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| 3 | The #1 Reason You're Not Having SexThanks. I agree as well. Gotta get over my AA, put all my friendzoned experience behind me, advance and just do it. | /r/seduction | 27/06/13 08:29 PM |
| 19 | The #1 Reason You're Not Having SexThis post is incredible. I take pride in my appearance, I do interesting things, I travel, I work out, I converse well 1-on-1. I have many friends that are women. Their friends ask them if I'm gay since I do dress well, and don't seem to date. I don't even have the mindset of being disadvantaged due to my shorter than average height, Chinese, and virgin in late 20s. The simple fact is I let those very same internal thoughts you've highlighted stop me. Every. Single. Time. This is exactly what I … | /r/seduction | 27/06/13 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Problem: I find working out boring as fuck.Fittit rags on it because of high volume work, using olympic lifts 'inappropriately', 'bad' coaching, lack of consistency, elitism. The fact is - you have to find yourself a suitable gym that knows what they're doing. :) It's seriously a good intro to performance based fitness. | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 06:18 PM |
| 1 | [LR] A year of seddit progress, goals for 2012. Meant as a journal entry for myself and hopefully a inspiration to newcomers.This is inspirational. I still yet to give away my first kiss. Moved to a new city for work attempting to build social circle from scratch. Your post gives me hope! Thanks for sharing! | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Problem: I find working out boring as fuck.I used to hate the split body routine and going in with no direction and making up workouts. What made working out tolerable and eventually addicting and fun was Crossfit for me. Despite all the hate it gets around on Reddit - it showed me working out can be fun. Meeting all the like minded people doing it is great. | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 05:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] NYE: Reflections on a candid conversation about me with a freaky hot friendGood luck bro. I'm thinking I have to start adopting the way I talk to my sisters - I really don't give a shit about anything when I'm talking to them and really myself. But when I'm meeting people for the first time I'm much more reserved until I get to know them more - and that's at parties. Gotta figure out night venues. | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 05:43 AM |
| 1 | [FR] NYE: Reflections on a candid conversation about me with a freaky hot friendThanks for reading and commenting! I'm surprised it became a wall of text. Kino is something I'm very consciously working on. I grew up in a family of not a lot of physical affection in a culture where there's not of touching. I'm getting better at it though - but I need to remind myself to do it in the back of my head. I've kino'ed lady friends of mine all the time at clubs, but never pushed it (afc behaviour)... since I know if I fail the friendship becomes instantly awkward. I have not aggres… | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Alec Greven - How to Talk to Girls "Life is Hard, Move On"Thought this was cute, funny......... and surprisingly spot on. Little man, you have it made. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Sedditors in San Diego?not really a sedditor myself - but new to the city and would be nice to meet people and learn/practice to meet more people! | /r/seduction | 01/12/11 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Go in for an informational interview at a job that you really want and and the person you're having coffee with is ridiculously cute - what would you do?Definitely what I was thinking. | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 03:41 PM |
| 1 | My New Years Resolution: To Kill the AFC in Me, and Rise Triumphant as a PUA (I.E. The World of a Virgin College Junior)which David Wygant lectures are you talking about? I'm curious. | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 12:51 AM |
| 4 | Are you an INTJ pua? How did you become awesome?"....and none of them are perfect angels worthy of agonizing over...they're all just human beings trying to get by, just like me." Legit. Great point. | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 08:37 PM |
