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| 26 | Joe Rogan on Humbleness, some interesting points here. | bobleplask | /r/seduction | 05/06/11 01:12 AM |
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| 1 | Erectile DysfunctionNo, just get a girlfriend. And get some viagra or similar as well. Ask your doc - they're well aware of the problem. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/16 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection.I like the essence of your post. Good heart and intentions. I short remark on this: Don't drag this community into the depths of misogynistic sleazy shame it's currently headed for. It's already quite tainted by nature. It's called seduction and it's never really about seduction as it is self-improvement. But who goes to /r/selfimprovement when they have trouble getting laid? And that's how people find this community... To get laid. So you get all these new people, learning some tricks and taint… | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 11:51 AM |
| 2 | The Effects of Quitting Porn and Masturbation for Six Weekswat? | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 01:32 AM |
| 6 | Forever Alone Community's Thoughts of Seddit. What does Seddit have to say?No. She does not expect to get into Harvard and that's the issue. She wants to get into Harvard because she wants to work for a specific company that only hires people who went to Harvard. That's why he gives her a pep-talk. He expects her to get into Harvard, he just need to teach her a few things first. It's also fiction. | /r/seduction | 11/12/11 01:35 AM |
| 8 | Forever Alone Community's Thoughts of Seddit. What does Seddit have to say?You have no room for improvement? I made this just for you actually. The point is that there is always room for improvement and working towards that is more rewarding than letting everything go. But you need to acknowledge that you can never reach the 100 percent or you'll end up disappointed. It is also important to know that you are doing this for yourself and not anyone else. | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 11:34 PM |
| 1 | So I'm sure Barney Stinson is an amusing hero to some of you. What are your thoughts of wearing suits all the time?True, true. | /r/seduction | 28/11/11 12:24 AM |
| -5 | So I'm sure Barney Stinson is an amusing hero to some of you. What are your thoughts of wearing suits all the time?The problem with doing it all the time is that it looses it's purpose. And I men for myself. If I wear a suit for gaming on a lousy Tuesday, what will I do when I really want to celebrate something important stuff? | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 02:40 PM |
| 17 | Any successful ugly/not conventionally attractive guys here? Share your stories!!So... I should probably go back to writing that paper I am supposed to be writing instead of lurking here? | /r/seduction | 25/11/11 11:19 AM |
| 2 | First Shit Test Passed! Thanks seddit!Congratulations man! | /r/seduction | 22/11/11 04:47 PM |
| 4 | I met a guy who did the right thing.I think the guy at the bar said something like "I don't think you know each other". The he asked OP to give her the drink she usually likes, which OP actually remembers. | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 10:19 PM |
| 4 | This was just posted on a girl's tumblr. Sedditors take note.Yes, that is possible as well, but we do not know what he wanted now do we? And I still feel that is not the point either. The point is how to put someone in the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 07:43 PM |
| 0 | This was just posted on a girl's tumblr. Sedditors take note.The point is not what he wanted. The point is that this is the perfect example of someone being placed in the friend zone regardless if he wanted that or not. This is the way to the friend zone. Edit: Spelling | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 05:32 PM |
| 12 | This was just posted on a girl's tumblr. Sedditors take note.The point is not what he wanted. The point is that this is the perfect example of someone being placed ina the friend zone regardless if he wanted that or not. This is the way to the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 05:32 PM |
| 2 | NEWBIES READ THIS - IOIs & IODs, Qualification, and more!This is the stuff I want on Seddit. Good job Bob! | /r/seduction | 14/10/11 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Opinions of RSD, Lovesystems, Stylelife, PUAtraining, independents60 is very interesting and the stuff I have read so far is much more up my street than the typical cocky\funny thing I read elsewhere. No idea who Taylor Truth is though. | /r/seduction | 13/10/11 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Opinions of RSD, Lovesystems, Stylelife, PUAtraining, independentsGreat post! This is what I like on Seddit. | /r/seduction | 13/10/11 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Ran Into Ex Last Night, Thank God For SedditAh, I forgot there is only society in the west. But yes, we disagree. | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Ran Into Ex Last Night, Thank God For SedditYou sound like you're of the mind that believes marriages is a 'tool of the patriarchy used to oppressed women' or any other modern new age tripe (like nihilism). You're probably a swell guy and I bet your friends would stand up for you any day, but this here tells me you might need to read a few books before you start spewing out nonsense. It is clear that you don't