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Just be yourself really means follow through on your will. That's all women see is what you do externally. They won't understand your complex internals. Someone being true to themselves but it is not translating to anything observable externally is going to mean nothing. Women don't have as much intuition as they think they do.
/r/seduction13/03/25 11:54 PM
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By the way, forewarning doing this is going to mess you up but you can sort it out after you're already having dates that end in sex more often or with a girlfriend or wife or something. You're going to mess yourself up a little bit mentally going full zealot in success but you're just driving yourself in a direction where you're kind of single-minded. There's a cost but it works. The good thing is you still have time to become a whole logical person again afterwards. There's going to be pieces …
/r/seduction11/03/25 12:19 AM
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The trick too is to let anything that might help you fester, but anything that seems unproductive use some kind of mental juju to justify it out of your mind so you don't focus on it. Obsess over anything that gets you out and in a positive mindset and just ignore anything that's negative. Even if it's negative and true. Become hyperfixated on anything that works for you. Even if it's absurd. Just focus on that. Let it boil inside you and burn and completely discard anything that doesn't work fo…
/r/seduction11/03/25 12:11 AM
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Well here's the thing, there's plenty of women so if you see one and are frozen in fear that's ok because here's what you can do. After you fail to make a move you can get mad that it happened, and you can walk down the street or to another area of the store or to another building channel that rage at yourself and approach the second woman you see that day. If you freeze on the second women you can then channel that rage even more. Let it build up like a soda can that's been shaken. Channel that…
/r/seduction10/03/25 11:58 PM
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Look up something called a Time bridge.
/r/seduction14/02/25 11:34 PM
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Honestly it's best to start from scratch cause then baring something insane the only place you can go is up. But you got to be willing to put in the work because it's going to be like lighting a fire with only two sticks to rub together at first.
/r/seduction14/02/25 10:13 PM
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It sounds like you're focused on trying to be a trad girl and you've married yourself to that strategy. I think the best dating strategy is to adapt to the circumstances before you and just try to get yourself in front of as many potential suitors as possible. You seemed so focused on a particular path that if what you wanted hit you on the head in a way you weren't expecting you might not even notice because you're so focused on. "No, it has to happen this way".
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/24 06:24 PM
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There's no turning it around. I'm just a loser who has a hot wife now. That might mean to some that I'm not a loser now despite my claims. But if I am not one now I assure you I wasn't one then either and that my friends is the secret. Exception: If you have extremely degenerate hygiene issues that would be changeable if you didn't have your head up your ass that's a different level entirely. In that case you're a loser on a level that my post doesn't apply to you.
/r/seduction08/09/24 01:56 AM
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People realized MGTOW mindset was defeatist misogyny so they adopted misogyny that was less defeatist.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/23 11:16 AM
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There's also r/FemaleDatingStrategy they love to use "males" there. Yes I'm just going to keep listing one more one by one every time you go "oh is that it".
