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You are still DEERING... By the way... I’m having expectations that are too high because this is acceptable behaviour from a high value woman. There is no such thing as a "high-value woman", this is sidebar 101 stuff. Women respond to their hypergamoust best option - period. Are you the prize? It honestly doesn't sound like it... Also, no stats on you or any of the sidebar that you have worked on.
/r/askMRP16/11/21 01:31 AM
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All of your decision-making is coming from an emotional state. The others are bang on, you don't have frame. Guys here are calling you out on your shit and all you can do is DEER. You decided to promote this woman to a relationship, yet you either never made boundaries or let her earn a place in your life. Let me put it to you this way, my SO wouldn't be in my life if she was acting the way your "girl" is acting, she would be a permanent plate. Go lift and read the sidebar, you lazy fatty.
/r/askMRP15/11/21 11:33 PM
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You sound like a fucking retard. How old are you? 20? 25? I ask this because you sound like a fucking child. Big surprise, an insecure man child who has no idea what he's doing when it comes to dating & relationships has boundary problems with his "GF". Newsflash, you ain't in a relationship, you have what's called as a 'plate'. By the way, hit the sidebar and start lifting weights to fix your weak physical and mental frame.
/r/askMRP15/11/21 10:08 PM
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I have read all of these books, can you point me towards any of them that specifically even discuss postpartum? Really? I doubt it... If you read MMSLP, you would already have your answer... No spoonfeeding here, retard.
/r/askMRP14/11/21 11:02 PM
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Based on your post history, you just hit up random subs and ask for advice without engaging or doing any work on your end. Nevertheless, you deserve to be shit on here... You are looking for quick fixes around the current situation involving your life; what the fuck is 'rp lifestyle' - autistic much?! This is MRP, not TRP. MRP is about YOU, not your wife. You haven't mentioned any books that you have read, no info from the sidebar you have read through, or any stats around what you look like (li…
/r/askMRP14/11/21 10:56 PM
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Your entire post and post history proves the following: You have lots of work to do around internalizing the sidebar. You still don't understand the difference between shit tests, comfort tests, and plain disrespect. You don't have frame. Half your post is a covert contract. You are in your head way too much. Sit down, shut up, breathe, and get back to the basics.
/r/askMRP23/10/21 04:09 AM
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I can literally hear the whining. Exactly my thought. Half the post was a whine-fest, while the other half was a covert contract.
/r/askMRP23/10/21 04:05 AM
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This is a quality comment that will be saved.
/r/askMRP30/09/21 04:50 AM
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This is a quality post. I would like to add that it does not just include if you are getting divorced from your wife (w/wo kids), this also includes breaking up with a live-in LTR in a state/area that has common law. When I originally came to MRP over three or so years back, I was in that exact situation. Once I pulled my head out of my ass and was owning my shit, which followed to me wanting to break up with my ex and move on with my life, the advice I was given was to consult a lawyer. Honestl…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 04:44 AM
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You are flat-out unattractive. STFU, lift heavy, and sidebar.
/r/askMRP29/09/21 11:09 PM
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I get really confused at you young guys in college/university that read TRP material all day long but fail to implement anything you learn into your actual life. What the fuck do you want us to do? The fact you don't even understand kino and escalation is baffling as it's literally 101 stuff. Set up a time to see her again and escalate from the very beginning and go for sex. You are twenty years old and need some experince. Make sure you are in control of the birth (wear your own condoms). Other…
/r/askMRP26/09/21 06:19 PM
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You don't even explain the details of "leadership" you are looking for, other than the fact you want your wife to follow your lead. If you are mentally unattractive and weak-minded, no one is following your lead. Period.
/r/askMRP25/09/21 11:57 PM
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I agree with the other commenters here, your post stinks of misinformation that doesn't add up. I'm tired of the BS posts around "Leadership" - fuck off. If you aren't happy with what's going on in your marriage, then fix yourself first. Also, where are your lifting stats? No mention of your personal details. If you aren't even lifting, then fuck everything else you are asking.
/r/askMRP25/09/21 10:16 PM
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Okay, okay, we get it! You are a fat fuck that doesn't lift.
/r/askMRP21/09/21 11:35 PM
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My wife is early fifties and fit, good looking and a trim figure. Her friend is early sixties, was fit once but not now. I don’t know if her friend is in a relationship or not, she is a bit shady about it, which is obvs a concern. Are you expecting a GILF orgy or something in the Caribbean and you are jealous you can't attend? Fuck man, give me a break. I agree with the others that you should let your wife go. If she fucks a guy that's hotter and better than you in every way, you just serve divo…
/r/askMRP21/09/21 05:40 PM
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Final victim puke. If I'm not mistaken, you have made two previous victim posts in the past. My question for you based on all of the advice you have gotten in those posts and OYS is what are you planning on doing? You are angry, yeah, we fucking get it. But, what are you working on for yourself? Working on that sidebar? Your lifts? Developing your frame? Forget your wife... Stop sitting around and being angry at everything and everyone; especially, your woman. Start getting to work.
