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how does she benefit from pity sex if she‘s not attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:13 AM
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Nope that’s not why those empires fell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:30 PM
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yeah they didn’t fall because of sexual liberation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:06 PM
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oh yeah the west was so much less morally corrupt before sexual liberation, i forgot. i mean just look at the transatlantic slave trade, so much morality there, they were such good christians.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:05 PM
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oh yeah, which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:02 AM
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so many societies have fallen because of threesomes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:39 AM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:19 PM
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i’m not sure about that, do women in hunter gatherer societies with barely any access to the internet behave any differently? they will obviously care less about materialism since they don’t live in a capitalist society but appearance, muscularity, strength etc. matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:11 PM
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and yet many men also claim that paying escorts feels humiliating (and emasculating) because the women don’t want to fuck them without money being involved. that might be your personal opinion but a lot of men also want to feel desired, it’s actually being discussed a lot on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:02 AM
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of course i’m admitting that (some) women are capable of it. baseline requirements are a) he’s very sexually attractive to her b) she has a healthy to high libido herself. women with a lower libido than that will always rely more on responsive desire, they aren’t able to get easily aroused on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:00 AM
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the end result is obviously not the same, princess treatment is more than just sexual services and no, they don’t. addicts still won’t develop deep sexual desire for dealers if they aren’t attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:56 AM
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i didn’t realize that drug dealers get princess treatment you can pay women with money or drugs but that doesn’t mean that they sexually desire you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:48 AM
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unless you become chad you won’t get that though being “chad” is a requirement for that sort of behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:37 AM
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i mean the manosphere benefits from men becoming increasingly lonely … the vast majority of women want to be courted, given princess treatment etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:37 AM
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exaggerated maybe, irrational is the wrong term to use though. any woman should fear men that buy into misogynistic ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:14 PM
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that’s not an argument that disproves the dangers of radicalized individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:03 PM
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I don’t think the fear is just aimed at virgins, a boyfriend is way more likely to sexually assault you but an “incel” might be more likely to commit a terrorist attack
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:26 PM
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i have not observed that, more normal people than toxic ones are in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:19 PM
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yes it needs to end but people would call it antisemitic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:30 PM
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because of social media and the pandemic, gen z is getting more lonely in general
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:14 PM
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I didn‘t claim otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:36 AM
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agreed, it‘s hypocritical. although in the western world it‘s really only north america where circumcision is normalized
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:41 AM
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i don‘t think that anyone actually believes that white women are the most progressive demographic lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:27 AM
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i would like to see studies for that last claim regarding abuse and hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:20 AM
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and it’s hypocritical to judge other people without accepting criticism yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:57 PM
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lol they have a right to judge other people but others are not allowed to form an opinion on their judgement? rules for thee but but not for me apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:07 AM
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lesbians don’t have the highest rates of DV, bisexual women are the most likely to be victims of intimate partner violence, the majority of the perpetrators being male. but ofc, women also assault people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 10:59 AM
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Define “high”. How high are the odds of sexual assault The numbers depend on gender and sexuality. 53.3% of heterosexual women, 79.3% of bisexual women, 59.9% of lesbian women have experienced contact sexual violence. For men it’s 29.3% of heterosexual men, 56.4% of bisexual men and 59.8% for gay men. For rape the national intimate partner and sexual violence survey shows that 26.1% of heterosexual women, 45.2% of bisexual women and 28.4% of lesbian women have been raped. For men it’s 3% of hete…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:34 AM
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comparing murder to sexual assault is stupid because sexual assault is not unlikely, the chances of it happening are high. i’m not concerned about “men not getting relationships”, i’m concerned about sexual assault rates and the real harm it causes. i could not care less about men giving up on women if it results in sexual assault rates decreasing. yes, if you cross someone else’s sexual boundaries in a way they don’t want you to that is sexual assault. that applies to both men and women. the as…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:16 AM
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“playful” pushing of boundaries can very quickly become sexual assault. that risk exists and people need to acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:14 PM
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lol no, if you’re willing to push sexual boundaries then there’s a high risk of causing harm, that is reality. that goes for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:23 AM
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taboos turn into fetishes. aren’t interracial porn videos the most popular in the most racist regions in the US too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:00 PM
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you just typed out a whole lot of nonsense in response to someone who has been sexually assaulted and raped because of similar mindsets like yours. because my boundaries weren’t respected. rape culture isn’t a myth it’s real. this generation is lonely because of social media usage and the pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:35 PM
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did i speak about your relationship specifically? have your boundaries pushed is the sort of mindset that can quickly lead to trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:46 PM
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That‘s a very personal thing, people that sleep around generally don‘t feel many negative feelings afterwards, just the rush of hormones from sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:54 PM
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you can still make out after the orgasm or go for round 2+
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:45 PM
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and people wonder why sexual assault rates are so high
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:57 PM
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they don’t fantasize about paying, they fantasize about completely dominating someone else against their will
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:16 AM
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that’s a dangerous guy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:10 AM
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i’ve ended two relationships because of boundary pushing aka sexual assault. what exactly is your point here if you’re willing to push boundaries then you’re willing to cause a lot of harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:22 AM
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when someone says no or looks super uncomfortable you should know that it’s a boundary…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:15 AM
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of course rich women are part of the oppressor class.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:22 AM
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that’s such a subjective topic, personally i love long sessions if there’s enough free time to spare of course. 15+ minute foreplay, 30+ minutes intercourse i think the ideal duration on average for women is somewhere between 10-20 minutes for intercourse, maybe longer for foreplay
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:16 PM
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depends on the context of the discussion i guess, personally foreplay is also sex to me but sometimes you’re strictly speaking about penetration etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:01 PM
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no he didn’t get laid he’s a baby, moe and punch are cute though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 10:58 PM
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you represent all men on this planet? you’re typing out that you find women super boring and then you get surprised when someone questions you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:13 PM
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honestly it doesn’t sound like you’re romantically interested in women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:09 PM
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does porn only show certain races having sex? i’m sure that porn reinforces certain racial views
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:02 PM
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the clit part is true, women usually don’t get as exhausted from orgasms as men/their refractory period is much shorter i mean our anatomy is different, men only produce so much sperm a day but that doesn’t apply to female orgasms lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:00 PM
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because it still feels pleasurable. i can’t cum from penetration either but it physically feels good. not everyone can cum from nipple stimulation and yet a lot of people still like it also why does the woman in this story surprise you lol? isn’t it common knowledge that (a lot of) women like to go for multiple rounds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:40 AM
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That is definitely not what I have observed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:20 AM
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not at all, but i do get scared if he doesn’t leave me alone edit: if it’s a man that’s 20 years older than me then i do get offended, that behavior is unacceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:16 AM
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dark romance is booming right now and that is definitely kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:11 AM
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i definitely think it conditions them even further, just like how a lot of men have developed a preference for “innie” vulvas while 200 years ago that was barely even relevant although the situation with big cocks is slightly different because female sexual selection has caused human penises to be significantly bigger than the genitals in other apes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:05 AM
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porn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:04 PM
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positive correlation doesn’t mean the two will always occur together my claim wasn’t that it always occurs together, studies show that people with high libido tend to have less restricted sociosexuality. libido itself can impact sociosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:07 PM
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nope, people can have individual opinions that don’t reflect society’s views.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:58 PM
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positive correlation doesn’t mean the two will always occur together yeah I don’t think you actually read what I was typing above
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:29 PM
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society considers a lot of things shameful that people individually don’t consider shameful, “shameful” is a subjective term
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:57 AM
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It doesn’t have anything to do with shame, it’s simply fact that private sexual information can be used against you at any time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:53 AM
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Studies have repeatedly shown that people with a higher libido tend to have less restricted sociosexuality, outliers do not change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:42 AM
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sure, that’s realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:24 AM
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& that is exactly why you don’t tell your girl friends about your sexual experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:37 AM
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And yet at the end of the day we‘re still animals, humans frequently overestimate their ability to reason. So much of our behavior is driven by instinct. which is why the “low promiscuity = “low libido” argument doesn’t make much sense That’s not quite what I said, i’m talking about likelihood here and that is supported by data.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:10 AM
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go seek out whomever you want, i just want people to have a realistic perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:05 AM
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I said they are linked, people with high libido tend to have less restricted sociosexuality ofc, human behavior is complex and individual. overall i‘d say that instinct is stronger than ideology though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:51 AM
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promiscuity doesn’t have to do with libido that is objectively incorrect, studies show over and over that people with higher libido tend to have less restricted sociosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:13 AM
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high sex drive and high sociosexuality are linked though she could be a virgin catholic woman with a high sex drive in a relationship but the likelihood of that is very low
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:04 AM
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Ofc, plenty of people do enjoy it, but the conversation was about women who have tried anal in the past and don‘t want to do it anymore I agree with your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:11 PM
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yeah, i think it‘s fucked up to expect someone to engage in a sexual act that they don‘t like
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:43 PM
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i always think it‘s weird to describe anal sex as part of being open minded, many people don‘t like it because it‘s straight up painful and not pleasurable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:03 AM
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Who wouldn’t be upset even if you can understand the other person’s view point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:17 PM
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what people consider dealbreakers are subjective, if he had lied about his body count it wouldn’t make me break up with him because i personally don’t consider body count important. in that hypothetical situation it would be a dealbreaker to that person’s framework
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:14 PM
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if he had hidden cosmetic surgery from me i’d genuinely just laugh about it if he had faked his interests in order to appeal to me i’d find it endearing trying to find a man who doesn’t care about a woman’s body count is like trying to find a unicorn, it’s genuinely a waste of time and effort
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:00 PM
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oh but it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:06 PM
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no that has to do with getting sexually assaulted as a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:03 PM
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sucks you’ll never experience that level of connection i honestly don’t care about that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:37 PM
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so you are willing to ignore a bad trait just because the guy is attractive yeah obviously, that’s what i just explained And? Aren’t women supposed to be okay with being single, because men are not up to their standards? Where did I make that argument? Other women make other choices, I primarily care about sexual chemistry and shared interests
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:18 AM
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because a) he’s physically attractive to me and we have shared interests b) the vast majority of men have hang ups about women with a higher n count
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:07 AM
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To get the man that I want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:04 AM
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Not at all, I did because it was fun
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:01 AM
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Sure, but I’ll be honest with you, you will never find out the truth anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:40 AM
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What’s the debate here? Yes I lie about it, I’m the only person that knows my body count lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:15 AM
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No it’s more female anatomy related, no matter how big his dick is that won’t make your internal clitoris closer to your vaginal wall
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:03 AM
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women who can have vaginal orgasms care more about dick size sure, i think there was a study about this. it’s less relevant for those who can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:59 AM
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that’s true, a lot of straight women also have relatively low libido. many rarely masturbate on their own and i know that social shaming is contributing to this but it’s also libido related i’ve often had girl friends acting confused why i masturbate at all while i’m in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:57 AM
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modern heterosexual dating is set up in a way where you have the pursuer (man) and the pursued (woman) that’s not really a modern phenomenon, that was the case for most of human and hominin history men are generally more desperate than women because they’re afraid of being alone i’m sure that plays a role too, but the main reason is simply that men (on average) have a higher sex drive Most people talk way more about what a man brings to the table but not the same thing about women Yeah because f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:50 AM
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she always has weird opinions 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:26 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:09 PM
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sure, a lot still hate cum in their mouths though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:10 PM
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It’s definitely interesting. Typical male fetishes revolve more around domination though, I wouldn’t say that there aren’t noticeable trends there’s the inah-3 area of the hypothalamus which is one of the few sexually dimorphic brain regions, it’s significantly larger in males and associated with sexual behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:51 PM
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a lot of women admit to things like BDSM fetishes, spanking fetishes, breeding etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:44 PM
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science is by far the most effective and reliable method of truth seeking known to man there is absolutely nothing wrong about this sentence, ofc sometimes results get misinterpreted, methodology was ineffective etc. but it’s still better than anything else we have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:15 PM
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do men have genuine desire for a woman if they do her laundry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:32 AM
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you’re making up your own definitions here. you want a high sex drive woman that sexually desires you as frequently as you desire her, that’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:51 PM
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attraction and sex drive are simply not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:35 PM
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lower libido than you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:18 PM
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says the fool before getting into an accident
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:07 PM
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no the billionaires would exploit you even further, you’d have even shittier healthcare etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:02 PM
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they won’t love you in that billionaire dystopia scenario either, you’d just get a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:43 PM
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what a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:34 PM
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regime change would be good but it’s gonna take years if not decades. he’s not much of a patient guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:26 PM
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so it doesn’t achieve much, she’s just gonna continue
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:24 PM
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the left is offering you basic rights and an affordable life but you love licking your master’s boots
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:23 PM
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the billionaire class loves docile slaves like you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:35 PM
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until that orange alzheimer’s patient does what he does best, which is bailing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:30 PM
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does your method actually achieve anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:28 PM
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can’t you just compare it to male pubes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:10 PM
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I guess that would fall under the term sociosexuality. But yes, if i see a hot guy or woman ofc i fantasize about sleeping with them or asking them out. But there’s also always fear involved that’s stopping me, I’m afraid of sexual violence and a man could easily overpower me and I’m afraid of homophobia from women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:52 AM
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No, I’m cis female but bisexual. I think a lot of studies have shown that bisexual men and women have elevated libido in comparison to others What’s the point of asking these questions if you’re just not gonna believe someone who answers them? I’ve met men with barely existing libido, why is it so difficult for you to acknowledge that high libido women exist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:04 AM
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No, I get very easily turned on I answered all other questions with yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:49 AM
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Have you ever denied your partner sex cause you weren’t tired or weren’t in the mood? This question was kinda confusing but I answered no to it. When I see how much my partner desires me that turns me on too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:24 AM
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i’m high libido now what (not that i believe that this applies to all women)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:43 AM
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you’re fighting an imaginary war in these comments
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:20 AM
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I don’t care about your question replies to my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:21 PM
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medical professionals, biologists and psychologists disagree with you there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:52 PM