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 07:31 PM
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You've never seen a "Male tears" mug?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 03:07 PM
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I think Pedophile is a bit harsh of a classification of no consent laws are broken but "questionable sexual morality" is not. That being said a guy getting with a much younger woman is both easier and harder than dating someone his own age. Easier on the front of the older person likely has power and experience, but more difficult as the younger person might be better looking so might think older people don't look as good as them. It's not an achievement from a mental or moral perspective but it…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/23 07:06 PM
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This woman seems like she is a very problematic person so just for full transparency did the dude ever also do anything fucked up? Cause this sounds disproportionately one sided. Occam's razor tells me he at least did one fucked up thing. But I've seen situations too where that's not the case in relationships where one person is extremely low value in charecter when compared to the other. . That being said, this woman sounds like she has completely turned against this guy long before she ever br…
/r/MensRights03/04/23 01:59 PM
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I agree.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 06:43 PM
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All this stuff in the OP just shackles men from believing that they can't set a goal and see great success with it by working smartly and hardly towards it unless it's a red pill approved goal. There are ways to make a lot of things work that many red pillers actually believe is unlikely or worse impossible. I'm not saying you OP believe this but I'm saying that lesser people in this community do and your doing nothing to stop that behavior which is far more destructive than anything your upset …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/23 11:21 AM
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It's s pretty hard to make sexual jokes around women without someone eventually mobilizing against you. It's all part of it. Human sexual competition involves not just sexual attraction but also dealing with all the social meta that comes up. You deal with it by being both prepared for it and at the same time unruffled by it. They are trying to take you off guard intentionally. They know they came out of nowhere with this. They know exactly what they are doing.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 07:51 PM
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For someone with no social skills when they started to pull two of anything is pretty impressive. It takes a while to learn this stuff. Really I think every new sarger needs about 1000 net approaches to get good. The first 1000 your metrics are gonna suck. Yes guys pull hot girls doing like less than 50 their entire lives but those guys were born with social skills. If you start out with bad social skills like op you are gonna pull only two fat chicks your first 400 cause you have a lot of shit …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/23 05:34 AM
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400+ girls is actually not really that high volume actually. I was doing about 320 every two months in 2014 and was pulling a new girl probably about every month so unless you did these approaches in well under a three month timespan I'd actually say your still way lower then I'd want you to be. I maintained this volume I am speaking of for an 8 month period and during that time period I closed 15 girls, 8 entirely from cold approach. Additionally how far are you pushing these sets and how is yo…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/23 01:38 AM
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Oh man I hate it when people disappoint me like this. I thought this guy was going somewhere very exciting but no he really wasn't... It's not just that "women buy what they can afford" everyone reasonable buys what they can afford. If someone is undervaluing their potential and not moving up in dating when they can (prior to serious commitments when it's important to settle in and start a family) I would consider that their own stupidity. Is the author saying that Men don't upgrade out of a bad…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/21 09:24 PM
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This led me to try to have a typical wild discovery phase in college, but I was too cautiaus and the one time I tried to make a move and kiss a girl, I got slapped. "a hundred bad days made a hundred good stories A hundred good stories make me interesting at parties" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fOUXlz3kcHQ
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:20 PM
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You did a great job with this response. Thanks for chiming in dude!
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:16 PM
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https://medium.com/the-mission/raise-your-floor-not-your-ceiling-a20b8a43a5bc
/r/seduction21/10/21 04:48 PM
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How strong is your floor? You can't guage how successful you will be with women overall by just what your top range is. If your floor is low even if you have a high ceiling it wont matter as much because your level of variance will throw you off more often then not so you likely wont often see your ceiling. Everything should be about raising your floor until you are happy with it and know that that floor is solid and wont move back down. The better quality the floor the more often you will actua…
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:13 PM
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Also you know you reached the floor if going back down to the basement is out of the question for you. You won't accept that reality anymore. Your new floor is SOLID. Again you might not have sex all the time but you at least know that you can have sex/relationships and you will have sex/relationships that needs to be your floor before you try to achieve anything else.
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:41 PM
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People shouldn't need to necessarily secretly film their approaches to get credit. In fact the guys that are least credible often actually still have in-fields. Not saying that having in-fields makes someone less credible. No there are definitely a few guys that I think produce good quality in-fields and are actually credible. But I don't think that in-fields are a good benchmark for credibility. It really isn't that hard to fake an in-field. It's already been done dozens of times by coaches.
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:06 PM
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You know that phenomenon men notice with women where women tend to go for these douchebag guys and we can't understand why? Well that is likely the same situation when you have a girl that is all weird and sending mix signals, you are attracted to her but she isn't exactly a great person. There could be other reasons but from my field experience that is one of the more likely. It's like she is so hot you wanna be her boyfriend but it's more your brainwashed by how sexy she is then objectively re…
/r/seduction10/08/20 10:54 PM
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Back in the day like 10 years ago I used to think women could not write field reports in the way men do cause their strategy for getting men is completely different. Unless this post is actually fake because the account is brand new I guess I was wrong. This is a decent FR.
/r/seduction10/08/20 10:46 PM
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4 sets is a really small sample size. That type of volume could be done in one outing if you have no approach anxiety. I would make sure you increase your sample size significantly if possible. We are still in a pandemic though so be careful about it.
