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Thanks for your reply. I noticed yesterday, that it's (I think) an ego going bonkers. I've been lifting for a long time, it's something I do weekly. Dropped out for a bit from another hobby as I have to take care of an investment (lots of refurb going) hence this. I think it's just my ego tripping.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:55 AM
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Just find a girl you like, combine passion and physical. Simple and effective.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 08:45 PM
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Fair play mate, now focus on your bad hip as that's the priority, innit! ;)
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 05:52 PM
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Battling with myself all day today around it...
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:30 PM
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We’re getting there. I escalate and pressure, she knows it’s just a beginning and is slowly getting more relaxed and comfortable, so you’re definitely right. On the other hand, how do I teach her how to express herself sexually? I think it’s with experience rather than anything?
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:18 PM
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I wouldn’t jump to conclusions like that, as giving up on the pleasures of life after bad experiences is just dumb. I definitely lucked out with this one haha, thanks!
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:16 PM
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Thank you, this was a great food for thought. I definitely agree with the fact that it won’t be right of the gate, as it was a case with plates.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:15 PM
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She’s not a virgin. Had few (count them on one hand) sexual encounters that were not pleasurable. As far as Tomassi’s rules go, I do agree falling in the girls frame with waiting for sex, but I think there’s a point missed of applying escalation as a part of the game which automatically kind-of makes you wait for it as it may take few dates to get what you want. How is she suppose to express genuine desire for sex when she haven’t experienced good sex? I can’t express desire to playing guitar if…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:13 PM
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None of the above, she just haven’t had a lot of partners, and they were inexperienced as well.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:08 PM
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I’m just a bit cautious that she’s not sexual, had this idea of making a sexual monster out of her.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:07 PM
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She’s not a virgin but haven’t had a lot of sex.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:06 PM
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I’m 24, she’s 21.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:05 PM
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I found the /u/FieldLine answer in another topic which answered my question, as I'm used to "score" a lot faster: You should have stopped, looked her in the eye and simply told her that you wouldn't do anything she wasn't absolutely comfortable with. Then proceed to slowly (!) escalate as she gets more into it. Might take a little longer than you're used to, but it's usually like that with girls who have less experience.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 04:42 PM
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Lift. Chill the fuck out.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:37 AM
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question: How do you make sure she has something to lose?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 08:13 PM
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It’s as hard as you make it. Who are you? Who am I? What does that mean? This is just some cliché thrown around. The truth is, you probably have no idea of where are you headed and it’s okay. Start with basic things that work for you and build on it. Life itself has no meaning. We exist, we procreate to pass the knowledge and die. Nothing has more meaning that value of things that we associate ourselves with. Good luck bud.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:18 PM
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She is not the source of any single problem that you are facing. Work on problems and stop inventing them in your mind. I will be homeless in the next month I have no car. My credit is hopelessly low I'm feeling suicidal. This has nothing to do with AWALT or hypergamy. TRP does not preach being single at any cost. It's about knowing your self, your own value and embracing the lifestyle that you want to have by working towards it every damn day. You are a captain and if she follows - keep her. Re…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 12:20 PM
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Keep in mind, that in order to stop thinking about the "pink elephant" you need to think about turtles. You thinking about "not thinking" about pink elephant will make no difference what so ever. I unblocked her just to see it. Why. Just WHY. What's been done, is done. Focus on yourself by starting small again, baby steps. Buy yourself a big wall calendar and work on not breaking the chain of "days without social media". Tick the days off. That pit in the stomach got worse and worse. I literally…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:46 AM
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Just let it be and observe. He may be not interested, for sake of rule don’t shit where you it.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 04:30 PM
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Does that mean you should go to let's say cut throat business field (ie. IT Recruitment etc) just to get into the very uncomfortable environment? I ask, as I could make similar transition that doesn't pay a lot more atm but in 2 years would make decent comission (uncapped OTE). But would that be considered as a growth or naive decision?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 09:33 AM
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Why is it deleted, really good content!
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 09:04 PM
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Please make a post on this!