really know what you are talking about. I don't think marriage is a good idea from a very logical point of view. As stated earlier… | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Ran Into Ex Last Night, Thank God For SedditFair enough. Seven years is a long time and the other guy has a point when he said that is what people do. | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Ran Into Ex Last Night, Thank God For SedditI would be a hypocrite for doing that. Other than that, not much would change. | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Ran Into Ex Last Night, Thank God For SedditI see, so now you've grown up and you're what they call a real man. Or bro. It's a funny website - I agree. I also find it funny that you do not understand what I am grasping at here. It's not nihilism (which is an interesting topic in itself, but not what we should discuss here now). It's critical thinking. I too want a life long companion, but the marriage part I don't get. Unless you're religious. But I don't get religion either. But I guess that is also what people do. Good luck with that br… | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 10:55 AM |
| 5 | Ran Into Ex Last Night, Thank God For SedditAh... Yeah, what a great reason for doing anything at all. ಠ_ಠ | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 10:21 AM |
| 6 | Ran Into Ex Last Night, Thank God For SedditBut if you dated someone for 7 years, would you marry them? To that my question is: Why? | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 09:57 AM |
| 8 | Ran Into Ex Last Night, Thank God For SedditWhy do you get married? | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 09:51 AM |
| 8 | The quality of this subreddit is decreasingIf we all take a look at the "new" section when we stop by and use the up or down vote button, then I'm sure that would help. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?I have. But I don't really know of any close male friends having it as one of the most prolific past times. There is a difference. | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 05:39 PM |
| 2 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?By guys? | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?What? | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 05:04 PM |
| 1 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?Yes, I just interpreted her question as to us "PUAs". If she want's anyone to come talk to her? I dunno.. /r/askreddit? | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?I think PUA's either are, or are good at emulating being that kind of guy. | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 02:57 PM |
| 6 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?So you want to be slutty and easy, but not seem slutty and easy? Or did I misunderstand? (Serious question here btw)... | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 10:02 AM |
| 4 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?I think what both men and women like is confidence. Smiling and not being afraid of eye contact shows that. We then proceed to think "this girl has confidence" which leads to our brain telling us "I should go talk to this girl because I'm a confident guy and chicks like that shit". | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Introverts of seddit, what do you want from a woman?What's sexy about crazy? It's the complete opposite of boring. You never know how things will go, so it's exciting. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 09:16 AM |
| 3 | A fun little AMOG trick I've figured outHow are you better than the OP on this issue at all? | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Taking advantage of being black.Ah, I forgot that part. It all makes so much sense now. :/ | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 08:31 PM |
| 8 | Taking advantage of being black.I don't see why it would be wrong to use something that is unique about a person to it's advantage. If you're tall, work with it. Short? Use that! The statement that you want to disregard or ignore something unique about someone seems like a stupid idea and I don't understand why you want it so. | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Taking advantage of being black.You want blacks to go away..? | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Tactics vs Strategy - Advice from Gary Kasparov, World Chess Grand Master. Field Tactics vs Inner Game. When I realized that I had won the war.This is an old post now, but what a fabulously awesome read it was. I'm inspired! Thank you for taking the time! | /r/seduction | 06/08/11 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Tactics vs Strategy - Advice from Gary Kasparov, World Chess Grand Master. Field Tactics vs Inner Game. When I realized that I had won the war.What OP is talking about isn't seduction. | /r/seduction | 06/08/11 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Ah, it is good to be back. I offer a field-tested trick for you all.I like this! | /r/seduction | 06/08/11 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Is it strange to feel soulless while meeting new people?Schizoid personality disorder (SPD) is a personality disorder characterized by a lack of interest in social relationships, a tendency towards a solitary lifestyle, secretiveness, emotional coldness and sometimes (sexual) apathy, with a simultaneous rich, elaborate and exclusively internal fantasy world. [...]Klein classifies these individuals as secret schizoids who present themselves as socially available, interested, engaged, and involved in interacting in the eyes of the observer, while at th… | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 03:02 PM |
