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I know for a fact she said she works out "sometimes" just because she didn't want to admit it's "never"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 08:22 AM
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Congrats girl, that's awesome! So, so happy for you!!
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/20 08:33 PM
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The fact that I could actually see him saying this though
/r/MGTOW207/10/20 06:17 PM
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Agreed, 100%. Wait until there is a noticeable improvement before even considering adding any kids into the mix. If he is having a hard time (for whatever reason it may be) handling a household consisting of only 2 people, adding more people is not going to make it easier on him or you.
/r/RedPillWives06/10/20 10:17 PM
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Picnics (saw a post in TRP about this a few days ago, easy kino), walks, invite her over for a scary movie night anyway, a local college football/ basketball game or fall fest/carnival (assuming these events are still occurring), nature trail, get coffee/hot cocoa/apple cider etc together.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 08:48 PM
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I'd say this is fairly true, but more so with older women who are looking more seriously to settle down, say anywhere around 29+. Sure, everyone has their preferences, but you have to be realistic. I think the real issue is narrowing down preferences vs. values, because marriage is for life. Do I care if the person I'm dating has black or blonde hair or green eyes? No, not really, as long as they have other important "internal" qualities, I'd call them. So it really doesn't matter what music the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:52 AM
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I've never read it, but if you like what he has to say, you might check out r/RPChristians if you haven't yet!
/r/askRPC09/09/20 05:29 AM
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This, 100%. It's okay for men and women to both have preferences. But also keep in mind that many times your actions dictate who you attract. Therefore, if you mostly tend to attract sluts or douches (and don't want to), at some point, ask yourself why.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:20 PM
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What a great reminder!
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 12:31 AM
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All the advice here seems pretty good already. But since you said that your husband is task-oriented, maybe it would be appropriate for you to sit down with him and try to schedule out time/times to be intimate. And obviously I know that's not the sexiest thing ever, but it may work for the time being. I know it's hard, but babies need routines, too! Trying to establish that will be beneficial both now and into the future. So for example, if you know that baby needs a nap everyday around 4pm, ma…
/r/RedPillWives06/09/20 03:44 PM
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Definitely second this idea! Take something that's small, but nice. I tend to take things that I've personally made, but it's not necessary. It can be anything from some home made preserves to brownies, or even just a few flowers from the store. Just a little something to say "hey!".
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 05:09 AM
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So happy for you! Congrats <3
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 03:11 AM
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Thank you so much for this!! Don't know when I'll be able to try some of these out, but now I can't wait! If you have any other recommendations within this same vein, please let me know!
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 04:36 AM
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This is great man, keep up the good work!
/r/RPChristians29/08/20 04:25 AM
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100% agreed. But to add to your point, it seems clear to me that you need to become a person who will attract who you want. For example, you can't act like a slut, and then expect a man with some kind of morals, values, and respect, to treat you like a respectable woman. And vice versa, you can't act like a douche, and expect a woman to treat you with kindness, patience, and like you are relationship material. One should determine who they want to attract (not one person per se, but rather deter…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:56 AM
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Thank you for the advice! Definitely appreciated!
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 04:12 AM
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Thanks, I really appreciate the advice!
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 03:30 PM
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I never even thought to look there, I'll have to check it out! Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 03:23 PM
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Awesome, thanks so much!
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 03:04 PM
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Where do you get yours? I probably need to pick up a few more!
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 02:58 PM
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Any recommendations for products you like or use regularly? Or any particular ones to stay away from? Skin care has never been my forte, but would definitely like to change that!
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 02:57 PM
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Yeah honestly at this point, you and your boyfriend already seem to be acting as a family unit. While him asking for your father’s blessing was a respectful and probably good thing to do, at this point, it’s a slight formality. It’s best for you and your boyfriend to just get married. Invite your father to the wedding, but don’t be surprised if he declines.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 08:32 PM
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This is such a brilliant post. Indeed, for a man to be a good leader for a household, couple, whatever, he must be a good judge. But, as you mentioned, it’s also important for a judge to be empathetic, patient, and listening to all possible solutions. Thanks for this post!
/r/RPChristians13/08/20 03:38 AM
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Good luck! If it makes you feel any better, I know that there are still some good, Christian young women out there. And any woman like that is waiting for a good, Christian man like yourself as well, I’m sure. I would encourage you to keep doing what God is calling you to do and wait for him to bring you some good possible mates. Focus on listening to God’s voice, doing His calling, and making yourself into what a good husband is as a head of the household and strong spiritual leader. It may tak…
/r/RPChristians13/08/20 02:51 AM
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This whole article is just one giant bruh moment
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/20 05:58 AM
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And twerk and be bisexual
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/20 05:10 PM
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No clue homie
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/20 05:49 PM
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Agreed. But to add to this, it's also beneficial to you in your future to keep you n count as low as possible. So, maybe do this, but on steroids. Ultimately, it's best to not sleep with any more men before marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/20 06:41 PM
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Definitely don't be upset by the low number of people you've slept with. The fewer, the better, at least if you want to be successful in any real LTR. Don't feel pressured by friends or the surrounding culture to do what they want you to do, it's none of their business. You have the rest of your life to figure out what you do or don't like in the bedroom. I (personally) would encourage you to wait until marriage to do that, but regardless, don't feel rushed by other people who have no vested int…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 05:21 AM
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Throw the whole girlfriend away
/r/PussyPass22/07/20 07:49 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 02:48 AM
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Very true, speaking as a virgin woman (by choice) myself. If I'm expected to keep myself for my husband (or at the VERY least someone extremely special), shouldn't men be expected to do the same for their future wife? Anything other is essentially a double standard, and I don't mind waiting for the right person, I've made it this far just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 02:01 AM
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As a woman living in the Bible Belt, can confirm. The midwest/Bible Belt area (while getting increasingly less "traditional", especially in larger cities) is for the most part still widely traditional, which is definitely something I haven't realized the gravity of myself until recently. Many people still go to church on Sundays, have relationships with their neighbors, aren't extremely promiscuous, or at least try to hide it if they are. Many are still thought to be not exactly abnormal, but st…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:56 AM
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Just remembered I gotta mop the dog, wanna help?