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 08:57 PM
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With the mindset of "let's fail and see what happens" I give myself space for failure. With "I must" you lock yourself out with often unrealistic expectations. There is no perfect opportunity. There is just experience and opportunity.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:56 PM
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I changed my mindset from "I must succeed to "let's fail every time and see what happens". Game changer.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 10:00 AM
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She will spin the hamster quick. You should be in a position where you know deep down you have nothing to lose. If she leaves, it's a new doors that just opened. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/
/r/askTRP04/05/18 09:46 AM
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If she is a LTR material (red flags etc) then go for it. If she is not a LTR material, tell her that it's over and move on. Side note: TRP is not about NOT having a relationship, but this mentality seems to be a plague these days.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 10:28 AM
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However weird it's going to sound... do you meditate? It's a tool used to be more mindful and present. What happens is, you don't react impulsively on emotions which takes the "what if", "did I do right" etc. out of the equation. Do you lift weights? It's a great tool to sharpen both - mind and body. A must, that everyone should be doing. What I would propose is this: 1) Do not stress too much about the whole improvement thing. Take it slowly, one thing at the time. Start building a foundation o…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 10:23 AM
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You go and try things. Don't overcomplicate it. Some things will click, some won't. The reason why people are more knowledgeable with age is because they had a lot more time to do things. Most people don't. Go out, TRY things.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:59 AM
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This may backfire, as she may deny everything and if he is BP, he will blame you for being a dickhead. I would personally cut it off and if you feel like the guy is RP enough to handle it - tell. If not, mind your own business.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:58 AM
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Girl A: Not sure what's hiding behind the "acting RP" but seems like she doesn't like the change, as soon as it's a good change for you - that's all that matters. Girl A: She tries to put you on your feet, but saying she didn't reply to them is a way for her to rationalize that this is going to soften this up. Amplify & escalate, don't take it too seriously. Girl B: She does not care, you care. Lost power play, lack of abundance if you are actually counting the days of how long it took her to re…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:56 AM
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Well done on realizing that there is something not right going on. Phone was another tool, now it is a marketing tool. Black and white screen is a must. Create folders, disable notifications and I would recommend cutting off most of the apps you are not using. Also: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Break-Up-Your-Phone/dp/1409176266
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:48 AM
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She had an emotional breakdown when asked to put more effort in sex? That's not your problem, and to be fair - plenty of girls that do put work in so I wouldn't stick to it.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:46 AM
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Why such a strong labelling? I do not have a dog. I do have a family. I care about my family and close circle of friends. I am careful with what do I attach myself to and most definitely this is not going to be a woman - at least not now. Also, I am emotional crackhead which is the main reason I love motorcycles. I wish everyone to find the same thing that I found in motorcycles.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 10:37 AM
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Have you actually tried acknowledging it and mentally "brush it off"? If it's there and you are in peace with it - it won't take control. The key is to start being Borderline aware of the surroundings and not being afraid of focusing just on that. Hit me up if any questions and I'm happy to share my knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:29 PM
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Hi /u/Chaddeus_Rex - as far as my observation goes, a lot of individuals think that detaching emotionally/not giving a fuck has something to do with neglecting and/or suppressing certain feelings, emotions and thoughts. I realised after long time (massive influence on that had a book by mark manson "not giving a f") that mindfulness and awareness is not about suppressing something. It's about observing, acknowledging and NOT PROACTIVELY REACTING on those impulses. What worked for me is to be bor…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 10:05 AM
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If you filter it by meta, you will stop seeing all the posts on how to get women.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 09:15 AM
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From my experience: I used to look the girl in the eyes and start talking myself. This was wrong. Apply eye contact and don't say anything, it's awkward at first for a second or two but then she will start the conversation. I hear a lot that I am giving them "the eyes" - I do nothing more but smile and look them deep in the eyes and wait what happens. If you have this thought that this is all "fun" aspect it makes you realise how interesting it may be to see what's she's going to do.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:58 AM
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That's also true. Applying the TRP knowledge will make her more interested in the best possible outcome and then you can do whatever you want.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:55 AM
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Likewise, this is a massive eye-opener for me. I do like the name - "The law of the universe"!
