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It's because you are happy and accomplished and your body language and attitude reflects that.
/r/seduction19/06/23 05:47 PM
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Everybody says stupid stuff or offensive no matter how confident or skilled. There is no such thing as a perfect dialogue. You should focus on your vibe and don't forget to express your intent.
/r/seduction30/05/23 11:18 PM
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Improve your looks and have money - is the best self-confidence boost possible.
/r/seduction04/11/22 09:13 PM
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I see nothing wrong with the texts. Maybe after a day or two ask her if she's feeling better - and ask her out. And you'll know were you stand.
/r/seduction30/10/22 11:36 PM
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When will you realize that Todd V is an idiot? And all his teachings can make you cringe. You cannot "build" interest, if you get no response the girl didn't find you attractive - she won't find you attractive no matter what you do! When she responds, asks you questions, has a pleasant vibe, a smile, she's intrigued, looks in your eyes. Start conversations like a normal person and drop techniques you learned from puas.
/r/seduction30/10/22 09:52 PM
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Statements like this, that sound like an axiom should be taken with a grain of salt or completely disregarded. They sound like they come from an autistic person. The real life evidence suggests both men and women choose based on looks primarily.
/r/seduction30/10/22 09:30 PM
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Do you find it romantic? I do. If i like the person. Would it be better if this person smiled at you? A gaze and a demure smile is enough for me to get the hint.
/r/seduction29/10/22 09:43 PM
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"I'm alone, wanted to chill/have fun/get drunk" and maybe meet a girl" Why do you want excuses for what you do? It's totally fine to be alone - i don't provide explanations for my actions to a total stranger, it's submissive af.
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:56 AM
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Go see a doctor and get treatment for your anxiety.
/r/seduction27/10/22 10:43 AM
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I always think "I wonder what she is like". I wonder if she gives good blowjobs and knows how to move in bed. To each on his own!
/r/seduction26/10/22 01:57 AM
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This "good mental connection" happens after sex. Not the way you imagine it.
/r/seduction25/10/22 10:51 PM
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My wording is probably misleading in my previous post. Takeaway: You don't need pua to sleep with girls. Confidence you either have, don't or build - the only valuable thing to take from pua is "approach more girls" - it's not a novel idea. It's not their "techniques" that gets you laid but your confidence gained from approaches.
/r/seduction24/10/22 12:19 AM
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It's a question of time/effort vs reward - shooting at the sky often is a senseless action.
/r/seduction24/10/22 12:08 AM
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>And I want to meet atleast an 8 or higher Are ya a 8 or higher?
/r/seduction23/10/22 10:39 PM
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i don't think any PUA helped you directly - it just raised your inner confidence esp. mystery crap. I'm alive long before PUA existed and i "layed" girls without any PUA methods.
/r/seduction23/10/22 10:23 PM
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It should have been obvious: online, text and to a degree voice communication lacks the ability to transfer emotions. Emotional transference can only manifest itself through physical interaction.
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:35 PM
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don’t understand that analogy but alrighty preciate it
/r/seduction23/10/22 08:50 PM
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I’ve been with about 12 girls but I’ve been out of the game for a while now. My confidence is just now starting to come back but it’s not as much as I had before. Maybe I did miss something, I don’t know. I agree with your second comment, but I just didn’t wanna fucking scare her off- seems like I did that anyway though :/ Sometimes it feels like this shit is a lose lose situation.
/r/seduction23/10/22 08:46 PM
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nah, don’t think it went that way. she told me she was while we were texting, not bc of religion but just bc she hasn’t found anybody that she fw. i thought the date went fucking great, but i would’ve known if she wanted to fuck. plus, we were completely alone at that park- so, p sure if she was wanting to fuck she would’ve showed a sign and we could’ve just did it there. i think you’re focusing on the sexual aspect of this too much lmfao
/r/seduction23/10/22 08:35 PM
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Don't be a fool - did you check her hymen? Anyway she wanted to spend more intimate time with you and you ... rejected her. END OF STORY.
/r/seduction23/10/22 08:26 PM
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...// a little bit and when we get to the car she says “I really don’t wanna go home, I’ve enjoyed this a lot.” Lemme translate that for ya: "please take me somewhere and fuck me!" Now that you have a hint probably you can deduce why she ignores you now....
/r/seduction23/10/22 08:14 PM
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I slept with some girls along the way, but nothing materialized into a LTR All you have to do is say "we should do/i'd like to do this again".
/r/seduction23/10/22 06:24 PM
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Find a girl that likes you and any shit you say is a "spark". If you are not expressing your sexual intent of course they don't feel shit.
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:38 PM
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Oh, how outrageous that he wants it everyday!
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:51 PM
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Hopefully there’s some way for me to develop “new” experiences myself No...you can try, but, when i say new i mean everything - not new "tricks" a whole different person/body/mind. doesn’t give in to the natural desire to seek newness somewhere else You can't stop the "force of nature". Meanwhile if you cherish and respect him he might be inclined to stay longer.
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:30 PM
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Everybody gets bored especially in your age group - i don't think you can do anything about it no matter what you do - a "normal" person seeks "new" experiences no matter what you tell yourself .....
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:10 PM
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Simp method to get a lay ....just say to her you wanna FUCK her...if she refuses trash her.. You are over complicating things beyond reality
/r/seduction18/10/22 10:45 PM
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Simple! "You either wanna fuck or not!" All the simps here and all the old decrepit guys like (/RedditsOlderBrah) will gonna say i'm wrong! i'm not...all girls want dick as easy as possible... If you carry this attitude you are "gold"!
/r/seduction18/10/22 10:23 PM
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The concept of kino exists because socially slow men were unable to read the non-verbal communication of women they are hitting on. For some yes, for others it's just a "method" of eliminating women that are just friendly and have no sexual interest.
/r/seduction18/10/22 07:43 PM
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If you have a big frame lousing muscle is not a concern - fat is harder to loose than muscle. *me: even as a fat guy i had many lays some girls just want cock and a guy that makes it easy for them...
/r/seduction18/10/22 06:58 PM
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losing 1kg after a month of diet for example. he can loose 1kg per week without exercise and without starving...i lost 30Kg in 3-4 months i just eliminated shits like sodas, oils, and butter and bread and any high calorie foods concentrated in small weights. ....bla...bla... All he has to do is grow some balls and be direct and physical with girls that like him...
/r/seduction18/10/22 06:40 PM
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are you suggesting him to "loose" 4 years "getting better" when all he has to do is find a girl that likes him as he is? For every archetype there is a responsive girl, all he has to find which girls respond to him... All he has to do is find a girl that says yes to "do you wanna fuck?"
/r/seduction18/10/22 06:24 PM
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You need to lose weight - it's not that hard, you need to eat less and seek treatment for your depression, there are many medicines like bupropion that can crush your anxiety and depression fast. Seek medical advice asap!
/r/seduction18/10/22 06:21 PM
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