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0	Any childfree guys here I feel so bad for these guys who’ve never had kids, won’t, or can’t…..your life, do what you want…..it’s just sad knowing what they’re missing. And had I never had kids I’d be saying the daft same thing. And some people maybe shouldn’t be fathers. But you don’t get it until you get it. You don’t know what you don’t know. That said, imagine how much you love your dog, or love your brother, parent…..now times that by about 1000 and you’re getting close to the love you’ll have for your children. As…	/r/MensRights	17/09/25 08:52 PM
10	Bachelor Tax in Japan soon in 2026 You guys understand this is going to happen here as well, right? No ones voting away their social security and Medicare, so the youth are going to get screwed with some sort of egregious taxation to support the old people. And given the overt hatred of men in our society, including our representatives, you can be sure it’s going to heavily impact men over women. But it will be disguised as not true of course. That, or we just import tens of millions of immigrants. Mon you, most of these immigran…	/r/MensRights	19/05/25 04:01 PM
9	Wife has temper tantrums and last night she blew up, called the cops and now I’m the one charged To be fair, during my two years of highly contentious litigation in my divorce, my best outcomes came with the female judge. Don’t get me wrong, they can be awful, but sometimes women really hate other women….. The male judges, I found, tend to coddle women. My female judge was the only one who made my ex work (well, calculated her income even though she didn’t have one, basically forcing her to work.)	/r/MensRights	18/05/25 01:23 PM
-16	Man is killed by police after struggling with female who broke into his home Glad someone else pointed out how dangerous this idea of only “two shots” for self defense really is.	/r/MensRights	18/11/24 04:50 PM
-1	Man is killed by police after struggling with female who broke into his home Yeah I agree. Don’t know why you got downvoted. (Well I do, but I don’t want to offend many of the men on here who don’t have a good legal understanding of how self defense laws work.) “Five rounds isn’t usually self defense. Two rounds is defending yourself in most situations.” This is absolutely the dumbest thing I’ve heard in a long time from someone claiming to teach “firearms safety.” I’d be embarrassed to say this as anyone claiming to even be remotely attached to firearms, self defense or…	/r/MensRights	18/11/24 04:48 PM
12	Mob of feminists attack a random biker, he fights back against all of them. I’ve been telling my son for some time now that I see a time in his lifetime where they have to physically remove women from power to save our society. This is far better than the alternative. The alternative is we continue to allow our society to decay and since enough women are refusing to have children it’ll just self correct at some point. But that will be ugly, and painful for everyone but for women especially. We cannot continue down this path and expect to survive. It’s impossible. Nature…	/r/MensRights	08/11/24 06:58 PM
3	It has begun, dun dun dun And thanks for the advice (and service) as well.	/r/MensRights	24/10/24 07:05 PM
2	It has begun, dun dun dun I COULDN’T AGREE MORE! I’ve told him already that if he doesn’t know what he wants to do when he graduates HS then the military is the best option. I wish I had know the military was an option back then. I grew up in a small Mormon town and ended up serving a two year mission in South America. (I’m no longer a member). I wish all that suffering/shit time in Chile could have been put towards a career in the military (instead of paying $10k to the church over two years I could have made that much.…	/r/MensRights	24/10/24 07:04 PM
25	It has begun, dun dun dun I’ve been pushing my 14 year old son in any direction but college…..I have a college degree and he’d make more than me his first year of welding.	/r/MensRights	23/10/24 11:44 PM
13	Why do American politicians suck up to women voters but never male voters? I don’t see any wrong answers here. One thing I think is clear is that women are easily swayed by emotion and will vote purely based on emotion rather than making sometimes very tough logical decisions. Women will also vote for security versus freedom (risk taking.)	/r/MensRights	16/10/24 01:01 PM
10	Fathers are being excluded by kids schools! And when both parents have equal/shared custody, like my situation, who decides who’s “primary?” I can tell which of you have been in this situation and which of you think this is an easy fix. Or better said, a problem they even want to address. They don’t. The majority of them are college graduated single women who hate men. I’ve been told “their system” only allows one parent to be contacted because there’s only one field for “contact first.” I’ve suggested they add a note that says “always ca…	/r/MensRights	26/07/23 01:30 PM
