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| 54 | This is why we stay vigilant | MALE DEPRAVITY | bodysnatcherz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:31 AM |
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| 14 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 66 - Baldness is Dadnessbut then Musk bought it out He didn't. Or at least not yet. But he probably won't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/22 12:00 AM |
| 7 | Who else has heard “wear pretty underwear in case you get hit by a bus/car”? So, even when severely injured/dying, women must ensure they’re sexually arousing and visually pleasing the patriarchy. This is not cuteWhen my grandma was having a stroke, she hopped in the bath before calling for help because she wanted to look nice to the paramedics and hospital staff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 29 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?FWIW I've been delighted every time another woman has spoken to me at the gym! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 07:50 AM |
| 22 | When it comes to snooping & men hiding things from their SO. The truth hurts! Let us normalize "snooping".I have the exact same boundary around weed use. I can't be upfront about it anymore because so many men have lied to my face about it. I had a LTR where he lied to me about it and hid it from me for over a year! Never let men know what your expectations are. Let them show you who they really are first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 06:08 PM |
| 4 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.Anyone have a source on the kidnapping attempt part of this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:14 AM |
| 6 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.This is fucking amazing lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:09 AM |
| 2 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.🥰🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:05 AM |
| 9 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.Lmao as if the police will even show up or care. Unfortunately street harassment isn't a crime, so at least in my city they ignore or brush off calls like these (had a woman in my city's sub make a post about this happening to her recently). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:03 AM |
| 1 | A lot of criticisms of women are just male projection when you really think about it.Lol trueee. And I probably should have said that they filtered themselves out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 08:37 PM |
| 46 | A lot of criticisms of women are just male projection when you really think about it.Silver lining.. you've effectively filtered out men who don't take care of themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:11 AM |
| 13 | "dating for a free meal"I have yet to meet a guy worried about gold diggers that actually has resources to attract a gold digger. In my experience guys with wealth flaunt it and are more than happy to use it to attract women. If anything, they're thrilled that there are women who can be bought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 11:41 AM |
| 9 | Best post in the history of reddit. Not for the audacity of this POS, but the backlash he got from the replies. He really thought he could use this baby to control her and it backfired HORRIBLY. Love to men getting a taste of their own medicine. I hope this woman is great and doing well 🎉🙏🏼"She has never met our son" Lmaoo she held him inside her body for 9 months, I think she knew her son quite intimately. To imply that she somehow did not give motherhood a fair shot is absurd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 10:04 PM |
| 8 | MuahahahaI wouldn't be surprised if the clinical trials were scrapped due to non-compliance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:55 PM |
| 16 | Let’s not forget why Zuckerberg started Facebook... to rank women!Instagram Facebook Google | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 05:28 AM |
| 35 | Let’s not forget why Zuckerberg started Facebook... to rank women!Buried deep in settings you can actually look at what your ad demographics are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:02 AM |
| 96 | MuahahahaNo way would I trust a man to take his BC anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:00 AM |
| 33 | Ladies, stop giving HIS house free renovations with YOUR moneyHere's how this happens: House needs improvement, girlfriend notices and notifies male homeowner Man drags his feet, complains, or isn't willing to make it happen Girlfriend pays because she just wants the QoL upgrade and is sick of waiting "bUt WoMeN aRe AlL gOlDdiGgErS" I've never paid toward anyone's home, but I've done similar shit a million times before. For example, I used to date a guy who adopted a puppy, who he then didn't bother to train. I got sick of dealing with an unruly dog, and s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 04:35 AM |
| 188 | your money? what money? lmaoIn my experience, men who have money are VERY eager to use it to attract women. It's the men who don't have that option that are upset 😅. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 11:15 PM |
| 3 | We all know it. If he wanted to, he WOULD.I'm not interested in having a biological child on my own (I'll adopt), but thank you! I'm happy that exists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 11:12 PM |
| 32 | We all know it. If he wanted to, he WOULD.One of the main reasons I have been anxious to find a partner is because I want kids, and there's a clock on that. It's dark, but something that helped me come to terms with the idea of potentially not having kids was reading in depth about the realities of climate change, and realizing that I feel skeptical that my future children would have a good life. The other thing that helped was taking a hard look at the realities of motherhood with an unsupportive partner. I now really and truly underst… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 09:19 PM |
