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| 24 | My good friend committed suicide the other day, feeling lost and confusedDamn man I’m sorry, that’s terrible. I hope you’re doing better. I’m glad you’re here, I hope you are too | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever date a Borderline Personality Disorder girl?Yes PM me if you want to talk more about it | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Question about liftingIf you haven’t been lifting for very long, you will definitely not have perfect form and you shouldn’t worry about it that much either. You should make sure your form isn’t shitty, however, for two reasons: you won’t reap the main benefits of the exercise, and also you will hurt yourself. Take it from me, I still have issues with my sciatic nerve because I was careless on squat and deadlift form when I started, and I’m only 23. So once you know that you’re form is at least passable, then focus o… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | How to change "Never good enough" mindsetSquat 1RM is 315 (3 plates) | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | How to change "Never good enough" mindsetI’ve been lifting for several years and my bench always seems to lag behind. I’m at 135 for 6 reps on OHP, 225 for 12 reps on squat, 285 for 10 reps on deadlift, but my one rep max bench is still 225. At least I know I don’t half-ass leg day lol | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | LegsDo you have anything to can use as added weight? Like others have mentioned, single-leg exercises will be best if you’re working out at home. Split squats, lunges, pistol squats (these are more for straight power not really hypertrophy). Honestly though It’s going to be difficult to add decent mass to your legs just doing body weight stuff at home | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 06:17 AM |
| 2 | How to shake this?Here’s the thing: you were prepared for an exchange with her, yeah she broke your heart/humiliated you or whatever but you weren’t going to avoid her out of spite or resentment. SHE purposefully avoided you. She clearly has the same old shitty hangups and hasn’t changed a bit. YOU are a decent person and have also been working on becoming the best version of yourself. Continue on that path and blast the shit out of those weights. You can’t let some girl that was never worth your time to begin wi… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 09:02 PM |
| 2 | I’m Doing Everything Right, But Why Am I Always Miserable?How old are you? I'd be careful with this advice. He's right that a dog could help you in a lot of ways but getting one should not be used a temporary solution. Most dogs live anywhere from 9-19 years, this is a long-term commitment and you need to think about whether the cons would outweigh the pros at the current moment. I'm saying this as someone who grew up with dogs and loves them, but I'm 23 and definitely not considering getting one anytime soon because I want more freedom. I definitely w… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | What helped you get out of your head and live in the present?I just started meditating at the beginning of 2021 (I've missed like two days so far). I definitely feel less irritable than I did before, more grounded and a little more present. However supposedly the true benefits don't become very apparent until you've been doing it consistently for months I also am currently reading Power of Now which others are recommending here already. I will say, if even a 10 minute meditation every day is too much for you right now, then start just trying focusing on y… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | How to keep a strong/positive mindset when unemployed and job hunting?Well you didn’t actually keep reading because if you did, you would’ve seen that I’m already in therapy. I’ve been around here a while so I read the sidebar a few years ago, but I should definitely do a reread now that I’m mentally in a better place. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Fighting my "Best Friend" and getting injuredNice lol just call me an autist and then you win I guess? He said he formerly thought he was his best friend. Some people don’t reveal their true selves for a long time. There are people who are married for 20+ years and they find out their spouse is a completely different person than they thought before. They may be stupid but it happens If your friend asked you dozens of times to stop calling them a bitch, wouldn’t you stop out of respect for your friend? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 02:01 AM |
| 5 | Fighting my "Best Friend" and getting injuredThis wasn’t shit talk. If a friend seriously asked me to stop calling him something, even if I was joking around, you best bet I’d stop right away. That’s what real friends and decent people do. Not this asshole | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Fighting my "Best Friend" and getting injuredI’m sorry this happened man. This “friend” of yours is a shitbag. Some dudes just like keeping people in their circle who they can belittle in order to feel “big”. These people are losers and he’s one of them. Smart to not respond to his text, just block him and try to move on day by day. As far as the physical fighting, I’m not one for instigating violence because it usually makes you look and feel foolish after. However here I think you were more than justified as he basically pushed you to th… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | What's your attack plan for 2021?What kind of YouTube channel do you want to start? | /r/askTRP | 19/12/20 08:38 AM |
| 3 | What's your attack plan for 2021?If you need any help on starting beatmaking feel free to message me. I’ve been doing it a for quite a few years now | /r/askTRP | 19/12/20 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Is it ok to ever change for a girl? Even if you’re wrongBeing a decent human being isn’t beta. You shouldn’t change FOR the girl, but want the change for yourself to have better experiences in life moving forward. If she is the catalyst that gets you moving there then so be it. Being a cheating dick won’t make your life personally fulfilling in the long run | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 02:16 AM |
| 13 | Should I sent this text?Yeah speaking from experience, the whole “let me know what day/times you’re free” doesn’t work. It sets up the perfect avenue for her to flake/eventually ghost. Tell her what day/time you want to meet and where. Maybe give her two options for days just to avoid the chances of her being busy. If she continues to be wishy-washy or flakes on you, then she’s just trying to casually keep you in orbit and she’s not fucking worth it. Don’t waste your time. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/20 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Who are girls fucking on tinder?What kind of account do you run?? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Having erection issues at 22 years old.Dude yeah you can’t drink less than half a liter of water a day and expect to feel good. That’s one of the biggest issues you have. Aim for 3L a day, a gallon if you can. It’s hard but it makes the world of a difference in so many ways | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 02:23 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with the fear of getting MeToo’ed?ASD? Autism Spectrum Disorder? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 03:04 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with the fear of getting MeToo’ed?Yeah man like the other guy said you probably can’t just record interactions with other people, specifically sexual encounters, without them knowing. If someone were to press charges on this that sign you have almost definitely wouldn’t hold enough defense on your behalf | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 03:02 AM |
