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| 1 | Double standards are valid since... men sleep with women they would never date and women sleep with men they can never date.The majority of women aren’t giving their body to a man they wouldn’t date. This PPD narrative that that type of shit is happening isn’t accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Double standards are valid since... men sleep with women they would never date and women sleep with men they can never date.Unfortunately, that’s not how mainstream society sees it. Men & women alike show more respect to the men they believe being capable of having sex with attractive women than they treat men they perceive to be struggling to get any woman’s attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Double standards are valid since... men sleep with women they would never date and women sleep with men they can never date.Unfortunately that’s not how mainstream society looks at it, so getting laid — with attractive women — does make a man deserving of respect. Men and women don’t treat the guys who are fucking attractive women the same as they treat the guys they perceive to not be getting any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Why is Dating Supposed to be a Meritocracy?Dating is meritocratic. The merits upon which dating results are based just aren’t the same ones many are raised up to believe they are raised on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPaternity tests are not expensive and could simply just be tacked on to the cost of birthing the child. I understand that in the case of wedded mothers, the presumption would be that her husband is the father of her child so I agree that maybe there shouldn’t be a mandatory paternity test there. But, where unwed mothers to be are concerned, there’s really no good reason why any present fathers aren’t immediately tested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 07:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV : if you do not maximise your looks potential close to the limit you should not complain about datingWhat do you mean when you say the person who needs help attacks the person trying to help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problemThis sentiment of “men ceasing to pretend or assume that women are a resource to be distributed evenly” has no basis on why such a selection criteria among women would put society into a less than desirable state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 06:22 PM |
| 4 | Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problemTbh if that were the condition of the world, where women only desired to commit to Chris Hemsworth and the whole of society suffered as a result, sure we’d have to accept it but it wouldn’t be completely fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 08:24 PM |
| 7 | The consensus here is that unless a man is an absolute specimen he can expect to get dropped for simply looking at a lady the wrong way - but the reality doesn’t line upThis is true as well. There have been several posts throughout PPD where even some of the most anti-rp women on the sub were willing to admit that much of their biggest gripe with rp had to do with the word choice instead of the actual matter at hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 09:10 PM |
| 17 | The consensus here is that unless a man is an absolute specimen he can expect to get dropped for simply looking at a lady the wrong way - but the reality doesn’t line upIt’s kinda funny to me how the women on this sub who’ll try to act like that first sentence you typed isn’t true, are the same women who’ll say things like, “yeah, sure; i can go days without seeing one man i find attractive”. There are probably less than a handful of days that I actually go out in public where I don’t run across at least a handful of women who i find to be decently attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | 18 to 24-year-old individuals who reported no sexual activity in the past year increased among men (but not among women)Virgin and sexless aren’t the same thing though, nor should they be defined on the same parameters. That’s like insisting that someone can’t be an incel just bc they got some once a long while ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 02:20 AM |
| 0 | 18 to 24-year-old individuals who reported no sexual activity in the past year increased among men (but not among women)if you get lucky once in a calendar year, you’re not sexually active and depending on how you define it.. you’re still pretty sexless. that’s a part of why they call it “getting lucky”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 04:58 PM |
| -4 | 18 to 24-year-old individuals who reported no sexual activity in the past year increased among men (but not among women)women are sharing men and acting like they don’t know it, but most of them know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 04:56 PM |
| – | Being Hung, doesn’t help you keep a long term relationship.most women don’t know the difference between 5’11” and 6’2” with an eye test bc both is taller than her, so this is not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyou realize you just typed all this when you responded to my msg? Let’s make something clear, nothing you stated wasn’t understandable. I didn’t need you to repeat shit sit down please. I didn’t come looking for you. You responded to me, miss “unapologetically me lol”. I’m not trying to change your mind. Idc what you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyou’re doing a lot of unnecessary work here to try to make what you said sound better. I said nothing ab you preferring a guy with a body count of 20, but the fact that you’d rather be with a guy who had 20 previous sexual partners as opposed to a guy who has none when you’d only have two of your own is insanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 06:25 PM |
