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| 2 | I think I’m brokenThat's great. Feel free to DM with updates. I'd love to hear how it goes. | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Feeling hopeless about my dating lifeYou're going to get rejected. A lot. It will hurt, but over time it will hurt less. I recommend reading the book "Models" by Mark Manson | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 03:57 PM |
| 3 | How do you become "that guy"?I would consider reading the book Models by Mark Manson. It won't get you exactly what you want, but I think it will give you some insight into how to approach attraction and dating. | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 03:45 PM |
| 4 | I think I’m brokenFirst of all, you're not broken. Secondly, it sounds like you're just anxious to talk to women in your cafe. My advice is to talk to everyone and keep doing it until it becomes comfortable. It will make it easier to talk to the pretty girls when they come in because you'll already be talking to everyone. If you keep doing it then eventually a conversation will go somewhere naturally. | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 03:44 PM |
| 1 | I finally stopped chickening out (it wasn’t magic, it was reps)App appears to only be on iPhone. | /r/seduction | 23/08/25 11:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?It may be, but I want you to be successful with what you're trying to get. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 05:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I get womenA good place to start would be to read the book "Models". If you want more advice feel free to chat or DM me. Have a good day. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Are bars and clubs the best spot to meet women?The best place to meet women is the place that you're comfortable with and interested in. If you enjoy going to bars and clubs then go there, have a good time, and you will naturally meet women. But if you go there specifically to meet women then it's going to be an awful experience. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?I didn't say that they don't exist, I said the problem is that you're rating women. If you look past someone's physical appearance, you may find that it's easier to talk to and connect with women that are considered very attractive. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 03:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?I think that part of the problem is that you're rating women. | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 06:32 PM |
| 2 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?Regrets are useless. Let's focus on creating the future! Feel free to send a chat message if you'd like to talk more. | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 04:11 PM |
| 2 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?That's great! Follow the advice in this thread and keep working with your therapist and you should be alright. | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 02:02 PM |
| 7 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?I was about to say this. And consider talking to a therapist. | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 11:45 PM |
| 4 | How do you build a roster as a loner?This | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 01:09 PM |
| 2 | 12 Behaviors and Communication Traits of Attractive Men!Watch the movie "Yes Man" and take notes. | /r/seduction | 01/04/23 01:39 AM |
| 3 | 12 Behaviors and Communication Traits of Attractive Men!You don't really embody these qualities. Develop yourself by expanding your life and you'll become an attractive guy. | /r/seduction | 31/03/23 03:15 AM |
| 8 | 12 Behaviors and Communication Traits of Attractive Men!Because you're trying to get laid. | /r/seduction | 30/03/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction?You definitely should not give up on approaching women. It sounds like there are certainly some confidence issues, but that you are committed to growing and developing as a person, which in the long run will lead to a much more fulfilling and rewarding life. That woman's reaction was probably the worst you will get, but eventually you will get to the point that you won't even care how a woman reacts. I highly recommend reading the book "Models" if you haven't already. It will give you some direc… | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 02:31 PM |
| 169 | Girl sent me a picture of her in a bikiniThat was hilarious. I would ask her out one more time and escalate hard. If she still doesn't go through with it then move on and stop replying to her texts. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 02:40 PM |
| 6 | Girlfriend is TO touchy with my ass*too | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Girl who rejected me WON’T STOP TOUCHING ME.Don't do anything. Let her keep trying. Your indifference will either turn her on and make her try harder, in which case you can then escalate back on her, or she will eventually give up and you will know that she's not serious. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 07:52 PM |
| 2 | How to stop being Needy and Desperate?No problem. Let me know if you want to discuss more. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 07:45 PM |
| 4 | How to stop being Needy and Desperate?Read the book Models by Mark Manson and follow what it says. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 06:03 PM |
| 2 | I don’t want to have relationships, I just want to hook up with a girl.Make sure your diet is on point. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | I’m gonna start working out.Why was this deleted?? | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | I’m gonna start working out.I see. How did you determine the gain of 50 pounds of muscle then? | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | I’m gonna start working out.Makes sense. How did you track your progress? I'm tracking my overall weight and BF % to make sure that I'm gaining muscle and not fat. Does that make sense? | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I’m gonna start working out.Thanks. That's crazy that you gained 50 lbs of muscle! | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 01:55 PM |