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:36 PM
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That's awful and I'm so sorry, no child should every pass before their parent. Sending much love and many prayers your way <3
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/20 09:31 PM
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Bingo. Ultimately, you can't change anyone, it's up to them. Never go into a relationship thinking "oh, I can change this person" because in the end they have to be the one doing the changing. And if they don't show any willingness or even inclination to do so, don't expect that to automatically (if ever) change.
/r/PussyPass19/07/20 05:03 AM
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Those all sound phenomenal, thank you so much! Any other recommendations for books on psychological femininity? I've never really even heard of the concept before, but it sounds interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/20 09:17 PM
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Thanks so much, I'll be sure to check it out!
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/20 09:15 PM
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Maybe no one here is on her side, but it seems to me that other people are.
/r/PussyPass17/07/20 08:46 PM
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Fair enough, but there could still be an influence. Of course, like the quote above basically says, correlation doesn't equal causation, but it's still completely plausible that an increased number of sexual partners decreases one's ability to pair-bond. http://s3.amazonaws.com/thf_media/2003/pdf/Bookofcharts.pdf, particularly pages 13 and 18, talking about happiness. It's true that these women may still be having lots of sex, but it I think it's safe to assume that if one is at least having sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:44 PM
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You're absolutely right. There have been many studies that show that women (men too, but women more so) with fewer sexual partners have an increased ability to pair-bond. Meaning then that if a woman has more sexual partners, she then has a decreased ability to pair-bond with someone like say, her husband. One example of the studies mentioned above: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/more-sexual-partners-unhappy-marriage_n_5698440
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:30 PM
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Oh wow, that's so awful. I'm so sorry man, I hope she gets what's coming to her one day. And I hope things change there somehow where justice can truly be served, that's crazy.
/r/PussyPass16/07/20 07:44 PM
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Is this really true? I'm not from Montana, so I don't know much about the condition of the state or its laws, but is this something that happens frequently or is considered acceptable?
/r/PussyPass16/07/20 04:10 PM
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I'm so sorry you went through that, but yeah you're exactly right. No one should ever be forced into a situation like this, and anyone who does that to someone else should be drawn and quartered in the town square at high noon. And I hate that too, about how it generally seems that society looks down on men who have been abused for not being "strong" enough or something. That's absolutely ridiculous and just a pile of garbage. Not just physical abuse either, but mental, verbal, emotional, etc. A…
/r/PussyPass16/07/20 04:08 PM
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The basics are always the best, in my opinion. Keep it super simple with something like sandwiches, some fruit, chips, his favorite home made cookies, some cheese slices, maybe pickles, that sort of thing. Or upgrade it a little with stuff like fried chicken, pickled beets, applesauce, a salad, some brownies, and maybe some biscuits. Generally I personally prefer to have mostly finger foods though. I've also learned it's much easier to keep things cool or room temp. for a picnic than hot. So may…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/20 08:03 PM
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https://youtu.be/RXBJ3goN7rY Here's an interesting podcast I was listening to today that you may enjoy. It had an interesting segment about how divorces can sort of spiral out of control, especially for the father. As someone whose parents got a divorce and was sent to live with their mom (objectively speaking, my dad was/is a much better parent), I was shocked to hear how uncommon this really was.
/r/MGTOW207/07/20 04:46 AM
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Why would you waste your time with "a disposable bitch who only leeches from my life?". Easy, you wouldn't. That would be stupid. But, just because something is messy (and women definitely are) doesn't mean it's a waste of time. I think you need to invest in the people around you (especially for a LTR), but ensure they're the right people. Of course you wouldn't want to spend time with someone you didn't like and viewed as a waste of your time. Most people use LTRs as a means to marriage, or som…
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:08 PM
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I totally know what you mean! Growing up, I've mostly been raised around guys and in school (middle school through college), I haven't seemed to make many female friends. And the ones I have made have either been through church, or a club, where I know we have at least some shared values. For awhile I just thought it was maybe because I didn't know how to be friends with women, but now I'm slowly starting to realize that maybe I just have a hard time finding ones with which I have some shared va…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 04:28 PM
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This may be a little controversial, but I would say don't seriously date anyone you wouldn't at least consider marrying. It's okay to go on some dates with guys to vet them or check them out so to speak and to get to know them better. But personally, I am a Christian, and it took me one long relationship with someone who wasn't to realize how painful that can be over time. So in other words, basically I would say that right off the bat, be upfront with your expectations. For me, that meant they …
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 08:54 PM
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