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like these comments are so funny, any other day they’d agree that female libido is generally lower
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:44 PM
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i’m not sure i’ve ever heard of a woman struggling with low libido because of gooning too much stereotypical female gooning would focus more on erotica novels and that usually makes them more horny overall
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:41 PM
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of course, that’s still not an answer to my question though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:52 PM
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oh how i wish that every single man had a higher sex drive than me, nothing is better than going at it for hours
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:12 PM
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yeah i think that sex workers are outliers and no, bonnie blue is doing it for money, not out of pure sexual desire. there are very high n-count women that only do it for the love of the game of though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:03 PM
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oh it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:02 PM
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with your rhetoric rape victims would end up suffering one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:01 PM
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I don’t share this black and white view of the world. I can be critical of something. I don’t want rape victims to suffer any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:53 AM
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let prosecution cross question you and pray to god the jury believes you so you don’t have an actual answer to that. the accused can also wave his 5th amendment rights and give a testimony. i don’t think that rape victims should be further punished with jail sentences or fines.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:47 AM
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the burden of proof is on you to prove that obviously, but how do you prove rape if there were no witnesses, physical injuries and there’s no video evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:37 AM
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i think DNA tests are a good practice, but in my opinion a fine already suffices though. so if a woman is raped, she needs to prove that she was raped how do you prove getting raped? the main reason why most victims don’t come forward is that rape is notoriously difficult to prove. if you don’t have any physical injuries and there are no witnesses or video evidence, how do you prove rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:30 AM
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women are more sexually selective than men are, obviously. it’s possible that attractive guys are even more impatient, but that doesn’t erase the fact that young men are impatient overall. pain-fully’s reply is literally stating that it’s “all women’s fault”. my comment was a neutral statement, i wasn’t even being judgemental towards men. your sister’s story is an anecdote, i have lots of stories about men making terrible decisions to keep sexual access to their gfs etc. too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:57 PM
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they are often responding to their base level sexual desires yeah that generally applies to more hormonal young people and i’m not just talking about puberty because the 20’s are like peak fertility for both women and men. you believe that impatient guys are outliers but they’re simply not. for whatever reason you believe this applies only to women though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:54 PM
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good sex with an attractive guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:01 PM
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we’re working with generalizations here, but the idea that young men are sexually impatient is nothing new at all which issue are you talking about here? i’m not struggling with what’s being discussed above
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:54 PM
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I personally don’t prefer larger dicks 😭 I’ve broken up with my high school bf over this, it just did not fit into me. Average or slightly smaller than average works best for my body. That’s true, you can’t see vaginas from the outside but then there’s also “innie” and “outie” vulvas etc. that men have a preference for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:54 PM
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It’s definitely not 90%. Vaginas are not endless black holes. Most men would also say they have a preference for tight vaginas, is that wrong? I don’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:45 PM
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I stated that young men don’t chase women who are not sexually available as hard, everything outside of that is your own interpretation. I’m saying they don’t necessarily mind a woman with a past and that they are unlikely to invest a lot of time and energy into a woman that wants to wait till marriage etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:43 PM
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Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:13 PM
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What exactly does your reply have to do with my comment above
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:59 PM
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I won’t lol. a) you don’t know whether I will have kids anyways b) I’m not concerned about my potential future children transitioning. If that’s what they want to do that’s their choice, I don’t control their bodies. But you act like everything is about you. People make choices that you yourself disagree with and you want to make it about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:56 PM
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I mean that’s your personal preference, I was talking about men in a more general sense. Many are fine with attractive women with a past. The thing with chaste women is that they often are not in touch with their sexuality for whatever reason. Whether it’s sexual shame because of their upbringing, low libido, trauma etc. It’s one of the main reasons for dead bedroom situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:41 PM
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I will never relate to people that want to control other people’s lives. As long as you’re not actively harming other human beings, as long as you are not impacting other people’s autonomy I could not care less. I’ve got other shit to worry about in my life. You’re not OP’s doctor or psychologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:39 PM
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My statement above was not denying that some people might transition because of how society treats men or male bodies so I still don’t get the point of your replies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:19 PM
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What are you even talking about right now? OP is talking about how they started to hate their natural body because of how society treats female bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:04 PM
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well it’s more than just shit talk. look at all the religions teaching women to hide their physical traits simply because they are women etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:48 AM
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very accurate observation. young men are impatient and they don’t chase women who are not sexually available as hard it’s not the chaste women that have orbiters. i can’t say i’ve ever seen a promiscuous (young) woman actually struggle to get into a committed relationship. and yes, young men often also enter serious relationships with these women. i can’t speak for older men, they might place less value on sexual access
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:23 AM
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If you’re old and handsome, old and athletic, old and rich, old and exceptionally charismatic you can still date and marry young women probably but let’s not pretend that the older guys dating options would be as large as a handsome younger man’s dating options. a lot of young women are simply not into older men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:14 AM
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I think both men and women are allowed to have size preferences. Extremes on both ends are usually difficult, partners also need to be anatomically compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:15 PM
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then get tea or literally anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:53 AM
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the majority of women 18-25 want to be mothers good joke
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:18 PM
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It doesn’t really matter what you see yourself as lol, we’re talking about the entire species here. Your personal opinion on that doesn’t matter to the science of biology. I agree, nobody wants to be a bad example. And yet, they will most likely think that we were ignorant fools with some cool inventions here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:54 AM
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Well no, historians and biologists don’t agree with you that monogamy was the norm for all of those 300,000 years. And serial monogamy is also not the same thing as marriage for life What is good culture? Will our descendants in 250,000 years say that we had “good culture”? We are promiscuous apes. Not quite as promiscuous as Bonobos and Chimpanzees but we are promiscuous. And every single culture attempting to change that will fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:58 PM
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Like disrespect to them What do you think happened in 300,000 years of homo sapiens existence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:18 PM
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Yes it literally has been pushed by mainstream feminism? conservative women are making fun of feminist women for wanting to split bills
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:41 PM
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I’m very sorry to hear that, I hope you can gain some confidence. Life is too short to miss out on such experiences (if that’s what you’re interested in) and i’m sure that any man asking to eat you out would enjoy it too. I wonder if cultural and age demographic factors play into this as well, I have a feeling that younger men are more willing to perform oral sex on women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:05 PM
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I did not argue that oxytocin is not beneficial for offspring survival, whether we’re referring to pair bonding or group bonding like in bonobos. And yet sex still won’t result in offspring if the individual is not fertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:56 AM
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maybe it’s because you’re engaging in an act that leads to the propagation and continuation of life it objectively can’t if you’re not fertile
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:17 AM
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thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:16 AM
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in my opinion it’s a mix of bad sex education/ignorance and sometimes selfishness. the reason why women in same sex couples have more orgasms is that the clitoris is usually the main focus of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:15 AM
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do you have a study on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:13 AM
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This logic only makes sense if you ignore the fact that women get their menopause at a certain age and yet they continue to have sex. clearly sex in primates is not only for reproductive purposes from a biological standpoint this also applies to any sex during her non fertile window of the month.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:10 AM
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fyi the g-spot scientifically doesn’t exist, however the distance between the vaginal wall and the internal structure of the clitoris is often too far apart in women to be able to have orgasms from penetration alone. it’s common
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:07 AM
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really? has this sub never discussed that penetrative sex is not super effective when it comes to causing female orgasms?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:04 AM
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I don’t think mostly applies to regret, some might regret it but most actually do have fun that’s why they keep doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:58 AM
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Idk, attractive women usually have attractive husbands too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:53 AM
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Not everyone lives in California, the entire rest of the world still exists
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:31 PM
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that certain ‘red pill’ ideas are not true, others do bring results though (like working out, losing weight etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:23 AM
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Did you entirely skip the second sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:19 AM
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well followers of astrology certainly believe it actually generates results the part about ‘red pill’ ideology that’s true is that appearance matters. both for men and for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:16 AM
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I actually agree with you. Some people need to deconstruct their kinks & realize that not all of them are healthy expressions of sexuality. I think in a lot of cases, women’s sexuality is repressed, many women feel too ashamed to express their desires towards another person. Essentially they see being a more active, involved sexual partner as ‘slutty’ and they try to avoid that shame by making up scenarios where the control is entirely out of their hands. That’s my theory at least
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:35 AM
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i genuinely don’t understand your point … not getting sexually assaulted is beneficial for women. not committing sexual assault themselves is beneficial for women. “that doesn’t change the setting” making people feel more comfortable is changing the setting. It’s already been explained to you before but CNC means consensual non consent, so you don’t just do that out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:28 AM
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and never give any reason isn’t the reason obvious? so that no one commits sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:35 AM
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i mean that’s your definition. revealing clothes can be pretty for others lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:35 PM
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but what would a straight man wear to feel sexy? very fair question, i’m not an expert when it comes to men’s fashion but i think taking a look at what male celebs & hot guy influencers wear might help? not just the clothes, but also their hair cuts, how did they style their hair, nicely shaped beard maybe, some guys even get their eyebrows done at the barber. oh and perfume maybe! but again, you might personally feel sexy in something completely different. i was referring more to current beauty…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:08 PM
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I mean women also dress nice (including revealing dresses, short skirts) for women only events? I don’t think it’s odd at all that people enjoy getting praised for their fashion & appearance from both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:07 PM
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i hope you can learn to have a more neutral stance towards male sexuality why would anyone have a neutral stance towards unwanted sexual advances? sounds like a tough way to live many women prefer that over tolerating how male sexuality causes many men to behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:02 AM
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pretty spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:48 AM
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No. I’ve never experienced having anyone grow on me. Either I find someone attractive or not, which doesn’t necessarily mean that I’m pursuing something sexual/romantic with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:45 PM
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https://www.mccaininstitute.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/incel-and-misogynist-violent-extremism-read-ahead-materials-august-2.pdf while Incel forums vary in severity, the danger of the movement is evident in recent violent acts of self-identified incels. Elliot Rodger and Alek Minassian, both of whom identified as Incels and committed mass murder targeting women and/or couples, are two high profile examples. In addition to their violent attacks, both left behind graphic “manifestos”, with Elli…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:42 PM
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is the pizza as dangerous as sex? (potential stds, potential sexual assault etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:41 PM
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that’s a very fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:32 AM
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… what? there have been multiple “incel” terrorist attacks with the entire goal of killing as many women as possible there is an entire community online that promotes this behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:31 AM
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I don’t think you’re qualified enough to determine what is sexual & what isn’t. If i followed your logic there also wouldn’t be anything sexual about breast and butt tissue. It would simply be pragmatic and calculating of men to have a preference for adipose tissue of this kind. A woman that would be useful, a good tool in the grand scheme of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:33 PM
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Posture, attitude, the way he moves. Many women prefer men that act dominant, they think it’s sexy. Physically? Broad shoulders, a bit of muscle. Edit: What I often observe is that women practice their make up skills & fashion in order to appear more sexy while men start working out to be considered more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:26 PM
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have you ever considered the idea that men find a specific body fat ratio hot in women, so skin tight pants would show off the shape of her butt, the adipose tissue of her butt. (because the storing of fat causes benefits to the neurodevelopment of fetuses due to very long fatty acid chains) Women are not looking for a specific adipose tissue ratio in men, men are not the ones going through pregnancy. They are looking for signs of physical strength, especially upper body strength. Which is exact…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:51 AM
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Do you want to change evolution or what’s your goal here? Women are simply more sexually selective, you can’t change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:29 PM
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they’re attracted to his resources yes, not necessarily him. that’s a significant difference considering the fact that genetic health/physical attractiveness seems to play a bigger role in sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:54 AM
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because they want to be special. it’s more of a challenge (and challenges are fun and interesting). imagine you’re the woman that managed to tame him, that makes you unique. The love he feels for you is so much more than anything he ever felt for other women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:23 AM
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But they didn’t sell Are you trying to say that Emily Henry’s books are currently not selling? Because you’d be dead wrong I don’t know why so many guys on here are convinced that only one type of romance novel actually sells well. Look at the explosive success of Emily Henry and Ali Hazelwood The most persistent trend in the romance genre right now cover design wise are gentle looking “discreet” covers in a cartoon style, those books sell significantly better than the more typical covers which …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:01 AM
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unless you’re on the level of a make up artist, barely
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:58 PM
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Didn’t you say yourself you’re talking about readers that didn’t see ryle’s redflags from the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:46 PM
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I mean there are always readers that don’t understand the point of a book but generally it ends with us wasn’t difficult to understand & most book communities online like youtube, goodreads etc. came to similar conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:53 PM
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and still has a prettier face than the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:41 AM
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those women weren’t the majority of readers though i’m active on book twitter so i often see people discussing colleen hoover’s books
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:36 AM
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If you don’t mind me asking, what lead you to believe that women didn’t get turned on? I know that our society likes to erase female sexuality but I’m still curious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:51 AM
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As for why you seem so convinced that every man was just pretending to not know is an unknown to me It’s genuinely confusing as a woman. Neither I or my female friends were ever hiding the fact that we were crushing on physically attractive men. We talked about what we physically found attractive about them. It wasn’t some well kept secret. We discussed it during class, while hanging out with male friends etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:45 AM
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“women will mention anything except for the looks” i’m truly wondering what kinds of women you guys are talking to hasn’t it already become a meme to make fun of some women’s height standards? lots of women openly talk about what kind of dick size they desire, whether he’s supposed to have a six pack or not. that’s pretty common rage fuel in certain communities on the internet as well. when i ask my female acquaintances they get very specific about what they desire physically. heterosexual, bise…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:30 AM
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Interestingly enough I’ve never had old lesbians hitting on me. Only those in my age group
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:42 PM
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“opera” lmfao no i’m not a gold digger trying to impress some old dude
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:40 PM
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doomed to be mediocre lovers In general I dislike the idea that a) you can’t improve your skill b) your body count indicates how good of a lover you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:47 PM
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Then don’t have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:53 PM
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she seems like every kpop stan on twitter. they certainly have a way to get under people’s skin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:50 PM
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Hm, I can’t say that it’s overly aggressive guys that are particularly successful. Looking at human evolution it was actually those men with better social skills and empathy that got to reproduce more often. Being able to cooperate and work in a team is seriously one of the most important skills of our species We wouldn’t have evolved our neotonous features and comparatively mild temperament without this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:42 PM
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i mean he’s bi and in an open relationship. i’m pretty sure he gets laid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:10 PM
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Yeah I also don’t get that part but I’m sure he’ll come up with a reasonable response
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:07 PM
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I also want to live on a nice tree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:57 AM
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Today on PPD I learned that bonobo behavior is irrelevant to human behavior (in comparison to chimpanzees) because they are tree dwelling. Wow, why haven’t my professors ever told me this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:48 AM
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We are equally closely related to bonobos and chimpanzees. If bonobos don’t matter then chimpanzees don’t either. Chimpanzees don’t practice forced intercourse nearly as frequently as humans. We don’t use the term “rape” in relation to other animals, and instead speak of “forced copulation.” This behavior is wholly absent in bonobos for the simple reason that the females collectively dominate the males. But also in chimpanzees, which are male-dominated, it is exceedingly rare https://3quarksdail…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:29 AM
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Again, wrong. Female sexual selection is a well documented fact. “There is no evolutionary relevance to women enjoying sex” Ah yeah that’s why bonobo females are so incredibly hypersexual, because it has no evolutionary relevance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:19 AM
