bmadd60 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Can you be misogynist and successful with women at the same time? Yes. They love that sh!t.	/r/seduction	04/06/26 03:23 AM
2	You ever hire a dating coach? Is it worth it? Yes, and yes. 1000% worth it. 3500$ boot camp changed my trajectory with women forever.	/r/seduction	16/01/26 09:52 PM
2	I can bring the girl home, but she leaves without even a kiss. Calling out the elephant in the room is good too. Like as soon as yall get in your house, say something like “OK! Let’s get naked!” If you’re a humorous guy, or “So do we take our clothes off now?” With feigned aloofness. But the underlying intention is important. You KNOW now is not the appropriate time to get naked. But that’s why you’re both there. That’s how you both want it to end. I like to drop stuff like that then go on being a complete gentleman. She knows. You’re playfully letting her …	/r/seduction	18/12/25 08:40 PM
1	I can bring the girl home, but she leaves without even a kiss. The almost kiss routine really is gold. If you’re nervous and you’ve fucked everything up escalation wise, you can just go in with that, and it completely resets the frame. Shit has been hella awkward and I pull that, we’re making out. You have the attraction if they’re coming to your crib. But you’re failing on the sexual escalation side. It’s a common thing bro. Try the almost kiss.	/r/seduction	18/12/25 08:32 PM
9	I can bring the girl home, but she leaves without even a kiss. Exactly. As soon as you walk through the door, take her hand, pull her into you, then slowly walk into her pushing her against the wall. Bring your lips in like you’re going to kiss her, and right before they touch just say “I’m starving.” Then back off abruptly with a smile. Go cook dinner. Shit like that drives them wild. An old technique I use is the almost kiss. Impossible to screw up. Here’s the script: “I really want to kiss you but I’m not sure we’re ready. So let’s play the almost kiss g…	/r/seduction	18/12/25 06:10 PM
0	Why don’t women approach me at parties? Bro, you’re comparing apples to oranges. Most every woman is more beautiful than you. Because you’re a Man. And you say you’d def get rejected? Then you’re definitely right. That’s a self fulfilling prophecy! Punch up, my guy. Confidence and Status is the Male form of beauty. Good looks may make things easier but it’s definitely not a prerequisite for approaching women. What you’re effectively saying is that your value is less than the women you find attractive. So start increasing your value. W…	/r/seduction	15/02/25 05:11 PM
3	Which Is The Best Pickup Artist Bootcamp? The Tao of badass bootcamp in MIA. They’re not around anymore. But I’d look at a RSD bootcamp if I had to do it again. My advice would be to find a coach who’s free content resonates with you, then buy their entry level course and apply it!!! If it works for you then check out their bootcamp. My point is to vet them to make sure you get results	/r/seduction	18/07/24 04:26 PM
-1	Which Is The Best Pickup Artist Bootcamp? David Tian. Excellent coach. I’d look at any of the RSD bootcamps too. Do your research and buy an entry program, if you like it take the next step with the bootcamp	/r/seduction	06/06/24 11:45 PM
4	Which Is The Best Pickup Artist Bootcamp? Have you been to a boot camp? I have. Worth every damn cent. All those things you mention, wardrobe, gym, etc, are good, but a GOOD bootcamp is life changing because it condenses everything down to what moves the needle. You get positive feedback almost instantaneously.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 07:14 PM
6	Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of game Hey! Congrats for pushing your boundaries. After skimming the comments, it really looks like you have a hard time accepting constructive criticism. I’d start there. This community can be brutal, but it’s necessary cause the game is brutal. You don’t need to counter every comment with an excuse or an attempt at an explanation. Try to see the point and take some feedback. I’d ask what was your goal for the interaction? Because that adds context for the outcome. You haven’t been approaching for a f…	/r/seduction	02/06/24 03:31 PM
7	Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of game Show me a quality single woman out and about. Hard to come by! Look at some statistics as to how many relationships start while the female is currently in some type of relationship. I’d absolutely try to exchange numbers or socials or something because there may be a time where she wants to be done with that relationship. If your moral compass is opposed to that, I got it. But that’s how the game is played.	/r/seduction	02/06/24 03:15 PM
3	Quick guide to hookeup with a girl at a club My ranger buddy had a similar technique. He would grab random women by the face and make out with them. It only worked about 1/3 of the time, but he did it to lots of women. I don’t recommend this though. You might die.	/r/seduction	08/09/22 08:05 PM
