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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Tired of polyamorous folks being judgemental towards monogamy, I need help We were all gaslighting ourselves and each other. I remember dating low value or no value men, recognizing that they were leeches and no value, and justifying it with "Well, my partner doesn't have to provide me with everything. That would be impossible, right? I can just fill in the gaps with other people" or the people 100% focused on sex all the time, to the point where no one wanted friends. Everyone's free time is absolutely and exclusively focused on finding and maintaining partners. There…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/21 07:48 PM
14	Tired of polyamorous folks being judgemental towards monogamy, I need help Oh boy! My time to type. I had a deep dive into poly and it was an ugly horrible time of my life. Journeying towards monogamy: It felt like leaving a cult. My subconscious was SCREAMING for me to leave the poly community, but I didnt understand why. ALL my friends were in the poly community, so in a fit of mental unwellness caused by the toxicity of the people around me, I ended all my friendships & all my flirty friendships, I quit all social media, I took up gardening and sewing and a quieter …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/21 04:48 AM
1	Words of advice to the Poly-debate. You aren't "radical" or "non-conformative" you are literally enforcing stereotypes as old as time. You are a HUGE part of the patriarchy. Charles Manson, other cult leaders and sultans etc all had harems of women, you are no different. We aren't buying your lies. Can we vent about our poly experiences together?? I know no one IRL to talk about this with!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 03:19 PM
2	Words of advice to the Poly-debate. You aren't "radical" or "non-conformative" you are literally enforcing stereotypes as old as time. You are a HUGE part of the patriarchy. Charles Manson, other cult leaders and sultans etc all had harems of women, you are no different. We aren't buying your lies. Omg can we hang about our poly exes??? I know no one IRL I can talk about this with	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 02:58 PM
3	Makes me laugh now 😂 Omg right??? He didn't respect me, he didn't love me, and cheated on me the whole time, but told me I was the love of his life and couldn't wait to spend his life with me, all the while cheating on me. He ended up leaving me for the other woman , which hurt at first, but now I laugh at how dumb I was. I hope they're happy, but a relationship starting as the other woman is not exactly solid.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 04:38 PM

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