not disagreeing with that. I am disagreeing with her characterization of where the low IQ people are located.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/24 05:21 PM
2	CMV: Forcing people who don't want children/marriage to do it anyways doesn't always make a better society The problem is that you generalized it in one specific area. That’s the problem I have with it. Please don’t sit here and pretend that’s not what you meant. I can see through it every single time. That coded language doesn’t work with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/24 03:35 PM
2	Humans will eventually become a male-only species. If that works. Happy for it to happen. Unless men evolve to have sperm and eggs, you still need to get them from somewhere. There is this one author that I read where the men get certain designations of alpha, beta or omega when they are born. Omegas are the only ones who can get pregnant. I mean it could happen. All the men produce pheromones and find their special person to carry their baby and the omega men go into heat. The Omega men are protected and coddled and cared for. I can totally see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/24 10:59 AM
4	CMV: Forcing people who don't want children/marriage to do it anyways doesn't always make a better society My good, this is probably the most hyperbolic take I have seen in a while. I have seen some pretty weird takes in here but the forced breeding this is primarily an outlier conversation. Most of the men who want families are usually of the mindset that they should have them with the youngest willing participant. There are some nut jobs who think women shouldn’t be allowed to work but those are to the extreme. Child abuse in urban setting is more visible but let me very clear, child abuse happens …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/24 07:42 AM
1	Is there an epidemic of straight Millenial/GenZ women falsely claiming to be lesbians? Oh to be so loud and wrong and saying it with your whole chest. Damn it must really hurt that people lie about being attracted to a gender that is not you to get away from you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 10:03 AM
–	Black nerds of PPD, I want perspective on this Again, date who you like and who you can attract but don’t ever think that you are safe in that relationship. The highest interracial divorce rate is BM/WW.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 02:14 AM
–	Black nerds of PPD, I want perspective on this I appreciate that sentiment. I am a black nerd girl who only went to all girl school so there wasnt much that I saw in high school dating. I dated the same guy all four years but I totally get it. Physical attraction is a thing especially when there is programming on what you should be attracted to. All o have ever said is I don’t care who you date. Just don’t speak negatively on black women as a whole. We got enough problems in these streets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 02:13 AM
–	Black nerds of PPD, I want perspective on this Here’s the hard part though. No woman will go harder for black men than a black woman. Black women are the least likely to date outside their race. So it’s kind of awful to see black men making disparaging comments about black women when black women are the only ones who consistently stay on the front line to support black men. It is just now happening that black women are saying, no thanks to always defending black men. Do you think that black women don’t have the same struggles. Until Kim Kard…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 02:00 AM
–	Black nerds of PPD, I want perspective on this I really don’t because they are guilty of perpetrating stereotypes against black women. The default is that black women who rejected them were too shallow or gold diggers or slutty or whatever the answer is on that day. They give no context, they give no qualifiers, etc. That language then gets picked up by white women and white men who use it against black women. This is a problem of their own making.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 01:47 AM
–	Black nerds of PPD, I want perspective on this Every time a black man says he wasn’t liked by black women I know exactly why. I know black male nerds who are still clinging to the high school ideal that black girls didn’t like them and it was never that. It’s the same thing that happens across the whole red pill manosphere with an additional layer of self hatred. Black nerds wanted the girls that were always going to go after the football player or the most popular guy. Also there is a pretty high rate of undiagnosed autism in the black comm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 01:33 AM
3	Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) traditionally seen as "feminine" that you find attractive in men? Men, what's something traditionally seen as "masculine" that you find attractive in women? I love men who get manicures and pedicures. There something about a dude who takes care of himself on a deeper level besides a shower and haircut. Also waxing on the male bits, it’s so nice especially when traveling and doing hotel debauchery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 10:24 PM
1	How bad Is being compared badly tò her father? If I am doing the cooking and organizing and all the domestic things then I should be able to say, hey I want to replace the ceiling fan and he be able to do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 04:30 PM
3	How bad Is being compared badly tò her father? That’s fair for a lot of things. Unfortunately, I am of the generation where a lot of men didn’t have present fathers in the home so they didn’t learn a lot of basic DIY skills that were common. I also went to school to learn how to cook when I was younger and wanted to get married so the cooking and meal planning falls to me since I am literally trained to do it. I was raised with an OCD grandmother so I know my cleaning standards are higher than most. I still iron my bedsheets. It’s the princi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 04:03 PM