| 73 | Patron Saint of the PickmeishasWhat is it with these crazy male abusers in the media that just attracts pickmes like flies to old food? They are uncomfortable with the idea that someone could hurt them, so they instead decide that people who get hurt must have deserved it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 09:39 PM |
| 20 | Would love to flip this around and ask sons of fathers who visited prostitutes, how do you feel about what your father did?👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Don't Date Men Who Devalue Your InterestsHoly shit that is beyond obnoxious of those "friends". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:10 PM |
| 17 | It’s never truly 50/50It truly blows my mind every time I think of this. All the mental energy and time we spend on curating products and routines and styles that work for us! It seriously takes like a decade to get good at it, maybe less if you're genetically blessed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 08:01 AM |
| 14 | It’s never truly 50/50dry their hair with a towel I have purchased special hair towels to be gentler on my hair. Meanwhile, most men don't even have more than one regular bath towel clean at a time. Then I have various shampoos for different needs (purple, hydrating, clarifying), hydrating treatments, heat protectant sprays, etc. Such a radically different life experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:54 AM |
| 13 | It’s never truly 50/50Women who do this are genuinely impressive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:50 AM |
| 37 | Don't Date Men Who Devalue Your InterestsYes yes yes! This is something I'm paying CLOSE attention to going forward. If you think about it, all the cultural phenomena people love to hate or that are considered guilty pleasures are predominantly popular amongst women. Last year a new video game came out from a series that I had played since I was a child, and was so so dear to me. I was excited for literally years for the new game. When it came out, I bought my bf at the time a copy because I was so excited to share it with him. When we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:44 AM |
| 9 | Rejected a low effort datesome people are too simple-minded to appreciate higher education and can't open up their eyes to learning HAHA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:17 AM |
| 4 | I'm getting so frustrated with the number of drinks/coffee/walk dates I'm being offered and would love to discuss this phenomenaDepends on your area, but walk dates weren't much of a thing pre-covid. In my city, most people aren't comfortable with indoor dining yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:14 AM |
| 6 | If you have an mental illness - be extra cautious of men trying to manipulate you or gaslight youThis makes sense. Inventing a thyroid disorder is very different though. I'm having trouble understanding how to explain that to someone you eventually come to trust. Also, your username is chefs kiss 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 09:09 PM |
| 15 | If you have an mental illness - be extra cautious of men trying to manipulate you or gaslight youHonestly you probably shouldn't take that risk until your mental illnesses are better controlled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 07:16 PM |
| 8 | If you have an mental illness - be extra cautious of men trying to manipulate you or gaslight youIf the relationship goes well and he becomes a HVM, when and how do you reveal the truth? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 07:15 PM |
| 2 | He was my best friend for over a decade until I realized four years ago that he had been sexual abusing and manipulating me for years. He texted me this out of the blue from a new number after blocking him on everything. Thank you to FDS for giving me the strength and courage to not respond.Again, everyone should look up their local laws if they're being harassed. But in my case I was surprised to learn how bad it had to be for even a protection order to be issued. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:25 PM |
| 6 | So many women live and hide the abuse they have endured. No longer!If I were to out more than one, no one would believe me (and women that only out one obviously are not believed either), and it would further traumatize me. I hate how true this is. A scrote elsewhere on reddit recently told me what they think about women who've been assaulted more than once. I won't repeat the sentiment, but it's not good. Every woman probably has a mental list of men they would call out if he ever received public acclaim. I know I do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:00 AM |
| 2 | He was my best friend for over a decade until I realized four years ago that he had been sexual abusing and manipulating me for years. He texted me this out of the blue from a new number after blocking him on everything. Thank you to FDS for giving me the strength and courage to not respond.Obviously depends where OP lives but in a recent similar experience I had, I learned that this alone is not criminal harassment nor even enough to get a protection order. Sadly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:56 AM |
| 4 | I love being tall. There I said it.5'11" here! I've come to enjoy it more over the years, as I enjoy feeling strong and powerful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:45 AM |
| 5 | Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?My first sexual partner and first boyfriend would forceably hold me down so I couldn't get away when things were heating up and I would tell him I didn't want to have sex. We lived in the dorms, and I'd have to physically fight him off (not in a playful manner) until I got out of his room. So many fwb's over the years have pressured me to invite them over to have sex when I've just said I'm not feeling well. Like, post-surgery, or while I had a painful UTI. Women are objects to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:34 AM |
