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bohowannabe/r/MensRights18/03/13 02:37 AM
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This is interesting. I have two friends who transitioned (one FtM and one MtF). They've told me about the good and the bad before and after transitioning. My FtM friend is taken more seriously after becoming male, and people don't automatically assume that he needs help when he enters a store, and trust that he knows what's he's doing. But he's also been called a fag for stupid things like walking a small dog. He's also insecure about his height at 5'6. You're probably taller than a lot of trans…
/r/MensRights20/09/14 05:00 PM
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I'm sad that there's a generally good and intelligent article, with really genuine comments and insights from men, and there aren't more MRA's commenting on it.
/r/MensRights06/08/13 09:36 PM
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I wish one of the results in marital status was "had been in a relationship." Just to know how many people had actually been in a relationship in some point in their lives.
/r/MensRights15/07/13 06:07 PM
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Frankly, I'm not surprised. This subreddit probably wouldn't complain about women nearly as much if they were in a stable, happy relationship. A lot of MRAing seems to be a need to justify why they aren't in a relationship, because they're the oppressed lot. Also, considering that a lot of them aren't in a relationship, and that most of them are also worried about false rape accusations, it makes me think that the majority of them are so socially awkward and inexperienced with women, that they h…
/r/MensRights15/07/13 06:02 PM
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Let me get this straight.. Men were in charge when there were military drafts that only sent men to war, so women should have to die for something that they had absolutely no control over? Yeah, this is why your comment is in the negatives, even in a men's rights subreddit.
/r/MensRights14/06/13 03:42 PM
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In India, I think it's pretty much one of the worst places to live for women. http://www.hindustantimes.com/India-news/NewDelhi/India-worst-place-for-women-among-top-19-economies-Canada-best/Article1-870387.aspx
/r/MensRights20/03/13 06:13 PM
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calling everything that you want "a right" when most of them are really just privileges, like healthcare Pretty sure healthcare is a right. A very basic one at that. Ma'am. You will cost 3 times as much as I will in healthcare costs over the course of our lives but we will pay exactly the same amount in health insurance. I think that at least part of that is due to women seeking out medical help and going to the doctors a lot more than men. I don't know a lot of the info on the subject though. O…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 06:13 PM
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Clam? Really? Do you want me to start calling you meat flute? This is silly.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 06:08 PM
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This is where I facepalm and stop talking to you. Do you ever look at /r/worldnews.........? Or any news? Do you leave your house?
/r/MensRights20/03/13 01:57 PM
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Oh yes, opening a conversation is all about trolling. Funny, one could say that saying that the plight of men in India is equal to that of the plight women would be trolling, and yet here you are. You call me maladjusted, and yet you're here in a subreddit that many consider a hate group. Keep it cool, fabricating your own fantasy world where men are prosecuted. Just to be clear there are some places where I certainly think that mens' rights can be improved. I just think that people like you do …
/r/MensRights20/03/13 01:54 PM
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I don't have to image this, because this is what life is like in western societies for men. Yet no-one gives a damn. I think that men need more support for emotional health, but it also seems that men aren't very good at supporting each other in this way. I look at this subreddit and I don't think I even see that support (a lot more fighting and splitting of ideologies than women's subreddits -- mostly because there's so much extremism here). This is something you have to build yourself, without…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 01:49 PM
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The fact that people like you care so much about women's well being and not at all about men's constantly blows my mind. It's a conflicted problem, because women feel the same way when people declare that laws shouldn't exist (even if they can be revised over time into something better), when women are at the bottom of the barrel. Just imagine being a woman in India and not even being able to work for yourself and to depend on someone who treats you like shit, and a society that looks like you'r…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 01:32 PM
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Sorry, accidentally quoted myself. Wait so... Do you honestly think that rape and misogyny aren't out of control in India? I'm trying to understand how you don't grasp the REALITY of the situation in India.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 01:14 PM
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As if you do. You don't even care if men in the country can be locked up basically on any woman's word, so don't lecture me about how I don't have any empathy for others suffering. I just don't think that men are the biggest targets of what's going on right now. Can't they have the law and revise them as it goes? Why break it down right away if it saves a woman from the next gang rape or acid attack?