| 3 | [Seddit University] Assignment 1. Theory: What is Pickup and Seduction?1) The desire to communicate and attract women on a higher level. Portraying the most attractive version of yourself when you so choose to do so. As a side bonus, mastering the art of conversation and socialization. 2) The Attraction Code - Vin DiCarlo has definitely resonated with me with the way of thinking/acting when socializing with women. I think that + Juggler's material + a rough framework of how it works (Annihilation/Mystery Method) is good. | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Huge inner game issues. Advice?Update: I was like, fuck it, lets go direct. I mentioned that a song that came up really reminded me of her. Did some texting and stuff... Unless I'm really reading this wrong: ".... I really care about you, probably a bit too much esp you'll be back in the other side of the world in a few months". I think she's actually into me. Time man up and see where this goes. Thanks for the advice guys, it's just kinda up to me at this point. | /r/seduction | 05/11/10 08:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Halloween Weekend or: My Discovery of the Power of Social ProofThis is amazing, and brought a smile to my face to see what is possible. | /r/seduction | 05/11/10 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Huge inner game issues. Advice?Your third paragraph... is it ever true. I was in some deep funk haze yesterday. It wrecked me for the majority of the night and morning. Talked to some friends and equalized myself again. The more vested I seem in the relationship is when I start acting like that - which is really too bad in my opinion. Thanks for the insight. | /r/seduction | 05/11/10 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Huge inner game issues. Advice?highly agreed. this is exactly what i was thinking. i'm in the middle of the process. getting a gf or getting has never really ultimately been my goal, mastering myself is - the former is merely a by product of the latter. thanks for reinforcing it for me. | /r/seduction | 04/11/10 08:12 PM |
| 2 | AFC going on a first date.Depends where you wanna go. If you want to escalate and have something more than a friend.... I have no idea, I'm still trying to figure that out. If you just want to get to know her and don't care if you're in the friend zone or not... Just chat! Don't interrogate. Ask her about herself and her experiences. Throw the ball in her court and have her tell you stories, and listen. People like talking about themselves and generally like good listeners. I'd definitely go for the hug. Big smile, say h… | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 03:19 PM |
| 1 | FR (sort of) - The club, the friend, the cube and the unalphanessThanks for the tips! I do crossfit, and have done a ton of interesting things. Will put Intimate Connections on the reading list. I don't mind turning into a social robot for now, I need something to work off of. I'm pretty style conscious and regularly get compliments from women, so I don't think that's a problem there. It's an inner game battle. This entire pickup thing is me vs myself - not about me getting laid or getting into a relationship. Krakow is pretty amazing. I think I'll miss it wh… | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 02:32 AM |
| 1 | FR (sort of) - The club, the friend, the cube and the unalphanessI think you nailed it - lack of the pushpull and lack of escalation. That's kinda what I came to the conclusion to as well. Thanks for the insight. I wouldn't say I'm dwelling on her, and I think she's now a write off. I have no more intentions of getting oneitis again. I've accepted that I've screwed up and lost on this one. At least now I know what I'm screwing up on now - which I never understood before. I'm just annoyed that I'm always the one getting more attracted (getting seduced I guess?… | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 08:25 PM |
| 2 | FR (sort of) - The club, the friend, the cube and the unalphanessNo way. I'll lose it on my own terms. Losing it isn't priority number 1 for me. | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 08:16 PM |
| 2 | FR (sort of) - The club, the friend, the cube and the unalphanessRecommendations then? | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 04:24 PM |
| 1 | FR (sort of) - The club, the friend, the cube and the unalphanessGenuine question: I get what you're saying. I like it because it's fun for me to do. But how is it less valued now than say a few years ago when all this material was brand new? How has the material been diluted when it was working before? Is it less valued because now there is a 'better/more efficient way'? I don't really get how some stuff is now 'outdated' and should be using up to date 'tech' when social fabric hasn't even changed. | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 04:24 PM |
| 1 | FR (sort of) - The club, the friend, the cube and the unalphanessi appreciate the pointers and tips man. =) | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 04:21 PM |
| 2 | FR (sort of) - The club, the friend, the cube and the unalphanessI'm happy that I'm actually trying and learning. Thanks! Definitely do agree that I think I plungged into the FZ, but I think it's still salvageable at this point. I need to come to terms with that I'm a sexual being and be assertive/fun about it. I don't even really truly believe that I am right now given my track record, but I'm really trying to just affirm that with positive thinking. Right now I don't even know how to convey that | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 09:45 AM |
