bobsaget2021 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	I still miss my ex 14 months later		bobsaget2021	/r/Divorce_Men	02/12/21 08:51 PM
7	A letter of forgiveness and moving on		bobsaget2021	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/21 05:50 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Out of the blue Yup. I thought my wife would stick by me through my trauma, but no... she talked shit about me behind my back while I was going through the toughest time in my life. The 9 previous years where I supported her and gave her anything she wanted with freedom to do whatever she wanted meant nothing.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/22 03:20 PM
2	Life changes after divorce Very similar to me... finalized July 2021 and been separated a year. I live in the marital home, which was freshly remodeled in July 2020. It was supposed to be our forever home and has many upgrades she really wanted. I like the home... colors are masculine, all the renovations are great. But I also feel the "tomb of my past life" sentiment. Unsure if I will stay, rent it out or sell the place.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/22 09:06 PM
1	Advice? If you don't want to sell the house, find a way to pay her the $30k. My ex wanted to sell it to reap the benefits of a bidding war. Thankfully I was able to establish a value in mediation before appraisal, and the appraisal came back $35k higher 3 months later on when I refinanced.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/22 02:55 AM
2	Is it supposed to get worse? That may help for sure... I am also just totally depressed and anxious due to health/injury circumstances and have such low self esteem right now. I did go on a couple dates 2 weeks ago with someone; may seal the deal, may not. But I feel bad for not being confident/myself/ready for a relationship and just trying to get some puss.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/21 07:26 PM
10	Is it supposed to get worse? I relate brother. I panicked at her cheating, was calm initially but was then reactive to her reasoning as I didn't feel her unmet needs justified her actions in our scenario where I was deep in my first-ever depression. Therapy lasted 3 months before she filed. Defense mode kicked in through our divorce, then anger mixed with a little denial while I had my first fling with a hottie as we approached mediation 6 months after filing. Finalized in July, and here it is December and I'm worse than ev…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/21 02:11 AM
1	A letter of forgiveness and moving on Thank you.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/21 12:44 AM
0	A letter of forgiveness and moving on What is the detriment of sending it? It would give her too much satisfaction of ego?	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/21 07:21 PM
2	I still miss my ex 14 months later Boy do we! Thank you for your support, and for the award! My first! You're a good man, sir.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/12/21 11:04 PM