1	Why men are avoiding marriage Custody laws vary state to state….I can promise you, by statute, in Arizona, if you are a “fit” parent, married or not, you have a very good chance of getting custody (Joint Legal Decision Making and equal parenting time). This is reinforced with substantial statutory support as well as plenty of case law. I have sat through hundreds of hearings for fathers, written hundreds of motions and other pleadings and read thousands of cases since 2104. I’m not talking out my ass. I agree that as a fathe…	/r/MensRights	02/09/21 02:19 AM
5	Why men are avoiding marriage My battle was custody, so married or not the custody battle would have been no different in the eyes of the law. The AZ law is called a “Covenant Marriage”, just looked it up. But I would have never made enough money to keep her from leaving, it was that simple. She refused to work a full time job, so she demanded I work 3 jobs (I had 2 and she said she was going to divorce me unless I got a third job so she could stay at home.) I get it. If I were a woman and wanted a fancy life with nice cars …	/r/MensRights	01/09/21 02:19 AM
8	Why men are avoiding marriage I would have believed “it depends on who you marry” in my younger days . But do you think men get married to women who they think aren’t “the right one” or a “good woman who won’t leave me?” What man would marry a woman he thinks would divorce him? I never understood this idea, but I get the sentiment as it sounds good on paper. I was 30 before I got married to my ex and I vetted her in ways most men would never consider. I was “100% sure” I picked the “right woman.” But even the most “wholesome…	/r/MensRights	31/08/21 04:54 PM
34	Why men are avoiding marriage I think this is a very dangerous statement. Not that you’re wrong, but it gives young men false hope. There is an incredibly low probability that a young man, in today’s world of social media that has ruined most women, could find someone that you describe. They exist sure, but they are rare, very rare. As an example, if a man is unemployed for more than 6 months 80% of the time that marriage ends in divorce. Yet this can happen to the most hard working and industrious among us. Shit happens. Re…	/r/MensRights	31/08/21 02:59 PM
12	After a father uses a recording of mom threatening him during custody exchange to defend himself in court, the local Ohio courts reportedly have prohibited the use of recordings from child custody exchanges This happened to me in Arizona! My ex kept making crazy allegations she claimed happened during our exchanges. So I started wearing a GoPro. I caught her throwing clothes, including shoes at me (as hard as she could). In the next hearing her attorney insisted cameras not be allowed at exchanges. Judge granted it. I couldn’t believe it as my thought was “well, cameras don’t lie and only a liar would be afraid of cameras.” I wanted cameras e everywhere!	/r/MensRights	29/06/21 04:33 PM
4	Blue pill dads are just worst. 5 years ago I would have had a different response to that reply……now, I think, that’s not a bad idea (minus the extremism of course.). I basically raise my kids with all the strict “Christian” values and ideals concerning family especially. These ideals are common among many religions. I sometimes watch Fresh and Fit and I have a hard time finding anything wrong with what Myron says, even the cheating as a married man….his reasoning is not wrong (he’s Muslim). The current destruction and outrigh…	/r/MGTOW	17/06/21 03:54 PM
12	Blue pill dads are just worst. I’m a divorced dad of two, one girl, one boy. It is a FINE line to walk when trying to instill values in both children. I love my daughter more than life itself. I want her to be happy. Statistically speaking, being a traditional woman and eventually a mother/housewife is shown to produce the most happiness in women, even today. She’s young, only 8, but I’ve already started teaching her how important her role as a mother and wide will be and how lucky she is to be able to be such an important pe…	/r/MGTOW	17/06/21 03:27 PM
9	Divorce tragedy. Ha ha….I laugh, that’s chump change. Mine was $80k when it was all said and done. She spent $90k. As a divorced man it would be recklessly irresponsible for me to ever encourage my son to get married.	/r/MGTOW	09/06/21 02:12 PM