| 2 | I’m gonna start working out.Can you say more about this? I'm currently skinny and working out building muscle. I was just curious to hear more about how things have changed for you. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 01:42 PM |
| 4 | I’m gonna start working out.Could you provide some advice on how you did this? I'm looking to do this as well. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Is it actually helpful to read Models by Mark Manson?It's very good and worth it. In the end it's only $10 so it's not like you have a lot to lose. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | If I was attractive, I wouldn't be single.Speak to a therapist. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Rant: I don't see the point of doing night gameSuper Narcissist Latinos | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | How to not be fat 101How are you measuring your BMI? | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | How can I escalate on this girl when giving her a massage?This is ridiculous | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 07:31 PM |
| 3 | My journey into inner game has completely changed my life and has made dating 10X easier. Taking a solo vacation is a paradigm shift internally.That's great. How has this made your dating life 10X easier? | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Has an EXTREMELY direct approach ever worked for you?Then what happened? | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Approach Us!!!You wanna go out? | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 01:10 AM |
| 4 | Already maximized your attractiveness and want to get into online dating? These are the apps you should be using and why.This made me laugh out loud. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 02:09 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You know you can improve your attractiveness right? Start with the two F's: Fitness and fashion. If you really take those two on you'll find that your confidence will increase and attractive women will start to take notice. | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Being High Value and WantedWork on the two F's: fitness and fashion. That will increase your attractiveness and confidence and you will have no problem talking to women and weeding out the ones you don't want to spend time with. | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 05:14 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Move on. She's not interested. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 12:22 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Basically this. You want to build comfort at the gallery, then grab a drink somewhere dark and somewhat private. You can escalate a little there and then see if she wants to come back to your place. If she does then just keep escalating, otherwise setup a follow up date, rinse, recycle, and repeat. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 04:39 PM |
| 3 | How do you actually become a high quality/value guy?I go by what Mark Manson has said in Models, which is to focus on the three fundamentals: Honest Action, Honest Living, and Honest Communication. I think if you read his book and study those three fundamentals you will find what's missing for yourself. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 04:37 PM |
| -1 | How do you start a conversation on Tinder"Hi", "How are you?", "What's your favorite ice cream?", "You're hot", etc. It really doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 04:34 PM |
| 2 | How to approach girls in a country where normal "hi", "hello", "you look beautiful today", "you have pretty eyes", etc don't work?Your welcome. Let us know how it goes. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Haven’t been on a date in years; she seems interestedIf you're unsure of interest ask her if she will come to meet you. If she says yes then she's willing to invest. Based on what you said it sounds like she's interested. As for your other question, you're not going to get experience by avoiding going out with girls, so just go out with her and forget about the outcome. Have fun with her! Even if it doesn't work out you will have obtained some experience. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 05:24 PM |
| 2 | How to approach girls in a country where normal "hi", "hello", "you look beautiful today", "you have pretty eyes", etc don't work?Improve your appearance and come up with better opening lines. "Hi" and "Hello" are boring and lame. Start with a joke or something clever. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 05:09 PM |
| -5 | [deleted by user]But how did he get a membership without an address? And how did he get a bank account to pay without an address? | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 05:02 PM |
| -6 | [deleted by user]How do you have a gym membership if you're homeless? This doesn't really make much sense. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Found a girl I may like, what now ?Just keep going on dates with her and it will eventually become serious. You don't have to explicitly ask her for that. Also keep escalating in each date or she will get bored and leave. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 04:48 PM |
| 3 | stop looking for scripts or pre made openers to start talking to women. You need to work on basic conversation skills and body language before anything else.If you're too scared to talk to someone having something scripted can help get over the fear. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 01:45 AM |