/r/askMRP20/09/21 03:17 AM
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Break up with her and stop being a fucking pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/21 07:56 AM
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No idea why you broke up on and off with your girlfriend to only get back with her again... Your post is a Rule 9 by the way.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 08:48 PM
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Long story short, for years the wife has taken her rings off and moved into our sons room as response to me in most arguments. Wait a minute... You don't argue with a woman - EVER! WTF? You should know this based on your post history. Two years later, after a lot of work on myself and working hard to reassert that boundary she hasn’t done it for the past year and a half…until the other day. Okay.... Here’s the catch, our Anniversary is in 5 days and I have already paid and planned for an out of …
/r/askMRP11/09/21 10:00 PM
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Give us some more info on you; rather, then just writing three sentences. How much sidebar material have you worked through? Lifts? You get what you give out.
/r/askMRP08/09/21 11:22 PM
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I can't agree with you at all... MRP is not a safe space for men to cry into each other's arms. This space is made for men that want to fix their shitty lives, but in order to do so, they have to do the work. I came to MRP over four years back and was told something along the lines like this; "STFU, sidebar, and lift heavy. Once you get the basics down and have done some work, you can then ask a question on your journey" - overall scope. If you don't like it? Cool. Leave. For me? Once I started …
/r/askMRP07/09/21 06:42 AM
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Lots of bullshit here... I’ve been in this relationship for around 8 months. Plate. I am 23 Plate. I am 6ft 5, with a muscular build and have strong investments and a side business. Stats? In this current romantic relationship Fucking retarded label... Hit the sidebar. She is kind to others, emotionally intelligent, supports my vision, and is open to do whatever I tell her to within reason. Yeah, eight months is jack shit. How about you let her hang around for a year or two before making these s…
/r/askMRP31/08/21 10:04 PM
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I've been with my LTR for just under a year and it's become apparent that she has fallen out of the "honeymoon phase". Hahahahaha! You are not in an LTR! How much of the sidebar have you gone through? She's just not as into me as she once was. Because you are dating this girl (AKA - plate) and she has other options that she is checking out. You might think you are in a relationship, but anything under a year is absolutely nothing. My current SO was a plate for almost two years before promoting h…
/r/askMRP23/08/21 06:51 PM
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Thoughts? Yeah, hit the sidebar.
/r/askMRP23/08/21 01:26 AM
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First off, stay the fuck away from /r/deadbedrooms. That sub is toxic as fuck full of whiny bitches. It's literally an Incel sub for those in relationships and marriages. Plus, your posts and comments there are cringy as fuck. Second off, lifting heavy is a requirement, not a suggestion. Too many dumb fucks like you seem to want to skip the first few steps: STFU, lift heavy, and sidebar. If you can't even bother to put in the work on these three steps, you may is well fuck off. Lastly, MRP is ab…
/r/askMRP23/08/21 01:26 AM
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It sounds like you are worried or looking for permission to lead your wife with direction. As the others have mentioned, don't hesitate on asking her to do something for you and helping her with those requests as she will become an asset for you moving forward. Your wife should be a value add to your life and assist you as your first officer. If she is willing to follow your lead, she will be able to take leadership tweaks and suggestions from you.
/r/askMRP19/08/21 03:23 AM
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Long story short, your "girlfriend" (on your side by the way) wants to have fun, enjoy her life, and get fucked by more hot, attractive men compared to you. Honestly? You sound like a troll. How retarded are you? Marriage talks? Three-month relationship? Kids? Give me a fucking break... You don't have a relationship, you have a plate, marine.
/r/askMRP18/08/21 03:24 AM
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Everything you need is located on the sidebar. If you haven't internalized NMMNG, then you need to go through and start internalizing the concepts. Afterward, you actually have to act and practice these concepts while dealing with everything in your day-to-day life.
/r/askMRP17/08/21 03:27 AM
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This sub is for men only; therefore, you will probably be banned for this post.
/r/askMRP17/08/21 03:23 AM
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The fact you keep coming here to change your comments in hopes that people will respond to you is just sad. HOA was bang on about your dense, fucked up ego getting in the way of the actual work. STFU, sidebar, and lift heavy, fatty.
/r/askMRP17/08/21 03:23 AM
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This might be one of the most autistic posts I have read on this sub in quite a long time... What I have been finding through two years of widows “research” is that this is an underappreciated dating pool. Autism dialed up x 10000. Maybe some guys will give widows a try instead of going MGTOW? Wrong sub, asshole. This is MRP, not MGTOW, not TRP, not incel, not any of those subs - MRP. By the way, no mention of your stats (height, weight, bf%, lifts) and what material you have read on the sidebar…
/r/askMRP10/08/21 09:10 PM
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