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A dude blocked me after I messaged him first based off of one of the answers to a prompt. It was like worst date ever and he said: Got told I was being too much. I asked what’s too much [his name]? He said “I have a morbidly honest sense of humor about myself,” and I was like “ohhh I get it now, it was a bad date because you overshared some shit with a stranger that should’ve been said and kept in therapy!” He even replied after that but he seemed really surprised that I would even say that. Som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 10:54 PM
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the part that gets me is he says she’s on her period, even goes so far as to say it “relieves her period stuff”🤢 but then says rug burn on his face lol…you’d think if your face is covered in like way more of her fluids than YOU SHOULD NORMALLY BE, how the f would you get rug burn? Was she really wearing a tampon when she sat on your face bro. Like they don’t even bother to try and make up something that could physically be possible, they don’t even stop to think. Why even bring up her period if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:55 PM
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Thank y’all for the concern ♡ I’m personally equipped with mental tools and have invested a lot in the past two years into educating and protecting myself and my data because I was being stalked and harassed by multiple men online but more importantly in my daily life. I recognize that this is not the case for most women online however and I appreciate the looking out and it’s important advice for those who have to keep their identity private. Already had a middle aged scrote(several videos on h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:46 PM
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good signs/bad intuition I think he meant standards and boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:11 AM
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Rug burn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:08 AM
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Omfg this literally happened to my brother and his best friend recently during a night out. Not only was dude with his husband, both pushing edit:50!!, going on and on about their money and their boat trying to lure the 20 year old onto their houseboat which they kept calling a yacht…bragging about the price of their(shared) jacket and said they had 1 mil. In the bank…Nobody with money does that AND if we see that you have a “boat” and run a foreign car parts manufacturing business and have seve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:23 AM
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Straight up…my ex friends nasty childish “Marxist” 22 yr old bf(he refers to her as his roommate) tried to compare working at a target distribution center with fssw(aka compare himself to me) “but muh back hurttttsss so my body is a commodity” yeah nice try
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 02:15 PM
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I think they just meant that people idolize them as a couple as an example of celebrity relationships that people are obsessed with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:23 PM
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Yes! As others have said it’s totally okay to feel that way, you’re HUMAN. For me personally, I have spent the last year learning how to just feel lonely when I have any lonely moments instead of acting upon them out of desperation. The way I see it, being able to not only identify but to manage those feelings are a part of my level up. My ex abused me and everything else in the world because he is incapable of doing that. The women I have cut off after years of “friendship” can’t do that. My ow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 08:40 PM
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Sorry I’m not trying to point out what not to do, I’m genuinely horrified and would like to understand why someone would do this? Is it legitimate obliviousness or something obviously way worse? I don’t understand why they would say not sure what I’m looking for but then put that in her bio? If it is some kind of reaction to trauma I would like to understand that better. This is not just a profile critique, I date women too and she liked me first and I have never seen a profile like this before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 03:56 AM
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The way the guy just said “women I’ve matched with” he didn’t even actually get to know them at all let alone do anything that would warrant this overbearing chase these women supposedly do after just looking at his dumb ass profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 03:07 AM
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How I’m tryna be!!!!!!💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:14 AM
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You are so amazing for recognizing these things and taking accountability for your inner little self where your caregivers could not. Some women NEVER make it this far, and will always wonder “Why me?” Talk about a level up. You are worth loving, you deserve it, and you shouldn’t ever have to prove that, to anyone. I know firsthand how hard it is to accept that the love you needed from your parents will never ever come, and how hard it is to move forward with that information, especially when it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:10 AM
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Needed this. Also she’s so gorgeous, I love her voice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:44 AM
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Also “what a waste of time” dude you are the one saying you want a “friend” in another city(BULLSHIT) and made the choice to drive two hours…you wasted your own time…some dude commented and said “that’s why first dates should always be low investment so you don’t get crushed by the rejection” I had to reply, “no, they should not be low investment, you should lower your fucking expectations. If you like someone that much you’ll “invest” in a first date because investment implies the understanding…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:31 AM
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Ugh I saw this thread. So many dudes telling OP regardless of if she’s a “bitch” or if she felt uncomfortable you need to move on and let it go. Kinda gave me a little bit of hope ngl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:27 AM
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One time I was on a “date” with a total freak and granted I was in between a move and switching jobs so I didn’t really have the money to go out for dinner or do drinks all night, especially if he pulled some trick on me and wanted me to pay… I suggested a bar I love that’s in walking distance of my parents house where I was staying at the time. I always have an amazing time there and loved the staff and used to work with a few of them in retail. We meet at my spot and go inside and I know for a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:11 AM