| 8 | I asked a girl out and she said yes, but she changed her mind.They were downvoted because it's not helpful advice. Nothing is obvious. We have no idea why she said what she did. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 08:45 PM |
| 3 | My four rules of attractionSo basically, read Models and do what he says. | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling like a cute friend to women and start actually feeling sexually attractive to them the way they look at other men?Read Models. There's some identity work you need to do. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Models by Mark Manson is honestly a game-changerIf it helped, purchase a copy to support the author. I agree it's a great resource. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 11:12 PM |
| 1 | A woman's POVAh, I live in NYC so never mind! | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 11:22 PM |
| 2 | A woman's POVWell where do you live? | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 09:45 PM |
| 2 | How to properly give a compliment without coming off as try-hard, insincere or creepyStop overthinking this. Just be authentic. Find the beauty in people and tell them. It's not hard. | /r/seduction | 24/12/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | get this stuff right and it might just work out for you.TL;DR: Read Models. | /r/seduction | 24/12/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | am i a bad guy for wanting dates and relationships and maybe sex?Go do the Landmark Forum. | /r/seduction | 23/12/20 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Recommendations NeededUpvote for actual plan part. | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Recommendations NeededModels is a good place to start. | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 07:51 PM |
| 3 | How to get any girl you want, period.TL;DR: Read Models | /r/seduction | 11/12/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Hot Take: This sub might be stopping you from getting girls.Isn't there a way to require approval before a post is posted? | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 06:37 PM |
| 2 | 12 Ridiculously simple hacks that you can start using today that will make women more attracted to you with minimal effortYes. I get the sense from your post that you're committed to self-development, but the actions you're taking haven't been empowering you to accomplish that. First of all, I think it's great that you're doing that, and I really acknowledge you for being the kind of person that would take that on. Secondly, I think that the book Models might provide some insight into why you aren't getting the results you want. However, if it doesn't please feel free to reach out as there may be something you're m… | /r/seduction | 16/11/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Should i tell her?You aren't inexperienced. You have the experience that you have. If someone judges you for that then you may want to consider if you would want to be with someone like that. In my experience it always works out to be true to yourself. Don't compromise for anyone. | /r/seduction | 16/11/20 04:41 PM |
| 0 | 12 Ridiculously simple hacks that you can start using today that will make women more attracted to you with minimal effortHey man, have you read Models? I think it'll make a difference for you. | /r/seduction | 16/11/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase YouThose who say this doesn't work aren't doing it right. | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Don't do cold approach without having your life set together first (inner game)These two things are not mutually exclusive. Read the book Models. | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 07:16 PM |
| 1 | I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to.Have you read Models by Mark Manson? | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 06:29 PM |
| 3 | What makes some guys don't care when they get rejected and others think about it for weeks?You're more invested in what others think of you than you are in yourself. Go read Models by Mark Manson. | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 10:36 PM |
| 4 | Models - Mark Manson (Demographics)The main thing is to develop a leadership role in one of these activities. Then you don't even really have to "approach". Women will be drawn to you. I have a leadership position in a personal development organization and a lot of women there are just automatically attracted to me as a result. | /r/seduction | 08/10/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | FR: Didn't realise how difficult it was to cold approachYour context is off. You're going out to approach. Stop that! Memorize some canned routines and just go out and practice speaking to people and using them. Challenge yourself to approach 10 women a day and you will eventually become more comfortable and able to approach with the intent of picking women up. Also, where do you live? | /r/seduction | 05/10/20 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Wild pickup line actually workedIt wasn't the line that caused that. It was who you were being. | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 06:54 PM |
| 3 | I read ‘Models’ notes & it’s life changingThat's awesome! It sounds like your context shifted for you and now you've started taking new actions. Good job! I think it's a great book and helps men develop healthier dating lives than that of traditional pick-up techniques. Keep reading! There's some action plans at the end that will probably help you out a lot. | /r/seduction | 16/06/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a girl to be this forward?Why are people using app while in foreign cities? Isn't that the best opportunity to talk to girls on the streets since no one knows who you are?? | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 05:42 PM |