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:54 AM
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If you are not interested in this particular topic, just manage your time better and don't dwell into things that you don't find valuable.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:53 AM
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Set your mind to make the failure as your best friend. However silly this sounds, it works. I've been through numbers of rejections and since I started to take them as a path to push through and be more comfortable with it - suddenly I stopped acknowledging the fear. It was there, but all it was - awareness. Not letting it take over. It's hard work, but worth it.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:49 PM
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Very good comments indeed. This Field Report in no means is supposed to say that this is a golden ticket, one fits all solution how to get laid. Just like some people do squat wide foot, some people can't because of how their hips are developed. This is to show, that the correct understanding of TRP ideology and rules will make it a lot easier to actually be successful in both dating/relationships and career. As you can read in the post, I make it very clear how it affected MY behaviour and what…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:46 PM
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You don't have to do expensive stuff. If a dinner and/or coffee is something that you can't do - I would consider working harder on the financial side of things to have this comfort of being able to do this on the fairly regular basis. So I feel like every time I ask a women out its a waste of time and money and just an attempt to get laid. You have to decide what are your intentions when going on a date. This is very important because mindset plays a huge role in this. I am just bored and frust…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:37 PM
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Everyday life examples? I posted somewhere in comments career example. Big promotion, lots on the table. All I was thinking about was the "wheels". I was obsessed with the outcome. Guess what, didn't make it first time, because I did not focus on what had to be done here and now. Second time nailed it from the first second, I was absolutely abundant about the outcome. If I don't get it, I know: * I am going to be okay * I did my best to get it Instead of letting the anxiety take the wheel, ackno…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:33 PM
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I always say that humans are crackheads for emotions. We crave them. Excitement? My motorcycle gives me that. Lifting heavy and surrounding myself with similar-minded people keeps me in that proper "emotional" high. Not overinvesting in people, because people come and go. Investing in what I like and what makes me happy. I do agree with the statement that emotional validation and outcome dependent behaviour needs to be worked on and is unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:30 PM
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One of few things to remember. There is no one fit all and for you, something else may work better than for me. We are here to learn and support. I am glad that you find my post valuable.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:27 PM
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Thank you for sharing the video - I watched it and it indeed resembled hard on me. This conclusion or realisation that I had the day before is a fruit of three years of reading, educating myself, taking action and being frustrated a lot. It finally clicked. I can say that you definitely understand. And I am enthusiastic about it - it's a massive game changer for me!
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:26 PM
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If you manage your money and time well, you can afford marginal loss like that. Does not have a critical impact on both.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 03:26 PM
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Agreed. The outcome independence, lack of emotional attachment to the outcome is a massive game-changer for me. Career example: I would get excited about the position where I'd get a really nice wheels and massive income bump. Guess what, I never got it, because I was not focused on getting shit done. I was focused on the outcome, which got me off my game completely. I thought this FR is worth sharing with the community.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 02:43 PM
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Ask yourself why are you anxious? She is just another human being. Start meditating and work on this when you are on a date. What happens if you hold the eye contact? I will tell you - nothing will happen. Absolutely nothing will happen. Force yourself to leave the comfort zone and fight with this.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 02:41 PM
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IDGAF is not as simple as "not giving a fuck". It's NOT about NOT caring. It's about limiting and tailoring the particular way of where and why you allocate your fucks. It's just like being mindful, aware - it's not about bottling/disregarding your emotions but about letting them be, without actually reacting/acting on them.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 02:39 PM
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But it has to be done for greater good of muscle mass to cut the fat later on. Bulk through winter, shred for summer and keep it sane.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 12:55 PM
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I am keen to agree to agree
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 04:20 PM
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How do you keep yourself on track with a mindset that over the long-term, it will be worth it? You write this down and keep it close to yourself. Keep a note in your wallet, set a wallpaper on your phone. What worked for me is I have tattoos that are designed in the way that they remind me constantly what really matters and why am I doing what I am doing. My advice would be to stop worrying about things you can't change and start focusing on things you CAN change. George Clooney, white hair, not…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 03:41 PM
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I did this and helped me a lot: During the weekend, go out in the centre with a watch on your wrist - approach the girls you like and ask them what time it is. I did that around 100 times and by the time I was done: 1) I had so much fun doing that, where I started with proper cringe reaction from my side 2) Actually found that NOTHING happens if they tell you to walk away
/r/askTRP08/12/17 03:34 PM