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Many biologists disagree with that stance, it’s a highly debated topic. There are very, very few structures in our bodies that serve no purpose. And as we can see, the clitoris is the erogenous organ in the female body. It would simply not be beneficial for our species if women didn’t enjoy sex. Due to the nature of giving birth our vaginas themselves can’t have too many nerve endings, that would make the whole process even more unbearable. The clitoris is the perfect structure to solve this iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:24 AM
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selective aka sexual selectiveness. women select based on the success rates of their possible offspring. I’m not sure how you interpreted that as blue pill ideology when it’s biology 101. it’s actually far more “red pill”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:09 AM
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the flat earther of (the non existence of) female pleasure is back at it again
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:00 AM
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Naming incorrect arguments doesn’t count as “valid points”. You appear to not understand that the clitoris is in fact far bigger than it’s external structure and that the internal structure (the larger part overall) is very close to the vaginal wall. The clitoris quite literally gets stimulated through the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:37 PM
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As an example, I actually don’t know for sure if women are able to enjoy sex Pleasure is a result of a specific brain activity, you can literally measure the length of time that these specific neurons are firing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:27 PM
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So because you’ve never discussed this with a woman irl you will deny scientific facts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:21 PM
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you want me to scream into your face that i think my bf’s dick is very pleasurable or what now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:16 PM
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I feel like I’ve debated you before, another account had similarly ridiculous arguments. You come off as a troll For the fun of it, I will indulge you. Let’s focus on sex organs: There are primary and secondary sex organs. The former include sex characteristics that are already visible at birth and don’t develop later on in life, including the clitoris. Women themselves say they don’t even feel like sex Wrong. The vast majority of women is not saying this. So the clitoris isnt actually playing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:14 PM
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As an example, I actually don’t know for sure if women are able to enjoy sex Why on earth would women have a clitoris if not to be able to enjoy sex? And I’m not trying to “demonize” you, I just want you to think really hard for a second. The clitoris literally serves no other purpose I’ve been told in real life that looks don’t matter, at all I’m wondering if this is a cultural difference because I’ve never seen this as a mainstream opinion in my entire life. Maybe it’s also due to the fact tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:34 PM
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All this bullsh!t dancing around this simple biological fact (test0steron3) with “women have always been the selectors” […] is just further obscuring the facts That is also a basic biological fact. The sex that has a higher parental investment is going to be more selective, and as shown in other species, it can also be males (seahorses for example). But yes, testosterone makes men more horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:57 PM
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Disagree. A part of “having game” has always been having access to ressources.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:08 PM
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I don’t think it explains the entire situation but it’s one of the main contributing factors
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:29 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:29 AM
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Ouch, hope it works out for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:19 AM
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Natural boobs all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:11 PM
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Simple answer: no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:07 PM
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significant lack of emotional intelligence on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:50 PM
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It’s entirely irrelevant to the discussion at hand and no, I won’t stop telling users on here that they’re providing useless information.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:35 AM
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Yes, I am. Those two franchises both have dedicted fanbases. It doesn’t matter how you feel about Bridgerton or Marvel. Besides, Bridgerton is an entire book series, comparable to the fact that Marvel movies are based on comics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:29 AM
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Marvel is also vapid garbage, the examples weren’t about quality but about popular franchises.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:18 AM
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No, it really doesn’t. That’s why I specifically said masculine coded interests. Exactly, a lot of these interests actually have a more mixed fanbase. Gay men are a very small minority of the male population. If you want my example to be more precise, how often do you see heterosexual women with masculine coded interests in comparison to heterosexual men with feminine coded interests
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:07 AM
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On a scale of masculine coded to feminine coded interests women’s interests are more diverse. How often are you gonna see a guy being into bridgerton and kpop compared to a girl being into marvel and gaming
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:52 AM
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Because women’s interests are more diverse. Even if you look at children’s toy choices and the kind of play they engage with, girls are much more likely to engage with masculine coded toys and behaviors than the other way around. They actually did a similar experiment with young chimpanzees and bonobos and it had similar results: While the female chimps and bonobos were also interested in toys associated with masculine, aggressive play (balls, toy cars) the male ones were entirely disinterested …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:45 AM
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We’re animals but anyone who fetishizes kids is simply a pedophile or were you referring to people obsessing over kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:07 AM
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Out of all the things that you could mention, why height lmao. We can’t change sexual dimorphism in our species
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:59 AM
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Yeah, you don’t need to tolerate that behavior. Find someone who supports you instead of pushing you down
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:49 AM
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Wow, all of of your exes come off as manipulative. I don’t know what other women are like while dating men but that behavior is simply cruel A relationship needs to be based on respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:37 AM
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It’s a liberal feminist stance, other schools of feminism reject this view.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:57 AM
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No there weren’t, we got along well and he was good looking. Why is your assumption that I must have personal problems? His natural body scent (which wasn’t unhygienic or anything) was just a turn off for me. “Studies have shown that body odor is strongly connected with attraction in heterosexual females. The women in one study ranked body odor as more important for attraction than “looks”. Humans may not simply depend on visual and verbal senses to be attracted to a possible partner/mate” https…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:51 AM
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pre-marriage counseling is honestly a great idea
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:00 AM
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I get that, hope it goes well for you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:51 PM
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No, that was before I started taking BC but it can definitely affect sensitivity to smell Usually women are more sensitive to smell during ovulation and on BC this sensitivity is kinda absent. So that can cause issues when a woman in a relationship stops taking the pill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:29 PM
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oh, it’s less about hygiene and more about compatibility of immune systems
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:22 PM
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I wasn’t talking about how scent affects men though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:01 PM
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Maybe As an anecdote, I once cut off things with a guy I was getting to know because I didn’t like his regular body scent. He didnt smell bad, he was very hygienic. Our immune systems were probably not compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:00 PM
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I feel like PPD barely mentions how much smell/scent plays a role in attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:44 PM
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But why would I simply follow that opinion for no reason? If it was universally beneficial for younger women, I’d have no issue with it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:33 PM
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Why would I be jealous if I’m the one affected by older men flirting with me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:06 PM
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perfect halloween costume
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:08 AM
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If “daddy government” actually provides valuable help while the actual father is an incompetent piece of shit, why shouldn’t women rely on government help PPD keeps talking about accountability, where’s the accountability for fathers in these cases
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:43 AM
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… I seriously worry for some women. Could never be me Of course I’m happy and relaxed when I’m with my bf, but that doesn’t mean I’ll ever stop using my brain
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:27 AM
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Probably the best way to handle this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:24 AM
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Literally like, what if she starts her period mid sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:10 AM
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It’s a very well established biological theory. Additional factors are parental investment. Species in which the males invest more time and effort into parenting their offspring also show higher selectivity in males. What do you consider wrong about this theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:17 AM
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I’m wondering if that’s just a very different way of phrasing that they simply desire a life with family? Getting old and seeing their grandkids etc. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:56 PM
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cannibalism for the win
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:31 PM
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Chadflation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:52 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:34 PM
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I agree with you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:46 PM
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You’re legitimately just arguing for seperatism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:39 PM
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I do not like to use generalizations during discussions about such complex topics. A singular man’s sexuality could be dirty in practice due to typical porn brain and that situation can feel dehumanizing to a woman. Absolutely. If he doesn’t care about her actual pleasure and well being then that is degrading to her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:34 PM
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Yeah, the view that male sexuality is naturally dirty leads to the result that some women may feel like hetero sex is dehumanizing. I don’t see how you can compare the amount of anti-abortion texans to the amount of abusive men, PPD always emphasizes that it’s only a small minority of men who commit such acts. Being anti-abortion seems to be quite common in Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:23 PM
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No, that is not a default outlook. What is most commonly being criticized is the way men are taught to replicate violent pornography from a young age, not that heterosexual sex itself is inherently dehumanizing. Either promiscuous women only have sex with men they don’t find gross or engaging in so much heterosexual intercourse affects their self esteem. I’ve seen both cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:08 PM
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The idea that men are inherently gross and that heterosexual intercourse is always dehumanizing for women is an extreme radical feminist view. Followers of this ideology do think badly about women who crave so much male sexual attention. You would be surprised about the way radfems talk about women in heterosexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:51 AM
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Saying that about heterosexual dating in general is an extremist radical feminist view, not a mainstream one at all. I don’t understand how you have come to the conclusion that anyone enjoys these things. Women like the positives of dating men, they obviously do not like the potential risks. If someone likes to play soccer, does that mean they enjoy the potential risk of serious injuries?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:32 AM
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a) What does that have to do with me b) I seriously doubt that my view is that rare amongst women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:25 AM
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Did I claim it wasn’t some sort of privilege? It comes with it’s downsides of course, but I can see how that is simply an inherent advantage when it comes to dating etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:18 AM
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It’s gross how you frame the act of women engaging in sex. Male sexuality isn’t “dirty”, if a woman having sex with men makes her a “human fleshlight” then that would apply to all heterosexual intercourse, even in relationships. Edit: Just because women are limited in the way they can engage in sex due to their anatomy (taking the active, penetrating role etc) doesn’t mean that it’s a humiliating action to have sex as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:05 AM
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A BB cream is not gonna do much to hide acne or acne scars. You would need a good foundation and concealer for that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:09 AM
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Oh, I wasn’t referring to PPD specifically. I frequently encounter some weird shit on Twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:39 AM
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It’s the body of another individual. It doesn’t matter whether the contract is some sort of supernatural cult ritual, that still doesn’t grant someone the right to infringe on someone else’s autonomy. “No one would actually support that in real life” Welcome to reality. Exactly, human rights shouldn’t infringe on other people’s rights. And yet I’ve had a few people in this comment section arguing that the right to get access to health care somehow infringes on other people’s autonomy since they …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:08 PM
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It doesn’t mean nothing when incel mass shootings are becoming more and more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:08 PM
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That’s not a change of topics at all - these men feel like they have the right to another person’s body. Let’s say there is a general right to sex. How would you enforce that human right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:26 PM
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Exactly, people are more honest about their own thoughts on anonymous platforms. How does any of that contradict my initial point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:19 PM
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No, there are legitimately people out there that believe they have a right to another person’s body. Either through sex work that is covered by health care or more traditional systems like forced marriage. He’s 100% allowed to think that way. He can leave the relationship at any point that he wants. Just like how she’s allowed to leave the relationship if her libido doesn’t match his and she doesn’t want to engage in things like maintenance sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:03 PM
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Okay, that’s selection bias. It’s not a boogeyman, there are people out there that legitimately believe this. It’s often phrased differently in religious communities for example. “Tradcons” who believe they have a right to a wife and that marital rape isn’t real. That women have to serve their husbands by pleasing all of their sexual demands and that divorce is not an option etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:58 PM
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yeah, the same internet that is often a breeding ground for radicalized ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:37 PM
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That’s not what I was referring to. I was referring to some people claiming that having access to another person’s body is a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:51 PM
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No. No they are not. Using your body to work, where you can also choose from a variety of jobs is nowhere near as trauma inducing as being raped. I don’t have an ounce of patience for such arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:49 PM
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I mean that’s defamation, which is also already illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:30 PM
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You’re going completely off topic. Yes, obviously social security systems have flaws and we don’t know whether they are going to be viable solutions in the next decades. What we do know is that these systems have worked for quite a while. I really don’t care about this conversation about taxes to be honest. You’re pointing out flaws of the system, sure, doesn’t mean it hasn’t been efficient so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:54 PM
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European countries investing in more immigration would improve the situation but conservatives don’t really like this approach. Yeah, increased waiting time is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:49 PM
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That’s an incredibly individualistic standpoint and I disagree with that. Obviously the tax based system has flaws. It causes less issues than no social security system though. I wouldn’t want to live in a society where everyone fends for themselves. The difference between labor and sex/intimacy becomes interesting if you look at sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:43 PM
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You’re constantly talking about health care and the right to housing. Based on that I assumed you were american. What I do know is that tax based health care systems work well & that paying taxes is hardly trauma inducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:36 PM
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I’m not american and I literally do not care about your definition of freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:31 PM
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being forced to pay money and being forced to let someone else use your body are hardly comparable. again, with that chain of logic you can justify illegal organ theft or forced surrogacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:29 PM
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Thankfully that opinion isn’t mainstream, that doesn’t change anything about the fact that this rhetoric is dangerous and spreading incredibly fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:26 PM
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I have legitimately seen men on the internet claiming this. I don’t know what to tell you. 100%, no one should be denied the search for love, sex and intimacy. It really isn’t a leftist talking point when right wing supporters often claim they have a right to a wife, a right to a female body and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:25 PM
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Those who claim otherwise tend to be women themselves who have actually experienced their own libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:19 PM
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Might help some people, although most men actually want to feel desired and/or share intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:08 PM
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With the same logic you can also justify illegal organ trade. I don’t have the patience for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:04 PM
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They always end up making that argument. As if anyone should get special treatment for not being a fucking rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:54 PM
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I do believe that sex and intimacy greatly improve the physical and mental health for people. The issue I take with the “sex is a need” phrasing is that many seem to use it to proclaim that access to another person’s body is somehow a human right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:20 PM
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Very scary … hope you’re okay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:11 AM
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That’s not even orange though, that’s a shade of brown? But yeah lightskin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:12 PM
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When someone pursues you too aggressively for a lack of a better term. They often overstep boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:50 PM
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Hm? It’s a pretty common skin color in the african diaspora
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:48 PM
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Dark blue looks amazing on people with a darker skin complexion tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:45 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:24 PM
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I’m not calling anyone crazy for taking preventive measures. You’re the one who keeps claiming that she basically did it for no solid reason. Besides that, she also got breast implants?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:19 PM
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You’re absolutely insane. No one cuts of their butt meat because they “don’t like it” anymore. “feminism purposes” as if feminism teaches women to hate their natural bodies. Burning bras and not shaving are literally in celebration of the natural state of the female body.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:58 PM
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As my evolutionary biology professor said: “Males are nothing but sperm dispensers.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:51 PM
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She’s the expert here idk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:49 PM
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I have never had maintenance sex in my entire life and I will never have maintenance sex lol. Yeah, people in relationships have the most sex because they’re exclusive and (should) desire each other sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:22 AM
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… this is so gross. thankfully there’s decent guys out there that don’t even desire sex if you’re not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:18 AM
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These examples are all true but you also need to acknowledge that the pressure on women to be sexually appealing is far more intense. People do a lot of things out of necessity, to make money. Wouldn’t really call this “free choice”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:26 PM
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I mean, some professions require women to wear make up. For many social events women are expected to wear it. You certainly also feel that social pressure as a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:27 PM
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I've seen many women complain about unrealistic beauty standards and how there's an expectation imposed on women to wear make up. But at the same time, many women also argue that they don't wear make up for men, they wear it for themselves. These 2 complaints directly contradict each other. The first one is radical feminist theory, the second one is a liberal feminist stance. These two ideologies often contradict each other. I think the reason they complain about it is to use it as an excuse whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:25 PM
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The issue is that these conversations always derail into extremes. Historically you’ve had society supressing female sexuality, quite literally sending women to psych wards for “female hysteria” and on the other hand you now have people claiming that the sex drive of men and women is exactly the same, despite the biological differences between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:05 PM