| 2 | A great reminderThat's probably because you're not thinking about dying. If you try that it might happen. Dieing is what you do to a shirt to change the color. | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Trying to get rid of my niceguy ways, need some advice!Please be careful with this advice. It comes off as false confidence. It is almost always more rewarding to develop yourself to be the real deal, instead of someone just faking it. | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | I keep trying to impress peopleAre you taking those actions because you read Models? If so there are other actions he says to take which you might want to try. | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Problem with approaching girlsIt sounds like you're more invested in other's opinions than you think. Did you read the book and actually do the action plan? I was implying that you should do that. | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 11:56 PM |
| 9 | Problem with approaching girlsThis plus read Models (which already covers this). It goes more into depth about how to become a more confident person by investing in yourself. IMO it's essential if you want to transform yourself into someone that can attract women. | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 04:48 PM |
| 10 | If I meet a girl that I really like, I automatically think I'm not good enough for herYou're more invested in what others think of you then you are of yourself. The more you invest in yourself the less you will have thoughts like that. Read the book Models and follow the action plan. It will explain what I'm talking about and guide you on what to do next. | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy).I honestly don't know if this is common. Among the people I've associated with I haven't seen it, but I haven't been as engrossed as others. I would ask your friend to read Models. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy).Sorry, what's the context of your question? Are you trying to convince your friend of something? | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy).You should read the book Models by Mark Manson. It does a great job of distinguishing the difference between bettering yourself in order to have a healthy relationship and doing it to cover up some insecurities. It will probably also give you some useful insights for your own development. | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 05:06 PM |
| 2 | I have four weeks of free time and I want to spend it all to improve my game. How should I plan for that?Models by Mark Manson. The book I mentioned in my first reply. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I have four weeks of free time and I want to spend it all to improve my game. How should I plan for that?Read the book and you'll see what I'm talking about and why I'm saying what I'm saying. I'm not going to get into a whole in depth explanation of what the book says here. Plus if you're on this sub it's probably going to make a difference for you anyway. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | I have four weeks of free time and I want to spend it all to improve my game. How should I plan for that?He should spend that time doing the phase 1 actions. Those don't even have you talking to a girl. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 03:52 PM |
| 25 | I have four weeks of free time and I want to spend it all to improve my game. How should I plan for that?Forget about "game". It's an unhealthy obsession and will not lead to any kind of fulfillment in your life. Read Models by Mark Manson and then follow his action plan. And forget about making a ton of progress in 30 days. You will be transforming your entire life, and that takes time. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | I don’t know how guys handle rejection so easily. I got rejected all night at club and feel like crap.You're too invested in what others think of you. Please read the book Models. | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 04:56 PM |
| 7 | Orgasm Order Form to get her off.Have you read some of the advise on this sub? | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Is anyone else experiencing less interest in seduction over time?Have you read Models? If not I highly recommend it. I think you will discover something in it. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 04:39 PM |
| 3 | I recently discovered the seduction community and plan on making it my priority. Help me get startedSkip the typical advice. Buy the book Models by Mark Manson, read it and absorb his message. Then follow the action plan he gives you at the end. If you would like to discuss further PM me. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 11:23 PM |
| 0 | Struggling with approach anxiety? I did too but here's what helped!I'm not sure how else to say what I said any clearer. | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 03:10 AM |
| -6 | Struggling with approach anxiety? I did too but here's what helped!Are you serious? This is terrible advice. Read Models and follow the action plan. | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 03:04 AM |
| 2 | ***7 Things Men Do That Turns Women Off***There's an action plan in the back of the book. Read it and follow that. | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 10:48 PM |
| 7 | Key mindset to reach outcome independence, non-neediness and relaxed confidence. Choose. Don't chase.None of this advice is ever going to help you. Just read Models and follow the action plan. | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Feel like I’m overthinking things in collegeRead Models and follow the action plan. | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | I have just realized....The real victory is the friends you made along the way | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 10:07 AM |
