bmstf Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Be cautious with your life To quote another FDS redditor (whose name I can’t remember, please forgive me): “Decenter men from your life” Powerful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 02:47 AM
1	Baggage Reclaim: He’s Just Not That Into You? Problems w this belief One of my girlfriends told me this, over dinner, about the LVM I was into. It hurt. I went as far as buying the book (on her advice). She was giving me some of the toughest love I’d ever received. Although at the time it was painful, I’m glad she told me. Hearing this helped me cut him out of my life and made me question my behavior.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 02:37 AM
28	I’m sick of pick me articles claiming their husbands infidelity made their relationship ‘stronger’ “Decenter men from your lives” This is an incredibly important statement.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/21 06:12 PM
-16	Wife gets divorce so her husband can marry his foreign girlfriend. I think she may be the supreme pickme queen. Nah, something fishy is afoot here. She’s awfully perky for someone giving up her marriage. Look at the pic of the three of them again. I smell a poly group. They could be getting divorced to bring her over for them both. It’s not my idea of a healthy relationship but I’m not everyone. Also, this looks like that 90 Day Fiancé series, for whoever asked.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/21 02:50 AM
1	Why men like anal (unpopular opinion: wanting someone to feel pain during sex isn't normal). What in the actual...? 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/21 02:37 AM
1	YEP👏🏼 I’m glad that there is pushback against the “ho” culture.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 07:21 PM
2	Probably a repost but fuck that 'friendzone' bullshit. A good friend is worth more than a good SO A couple of years ago, back when I was a pickme, I met a guy on OLD and we agreed we would be friends. He was so much a LVM that he tried to take advantage of my generosity on many occasions. This included ghosting me for two weeks when I refused to bring him food from my apartment to his. Needless to say, he is out of my life now and has been for two years. Best decision ever. I am new to this sun and I wish I’d have found it years ago. I’m now in my late 40’s and have learned so much. It’s mak…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 01:31 PM
1	[TRIGGER WARNING]-- But where's the lie? Every man I have dated has wanted anal. I refused each and every one. This post is great, can we get it stickied?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 10:03 PM