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I always look at my abs in the mirror and control the weight. If I am gaining and have a little bit of abs there - continue the kcal intake. when I see that weight stopped and there's no abs - mini cut. Effective and easy to maintain.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 03:31 PM
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You owe him one that's for sure! I actually did something similar. Massive fight, she would go quiet on me. It was the moment something just cracked in me - was reading TRP for a few months before this. Found a new place and put the deposit the same day. Packed my bags. Called all the places where the bill was on my name. Moved to the spare room. Assigned to her which takes 14 days to action. Made sure our schedule is not going to cross paths: I would wake up 4am, gym, work, cycle, home, cook, 9…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 03:29 PM
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Remember one thing - there is no golden ticket for this (I forget about this sometimes too)! Depends on the situation. Once I approached a girl who looked like a girl from tv show, I googled that and approached with picture - she laughed, got her number and we went for a coffee 5 minutes later. Depends what your goal is and how the situation goes.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 03:22 PM
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Day game/white pickup (daylight, no alcohol, strangers) is the way to brush up your confidence and get the game on point. Every single plate/LTR is from day game. Remember KISS and make rejection your best friend.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:53 PM
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Focus your ego on your things that you do. It would make it a lot easier to remove your presence and possibly let the thought of next sink in and finish the LTR. She is your housemate now. It will be hard. Hang in there.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:51 PM
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You posted exactly what I wanted to post. Been there, done that...
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:50 PM
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Remember to keep the numbers healthy. I have been competition-ready shredded and I've had a lot of problems with libido and joint pain (main reason = low %bf). Never mind the loss of strength that can get on your ego easily. It's always good to look at yourself and decide if you want to build parts of your body up or shred the fat. Don't focus on the numbers, especially with %bf.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 02:47 PM
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I doubt if a person that is at the beginning their journey will handle properly the cut anyway.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 02:44 PM
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Okay, I do take that back, as they are borderline examples of high stress (both mental and physical) lifestyle and they may not be the best example. I said that from experience, as many of my powerlifting friends are very confident because of their strength. If you make peace with the fact that you need calories to lift heavy, which makes your body to store energy in the shape of fat and one can't be achieved without the other - it's not going to bother you. I personally bulked for two years to …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 02:42 PM
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Depends on metabolism, 0.5kg per week is quite a lot and that's a surplus of around 3.500 kcals. Not going to reinvent the wheel here, but I'd stick to maximum 350kcal surplus per day if you know your body well.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 02:37 PM
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Sometimes we have to take a step back to make two steps forward. I don't understand what happened that moment when you met that pimp?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 02:29 PM
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If that permabulking fat fuck is strong as fuck, he will definitely not care. Confidence through the roof. Define clean bulk? I would always recommend finding the maintenance for the calorie intake and then apply progressive overload. You will gain fat. Inevitable when bulking. Control the damage.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 12:21 PM
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Sacrifice a year of two and do proper bulk to get size. Cut and maintain. Get little surplus for 14 weeks and do slow cut. Repeat. You can't be LEAN and BUILD.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 12:18 PM
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I would say to keep that at the back of head when acting on life and focus on doing shit. You act with that idea in the back of your head and follow through. Just wanted to add that, because someone will think that being alpha/redpill is about being an ass hole who doesn't give a fuck. It's a matter of being adaptable and adjustable. Flexible in actions.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 04:18 PM
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And I want to just add, that you should take care of one person that is the most important - you. And be selfish, start taking care of yourself and your needs, as you are the only person on this world that is supposed to take care of them. Not other people, especially girls. Stay strong.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 09:41 AM
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If you live as if their opinion doesn't matter, you'll soon find it really doesn't matter. So if I will live by this, it will be true and make my life better?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 02:52 PM
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One of the key points of meditation, is to learn staying focused with your mind and not letting the mind "fly away" anywhere it wants. It's all about grabbing attention back to focus. You don't need " IDGAF mentality." per se. What you need, is to realize, that when you focus on yourself and your life, the mentality of IDGAF About Things I Don't Need To (what other people think is in it too) will come from nowhere.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 09:02 AM
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Thanks for a good post. It's good to always remind one about the basics. I would add number 6: Do not care about what people think or talk about you, because it does not matter at all. Regarding meditation, I recommend downloading "headspace" app, it's a good and easy start to meditation.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 06:18 AM
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Isn't that pretty important part of TRP? Focusing on self development and to stop looking for validation in others along with stop being needy and feeling good being alone?