| 2 | This shit is so fucking hardI wouldn't recommend doing what the sub says, which it sounds like what you're doing. Read the book Models and just follow the action plan in the back. PM me if you would like additional support. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 03:07 PM |
| -2 | The Ultimate Guide To Passing Shit Tests (this should be easy)If you feel like you have to take a shit, it's probably time for a shit test | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 11:21 AM |
| 3 | What To Say After "Hey" - a step-by-step nightgame guide for newbiesIt's a book by Mark Manson. Look it up. | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 10:50 PM |
| 4 | What To Say After "Hey" - a step-by-step nightgame guide for newbiesI agree. Just read Models and follow the action plan. You're going to waste so much time with these tactics only to realize you should have just worked on yourself in the first place. | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | How to Build Confidence: Step by StepHow about read Models and follow the action plan? | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 12:05 AM |
| 2 | How I Discovered The Best Place To Meet Single Women (After 10 Years Of Research)Not all heroes wear capes | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Casual Sex?Is pussix the plural of pussy? | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 12:49 AM |
| 1 | No one tries to put effort into me. And it kills my confidence. I see my friends getting attention from girls everyday and no one cared to say hello to me. Even my close friends dont care.Read Models and get to work | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Today I Have Asked Out 10 Girls In My Life Even Though I Used To Be ShyDid you know it's completely inauthentic to relate to yourself as shy? I bet that if I asked you to show me where you're "shy", you couldn't do it. | /r/seduction | 25/07/18 01:41 PM |
| 12 | When to approach?Talk to everyone. That way you will feel comfortable talking to the girl, and it won't feel weird or incongruent with your personality. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 03:19 PM |
| 2 | (27/m) The last couple tinder dates I’ve gotten ended with little interest and I get a text the next day saying “I didn’t feel much of a spark” or just that they don’t feel interested.Have you read Models? | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Need help - never had a GFThat's great. Then move onto the level 2 stuff. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Need help - never had a GFI don't believe Mark is a big fan of cold approaches. He advocates finding niches and developing your status there so that women already know you and have an image of you as being a leader. But before you even get to that, there's the level 1 stuff that needs to be handled, like working out regularly, getting a job you love, updating your fashion, etc. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 12:43 PM |
| 5 | Need help - never had a GFDid you do the action plan in Models? | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 01:44 AM |
| 1 | How you even get a date after college?I'm going through the same thing right now. I've read a bunch of different books and learned a lot about how to improve my situation. Most of it has already been covered by other posts, but if you want some specific advice send me a PM and I will assist however I can. | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 12:44 PM |
| 1 | I recently re-read "Models" by Mark Manson and took detailed notes. I have compiled a study guide to help anyone else who wants to quickly review the book.Thank you. This is very helpful. | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Stylelife Challenge Day 2Good job for getting out there and doing this. I don't have much in the way of advice or feedback to be honest. I'm in a similar stage myself and I'm following the model from Magic Bullets to learn how to transition. That might help. | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls do thisWhat are your intentions with this girl? Do you want a relationship or just something casual? | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Don’t Fall In Love W/ Girls. Fall In Love W/ The Things That Get The Girls.Yes. Here's the link on Amazon. IMO, most of what's posted here are insights and advice that people can discover for themselves if they read this book and followed the action plan. https://www.amazon.com/Models-Attract-Women-Through-Honesty-ebook/dp/B005EOTH24/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1528391413&sr=8-1&keywords=models+mark+manson | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Don’t Fall In Love W/ Girls. Fall In Love W/ The Things That Get The Girls.Just read Models and follow the action plan. | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Question on intentions from Mark Manson's ModelsIt's been a while since I read the book, but it sounds like intentions aren't congruent with your actions. If you're trying to manipulate her then no you shouldn't tell it. | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Thought I didn't need seduction... Then I entered the world of businessLet's be clear. Do you guys really believe that you can seduce any girl you want? At best doesn't learning secution simply allow you to express yourself more confidently, cause girls who would normally be neutral to become polarized, and take the initiative with girls who were already attracted to you? | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a guy who keeps poking fun at me in front of girls?Talk to this guy one on one. Find out why he feels the need to invalidate you. That's his way of covering something up. Find out what's going on and make friends with him. | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Just getting into Pick Up? Here are 4 tips to make your journey easier.Yeah I honestly believe it's all you need. If you want to learn something or make changes in your life, you need to take action, not just have a bunch of insights. | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 12:02 PM |