/r/seduction10/08/20 10:35 PM
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Also this https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ep63me/needy_people_have_girlfriends/fehnx9q?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x
/r/seduction18/05/20 03:08 PM
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That being said, loving yourself makes things 200% easier. But I can speak from experience that it is not necessary if you really want it in spite of it. It is a brutal on yourself way to do it but do-able.
/r/seduction18/05/20 03:03 PM
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Here's the thing though. You might never love yourself. That doesn't mean you have to be alone while you don't love yourself. Don't let a little thing like not loving yourself fuck up your chance at experiencing women. When Covid-19 quarantine are over some of you might find that you don't have to do everything in a nice neat order. Things are supposed to get messy sometimes in relationships anyways. I say fuck worrying about if you love yourself or not and if you want the girl go get the girl. …
/r/seduction18/05/20 02:59 PM
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Here's the thing though goose. Being happy in life is about being happy in life, and yes it is an internal struggle more than external. Experiencing and loving women is about trigger pulls, calibration and sometimes even a little tenacity. This is sometimes both an external and internal struggle. Being happy is just a feeling, it can come and go. Even the greatest zen masters have moments of unhappiness or frustration. Women can come and go too. Your path to happiness is not necessarily the same…
/r/seduction13/05/20 01:40 PM
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If you're lonely there's nothing actionable in here to help you. In fact it shames people for feeling that way. It's perfectly fine to show some tenacity in your search for romance after this virus situation ends. There's some attractive mindsets in here but no one is going to find love who traditionally hasn't from implementation of those mindsets alone. They will still need to take some bold actions. Which this post in many ways discourages. I understand the message but it's ultimately not ext…
/r/seduction24/03/20 03:58 PM
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Thanks. I got more if you catch me at the right time.
/r/seduction29/01/20 10:01 PM
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Not worrying about if what you have is enough to love someone is how you love yourself. The default should just simply be "I am enough" and then you stop making excuses and go out and get the girl.
/r/seduction29/01/20 09:59 PM
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Not worrying about if what you have is enough to love someone is how you love yourself. The default should just simply be "I am enough" and then you stop making excuses and go out and get the girl.
/r/seduction29/01/20 09:58 PM
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Not worrying about if what you have is enough to love someone is how you love yourself. The default should just simply be "I am enough" and then you stop making excuses and go out and get the girl.
/r/seduction29/01/20 09:58 PM
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Not worrying about if what you have is enough to love someone is how you love yourself. The default should just simply be "I am enough" and then you stop making excuses and go out and get the girl.
/r/seduction29/01/20 09:57 PM
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Not worrying about if what you have is enough to love someone is how you love yourself. The default should just simply be "I am enough" and then you stop making excuses and go out and get the girl.
/r/seduction29/01/20 09:57 PM
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If life is dark and gloomy alone having a teammate to coop life with is pretty swell.
/r/seduction29/01/20 09:52 PM
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I couldn't disagree more. Sure from my experience you are 100% right. If your life feels terrible without someone in it, adding someone is only going to result in a terrible life WITH someone in it. But that fact's truth shouldn't be utilized to discourage you from achieving your relationship goals today. There is no reason to wait on yourself to begin seeking someone else out if that is what you want to do. Excuses are one of the top things that stop people from falling in love or going for att…
/r/seduction29/01/20 07:58 PM
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The point is to teach guys to be centered and balanced which you did a great job with me Geese.
/r/seduction16/01/20 10:53 PM
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Yeah the flipside of that coin are the guys who forget that average guy game works and become all gamey and try hard instead of just being able to relax hanging out with a chick which is what OP did. The "overgamy" Pickup nerds are still more evil than the "just be yourself" average guys even though I 100% agree they are both bad.
/r/seduction16/01/20 10:52 PM
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If a guy hangs out at food or drink places enough and he isn't a total putz he is bound to get a date or two eventually but his numbers are not going to compare on any level to a guy who understands cold approach. So this guy posting about his SINGLE success recently probably wont be taken seriously by anyone. It's not a big deal to even worry about. OP seems to be banking his reproductive strategy on average guy game rather then high volume cold approach.