/r/askTRP12/01/16 09:03 PM
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Sorry for short and incomplete/inadequate post. I meant: "Why men don't need a woman".
/r/askTRP12/01/16 09:02 PM
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Yeah, I understand that 100%. I am just trying to remember the article, in which the author stated that men don't need woman to live. It's obviously, as you stated: one of the pleasures. No the MUST BE to live happily. Hope that clarifies my question :)
/r/askTRP12/01/16 10:46 AM
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I think this is one of the things that makes me vulnerable - I am making my thoughts my fears. And it's just a thought. Not gon kill me. But this overthinking stuff - I am linking it to multitasking to which humans were not meant to be! Mono tasking is the key. It's hard if you have all media in the pocket. Answer? No media.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 03:34 PM
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Been with 2 girls "ons". Had just moral hangover as previous relationship ended month ago. Nothin more. Still having urge to go back to ex, as I broke up and might not think that through. Guess what? Overthinked shit out of this one. And I need some advice how to start living normally instead of jumping from superhappy to depressed in minutes...
/r/askTRP04/01/16 01:31 PM
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I do lift for two years now. I am using headspace to practise meditation. I also try to be a mono tasker, instead of multi tasking.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 11:04 AM
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Thank you. This is what I am thinking.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:49 PM
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polysaccharides Workouts will be moved to morning sessions definitely. So chicken + rice is good for a night eat? Caffeine - this is probably the reason why I might have trouble. I have to drink it because after 5 hours of sleep I am like a zombie...
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:20 PM
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I snore sometimes... When I am super, super tired I sleep like a baby. Right now I am almost falling asleep at work. And I hate that!
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:55 PM
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This is not something that you can acquire forever. "completely lost my enthusiasm to work hard". It's YOUR JOB to make the fire burn. "Any kind of individual endevour is discouraged and most of the assignments (apart from the dissertaition) requires students to come up with one kind of answer usually (i'm a history student)." This is still Uni - Go through, develop your own skills and deep further what is making you happy and passionate. I've tried starting gym but I've given up to play video g…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:17 PM
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I've heard that zinc, magnesium and B6 are good for feeling fresh and having much more energy. When I've been eating a Vitamin complex with B6 I could not sleep at all :)
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:06 PM
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I use earplugs, so there is no noise at all. I am eating directly before bed, maybe hour before? Workout was always after work, came home around 9:30 pm, go to sleep around 11. Had been eating melatonin for quite a while to get my sleep cycle back on track. I have an issue with the lights, as my windows is pointing on the street I have pretty bright room.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:03 PM
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That's what I am afraid of to be honest. I have no idea how to progress as my previous experience is 1st line support. I am trying to learn html/css and get CoptiaN+ Certificate. But other then that, I have no clue what to do to get more money...
