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Our leases are up then on our current apartments
/r/askMRP22/10/15 09:45 PM
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I tend to agree, but I feel like I'm on the right path by starting the process already. It definitely won't be a monumental Main Event like some that I've read on MRP since those are years and years of Blue Pill before the Red Pill, but still, I can keep growing and keep learning and be more prepared for it.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 09:34 PM
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Actually, everything is going great as far as I am concerned - sex is plentiful, relationship is stronger than its ever been, in my opinion. However, I'm about 6 months into Red Pill and she's noticing. The shit tests are happening. Because it was 2.5 years of pre red pill and 6 months of red pill, I can't help but think a Main Event will come, either before or after the move. I could be wrong, but I'd rather be prepared.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 09:18 PM
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Financially, it makes sense. We both pay 1000 each, we would save a shit ton of money. Logistically, it makes sense, we work slightly skewed schedules so we can make each other's live easier with cooking, etc. Her background, comes from a conservative old school family/background, tight knit family, low count. And I love her, for what that's worth.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 08:07 PM
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I don't think you've swallowed the red pill. I think you've thought about it, but that is all. I'm still relatively new and I'm still learning. I can't imagine that there will be no resistance at all after 3 years of no RP at all, then the changes I've been making. Am I wrong to think this?
/r/askMRP22/10/15 05:55 PM
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Because I started the relationship before the pill, I was definitely more pussy than alpha. Most of 2015 I've been improving. I feel a main event will happen because her expectations of what our relationship will be, are different than the reality.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 03:10 PM
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I was under the impression that if you started the relationship before taking the pill, that the changes would inevitably bring a Main Event. Thanks for this!
/r/askMRP22/10/15 02:59 PM
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This is true - there is no going back. However, just because the red pill is for everyone, doesn't mean everyone is a right fit for the red pill... Kind of the "lead a horse to water" analogy. I'm getting ready to move in with my girlfriend after 3+ years dating and MRP has been giving me the tools I need to have my shit in order when we're under the same roof. If you don't do the reading and don't do the lifting, no one can help you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 02:17 AM
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As soon as he went on about "had my wife payed me the proper attention", I feel he is starting the pity party instead of owning his shit. But this is subjective of me, not objective. You're right.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 10:22 PM
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This sub changed my life for the better. He asked a question to the community. He was looking for opinions. Was my answer incorrect?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 10:02 PM
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OP To answer your question directly - you failed. It's not called Hard Mode for nothing. But it's nothing you can't fix. You identified the problem, now fix it with /u/TrainingTheBrain 's post. There's a few quality posts below too: from /u/fromswitters post: Own your situation. Keep us updated with your progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 06:21 PM
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Theres a great definition of AWALT in the comments there. All women aren't bipolar - hes right. He was a cuckold because he allowed himself to be a cuckold. AWALT if we let them.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/15 12:14 PM
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You don't contribute to the madness by giving these people your hard earned money. I game for bout a half hour before bed. I don't sit there for 12 hours preparing for an e sports tournament
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 10:52 PM
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As a casual gamer in my late 20s I wish I could be offended by this statement. But I can't. Twitch enables people to sit at home all day and have people not only watch them play video games, but give them money! It's about 5 bucks to "Subscribe" and you can donate $3 at a time to have a message of your choosing show up on the screen for everyone to see. It's absolutely mind boggling. I hate my generation.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 07:58 PM
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This is the biggest hypocrisy in TRP. Woman has had a lot of partners? Make her a plate. Woman has a very low (or none at all) count but won't fuck you by date 3? She's using you, dump her.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 04:12 PM
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This is the answer friends. He thought he was in the friendzone because he never made a move. Perception is everything in this business.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 01:59 PM
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This is not a woman problem. This is a maturity problem. If you think that guys and girls alike don't pull this shit in high school and college, think again. The difference is when college is over, women may not hit the wall for a few years, so they can keep living the college life style of free drinks and the cc. Meanwhile, the men are pissing away money and time chasing skirts for a time before realizing "what the fuck am i doing?" Its why I try to give TRP truths to my friend's little brother…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 01:27 PM
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But i enjoy watching him squirm! Seriously though you're right. There's no long term good out of just being passive aggressive, if anything he can make the first move. I should re think that
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 08:22 PM
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Nope, i don't say anything like that at all. I just let him know, subtly, that i didnt forget getting throw under the bus. Periodically