| 0 | Is it strange to feel soulless while meeting new people?Also look into schizoid personality disorder to see if there's something there. Cleared some stuff for me at least. | /r/seduction | 20/07/11 07:44 PM |
| 9 | Common shit tests and how to defuse themAre you Archer? | /r/seduction | 15/07/11 04:13 PM |
| 7 | I was about to approach a girl at Denny's last night, but couldn't do it.Based on what OP says she never let the waiter answer her questions, except for the tap-water question. She could have played out the conversation with the waiter in her mind on not waste his time, even if he is a waiter. | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 04:12 AM |
| 4 | (FR)15 rejections in a rowjust.can't.resist.... YOU FORGOT: "...You fight through that shit." Also pulp fiction. | /r/seduction | 12/06/11 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Being the prize makes life dull.A lot of what you are saying is very true. But.. Disregard looks. I feel this applies to anything. A person, who you like, you do not value her over someone who you do not like? Why spend time on gaming when everyone is equal and it does not matter anyway? I think there's a zen-point here that I can't seem to grasp. I know this is getting to a point of talking about definitions I guess, but I don't really understand how to juggle between treating everyone as equals and also finding what is benef… | /r/seduction | 08/06/11 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Being the prize makes life dull.That is the point for sure. But let's say you like your potential SO to be physically attractive. Then you meet these two girls where one physically attractive, the other not. Isn't the physically attractive girl more of value than the other, to you personally, in your quest for finding a potential SO? | /r/seduction | 08/06/11 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Being the prize makes life dull.It's really reflecting your insight and it is very helpful. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/06/11 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Being the prize makes life dull.Equal, as in the same. When you say you can appreciate someone more than someone else, how is that not putting a value on someone, where time and effort is the currency? I see what you're trying to say in it all though. By seeing everyone as equals is absolutely a step in the right direction to be a good person. I have a mismatch here. | /r/seduction | 08/06/11 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Being the prize makes life dull.Ha ha. That's pretty good. Feels good to be set straight sometimes. I do think I need to reflect some more on this. Desire without attachment is a book? I'll check it out. Thanks for your input RaptorButts! | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Being the prize makes life dull.Then what is the fear I am feeling? | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Being the prize makes life dull.These traits and qualities we admire - don't them make you apreciate some girls over others? To me, when you say everyone is of equal value, translates to everyone is equal. I am pretty sure you disagree with that, so can you clarify? | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 10:59 PM |
| 1 | So who here has actually read "The Game"?I picked it up when I was backpacking in Thailand. I liked the book, but a bible? No, I don't really see it as a bible. It made the game known to a lot more people and it kinda connects people I guess. Why are you asking? | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Being the prize makes life dull.Thanks for your thoughts! It's been a pleasant discussion and I think I concluded a bit. In my head, to make it so that the girl is not the prize I took her down to my level. I removed the concept of anything but one pedestal, which I then took for my self. It's a unhealthy look at it all. Instead, this is how it should be: I leave the girl on their pedestals as they are, but I make my own which is taller than anyone else's. This way some girls are better than others and it becomes more interest… | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 08:19 PM |
| 0 | Being the prize makes life dull.I think that's it. It's basically just a tool to get results. I'm not changing what I look for in a girl. So even if this girl does not turn out to have what I look for, there are plenty others that do. Visually for me it translates to: She's on a pedestal, I'm on a pedestal and there are millions of girls on pedestals. And many more who are not on pedestals who I should just ignore more or less. Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Being the prize makes life dull.But you're saying it's not a good one by adding that "no". Just saying. | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Being the prize makes life dull.yes, there can be nice things, but you won't care as much about them. Compare it to a car. If you do not have a car, it's great to have any car. But if money is not an issue you would probably want a Ferrari or something. What we are doing is rationalizing it by saying it's just a car. But it does not change the fact that a car is quite a nice thing. So the point I am trying to make is that having something you're neurotic about feels good. Having something that is nice still feels good, but les… | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Being the prize makes life dull.I love how an intj saw this immediately. But yes, that is the issue. And relationships with that as a starting point is not possible to do. What I want is to be with a girl where I want her as much as the most needy person in the world need his target. But without being needy. | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Being the prize makes life dull.Fair enough about the attitude. And as I said to Frogma, saying life is dull because of issues like this is too strong. But how does being in a crappy relationship have anything to do with this? As I said... by removing a lot of what you find intimidating about a woman I think it also can make them less interesting. So one of the core rules of approach can then be to make the girls less interesting. So there is a paradox: Want interesting girls in life. Find interesting girl, but scared to appro… | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Being the prize makes life dull.Good point. And I think there is something in what you wrote about want and need. I guess this is residues from me being the needy me. When you need someone it becomes rather important for you to have that someone in your life. And when that works out it feels freakishly intensely great (this never works out btw) as it can resemble a life and death situation, as it is actually a need and not a want. So with want, it's less important, but it can still be great. Less extreme I guess. | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Being the prize makes life dull.Good point and very true. Life is not dull if girls are dull as there is more to life. | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 05:35 PM |
| -2 | Being the prize makes life dull....alas, it makes life dull. | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Being the prize makes life dull.You're one step behind what I'm debating here. It's not whether or not it works getting girls by shifting from wanting the prize to being the prize. It clearly works. The discussion is that by seeing them as equals, as they are, they become become less intimidating - and less interesting. They are no longer the princess. So there is a problem. Setting them on pedestals makes them unavailable. Seeing them as equals make them boring. Wat do? | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Being the prize makes life dull.Yes, but why would you want anything to do with someone who barely qualified? | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Being the prize makes life dull.That is a good point. | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Being the prize makes life dull.Maybe my wording was insufficient here, but I never meant to say it was a competition and what others think of her is part of the equation. You said it fine when you said you want a girl with the kind of qualities that make you want to share your life with her. That is a prize. If you meet a girl like that you'll think something like I better not fuck this up, because she's great. That is pedestalling in my book. If you do not worry about not fucking things up, then she's not special. She's just… | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 03:36 PM |
| 0 | Being the prize makes life dull.The thing is, if you don not put her on a pedestal it becomes "just some girl". I remember in the Blueprint, Tyler draws up the pedestal things and he is right when he says something like there is no pedestal. But then I ask, what makes a girl special? And yes, my first two years in high school I definitely had a case of the oneitis. But it's years ago now and the point is not regarding oneitis'es. The point is the feeling you have towards a oneitis. We can never feel about a partner the way we … | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 03:31 PM |
| 4 | Girl in Relationship_Advice can't decide between a boring guy and a jerk! Big surprise.Interesting read. I managed to look at the other things in the subreddit. I feel some of them need some help from here. For real. | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 03:09 PM |
| 1 | I hear the words "crisis" and "opportunity" are the same in Chinese, so I have whatever that is.It might not be Chinese, but in risk analysis a positive (This is for the aspies: or negative, depends on how you calculate it) risk is an opportunity. | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me advice for my new OkCupid profile? I got some advice from /r/okcupid, but would rather ask you guys.A few comments on this. You can make it sound dorky if you want, but the point is to make your interests sound awesome even if the majority of the ones who do them sound dorky. Go all in, not halfway. | /r/seduction | 05/06/11 09:55 PM |
| 0 | Joe Rogan on Humbleness, some interesting points here.Humble and submissive? If you can be humble and dom, then humble and sub should be possible as well. | /r/seduction | 05/06/11 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Joe Rogan on Humbleness, some interesting points here.It's related - I agree, but saying they are synonyms is taking it too far. You can be humble, dominant or both. Betas are often humble, but not very dominant. A school bully is often dominant, but not very humble. Cool dudes, like we all aspire to be are dominant and humble. Having experience and confidence is the balance needed for being humble, yet dominating. | /r/seduction | 05/06/11 04:25 PM |