/r/MensRights20/03/13 01:08 PM
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The problem is that even if that situation sounds ridiculous, it's still believable because of the state of India. And that's the problem.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 12:51 PM
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men can be thrown in prison basically for making a woman uncomfortable But.. there's a reason for that. If the culture where women weren't victimized wasn't prevalent there would be no need for the law. yet any sacrifices of freedom on the part of women are the worse thing ever. You really don't understand privilege, oppression and the fact that most Indian women live in fear in their country.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 12:48 PM
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How does making it so that women can't be convicted of rape help reduce rape? I don't agree with the death penalty either. How does making it so that women can't be convicted of rape help reduce rape? Wait, are women the ones gang raping men in India? Are you not looking at the big picture here, that rape and misogyny are out of control in India?
/r/MensRights20/03/13 12:45 PM
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Mommy issues? Girlfriend after girlfriend dumped you?
/r/MensRights20/03/13 02:13 AM
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You do realize that when you're black and white on this issue that you're just as bad as the extremists that you condemn?
/r/MensRights19/03/13 01:39 AM
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Women are gaining from this otherwise they would not do it. And the benefit outweighs the cost. The power to dress how they want and feel good doing it. That's more important to a lot of women, that they risk being leered at.
/r/MensRights15/03/13 01:39 AM
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I see. I read your initial comment above incorrectly. My apologies.
/r/MensRights06/04/12 07:31 AM
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I agree that the current method of child support is flawed. I think that sending men to prison because of lack of child support is absolutely ridiculous as there's no way he's going to pay it in jail. The same way that a person can't currently be sent to jail because of debt. I was in either the feminism subreddit or a similar one, and the conversation basically went like this: Women should have complete control over their bodies. If they want to keep the child they have to understand all the re…
/r/MensRights06/04/12 01:16 AM
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I've heard of it but I don't think it's been broken to the extent that you think it has been. That's why I asked for evidence that backs up your claim. Just because you think they're "underrepresented" does not mean that they make up FIFTY PERCENT of all government, STEM PhD's and fortune 500 CEO's.
/r/MensRights06/04/12 01:03 AM
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You shouldn't be embarrassed to be a feminist. Plenty of MRA members are extremists. MRA wasn't recently labeled a hate group for nothing. Also a lot of MRA's have overlaps with white supremacists. So don't exactly joyfully spread the word that you're an MRA. It looks a lot worse than admitting you're a feminist.
/r/MensRights05/04/12 02:07 AM
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All those big talking feminists were just a tool to rally women together and get them fired up to the do the bidding of the bastards who own this country. Women votes and women workers are the reason why unions have no power now. When it comes to standing up the government for what is right FOR ALL females just do not have the guts to take the necessary risks to safeguard the freedom and thus the future of our species. So you don't think women should have the right to vote or make money, but you…
/r/MensRights05/04/12 02:02 AM
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We have to have 50/50 in gov't, 50/50 in STEM PhD's, 50/50 in fortune 500 CEO's... Citation please, for the love of reality?
/r/MensRights05/04/12 01:47 AM
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And women aren't enslaved, too? Oh, it's because women have children in poverty, so the government gives them money that you're mad about? Fuck the babies, am I right?
/r/MensRights05/04/12 01:45 AM
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"I honestly don't think they have anything significant ( or at least on the scale that we have) to fight for..." I want to know what you believe you have to fight for that is specific to your gender, that you also believe is more important than anything that women deal with. Also, are you referring purely to Western society?
/r/MensRights05/04/12 01:38 AM
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Women can usually get a decent education -- when they're a part of the upper middle class to higher class family. In the lower middle class and working classes though, there's very little options for women without a degree. Men in the lower classes without an expensive education, can at least get a trade. It's not that women can't, too, but there's a lot of stigma associated with women working in male dominated jobs like plumbing or an HVAC work, for instance. It's also really uncomfortable for …
/r/MensRights05/04/12 01:09 AM
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Because they are the ones in the most powerful positions? The president? Congress? Judges?
/r/MensRights05/04/12 12:44 AM
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I also didn't want to come across as if I believe education can secure single mom's alone. I have nothing against a healthy nuclear family. I think in bestowing proper education to everyone, people will make more informed decisions about sexual education, family planning, and basing relationships on compatibility instead of dependency, which ultimately makes things more enjoyable and sustainable for all parties involved.