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 07:14 PM
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Oh i agree, you can't steamroll everyone and make friends. But you do need to play nice and make some fake friends in high places
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 06:37 PM
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Fair enough. I feel like I'm on the right track though, in so many phases of my life thanks to this sub reddit
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 03:38 PM
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Assholes finish first. I used to be a team player at my job, never threw anyone under the bus, I'm not a rat, etc. Then my boss made a mistake, pinned it on me, and I didn't get a raise as a result. I let him know periodically I haven't forgotten. Just waiting for my opportunity to take him down. I want his fucking job. I'm more qualified anyway. House of Cards, and this sub reddit, has given me the drive to push myself and not let anyone stand in my way. Frank Underwood will change your life if…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 03:17 PM
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"the first person to talk after you make your pitch loses". I was never a successful salesperson, but when giving it a shot, that line stuck with me. Its true incredibly often
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 02:35 AM
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I would agree that the /r/theredpill is strictly for men only. However, most of the principles can be applied to women as well (worry about yourself first, own your own shit, go to the gym) and there is a subreddit for red pill women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 02:35 PM
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Unfortunately some posts turn from feminist hating, to hating on women in general so I can see your point. And kudos to you for possibly saving someones life, I hope he turned out okay. I lean more toward /r/marriedredpill since I'm in a LTR. I believe if I own my own problems instead of blaming someone else, if I hit the gym, and I be a leader in my relationships (personal or professional) I can be a better person than I was yesterday. You're point #3 is trp thinking. I don't care what people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 08:45 PM
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I'm not trying to be hostile either, and i understand tbp is satire. My point is why people spend what seems like a decent amount of time trolling each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 06:15 PM
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It still makes no sense to me that people would create an alternate account just for the sole purpose of trolling the redpill when all that time could be vested in creating a subreddit with your own ideologies trying to help people. Blue pill thinks red pill is so terrible. Then do one better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 04:57 PM
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Fair enough. But I've looked at some profiles of said trollers. Their post history is absolutely absurd. Some of them non stop sarcasm posts, over and over. If blue pill wants to be a satire page then fine, bur keep it to blue pill page. Red pill doesn't come over there and troll them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 04:15 PM
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Blue pillers dedicate their time to trolling and sarcastic replies on the blue and red pill sub reddits. They dedicate their time to arguing on the purple pill sub reddit. What they don't do is try to help people. They'd rather just take what red pillers say and exaggerate it to look ridiculous. Now don't get me wrong. There are some extreme red pillers that add fuel to the fire. But they're still trying to help people in their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 03:35 PM
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Sounds like he may have some mental / anger issues.... In that case her trying to "ruin him" instead of helping him makes it 10x worse. Thanks for the insight
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 05:35 PM
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OP I would definitely keep this guy away as he may try to "get back" at you like /u/infinae said. However, to help him out because clearly his reality crashing around him wasn't enough, on the last day of your semester or year when you move out of the dorms, tell him about TRP. He needs a push in the right direction to end this cycle. DO NOT put it in writing and slip it under his door. No evidence. You'll be doing him a favor
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 04:05 PM
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You're right man. Spread the word. Its an uphill battle.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 11:29 PM
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I respectfully disagree with you sir - just another example of you can put a price on silencing rape, which leans more towards guys getting falsely accused then it happens to women. But i see your point.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 05:33 PM
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Personally, I'd say 50 percent of girls that said "we're not having sex" had sex with me the first night, the rest by date 3, except for one that held out for 3 months (who is now my gf of 3 years, low count, raised traditional, etc). Another story of girls are controlled by their emotions. All you need to do is give those emotions a push in the right direction sometimes and she's yours for the taking
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 05:11 PM
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I apologize, I mis read the article on ESPN. I thought a protective order was placed until the trial was completed, didn't realize that the judge already ruled. For the Big Ben thing though, thats such a joke. If he truly had his way with you against your will, wouldn't you want to see him in jail? Seems like she got the best of 3 worlds: no testifying in court to rip apart your story, a cool few million, and the opportunity to bang an NFL quarterback
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 05:06 PM
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Thanks for the follow up. Maybe he has some psychiatric issues I'm not sure
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 05:01 PM