| 5 | Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?Yes. Never settle for anything less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:27 AM |
| 18 | Well this is a new one. Even if he's actually disabled, why would it matter what the woman looks like if it's not for anything except for "therapeutic and health reasons!"He's probably full of shit, but fwiw there are a lot of adaptive technologies for people who can't use a keyboard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 12:59 AM |
| 16 | OLD Cautionary Tales: I rejected men that seemed good on paper.BuT wOmEn hAvE iT sO eAsY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 12:29 AM |
| 7 | OLD Cautionary Tales: I rejected men that seemed good on paper.Protip: reverse image search. Found out a married liar who was using a fake name this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 12:28 AM |
| 27 | For the Military guys, marriage and kids means a bigger paycheck for them. It's not always about love.You just made a 'not all men' argument. Yes, we know not every single person in the institution has these issues. But they're pervasive enough to be discussed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 08:46 PM |
| 41 | "It feels like patriarchy has entered a whole new chapter. Men are being taught to hate women in a new way. Let’s call it “hyper patriarchy.” The internet makes everything faster, harder, dumber, and meaner. And that’s what it’s doing to patriarchy, too."It's so bizarre to me when men make sweeping statements about what it's like to be a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 08:38 PM |
| 3 | The 6/6/6 rule is just asking for a normal guy.The guys who care about women's height are the ones that like small women that they can push around. Or they like small women so they don't feel emasculated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:51 PM |
| 5 | I was really excited about a first date, but I'll be canceling due to some mini red flags... This is my personal farewell.Yep! My reason for posting was just to add the perspective that late night texting doesn't = garbage person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:24 AM |
| 6 | I was really excited about a first date, but I'll be canceling due to some mini red flags... This is my personal farewell.Interesting, this is not the social norm in my friend group. I send and receive texts at any hour. It's easy to set up do not disturb policies on your phone to avoid being woken. My sleeping and work hours are highly variable so I wouldn't expect anyone to know that a 9am message is much more disturbing to me than a midnight one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:07 AM |
| 27 | HVM Behavior in Male CelebritiesOh! Who was the male tennis player who confidently declared serena williams as objectively the best tennis player of all time? Andy Murray. Loved hearing that from him as tennis is such a sexist sport. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 10:25 PM |
| 7 | I can’t and won’t accept that 32% of women who run experience breast ligament pain and possible permanent injury.I'm not petite and I'm 'only' a D, but it's nearly impossible to find a decent sports bra. Every time I buy athletic clothes I throw in a few sports bras to see if I can find any winners, and they're almost always unsupportive and terrible. Never occurred to me how wild that really is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 10:21 PM |
| 16 | I was really excited about a first date, but I'll be canceling due to some mini red flags... This is my personal farewell.Eek, I don't think I necessarily agree with this. Maybe sus if he only texts late at night. But I'm an extreme night owl (dinner at 10 or 11pm, bed at 2 or 3am) so those are actually prime texting hours for me. Also. I've had the misfortune of dating a few cheaters and they definitely found time to talk during the day while working, commuting, running errands, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 10:16 PM |
| 69 | Tinder is going to start allowing its users to do background checks on potential dates and scrotes are FURIOUS.I saw this discussed on another (larger main page) sub and the comments were VILE. Scrotes were furious because they saw this as a way Tinder will be even more "unfair" for them, because OLD is already soooo hard for them. Yes, they feel victimized that they don't have easy access to sex. They were also mad that Tinder was addressing a problem women have and not doing anything about their problems (ex - why doesn't tinder weed out the onlyfans "whores" instead). Yes, they were claiming that sex … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 10:01 PM |
| 11 | Men who wake up one day and decide to be successfulThe sheer number of men with "high school" or "some college" (read: one class at community college) whom make stable livings in salaried positions is astounding. These are the men who put "school of hard knocks" in their dating profile 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Getting sick and LVMThis is absolutely something I'm going to use as a test going forward! I won't make up an illness or anything, but I'm gonna communicate a time when I'm not feeling well, and then observe whether he gives a shit or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 09:16 PM |
| 110 | We are not immune from our own deeply rooted biases.In my field there was a study where female professors reviewed grad school applicants with female names more harshly than ones with male names. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 09:05 PM |
| 4 | Can someone explain to my European brain this “joint account” bullshit?!What is this plague of abused women in the US who can't fucking run away because of a “joint account”?! Absolutely correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think it works like this. A joint account would be a better thing for an abused woman (who is not working), because she then has at least equal access to the money, instead of no access. The key is for every woman to have her own private account, regardless of whether the couple shares a joint account or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 08:49 PM |
