bobbiedot Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	R/GenderCritical is gone ...? I've been there all of an hour and it's been great so far. A lot of people being able to freely talk about this, just venting and trying to reorganize.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/20 06:45 PM
9	R/GenderCritical is gone ...? A lot of GC members have migrated to spinster.xyz	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/20 06:34 PM
15	Share your CRAZIEST "hoover" / re-contact attempts? Had TWO exes try through fake "I'm a friend of theirs" profiles. But the second one, OH BOY. So I dated this woman who was a piece of work. Outright physically abused me, lovebombing that I fell for, sob stories about her roommate being an ultra-violent addict and her best friend kicking her to the curb after she moved in with them to be away from the supposed addict, the works. So during the relationship, she shows me this fake profile she uses for creeping on people who've blocked her on her m…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/20 06:52 AM
13	LETS 👏 TALK 👏ABOUT👏THIS👏 Oldest of two, so not too bad BUT I'm the one who is taking care of my grandfather when my mother's not home. And cooking.... and doing dishes....... It's just easier for me to do all of it than to fix something when my brother fucks up or purposely does a shit job. I still live at home specifications to take care of my grandfather. If he weren't a variable, I would bounce no questions asked. Can't stand my brother.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/20 04:34 PM
14	FDS inside jokes 🤡 This is where the shallot thing came from! The audacity of this mf scrote was ridiculous and we all were SCREAMING	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/20 04:18 PM
15	For those who’s past ways bring them feelings of shame: ❤️ Saved. Need to remember this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/20 05:32 PM
12	What broke you and how did you pick yourself up? How did you heal? Tell me more about your pain and struggles - and how you combat them to make a happy life for yourself, day by day. My last LVM broke me when he broke up with me over text, telling me he "hoped I would find someone who truly appreciated me." He'd used me for sex, always made me travel to him (we lived on opposite sides of a massive city), and didn't care enough to keep me from walking alone in a seedy area near where he lived at night. Super LV, I was a super Pickmeisha. I was torn up when he left me--I had become so attached to him in the four months we dated. But that little line "I hope you find someone wh…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/20 02:55 PM
1	do you wear make-up everyday? Nope. I can't stand the way makeup feels on my face. Had to wear it in middle and high school for choir and dance performances, had to wear it a few times in beauty school, never got used to it. The most I do is lip balm and maybe, on the rare occasion, mascara.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/20 05:22 AM
3	He's not broke. He just doesn't want to spend on you. I plan on it!! Just finished up new hire paperwork for a job that at the end of the day will pay double what I made in retail, even during the holidays.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/06/20 06:45 PM
9	He's not broke. He just doesn't want to spend on you. I dated a guy last year who was a full-time web developer and I had to twist his arm to get him to pay for anything. I was a part timer in retail and it was a struggle sometimes to afford to make the trip to see him and then also buy myself food when we went out. This was among a lot of other things that made him quite LV but seriously. A web developer who can't be bothered to pay for his girlfriend's meal after she made the trip across the city to see him. I'm so glad I'm out of that pickme lif…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/06/20 02:51 PM
111	You've got to be kidding me. This is just unacceptable. And he's absolutely pathetic trying to defend himself in the comments. "Oh it's not abuse" "Reddit's not social media" "she won't leave me because I'm rich" "I'm not breaking up with her" "that's not abuse you don't know what abuse is" Disgusting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 06:19 PM
75	After he revealed he isn't actually a welder, he's saving for school. I feel like I'm being interrogated 🙄 because you are. For a good reason, apparently.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/05/20 01:16 PM
39	What’s the thing about FDS that you struggle the most with ? I struggle with the aspect of dating/vetting multiple people and keeping my options open until someone definitively HV offers permanent commitment. I latch(ed) onto one person at a time and committed to them regardless of how they felt about me. Got me all LV and NV partners.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/20 02:09 AM
15	Need help getting over something...or someone? Say this to yourself. THANK YOU FOR POSTING THIS. 💖 I survived an extremely emotionally abusive grandmother and three abusive relationships. I accomplished graduating from high school, leaving an awful job, spending 9 months straight single, and minimizing contact with my abusive brother, despite having ADHD, PTSD and depression issues for over a decade and having a shaky-at-best sense of self-worth. If you think some overgrown little boy who couldn't put in any effort will bring me down, you got me fucked up. I'm al…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/20 10:59 PM
53	Demand respect Rosemarie from the show 90 Day Fiance. She came from a background of poverty. She was engaged to this American guy named Ed and he treated her terribly. One day she finally sat him down and calmly told him, "You treat me badly and I will not take that from you." He stormed off and she calmly packed up and left him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/05/20 11:22 PM
1	Why SHOULDN’T we kink shame? When did we all decide people’s sexual preferences were separate from their actual values? The scream of horror gets me EVERY TIME 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/05/20 10:12 PM