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THIS!!!!! Especially when it comes to dudes in bands or god forbid dudes who only play guitar….first of all learning how to play guitar is not impressive, but it’s even worse when they don’t write/perform original music and have the audacity to neg/disregard my work…and even then, it’s like almost daily I match with a guy in a band and I’m like yeah I make music and they just pretend I didn’t even say anything…and oh god if they actually go ahead and humor me and give it a listen they get EVEN M…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:56 AM
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Yo seriously!! The day I tossed my Do Not Date list was the day I started trying to make FRIENDS in my area. I seriously had the best summer spending time with some women from my town I randomly met thru a coworker dragging me to a party.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:56 AM
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Congrats!!! Your level up just made my day!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:47 PM
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thank you, I didn’t exactly have the words to explain this but that’s it. I’m trying to break the cycle and think about why I do what I do when I’m not blinded by infatuation or abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:10 PM
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agreed, I live in a city so I usually tell people the neighborhood I live in in the area of the city I live in. I don’t give out my address unless I’m on a call on signal, speaking with someone I’ve verified lol you don’t have to go that far but god no don’t tell randoms your address, for me it’s that you never know who else will see that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:51 AM
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I’m for real starting to wonder if I should make it a deal breaker even though I still occasionally smoke. I think I would fit best with someone like me who wants to be clean and eventually sober forever, not someone who just supports my sobriety. Idk that’s always going to be so much harder and not good for my codependency if things get relapsey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:42 AM
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you guys are seriously game changers; I never thought about that but see totally see it, and have been in that situation before. great, another double standard I get to be held to. Guys will ghost you the minute they find out you have an ex, best friend, hell even your brother you talk to on a regular basis and are friendly with, because they don’t play games with females who talk to other men. But the fake triangulation mindfuck is like part of their playbook. That’s just wrong. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:38 AM
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like I said I wanted to see how low a random dude would go lol yeah it was a waste of time but I put in zero effort, unless you include thinking of what to say back and hitting send. If I was looking for and interested in someone and I got genuinely duped that would be one thing, but all I did was text this guy just to see what he’d say. I appreciate the concern y’all but I wasn’t investing and my prediction on the results was spot on, and it was the tie breaker between if I should get on apps o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:34 AM
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omg that’s terrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 08:05 PM
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I was never gonna see this guy unless he came to my friends let’s be honest lol I don’t go on dates if I’m hung up on my ex or working it out or still talking to them so that would’ve stopped me before, at this point I’m trying not to blackpill myself too soon I blocked a bunch of dudes on my social media that just don’t need to be there or have access to hitting me up randomly. and I deleted Facebook and messenger so I can really try. I know I have to work on me!! It started yesterday, I had to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 05:49 PM
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Hell yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:02 PM
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I do! And yes I KNOW I’m lucky and this is an anomaly. This is just an anecdote not my reason for why he’s a great man, but when I was very little like second or third grade, my dad recognized that I had really bad math anxiety but I was so dang good at it. My dads a programmer so he loved that I loved math and he was determined to boost my confidence(and grades). So he took me outside one afternoon and using chalk, he basically introduced me to quantum physics and string theory so that he could…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:57 AM
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I’m doing much better, thank you for the kindness. I used to “work” with two of my favorite people in the universe and one is now HIV+ and has no health insurance, and one has been trafficked and her whereabouts are currently unknown. I got lucky, most survivors are truly not as fortunate as I was. OP is not the asshole but even if they were, well it’s better to be an asshole than to lose a sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:57 PM
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I wish my little sister had done the same for me when I was begging her for money in the same situation.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:03 AM
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so she’s basically paying to provide unpaid childcare for two babies? I want to hug her. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:30 AM
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Yes, it’s so obvious that they had no intention of meeting up with OP again. Not poly, not a unicorn, she was just a test drive for a sick man who now most certainly believes he can and should score anyone he wants for his “threesomes” where at least one party feels coerced every time. I hate how people act like this is so normal and cool and positive these days. All OP typed out was “I fucked a married man who would NEVER leave his wife who knows. I’m over the moon!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 11:11 PM
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Omg, I can relate so hard. And that food shit, is. so. degrading. Mocha is my absolute least favorite. Several men I’ve attempted to date who had fetishized my blackness felt entitled to biting me hard without any consent or warning whatsoever. “You’re so juicy,” like of course they are entitled to my flesh. I’ve found that men who try to come off as so woke that they don’t even NOTICE I’m black(RUN!!) will immediately start trying to role play as Leo DiCaprio in Django the moment you step foot …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:33 AM
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lvm have no business having any guests over let alone a woman if they one chair and only they can sit in it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:28 PM
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