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The connective tissue mostly consists of collagen https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8043384/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:35 AM
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Lmao, he claims to have a degree in Bio Research but at the same time also said that “it’s a biological fact that women age faster than men”. The only thing that is a fact is that women have less collagen in their skin which is why we develop wrinkles etc. earlier than men. Maybe he also referred to fertility as a criteria and women do get menopause. But that is just one biological marker of age. Women have longer telomeres (end caps of DNA) than men, telomere length is relevant for healthy long…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:42 AM
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I‘m 22 so 20-25
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:49 PM
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Yeah, that’s what I was referring to, it’s a small percentage. According to evopsych theories it’s all about female pleasure but in practice … that’s often not the case. It’s a complex topic for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:48 PM
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Oh, I do know about the differences, I also believe that the female orgasm is more intense. Hm, I wouldn’t devalue the male orgasm like that though. And yes many women can have the orgasm after orgasm Not the majority though. That’s why I said most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:35 PM
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They see FWB as an invitation to only treat her as a sex object. She doesn’t deserve an ounce of respect from their viewpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:42 PM
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orgasm after orgasm … sadly most women are dreaming of that lol from a female perspective, i’m jealous of how easy it is for most men to achieve orgasm. for a lot of women it takes forever & it’s a lot of hard work. sometimes it’s not gonna work out at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:37 PM
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None. If it’s close friends I help them find a nice outfit, give advice about skin care etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:13 PM
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I don’t believe one bit that most of the traumatizing experiences described there are made up. Yes, a lot of them are hurt and pissed off
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:28 PM
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I never claimed it was a trait that you could work on. Still doesn’t change anything about the sexually dimorphic height difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:34 PM
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male centric subreddits aren’t any better. overall, it’s a reddit thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:32 PM
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always works
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:41 PM
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All I can say is that most of these subreddits are echo chambers as well. It can’t hurt to learn a bit from online flirting advice but the rest … most relationships I observe IRL started off organically, people that were active in the same social circle etc. The self improvement aspects are the most valuable part about TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:35 PM
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Hm, depends on your relationship with them. I would say my cousins are very honest
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:32 PM
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Do you have female relatives or friends in your age group? I understand it might be embarrassing to ask but I believe they could give you a better insight Not necessarily dating advice but more general things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:14 PM
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It’s an echo chamber. Certain opinions are pretty common amongst women though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:11 PM
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I mean that’s a pretty good indicator that they aren’t interested in her personality. Easy way to filter them out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:52 PM
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And I don’t wanna date fat/old/ugly/short men either. We can both agree that neither of this is sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:36 PM
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Good question. Obviously, being a good lover is just gonna make you more attractive to her. If you really want to find a gf that has the same views about sex and prefers to wait then I think it’s worth it to miss out on some potential relationships. If the quicker approach to sexual intimacy doesn’t bother you that much then why not show off your skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:22 PM
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Women are totally into height, but not to the degree that some people on here claim. Exactly, difference in height is a sexually dimorphic trait. It’s not that hard for a man to be taller than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:16 PM
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Certain viruses take time before the tests show positive results. Doesn’t mean the affected ones aren’t contagious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:45 AM
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That is why I used the term bisexual, sexual attraction towards both sexes, I wasn’t even getting into the romantic aspect. If you are aroused by the opposite sex you are not homosexual. You are bisexual with a preference for the same sex. And that’s exactly why I said that it doesn’t really matter what people identify as, since sexual arousal is measurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:43 PM
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Bisexuality is simply a descriptor of sexual attraction to both sexes. Biologists do use that term as a scientific descriptor. Because too many people do not want to admit they experience same sex attraction. Internalized homophobia is a very real issue in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:30 PM
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tax benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:37 PM
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What’s so hard about ignoring them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:32 PM
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Literally every single time a BTS member cries lol If it was Timothee Chalamet crying they’d also think he’s very brave for showing emotions etc. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:29 PM
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It doesn’t matter what they “identify” as when they’re sexually aroused by their own sex. a measurable factor. self reported studies about sexuality are pretty much unreliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:56 PM
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But why does this psychological implication bother certain people so much? I don’t get it. The pill is the go-to med for any hormonal or uterus related issue. We’re all adults, most people are going to have sex, why the secrecy Edit: I guess it’s a similar social norm to women being expected to hide their period products for no solid reason at all? The vast majority of women until a certain age are menstruating, there’s nothing to hide there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:08 PM
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I don’t understand the issue about taking medication in front of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:56 PM
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I set mine at 7pm. I often forget to take medication during the day or early in the morning because I’m in a hurry. Obviously don’t want to take that risk with birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:53 PM
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I understand the argument regarding sex toys but i don’t think you can compare not being able to cum from penetration to death grip. for most women it will forever be anatomically impossible to orgasm from stimulation of the internal structure of the clitoris because it’s too far away from the vaginal wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:05 PM
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No why would I … it’s just uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:50 AM
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You could say that about literally any social convention and yet there are very real consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:13 PM
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having a taller male partner is a status symbol in the same way that having a conventionally beautiful female partner is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:34 PM
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they might be insecure about their social status
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:53 PM
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Oh I do talk about abortion pretty frequently. But overall there’s not much to discuss because I’ve never met anyone personally who disagreed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:21 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone IRL on the pro-choice side arguing for anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:52 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:19 PM
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Members of the average population can fall for extremist ideology though. Also, average population referred more to average income No, the hard hitting solution would be banning guns. Mental health treatment is just additional support in countering terrorism or violent crime in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:45 PM
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And where did I argue for the abolishment of prisons or similar institutions? These entities are necessary, just as much as more accessible mental health care for the average population. I made a comparison to germany in my comment above.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:38 PM
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I don’t think I need to mention that in order to decrease violent crime overall the average population also needs better access to mental health programs etc. I do know that american mental health programs actually have better success rates than german ones for example, but therapy etc. is also very expensive and not accessible to everyone. America would be a significantly less violent place if guns were banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:27 PM
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Obviously. And yet we still have to deal with these incidents from time to time. I don’t see why ideology isn’t to blame
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:15 PM
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exactly like - that’s the entire purpose of any kind of gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:10 PM
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americans are fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:01 PM
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My opinion is that more deradicalization (including more specialized mental health care) is necessary & the pdf mentioned approaches. What’s up with the hostility
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:49 PM
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It’s a pretty comprehensive .pdf, I don’t understand the issue. There are no “original” thoughts on this topic because so many people have been trying to solve it, with different degrees of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:43 PM
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Soft counter terrorism is effective but obviously not the only solution https://www.ipinst.org/wp-content/uploads/publications/a_new_approach_epub.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:34 PM
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Exactly, I don’t see how we shouldn’t blame the ideology itself though. Banning an ideology is obviously not enough, massive deradicalization efforts are necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:18 PM
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Yes you can certainly ban guns but even countries with hard gun restrictions have had shootings that were inspired by nazi or “incel” ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:09 PM
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Social hierarchies were indeed more rigid in the past but I still wouldn’t compare the profits that the average upper class person made to that of lower class men. Besides all of the injuries, diseases and high death toll that lower class men had to struggle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:26 PM
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I understand wanting to receive flowers lol. The issue with these gendered gestures is that women don’t receive nearly as many social consequences for showing masculine traits
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:19 PM
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I would include WW2. I’m not sure if it really is all wars in the history of humanity. I wouldn’t say that hunter-gatherer societies really had this wealth disparity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:59 PM
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it’s crazy how effective this sort of brainwashing is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:57 PM
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I assume OP was mostly referring to emotional/mental health support. I know a few organization that created soccer clubs for (male) refugees, overall it’s just a great way to support someone’s hobby and for them to make new friendships in a foreign country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:51 PM
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Seriously what’s his issue lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:42 PM
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No, the outcome should be that you receive support from other men in return
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:39 PM
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Most modern wars are literally just old rich men believing that young men are expendable and forcing them to die for their own self interests
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:36 PM
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It’s an illusion that progress is linear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:55 PM
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legitimately just mean girls with traditional values
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:48 PM
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Exactly, and no, I’m definitely not claiming that all incels are potential mass shooters. But to figure out who’s a legitimate threat these specific online communities do need to be under more frequent observation. That method has helped in preventing other extremist attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:51 PM
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I want to add that while it’s true that no other country has such an extreme mass shooting problem, these incel ideology based shootings are also becoming more common in europe. I’ll be real with you, I don’t think we should treat these online groups any differently than extremist islamist online groups. I don’t see why “incels” should receive special treatment. At the end of the day there’s a lot of overlap in their rhetoric and motivation. That’s also part of the reason why Andrew Tate “conver…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:31 PM
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Sex toys are fine, if they resemble humans too much they give off uncanny valley vibes lol. Masturbating by yourself is a non-issue for most relationships. I always wonder, do men who seriously dislike it when their female partner uses sex toys also dislike her using her fingers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:25 PM
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That’s adorable. Wishing them the best !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:52 AM
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Hmm possibly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:48 AM
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I’d argue getting (vaginally) penetrated feels very different from penetrating someone. Usually also involves more pain
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:58 PM
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Yes. It is scary. Because men simply have a higher potential for physical violence. That doesn’t just apply to male homo sapiens, that applies to all male apes. Amazing logic there. Contrary to popular belief, I also associate lots of islamist online spaces with the manosphere, it’s just not a culturally christian one. And yet they repeat a very similar rhetoric. Should everyone and the government stop “snooping around” in their online spaces and leave them alone? No. Because they pose a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:39 AM
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Some do discover their actual libido after going off of it, especially if they started taking it during their teenage years. But I’ve also often heard women who were never on birth control saying that they are really horny while menstruating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:15 PM
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You don’t ovulate during your placebo week … like that’s the whole point of taking the pill The bleeding during the placebo week is also technically not an actual menstruation because ovulation did not occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:09 PM
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I’m definitely seeing chasers lol. Lots of young women trying to find their kpop prince
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:45 PM
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I mean it’s standard to split rent if both are working … not necessarily 50/50 because that depends on each partner’s income I would feel nothing. It’s just plausible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:14 AM
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I don’t understand why you believe this is a race thing. My sister and I are both mixed race, but since she has a darker complexion others only see her as black. It has far more to do with your upbringing, if your parents pushed you towards academic perfectionism etc. These circumstances are more prevalent in the middle class and upper class but that doesn’t make the issue any less serious. Additionally, I might have a different view on this subject because I’m an ex ballet dancer. Most of my fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:27 AM
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I don’t know why you made the assumption that my statement implied that being overweight wasn’t prevalent in young women. I just said that anorexia is common amongst young women. You probably don’t interact much with young women. I see it often in highschools and middle schools, especially those girls that are obsessed with perfectionism. The thing about anorexia is that it kills you much faster than extreme obesity. I don’t take a lot of the online body positivity movement seriously. That doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:00 AM
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My sister has an eating disorder and it almost killed her. I will never underestimate how prevalent eating disorders are amongst young women & how much damage they cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:42 AM
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Status simply implies more ressources. Ressources that will improve the life of your offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:48 AM
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These comments are the reason why most bisexuals lie about being heterosexual. Lmfao Fuck women. This is one of the few instances where I can say this with 100% confidence. Hypocrisy at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:45 AM
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This really isn’t a gender thing. The sex itself is a test of compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:17 AM
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Women were always like this. Just look at other female mammals, especially female apes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:43 AM
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Buddy, you can complain as much as you want. These sexual behaviors are hard wired into us. (Of course, there are exceptions to every rule) If you desire “masculine” sexual behavior then date men or invest a lot of your time into finding a woman with high libido + spontaneous desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:05 AM
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lack of libido. i know it might be difficult to understand if you’ve never experienced it yourself but if you have a low libido it’s simply not something that your brain immediately/often thinks of. i had to take medication for a while that severely affected my libido and it was quite unusual for me to mostly rely on responsive desire despite the fact that i still enjoyed sex/intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:54 AM
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I think your rant was actually very interesting. Taking the lead and being dominant during sex is different from smacking someone in the face in my honest abuse. That’s where the lines between abuse and intimacy start becoming blurry, even if it might be “consensual”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:01 PM
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We seem to be talking about completely different concepts of flirting. I was referring to active flirting aka holding long eye contact, making dirty jokes, caressing someone etc., especially in relationships I feel like you’re going completely off topic with your comment. At no point did I deny that a) women have lower libidos and tend to have responsive desire and b) that the natural consequence of this is that men tend to be required to take more action What I am saying is that foreplay and fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:21 PM
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We seem to be talking about completely different concepts of flirting. I was referring to active flirting aka holding long eye contact, making dirty jokes, caressing someone etc. I feel like you’re going completely off topic with your comment. At no point did I deny that a) women have lower libidos and tend to have responsive desire and b) that the natural consequence of this is that men tend to be required to take more action What I am saying is that foreplay and flirting (if reciprocated in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:19 PM
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Overall it’s difficult for low libido people to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:31 PM
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Hold on, I thought we were talking about relationships/FWBs. Your partner shouldn’t be completely indifferent to you in general, if that’s the case they’re not into you. I definitely see average women flirting with their partners. I personally don’t want to have sex every single day of the week but I already do build up intimacy/passion multiple times throughout the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:29 PM
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Agreed, intimacy should be mutual
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:10 PM
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I’m shocked about the replies there. I heavily disagree with the opinion that exposure therapy of this kind can help with sexual trauma sex work itself is too dangerous for that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:59 PM
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See, I understand this point. Rejection from a romantic partner hurts. But if flirting and foreplay has worked out so far, why see it as a chore? It’s one of the best aspects of intimacy as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:44 PM
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I really don’t understand how flirting and foreplay could ever be seen as a chore If you experience a lot of rejection then sure. But overall it makes intimacy so much more interesting and fun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:40 PM
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Yes, I’m young that’s why I was talking about men in my age group. I’m certainly not sheltered though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:25 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:37 PM
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Even from a biological perspective it’s not fully accurate. Males in actually polygamous primate species produce far more sperm than the males in our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:03 PM
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My social circle has to be incredibly unique then. Which I seriously doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:45 AM
0

well, these guys care about whether their partners have some sort of formal training/education, a job without a degree usually isn’t enough. but no, most of these guys don’t particularly care whether she has a high income, just that it’s a stable one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:32 PM
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They are being pressured into it by society and family. Capitalism is one of the main reasons. I don’t know why you’re going on this rant about how men and women are different when my only point was that young men in my generation care about their girlfriend’s ambitions (including financial potential) and education level
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:15 PM
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I was talking about the guys in my generation. Your viewpoint might apply to short term sexual relationships for them but not LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:02 PM
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thank you for some common sense on here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:11 PM
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I’m not american and I don’t particularly care for american history. That is your personal stance on this and that’s fine. Regardless of that, a university degree is a status symbol where I’m from. There are entire dating websites only dedicated to people with uni degrees (elitepartner.de for example) because people do care about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:05 PM
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I have no clue who Gordon Wood is. I guess the average population is stupid then. It’s a very common sentiment here, whether it makes sense is another question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:56 PM