0	How to know when to make the next move with a girl you meet at a bar? Ok, first things first, are you touching them? Touch them more. “But I am touching them!” Good touch MORE. Second, in depth to me mean boring AF. Girls want in depth after they’re getting that good D. You’ve got to break rapport and keep it light. Google deep and wide rapport. Go through a few “cycles.” Also google sexual framing. The strawberry fields test is great. It allows you bring sexuality to the convo and make it seem like she did it. A problem a lot of guys have is they get into a deep …	/r/seduction	16/07/22 03:04 PM
1	Staying hard…tips? PT141	/r/seduction	05/07/22 03:18 AM
12	Did having your own place make you approach women more? Well you answered your own question, really. You said you’re not comfortable. Discomfort is a lack of confidence. So you have something in your life that makes you uncomfortable, so that discomfort is translated into body language by your subconscious. Women can read that stuff better than anyone. So if you fix that problem, short term you will gain more confidence. But if you want to go a step deeper, question why that makes you uncomfortable. Do you have the false benlief that women only hook …	/r/seduction	30/06/22 03:06 PM
1	Best programs/courses that helped you with women the most? This is gold right here. If she is still talking to you, she is interested. If she doesn't recoil when you get closer, she is sexually interested in you. If she doesn't react when you touch her, she is sexually interested in you.	/r/seduction	28/07/20 10:28 PM
2	100 approaches and still nothing I want to say first, congrats. Takes some balls to go out there and do that. What is your goal? Was it to do 100 approaches? if so, celebrate! you did it. But I think, as you mentioned, you wanted something out of the interaction. The process has been tiring and demotivating in many instances, but when I remember the times I had a fun conversation with a beautiful girl, I feel like it's worth it. If its not fun, you're NEVER going to get over the anxiety of approaching. I suggest you change your…	/r/seduction	19/07/20 02:27 PM
1	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? Good deal man. The next step is integrating your style into your Attraction Archetype.	/r/seduction	19/07/20 02:13 PM
1	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? Weird flex, but ok. It's true that the clothes don't make the man, but in this case, someone asked what being well-dressed entails.	/r/seduction	19/07/20 02:07 AM
2	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? Most mental illness is treatable. And normal is subjective. I'm not normal, but I'm attractive.	/r/seduction	18/07/20 04:17 PM
17	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? This is a limiting belief man. You have qualities that are attractive. They may need to be cultivated, but they are there.	/r/seduction	18/07/20 04:14 PM
37	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? It really depends. I teach my clients to: Find a "style icon" and model their look. Define their "fashion Archetype" ie rockstar, prep, streetwear, motorcycle club member.. Anything to define a genre. When I first started learning attraction, I picked David Beckham as my style icon. I looked at what he was wearing and modeled his style. Worked very well. But make sure you're not trying to model David Beckham if you look like the Rock. find someone with a similar body type.	/r/seduction	18/07/20 04:13 PM
1	I want to smile more at women No such thing. A smile is a smile. If it's coming off creepy, that's something else entirely. And "ugly" smile is the smile you've got. So either fix it (whitestrips, dentist, orthodontist, invisalign...) or accept it.	/r/seduction	18/07/20 12:02 PM
1	I want to smile more at women These are 100% false limiting beliefs. The truth is your smile if just fine, as it is. But belief can be very real when you feel them at the core Sometimes I have the insecurity that my smile is not beautiful, that I do not have completely white teeth. So whiten your teeth. Problem solved. Crest Whitestrips work great. Problem solved. Smile away! But seriously, You're challenging your own belief, which is great! While I have heard from some people that they liked my smile. So you have evidence t…	/r/seduction	18/07/20 11:52 AM
2	How should to handle a girl giving you a compliment? Compliment back? There are three choices I see here, and without context, there's no way to know the "right" answer. The three I see are: Compliment her back. This is a "low status" behavior. Many women will fish for compliments by giving them, expecting you to provide her with some validation through returning the compliment. Guys think they are vibing, and see it as a time to connect, but this is a poor choice to connect over. Don't do this. Say thanks. Like I said, context. If it was a bit serious, or you guy…	/r/seduction	30/04/20 01:01 PM