| 2 | How many men here have a victim mindset?I gotta ask who are we talking ab when you say “women who feel like victims”? | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/07/23 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s crazy that you’re changing words I said that are clear as day because they are what you said, into words I didn’t say because I know you didn’t say them. I’m not taking that bait. You are a woman who has only had sex with two guys who said you had a hard limit of 20 and won’t fuck a virgin. That is what you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m not implying anything; it was your own words, not mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s the difference between that “hard limit of 20” and 50, other than 30 women. Inexperienced doesn’t equal player, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyou laugh but it’s not the “wanting good sex” that’s entitled, you’re being intentionally obtuse and that’s lame. this idea that you’re doomed to months of awkward sex is also not at all likely either, provided that you find someone who is eager to learn how to please his woman and afraid of losing her to someone who will if he doesn’t tighten up. It shouldn’t take more than 3 fucks to get him where you want. Lastly, that waiting game don’t mean a thing. What did make your boyfriend wait, maybe … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMakes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyour lucky reality does not reflect that of most women, that’s all I can tell you. I’m not equating anything. I’m looking into what are plain likelier occurrences at a certain age. And, this entitled attitude of not wanting “to go through weeks or months of awkward sex” and “not wanting to teach a man how to have sex beyond a certain age” is leading plenty of women, even women way more sexually experienced than you, into situations where they’re being played. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCool story, happy for you. Generally speaking though, being rather sexually inexperienced in one’s own right yet denying inexperienced men a chance to find themselves in a relationship with you and build that experience together really just reeks of, ‘I don’t know what i’m doing so I’ll find somebody to do it for me’. Most girls are def asking themselves to be played by an experienced guy who doesn’t give a crap about them in that way. Edit: “inexperienced”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf it works for you so far that’s cool but the majority of girls thinking this way just begging for a man to do them dirty with a mindset like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 12:15 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe have women on this sub who are neurotic as all get out talking down on men for having the same issues in their day-to-day lives. We, also, have sub 3-body-count women on this sub talking ab not being willing to be an adult man’s first romantic or sexual partner. Yet, they cry wolf at men for using underhanded tactics to just even the playing fields with them in order to have an actual dating life. Lmaooooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 11:17 PM |
| 3 | You think women will try to understand?There’s nothing quite like sexual validation where a man is concerned, that validating feeling of knowing who you are is good enough for a woman that he desires to invite him into her bed, and share that space and time for him. There’s no sense of even asking, “what can we, as women, do to make you all feel heard and seen without having to go to bed with men we aren’t attracted to”, if women aren’t willing to meet men halfway on whatever that means. And, as women have shown, they wouldn’t be wil… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/07/23 08:37 PM |
| – | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.I mean if we’re being honest both methods will lead to the same end if the woman isn’t attracted to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 06:03 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think the men that don’t try anything are an absolute minority of an minority. As for the ones who may have put their ball back on the rack, stop going to the gym, so to speak, we only see them at that point, not when they were still on the bench press, still working with the development coach. We can’t say people didn’t try just bc we didn’t notice them trying, even if that in itself is a matter of access. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:31 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s on down the road but I certainly wasn’t thinking along the lines of restricting anyone’s freedoms. We were once a selfish species and certain restrictions were put into place to ensure the continued prosperity and progress of humans, they called that restriction “civility”, “society”. We’re at a point now where certain people with the right to gatekeep certain dynamics and traditions are now selfish in their own right and it is what it is. I do agree with you on that last point though. Wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:25 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAs one of these men myself, I think the “being too afraid of rejection and unwillingness to step out of one’s comfort zone” is an overstated boogeyman. Do you honestly think most unsuccessful men never try, or do you think they eventually got tired of banging their heads against the wall? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:24 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s largely due to the fact that we’ve reached an era of human history where women largely decide who gets to have sex with them on their own, without any parental influence, and much of what they find sexually arousing does nothing to further our species or is outdated. Women want to sleep with the most physically attractive men, but plenty of the most physically attractive men are bums with no work ethic or ambition to be a productive member of society. Women wish to sleep with a man of certa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:19 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think if you’ve attempted to have relationships and curry sexual interest in women over that period of 5-10 years to no success at all, there has to be something off, right? Even in affluent communities, teens begin to express themselves around 14-16. So, if you’ve been continuously rejected on and off for 10 years by women who potentially have been going on dates, having sex, being in situation-and-relationships since that time, ehh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’d say 22-23. If you spend 4 years in college and not one woman is willing to touch you after a drunken night of college partying, you’re erring on the side of loser if you aren’t already completely there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 06:09 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t think it’s i***l content to just say that as a man, once you’ve reached the age of 25, if you’ve never had a steady sexual partner even once, never have been in a relationship with a girl you really wanted even once, there is something wrong with you. Maybe you are too ugly, generally speaking. Maybe you are just lame as hell to women, generally speaking. Maybe one of these funneled into the other, more or less. That’s not i***l content. That’s common sense. You’ve missed the boat. Those… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 06:04 PM |