| 13 | Can someone explain to my European brain this “joint account” bullshit?!It was my understanding that community property laws generally protect women. Since so many women give up careers to raise children, this allows them to leave the divorce with assets. Men constantly moan about how unfair divorce is to men, so that makes me think these are indeed protections for women. I do currently know one woman who is trapped in a marriage with a LVM who has racked up absurd amounts of credit card debit, even though he has a good job and they both work. But I think I'd prefer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Can someone explain to my European brain this “joint account” bullshit?!It depends on the state, and when the money was earned. I know that people can get into a lot of trouble in a divorce if they took (edit: the majority of) assets from a joint account before a divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 07:42 PM |
| 12 | Reminder: No one listens better than a man who wants to f*ck youWOMEN talk TOO damn much!” belief can go die Yes, especially because it's been studied. "A review of 56 studies conducted by linguistics researcher Deborah James and social psychologist Janice Drakich found only two studies showing that women talked more than men, while 34 studies found men talked more than women.[6] Sixteen of the studies found they talked the same and four showed no clear pattern." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 07:35 PM |
| 17 | Just broke up with a porn sick man. Thanks FDS for helping me assert my boundaries and hold my own.he did know that I have very strong opinions about it This is what I was wondering 🙂. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:51 PM |
| 7 | Men’s HygieneO m g | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 04:36 PM |
| 21 | Just broke up with a porn sick man. Thanks FDS for helping me assert my boundaries and hold my own.Genuinely curious - did he know you had this boundary? Like was it an ongoing issue in the relationship or something new? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | “Doesn’t like men”This applies to orphaned children as well. A wonderful family I knew growing up adopted twin toddler girls from abroad. They eventually had to send them back because they were distressed from the minute they met their adoptive father, and were not coping. They were traumatized by men to the point that it was cruel to make them be around one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 11:12 PM |
| 19 | Watch out for love bombers !I've been a bit guilty of this in the past. Not full on planning our future wedding, but just excited and smitten and thinking about all of the things we could do together. I realized that my default assumption was that the men I met all had good intentions. Now I know I need to vet them more to find out the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 10:45 PM |
| 8 | Women are attracted to money...And Jeff Bezos's ex just married a high school teacher, has committed to giving away at least half her wealth (which she fucking earned alongside Jeff), and in her first year of having sole control of her wealth, became one of the top annual philanthropists. I'm sure there will be much more to come. Tldr: Bezos's ex dropped his cheating ass and leveled up in every way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 10:26 PM |
| 30 | Masturbating with pictures of Instagram girls. Probably is the “new type of porn”.Can you imagine living like this? I don't have to imagine it, I've lived it 😅. It's now become my worst nightmare as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 17 | Men who whine that women being scared of men is "bad for men's mental health" are the ones you need to watch out for ESPECIALLY. Pity plays are the #1 red flag for sociopaths and narcissists.I believe it. Lately I've been challenging flagrant and overt misogyny on reddit when I see it (in very popular default subs), and I get downvoted to hell and disgusting comments get upvoted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inProud of you! How did he react? Is the friendship viable still? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.Hire a trainer if at all possible, even short-term. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 02:43 AM |
| 11 | The NotAllMen brigade love to use this excuse when it comes to casual/quick sex tooI'm a programmer! Down to work on this with you if you'd like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Message to all LVM/NVM 🤬But lumping them in with the venomous ones makes them feel attacked and we gotta protect their feelings! /s Btw, I had someone try to tell me that 3% of men have committed sexual violence and that they're repeat offenders causing all the problems. He couldn't provide a source. I did like two minutes of searching and found that 16% of college aged men self-report that they've committed assault. Imagine how high that number becomes by age 60, and then include the guys who don't admit to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 08:55 PM |
| 5 | Men aren’t active parents. In fact, many of them are burdens to the women they’re married to. Their lives get easier when married, but the women’s lives come to a complete standstill.How would a coworker find out? I'd just say I was missing x body part or something, so there's no possibility of unsolicited advice on fertility. Definitely I like to confront these issues without lying whenever possible and let people sit in their discomfort over how I've chosen to live my life, but if lying about this means succeeding at work, I'd do it in a heartbeat! But I'm not actually CF so this is a hypothetical to me. You do you! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 11:04 PM |
