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Good stuff. This post reminds me of Dalton's advice to his bouncers in the movie Roadhouse: "Be nice until it's time not to be nice. Then it's time to take the trash out!"
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/18 03:23 PM
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You can't stop her from doing anything. All you can do is change how you respond. Make it about her behavior, not your dick. The next time she makes some snide remark, just calmly say, "I really don't understand why you think it's funny to try and put me down. Can you explain that to me?" Regardless of her response, make it clear that you see it as childish and pathetic and not worthy of you. If you come off as angry or humiliated, you lose.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 04:17 PM
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She's totally fucking with you to test your frame. Either ignore this girlish attempt to break you down or simply respond, "Yes, I know, my dick brings joy to many."
/r/askTRP22/12/17 12:08 AM
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I was thinking about exceptions, too. My wife is a tomboy who doesn't usually get along so well with women. She has a few single guy friends with whom she shares common interests. Sometimes they text, hang out 1:1, other times we hang out in groups. Never once has she or any of them said or done anything remotely inappropriate. (Believe me, I've been watching for any and all signs. Nothing.) My conclusion is that these male relationships are platonic and that even if one of them eventually tries…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 04:13 PM
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"I feel...": This is one I'm trying to avoid. She doesn't care about your feelings, won't empathize, and won't accept any responsibility for how you feel. Just set your boundaries and expectations and call her on her shit when necessary. Explaining how her actions make you feel might be considered by some as "good communication" but it ultimately puts you in the beta zone.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 03:36 PM
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I had sex with a girl and she told all her friends how good it was. Now they all talk about my prowess in front of me. I feel degraded. #metoo A girl at the gym commented on my large biceps and copped a feel without asking. I feel so objectified. #metoo
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:57 PM
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I don't like 'em because they show off too much of the goods. A well fitted shirt keeps women a bit more curious about what's underneath.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 04:52 PM
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If that's true, then anything less than a 7 is a contradiction. There's nothing "hot babe" about a 3.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 05:01 PM
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I agree with this breakdown. Forgive my ignorance, but what does the "HB" before the number represent?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 04:31 PM
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"I'll pass. I've got plenty of friends."
/r/askTRP27/06/17 08:40 PM
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Depends on the woman. My wife rode the carousel pretty hard until I met her at 26 (wifed her up at 30). To hear her tell it, she kinda got it out of her system. We've been married 25 years, never a whiff of infidelity on her part (but who really knows, right?), and she does any kinky, nasty shit I can imagine.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 05:00 PM
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If she's going to fuck around with her ex, then there's nothing you can say or do to stop her. All you can do when the subject comes up is be clear about your boundaries and your intolerance for any lies, deception, or trickle truth. Then drop the subject and go about the task of making your life excellent without fear or concern for what she might do. If lies and/or boundary crossing occur, then gather your facts, confront her with them, and dump her. Ultimately, what you want in any relationsh…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 07:52 PM
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I get the value of having a single attitude and doing single-minded activities to increase one's awesomeness. However, the one aspect of acting single that I struggle with is approaching and flirting with other women. My single instincts drive me to go all in (approach, isolate, escalate, close). But following those instincts would have consequences I want to avoid. Flirting for practice and to test whether I could bed them if I wanted seems like a recipe for frustration (besides, tbh, I don't t…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 05:49 PM
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Nothing summarizes this better than that insipid saying, "Happy wife, happy life." I can't believe guys buy into that shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 09:08 PM
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I was fit, decisive, a leader of men, I had a mission in life, masculine hobbies, and there was a little aspect of mystery This might be true for some, but my guess is that in most instances, what attracted her was his stability and income after years on the carousel. Any "awakening" you want to help provide to male friends has to come in the form of self-improvement for its own sake rather than to increase or regenerate her attraction.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/16 02:15 PM
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It seems like an unrealistic goal to strive to be your woman's all-time-best at everything. Some traits are unattainable and no one can magically develop Chad-like genes. She's going to have her fond memories of the Brazilian Helicopter Pilot no matter what you do. While I don't disagree with raising the bar on what she considers interesting and hot in a man, I'd argue that the more likely path to success is to striving to always be her best option--not her all time best in all categories.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/16 02:35 AM
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If a bouncer wants to let her in the club for free or a guy wants to buy her a drink, I don't see it as disrespectful if she accepts. She's knows my boundaries and she knows how to shut men down that think a drink entitles them to anything more than a "thank you" and perhaps some polite conversation.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 10:49 PM
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A lot of these responses seem like insecure mate guarding tactics. If my wife wants to go on an occasional GNO (whether it's at the local night club or Vegas, wearing a mini dress or mom jeans), my attitude is, "have fun, use them thirsty betas for all you can, and bring that wet, untainted pussy home to papa." In fact, I'll even give her advice on what looks sexy (after all, she's representing me). If she's gonna slut around, she'll do it regardless of my attitude about a GNO. My focus is keepi…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 09:40 PM