| 5 | How do you deal with the fear of getting MeToo’ed?This exact thing happened to my high school friend after he went to college. He had to leave school for a semester, they let him come back but he tried to kill himself during that time. Makes me so sad to think about. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 02:43 AM |
| 1 | 23 years old, I have little/no interest in getting married or even having another LTR in my life. Is this a bad mindset to have?Good point. But, overpopulation is a concern for the long-term future. It's not like we're gonna be running low on new babies at any point, people are always going to keep getting married and popping them out. So my thought is, why is it detrimental if I personally don't follow this norm? It won't effect anything on a grand scheme It's the same sort of argument as "if one person does not vote in a national election, it literally affects nothing, but if everyone were to have this mindset and not … | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Where did you go wrong in your last LTR?Well, idk. I've forgiven both of them for the most part. I was really angry and upset for a while, but then I tried to put myself in their shoes. They're super drunk and this girl (my ex) is coming onto them aggressively (clearly just to spite me because they're my friends and I'm close with them). They probably haven't gotten laid in forever. So combine that desperation with them being blackout drunk, and I'm not surprised they give into that temptation. Maybe they would've done it sober, hopef… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 03:20 AM |
| 10 | Where did you go wrong in your last LTR?I took her back after she fucked one of my good friends who was also my pledge brother. Told myself it was a drunk mistake and I should forgive and forget. After we broke up the second and final time a few months ago, I find out that immediately after she went and fucked two more of my fraternity brothers, one was my grand-little. I can’t believe I was such a CLOWN ugh | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 12:23 AM |
| 6 | Where did you go wrong in your last LTR?ohhh yup... | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Stay in major city to work on game, or wait out Covid somewhere else?23M here, I live in the suburbs of NYC, but I'm from here originally and I'm living at home right now so it's a bit different. I'll try to give you some input regardless. The nightlife of the pre-virus days (clubs, bars, etc.) will not likely not be returning until next year, even in NYC where cases are declining every day. People also aren't really as open to dating new people in general right now because of all this, so if you're staying just to "work on your game" I'd advise you to get out. I… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 11:02 PM |
| 9 | I can't get over my cheating ex.First off, fuck anyone who tells you you’re a “beta faggot” for still having trouble with this. This goes beyond just a messy breakup, this is a borderline traumatic obliteration of your trust and I can’t imagine how awful this must have been for you. Sometimes things this bad take longer to get over for certain people. You need to keep increasing the emotional disconnect, not talking to her or looking at any pictures of her anything like that, in order to reach a pinnacle of just not giving a s… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 12:03 AM |
| 3 | “Men learn from their mistakes. Wise men learn from the mistakes of others.” Please share one of your mistakes the rest of us can learn fromThis. Just broke up with my LTR of over two years a few months ago and she definitely was textbook BPD. Dad left for a few months in the middle of the night without saying anything when she was 8 and that sparked the attachment/abandonment issues. It was one of the hardest things I have had to go through in my life. I felt really bad for her and even though she was crazy, I was her first boyfriend so it makes sense that she was super emotionally dependent and attached to me. I really hope she ge… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Discovered LTR's cheating activity from 2017As some others have said, you don’t need a reason to break up with someone. There doesn’t need to be some huge crux moment, which is what my ex thought. It sounds like you weren’t satisfied and had wanted out for a long time yet you settled. That is ok, I fell for the same line of thinking, I stayed in when I just wanted to be free because I felt like she was too nice to me. Ultimately this led . We’re young, it’s best to make these mistakes and realize them now as opposed to repeating them thro… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Is Austin, TX a good city to move to for a 23-year-old guy?What else do y out hate about it? I’ve never visited myself so I’m trying to get as many perspectives as I can | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 12:20 AM |
| 1 | 22-year old college grad, n-count is only 1 because of college oneitis, depressed about it. How can I stop worrying about it and move forward with a better attitude?Yeah I should’ve clarified that I’ve been on Tinder and Hinge but meeting up proves to be difficult with the lockdown at the moment since I’m in the NYC area | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Does hook-up culture end after college? Depressed after graduating last yearI did this in high school a bit and it was a guaranteed way to make me look creepy and autistic. Maybe because I wasn’t as attractive back then either but I’d recommend not doing this | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Does hook-up culture end after college? Depressed after graduating last yearYeah I’d much rather have had it be in the low teens than just 1 though. Even 4 or 5 I’d be somewhat satisfied for now. Just feels hard to keep pushing my life forward knowing I missed out so much compared to 75% of other guys | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | What is the best college major?Does the school you're going to have an Industrial Engineering/Operations Research or Systems Engineering major? If you're thinking about Business but also Engineering or CS, then this is a pretty good major from what I've heard. Develops a lot of quantitative/technical skills but also leadership and soft skills. Applicable to a lot of different job fields, you can do so many things with these majors. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 07:57 AM |
| 2 | What is the best college major?I studied philosophy (and math). Everyone things it's for nerdy/lame/gay guys but it's the foundation of most subjects and super cool. Plus it's harder than most people would expect. Not really directly employable but like with any major it is what you make of it | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 07:54 AM |
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