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I’m often hearing this sentiment on here, I guess Germany is overall more elitist in regards to education. A university degree is a status symbol in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:48 PM
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It’s a mix of future financial prospects and education level
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:38 PM
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I will say that most young men in my generation definitely care about whether a woman has a degree or is working on one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:24 PM
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cap Dataclysm’s study identified that women tend to find men approximately their own age most desirable, e.g. 21-year-old women found 23-year-old men most attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:12 AM
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Men would do the exist same if they had the ability to get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:28 PM
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I’ve always wondered why erotica novels & softcore romances are so socially accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:39 PM
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It appears that you’re aromantic so I somewhat doubt that you’ll be able to relate to other men who are capable of feeling romantic love
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:57 AM
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Not at all, I’m bisexual myself. My current bf has also expressed interest in men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:36 PM
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Because these cultures believe that cunnilingus is a submissive and degrading action
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:32 PM
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No I wouldn’t think less of him. If I was dating him I would be somewhat concerned that I wouldn’t be able to fully fulfill his desire because I’m not into strap ons at all. Wouldn’t mind using my fingers though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:30 PM
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the one situation that involves homosexual sex why do you keep asking these questions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:19 PM
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Share? Maybe. But not in detail. It’s mostly just them asking “Was it good?” and that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:52 AM
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Because he most likely enjoys getting his prostate stimulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:49 AM
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the homosexual sex obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:48 AM
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The relevant factor in all of this is that you’re the person who’s getting penetrated. Sure, she could have mentioned undesirable women with a strap on instead of gay dudes. And not just that, there should also be a risk of pregnancy (for you)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:31 AM
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Natural selection is real guys But yes, treating others with kindness is the least you can do. As long as men don’t interpret this kindness as flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:16 AM
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I mean, most people get to the hospital by themselves, what point are you trying to make There’s also no need for emergency drivers if there aren’t any doctors or nurses
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:10 AM
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No because she did not commit a crime by going to a party. The person who decides to rape someone is 100% responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:25 PM
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What about the nurses and doctors in the hospital? The point you’re trying to make doesn’t make sense. Men’s physical strength can be very helpful in a lot of cases. It’s also true that technological advancements have made physical strength less important
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:51 AM
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I still don’t understand why so many people on here assume that it’s the amount of sexual partners someone had, that is the determining factor which decides whether someone is interested or the type for long term relationships and not simply … their personality. people who are less interested in long term relationships are also more likely to have had lots of changing sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:58 AM
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Option A isn’t my type personality wise and B would be fine for a hookup. Nothing more than that though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:05 PM
1

why would i need to look at my own ass that i’ve already seen a million times before
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:27 AM
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It makes me feel uneasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:25 AM
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Neither of them sound like my type
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:23 AM
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Many American women have made traumatizing experiences with men. Guys on PPD constantly underestimate just how common it is. Yeah, I believe they were homophobic for no logical reason. Heterosexual men are just as likely to be pedophiliac. I’m not telling you to be understanding towards these women. I’m saying that these women don’t want to have anything to do with men like you & you clearly don’t like them either. For these women, the outcome couldn’t be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:28 AM
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homophobia and transphobia are legitimate misnomers. homo- and transagression are more accurate. these people haven’t been traumatized by gay or trans people, they simply hate them. it’s not an actual phobia. i was assuming you weren’t talking about misandry but about legit androphobia, a fear of men caused by traumatizing experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:10 AM
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The fact that these people give you an ick is not an issue. It’s honestly the perfect outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:06 AM
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Your account already tells me enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:03 AM
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That’s a good thing then. I’m sure they don’t want to interact with guys like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:04 AM
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Because this woman clearly has psychological problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:56 AM
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And they close their eyes a lot too. They are much more focused on the pleasure itself than admiring the male body True. Most women would agree that visual stimuli don’t turn them on as much as men. Personally I’m much more focused on someone’s voice and moaning. Closing my eyes is also simply a reflex to intense pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:47 PM
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gay men are men. visual stimuli turn them on more
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:40 PM
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I’m an introvert, I’m fine with low attention. I have a high libido though Edit: I would also leave a loving relationship if it turns into a forever dead bedroom situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:58 PM
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Interesting insight. Very different from my personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:56 PM
1

I definitely wouldn’t choose attention lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:53 PM
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I don’t find attention itself better than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:52 PM
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“A woman who gets constant attention and no sex will also be satisfied” Unless her libido is non existent or she’s completely asexual, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:38 PM
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The “g spot” is just the internal structure of the clitoris. So a) the men’s penis size is relevant to stimulate it but also b) the internal part of the clit needs to be close enough to the vaginal wall to get stimulated in the first place. For most women a vaginal orgasm just isn’t anatomically possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:21 PM
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Nah, I see men complaining about regular sized dildos all the time Twitter has some weird discourse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:14 PM
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y’all would also say that dildos make her loose so who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:45 AM
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Sounds like he’s depressed or sad. I also tend to isolate myself when I’m feeling really down so I get it. It’s fine if it’s a once in a while thing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:06 AM
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my great grandmother was forced to marry at 12
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:46 PM
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art critics usually don’t study the subject though. i’m pretty sure that writing classes are part of the program for most english majors
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:44 PM
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I dislike people who are inconsistent with their views
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:16 PM
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The facts and science you made up in your head, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:19 PM
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This is why I love PPD. Completely insane takes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:03 PM
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It should definitely be a crime. Consent to sex isn’t consent to actual reproduction. In the case of the pill specifically it would be really hard to prove though, I’m interested to see how that could be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:35 PM
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“I very much doubt that, though I admit I do not know either way” Knowing european politics and law, they simply don’t want to attract more refugees. If it was that easy, that would be one hell of a loop hole. “This is the only relevant reference and it’s pretty thin” …? Okay, so the state police claimed that back in 2015 (I still don’t know whether this is correct because I haven’t seen a source) but now the Australian Federal Police is claiming something else. I would argue that efforts to sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:08 PM
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The fact that they identify with the red pill Like, on youtube, twitter and instagram And no, redpillers aren’t the only ones that complain about women. redpillers are just particularly obsessed with the dating world
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:32 PM
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Because they speak German and quite literally complain about “german women” They could technically be German speakers from Austria, Switzerland or Luxemburg, sure, but they talk about their experience of living in Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:09 PM
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“I am thoroughly familiar with the differences”. My comment stated that legalization increases sex trafficking. You replied that this is false and that decriminalization creates “zero” victims. Again, these are two different concepts. “You don’t think that creates huge incentives for making false claims of being a trafficking victim?” Possibly, although I do assume that you need to win a legal case in order to win residency. Honestly, if it was that easy, false claims would be much higher. Espec…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:06 PM
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Decriminalization and Legalization are different concepts, do not confuse them. https://decriminalizesex.work/why-decriminalization/briefing-papers/decriminalization-is-the-only-solution/ “Countries with legalized prostitution are associated with higher human trafficking inflows than countries where prostitution is prohibited. The scale effect of legalizing prostitution, i.e. expansion of the market, outweighs the substitution effect, where legal sex workers are favored over illegal workers. On …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:38 PM
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It’s been completely legal since 2002. According to german redpillers women have become more and more selective though 🤷🏽‍♀️ They complain just as much as american redpillers. We can simply compare the situation to US states where prostitution is illegal. The situation remains the same, modern dating is modern dating. In my opinion it’s far easier to hide sex trafficking under the umbrella of legality, since brothels etc. aren’t being controlled as much. “The scale effect of legalized prostituti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:59 AM
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That only applies to scandinavian countries and france. Here in Germany it’s entirely legal and it hasn’t changed anything about dating It did increase human trafficking rates though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:25 AM
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the average korean woman is not a feminist … being childfree for financial reasons is different from being inspired by ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:23 AM
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this is so laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:58 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:56 AM
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“known feminist hellhole” You really have no clue about korean politics do you south korea is simply a capitalist hell hole with extreme beauty standards that even affect men because the industry wants to make $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:54 AM
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Deliberately picking drunk instathots for your podcast is very different from having a drink or two in your life And again, using social media is far away from being an actual influencer “Most adult men had sex, so it makes sense to compare them to prostitutes or porn stars” Like let’s not act dense here, he’s trying to paint a very specific picture
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:25 AM
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Most women are neither instathots nor drunk most of the time. Being an insta influencer is far away from simply having downloaded the app
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:43 AM
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Legal Prostitution in lots of european countries has changed almost nothing in regards to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:35 AM
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It’s not an insatiable desire for most women, no, but most are jealous about the physical strength that the average man possesses. At the end of the day it all comes down to sex differences. Nothing we can change
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:21 AM
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Maternity leave in the traditional sense (six weeks before birth and eight weeks afterwards) is paid by the employer. Everything afterwards is state funded
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:52 PM
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“They probably won’t have any children” is definitely incorrect. Most women here end up becoming mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:39 PM
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Most do want to have kids, they just dont want more than 1 to 2 children
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:33 PM
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“Each parent can take up to three years of parental leave per child. In the case of the mother, however, this three-years-long parental leave includes the legally prescribed, six-weeks-long after-birth maternity leave during which the mother has to stay home” And yeah, it does reset as far as I know https://handbookgermany.de/en/parental-leave Usually it’s 65% of your net income, although there are different levels of paid parental leave https://familienportal.de/familienportal/meta/languages/fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:26 PM
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Here in Germany it’s up to 3 years (parental leave in general)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:57 PM
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I’m definitely seeing far more criticism of polyamory than FWB situations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:52 PM
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Thankfully I’m not a guy, I don’t care about women being younger or tighter than me lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:14 PM
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balanced as all things should be
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:05 PM
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It’s a good analogy, I don’t see the issue here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:07 PM
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True, mixed race women aren’t affected by drake’s popularity. That media affects public perception is nothing new, my question is why drake specifically has so much influence on the perception of mixed race men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:28 AM
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How did he become the representative of the mixed race community in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:17 AM
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It really has very little value, it’s just personal entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:40 AM
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Funny that you’re saying that, I most often notice it with shoe sizes. Probably related to the same factors that also contribute to them starting earlier with puberty/menstruation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:56 PM
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I don’t choose which sex sexually arouses me. I don’t choose who my heart falls in love with. It’s not about who you choose to date. It’s quite literally about how your brain and body react to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:11 AM
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That’s so difficult because like 99% of celebrities are good looking? I would say guys who are a bit above average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:51 AM
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One thing that these discussions often ignore is how important natural body odor actually is to women. Like even if you’re just flirting, it’s something that we subconsciously pay attention to. The reason is that women are checking if their immune systems are compatible with their own
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:43 AM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:35 AM
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It’s true, I’m a womanizer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:14 PM
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My personal experience doesn’t match tbh but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 10:06 PM
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Why are you guys immediately thinking of Dubai? That’s certainly not a common travel destination amongst young women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:04 PM
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As long as you don’t approach a woman late at night while she’s alone, it’s fine. Just understand to leave her alone if she isn’t interested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:36 PM
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That’s your preference and that’s fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:33 PM
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I wouldn’t be having sex with the regular guy if i wasn’t attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:23 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever encountered someone with a triple digit body count, I seriously don’t believe such outliers are relevant to the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:22 PM
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I believe it’s disingenuous to imply that the change of marital rape laws had no effect. Do you have evidence that women were protected and respected? If you look at modern day traditional societies, husbands can openly talk about raping their wives and her family isn’t necessarily inclined to protect her since it’s her “wifely duty” to have sex with him whenever he wants. Heavily traditional sub cultures also exist in the US. Just look at any religious community. How often do women of these com…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:18 PM
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Traditional cultures have even more rape cases, not to mention the fact that marital rape was still legal when traditional values were mainstream. Most rape victims get raped by friends and family. “Protective male family members” aren’t the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:16 PM
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Hm, looking at my dating history none of the men have ever been below average so probably no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:55 PM
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Culture gets defined as “the ideas, customs and social behavior of a particular people […]”. Certain ideologies do help with perpetrators convincing themselves that rape is justified. If those men would do it regardless of social circumstances then they should be locked up for life and not just a few years Therapy would also be useless. Jail forever If your hypothesis is correct, then the western criminal system ends up not protecting victims enough and contributing to the rape crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:52 PM
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I’m honestly not sure how this metric works, does 4/10 mean I’m still sexually attracted to him? If not, then no. I wouldn’t have anything with either of them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:48 PM
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But actual rape victims do use the term rape culture
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:40 PM
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Looks alone are boring, wouldn’t even be enough for a ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:36 PM
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I see your point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:29 PM
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I do agree that applies to a certain extent but then again, if she hasn’t had sex for even the past few months then N-count (only including men) really doesn’t have much informative value A more accurate question would be “How many men did you sleep with the past month?”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:14 PM
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More for me 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:01 PM
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Wasn’t supposed to be a brag, just wanted to share some anecdotal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:45 PM
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What about those girls that don’t fit stereotypes 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:40 PM
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It’s true. Guys don’t give two shits about how many girls I’ve slept with, they care about the amount of men though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:38 PM
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I like girls with experience and I find the guys on this subreddit hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:23 PM
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Most heterosexual women dislike bisexual men, I don’t see how your experience is supposed to be universal You can certainly attract those that have a fetish for it I’m glad you’re staying far away from such women though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:58 PM
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Yes I absolutely can fault them for trying. You’re trying really hard to change my mind about this but it doesn’t change anything about the fact that I find older men who approach younger women disgusting as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:30 PM
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And I found those members of the opposite sex gross. Shit is also natural, doesn’t change anything about the fact that I find it disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:13 PM
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It’s up to each couple to set their own boundaries but I think they’re both insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:36 PM
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Hopefully
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:02 PM
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They’re always trying so hard to defend this it’s so funny. I don’t care what kinda evopsych explanation you try to come up with this time, I still think it’s gross lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:01 PM
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Disgust. I might be 22 but I still look like a 16 year old and often have older men flirting with me. It‘s gross
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:57 PM
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I would argue that problem solving skills are the most obvious benefit of intelligence being philosophically smart is comparable to traits like being funny, it simply makes a person more interesting and entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:09 AM
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hm i don’t see how women being interested in smart/educated men is not part of red pill rhetoric though? like these are traits with obvious benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:47 AM
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smart and rich don’t imply the same thing. a lot of wealth is inherited personally i see it as women being interested in men who are good at problem solving, which is a clear benefit in a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:43 AM