| 4 | HB9 left her number under my windshield wiper at gas pump. Wat do?Call, set up date, go on date, have sex. | /r/seduction | 04/06/11 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Shy / Good / Sensible GirlsThis... this is the type of stuff that makes me loose faith in humanity. Hunger crises, shitty economy, genocide.. those I can live with. But the innocent girls doing these insane things are seriously difficult for me. (Yes, this might be an issue I should work on...) | /r/seduction | 04/06/11 06:29 PM |
| 3 | First #-close in a long time. Thanks seddit!Thanks for sharing and good luck! BTW: Something great already did come out of it. You #-closed and it felt good! | /r/seduction | 04/06/11 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Long time PUA instructor breaks down the harsh "behind the scenes" realities of nightclubsHe he, I had a laugh when I read that as well. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 01:38 AM |
| 1 | I need some help..badly...What do you need help with? | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 01:12 AM |
| 4 | Deodorant: Yes or No?This. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Achievement Unlocked: Strip Club GameDresden got told like a boss. Well written Dashing Prince! | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 11:50 PM |
| 1 | A quality youtube playlist on Frame Control - compiled by StyleI completely forgot about this. There are some new videos added to this list because I can't remember seeing the Clinton video before. Haha, the interviewer becomes irrelevant for the whole thing. Really, really good examples. | /r/seduction | 22/05/11 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Beginner at PUA here, going to the barber shop this afternoon. What should i try for practice?Beginner PUA or AFC starting out? Anyway - I would not compliment her. But do talk to her. See how long you can keep the conversation interesting without trying to hit on her. | /r/seduction | 21/05/11 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Sweaty Palms?Unscented antiperspirant. Use it like moisturising cream on your hands. It works, but I found it to be a hassle in the long run. Usually when it gets bad I just wash them. That seems to help. | /r/seduction | 19/05/11 09:14 AM |
| 2 | I am Emotionally RetardedWhy would you want to change anything? Do you -want- to socialize, or do you just feel that you -have- to? | /r/seduction | 19/05/11 09:05 AM |
| 4 | [Frustration Report] Flaked. Badly.No idea, but I would guess it's age-related. Girl has issues, so move along. | /r/seduction | 19/05/11 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Jenna Mourey (JennaMarbles on youtube) on girls that piss her, and likely, most sedditors, off.She has some good points. It seems to be confusion in regards to sex neutrality and equal rights. | /r/seduction | 19/05/11 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Quick tip I learned from last nightIt's just one trick, among many that are available. What you want is not a bag of tricks, but to be a cool dude that people like. But the tricks can help you along the way. | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Quick tip I learned from last nightha ha! | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 12:38 AM |
| 1 | This is where "AFCs" come from.Well written Sir. Very commendable! | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 12:34 AM |
| 2 | A woman's perspective on LMR - DON'T IGNORE THE LMRRather intense stuff. | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 12:18 AM |
| 2 | I need some game for picking up girls when I'm riding my bicycleThat would certainly be interesting. When ever I have huge amounts of free time and done everything else on my lists I'll disect the movie and dig up this old thread again. | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 02:37 PM |
| 2 | I need some game for picking up girls when I'm riding my bicycleOh, right! Ha ha - I think I was tired. It never occurred to me it is actually a book :) | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 12:41 PM |
| 7 | Is it a good idea to go for a 16 year old? me being 20.(20 / 2) + 7 = 17 So no. Also, some countries have age of consent at 18, so it would be two long years. | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 12:03 PM |
| 1 | A DC taxi driver said this to me this and I thought you guys might like itWarren Buffet gave the advice of "marry up". I say they're right. | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 02:24 AM |
| 2 | I need some game for picking up girls when I'm riding my bicyclelistening to fight club on tape? What..? | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 02:22 AM |
| 2 | I need some game for picking up girls when I'm riding my bicycleWhat Tofu said. | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 02:21 AM |
| 1 | I'm starting the DJ Forums Pickup Bootcamp this week. 8 weeks of self-guided exercises assembled in a PDF by one of the forum's members.I actually do the xp thing with more or less everything in life. Gives me a reason to get up in the morning. | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 05:06 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girls in the club?I seriously dislike dancing, so being in a club is really not my arena. What other things do you do in a club than dance? When I say club I mean loud music. | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 05:33 PM |
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