13	You might have already seen this, but this is just pathetic. Father here, I have one daughter, age 7. I’d never give up but I’d let her know exactly what she’s worth as she’s openly advertised her opening bid for all to see. I’d make sure she knows that no high value man will ever want to pay more than $7/month. I’m raising my daughter to be a wife and mother (shout out to Kevin Samuels). I make sure she knows that she can do and be whatever she wants but that there’s nothing more rewarding than being a good mother and a good wife. That’s saying a lot sin…	/r/MGTOW	29/05/21 04:03 PM
21	Divorced ! Lesson learned the hard way. This is why men are going their own way. Yep....most men, like myself, are raised with the fundamental belief that the only way to be happy in life is wife/kids.....I’m in my 40’s and divorced (divorced raped for over $100k in attorneys fees, ongoing CS....etc.) I simply wasn’t informed. I really believed I couldn’t be happy without being married. It wasn’t until I discovered the internet and started listening to these other men that I realized marriage doesn’t make you happy.....just the opposite in most cases. And yes, we all believe…	/r/MGTOW	29/01/21 01:35 PM
2	My latest obsession. Started mountain biking, alone on the trails. West/mid Texas?	/r/MGTOW	10/01/21 04:02 PM
43	Father hanged himself after his ex-wife barred him from seeing their three children, inquest hears And me. If it weren’t for the local fathers rights group I would not have spent this Christmas (or any Christmas’s) with my kids. Because of them (fathers rights group), and the support of family, I fought the monster of family law, and (mostly) won. Had I not found them, there would likely have been an article with my name on it. It’s impossible to describe the depth of despair you feel as you watch your ex and the court remove you from your children’s lives. But you can win, or at least remain…	/r/MensRights	30/12/20 04:08 PM
2	On the Road Again Highway 89 between Page and Cameroon?	/r/MGTOW	03/12/20 08:00 PM
2	Sadly, it's true You just have to jump through all of the hoops. When I got wind that she was going to accuse me of being a drug-addict I volunteered for random weekly drug testing at the court appointed facility without her knowledge. When we got to the first hearing (nine months later) we were able to quash that argument. But when they make so many allegations it can take years to “prove” yourself to the judge. Had any one of her dozens of allegations been true my kids would be dead by now, instead they are bo…	/r/MGTOW	02/12/20 04:56 PM
3	Sadly, it's true No, of course not.. you’re absolutely correct. But you get so excited over “not being destroyed” than even breaking even in family court is considered a huge victory for fathers. One small victory in winning my house was that I was able to collect attorney’s fees ($6500) from my ex. So not only did she not get the house or any part of it, she had to pay my attorneys fees for taking it away in a post decree civil case. I got a judgement for fees which I collected on by garnishing her wages....I d…	/r/MGTOW	02/12/20 04:48 PM
2	Sadly, it's true Thanks guys. Im simultaneously elated and devastated at the outcome. Elated that I get my kids half the time and devastated I lost so much time with them. For those that have kids you know how precious the time you have with them really is, especially when they’re little. I lost nearly a year of that time when they were ages 4 and 1. And I was with them, especially my son who was 4 every single day. We were attached at the hip. He did ever with me and it disappeared in an instant. That’s somethi…	/r/MGTOW	02/12/20 04:43 PM
6	Sadly, it's true Patience and a hell of a family support structure who helped me financially were key. However the single biggest point of leverage was finding my local Father’s Rights group. It wasn’t until I DUMPED MY LAWYER and started representing myself did I actually start to win. I cannot understate this enough. I owe my life, quite literally, to the president of the local fathers rights group who held my hand and got me to the finish line. Outside or family court you need a lawyer, no doubt. Inside famil…	/r/MGTOW	02/12/20 04:18 PM
8	I discovered my dad is secretly MGTOW . I'm glad I discovered it young enough to not repeat his mistakes . As a 46 year old divorced father of two (one boy, one girl) I couldn’t agree more. I don’t outright tell my son marriage is a shit deal, I simply show him little truths every time something comes up. I find this to be much more effective than an all out assault on marriage. He’s a super smart kid and he’s able to put things together.	/r/MGTOW	02/12/20 04:11 PM