1	How bad Is being compared badly tò her father? Because I don’t want to have to be the default person to do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 03:51 PM
1	How bad Is being compared badly tò her father? All good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 02:31 PM
1	How bad Is being compared badly tò her father? I’ll have another unpopular opinion on this, when he was alive if my dad hated you, you didn’t last long. I’m not sorry for that either. He had more clarity of mind about specific male traits that I was blind to. I am only causally dating now but if you can’t do things like change a tire or fix a drywall hole, the most basic tasks for adulting then we are not a good match.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 02:25 PM
4	How bad Is being compared badly tò her father? You are intentionally misunderstanding the definition of strong and doing it in bad faith.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 02:21 PM
5	How bad Is being compared badly tò her father? My dude, only people who don’t know what they are doing or don’t follow generally safety rules lose their hands. I have been doing this since I was 11 years old starting with patching drywall and installing wall sockets. I am paid to make sure construction sites are following safety guidelines. Do you really think I would cut off my hand. Again, you do you. I just won’t date someone who isn’t handy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 02:18 PM
5	How bad Is being compared badly tò her father? Good for you. Someone once told me this and I stick to it, it’s not how much money I make, it’s how much money I keep. Can I hire someone to install a garbage disposal, sure but I can also do it myself. It doesn’t take that long and I am not spending money on something I am perfectly capable of doing. It’s just that simple to me. You do you, I will patch the drywall hole myself because my dad figured those are skills I should have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 01:29 PM
7	How bad Is being compared badly tò her father? That’s kind of disgusting since he’s dead. It’s weird to want a partner who is smart, handy, emotionally intelligent, generous, kind and a leader. All the things my father exemplified. It’s perfectly ok for a man to want woman who caters to him like his mom did but for a woman who had an active and present and good father to want the same you reduce to to sex. If you don’t know how to use power tools just say that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 12:31 PM
8	How bad Is being compared badly tò her father? Yeah that’s kind of stupid. My dad taught me how to fix things so I don’t always have to pay a repair man. I don’t want to be with someone less skilled than me on household repairs. I don’t want to be with someone who is unwilling to learn how to do household repairs. It’s super limiting. Also if you don’t know how to use power tools, it’s ok to admit it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 12:10 PM
2	How bad Is being compared badly tò her father? When a girl has an active and present father who is also skilled, you will probably never measure up if you don’t have those same qualities. She also isn’t going to tolerate it for very long. I hit the parent lottery with my dad. He could fix things so when I bought my first house we fixed it up together. He was emotionally available to me so I don’t tolerate people who aren’t. He was a girl dad before it was popular so he was my biggest cheerleader. Plus men who can’t fix things are kind of a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 10:58 AM
4	How bad Is being compared badly tò her father? This I 100% agree with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 10:52 AM
1	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? Ma’am, I am a regular American black woman. While there are elite levels of them here in this country, it is as closed to me as the Vanderbilts would be to the rest of the population. Just because I have and acknowledge my privilege doesn’t mean that it comes with all the access one would perceive me to have. That’s just me explaining how I am able to do what I do now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 10:51 AM
1	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? At this point, I just want someone to travel with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 03:40 PM
1	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? My best friend works for an airline. I am her travel companion. So I get my flights for free. It’s standby but since I have nothing but time I don’t mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 11:35 PM
1	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? I have airline benefits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 11:30 PM
2	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? I have always known it was required of me to accept that my life was privileged due to how I was raised. I was also taught that my privilege will not always play out in a manner that it can for other people. I also know that there are people who bought into the concept that women should not require men to be providers because they would be considered gold digggers. Somehow ride or die chick turned into a have no requirements chick. I will also say this, women believe this whole idea that the lov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 07:32 PM