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Only thing I’m truly thankful for
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:41 PM
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I’ll become the best Pokémon trainer you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:39 PM
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Okay? As if I don’t already have male family members
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:36 PM
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Hm my grandmothers don’t have different views tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:33 PM
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Yes, it has made me dislike men as a social group more
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:52 PM
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I mean sure but people also take Plan B when other methods of contraception failed. Something as simple as diarrhea or antibiotics affect regular birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:52 PM
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Split the costs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:49 PM
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It’s ‘schlampe’ lmao Yes exactly, it’s a cultural difference, they aren’t as obsessed with the idea of a woman being a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:39 AM
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I don’t see how that’s related to my comment It depends on the culture, I don’t see german men caring about someone’s virginity unless they are virgins themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:00 AM
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If you enjoy being sexually frustrated sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:36 PM
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Muslim women are allowed to get divorced but I’m not sure how each muslim country handles things in the divorce court. The issue is that your argumentation is really only based on materalistic things and things like loyalty and commitment get ignored. I would argue that a romantic relationship is about more than financial resources, many men on here don’t like being treated as ATMs either. In the end the virgin still gets fucked over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:56 PM
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And my point is that the virgin still gets fucked over
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:41 PM
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And yet they betrayed her and cheated on her. No loyalty to be found. They valued her more? They have no respect for her either. If you have these dating (marriage) standards you should also be able to meet your partner’s standards. Instead of valueing the monogamous intimacy with their future wife they preferred to have sex with their side chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:19 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:09 PM
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If you complain about sexism against women you should not try to uphold traditional gender roles. That’s hypocrisy. Focus on being self reliant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:50 PM
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certain aspects of a culture can be criminal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:23 PM
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Traditional values à la slutshaming directly correlate with sexual shame and things like religious trauma regarding sex which has an effect on women’s libidos https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/201708/overcoming-religious-sexual-shame?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:15 PM
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I don’t believe that longterm monogamy is for everyone, it’s culturally enforced. some people simply struggle with it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:45 PM
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People who are into regular hookups will potentially struggle with long term monogamous relationships because this lifestyle simply doesn’t fit their personality, not because previous hookups made them unable to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:58 PM
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Purity culture will highly increase the chances that you’ll end up in a dead bedroom situation. And only because you’re courting a virgin girl doesn’t mean that she’ll accept your advances. additionally, the average man doesn’t want to wait till marriage for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:35 AM
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She is pretty bad ass haha She wasn’t allowed to do an apprenticeship, her parents were preparing her for the life of a housewife but her dream has always been becoming a seamstress. So with the help of her brothers she managed to get her certification And only because of that my turkish family was able to immigrate to Germany
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:18 AM
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She had already been dating my granddad in secret for a while and was madly in love, her brothers knew about their relationship and were helping her covering it up lol. Arranged (more like forced) marriages were very common and her parents had already decided on a partner for her and I assume the conversation escalated quite a bit until she started saying she’d jump off of the balcony My grandma has always been very strong willed lol Shortly afterwards my granddad asked her parents for permissio…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:50 AM
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Love marriages just weren’t the norm until modern days, that’s nothing new. But both of my grandmothers had luck. My maternal turkish grandmother was almost forced into an arranged marriage but then she threatened to kill herself and got her then boyfriend (my grandpa) to ask her parents for her hand in marriage. My paternal german grandma married my west african granddad. She’s always been a bit of a hippie and free thinker, it wasn’t necessity or social pressure that made her date him Neither …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:36 PM
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There’s something called empathy and I thought this subreddit would care about men’s feelings I don’t see how a society is supposed to be more peaceful and productive if many end up insecure & frustrated Edit: I also haven’t argued that dick size doesn’t matter. I was initially criticizing the obsession with big dicks in pornography. Personally, they’re just painful to me. It’s not fun. Average is average for a reason, because that’s what most women were going for
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:03 PM
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Huh? At what point did I argue that porn should get banned/no one should watch porn because it mostly portrays big dicks? My point was that many men have admitted that it makes them feel insecure and it’s a discussion worth having Sure, they would have found out they’re not big one way or another but modern pornography often implies that only big dicks are capable of sexually satisfying women etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:53 PM
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I don’t know their penis size but even if they did, that shows that porn does contribute to their insecurity Just because you have never heard of this outside of anti porn groups doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:49 PM
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Pornstars do have big dicks lol what are you talking about? I’ve heard several men in real life say that pornography made them feel insecure about their size, subreddits like smalldickproblems & averagedickproblems also frequently discuss it The rest I agree with (although it’s not just promiscuous women). People are being taught that violent sex is the ‘only’ correct way to have sex etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:38 PM
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Would love to hear about this from a male perspective, I think penis size is an obvious one but what else?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:51 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:39 PM
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I’m not sure if porn specifically is the reason for that though, but yes, sex repressed societies do have higher rape rates
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:32 PM
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It’s individual and yet there are observable sex differences. Women simply have a menstrual cycle which results in our libido fluctuating a lot more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:21 PM
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Porn is often also a motivator for rape though … Many Perpetrators have named it as their inspiration. I personally think the issue is far more complex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:12 PM
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Mhh I’m bisexual and I really don’t care either way, men or women What’s somewhat important to me is that someone has experience or at least basic knowledge but that doesn’t require a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:22 AM
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I was referring to western beauty standards. I’m mixed race so I’ve had to deal with other issues than white women for example Hair is a big one. My hair type is 4a and as a woman in the west, I’ve always felt the pressure to have long, flowing hair. However my natural hair is very big and puffy. I wear braids most of the time (for practical reasons as well) but the physical pain to get my hair done & the time investment is certainly not something I enjoy Also … faking attractiveness? To me it s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:05 PM
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Well, there are more differences than just reproductive organs. Muscle Mass, Fat ressources, Bone density etc. I don’t enjoy having to keep up with female beauty standards in western society. It’s something that was forced onto me. If you don’t shave your legs you will get ridiculed and bullied, if you’re an adult woman you will get taken more seriously if you wear make up. But yeah, Femininity is a performance. Sex isn’t, but gender in general is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:33 PM
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Now that’s a new one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:35 AM
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Well someone has personal issues with me. You’re free to disagree, I’m not stopping you. The article I read was about the Mosuo people https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2022.873137/full We were discussing made up ancient societies and social structures we’d like to see, I don’t know what exactly your issue with my comment was.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:48 PM
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Patriarchal social structures exist to maintain the power of men. Extremely patriarchal societies are still around. Should we ask women from these societies what the general perception of women in their cultural circle is? Yes, they might not even realize that their treatment is unjust because they have been indoctrinated with propaganda, they’ve already started to believe that women are “lesser human beings”. Do you really want to tell me that the treatment of iranian women is for the good of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:31 AM
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No … it’s just that women were discriminated against in patriarchal societies and seen as “less valuable”, “less of a human being”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:33 AM
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I thought we were talking about “ancient” societies and that’s why I brought these social structures up as an example. I’m not an anthropologist so I won’t claim that taking care of your nephews and nieces is the reason why they haven’t established larger civilizations
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:23 AM
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I don’t believe that everyone with sexual history is having boring sex lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:15 AM
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There are still matrilineal (and matriarchal) societies around and some of them have solved it this way: Since lineages are matrilineal, men aren’t loyal towards their (ex) sex partners, they’re loyal towards their sisters, mother and aunts. They raise their nephews etc. as if they were their own children. It’s a very different family structure from what we’re used to but still very interesting. Basically it’s mostly important if you as a man are blood related to the mother of a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:48 AM
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Obviously. Still doesn’t make sense to bring Mandela up while talking about Tate. At no point did I even imply that political prisoners are in longer detainment for valid reasons, I tried to say that longer detainment is far more complex than just getting arrested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:55 PM
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You’re not honestly comparing andrew tate to nelson mandela LMFAO what will you do if it does turn out that he’s guilty?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:43 AM
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Arrested? Yeah. Detained for that long? That’s a different story. Regardless, you’re one of his little fanboys and will defend him no matter what. There will be a trial and we will find out the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:30 AM
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I would argue that the romanian police has a lot of evidence of it, otherwise he wouldn’t still be in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:22 AM
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Well … BDSM is rooted in abuse, let’s not act dense here. Just because two adults consented to it doesn’t mean that it’s healthy for them. In a lot of cases traumatized individuals engage in BDSM because they still haven’t processed their past trauma. While some might argue that it’s a “coping mechanism” many psychologists actually disagree and believe that this approach is counterproductive. Sure, in such cases both partners are adults but one of them is mentally ill & seeking self harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:45 AM
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I don’t know where y’all even picked that intuition stuff up. Is it an american thing? It’s just gut feeling, something that most humans experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:48 PM
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Right? Such a culture shock to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:57 PM
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I’m not apart of that group. I have already decided that I want to have kids. It’s absolutely possible to have a career and a family, as do most women in my family. Most of them got pregnant when they were 30+. I value their experiences and advice more than yours, someone who will never experience motherhood. I’m not saying that I want to get pregnant when I’m 40+, but having kids in your mid/late thirties is not an issue amongst the women in family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:33 PM
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I can’t be a mother if I don’t fucking have the money for it. There is no guarantee that a man won’t leave you. Having children is very important to me. Which is exactly why I need to have a successful career of my own to be able to take care of my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:22 PM
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At which point did I clam that it was fair for men to get treated like shit for superficial reasons? Your comparison only makes sense in regards to access to sex, which women overall care less about due to having a lower libido. The initial comment is still ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:37 PM
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Totally normal response. As we can see, smokers also definitely get treated the same way. We don’t have to pretend that obesity is healthy, doesn’t mean they need to be disrespected.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:30 PM
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I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:12 PM
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Female-oriented subs talk about it a lot. The difference is of course, most women value a true connection more than … being used as a fleshlight. While some men might claim that sex is a need it would also be valid for women to claim that a romantic emotional connection is a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:46 PM
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Then that just applies to your family or it’s maybe even a cultural difference. Grew up in a mixed turkish/west african community in Germany and it’s definitely the boys that got away with more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:56 PM
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Ah yes, because women aren’t judged from the moment they’re born. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:16 PM
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Can’t say I’ve often experienced what you’re describing in my friend circle
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:37 AM
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A relationship with someone who is mentally and maybe even physically harming you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 09:01 AM
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I honestly don’t think that questioning your sexuality is that rare to be honest. Just wanted to share my perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 08:58 AM
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I mean, I have broken up with one dude because of sexual trauma and when I was younger I was going through a phase of questioning my sexuality and also ended a relationship. I certainly wasn’t looking for other guys afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:55 AM
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Hm? If someone is mentally not doing well I wouldn’t assume they’re looking for new relationships or hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:24 AM
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Dude that totally depends on the situation, how are we supposed to make generalized statements? Being single can be better than being in a shitty relationship that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:45 PM
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C) If i don’t find someone physically attractive they’re not gonna win my heart. If our personalities don’t match I’m also going to lose interest. Edit: My personal tastes don’t overlap 100% with what our society considers conventionally attractive, yeah, there’s some expected overlap but it’s not black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:25 PM
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That’s a reasonable explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:58 PM
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I really don’t believe that’s true https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Microchimerism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:34 AM
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Who defines what female nature is? Only female humans
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:05 PM
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oh that’s an interesting take. women (especially young ones) also influence language heavily
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:59 AM
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Well it’s making women who don’t care about gender roles happier. I didn’t go to school for 12 years just to focus on birthing kids and taking care of the household. I’d be bored to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:28 PM
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Nah, social class also exists in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:03 PM
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Exactly, it’s the type of woman that you meet. Most regular people are fine with a homemade meal, I’d even say that most women think it’s sexy when a man is cooking food for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:53 PM
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complete nightmare job for me edit: lol, didn’t see the sex starved part
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:07 PM
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That‘s really just the type of women that you interact with … most likely from privileged families who have never had to worry about financial problems. Pretty women from low income families don’t think like that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:03 PM
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They chased them for their money and status, not primarily their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:24 PM
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I mean it’s not surprising that incestuous pedophiliac attraction is quite widespread amongst men, you just have to take a look at trending porn titles. This theory however ignores that all domesticated animals have juvenile facial features, and yes, humans domesticated themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:45 PM
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I mean, it’s not surprising. Women simply find men their own age more sexually attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:39 PM
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Blackpill? I have seen such theories in radical feminist spaces. All I’m saying is that this certainly doesn’t portray men in a good light
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:34 PM
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Oh my dad would beat him up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:08 AM
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Well that also happens in Europe, I can assure you. Most of my friends (early 20s) still live at home, especially girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:02 AM
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No it’s not an ick for me, I’m into video games myself Excessive gaming is a red flag though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:19 PM
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3-5 times a week is ideal. Although that depends on your definition of a session I guess I hate quickies. I’d say I’m demanding in the sense that I’m only satisfied with long sessions. Lots of foreplay and making out. My current partner is experimental and it’s fun to try some new stuff with him. He cares more about my pleasure tbh and wants me to be more demanding Ehh … what kinda requirements are you talking of? I don’t think my opinion on this matters though since casual sex always evolved in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:03 PM
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You’re not wrong about that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:58 PM
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I’m a 22 year old woman and I can assure you that most women my age are into guys like Harry Styles, Timothee, BTS etc. That doesn’t mean they can’t like the athlete at their school. I don’t believe that 40 year old women are attracted to these dudes either because they’re way too young.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:50 PM
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It kind of is actually lol. I don’t think that BTS are unmasculine, but most of them do have more feminine facial features & obviously they experiment a lot with fashion and jewelry. They’re traditionally masculine in the sense that they’re quite athletic and very ambitious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:47 PM
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It’s really not that niche if BTS are the biggest boyband in the world. Justin Bieber wasn’t niche. Timothee Chalamet isn’t niche. The Backstreet Boys weren’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:29 PM
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As a BTS fan this topic has interested me for a while. I’ve seen many boyband fans claim that traditional masculinity scares them. Traditional masculinity is often associated with overly aggressive behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:28 PM
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All of these factors definitely play a role. Muscle mass, empathy, ability to raise children etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:26 PM
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You aren’t entirely wrong. Overly aggressive behavior which is often considered masculine causes more problems in a social group than anything else. An abundance of resources and modern technology has decreased the importance of physical strength. What’s interesting is that sexual dimorphism in humans has apparently decreased in the past 50,000 years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:21 PM
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Women in more stable societies prefer their men less masculine than women in more unstable ones
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:14 PM
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I don’t disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:39 PM
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R selection theory does not apply here. R- selection is defined by high growth rates, exploitation of less crowded ecological niches and production of a lot of offspring (unlike humans, who are typically only pregnant with one child) They reproduce rapidly. Impossible for humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:31 PM
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The issue is that the conclusion “She doesn’t have the drive to sleep around as much yet does” is plain incorrect. The average of a certain group does not define an individual’s actual sex drive. Obviously culturally there are consequences for desiring sex “too much” as a woman because it’s seen as out of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:23 PM
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You were mentioning studies about sex drive. Sex drive itself is predominantly biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:15 PM
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Just sounds like you’re misinterpreting how empirical studies work … Women, on average, have lower sex drives. An individual woman can have a high sex drive. If she didn’t have the desire to sleep around she wouldn’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:12 PM
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The Madonna-Whore complex is defined as behavior found in men in psychoanalytic literature. Can you elaborate what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:00 PM