116	Sadly, it's true I’m a divorced father who spent over $100,000 to get 50/50 time with my kids....AZ is better than most states in giving equal time but if you have a vicious ex who lies to the court calling you a gun-toting, suicidal, mentally ill drug-addict-it’s still going to be a fight. In the eyes of the court I was guilty of all of her allegations until I could prove definitively otherwise, which I did but it took over 2 years. There is no such thing as “innocent until proven guilty”, in family court it’s …	/r/MGTOW	02/12/20 01:54 AM
9	Are you guys okay with dying alone? Can confirm....divorced....two awesome kids but so glad I’m divorced and single with ZERO plans to ever remarry. I’m way too fucking happy to ruin my life with a woman. I’m fine dying alone. My only concern is my kids find me after a few weeks....it could smell really bad. Seriously....that’s my only concern. I don’t want my kids to find me. I’m all for euthanasia for the elderly and would sign up in a heartbeat. I think someday society will come around on this. We don’t let our pets suffer, why…	/r/MGTOW	27/11/20 05:35 AM
6	Women at divorce takes only 25% of your stuff If you mean taxes, sure, then you split what is left after taxes. But that’s not the way it actually goes down. Here’s how it goes down. Say you have $100,000 in liquid assets. After you pay for her attorney, and yours, you’ll end up with nothing, if not actual debt. If you think I’m joking talk to any man (myself included) who’s been through a bitter divorce when children are involved. For what my ex and I spent on two attorneys ($180k) I could have paid off my house. Instead two attorneys made…	/r/MGTOW	19/09/20 02:40 AM
5	One of the most embarrassing things about America is how the family court system ALWAYS sides with the mother, no matter how abusive they are. Oh now, even better...a private company who happens to be the #1 contributor to family court judges re-election campaigns. It’s fucked. Yes, watch Divorcecorp, it’ll open your eyes.	/r/MensRights	06/09/20 02:04 AM
1	One of the most embarrassing things about America is how the family court system ALWAYS sides with the mother, no matter how abusive they are. 4real. I should have clarified that in most situations I stand by my statement. Your situation is obviously not the same. I’m glad you had a father figure, that’s great. But in situations where both parents are fit parents, adding a “step-anything”, isn’t going to help the children.	/r/MensRights	05/09/20 08:35 PM
38	One of the most embarrassing things about America is how the family court system ALWAYS sides with the mother, no matter how abusive they are. Also, don’t expect the family court to do the right thing. Having been though the system I can unequivocally tell you that the court only operates in its own best interests and couldn’t give two shits about your children. The judges have a palpable hatred of the family court litigants. Their rulings clearly show that their only interest is getting you the fuck out of their courtroom and keeping you there. All of my rulings have also had a huge financial penalty in the form of “parenting classes”…	/r/MensRights	05/09/20 05:08 PM
9	One of the most embarrassing things about America is how the family court system ALWAYS sides with the mother, no matter how abusive they are. As a divorced parent, and having 8 step siblings myself with two step parents, I KNOW that if you remarry after your divorce you are putting YOUR needs ahead of your children. It is NOT in their best interest to be forced into this unnatural situation living with your new boyfriend/girlfriend. Just look at the statistics for children being raised with “steps”, it’s not pretty. I would NEVER willingly force my children to live with strangers. Strangers who would compete directly with my children …	/r/MensRights	05/09/20 05:03 PM
1	The six conversations of my marriage Holy shit, this was my marriage exactly. Her own mom was telling her she needed to change things she’s was doing.	/r/MGTOW	31/08/20 05:46 PM
12	Dgaf about gloomy weather... Just had to gtfo of clowntown. I didn’t see a single person on my hike and that’s perfectly fine with me Yeah, location? I like playing GeoGuesser.....looks like either Australia (eastern coast inland) or inland California coastal range.	/r/MGTOW	03/08/20 02:01 PM
41	You can hear the hurt in his voice. Ex gf kills his pets with no remorse.takes pleasure in his suffering most likely. As someone who was 15 years in the reef hobby I can tell you that it takes time, hard work, determination, education, experience, money and some luck to have a thriving reef aquarium (which by the pic inverts are thriving). I would be absolutely crushed if someone that was supposed to love me purposely destroyed one of my tanks......this sucks.	/r/MGTOW	19/07/20 03:31 AM