| 1 | FR (sort of) - The club, the friend, the cube and the unalphanessThanks =) Structure is a little mechanical, but I am so clueless about escalating and attracting that I actually need it. | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 09:42 AM |
| 1 | FR (sort of) - The club, the friend, the cube and the unalphanessI absolutely understand what you are saying. Problem is, I don't speak Polish don't have that luxury. I don't think the cube is superstitious though, I've been practicing it, and it's definitely something fun to do. Nobody I've done it to doesn't like it so far. | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 09:40 AM |
| 2 | FR (sort of) - The club, the friend, the cube and the unalphanessexactly. I don't find it hard at all to build interest. Since I've never really quite had a relationship going on and bad with girls, I've done a lot which makes me an interesting guy. Building attraction is seriously something I need to learn and improve on. | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 09:01 AM |
| 1 | FR - Girl said she really liked me but says has a BFit's just a a very very very neutral accent like you see in movies, shows, news etc. | /r/seduction | 18/10/10 05:04 AM |
| 1 | FR - Girl said she really liked me but says has a BFdoes anybody that use "i have a bf" ACTUALLY have a bf? It seems to me that it's a convenient line to say for some anti-slut defense. i think you're right though. | /r/seduction | 18/10/10 05:03 AM |
| 1 | FR - Girl said she really liked me but says has a BFin response to this. all exchange students... and usually the bf question never pops up. | /r/seduction | 17/10/10 08:57 PM |
| 1 | FR - Girl said she really liked me but says has a BFi think it descalated when i stepped into the club since it's not my comfort zone with so many people (little understated there). | /r/seduction | 17/10/10 03:13 PM |
| 1 | FR - Girl said she really liked me but says has a BFthe ladies are are gorgeous. think of the stereotypes in sweden the blond hair blue eyes, and then replace that with the brunette equivalent. they are definitely more open than what i'm accustomed too. indepedent, and educated as well. | /r/seduction | 17/10/10 03:12 PM |
| 1 | FR - Girl said she really liked me but says has a BFyea, i felt like i was the one getting seduced than doing the seducing. which threw me off a little bit. but like i said, i wasn't in gaming mode. all in all, i definitely didn't feel very alpha in the club as it really removed me from my environment. networking events, cocktail parties, house parties, whatever... fine with that. the clubs still intimidate me. good observation and insight, i didn't realize that about myself at that point in time. got caught up and didn't know what i was doing. | /r/seduction | 17/10/10 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Met up with a previous friend who LJBF'ed me 2 years back last nightnooooo kidding man. I seriously need to man the fuck up, or I'm gonna stay in Virgin-ville for life. | /r/seduction | 21/09/10 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Met up with a previous friend who LJBF'ed me 2 years back last nighti think i figured that out. Coffee the other day involved catching up and asking "so are you seeing anyone?" That's fine. Learned lots about myself seeing her those two times in Sweden. I must be more forward! | /r/seduction | 21/09/10 03:15 PM |
| 1 | What's your take on being sober and talking to drunk girls?right. wrong usage. | /r/seduction | 18/09/10 09:18 PM |
| 2 | What's your take on being sober and talking to drunk girls?have you done this before? | /r/seduction | 18/09/10 06:36 PM |
| 1 | What's your take on being sober and talking to drunk girls?I just get super tired and bleh. I think I need one or two in me. | /r/seduction | 18/09/10 06:35 PM |
| 2 | What's your take on being sober and talking to drunk girls?i am just passing by. I'm studying in Poland in a week for about 5 months. It feels like I am back home in Canada. It's been good so far, not hard to meet people. The swedes are nice (apparently not in stockholm though). | /r/seduction | 18/09/10 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Natural Born Killer - How a Natural Approaches on the SubwayI felt like reading that give me a 25% boost in my confidence today. Awesome. | /r/seduction | 18/09/10 03:28 PM |
| 1 | FR - GIrl on train platformI was surprised I opened to be honest, given what happened the night before. But I feel myself instinctly clam up and not wanting to talk to anybody in bigger cities anymore... just being less trustful. I need to get myself out of that state! | /r/seduction | 18/09/10 03:02 PM |