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You’re either delusional or a troll. All studies on this subject show that the majority of women are heterosexual, evolutionary it would make zero fucking sense for (most) women to not be interested in heterosexual sex and even if you simply look at the sexual behavior of female apes in general, it’s easy to see that the majority of them is sexually attracted to males. If women weren’t interested in sex and it’s associated pleasure then homo sapiens men would a) not have developed such large pen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:21 PM
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You’re very out of touch with reality then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:12 PM
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Obviously. The vast majority of women are heterosexual, not asexual. Edit: or lesbian of course lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:07 PM
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Radical feminists have tried to establish political lesbianism and it miserably failed because you can’t change your sexuality. You can’t change what gender your brain finds sexually (or romantically) attractive. Bisexual women of course have the option to date women but then there are other factors at play like homophobia, the expectation to birth children etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:01 PM
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There are more women than men who are less interested in sex or not interested at all. Well it really isn’t surprising that so many women are straight up disgusted by sex if you look at how our culture treats women who are open about enjoying it. Besides that, getting penetrated simply leads more often to pain and women are less likely to orgasm during heterosexual intercourse. Also, on average, women are more likely to have experienced sexual assault and can’t enjoy sex as much due to trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:36 AM
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That totally contradicts all the research done in this field. Great point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:23 AM
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Germans are not more likely to forgive infidelity, they’re overall more likely to follow rules. I think the further north you go in europe the more relaxed people are about nudity. As a mixed race person in Germany I’m often witnessing the cultural clash between the more laid back german attitude and the more jealous middle eastern one regarding dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:26 PM
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1) Gender roles do make less sense for the rich elite and yet these women were still not permitted to attend universities for large parts of recent history. Their money couldn’t change anything about academic misogyny. 2) At no point did I ever claim that other types of privileges do not factor into the discrimination that an individual experiences. 3) None of that takes away from the fact that men (as a social group) still had more opportunities than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:40 PM
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And it was significantly more rich men than women with access to education and chances to become powerful politically. Of course wealth comes with privilege. Gender does as well though. Sure, women physically lack strength but even if they had the interest to perform physically tasking jobs, they were often not permitted to perform them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:17 PM
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So you do understand the difference between legality and actual social attitudes. Misogyny still affects women in the western world to this day. Exactly, we don’t have to do the last name thing anymore but it’s still a common practice because it has been so culturally ingrained into us. There are still traces left of the patriarchy. It really hasn’t been long since the feminist social revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:03 PM
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Most western societies are more egalitarian societies with still existing patriarchal structures. The fact that we most often receive our last names from our fathers for example is proof of patrilinearity. “White supremacist structures don’t exist in the west, black people are legally allowed to do anything a white person is.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:51 PM
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It’s impossible to have serious debates on PPD because y’all come up with the most bullshit arguments. Since you’re lacking reading comprehension: Women (as a social group) did not have the same access to education and a career as they do now in most western countries. Women in developing countries still do not have the same opportunities as their male counterparts. Yes, very few rich women were permitted to further their education and become powerful politically. Bad argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:28 PM
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I genuinely think you’re trolling. Are you seriously trying to tell me that women have had the same opportunities as men education and career wise throughout known history? That this is currently the case globally?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:15 PM
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No study I’ve read on this subject proved the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:16 AM
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In your opinion it’s a false equivalency because Afghanistan doesn’t have high living standards, okay I can understand that point to a certain degree. We don’t really have highly patriarchal societies that are also industrial nations. Doesn’t change anything about my initial argument. Women’s lives in more egalitarian societies are significantly better than in highly patriarchal ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:07 AM
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These so called “benefits” do not outweigh the negatives. (I’m assuming you’re speaking of protection, less responsibilities etc.) Heavily patriarchal societies still exist to this day. Would I like to trade my life for that of an afghani woman for the, as you might say, “benefits”? No I would rather kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:03 AM
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Do you even know what time frame I’m speaking of? We do have a general picture of the last 10,000 years, every historian and anthropologist is gonna disagree with you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:55 AM
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In a lot of cultures it’s still something very special. I don’t know why so many of you believe that you can undo thousands of years of patriarchy in a few decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:24 AM
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Obviously. Doesn’t change anything about the fact that people often get away with their lies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:53 PM
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From my personal experience I can’t say that I’ve always experienced it that way. There’s usually always one girl in a group of promiscuous women who isn’t interested in casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:58 PM
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My point is that you wouldn’t suspect she’s lying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:56 PM
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I don’t think libido is a relative factor for friend groups
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:39 PM
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That’s the thing about lying, you can’t always tell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:34 PM
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I love kids and I want a family. I’m in my early 20s so this isn’t happening any time soon I would argue it is more moral to have kids in modern times as compared to the conditions that our ancestors had to experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:56 PM
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You’re going for a very specific type of woman. If a man ever genuinely hit me or tried to “discipline” me I would tell my Dad about it and let nature take it’s course lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:47 PM
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No I haven’t seen more domestic violence targeted at men and from my experience, I also can’t say that men are domestic violence victims more often than women. I personally don’t know of a single domestic violence case targeting a man in my social circle. Regardless of that, I know that the actual amount of victims is way higher. What should be done about it? Obviously more support. More safe housing for male victims. More studies that bring light to the issue. More social awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:31 AM
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sexual dimorphism is the systematic difference in form between sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:35 PM
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Personality No-Go: Ignorance - Arrogance - Lack of self awareness - Cruelty - Lack of empathy Looks: Unhealthy weight (not too thin or too big) - significantly shorter than me (5’7) - Unhygienic Career: Not interested in cops or military guys. Anything that gives a man more access to weapons. Lifestyle: overly religious - xenophobic - personally can’t stand successful men that come from wealthy families - doesn’t want an equal relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:43 PM
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The majority of women in their 20s are not attracted to men in their 30s. Status might affect a man’s attractiveness but looks/youth generally have a stronger effect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:41 AM
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Like for real, please show me the amount of mass shootings that were inspired by feminist ideology. Men don’t need to say that shit online because they already do it in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:34 AM
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That was the exact phrasing he used back then. My father doesn’t believe that libido is something inherently bad. The comparison to obesity also doesn’t make sense in my honest opinion, it’s genuinely harmful to your body. Consensual sex with contraceptives to prevent STDs isn’t harmful. Other people might value chastity but he doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:43 PM
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My father provided me with lots of advice, he’s the most knowledgeable man I know. He once caught me ranting about a girl in middle school who was very sexually active and I called her a slut and my dad got mad at me. He told me I should never judge a woman for having a high libido. I’m from an immigrant family. Most immigrant daughters make the experience that their parents try to influence their dating lives, try to force them to remain chaste … that is controlling behavior. My parents were ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:23 AM
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I don’t think education is necessarily measured by college degrees. Knowledge is important to me. So on a scale, it’s a 4-5. I have zero patience for incompetent and ignorant people. Although I will say that you have terrible job opportunities in Germany without a university degree or a completed apprenticeship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:02 AM
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The last point is interesting. No, the men in my family never brought that up because they don’t care about controlling women. Of course I knew that society had an issue with “sluts”, but the body count discussion wasn’t very common growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:36 AM
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I wouldn’t say that my failed relationships were meaningless. They shaped me as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:25 AM
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How has it impacted your sex drive? - My libido has definitely decreased but I see it as positive. My sex drive was sometimes annoying Are you single and on birth control? - Currently not single but I was single and on birth control Are you on it for reasons other than avoiding pregnancy? - I always struggled with intense cramping, low blood pressure and passing out during my menstruation. Also have PMDD (pre menstrual dysphoric disorder), so each month I would get very suicidal shortly before m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:08 PM
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I can assure you that romance as a genre has way more to offer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 09:32 AM
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It’s a visual stimuli for (mostly) masturbation. No, I don’t believe all men are porn addicts. That does not mean porn can’t seriously impact their view on sex. I would rate daily consumption of porn as a concerning amount, it’s often used as a metric in studies. Alcohol itself does not harm people during the process of creation. Not only that, but the issue with porn is that it’s effects get underestimated while there’s far more education about the effects of alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 09:29 AM
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Okay, the majority of men in my home country don’t want to get married early regardless of that. A significant amount doesn’t even want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:41 PM
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I do agree that fathers are very important in their daughter’s lives. What I have witnessed more often however, was that fathers started to distance themselves from their daughters once they started puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:19 PM
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The vast majority of men in western countries does not want marriage in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:11 PM
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Might be true if you have a son, but I definitely don’t see it as much with daughters. The mothers are still more involved with raising their child
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:56 PM
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sex is a type of physical intimacy i’ve never been married and usually broke things off when i went through a phase of not wanting sex … so no. yeah. there were times where i felt humiliated some men, yeah. a lot of these people would benefit from being less desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:17 PM
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Prolonged eye contact in primates generally either means aggressive behavior or romantic/sexual interest. If a woman keeps trying to make direct eye contact with you, then yeah, she’s most likely interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:15 PM
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I would do anything in my power to prevent my man from going to war. He’s not gonna end up as cannon fodder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:12 PM
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There’s certainly people who expect too much
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:37 PM
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My statement simply described that there’s rules to the game and making a woman feel special is a part of that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:27 PM
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I mean you’re literally proving my point. I didnt claim that pussy was special, I said that you need to participate in the “human mating dance” to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:16 PM
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Let’s assume that your opinion is correct, you either play the game or you don’t. If you decide not to participate then don’t complain about not getting pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:57 PM
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I would say baby trapping is a gendered issue that men are primarily affected by but how is a woman cheating worse than a man cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:31 PM
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Because long term monogamy is culturally enforced but doesn’t necessarily reflect the actual behavior of human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:26 AM
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Idk this is not going to improve anyone’s chances
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:19 PM
1

huh? that’s not true from my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:34 AM
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Like … the majority of bi men are not feminine. Because of that many also assume they’re straight while feminine bi men are more “recognizable”. Just weird stereotyping going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:03 PM
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No, I’m a mostly feminine woman who’s into mostly masculine men lol. I have absolutely no clue what point you’re trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:50 PM
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Are you implying that I’m commenting on this sub for male validation? 99% of the time I disagree with the men on here, I just browse this sub because seeing how disconnected some people are from the real world is kind of funny
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:46 PM
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Huh …? I’ve never had masculine women telling me I’m supposed to change my personality or feminine men telling me that I’m not “allowed” to be into masculine men “Pick mes” are women who literally do anything for male validation, masculine women can be guilty of that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:40 AM
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Literally who cares as long as they’re happy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:30 PM
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Totally depends on my feelings towards him. If I’ve noticed that he’s into me I probably wouldn’t hang out with him alone if I was bothered by it. And no, that doesn’t necessarily mean I wanna have sex at that exact moment. First of all I need to get to know him. Not necessarily. I’ve made the first move myself before so I guess it’s not that important to me How are we defining alpha and beta here? Is an alpha someone who is really dominant and a beta someone who is more passive? I would honestl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:27 PM
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while they might not feel sexual attraction, they can still feel “attracted” towards a certain kind of appearance etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:57 PM
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Platonic love or familial love, surely. But not romantic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:08 PM
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I know this is a weird analogy, the real question is: can you get traumatized from spending money on gifts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:26 PM
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I’m not spewing pseudoscience I’m speaking about my personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:25 AM
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Deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:31 PM
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Hmm kinda disagree. Women who already looked ‘mature’ and hot in their teenage years tend to age faster. I noticed that those who have typical baby face syndrome tend to glow up in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:11 PM
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that’s the advantage of having lots of melanin in your skin, build in sunscreen :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:05 PM
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It’s fascinating how much you guys try to convince yourselves that every single woman on this planet constantly has sex. Very far away from the actual reality, but I guess that’s what online radicalization does to you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:54 PM
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This does not apply to the women I just described. Is it that hard to imagine that sex is simply not a priority for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:34 PM
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There’s a significant amount of single women that refuse to date. Whether it’s because of religious reasons, them wanting to focus on studies, past bad experiences etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:30 AM
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It’s okay if someone is being respectful & can take no as an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:37 PM
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The selective behavior is an evolutionary trait, it’s roots are obviously older than birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:33 PM
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No, most women I see daily don’t wear make up on a day to day basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:35 AM
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As far as I know there’s a 72-96 hours time period to collect biological evidence of sexual assault. The issue is that most victims do not undergo forensic examination (due to a variety of reasons: shame, trauma etc.) … that’s what I was referring to Edit: I misunderstood your comment, your argument is completely right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:02 PM
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Honestly, a lot of athletes and actors I guess? Young men are clearly seeking a male role model that embodies a more traditional type of masculinity, physically strong, dominant and competent. These celebs also encourage their fans to work out, to find their passion etc. A good role model is simply someone who has admirable traits and doesn’t abuse other people, thankfully there are many such people out there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:27 PM
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In theory it should be easier to prove that a rape case did happen, but most of the time the victims do not go to hospitals to collect evidence etc. I do believe that false sexual harassment claims happen more often than false rape allegations, don’t get me wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:37 PM
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Actual sexual harassment is also far, far more frequent, I’d say it’s proportional
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:17 PM
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I thought you guys were against single mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:20 AM
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Both statements are true and both have been observed in nature Female mammals in general are more selective when it comes to sex partner choice. Though I didn’t imply that it was a conscious choice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:32 PM
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No, studies have shown that most fake orgasms happen to boost a man’s ego
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:40 AM
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Your first point is based on a wrong assumption. Women are more selective regarding sex because they invest more energy into reproduction
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:32 AM
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Yeah, brainwashed people tend to do that. Bad argument. He himself said he only used them for money, let it go bro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:51 PM
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Where’s your proof that he didn’t enjoy doing it? Because like, he openly bragged about it That’s just one example of his general behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:34 PM
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Someone who literally admitted to using the lover boy method to exploit women financially is not “a good guy inside”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:23 PM
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As I have mentioned before, I do not believe that these two situations are comparable since men do in fact have more physical strength than women. It’s like being afraid of a person carrying a weapon vs. an unarmed one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:00 PM
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Class is still a stronger predictor for crime. Oppression, whether through classism or racism creates friction, which in the end results in more violent crime. However, men throughout all social classes (and races) are more violent than their female counterparts. Gender/Sex is in fact the biggest indicator for violent crime. And once again, there are no significant physical differences between men of different races. There are significant differences between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:52 PM
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There is absolutely no scientific evidence that supports your claim about race.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:33 PM
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Gym does not solve that. In a study they compared the grip strength of female olympic athletes to that of average males and the random guys still had more physical strength. You guys don’t seem to understand the difference in physical strength in females and males of our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:28 PM
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No. Why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:26 PM
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y’all always bring up that dumb argument as if a) it hasn’t been explained over and over again that it’s the >social class< which influences violent crime and b) that men are simply physically stronger than women (70% (!) more upper body strength). this does not apply to black men compared to white men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:25 PM
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That’s how patriarchal societies generally work, patrilineal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:06 AM
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No, they would not. Most women actually appreciate sisterhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:55 PM
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Sure, gold diggers exist. Now what? (it’s a given that a man needs to be wealthy as a requirement for gold digging)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:54 PM