1	What is a deal breaker you think the opposite sex should adopt? I mean it kind of does. Reading is the thing that levels the playing field for everyone when it comes to knowledge seeking. If you want to know someone or something, it’s in a book. If you can’t be bothered to seek knowledge from a book, what are you doing? Where are you getting information? How are you experiencing perspectives that aren’t your own. How are you learning history? Yes you can travel and watch videos of things but the written word is the great equalizer. Words are magical and beau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 07:25 PM
1	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? I am a black woman but one with a lot of privilege that I always have to acknowledge because it would be disingenuous if I didn’t. That privilege allows me a certain perspective and also access that everyone who looks like me might not have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 07:16 PM
2	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? I do lots of things. I read, I travel, I cook and try new recipes, I bake, I build stuff, I garden, I travel. I volunteer to help veterans do interview prep. I do lots of things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 04:29 PM
3	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? So to begin, I start from a place of extreme privilege. I inherited a lot of stock from two generations and two sides of the family. So telecom, food and beverage, aviation and other generals. Some stocks bought as far back as the 60’s, 70’s and 80’s. I had family that worked for the baby bells and the telecoms so they were able to get stock from paycheck purchases. So there is a lot of privilege attached to that and I am always honest about that. I continue to reinvest when I do work. I was als…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 03:40 PM
4	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? I never say that. I am as blue as they come on some things except financial stability. I tell women and men to never date someone outside their tax bracket. It’s a recipe for disaster. Can we all concede this point, women who are honest about wanting financial stability are painted with a very broad brush of being a gold digger if they bring up finances as part of the relationship? That could be what leads some women to date men who are a financial mess. He is a good person so to prove I am not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 03:17 PM
4	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? Here’s how it can happen. They are doing the right thing when you meet them and then as the emotions get deeper and deeper they start to not do the right thing but you trying to be a good partner think it’s just a rough patch and no one who loves you would actually take advantage. They continue but they do just enough to convince you that they are trying. Then one day you wake up and become the nagging bitch. Then they hate you but you have legal things to extricate yourself from. Then you have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 03:09 PM
3	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? That’s me. I’m a stay at home single. I don’t work and do what I want and live off savings and dividends and some passive income. It’s the best. People are really apprehensive to date people like us. It’s the way too much free time that is scary for a lot of folks. There’s also a bit of jealousy. When you don’t have to work but they do, they get a little bit upset because you are willing to subsidize their lives. Here’s what I have learned, be very careful about what you disclose. Be very genera…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 03:06 PM
2	Sex is the most intimate act, two people can share. IYKYK. A good knife will outlast everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 10:11 AM
1	Modern men are throwing everyone that cares about them under the bus and this is the real reason of maleloneliness Soooo, I never said I was a psychiatrist. I just happen to be lucky enough by to be raised by a male clinical psychologist who had to do the work to help these men break these weird dynamics. I am not new to this information. My dad was doing this work way back in 90’s. Which is how I knew to avoid them like the plague back then. They weren’t good to date then they are worse to date now. Also I love the obtuseness of these conversations. You know there are some weird mother and son dynamics out …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 10:10 AM
1	Modern men are throwing everyone that cares about them under the bus and this is the real reason of maleloneliness I didn’t say that and you know I didn’t say that. What I said and what you know is that there are mothers who take it too far. There are mothers who use their sons as replacement partners. They allow a child to be the man of the house and have an expectation that they will remain the primary female companion in their life. That is not natural nor is it healthy. Your moths should not hold a higher value than your wife once you are married. I find this mostly happens when a son is raised by a sing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 09:58 AM
3	Sex is the most intimate act, two people can share. I don’t know, allowing someone to use my chef’s knives is way more intimate to me. I have had that thing over 20 years. It has made some of my best meals. I used it to make cathartic meals when my dad was sick. If I let you touch that knife I really, really, really love you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 07:56 PM
8	Modern men are throwing everyone that cares about them under the bus and this is the real reason of maleloneliness The only thing I will say about this diatribe is this, there is a distinct difference between a man who loves his mom and a mother who has created a dynamic of emotional incest. If you don’t know what that is, it’s when the mother uses the son as a surrogate for a husband or a significant in all ways except sexual. The mother has trained the son to be her de facto partner so when the son gets a female partner she displays characteristics like a jealous girlfriend and not a mother. The daddy/daug…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 07:50 PM
