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| 188 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custody | Marriage/Children | bnhncnyc | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 05:00 PM |
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| 1 | Weird inexplicable observation I have noticed between different types of men when it comes to their opinions on MRA, TRP, etc.Traditionally masculine men, jocks and MRAs in general usually mock, despise, belittle and sometimes even assault non-traditionally masculine men. It's paradoxal how such men can have empathy for fathers in court and incels, but not for those "soyboys/effettes". Usually only women show any empathy towards them. Why is it so? I'm not so sure... but it is like this. Such a shame. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/23 08:43 AM |
| 6 | What would you say are your main issues with feminism? Do you agree with any aspects of it?I agree that women can and should work. I disagree that they only should work when they fancy, and with what pleases them. I agree that women should vote, but not without obligatory conscription if such exists for men. If men are not conscripted, then I see no issue at all with both men and women voting. If men are conscripted, then women should be conscripted too imho. I agree that women should have access to safe abortion, but at the same time I disagree that unmarried moms should have automat… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/23 11:39 AM |
| 24 | Only male incels are shamedWomen are not shamed for anything at all nowadays. They have leeway to do literally anything they want, even commit murder, and get away with it completely. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/23 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed the double standards in how society loves/supports troubled moms but hates/punishes troubled dads???The best revenge is living on and thriving in spite of what they did to us 🫂 | /r/MensRights | 05/11/23 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed the double standards in how society loves/supports troubled moms but hates/punishes troubled dads???I know I won’t be taken seriously, I have no physical proofs and I’m a man, she was a mother… My reparation is minding my own life very far away from her, and not supporting her at all now that she’s old. | /r/MensRights | 05/11/23 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed the double standards in how society loves/supports troubled moms but hates/punishes troubled dads???She is not in jail, but I’m in no contact with her since the past 5 years and I doubt it’ll ever change. She started doing these things since I was as young as 4 or as early as I have memories. She would kiss me on the mouth everyday, rub her body against mine under the shower, touch me all around and whisper nasty stuff in my ears such as “when you grow up you’ll make a lot of success with women, I’ll have to keep an eye on you”. She would force me to shower with the door open even when I was a… | /r/MensRights | 05/11/23 10:36 AM |
| 11 | Have you noticed the double standards in how society loves/supports troubled moms but hates/punishes troubled dads???It’s true. I used to do just this. My mom raped me and beated me like a bag of trash the entire time I lived in her house. She abused me and HATED me, threatened to take my life and would verbally try to lead me to suicide. Still, in my early adulthood I would frame her as a misunderstood and DEPRESSED mom who was basically oppressed by patriarchy and had a divine right to my unconditional support. My dad, who is actually by adoptive dad, in the other hand, well… the only thing he did wrong was … | /r/MensRights | 04/11/23 12:47 PM |
| -1 | I'm never dating a woman again.They are not atttacted to men in dresses. They are attracted to feminine women and what they perceive as “sissies/femboys/trans/eunuchs. Through the lenses of their kink, this type of men are not men at all. And at the same time, they are very repulsed by butch muscular hairy women, which proves that their sexuality has nothing to do with an attraction to females but a fetish for femininity. Prep is a pill that makes u immune to contracting hiv. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/23 08:22 PM |
| 1 | I'm never dating a woman again.No, they are also bi in behaviour. They also are not limited to having sex with men at all. Haven’t you noticed yet? We are just social monkeys, we are bigger bonobos, that’s all. For our species sex is not only for reproduction, it’s primarily for group bonding and stress relief. It’s first a social activity, and secondarily a reproductive activity. Most sex humans have in their lives DO NOT lead to reproduction. Sex is not and never was only about reproduction, that’s a big misconception. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/23 06:57 PM |
| -5 | I'm never dating a woman again.All men are bisexual in behavior. No man is attracted to females specifically. So called “straight guys” are just guys with a fetish for femininity. These guys dig feminine men in secret (aka trans women) and they are not attracted at all to butch women. To be fair, most men when they are horny enough just want to get relief and are very little picky. This “gay, bi, straight” paradigm is liberal identitarianism. Men don’t function along these lines. The straight identity is much more about statu… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/23 06:52 PM |
| -1 | I'm never dating a woman again.You married out of ignorance, because it’s totally possible and actually preferable to have kids through coparenting with a friend. We don’t need to marry women at all to have kids. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/23 06:47 PM |
| 0 | I'm never dating a woman again.It’s not a concern at all if you focus on having sex with other men instead. Men are not limited to having sex only with women, you know? Not even close. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/23 06:45 PM |