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Agreed. Hot girls instinctively know that a man with equal or higher smv is a commitment risk. She uses that kind of man for tingles and validation. If she retains the higher smv, then she retains the power in a committed relationship.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 02:04 AM
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A woman cheating has very real and very severe penalties to the marriage: the husband now has to support his cuckhold child and the woman is now dealing with the biological ramifications of her hypergamy. Not sure this reasoning holds up when the woman is unable to become pregnant (birth control, tubes tied). Perhaps this explanation should be expanded to include the notion that sexual desire is a zero sum game for women: The desire she has for Chad decreases the desire she has for you. Woman ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 02:39 PM
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I think you know the answer. Her "obsession" with the ex never ended. What do you think they talk about when they meet up (without you) and drink together? The weather? She's keeping that fire burning and hoping to win him back. If he decides he wants to start banging her again, you're toast. Just look at how quickly she dumped the guy she lost her virginity to! She will always and forever be an alpha widow. Find a reason to break up with or plate this girl unless you ok with being her second ch…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 02:13 PM
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I was thinking the same thing about the OP. It's BS to say that men don't cheat for the same reasons (i.e., for an upgrade or for variety). The difference is not so much that it's more cruel when women do it, but that when women cheat they lose attraction to their SO and withhold sex from them. For men, side sex often increases desire for the SO; for women, it all but eliminates it.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 03:47 PM
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I'm with you on this. Posts admitting to exceptions and saying things like, "enough women are like that" to justify the conclusion that AWALT seem to not really grasp that AWALT is an absolute based on unchanging, intrinsic female nature.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 11:27 PM
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Sorry to say, but you're not shattering any TRP truism in this discussion. Conor's girlfriend's loyalty is based on his alphaness. When/if that declines, so will the loyalty. For example, if he were to get his ass kicked in the cage, have a crisis of confidence, and then start showing prolonged physical, mental, and/or emotional weakness, then you could bet your house that she'd eventually start looking for the next stud to replace him. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 05:16 AM
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She found a loophole. You said she couldn't go out drinking with her old friend because you didn't know him. However, you didn't say she couldn't go out drinking with a guy you know. It's another shit test, pure and simple. She's trying to test whether your objection was based on weakness (fear & insecurity about her cheating) or principle (my wife doesn't go out drinking with other men when I'm not around). The next time you talk to her, congratulate her on finding a loophole, clarify your posi…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 01:24 AM
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Sure, many women in LTRs and marriages don't cheat simply because their hypergamy worked for them. They've obtained the most alpha male that was available to them and they know this. My point is that hypergamy is still in play even when they intuitively understand that the cost of cheating outweighs the benefit. It's not something they can shut off once they've hit the jackpot. If a man starts slipping on the alpha scale, then he ends up in a dead bedroom. If he slips some more, she'll eventuall…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 08:29 PM
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If she can do better, she will, regardless of whether your beta boy, RP bf, or Chad. There's no magic formula to prevent her from cheating.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 04:12 AM
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Excellent. Thanks for the tips.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 04:08 PM
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Well, you're right about that. I don't even know what a "macro" is in relation to diet. What I meant is that I don't eat junk food and I have a well-balanced diet. I'm 5'9", 165. Don't know my body fat %. My protein mostly comes from food (fish, chicken, the occasional steak) and a whey powder supplement I've been using (about 50g on workout days). As for my workout program, it's cardio, weights, abs. On the weights, I do 3-5 sets of 12-20 reps (until failure), mostly free weights, med to heavy …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:39 PM
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I've tried whey powder and creatine but I'm not seeing any major difference. I'll talk to my doc about my T-level, though, because I may have other symptoms (general fatigue, apathy). Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:28 PM
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30 minutes of cardio (making sure I vary my heart rate) and about 90 minutes of lifting (working different muscle groups each session that includes about 20 min of ab work each day I work out). You're right about intensity, though. Some days I'm just going through the motions. Maybe I just need to push myself harder in the gym.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:27 PM
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What would you expect her to say to your daughter, "Yes, sweetie, but I married your dad anyway"?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 08:55 PM
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Outcome independence. Flirt with her because that's what you want to do--not because you think it should lead to some new behaviors in her. Besides, some women just don't have it in them to be the teasing sex kittens we'd like. You're setting yourself up for endless frustration if you require demonstrations of her desire to be satisfied.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/15 01:34 AM
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I ignore attractive women since I'm off the market. She can get her validation stares from some other chump. If my wife's insecurities get the best of her and she makes a comment, I generally agree and amplify. For example: Wife: "Don't pretend you didn't see that hottie. You know you want her!" Me: "Yeah, but you saw her first. She's all yours."