| 153 | Ladies, take note of the men around you who are saying "not all men". They are promoting a pro-femicide agenda. Don't have sex with them, don't give them your attention, and don't patron their businesses #BoycottNAMALTImagine if a quarter of that effort spent on being defensive over how women react was directed towards the men who are the root cause. I love their excuses for this. "I can't help because all my friends are good guys." "Abusers are deceptive and no one can identify them!" "Well I have my own problems to deal with!" "What are you doing to help men abused by women?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:54 PM |
| 7 | Men aren’t active parents. In fact, many of them are burdens to the women they’re married to. Their lives get easier when married, but the women’s lives come to a complete standstill.I wonder if telling people you're infertile would be a good strategy. Gets them off your case and makes them feel bad for asking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:41 PM |
| 64 | Message to all LVM/NVM 🤬They've moved on from saying the statistics are exaggerated to saying that a very small percentage of men are responsible for all the harassment. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:39 PM |
| 20 | Imagine feeling bad for cheating scrotes who abuse and exploit your body AND use you for free therapy sessions.They don't want to pay child support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:36 PM |
| 8 | Not All MenI can't fucking stand the excuses they use to justify why they can't possibly help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 11:30 PM |
| 15 | Not All MenI was arguing about this with men on twox last night. They're so busy feeling attacked that they refuse to listen. The fragility is stunning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 11:27 PM |
| 36 | What is your all-time favorite FDS post?With regards to the BDSM article, be wary of that source. The Witherspoon Institute is very problematic - they oppose abortion and same sex marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 10:10 PM |
| 18 | A guy walked into my apartment & I realize to exist as a woman is to be constantly reminded of my own vulnerabilitythe male officer started with the whole wELl iT cOulD hAvE bEen dAnGerOuS fOr hIm tOo. This is SO insane. I'm a woman and moved apartments within my building a few months ago. When I was cleaning out my old apartment and running around between units, I got the floors confused and barged into a random guy's apartment. I felt SO bad that I startled someone, and it never crossed my mind to feel bad for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 09:49 PM |
| 2 | I’ve had my guy friends tell me that I need to be rude to catcallers or guys harassing me, but they literally don’t understand how dangerous that is.How did his wife react? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 05:58 AM |
| 3 | Why do men feel entitled to participate in spaces made for women?Omg, I've experienced this firsthand. I work in a majority male field, and once a quarter our VP hosts a large women's dinner to talk about ongoing diversity and inclusion initiatives. Male allies are allowed to come as well. Last time (pre covid) they hosted the event, there was Q&A time.. and guess who was the first person to jump up and ask a question? Yep, the male "ally". Because in a ballroom with hundreds of women at a women's event, he needed to steal the moment for himself to ask a tota… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | No one asked him to research love languages...I actually think it's a great tool for accountability. If I express to my partner what makes me feel most loved and they still choose not to do those things, I know that they don't really care about or respect me. Basically, having the love languages discussion can weed out people who don't listen and don't want to put any effort in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:57 AM |
| 28 | This is why we stay vigilantOmg, hahaha. As if you'd want to give your friends your rejects anyway! These dudes must believe women all want to sabotage one another. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:51 AM |
| 20 | This is why we stay vigilantAw man, I have no idea why that would be. Try opening in a browser? https://imgur.com/RzX8IqP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Applying FDS "sex strategy" when I physically cannot/ have never had an orgasm?When you read the advice, you can think of orgasm = event that leaves you satisfied with the sexual experience. If you can't orgasm, you can define what that ultimate satisfaction looks like for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:24 AM |
| 91 | Men are entering Academia with the express intent of preying on students. Like most LVM and Predators, they try and infiltrate the ranks of trusted institutions to find their victims and hide their intentions behind the authority of their title.Based on multiple experiences being the victim of this, the university won't give a shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Men CAN Level Up. They Don’t WANT To.They're too busy crying about the fact that the meanie women on dating apps aren't responding to their messages to consider what they can do to become more attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 10:28 PM |
| 12 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.Can you get a 0% interest credit card? Those have saved my ass a few times over the years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:03 AM |
| 31 | Try Interrupting MenOmg, the monologuing is real. When I'm in a group of women having lunch at work, the conversation tends to bounce around and flow nicely. When a man joins, all of our eyes gloss over as he drones on for far too long. Pretty disturbing how one man can feel so comfortable totally dominating the time and attention of a whole group. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:38 AM |
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