| 2 | I'm never dating a woman again.We live in an era where paternity tests are cheap and accessible to anyone, and also very reliable. Regarding STDs, just take Prep, wear condoms as much as possible and get tested every 3 months. Diseases are no longer an excuse to get married with a woman and live monogamically. In today’s day and age there is not a single good reason to get married as a man anymore. Really, no good reason at all. People still get married only out of fear and ignorance. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/23 05:09 PM |
| 6 | I'm never dating a woman again.Men and women were never meant to live under marriage to begin with. Doesn't matter what men and women do, marriage will never work. It's not meant to be, it's an anti-human arrangement. Either the man, or the woman, or both suffer. We can go about life with friends and several different sex partners. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/23 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with feminists who don't hate men but are afraid to say itAs a father in your position, I would just not feed this topic. I would starve it. Your daughters didn't create it, they are just parroting it. Don't reward it, don't give it your attention. Give them attention when they talk about worthwhile topics instead. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/23 01:56 PM |
| 7 | Girlfriend pregnant and left while I was at work? Advice pleaseMan, there's practically nothing you can do... It hurts to say it, it's hard to believe at first, I know! It took me a long time to accept that this is reality, that this is the world we live in. We, fathers, are officially not considered important at all, we have no reproductive rights and no rights to our children. Women have a monopole on that. It's very unfair, both the kids and fathers are at the mercy of women. It is what it is. It would take a serious revolution to change the state of thi… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/23 10:12 AM |
| 9 | Girlfriend pregnant and left while I was at work? Advice pleaseMan, I'm in a very similar situation as you. Got a woman that I barely know pregnant, and she decided I wouldn't be a part of my baby's life since before the birth. I have been in a custody battle for almost 2 years already. I've burned already a lot of money, a lot of time, sacrificed so so many aspects of my life... and to this day, I wasn't even able to meet my daughter in person for the first time... all I have of her are pictures taken by other people. She is already 1,4 years old. I know t… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/23 10:06 AM |
| 12 | Study finds thinking masculinity is bad for your behavior is linked to worse mental wellbeing.I've seen feminists claiming that a healthy expression of masculinity is men accepting to be domesticated, become a provider and a soldier. The craziest part is that I see anti-feminist men saying the same thing... What feminists refer to when they talk about toxic masculinity is the natural, biological expression os masculinity: hypersexuality and a proclivity to seek adrenaline rushes. These behaviours don't benefit women, and that's why they call it toxic. But you working your whole life to g… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/23 09:52 AM |
| 4 | Study finds thinking masculinity is bad for your behavior is linked to worse mental wellbeing.However the men who say that they are masculine BECAUSE all they aspire to is to be a soldier and a provider are precisely the ones who are domesticated hahahah | /r/MensRights | 02/11/23 09:48 AM |
| 3 | Study finds thinking masculinity is bad for your behavior is linked to worse mental wellbeing.No! Biological masculinity is about constantly seeking adrenaline rushes and sex, not accepting to be domesticated and becoming a golem who works to give his money away and then die young to "protect" women. That version of masculinity is a female creation and there is nothing natural about it. It's pure culture, pure conditioning, and yes this is damaging to men. What feminists refer to when they say that masculinity is toxic is the ORGANIC expression of masculinity, which is completely useless… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/23 09:46 AM |
| 3 | Study finds thinking masculinity is bad for your behavior is linked to worse mental wellbeing.There are two types of masculinity out there, though: one that is ORGANIC, instinctive, authentic... and then there is one that is a mommy creation, a female projection of what ideal adult males should act and look like, and is framed exclusively after women's interests. The first one contains behaviour such as being intensely sexual in a non-monogamic (or even strictly straight) way, being drawn to adventure, seeking adrenaline and being playful and goofy. The second one is all about suppressin… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/23 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Why is masculinity so dependent on women.It works just as you described. It’s quite simple. There are also ppl who like only fem men and butch women. The point is that regardless of performance, deep down, we are all bisexual, we can have sex with individuals of both sexes given the right circumstances. Same sex behaviour is also instinctive for us and it serves the purpose of tightening bonds within group and promoting cooperation over competition, it’s monkey stuff. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Why is masculinity so dependent on women.There would still be tops, bottoms, versatiles and gouines. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Why is masculinity so dependent on women.Kinks are wirings. And it's never about femaleness, it's about femininity, a performance. So called str8 men typically don’t like butch women although they are still female, and most like so called trans women, even if in secret. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 02:35 PM |
| 0 | Why is masculinity so dependent on women.Of course you do, you avoid stigma and in some contexts even death. You don’t need to openly agree with me, I actually expect you not to. I understand, it’s fine. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 02:05 PM |
| -1 | Why is masculinity so dependent on women.I just plain don’t believe you. It’s easy to lie about these things. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 02:01 PM |