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 03:46 AM
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Not always, sometimes things go to shit and than it's fun. But now most of my days consist of me reading for a cert and not having any calls. It's kind of boring, and the issues are fucking easy like domain droputs, exchange not working and some windows update fuckups. Making good money, need the money to pay all the bills but I think I might look around for a better job where I actually am doing something... Because I feel like I stopped in one place.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:30 AM
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I am still thinking if mine is not kind-of career killer. From one side, I have to do anything when I'm being called. It gives me time for learning to get certified (Comptia N+, microsoft, cisco). But from the other hand, I am not doing anything like today except reading and preparing to the exam. I kinda feel bad about the fact I'm not doing anything at all like today. No idea what to do. Making 1700 pounds monthly is not bad. I think?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 04:33 PM
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I am making 33 right now, as it's an entry level. Working my way up to be web dev!
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 11:12 AM
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Same here. 22 IT specialist!
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 02:24 AM
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"Work at making money." Anyone, please tell me how to start with this one? Where to start? Much appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 04:32 PM
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She's been experiencing hair loss for quite a time, the prolactin levels were going through the roof and it might have been a cause for that. I am totally unsure what to do now. From one side, she said that it does mean nothing, meaning - kids, because we have no idea if she is fertile or not. I don't know if I want to be single or in LTR. I am a mess in my head. My dad, natural alpha said that I need to chill now and not let her make me think like there's something wrong with me. We need to tal…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 03:07 PM
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Libido was broken, up till month ago when all kinky stuff happened. I was amazed, bj on the cycle road in the middle of the night, than sex. It was all amazing. She was caring, treating me like a meatbag sometimes / punching bag for her emotions. I was getting sex, but not having time for myself. Don't know what to do.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:41 AM
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I am living in England currently. So I will write this down and get to know where and how I can get tested. I will keep in touch with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 01:39 PM
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So the usual Full blood test (http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Blood-tests/Pages/What-it-is-used-for.aspx - FBC) will show level of my hormones? I think not, as prolactine tests are pretty expensive here and I doubt it will come out on usual blood test but might be wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 01:17 PM
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I will hit gp next week to get an appointment to do it asap. Will write to you when all the results will come up and discuss more, would you agree on that? Will full blood test do the trick? Cheers
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 01:12 PM
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You just gave me an idea to check them is everything in order.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 01:01 PM
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6:45 am - wake up. Daily hygiene. Make breakfast loaded with proteins and carbs. Cook lunch. Change to something Business Casual. Hop on the bike, drive to bus station. 8:05am - Take a bus to office. No point in driving car - traffic is just crazy at 5pm 8:40am - 12 am Work hard 12am - 1pm Lunch, read TRP posts, get some world news 1pm - 4:30pm work/prepare to IT exams 5pm - Catch a bus, read a book in the bus, hop on bike. Do some groceries. Eat pre workout meal. Rest for hour - read, watch com…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 09:47 AM
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What he meant, is that RP is not same guideline for each and every person. It's more food for thought to use Your own sponge in the head, commonly known as a brain instead of thinking about it as sort of video game mechanics that You do a and result is b. Adjust and filter the information.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/15 11:48 AM
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How do one just STOP?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 01:25 PM
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So I've tried to break it off. She said that she gets it, and had never imagined that I was so hurt because of her. She said she will do better, and I was accepting this kind of behaviour - this is partly my fault because I've entered LTR as an alpha - ended like a pro beta. Spilled some rp truth on her yesterday - she was so mad on me because I was talking about sex because her ex used her like a toy. So, I was letting her shit on me because I was weak and afraid of her at some point. Lucky me,…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 08:55 AM
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If the contract is month to month than go for it. I am stuck with 15 months left on the contract, and my LTR is going down - it will be a bloodbath at some point. Remember to hold frame and be ready to walk away if shit goes south.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 09:09 AM
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So I am back from gym. Stated that I am going out with one of my male co workers for a beer. She immediately got upset. I ask wtf, and said "nothing, I'll get some male and female friends from prev. Job to get a beer". I stated that it's pissing me off that She is doing the "eye for an eye" shit when it comes to my own time. She stormed out upstairs mad as fuck. That happened yesterday. Today it's dread game.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 09:00 AM