| 6 | Just getting into Pick Up? Here are 4 tips to make your journey easier.Read Models and follow the action plan. Done. | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 12:01 AM |
| 34 | “Why don’t you have a girlfriend?”Why not just tell them the truth? | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone followed a graded action plan based on Mark Manson's Models?That's true, but you could turn them into daily practices. I can help if you'd like. | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone followed a graded action plan based on Mark Manson's Models?Are you aware of the action plans in the back of the book? | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 04:59 PM |
| -1 | 5 Keys To Be Amazing In Bed - More Guys Need To Know ThisCan confirm a girl wrote this 🤣 | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Are You About to Send a Big Text? Break it Up Into Two TextsThis is ridiculous "advice". Do you really think you will have more fulfilling interactions with women if you change the way you send text messages? | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | The people that I know that have girlfriends didn't do anything special to get their girlfriendsRead Models and follow the action plan. | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 08:32 PM |
| 2 | You've Got To Get These 3 Things Sorted Before Trying To Attract WomenSo in other words, read Models and follow the action plan? | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How to be More Attractive to WomenTL;DR: Read Models and follow the action plan in the back. | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 10:23 PM |
| -1 | Girl suprised that I remember....She's clearly testing you. You should increase your negs by about 2x. Also, how's your gym attire? Are you maximizing your peacocking opportunities? | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 05:02 PM |
| 0 | Quickest ways to become more attractive as a manRead Models and follow the action plan in the back. | /r/seduction | 19/03/18 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Finding a women has to be the hardest thing in the world.Well what are you doing to make it easier for yourself? Also, what does guys having banged 100's of girls have to do with finding a girlfriend? | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 04:47 PM |
| 2 | What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the TransitionHere you go. https://www.amazon.com/Models-Attract-Women-Through-Honesty-ebook/dp/B005EOTH24/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1521056053&sr=8-1&keywords=models+mark+manson | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 07:34 PM |
| 2 | What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the TransitionJust read Models and put the work in. | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 07:42 PM |
| 3 | "Don't Follow Us, Alright?"She feels threatened by you and reacted. There's no need to have a "comeback". That's childish and immature. If these girls don't make you feel good then find some others who do. | /r/seduction | 09/03/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Random questionCan you send a link to the tits and ass photos? It will help us give you a more accurate recomendation on what to do. | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 06:43 PM |
| 4 | A small tip: when you ask people personal questions about their favorite things, ask them about something that they engaged with 'lately' (e.g. an interesting movie that they saw lately). This makes the conversation feel more natural and fun.You probably just weren't in state. | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 06:18 AM |
| 4 | Could we say that Mark Manson's view on attraction is based on assertiveness?It's been a while since I read his book, but I believe he says in it that honest communication and clear intentention push girls that are on the fence to be either neutral or into you. So it's more than just assertive behavior. | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 02:13 PM |
| 1 | 24M BeginnerJust read Models. It will give you a good foundation to start with and has a clear action plan you can follow. | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 04:08 AM |
| 1 | What the day trading has taught me about WomenI'm pretty sure this post is a joke. Or this guy lacks some self-awareness. | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it bad that I’ve only gotten laid through tinder?What does 'bad' mean to you? | /r/seduction | 14/12/17 08:22 PM |
| 24 | Approached a girl at the gymI think it's weird. Especially if you're at the gym and probably sweaty and stuff. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 09:56 PM |
| 6 | [FR] First ever pull. My life has changedThe point is clearly that he worked hard at practicing and his commitment paid off. Whether you think his scale doesn't match yours is completely irrelevant | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Recently started reading Neil Strauss'(Style) book The Game.. A few questions.I read it years ago, but as I recall it's not an instructional guide, but rather a story about Neil's experiences learning the game. Techniques and jargon are mentioned, but it doesn't help to learn them. If that's what you're looking for, read the side bar, or send me a PM and i'll see what I can recommend. It's still an entertaining read though. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 06:31 PM |
| 2 | How to Have Casual Sex and Threesomes With Lots of GirlsSame question here. Any suggestions on having that become congruent? | /r/seduction | 19/10/15 12:38 AM |