6	100% Wait until your my age (45 and divorced), any women who is thin or even average will be a 10 regardless of other flaws since 99% of single women my age are obese to morbidly obese. God I love being single. People ask me all the time “Why don’t you date anyone? You could date anyone you want.” I reply “my life is too good to voluntarily let a woman fuck it up.”	/r/MGTOW	17/07/20 06:09 PM
12	I'm almost positive Prince Harry is going to kill himself. He DOES have mommy issues. He lost his mother when he was what, 10? Of course every relationship he has will reflect issues resulting from losing his mother. My guess is he’s very unhappy but likely doesn’t think he can bear the loss of another “mother.” Why do you think he married an older woman? He was trying to replace his mother. Come on guys, this is PSY101.	/r/MGTOW	08/05/20 02:16 AM
22	Absolute state of this. The marriage is dead before it even began. The problem with marriage and divorce and why guys get fleeced is because when they get married they can’t imagine that the person they’re marrying would ever do anything hurtful to them because they’re “perfect” and their judgement is way beyond the legal limit. It’s impaired, at best. What you young men need to do when getting married or thinking about it is visualize your worst enemy, an enemy so evil it would scare the shit out of the devil himself. Now imagine what that enemy would do if th…	/r/MGTOW	25/04/20 09:05 PM
2	Guy Commits Suicide after being Divorce Raped....YOUNG MEN READ THIS (and NEVER commit suicide over a woman) I was put through two years of vicious court battles, $80,000 + in attorneys fees, hell would have been a leisurely vacation after that. What almost pushed me over the edge was not seeing my two kids who I loved more than life itself for almost a year for allegations that never had a single piece of tangible evidence to support. Had I not had good familial support in my life, both emotionally and financially, I would absolutely be another statistic. It actually amazes me that there’s not an army…	/r/MGTOW	15/04/20 03:17 AM
3	F24. Pregnant with 2 girls. One is 3, second is 11 months. No casual sex. Job is stay at home mom. This is getting ridiculous. When I see these posted over and over again I simply can’t understand why there are so many “incels”. How are these women able to get any man over a 1 or 2 (out of a 10 scale?). I wouldn’t even rate her as a 1.....surely every incel out there is a step up for her? Hell, most of them at least don’t have a van full of baggage like she’s got. I don’t get it....but then again I’m old....and this shit didn’t happen before social media....maybe I was lucky not to have to deal with this shit.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	09/01/20 07:17 PM
18	New to this community. Seeking to have a different life than my multiple stepdads! I love the support this sub gives! Can confirm.....divorce raped here... To all you young men, or to any unmarried man, all of these stories you hear are true, all of them. Some are much worse. There is absolutely nothing for you to gain by getting married and most likely you will end up, at best, with half of your life’s work, and you may lose your children. I consider myself lucky to get equal parenting time and joint legal decision making...I help dads now going through this nightmare and while in my state, at least as far as …	/r/MGTOW	03/01/20 02:27 AM
16	AWALT Yep.....took me two failed marriages to realize that a woman's love is conditional upon your ability to provider her the lifestyle she feels entitled to. I've been divorced now for four years and have never been happier!! I have equal time with my two kids and in my free time I do whatever the hell I want....I have a garage full of toys I never would have had being married and I spend my time as I please. No "designated bedtime", no "you can't go to the range this weekend", no "you're doing it w…	/r/MGTOW	02/10/19 04:01 PM
1	Watch your own back I was hit by a car on a one way street. I looked the direction of traffic and saw nothing.....a split second later I was on top of taxi cab’s trunk wondering “How the f*** did this happen?” I was fine other than a bruise on my arm and hip. The taxi was driving backwards down the one way street. This was in Santiago Chile.	/r/MGTOW	26/09/19 03:42 PM
29	My university showing this pop up to every male student using a pc on campus. Wow. At first I thought it was going to say “It’s not just women who can experience this, it’s men too......”. nope, everyone but a man....literally. And to be clear, “sexual harassment”, by this definition, includes any instance a woman is asked out on a date by a man she’s not interested in because it’s uncomfortable for her to say “no thank you.” It’s much easier to claim you’ve been “harassed” and grab the victim-hood mantle. But make no mistake, if a Chad asked her out, well that’s not only…	/r/MensRights	22/01/19 01:03 PM