/r/seduction16/01/20 08:49 PM
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Also overcompensation involved in trying to hide your own neediness tends to manifest as either it's own weird kind of neediness (that you shamefully try to hide), or as a signal of lower value
/r/seduction15/01/20 10:22 PM
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I am Mr. Contrarian sometimes for sure lol.
/r/seduction15/01/20 09:59 PM
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People in this community usually people who are newbies seem to think that if you aren't needy then you are Alpha. In reality it's more complicated then that because that statement causes a lot of people to knee jerk overcompensate to not come off needy. Not that you shouldn't work on neediness a lot of those people who overcompensate after a few years actually learn to level off and get everything at the right level. Now this doesn't seem to apply to you. You are another type of person who is e…
/r/seduction15/01/20 09:49 PM
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I know that in spite of my own neediness I was able to succeed many times because neediness somtimes supports tenacity towards succeeding in game in some ways.
/r/seduction15/01/20 08:32 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQzdAsjWGPg
/r/seduction15/01/20 08:04 PM
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I saber rattled and overcompensated a lot after working with you. But at least I never gave up on myself or regretted it. Even while overcompesating I did it "MY WAY" and eventually I adapted into true reality.
/r/seduction15/01/20 08:03 PM
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As was I even after getting sex. All transformations are gradual.
/r/seduction15/01/20 08:02 PM
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Balance is very important. I will admit I crushed it when I had a mindset like yours too but beasts like us are not common in the community. Some people need to ease into their beastmode. I worked with Geese in 2014 personally and he knows his stuff.
/r/seduction15/01/20 07:46 PM
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I used to be just like brizza277 because I saw all these guys "going out" but not actually ever having the guts to go out and get laid. I even remember from our bootcamp back in 2014 together Geese that you imprinted in my mind "the only close is sex" etc. So I can relate to his extremity. However, in 2020 I now realize (as you do as well it seems) that this type of "tough mindset" doesn't work for everybody. It is possible that being too hard on yourself will send you backwards too. It is all a…
/r/seduction15/01/20 07:44 PM
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Sometimes you gotta step through that window even if only for a little while https://librachronicles.wordpress.com/2014/09/10/step-through-that-window-how-to-skyrocket-your-success-with-dating-and-relationships/
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:15 AM
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Oh he is trying to peddle his coaching for sure. I know cause I know him. But what makes him different is he tends to be pretty personalized. I felt like I was catered to pretty well during my coaching with him in 2014. At least more personalized then the lovesystems bootcamp I also took.
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:09 AM
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I also know the other guy who was reviewing Geese in here personally.
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:03 AM
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I know Geese personally and yes he is a coach. But he isn't a phony coach he does know stuff. His videos are pretty actionable stuff.
/r/seduction24/12/19 05:59 AM
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I'm not sure he's denying that he is just saying that just approaching more without quality feedback or coaching might not not enough for guys who are very stuck. I do think he does imply that he is a solution though but he is also running a business. Full disclosure, I took a bootcamp with him before and it helped me meet my wife. I do think there is some value in sarging more if your stuck though. Increasing my volume significantly during regressions certainty helped me to get unstuck to degre…
/r/seduction24/12/19 05:14 AM
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​ The best guys in this game learn to be dynamic individuals. Flexible. They flow. In other words follow the rules but also FUCK THE RULES, follow the rules up until you know the rules would fuck you.
/r/seduction23/12/19 05:18 PM
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Sometimes you need to chase but a newbie doesn't know the difference so that's why they are told NOT to chase. But once you have 1,000 approach and from those approches some dates and sexual encounters you will realize that sometimes you can break the rules. Sometimes you NEED to break the rules. Sometimes they are pulling away for you to chase them. Sometimes that is just the way it is and you need to rise to the occasion and act by stepping through a window. I didn't write this but someone I r…
/r/seduction20/12/19 06:10 PM
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Mostly you break a few hearts but actually it's about as many or maybe sometimes even slightly less the amount of times women will walk out on you and break your heart and you will really miss them. Women are very passionate perceptive lovers and sometimes they will just leave long before you have the chance to break their hearts. However, as you get better at realizing this you will then start to get to a point where a few women do stick around because you understand women and then you will sta…
/r/seduction20/12/19 06:06 PM
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I agree that OP is KJ.