| 4 | How to Have Casual Sex and Threesomes With Lots of GirlsAny suggestions on becoming that guy? | /r/seduction | 19/10/15 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Girl blocked me on what's app today the second I told her I'm in an open relationship.Who cares? If you want an open relationship and she doesn't, then find someone else who does. You only feel "shitty" because you're attached to her opinion of you. Knowing whether or not it's normal or why she would do that will make no difference. The thing that will is going out and talking to another girl. | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 02:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First contact to Oral in 30 hoursI'm glad to hear that. I've yet to have a really good blow job so this gives me hope to not give up looking for one | /r/seduction | 19/09/15 03:11 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First contact to Oral in 30 hoursHow was the head? | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Fantastic article on why you shouldn't care what other people think. Deals with life in general, but is 100% applicable here.I love the pictures. I'm going to check out this site. | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 02:14 PM |
| 5 | What do you think about lying during PU?You actually can't be authentically boring, because boring is an interpretation. You may bore people, but that doesn't make you boring. Your authentic self is not an object with a fixed state of properties. You can be any way you want. | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 06:28 PM |
| 0 | Guys, I(22F) have never had a one night stand. I'm meeting a guy on Friday and I want to make it obvious that I want to sleep with him. Help???Tell him about your friend who's had a one night stand. That will put the idea in his mind, hint to him that it's on your mind, and give you a chance to see what his reaction to it is. | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 02:05 PM |
| 1 | The girl of my dreams stepped on the train this morning, and I didn't do shitI literally make it a habit to just talk to everyone on the subway regardless of whether there is a hot girl there or not. Then when there is I'm not as uncomfortable with talking to her because it's a totally normal thing for me to do. At the very least you will become more social and have some great conversations. | /r/seduction | 30/07/15 08:24 PM |
| 2 | I approached at least one girl a day for a week (fucking huge for me). I feel incredible.This is a great post. It's very inspiring and engaging. Thanks for sharing, it made a big contribution. | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Some very basic tips & observations for beginners, from my experience:Learning pick up/seduction is often completely different than learning how to be in a good relationship. In fact, your relationships may get worse when you learn how to pick up women - at first. Can you expand on this? Specifically what do you mean by at first? Thank you. | /r/seduction | 09/09/14 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Where do you guys usually go to pick up women?Subway, street, stores, bars, lounges | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Where the fuck is Kai's Tinder guide?This is great, thanks. Why on Earth was it deleted?? | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 09:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] F-Close, a night out that was shaped because of r/seductionThirded on the good job comment | /r/seduction | 10/08/14 01:36 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Seduction isnt a hard science. You learn more from one days hands on experience than you do from 6 months of sitting at home reading about it.Damnit! I've been preparing for the essay section for months!! | /r/seduction | 06/03/14 04:18 PM |
| 7 | A fun game to improve conversation skillsI think either would work | /r/seduction | 21/02/14 11:11 PM |
| 1 | long time lurker with a question.Co-Sign. Especially the part about rolling up your sleeves and getting dirty! | /r/seduction | 20/02/14 04:10 PM |
| 1 | How would you guys feel about a seduction Practice book that gave you fairly short segments of material to study, then a structured weekly practice routine to make sure you learn it?Absolutely that would be great | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 03:28 AM |
| 1 | You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started?I did this once and it worked. The situation was slightly different in that we were at a restaurant in a secluded section and I asked a girl what the craziest thing she's done was. She couldn't think of anything so I said I bet it was kissing a guy in a restaurant. She smiled at that so I then I went in. Or yeah you could whip it out as someone else said. | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What Cold Showers & Approaching Have In CommonInteresting, thanks for sharing. I'm going to try switching to cold showers using the gradual method described in the link | /r/seduction | 07/09/13 10:27 PM |
| 2 | What Cold Showers & Approaching Have In CommonSo this actually works? | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Request. I cant seem to find the link that was posted a few months ago. Someone did an awesome job of summing up "Models". Can anybody send it to me?Thank you | /r/seduction | 20/08/13 10:54 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First Official approach!Better idea: stop rating women and just approach and flirt with all of them. | /r/seduction | 07/07/13 09:18 PM |
| 32 | You're sitting on your college cafeteria alone and you notice a small group of girls sitting on a table. You don't know them and they don't know you. How you would make an approach to one of them?Pull cock out Approach Or for a variation Approach Pull cock out | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 07:16 PM |
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