| -6 | Why is masculinity so dependent on women.No, no man is gay nor straight. All men are bisexual. What differentiates us is if we have a fetish for femininity or not. So called “straight men” are men with a fetish for femininity, meaning they dig feminine women and men, and they don’t dig masculine women and men. Actually most men don’t care about femininity, they can duck you with or without it, while some are actually repulsed by it but will gladly dig a “trans man” aka masculine woman. That’s it. Deep down we are all bi in sexual behav… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 11:48 AM |
| 2 | I think the majority of men are unattractive in large part because of their high bodyfat %Same applies to women. Plus their makeup. Makeup always make women way less attractive than they could be. If you add fat on top of that… RIP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Why is masculinity so dependent on women.Our instinct to protect and share resources cooperatively has nothing to do with us offering provision and protection to one single woman within a marriage. It has nothing to do with a man sacrificing himself, his freedom and joy of life, for a woman. Men are capable of protecting and sharing resources with anyone, including other men. Also women are also capable of protecting and providing, which they do all the time. However the figure of the “masculine man”, a guy trained to be a soldier and … | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Why is masculinity so dependent on women.Anyone can be feminine, not only women. There are millions of extremely feminine men out there. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 08:12 AM |
| 5 | Why is masculinity so dependent on women.No, alpha males exist spontaneously even in male-only spaces. Go to a gay sauna and you’ll spot the alpha males very easily. Women do not define who is the alpha at all. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Why is masculinity so dependent on women.Andrew Tate isn’t even straight, he’s bi. He said openly that he prefers a feminine man over a masculine old woman. He is attracted to femininity, not females. He actually likes men too. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 08:11 AM |
| 6 | Why is masculinity so dependent on women.Our mothers define for us what masculinity should be: embodying all the traits and skills that benefit women. That is, becoming something useful for them, a man who protects and provides. But this does not come to men naturally. Men are not naturally women’s servants. Instinctively, men like to play, explore and have sex with as many people as possible, but none of these characteristics are useful for women. So our mothers punishes them and slowly but surely indoctrinate us into believe that a “… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 08:09 AM |
| -3 | Why is masculinity so dependent on women.Men don’t need women for sex, we can perfectly well have sex with other men. With other men, sex is even more fulfilling than with women. We only need them for reproduction, and that only until the artificial womb is perfected (it already exists!). | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 08:02 AM |
| 5 | Why is masculinity so dependent on women.It is not, it’s just an illusion. Have you ever seen “gay men”? Men only need women for reproduction, and literally nothing else. There are millions of men out there who barely remember women exist on a daily basis. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Why is it not possible for a man to be a loving housewife? Because women.It is already the case. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/23 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Why is it not possible for a man to be a loving housewife? Because women.Love has absolutely nothing to do with any of this. Everything pertaining to gender dynamics is exclusively about survival/reproductive strategies, nothing more. Love is something else. We don’t love women better by co-living with them. I’m convinced we love them and ourselves better by not co-living and not getting involved with each other romantically but still cooperating in other ways. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/23 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Why is it not possible for a man to be a loving housewife? Because women.No, men don’t need women to cook for them and “organise” their stuff. We are objectively better off not co-living with women. Men are meant to live with other men and occasionally with their children. But not with adult women. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/23 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Why is it not possible for a man to be a loving housewife? Because women.We men will perfect the artificial womb, and then it’ll be easy to raise a male-only society from our side as well. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/23 06:58 PM |
| -40 | More Male Bashing: 27 Women On What Men Need To Know About Raising DaughtersI disagree. It’s far harder and worse with two adults of opposite sex cohabiting. Mothers and fathers should not share the same roof, everyone loses in that arrangement. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/23 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Heterophobia? (Fear of straight men)Most gay guys absolutely put their female friends on a pedestal, far more than most straight guys. LOL. Like... What? Have you really never observed this? They literaly SERVE their female friends. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/23 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Heterophobia? (Fear of straight men)I don't buy it that fear is all there is behind this behaviour. It is one component, but there's also a layer to it where what happens is actually that the vast majority of them simply stopping seeing you as a serious potential sexual or romantic partner once you make such a disclosure, you quit being a "real man" and become like "another girl" in their eyes and therefore go straight into the friendzone. They don't need to play games and try to be manipulative around you, they don't need to even… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/23 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Paternity Tests, why is it so taboo?It should be mandatory straight after every single birth and women's opinions/feelings about this should be systematically disregarded. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/23 12:41 PM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyThank you, man! I'm hoping for that too (Y) | /r/MensRights | 10/12/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyFor the moment I only have my "parenthood" recognized by DNA test, and therefore only the mother has custody of our daughter. From the moment your "parenthood" is recognized, you owe the other parent child support regardless if you have custody or not. But yes, since I have my parenthood recognized, I can also apply for shared custody. The issue is that this process takes many months and maybe up to a year and a half and meanwhile I'll be paying child support... Such is the law here in Sweden. O… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/22 10:30 AM |
| 3 | Feminism ruined my relationshipBefore dating a girl, always double check if she's a feminist. If she is one, then just ditch her. Her loss, not yours. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyI'm counting heavily on that! At least shared custody I know I will have for sure. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodySo you recommend me to be as selfish as a woman and just abandon this baby that is my legitimate daughter? | /r/MensRights | 27/11/22 12:02 PM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyAs someone who grew without my biological dad, I can't understand you. I have it crystal clear in my mind that regardless of how shitty my biodad might be irl, not having him in my life is a huge, huge dark hole. We inherit a LOAD of things from out genetic parents, not just physical appearance. I know by a matter of fact that a huge deal of who I am is thanks to my dad, even if I've never even seen his face. But I can understand that people who had bad experiences with their biological family m… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyShe is indeed right now entitled to 18 months of parental leave + about 125 euros per month for the next 16 years. If she had gone through with her plan and had 3 babies, it would have been more than 3 years in parental leave + 375 euros per month for the next 16 years. But as soon as I get my shared custody I'll make sure to take my half of those leaves as well. I refuse to let her win. I've lived, worked and payed taxes here for 5+ years and I'm also an EU citizen so I'm also eligible to all t… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyShe did it like this because she would not have passed the screening at a licensed clinic. In these clinics not only they check your and your partner's financial/housing situation but also both's mental health state... | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyThank for for these words (y) | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyI have 0 understanding to the apparent lack of attachment some very few people claim to have towards it. Deep down I don't believe it, I think people like you are just suppressing it for some reason. It's a very deeply rooted instinct. Also it's not just blood. Our lives are interwined in such a deep way. Every single action, every single thought I've had culminated in her life. We are central pieces in the puzzles of each other's lives. It's much more than blood, it's a spiritual thing (for me … | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyThank you (Y) | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 01:43 PM |
| 3 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyI could never do that, I would spend the rest of my life remembering my baby's little eyes and imagining what a shitty life I abandoned her in out of my own stupidity. I would feel like a dirty heartless coward. I could never... I'm ready to sacrifice for her. If I get full custody I plan on moving to Portugal with her and leaving Sweden behind us for ever. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 11:35 AM |
| 2 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyI know... I do feel like a moron. I've felt a lot of rage towards them but ultimately I don't like feeling like a victim and prefer to take the responsibility of whatever sh*t happens to me onto me, which is why I'm left feeling like a moron just as you said. This is also precisely why I feel I deserve now to burn all my money with lawyers and throw all my future plans through the window in order to be there for my daughter. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyI still haven't even been able to see my daughter in real life. I', registered as her parent, she has me on her birth certificate, I owe her mom child support but I still have no custody, I have to take it to court to get it and that's what I'm doing right now. According to my lawyer it's 99% probably I'll get at least shared custody, but it can take anywhere from 4 months to over a year to happen depending on how much the mom will cooperate... | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 11:32 AM |
| 3 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyMaybe... :( | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 11:30 AM |
| 3 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyI do, absolutely... I 100% plan on doing that ASAP. And it will have to be with a male therapist necessarily. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 11:30 AM |
| 2 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyHowever the paper they made me sign has absolutely no legal value, it was a fraud and they didn't even leave me a copy of it... Also it's stated explicitly in the Swedish Law that "inseminations" are only to be conducted within a license public clinic. If it was done at home, then legally is counts as if I had just fucked the mom raw. There's nothing that proves I didn't apart from our words. Thanks for the encouraging words, man. This baby is my daughter and I have it set in stone in my heart, … | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyThis is what I'm trying to do now: get what's best for myself and for my daughter, that is, get my share or full custody and put a permanent stop in all this couple's plans. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 11:25 AM |