/r/seduction20/12/19 05:30 PM
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It's like was Geese wrote before, you start out sarging low then you up your numbers as you get more comfortable and then as you grow you actually taper back down. That is how the process works if you actually learn cold approach PU.
/r/seduction20/12/19 05:27 PM
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Drevil what you say makes sense from my experience cause I put in a lot of approaches finding my wife but at the same time I don't think you actually are even putting forth the numbers you are preaching. Sarging is a spiritual journey so you are coming off as someone who is just trying to say the right things but have not put it into practice.
/r/seduction20/12/19 05:26 PM
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My name actually is Bob and this is nothing like me. I did thousands of cold approaches got rejected a ton but also had a lot of success and met my wife on the street from cold approach.
/r/seduction15/12/19 10:39 PM
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I did well over 1,000 quality cold approaches in my day and have only had sex with 19 different women. If your metric for success is 5 women you approached don't have a good grasp on abundance mentality. LMAO at people who are giving him specific advice on how to improve from 5 approaches. Even if your abilities were much better then mine expecting results from even 30 lifetime approaches would be crazy. I wouldn't worry until you have done 100 with no results. 50-100 approaches per lay is about…
/r/seduction25/11/19 04:55 PM
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How does your post relate to this post specifically?
/r/seduction30/10/19 03:31 PM
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People hate my guts I guess.
/r/seduction23/10/19 04:22 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction23/10/19 04:21 PM
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Theres at least 3-4 people I can think of that it MIGHT be which is why I asked.
/r/seduction22/10/19 10:11 PM
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Who is this person? They are smart.
/r/seduction22/10/19 09:28 PM
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I agree with the 2nd paragraph in the OP but not the rest of it "If you want to be the source of a woman's confidence, you need to give her attention. Not to the point where you are smothering her, but she need to feel like you have an interest in her. Not too much, but enough that she feels like you like her enough to be interested in dating her. You need to be funny. You need to make her laugh. You need to make her feel good about herself. She may like you in a sexual way or a non-sexual way, …
/r/seduction10/10/19 02:14 PM
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I hope Damore achieves something, rooting for him.
/r/MensRights13/01/18 03:11 AM
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I took two bootcamps in my life. One with Love Systems which was average but still learned a few good routines....and another one with the guy who wrote this blog https://librachronicles.wordpress.com/ The bootcamp with Ronnie libra who wrote the blog was incredible. Also read the actual blog it has GOLD in it. There is also a lair associated with him here www.themidwestlair.com
/r/seduction27/04/16 05:26 PM
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Ronnie isn't trying to teach you how he picks up girls anyways. He shows you how YOU pick up girls. He brings out the inner BEAST in a man. Someone demonstrating how he does it only goes so far. What Ronnie does is help people bring out the personality they already have so it's all them seducing the girl. That being said he does demonstrate, recommend, assign a few routines as homework to fill gaps if the guys need them.
/r/seduction30/12/14 05:17 AM
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http://librachronicles.wordpress.com/author/ronnielibra/
/r/seduction29/12/14 07:18 PM
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I have taken a commercial boot camp with Love Systems and an underground boot camp with a guy who teaches in the Midwest. The love systems boot camp was 3500 for 3 days of mostly classroom teaching and 2 in field nights to try the material they taught you in class. The underground boot camp was 8 nights in field spread out between an entire month so it's a month long coaching session. On the spot coaching, text coaching and homework across the whole month on the specific sticking points that wer…
/r/seduction29/12/14 06:10 PM
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I'm in Chicago otherwise I would.
/r/MensRights11/12/13 06:47 PM
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Is being badass the only thing that should motivate someone?
/r/seduction25/10/13 03:11 PM
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Very stupid read
/r/MensRights05/01/13 03:20 PM
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