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 05:41 AM
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The only think I can add to what's already been said here is to keep that shit to yourself. Whatever insecurities you're fighting need to remain your own internal battle. She should never get an inkling that you've even given 2 seconds thought to her previous lovers. That pussy is yours. Now go own it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 04:05 AM
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I can't argue with the personal benefits you cite. But as far as attracting females, not so much. I see plenty of extremely hot chicks with guys that are fit but far from heavily muscled.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 03:52 AM
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My wife got a nice pair of DDs and a tummy tuck last year and I have no regrets. She feels and looks sexy and I have no fear that it's a prelude to branch swinging because my shit is tight and always improving. And her new body confidence (along with my RP uptake) has recharged our sex life.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 05:17 AM
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Bravo! Excellent frame control with some subtle negging thrown in for good measure.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 01:35 AM
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Since RP theory works on all women, I also find it difficult not to put it into practice on all women. I definitely flirt a lot more these days, I tease women, and I have a DGAF attitude. However, I get my satisfaction from knowing that they want me rather than needing to close the deal (i.e., getting numbers, trying to escalate). Use your new powers wisely and play the long game.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/14 10:06 PM
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Actually, she didn't have a choice. I took them all.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 02:15 AM
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Tell her that a sexless marriage is not what you want and she has to see a doctor about the sexual pain/discomfort immediately.You signed up for monogamy, not celibacy. And this can't be an idle threat: Be ready to walk if she refuses to acknowledge and address the problem. She needs to know that doing nothing is a deal breaker for the relationship. Also, once the physical issue is fixed, never plead or "convince" her to have sex with you. Deploy redpill strategies and remain outcome independent…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/14 12:26 AM
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No. Even your mother/sister/auntie will think of you as less of a man if you give them a reason to. Male uncertainty and self-doubt provokes disdain in a woman.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:04 AM
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Sounds like she's looking for reasons not to have sex. You'll never be able to negotiate desire--either she has it or she doesn't. All you can do is work on you and be outcome independent. My advice is to keep doing what you're doing (raising your SMV, displaying alpha traits, instilling subtle dread) and her desire is bound to increase. And oh yeah, pound it like your going to prison when you do get it. She's got to know that ho hum sex is a thing of the past with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/14 02:37 AM
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I read most of the replies to OP and it's funny how so many guys miss the point or just want to believe in unicorns. OP is dead on target: Women don't want you to share your feelings and doing so lowers your SMV. Period. And some you guys are confusing "feelings" and "emotions." I believe OP is saying that it's perfectly fine for a man to show appropriate emotion (anger, frustration, sadness, joy, etc.) but discussing your feelings about your relationship, your career, your childhood--whatever--…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 01:38 AM
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For me, I guess it depends on the scenario. I'm not going to be made to look like a fool if my wife got overly flirty at a party and I'm definitely not going to pretend to be oblivious while some predatory male tries to move in on what's mine. In both cases, they would be checked immediately. However, if you're talking about that guy that stands next to his girl all night or is constantly checking her whereabouts out of fear or insecurity, then that's a definite beta tell to me.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 12:35 AM
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Lyin' Eyes - Eagles (AF/BB)
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 11:47 PM
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At the end of his post, the guy asks what should he do. I'd say 3 things to him: Own that shit You willingly allowed 2 other people to have sex with your wife (Sally and Harry). Your decision, your consequences. You have no one to blame but yourself. Accept that you fucked up, recover, and learn from it. Regain your alpha If you continue to sulk and pout about the trauma of seeing your wife enjoy sex with another man, the she will initially support you out of guilt for her actions or fear for th…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 03:13 AM
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I doubt you have to worry about her stepping out. It sounds like there's some subtle dread in play and she's trying to keep pace with the higher SMV you've attained by increasing your alpha traits. When I swallowed the pill and started getting super fit, my wife immediately responded (gym, yoga class 6 days a week). I think they instinctively know not to let their SMV fall too far below their man's or it puts them at risk.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/14 01:45 AM
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Agree. Sounds not so much like OP's power (or her lack thereof) but more like her bragsplaining to her friends. She most likely wanted them to hear the sex noises so they'd know that she gets--and is worthy of--awesome sex.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 06:42 PM
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I've been married 22 years w/four kids and only overcame my sexual frustration and resentment when I found red pill. I've come to understand that my resentment was really based in the belief that I'm owed a satisfying sex life as repayment for all I do for her. If that's your root cause, then blow up that belief. She doesn't "owe" you sex. You gotta make her want it. How? Improve your SMV, create some subtle dread, never show weakness, and hold frame whether you're getting some that week or not.…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/14 01:26 AM
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50, married 22 years (together 26), kids grown/moved out. I swallowed TRP in March of this year. I've been on the verge of blowing the whole thing up over my frustrations. Now that I've been a student of TRP, I think I'm better at recognizing and responding to her fitness tests, I'm more dominant in bed, and less concerned with her feelings and opinions of me. There are days when I regress, but I think I'm on the right track. I'm in the best shape of my life. I'm kicking ass at my job and I make…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/14 08:51 PM
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Thanks for this post. Just saw a segment on Chris Hayes's show where this site was specifically mentioned as part of a growing Men's Rights Movement that is fomenting hate for women and fueling the rages of murderous assholes like that Rodgers kid. I'm new to redpill but I think that the characterization of this site was simplistic and unfair. Your post is a good example of the breadth of views in this forum. This site may have some misogynists looking for validation but I find that it's more ab…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 12:26 AM
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Just trying to understand RP views on what's fundamentally changeable and unchanging in a man's psyche. So your view is that any man can change his very nature with time and effort, right?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 01:30 AM
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