| 2 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyGood point, and I actually do feel like that. Thanks! | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyI actually even if I could, I just don't want to abandon my legitimate child with them now that I know what kind of people they are. If they had tried to get an insemination through a licensed clinic, they would never have passed the screening (financial, psychological and so on). They are not fit to be parents and they know it. I know it. And I have the legal power to do something about it. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyI agree with you, shared custody would be ideal. I am anyways ideologically all for co-parenting. But not only did the mother do all this on purpose, knowing exactly what she was doing, therefore proving what an irresponsible, dishonest and consequentially DANGEROUS kind of person she is, but she has also stated with clear words and in text form that she "doesn't want, never wanted nor ever will want to have any contact with me". Doesn't feel like she is up to ever cooperating with me. She wants… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 11:21 AM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyI don't prefer solo custody, but if the mother refuses to cooperate with me it's the only option. I kinda feel it's what they deserve in the end, too, to leave me and my baby in peace and pay child support to me for the next 18 years. Feels right karmically speaking. Also I want to protect my poor baby from a life as a hostage of two ruthless, irresponsible, apathetic and dishonest adults and from a fatherless life. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 11:18 AM |
| 2 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyIt was indeed something closer to 2 weeks than one week, and the DNA test was done by the government agency, I got the results and signed her birth certificate two weeks ago... I have a copy of it at home, she is indeed my daughter. Also I've seen pictures of her and she actually looks a lot like me. Me and her mother are of different ethnicities so it's quite obvious which traits came from each parent. She is basically a mini-me with her mom's eyes... | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custody:'( | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 10:45 PM |
| 3 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyI see your point. To be honest, it was not only their financial situation that made me make this decision, but also their dishonesty. They acted in bad faith and put me in a very disadvantageous position without even caring to inform me. They knew what they were doing. They filed for the paternity recognition without even informing me as well. It felt to me as if I was barely a human to them, but rather just a means to an end. I didn't like that. It made me come to the conclusion that it's prett… | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 09:48 PM |
| 11 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyI know. I have a lot of responsibility in it, agreed. I had no idea what I was doing, it all felt very abstract and distant in my head before it really happened. This is why I decided to take it fully and assume my baby instead of just leaving it as it is and moving on with my life. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 09:34 PM |
| 3 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyThe top reason for me to break our agreement and decide to file for paternity was that I realized these are actually two very irresponsible, dishonest and apathetic human beings and I could never have peace again, what's less go ahead and have more babies with a co-parent as I had first planned, knowing I had cowardly abandoned this poor baby with them. And also knowing that at any moment down the line they could just show up asking me for child support. I'd rather not have any other baby and ju… | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 08:58 PM |
| 14 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyThat's my motto now and the top reason as to why I decided to share my story. I beg to other men: don't be sperm donors! | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 08:51 PM |
| 3 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyThank you for the support (y) | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 08:48 PM |
| 4 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyYou got it right... That's indeed a very good way to sum it up. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 08:48 PM |
| 15 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyI really didn't know that... But I'm determined to get full custody of my baby and getting them to pay child support to me. I'm ready to fight until the last consequences. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 08:47 PM |
| 11 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyAs stupid as it may sound, I just assumed swedes and particularly swedish women were extremely law abiding and progressive and that I had no reason to suspect that what we were doing wasn't legal and very well thought through... | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 08:46 PM |
| 14 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyYou have no empathy for me or for this baby. You are clearly a feminist. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 06:35 PM |
| 16 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyYou're a feminist, aren't you? I'm sorry to tell you but I will guaranteed get AT LEAST shared custody... and if the mother doesn't cooperate with me, I will get full custody and she will have to pay child support to me. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 06:25 PM |
