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I'm not sure what you're trying to ask me. That was just one giant run-on sentence.
/r/seduction02/02/22 08:56 PM
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I'm just now getting back into game again. I had a girlfriend and we broke up like 2 years ago. Then covid hit and I spent a lot of time alone and lost my social confidence. Then being busy with work I didn't make time to approach. I didn't lose the knowledge though. But going to the club alone has always given me a great amount of confidence in my day to day life. Which is what I give credit to getting my girlfriend in the first place. The game never stops you just have to be ready and willing …
/r/seduction02/02/22 12:29 AM
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34 Try it one time.. just once and see how it goes. Then get your drink.
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:58 PM
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That's a great question. I'll goto the club usually 30-60 minutes before it starts popping off. I will check out how packed it is from the outside before I go in, that way I know what volume I'm dealing with. If I have to wait in line then I don't consider that being inside of a venue so I don't start my 60 second timer. But as soon as I cross the barrier to being inside the door I say "alright.. 60 seconds go". Right now my biggest sticking point is that the club that I like to goto gets so cro…
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:31 PM
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Whenever I go out solo there is one major rule that I follow that either makes or breaks my night. It's the only way that I've actually been able to go out and take action solo without feeling self conscious. As soon as I enter the club I give myself 60 seconds to approach a cute girl. Doing this gives me so much momentum/confidence for the rest of the night and it helps create an "immunity" towards future rejections. It seriously feels like a drug or like star power from Mario. Honestly, the ha…
/r/seduction01/02/22 10:39 PM
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Glad you liked it, Patrice is hilarious and he breaks things down in a way like no one else.
/r/seduction01/02/22 10:07 PM
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Do you really want a relationship or do you just wanna have sex? I don't understand why you would want to date someone that would have such a negative impact on your life. I'm guessing you don't have many other options outside of this girl.
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:21 AM
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You need to learn how to be/set a fun vibe. That's it.
/r/seduction01/02/22 09:00 AM
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How you figure out if she really likes you in one easy step. Step 1. Contact her, chat for a few minutes and then try to arrange a date. If she is down she will agree to a date. If she's not she wont. Chances are she will probably flake as that's normal female behavior. So if she doesn't offer an alternative date .. she's not interested.. if she does then maybe she will show up next time.
/r/seduction01/02/22 08:59 AM
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"When kitty cats compete. You win!" Women like a man that is preselected by other women. Best thing you can do is approach other women and have a lot of dating options. The girl you like now will see that and take notice and will put herself in your orbit if she starts to feel some interest/attraction for you.
/r/seduction01/02/22 08:56 AM
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You get over it by the process of exposure therapy. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations under your own volition. If you've never flirted with a girl before chances are you're not going to be good at it. You're gonna say and do stupid stuff and that's ok. You should practice approaching girls when you're alone to build up skill. Eventually you'll reach a point to where it doesn't matter who is watching or where it's at. You will just approach/flirt naturally as it will be a part of who you a…
/r/seduction01/02/22 08:53 AM
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If you're already this invested in this girl it's probably not going to go in your favor. You seem really unsure of yourself and no matter what "tactics" you use your neediness is always going to premeate to the surface. You need to get out there and approach other women, get rejected and build your confidence from the rejctions that your incur.
/r/seduction01/02/22 08:48 AM
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Chances are if you're this far onto the relationship she probably only sees you as a friend at this point. When you dilly dally around taking your time to make a move it only hurts you. And right now you already seemed more invested than she is and it seems like you are in scarcity. If youre more invested into the relationship than she is your neediness is always going to permeate to the surface. You best bet is to go out and approach girls to get practice.
/r/seduction01/02/22 08:37 AM
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Best bet is college parties. Get rejected and have fun doing it. College will pass by you quicker than you think. Take advantage of the opportunities now cause high quality women are harder to find in your day to day life once you get older. Give your self permission to suck, your inner self will thank you for it later in life.
/r/seduction01/02/22 08:32 AM
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Either switch to night game or move where there is more volume. I live in Miami and I can confirm there is always an abundance of cuties around day or night. Especially Lincoln road.
/r/seduction01/02/22 08:30 AM
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Exposure therapy is the best way. You have to put yourself in situations that scare you and just give yourself the permission to fail or look dumb.
/r/seduction01/02/22 02:08 AM
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I'm 34 and goto the club solo to meet girls all the time. Definitely doing yourself a disservice by staying at home knowing that you wanna improve your social life.
/r/seduction01/02/22 01:55 AM
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"When kitty cats compete, you win!" If you want a girl that rejected you the best thing you can do is move on and talk to other girls. Girls want a guy that is preselected by other women. There's no way to guarantee she will want you back because that's out of your control. So the best thing to do is talk to other women.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:08 PM
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You seem too afraid of rejection or you feel that you are incompetent in some way that prevents you from taking action. In my experience one of the best things a woman can do for a man's confidence is to reject him. If you can repeatedly overcome these adversities, aka rejections, it will force change in you. You will naturally behave more confidently and be more "free". You're lucky to have attractive girls approach you because that is usually rare for a guy to experience. If you start cold app…
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:59 PM
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I'm a big fan of models as well as 3% man by corey wayne. I feel like combining these 3 are the most practical .
/r/seduction31/01/22 11:21 AM
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The black phillip show on youtube is the series that changed my perspective. I recommend starting with some clips before listening to the whole radio show.
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:41 AM
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Mark manson
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:41 AM
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Just ask questions to get to know her. You wanna try to set a fun playful vibe. You're trying to make her comfortable with you. Look up on youtube " corey wayne building rapport"
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:50 AM
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Stop waiting for permission! Just go an talk to her!
/r/seduction30/01/22 06:56 AM
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You weren't simping at all. I don't know why he thinks that you were. Either way, don't just randomly ask a girl for her number because her mind is always programmed to say no... even if she likes you. You should work on flirting more and building rapport FIRST before going for the number. If you get a phone number that doesn't mean she's going to respond to your text or show up for a date without canceling last minute. That's why you want her to at least get to know you through building rapport…
/r/seduction30/01/22 06:53 AM
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You're acting like a woman waiting for someone to approach you. If you wait around for girls to give you permission to approach them you're going to get very few interactions or none at all. In my opinion there's nothing wrong with you physically. Mentally you need to just make that shift to where you're not outcome dependent. Stop viewing rejection as a bad thing, cause stacking rejection after rejection will put you in a state to where you don't care. You'll end up building confidence through …
/r/seduction30/01/22 06:39 AM
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Also scroll all the way down to the bottom of this guys blog and read some of his articles. Dude is literally a super genius and breaks things down in a way I've never seen https://mikemehlman.net/page/2/
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:26 AM
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3% man by corey wayne and Models by Mark Manson And my absolute favorite is the black phillip show by patrice O'Neal. You can find this on youtube. Highly recommend this.
/r/seduction20/01/22 10:47 PM
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I'm gonna take a wild guess and say that you're quiet or very reserved and don't have many friends.
/r/seduction12/01/22 02:10 AM
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