| 1 | FR - GIrl on train platformBeen away traveling. And now I got some time to post I wanted to take "real" photos, so thats why I brought my serious camera. short story: I sat in front on some patios with my camera in wide view. Person distracted me on my left, stalled for enough time for his partner to pick it away walking. I was a very easy target looking back at it. Keep your valuables out of sight! Don't let this happen to you. I still have my small camera to take some pics, but it really isn't the same. On the other han… | /r/seduction | 18/09/10 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Body Language Video: Power and Sexi think this is a great set of videos for those learning kino and body language. great share! | /r/seduction | 01/09/10 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Still afc...still afcThat makes so much sense. I assume developing the right frame is forged through experience? | /r/seduction | 27/08/10 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Still afc...still afcIt's kinda more like i gotten to know her over a period of time and she just kinda grew on me. Smart, funny, can sing, cute. To be honest, after reading this, I'm kinda over it. I really resolve not to be a huge afc anymore. I need to approach more and get more experience. I'm sure all this pining is because of lack of experience. | /r/seduction | 27/08/10 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Still afc...still afcI wasn't really expecting all these responses. Thank you all for helping me clarify more about myself. | /r/seduction | 24/08/10 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Still afc...still afcDefinitely so. Well put. The simple things are always the hardest to say. Especially when you're hardcore AFC. ughhhhhhh. | /r/seduction | 24/08/10 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Still afc...still afcI'm trying to understand why I'm not getting her and I'm trying to understand what I want. | /r/seduction | 24/08/10 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Still afc...still afcYou're right. The past three girls I've ever really been truly interested in and got LJBF'ed, I've been too safe. As for focusing on myself, I've done a ton of that. "pick up" is one of my priorities to be the best me I can be, calling the shots, doing things on my own terms. It's becoming more apparently I'm waiting for her to give me a response, when it should be the other way around. I'm don't have the confidence or balls in this area of my life to fully take control yet. | /r/seduction | 24/08/10 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Still afc...still afcThanks for the insight. I'm definitely not the self I like that night/day. | /r/seduction | 24/08/10 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Still afc...still afcI think this is right. Still quite AFC, that's very apparent from the moment I decided to post this. And as for appearing desperate and hoping for a hot girlfriend, I personally don't think so. She's just a quality girl who caught my interest. I'm just annoyed at my inability to attract or escalate. If anything, I don't think I'm even trying. I'm not defending myself or anything, I like this analysis. I'm just trying to figure out myself right now. | /r/seduction | 24/08/10 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Still afc...still afc"I guess you haven't met a man who doesn't tie you down in relationships but actually inspires you to be an amazing woman." wow, nice. I need to figure out how to come up with this kinda stuff on the fly! | /r/seduction | 24/08/10 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Still afc...still afcI am quite familiar with pick up stuff. I've never quite acted on it, at least on women. Found it super useful for business networking events. The problem is, I've never really 'dated'. I'm as green as they come. Cutting contact, I've entertained that idea, but that seems too drastic. | /r/seduction | 24/08/10 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Still afc...still afcI think that struck a chord with me, I don't want her that much but probably somebody and she's the most available option. I definitely read that 'touch everybody' thread before. I need to man up and make that change. | /r/seduction | 24/08/10 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Still afc...still afcI totally get what you mean. But that's REAAAAAAAAAALY uncharacteristic of me in this established friendship already. Uncongruent! | /r/seduction | 23/08/10 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Not new to seddit, but new to posting here! here's my intro and field report.i totally did that part, day 4 I believe. actually was one the hardest thing i've done. you think it isl beneficial to go through with the rest of the book? | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Not new to seddit, but new to posting here! here's my intro and field report.no kidding! baby steps. baby steps. it took me a long time to come to terms with my problems with women, talking about it with friends, and pushing myself to interact more with strangers, and posting online. hoping posting to seddit with keep my momentum up to become the best me i can be | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 08:15 PM |
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