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Yes, he did. No, he is pure example of RP.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:58 PM
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" You literally support her and give her everything she needs and it is still not enough" In past few days she said I am cocky asshole (injecting RP in my life). When I mentioned that I don't want to report to her where am I, she said that I was always doing that and she will repay with the same. It's that 4 months in my head and what she showed (a drama queen lvl 9k+) made me fucking terrified about her.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:49 PM
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"Stop telling her where you've been." I stop, she is getting into the bitch mode "Why I didn't write anything after work" etc. "You sound like you've got a little Stockholm Syndrome and have grown attached to an abusive cunt." When I am putting myself into the 3rd person view of this, it kind of looks like it. My good friend, the one with TRP knowledge said to drop it cause it'll get worse soon. He was right. "And why are you even dating someone who is that much older than you? She has a positio…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:39 PM
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She said, when I've almost broke this that She needs me and if not me, than nobody else. ffs, AWALT. Why was I so soft instead of finishing then? I feel like I am RP but not with this girl, as I was BP and afraid of her much because... no idea wtf really happened. And I believed, that it's like that in any relationship.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:41 PM
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1 - Good point. But deep down I care about her. Even though I've been taking the shit for last 4 months. She's been seeing her ex gf (yes), and says they're just friends. I believed it. Almost ended up living with her too in one house. 2 - She won't as allegedly She found the place to rent and it's 2 vs This is going to be uber huge shitstorm. 3 - I am getting great sex along with great meals. But she is getting angry easily and tells me that's what girls do in other LTR's. My god I am tired of …
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:25 PM
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No. It's one bedroom house with me an her in it. If I go, She won't deal with rent, services, anything. I am having a huge battle with myself either stick with her or not.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:05 PM
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That's not an option, I am sleeping with her.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:54 PM
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Logistics are hard with this one...
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:46 PM
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Appreciate the answer. Financial hit? Now throwing out 410 pounds monthly. All bills are on me. Financially, it's all on me. I have direct debit for all of the services. And two of them are doing absolutely nothing with the finances except passing their share to my account. Oh, it will be an enormous shit storm. During the fight, she almost slapped me, went to the park in the mid of the night, slept on couch - all in search for my attentions. IDGAF and She was calm after that. I have all my stuf…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 10:54 AM
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It will be long, painful 15 months ahead. I am not signing for that.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 10:40 AM
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First part of the post - thank You. Eyes opening indeed! Second thing, if I am ignoring her, she will think I am not being honest with her, came back with some female friend from work etc. because She does not trust me and than She will do the same to make me jealous. As I wrote above, we had a big fight because she was mad jealous. How do I deal with that?
/r/askTRP07/11/15 05:13 PM
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As a former games addict (6 years wasted) one advice: Go cold turkey. It's hard. It won't be easy. Watch "Trainspotting" and pay attention when He said he's cutting himself off from the drugs. He had a plan, was prepared and took action. COLD TURKEY, cut this shit straight away. It will be tempting... Lift, do sports, be busy! It will be better than anything. That's called comfort zone, run from it. I hope You will listen. Be strong, I know the pain.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 03:42 PM
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Still hamstering. "Rode CC Like none other". Still struggling?
/r/askTRP05/11/15 03:10 PM
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Ok, so what a man has to do when he's playing the part of girl as He's afraid about every like on her fb, every message etc. And She, on other hand is very, very superb woman whom said to my friend (he's acting jealous as hell) that SHE EXPECTS from HIM to have female friends as it's healthy for people to keep in touch with both: man and woman. Does it comes from his insecurities? He's lifting, working as a developer but acting like a pussy.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 09:52 PM
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Can someone please tell me, was there any frame?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 10:39 PM
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You are right. Why pretend? For what or who? That's useless and unproductive. Life is so much fun when there's THE THING that makes You love to wake up every morning and that's something that people will see!
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 10:32 PM
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This feels so good to read, keep it up! Being consistent with the actions is very, very important. Easy example - gym and diet. Nothing will change in one week, but after one month You will see results!
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 10:22 PM
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