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The only thing I agree with in the AA 12 step program is "admit you're an alcoholic", because to fix something you have to be able to say you were wrong. And here you're able to admit where you went wrong. Good start. I feel for you. I was the same way for many years - chase the girls that wanted nothing to with me, and push away the good girls that wanted to date. It's all perception though, you said "sexy man for them is an asshole." I disagree. It's a perceived asshole. A guy can be honest an…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 03:11 PM
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The number one issue with those who have been legitimately raped is that they have to "re live" the rape when they testify in court. And to those who were legitimately raped, then I feel for them as that must be a terrible feeling to re live every detail. Let's say this chick was legit raped. Then she's a fucking idiot. Did she think this college kid was going to just roll over and say "don't worry sweetheart I'll change my entire path in life because I look like someone who hurt you?". No. She'…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 01:00 PM
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To expand, the age range 18 to 35 for males is so fucked, I feel like we can't sneeze without getting looked at for being wrong for something.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 12:51 PM
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Thats where "a jury of your peers" comes in. Put 12 men on the jury and see what happens, a mixed jury though and i see your point
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 04:31 AM
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"degenerate piece of shit" is a mentality by women nowadays . Folks, if you were offended by the way he phrases it, unplugged. I like to use the phrase "youre a bitch and you only have yourself to blame". Some women need a lil more push than others, but you gotta set the example. If you do not lead, she will find someone else to follow. This is a great post.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 05:35 AM
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I respectfully disagree sir but I'd love to know how you figure. I love myself, and I love my father despite his past mistakes. Im in an LTR that is going beautifully with my girlfriend and I'm improving my RP health every day. I'm getting downvoted to hell for disagreeing and not joining the women hating circle jerk. My problem is we have no context of the story between a man and his wifes relationship, just a third party, and I'm the asshole for calling it out? I'd like to point out that most …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 04:31 AM
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Well when you put it like that, we're kind of on the same page. lol
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 05:20 PM
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Growing up with a beta alcoholic father, I can't sympathize with a man who can't own his shit. He was a beta. He didn't get a job. He was a drunk. Society didn't tell him to be an alcoholic.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:57 PM
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He honestly sounds like a man who couldn't get his shit together by his mid 50s. I'm sorry to hear that OP lost a father figure, thats not cool. But the thread has turned into a women haters club and I refuse to believe she dumped his ass for simply being a stay at home dad.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:30 PM
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I just respectfully disagree with your original comment of "he didn't kill himself, she did". We don't know the story.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:27 PM
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I just do not like how this thread has turned into a women hating circle jerk. One of the most powerful things I've learned about my self improvement on TRP is "you're a bitch and you only have yourself to blame." (my personal interpretation). This thread does not help anyone improve, it's helping people blow off steam (which is fine I guess but does not help newbies show what the TRP message is)
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 02:36 PM
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We know his side of the story. He sounds like a drunk. Could have kicked his beta ass to the curb for drinking around the kids, who knows.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 02:12 PM
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There's so much of the context of the story we do not know, how are we simply blaming her? Sorry. He's a drunk, she could have easily just kicked his ass to the curb for being a beta with a drinking problem
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 02:09 PM
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The biggest hurdle seems to be any paranoia over your past infidelity. If you guys can get past that, looking at your post, you're in the clear. Seems like she acknowledges you're on the same side. I'd still be waiting for a "you've changed" talk but the future looks great for you 2. Great start
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 06:50 PM
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I read it after you told me to. I'm new to red pill. Relax. Because I don't want to make a quick judgment doesn't make me a troll
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/15 04:14 AM
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Thats fine, but my assumption was blue pill was some sort of equal rights, feminism bullshit. Can you blame me for not making my way over there?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 11:07 PM
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I just did... Shame that it grabs the 10 percenters of red pill that talk about women being sluts and uses that to solidify their judgements. Exredpill is pretty good too, people feeling sorry for themselves falling back into beta form
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 05:25 PM
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If living a blue pill life makes people happy (whatever that is), then I'm not going to hate people for disagreeing. But to troll people for trying to improve their way of life? Fuck that
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 03:21 PM
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I just was, and I just wrote an apology. There is no quality there, and its a shame people waste their time hating red pill. Unfortunately, a small percentage of red pillers feed them ammo with ridiculous posts...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 03:05 PM