| 3 | How much do looks affect the way youre viewed?As someone who’s dealt with bullying from being remarkably unattractive, I have a facial defect, what I’ll say is that the overt bullying does stop, but the more clandestine bullying doesn’t. You’re still receiving the smirks from people who’ve known you for a while and new people alike, they whisper to themselves when they see you. Women that you may find attractive and may hope can look past you still operate in that way, the ostracism doesn’t stop just bc you’re grown. So, sure, nobody’s clow… | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 11:06 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t mind the verses but goddamn that hook is like nails on a fucking chalkboard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOutlets to be hoes but in private, basically where they get to indulge that desire to let loose but in a space where they believe their actions will be contained and kept secret | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 04:51 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA lotttt of women want to be hoes and just don’t have a socially acceptable outlet through which they can express their inner-hoe. But when you provide them with it, the fun begins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 11:05 PM |
| 2 | If you consider the need for a paternity test to be mandatory for raising a child, you probably shouldn’t be dating in the first placeI don’t think any presumed fathers would object to having a routine test done between them and their newborn. Best case scenario it’s a routine nothingburger that affirms paternity and allows him to pass on his name to his child without any further work. Worst case scenario, the presumed father is saved from a lifetime of obligation to a child that doesn’t belong to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | If you consider the need for a paternity test to be mandatory for raising a child, you probably shouldn’t be dating in the first placePaternity tests costs what, $300-$500? In the case of unmarried births, the tests should just be automatically performed and tacked on to the cost of birthing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:21 AM |
| -1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadReading fiction is lowkey crazy to me. But I don’t judge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:11 PM |
| 2 | The two steps to flipping the power dynamic in datingSimps are already shamed. Women shame simps and men shame simps, but what makes a simp a simp is his lack of success. Success with women or acceptance of failure and opting out is the only thing that’s going to make a simp stop simping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 02:02 PM |
| 0 | Signals it's overWanna know why marriage isn’t working? You all want a perfect traditional marriage but you aren’t willing to put in the hard work. You aren’t willing to admit to your faults and actually compromise with someone of the opposite sex. There’s somebody who just left my life who needs to hear this so bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDoesn’t mean I’m gonna run into those women who don’t give af though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou too old to be saying based lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI feel like you took this from a viral social media post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 01:26 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, it’s not that. It’s that the game has changed. The days where just trying to find a girlfriend got you a girlfriend are somewhat gone. Nowadays, the way to a relationship is either to be as attractive as possible, and attractive enough that women would be willing to have casual sex with you since so many relationships are precipitated by casual sex, or to do a lot of painstakingly misguided work that doesn’t amount to a relationship. Guys want to take the route that produces results. And, be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEh, blessings for thee aren’t always gonna equal blessings for me, so to speak. Take a guy like me for instance. I have an affliction. I’m the only guy that I know with my affliction. There are other guys with my affliction, I’m sure, just not in my neck of the woods. I’m even sure that there may be guys out there with my affliction who are more successful with women than I am. That doesn’t change the fact that my affliction makes me very unattractive with women and those guys’ blessings don’t m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEvery man who pays for an Onlyfans isn’t some shmuck who can’t get his dick wet. They’re just pretty regular dudes who saw someone he thought looked good and was worth the premium entertainment value. Besides, if you’ve ever dropped money in a strip club, you got no right to talk shit anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAny woman who is willing to fuck you more than once has more or less decided somewhere in her mind that she’s willing to create a child with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4All: Let’s say your attempt at a relationship with someone just crashed and burned, if you have something to get off your chest to that person, do you do it, or do you just keep it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’ve seen a small community Facebook group where guys share pics and videos of women they’ve messed with. I wasn’t in the group due to my own lack of popularity and success with women but one of my friends was fairly successfully and showed me the group one day. I didn’t ask to see much and feigned disinterest, didn’t wanna seem nosey or like I wanted to report back to anyone, though I was highly curious of what all was in there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 06:40 PM |
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