/r/MensRights02/04/12 11:54 PM
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I was being naive in regards to society "back in the day" when labor and farming were people's only means of creating any kind of revenue. I'm reading another one of her videos -- specifically the "Fempocalypse" and I was with her, up to the point of society today. A lot of the problems she points out could be cured by education and a more equal distribution of wealth. If women had access to this kind of education there would be less need for a "Daddy State". It just seems she's presenting a lot…
/r/MensRights02/04/12 11:51 PM
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On the issue of education, I can understand how it was harder for most people to get any. I suppose it's the whole chattel idea that still bothers me. But comparing men to beasts of burden counteracts that.
/r/MensRights02/04/12 10:26 PM
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Short answer: In those societies women are subservient and men are accountable. Neither has much freedom. I understand, but at least men had the freedom to support themselves. If women could acquire the education and means of creating their own wealth, they wouldn't have to depend on the husband. If something happens to the wife the man is find. If something happens to the husband, what will the woman do? More so, women are forced to stay with abusive spouses, because they have no choice. This u…
/r/MensRights02/04/12 09:38 PM
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Also, I'm not sure what she's getting at by saying that today's definition of violence towards women is "not speaking to them" or "using logic on her". For one she sounds very condescending. Two, she complains about society belittling men during domestic violence situations, but here she seems to belittling women in the same situation -- or rather some alternative, mild scenario that she's contrived that she believe is domestic violence towards women. That attitude comes off like she doesn't gra…
/r/MensRights02/04/12 09:28 PM
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Hm, I think you have given me something to think about. But there's still certainly power imbalances, for either gender. I think a lot of it just comes down to religious fanaticism. When religion is taken out of the context, men and women seem to get along better.
/r/MensRights02/04/12 09:19 PM
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So why did men back in the day find it necessary to be a woman's shield? Could this be because they don't trust women to make the right decisions of their own volition? Even if marriage was invented to protect women, wouldn't that be a form of benevolent sexism? If women were always 'getting into trouble' back in the day, why weren't they taught better behavior through education and giving a means to create their own wealth? Why did everything have to be placed upon the man's shoulders? Did wome…
/r/MensRights02/04/12 09:16 PM
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But they're still men -- and everyday men still follow the customs and rules. It's not like the majority of men in the countries where women are honor killed are standing up for women's rights and saying "I'm not a part of this". It's not like it just happens that society decided women could be people only forty years ago. It only happened when women stood up for themselves. I'm sure some men had a part of it, but not the majority. You say that men don't benefit from this system, but they're sti…
/r/MensRights02/04/12 06:17 PM
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Seriously. Feminism is a scapegoat to a lot of these MRS's. Sure there's plenty of places where equality needs to be cleaned up on the male side (child custody) but a lot of that has to do with benevolent sexism that is perpetuated by -- wait for it -- men. Child custody is evening out though, regardless.. I just think that MRA's are fighting the wrong side when they blame feminism. You blame the ones in power, and women just aren't the majority in power no matter WHAT country you go to.
/r/MensRights02/04/12 10:38 AM
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"Happen to be men." Yeeaah. Like how men happen to create laws that prevent women from working or getting an education all around the world, that have been abolished in only the last 100 years, but still exist in many places like the Middle East.
/r/MensRights02/04/12 10:34 AM
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So why aren't men taking care of each other is the question? Why aren't men building shelters for each other? They are the ones with power in this country, why not look out for their own?
/r/MensRights02/04/12 10:27 AM
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This has to be the stupidest comment I've ever read on reddit. Also a sex fantasy with someone you trust =/= reality. If you can't understand the difference I'm sorry that you're retarded.
/r/MensRights19/03/12 01:00 AM
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'This shit?'
/r/MensRights19/03/12 12:58 AM
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Someone has a case of crazy paranoia.
/r/MensRights19/03/12 12:57 AM
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Bad analogy.
/r/MensRights19/03/12 12:52 AM
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Comments like this really make me appreciate Men's Right's groups. We really really need to stop putting so investment and power into sex. When sex isn't seen as something evil or mystical, it'll pretty much solve the underlining problem between men and women. Then we can finally make a society that's on the true path to equality.
/r/MensRights09/03/12 06:38 AM
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Very interesting and telling. Thank you.
/r/MensRights09/03/12 06:23 AM
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It's called coercion.
/r/MensRights29/01/12 06:13 PM
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Their point is that you're an immature boytroll who probably can't get a date.
/r/MensRights08/12/11 06:20 AM
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