| 3 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyI'm accepting this because I feel responsible for having given life to this baby and putting it in this situation. Indeed I should have thought harder and double checked everything before just trusting them, but I didn't, I acted impulsively and played along with them. Therefore I'm ready to sacrifice myself for my daughter. What else could I do at this point? My lawyer said that we should at first work towards an agreement and cooperation between me and the mother and that I shouldn't sue her f… | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 06:18 PM |
| 16 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyAs for the law, the baby is mine. Also two women cannot have babies anyways. All babies have a father and a mother, not two mothers. The paper they made me sign has no legal binding, it was a fraud. At any moment for the next 18 years they could chase me for child support. They should have done it through a licensed clinic, however to be admitted at such clinics you need to at least be legal in the country and have a job... which they didn't. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 06:14 PM |
| 26 | I regretted being an informal sperm donor and I'm now filing for custodyI'm not. They lied to me and used me. If I had known about their real financial and legal situation and about all the risks I had by helping them out, I would never have agreed with it. Also they registered the baby ilegally and they avoided going to a licensed clinic in the first place because they would have never passed the screening process. It would be very easy for me to just forget about this baby and abandon it with these crazy and irresponsible women. I'm proud of my decision. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 05:27 PM |
| 2 | The bottom line with bottoms/submissives (femininity & promiscuity): stick your responses in hereThe whole point with men expecting women to have a low body count is because that it an indirect proof of her capacity to give him LEGITIMATE HEIRS. Men are only afraid of raising kids that aren't theirs, they don't really care about what their female partner do sexually given that past a couple of months all of them will inevitable get fed up of her sexually and will crave sex with other people. With paternity tests, this is a non-issue nowadays. When it comes to same-sex relationships, this ha… | /r/altTRP | 24/11/22 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Doubts about being bisexualAlso just observe how repulsed so called gay men are of effeminate men. They don't really like that. And the ones who do actually also like feminine women. It is what it is. But saying that kinda throws the whole "trans" paradigm through the window, which is not a problem to me at all hehe. | /r/altTRP | 24/11/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Doubts about being bisexualIt is the truth. They are the ones who fuck trannies too, or so called "trans women". They also reject masculine butch women. These men don't like men or women specifically, but the performance of femininity. "Straight men" are a myth. So are "gay men"... We are all "bi" in behavior. | /r/altTRP | 24/11/22 02:28 PM |
| 2 | The Purpose of FaggotsTo me bottoming has a lot to do with giving men something men really want all the time and value a lot (a warm hole to fuck) and that women like to believe only they can offer. I feel like sabotaging women's general mating strategy with it, like a sweet sweet revenge. Once a guy discovers how much pleasure another man can give him, he'll never overvalue women the same way again hehe. It also feels like a very clever way to get to stack another man's provision and protection on top of mine, addin… | /r/altTRP | 23/11/22 07:14 PM |
| 2 | How has red pill influenced your life as a gay man?My take of it is that all men are bisexual, and what turns men on is either masculinity, femininty of both. So called "straight guys" don't feel attracted to masculine women or "ftms", but they like trannies in secret (feminine men). So called "gay guys" don't like feminine men, but they more often than not might like ftms (masculine women). It alwaus boils down to performance of masculinity or femininity to us, not sex per se. So we are all just technically bi. I don't believe in heterosexualit… | /r/altTRP | 23/11/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Doubts about being bisexualAll men are bi. The difference between men is whether they like MASCULINITY, FEMININITY or both. All men who say are "straight" actually like feminiinty, like you. They get turned on both my feminine women and feminine men. They don't like masculine women. Conversely, so called "gay guys" are turned on by masculinity. They don't like feminine men, and they more often than not like ftms. So as you can see, in the end of the day, we are all bi... | /r/altTRP | 23/11/22 06:58 PM |
| 3 | What is the "gay" red pill?Men are neither straight nor gay. Men are attracted either to femininity, masculinity or both. So called "straight men" feel attracted to feminine men and don't feel attracted to masculine women. Male same-sex attraction is a trait that evolved to promote cooperation among males, and for most of human history men spent most of their time among other males hunting, exploring the world, working and so on, not among females. Male x female relationships and sexual encounters have traditionally been … | /r/altTRP | 22/11/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Your opinions on artificial insemination for single women?Fathers are irreplaceable and women who are willing to deliberately deprive children from their fathers, for whatever reason it is, are psychopaths who should by no means be allowed near any child. Women who express such tendencies/desires should be sterilized by the State in my honest opinion. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/22 03:39 PM |
| -1 | What are your thoughts around this? ‘Jordan Peterson sparks outrage after declaring plus-size model 'not beautiful'’Thing is women don't pick partners so much based on looks, but rather income and status. So ugly fat men still get laid if they have these other assets. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/22 03:20 PM |
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