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Holy fuckstick do I owe you an apology. Fuck the blue pill sub reddit. There literally is nothing of value over there. The first 30 posts are about hating this sub. I went over there thinking they would provide info on why women are equals, why we should treat them as peers, etc etc. And I would have had respect for them for that as they're trying to better people. But no. It is a website dedicated to hating another web site. Hating the red pill. Fuck them. There is absolutely no good info from …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 02:42 PM
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I wouldn't call them trolls. Just like red pillers, those in blue pill are sincere. They believe their way is the right way. They're just sincerely wrong. In a boring marriage with a trophy wife with 3 kids and everything is okay because he gets his scheduled blow job every Friday while she fucks the mailman on lunch
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 02:31 PM
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I can see the difference. You italicized one!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 05:53 AM
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Fair enough, but examples from blue pill could be extremely valuable. Also, people's stories of transformation are awesome
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 05:07 AM
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I was about to disagree but then you mentioned purple pill debate which I'm unfamiliar with. I honestly believe blue pill comments are necessary so we can provide analysis and laugh at them
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 11:01 PM
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Does this apply only to those looking to spinning plates? You can't send a girl packing if she won't fuck you, if you're only looking for a LTR with a girl who has a low number. The ones with a low number take time
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 11:33 PM
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That sub is gold. Thanks for steering me in the right direction. Being in a LTR these are the stories and opinions I'm looking for
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 10:49 PM
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Thanks for your input. The shame of today's world is the risk of what you said, outweighs the reward of marriage, making it harder to not only find a good girl but want to keep her.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 07:43 PM
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I fucked up. It won't happen again dad. I read the sidebar and missed this part when looking for terms and acronyms
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 07:24 PM
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Thank you for replying but I'm struggling to understand. You mention women change after marriage. Wouldn't it be TRPs stance that women change after marriage if you let them? Also, I believe marriage may only have meaning to religious. To have a strong belief in God, and to take your vows in front of Him means something to people, and it may be hard to prove to your children that your relationship with their mother is stable if you believe in God but you aren't married, since that contradicts a …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 07:23 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to address all approaches. In my opinion, seems like the guys that are anti-marriage are guys that were betas, letting their women run loose, and butthurt over their own mistakes. I see your point about LTRs/marriage today. While maybe the courts have changed their stance, if a relationship between a man and woman has changed its because my generation has let it (I hate the term millennials, but I'm 27 and I guess I'm one of them) and most of the men in my generation a…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 07:13 PM
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Totally agree, however, I can't fully enjoy sex if my partner noticeably is not enjoying it (not necessarily because of a fight, maybe a death in the family or some other traumatic event is causing her grief). The point being, if she's not 100 percent into it, then I am disinterested, and if she's either going to hold out or not give it her all in the bedroom, I wouldn't even bother
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 06:41 PM
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Men want to fuck multiple women. However, TRP encourages that men have 100 percent control of their emotions at all times. So wouldn't then a married man in a monogamous relationship, that has a woman locked down and is in charge of the relationship, not have this issue? Also - I will check that sub out, thank you for the info
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 06:09 PM
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It does. When I started reading TRP, I immediately noticed the community of anti-marriage that you speak of. And trust me, being a manly man and running around and banging a lot of 21 year old girls sounds like fun. But its a fantasy, and that seems blue pillish in itself. Thanks for this. Also, "all women are not worth the trouble" is what the vibe seemed to be. What i believe aligns more with what you say.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 06:05 PM
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Didn't know there was a section for questions, I'll definitely use that as well. My best friends dad is a polygamist, and although I totally agree with you can give up the power you have, then you aren't doing it right. He's got 3 wives, working on the 4th (not a morman, takes a literal interpretation of the bible without any religious bias) and he is very much in position of power.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:59 PM
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Not a sarcastic question: a woman cannot help you reach a new plateau? As a coach and teammate, I've done things I never thought possible through rallying around others
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:29 PM
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Fair enough. But then why not emphasize Pre Nups?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:21 PM
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And private school, which is between 18k and 40k,and he has her health benefits. Hes paying between 80k and 120k for his daughter, and instead of praising her ex for being dad of the year, she's extorting him
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 01:18 AM
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