2	All men are predators? Or irrational fear? My dude, you are an actual disgrace to the uniform you put on every day. I wore the uniform and you are disgusting. I know what the fuck soldiers like you do. I saw it way too often. I saw way too many female soldiers leave because of the disgusting way she was treated by slow men from small towns who thought being in a uniform would make them more popular. I saw what you some of you degenerates did to women who had too much to drink and thought her battle buddies would have her back. I know exa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 01:51 PM
1	How do women emotionally move on from relationships so quickly? Before I leave, I am giving you all the signs I am leaving but I am also detaching. It’s a gradual process with full information and intention given to the other person. I give a damn outline. Hey X is a problem for me. I would like to figure out how to fix it before it becomes a thing. Ok well X is still happening, I am not interested in trying to move forward while you aren’t willing to deal with X. Hey, I am not attracted to you right now because of X. I told you I am not attracted to you bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 09:18 AM
6	CMV : Hoeflation is crazy but WhoRecession is gonna be wild That’s the part they willfully don’t understand. I was 9 the first time a group of grown men yelled sexual things at me. Can you imagine the fear that instill in you. It’s not the idea that we will get murdered when you walk oh the door that magically happens. It’s the continuous ongoing harassment that starts the moment you get breasts. At 12 some man tried to follow me home from the bus. While riding the bus to go to the mall to meet friends, men would try to sit next to me and have wildly ina…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 09:02 AM
9	What is a deal breaker you think the opposite sex should adopt? Men and women should avoid people who don’t read. It shows a complete lack of willingness to learn or be open to new ideas. They also don’t know how to sit still and be in the moment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 08:40 AM
10	Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men? This is probably the most logical answer to this question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 11:23 AM
4	How significant of a factor is slut shaming in reducing the amount that women sleep around or pursue men on average (compared to other factors). I am wholly unbothered by promiscuous people. They are in charge of managing their kewchie how they see fit. It is not mine to manage. Sluts have great stories at brunch. They have great tips on what to do in bed. They have great tips on flirting. Horrible people who are sluts aren’t in my circle so I don’t care about them. It is not my business what anyone else does with their vagina. It is not anyone’s business what anyone does with their vagina. If you make it your business to worry about oth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 09:41 PM
1	Would women go redpill if they had to chase and date other women? I feel very sorry for women who don’t know how to make or maintain female friendships. This is probably why my dad sent me to all girls schools. I never see women as my enemy. I never need to compete with other women. I also have a pretty high self esteem and have the privilege of being conventionally attractive. That being said, dating women isn’t that different than dating men. There a pot for every lid and if I don’t fit them then I am good and move on. I kind of live my life like that, if I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 09:11 PM
10	How significant of a factor is slut shaming in reducing the amount that women sleep around or pursue men on average (compared to other factors). Slut shaming only matters in your own social circles and barely that. It matters to insecure people. It matters to people who were raised in an overly religious construct. It matters to young people who still ask that dumb ass question how many bodies you have. Sluts are amazing people who have a great time and are out here doing the lords work by teaching men and women how to be better lovers. Sluts make great travel partners and great to have brunch with. I have only seen slut shaming from jea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 08:49 PM
0	She has to like you more Ok, let me explain it to you in the simplest way possible. Even if she likes you more in the beginning, your behavior will determine how that will continue. One can be totally infatuated with someone and willing to kiss his toes until he does something that changes her mind then it’s done and it won’t come back. Any excuse men can find to be in a position of power over women always comes back to them performing the bare minimum and that won’t cut it long term. That emotional attachment has limit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 01:22 PM
2	The "Wall" does indeed exist, but only for women who have built it themselves. I will say, this generation is way more vigilant with sunscreen plus they have it in most of their skin care moisturizers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 06:52 PM
7	Do single dads ever request or desire for a woman to "step up"? It unattractive to feel entitled to it. I think it’s gross when men and women do it. I still can’t wrap my brain around asking someone to pay for a babysitter for a date or ordering food to take home to kids because a date happened. It’s gross and weird to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 06:51 PM
2	Which is worse - Hiding a secret bank account "just in case" or requiring a prenup? Prenup obviously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 02:30 PM