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Of course status influences attractiveness. Attractiveness itself does not make a man more skilled at sex. A woman might be more likely to have repeated sex with a man of high status who’s actually quite bad in bed simply because his financial resources would be beneficial to her offspring. Again, doesn’t mean she’s sexually satisfied. Your assumption is that only women on PPD believe that most men suck at sex, but the reality is that most women in real life share the same opinion. The “baseline…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:45 PM
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Regarding your drug comparison: Drugs can damage neurons which produce dopamine. I don’t know what the private plane has to do with good sex or how income is supposed to make sex itself better. Sex addictions can lead to people craving higher dopamine levels since their bodies create a tolerance at a certain point after extreme repetitive behavior. But we’re not talking about sex addictions here. In my opinion, it has more to do with the fact that less experienced women are more likely to put up…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:18 PM
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I think less experienced women are simply more likely to put up with bad sex, that does not mean they will be sexually satisfied. Many assume that all sex works that way and that it’s generally not sexually satisfying for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:37 PM
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and none of what you said has anything to do with dopamin receptors? receptors are constantly being recycled, they can’t get damaged “permanently”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:30 PM
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Thank you for this post because I honestly can’t stop laughing at some of these replies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:07 PM
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oxytocin receptors do not become “blown out” from sex. if that were the case, then these receptors would stop working after giving birth to children (considering the amount that gets released after childbirth)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:05 PM
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now that would make things interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:26 AM
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As long as men know they’re just robots, many will show extremely violent behavior towards them because they know there won’t be any repercussions, unlike in real life situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:24 AM
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OHH men will care if women leave. If this subreddit shows one thing, it’s that men get incredibly frustrated if they don’t get sex aka access to women. Those female only communities will not be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:19 AM
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Glad you’re here too ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:39 PM
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And you believe that sexual assault doesn’t play a role in that? It’s all about power dynamics and certainly horniness does factor into it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:26 PM
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Thank you, I’m in therapy & lucky to have a supportive family
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:24 PM
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I don’t benefit from sexual assault. This shit fucking ruined my life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:08 PM
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wishing you better experiences in the future 👍🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:57 PM
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you either don’t have much experience with women or have had bad luck in the past …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:50 PM
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“older” yeah like 2-3 years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:59 PM
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You do know that the west had different views about sexuality and modesty before christianity right? Walpurgisnacht is a great example. Nowadays it’s associated with witches and the devil but originally it was a festivity to celebrate female sexuality & fertility. Meaning, people were having lots of sex outside in the fields
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:43 PM
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Uh well, as you’ve said yourself, both partners should try to please the other. If your partner is constantly sexually dissatisfied they’re more likely to leave, it’s that simple. I’m mostly seeing that insult in response to men being absolutely clueless about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:40 PM
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Yeah I do. Many men understand a smile as an attempt at flirting and I don’t wanna give off wrong signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:32 AM
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No it’s not to the level that they help women, I agree with that. Main reasons for that: a) women are significantly more likely to be affected by sexual violence and b) sexist stereotypes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:03 PM
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That is absolutely disingenuous. It is the left, especially women, that support victims of sexual assault including men. I’m not seeing any support projects or therapy projects targeting men coming from conservatives, it’s mostly progressives that try to bring more awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:37 AM
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Maybe this is a cultural difference but most single mothers I know were in committed relationships/marriages for years before becoming single again. Like, abortion clearly isn’t the solution here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:28 AM
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Adrenalin is not gonna help you in an online discussion. Rationality combined with empathy can help us finding better solutions, not aggressive behavior. Because the first commentator pretended like men are entirely unaffected by social media, which is simply incorrect. Personally, I perceive the effects of social media (propaganda especially) on the male population as a much bigger threat to society. Men tend to lash out more externally, women tend to internalize those feelings more. The end re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:06 PM
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First of all, calm down. Relax. No need to get emotional. I simply replied to a comment saying that Tiktok heavily affects women and pointed out that it affects men as well. Studies have shown that social media has much more detrimental effects on young women’s mental health, which is no surprise considering the beauty standards and social expectations of women in our society. I could accuse modern men of the same self centeredness. Women’s experiences get constantly dismissed. Honestly, I belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:29 PM
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Most healthy looking women are quite opposed to “fat activism” so hm … I really don’t think that’s the case here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:37 PM
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And men’s personality isn’t Tiktok? I can assure you that social media affects both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:09 PM
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According to Islamic law sexual assault and rape (unless marital) is illegal. Very hard to compare situations. Burka wearing women do get assaulted a lot in the west, particularly because of racism/islamophobia and sexual assault is often a way to humiliate victims. There’s more factors that play into burka wearing women in western countries getting assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:03 PM
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and yet women in burkas get sexually assaulted and raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:43 AM
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No that’s not what I’m saying at all. I was asking if there’s any way to predict how someone would act during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:13 PM
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How do you predict in which category a man falls into? Genuine question. Lots of fuckboys also care about women’s pleasure because it boosts their ego. And then you have really kind guys (or supposedly kind guys) who … don’t have much understanding of female sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:08 PM
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I mostly see evenly matched couples. Sometimes the guy is prettier, sometimes the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:24 PM
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he does have a baby face but i think he looks very attractive with it. i’m 22 years old so still quite young, that might explain it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:15 PM
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celebrity crush wise: jeon jungkook. he’s absolutely dreamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:59 PM
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around my height (i’m 5’7, don’t mind if he’s a bit shorter), slim, pretty boyish face, dark hair and tattoos or piercings are a nice addition. personality wise: smart, empathetic, open minded, should know how to have fun, i need him to be a nerd to some degree & nothing is sexier than a man who is good with children. sexually: average penis size, should have enough experience to know what he’s doing, should know how to use his fingers and/or mouth & enjoys being dominant but likes to switch it …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:44 PM
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I saw your deleted comment so I’m still replying to that. It’s not nazi logic to point out that the males in the species homo sapiens are more physically aggressive than the females. That is entirely backed up by science. Now, when it comes to violent behavior of different ethnic groups it’s important to point out that the common denominator is the social class, not the race. Growing up in poverty creates a lot of friction. It’s absolutely ridiculous that you’re trying to compare these two situa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:33 AM
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women of all races are afraid of male violence, what’s your point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:40 AM
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I mean I really don’t care whether it’s hard or sensual as long as the session is long lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:37 PM
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wasting someone’s time is not physical violence, no matter how much you try to warp reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:13 PM
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If you’re only interested in raising kids & taking care of a home, sure. A lot of women have other passions though. Most women want to combine their passions with family life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:21 PM
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We should all strive towards healthy marriages and well being. In some cases, a relationship is too toxic and causes too much damage to the people involved
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:16 PM
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The women who endured that era were the same women advocating for feminism because they literally experienced how much at a disadvantage they were. And yes, I don’t believe that the current divorce rates are bad. The domestic abuse rates from back then were terrifying. I don’t believe that 18-20 year old guys should marry 30 year old women either. There’s usually a lot of grooming going on that tends to start when they’re teenagers …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:07 PM
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Men are more likely to be exclusively homosexual than to be bisexual but it’s bullshit to claim that “in almost every case he’s just gay”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:41 PM
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And their homophobia is not just targeted at gay/bi men. The way straight women treat lesbians and bisexual women is no secret. And bisexual women themselves can be homo-/biphobic towards bisexual men because of some weird ideas about masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:04 AM
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Ohhh, thanks, I didn’t understand the cabbage part
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:52 PM
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I mean … the clit can not possibly be inside the vagina because that would make childbirth insanely more painful for women. I doubt this would affect female sex drive positively
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:05 PM
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It is one of the most well established facts in behavioural sciences that males are more physically aggressive than females in our species. This behaviour is already observable in childhood. And again, in these particular childhood studies they didn’t observe the extent of injuries (muscle strength wise the difference between boys and girls isn’t that vast anyways), they observed how often boys would initiate physical violence. The same thing applies to other hominid species. The males initiate …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:17 PM
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That doesn’t contradict my argument at all. Men (and women) cyberbully each other as well. Edit: Seeing online fan spaces I definitely believe that women and especially teenage girls can be very toxic online. However it is noticeable that these groups don’t use sexualized violence to the same degree that certain male online spaces do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:24 PM
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It’s also a minority of women that use “kill all men” online. “A meta-analysis of 122 studies published in the journal of Aggressive Behavior found males are more likely to cyberbully than females, although the difference was small. Difference also showed that females reported more cyberbullying behavior during mid-adolescence while males showed more cyberbullying behavior at late adolescence (Barlett, Christopher; Coyne, Sarah M. (2014-10-01). "A meta-analysis of sex differences in cyber-bullyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:20 PM
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It is. That’s why there’s so much scientific research on going trying to analyze the violent misogyny online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:46 PM
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These aren’t only police sourced stats. At no point did I ever imply that men can not become victims of physical abuse from women, but guys like you don’t seem to understand that. Yes, women can be horrible. And yet men are still more physically violent than women on average. Your argumentation literally has zero substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:45 PM
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There’s nothing sexist about taking a look at well established scientific data. I have provided several sources in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:23 PM
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You could just look at the tweets every single time Greta Thunberg is trending (and this has been happening since she was a minor). And I’m gonna stand by what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:11 PM
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Well you can’t fucking die from mental abuse alone. Physical abuse makes you just as suicidal as mental abuse. The difference lies in the fact that physical abuse can directly kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:06 PM
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I have not moved the goal post at all. It’s true that the kill all men hashtag is less likely to be reported, I agree with that. Still, doesn’t change anything about the amount of violent threats that are constantly targeting women. These ones are just more likely to actually get taken down. And again, I disagree with you. Rape threats (and other violent threats) are extremely common on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:01 PM
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It really isn’t an extreme minority, it’s very common. Also it’s not being moderated enough. Of course men couldn’t get away with that the same way. Because men are more likely to kill women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:51 PM
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I’m talking about the men on all social media platforms threatening to rape, mutilate and slaughter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:44 PM
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physical abuse contributes to mental abuse, so, I’d say physical abuse has more consequences. And sure, if that’s what you wanna call it. Can’t ignore victims if you wanna discuss gender differences
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:35 PM
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And even outside of domestic abuse: From Wikipedia “According to the 2015 International Encyclopedia of the Social & Behavioral Sciences, sex differences in aggression is one of the most robust and oldest findings in psychology.Past meta-analyses in the encyclopedia found males regardless of age engaged in more physical and verbal aggression while small effect for females engaging in more indirect aggression such as rumor spreading or gossiping. It also found males tend to engage in more unprovo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:18 PM
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• One study of 96 cases of domestic abuse recorded by the police found that men are significantly more likely to be repeat perpetrators and significantly more likely than women to use physical violence, threats, and harassment. In a six year tracking period the majority of recorded male perpetrators (83%) had at least two incidents of recorded abuse, with many having a lot more than two and one man having 52 repeat incidents. Whereas in cases where women were recorded as the perpetrator the majo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:08 PM
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That is where we disagree. Not only are the consequences of male violence much more detrimental, but they also initiate violence far more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:37 AM
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Because … physical violence is a main characteristic of oppression and war. It does significant damage. And yeah, I believe you. The reason why women are more likely to get away with violence is that men are so much more likely to be perpetrators. That is, of course, not an objective conclusion. Still, as you have mentioned yourself, men are more violent and that is exactly my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:01 AM
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sure, some women also have higher sex drives than average men but they’re outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:20 AM
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I mean … most of the violent threats are coming from the male side. I also wouldn’t describe it as a cold war because it’s more than just propaganda and threats coming from the male side specifically, you just need to take a look at crime statistics. Physical violence is a tool that men use very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:02 AM
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… where the hell do y’all even make that bullshit up? you’re straight up gonna ignore the effects of WWI?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:00 AM
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women would handle it much better than men to be honest. our sex drives aren’t as crazy as yours and we rely much more on friendships and family for emotional intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:47 AM
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I don’t know why you would admit so openly that it’s just a jealousy thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:21 PM
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Open and honest communication from both sides as well as some level of trust. If you as a man are honest about your intentions and explain to her that you’re romantically interested in her and could imagine a relationship with her then a lot of women would be more likely to sleep with you early on. It’s important to make her feel safe with you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:13 PM
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It has been explained over and over again. Women in this case want to figure out whether their love interest actually cares about her as a person, she doesn’t want to experience a pump and dump situation. She’s not emotionally attached to ONS etc. and doesn’t care about them beyond sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:17 PM
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What bothers me so much about that argument is why should oxytocin levels specifically be responsible for their dating preferences? Like sure, people who often switch partners & often engage in short term sexual contact are less interested in long term relationships but WHERE is the correlation to oxytocin levels
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:07 PM
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why are they so confused by this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:25 PM
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Do you have any source for the claim that women stop producing/produce less oxytocin the more sexual partners they’ve had? I’ve heard it often on reddit but can’t seem to find any scientific studies that reflect this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:14 PM
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Regarding your first point: Genetics. You can change your weight but not your height (of course there are certain genetic traits that favor muscular bodies etc. but you get the idea) Second point: Females in general have and need a higher body fat percentage for adequate reproductive health. Obesity in women has historically been associated with pregnant bodies, fertility and is still a desirable trait in certain modern cultures. Most kids do sports so I wouldn’t agree that mothers don’t care ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:56 AM
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the average woman doesn’t struggle to orgasm from masturbation, they’ve already figured it out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:00 PM
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You did say men would rather go to war, I did not make that up. And in war regular people aren’t defending their own interests, they’re defending the political interests of the ruling class. Yeah, and as you have mentioned yourself, it’s an over generalization. Many men would choose otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:33 PM
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You’re generalizing. Maybe let’s not pretend that men are a monolith, many would rather pay child support for 18 years instead of dying in war for the sake of capitalist interests of the elite. I still don’t see what’s supposed to be honorable about risking your life for rich people but whatever. It’s like the most cucked thing a person could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:12 PM
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I would claim that the whole ordeal of either undergoing abortion or pregnancy is a lot more scary than paying money but I see your point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:53 PM
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I don’t think any woman uses Plan B as her preferred method of birth control because a) the side effects are extreme, it’s a hormone bomb and b) it only delays ovulation, it does not prevent fertilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:44 PM
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but these superstars became rich and famous partly because of their youthful/feminine looks. it’s simply something that young women are overwhelmingly attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:39 PM
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You’re legitimately asking what homo sapiens has in common with another hominid, pan troglodytes to be specific? It was already obvious before that this discussion was a waste of time, but this comment takes the cake. Please try to come up with rational arguments. It’s possible that none of the men in your life view women as property, but that doesn’t change anything about the existing social structures. Edit: Either you will start showing me actual data or historical accounts to support your ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:46 AM
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You’re such a spectacular example for how women are not taken seriously when we talk about our experiences with sexual violence! This example couldn’t prove my point better. I know that you will disregard any sort of evidence if it doesn’t fit your worldview, regardless of that, I will still provide you with sources. “The ancient Greeks considered war rape of women "socially acceptable behavior well within the rules of warfare", and warriors considered the conquered women "legitimate booty, usef…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:28 AM
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You’re the one who accuses me of lying about my friends’ sexual abuse histories and then you accuse me of lacking empathy. The lack of self awareness is truly amazing. Like this case shows, women aren’t believed either. Yes, men do it more often than women. Because sexual violence has been used as a tool of oppression for thousands of years. We need to acknowledge that fact to have a discussion about sexual violence. We also need to acknowledge that women can obviously also be perpetrators, only…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:54 AM
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I agree with you that the amount of female perpetrators is higher than the actual stats are showing and I’m sorry that this happened to you. But even if the stats were adjusted, the perpetrators would still be overwhelmingly male. Every single one of my female friends has experienced sexual violence, including me. If you switch the genders then the outcome i very often that the woman or girl is being made responsible for her sexual assault. “You had it coming with the way you dressed”. “As a wif…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:54 AM
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1 in 4 women globally has become a victim of sexual violence. ~ 98% of perpetrators are male. What is there to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:30 AM
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