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I’m in a similar situation to you as I’m transferring to a university soon. That’s where I myself plan on approaching women. I really don’t want to tell you generic “you’ll find someone” bullshit here, but never lower your standards. Try to join a multitude of clubs or, even better, ask your friends who do have girlfriends how they got theirs. You’ll get great advice on how to get on a horse from someone who’s actually gotten on a horse before.
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:05 AM
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If you always smell crap then look under your shoe. Are you talking to these women in weird places like the gym or on the street?
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:54 AM
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This isn't a "go and do this" type of thing. You have to let your escalations with women occur naturally. Don't try to force a conversation with the lady just to achieve an agenda. Have a natural conversation with her that flows naturally. If she's into you then she'll smile and laugh at what you're saying. Make your move when you're naturally ready to make your move. If she's not into you or tells you she's taken move on and repeat.
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:39 AM
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It’s whenever you MAKE YOUR MOVE.
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:31 AM
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Have confidence and don’t give up. Even if you’re getting rejected you’re still shooting your shots so that’s a clear sign that you’re confident and a risk taker. A woman will eventually accept your escalation request.
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:21 AM
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Talk to women.
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:12 AM
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When you get laid for the first time it’s like taking your training wheels off.
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:10 AM
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Talk to women with confidence. You get a good job if you fill out the application for a good job with a resume. You get girls if you talk to girls, don’t act weird, and make them comfortable to be around you. You can talk to women about anything (not religion, politics, or sex just yet). You don’t have to have completely compatible interests to her but talk about whatever you’re interested in (for me, it’s google sheets and population density maps) if she’s into you she’ll laugh, smile, and pay …
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:02 AM
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Exactly. Getting laid is hard but very doable because you have to put on a satisfactory show for the woman because women are the gatekeepers of sex in 2021.
/r/seduction22/11/21 12:44 AM
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I was in the exact same situation as you with Instagram. I was addicted to comparing myself to other people on social media and living vicariously through their lives. I have since deleted both my Instagram and Facebook accounts and decided to delve into self improvement. (walking/running several miles a day and doing a tiny amount of lifting) I’m still in the process of self improvement to this day. You’ll probably find someone. The reason why I say probably is because it’s not set in stone tha…
/r/seduction22/11/21 12:13 AM
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Lucky. I’m an eighteen year old college student too and I wish a girl was that attracted to me. I go to a community college though and my classes are all online.
/r/seduction21/11/21 04:39 AM
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I’m 18, 5’11”, and 140 lbs. Your post gives me hope.
/r/seduction21/11/21 04:37 AM
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Good post. Being confident in yourself despite your so called "flaws" is a guaranteed snatch-wetter.
/r/seduction20/11/21 06:23 PM
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I’m in Richmond, Virginia. I get zero matches on any apps.
/r/seduction20/11/21 07:53 AM
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You have an alone time? My entire day is my alone time.
/r/seduction20/11/21 06:53 AM
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Lots of things. Do you want me to list them all down or something?
/r/seduction20/11/21 12:59 AM
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Yeah but if the athletes and tall fraternity guys can get the hot girls then I can too.
/r/seduction20/11/21 12:53 AM
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Good luck. I want to find a hot woman (and marry her) too, but the chances of that happening are very slim at best.
/r/seduction20/11/21 12:11 AM
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I’ll start lifting to get fitter and in a better mental state.
/r/seduction19/11/21 11:12 PM
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Single hot women are very hard to find.
/r/seduction19/11/21 11:06 PM
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Not a lot. Ten at most.
/r/seduction19/11/21 11:05 PM
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I wouldn’t want to lift just for the sole purpose of getting women or ascending. Maybe just 10 to 20lbs max several times a week.
/r/seduction19/11/21 10:18 PM
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I don’t have social media and I never go out. I go for walks or runs during the day though.
/r/seduction19/11/21 09:43 PM
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Lifting weights is hard and eating to maintain my gains is even harder for me.
/r/seduction19/11/21 09:42 PM
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What could I possibly change that would increase my SMV?
/r/seduction19/11/21 08:39 PM
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I'm a massive sperg and I talk about a lot of uninteresting, unemotional stuff.
/r/seduction19/11/21 08:10 PM
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Love is love. Age is just a number.
/r/seduction19/11/21 08:09 PM
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Move on. If you get into a LDR with her, she’s gonna dump you when she starts fucking 6’2” fraternity chads.
/r/seduction19/11/21 07:59 PM
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I agree, but approaching with a goal or an agenda comes off as creepy. Let the conversation flow naturally without an ulterior agenda in mind. Also, hot girls often complain that they’re not getting approached due to everyone assuming that they’re taken.
/r/seduction19/11/21 07:34 PM
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Yep. A hot girl can have a repulsive personality but it'll be okay for me because she's attractive.
/r/seduction19/11/21 07:17 PM
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That face when I don't have a hot bikini clad girlfriend to hot tub with me, and I like hot tubs. :(
/r/seduction19/11/21 07:05 PM
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That's actually pretty helpful. This will all be more easier when I finally transfer to a college campus and there's tons of hot women there for me to approach.
/r/seduction19/11/21 07:02 PM
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I want success too. I'm just having difficulty finding mine at the moment due to qualities that I have no control over.
/r/seduction19/11/21 06:59 PM
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I'm around average. I have a 5/10 face. I'm nowhere near being a chad but I'm also not hideous. I also doubt getting some better photographs taken of me would make a difference.
/r/seduction19/11/21 06:56 PM
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That's true, but I still get little to no matches on dating apps.
/r/seduction19/11/21 06:52 PM
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I paid for Tinder gold and I get zilch for matches. Same with Bumble. No woman messages me first on Bumble because I'm undesirable. Also, cold approaching is widely considered creepy because you never know if she's taken. It's best to approach girls and do day game in settings like similar interest groups, work, or on a college campus.
/r/seduction19/11/21 06:46 PM
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Ignoring women would never work for me because no hot women consider me hot or attractive. I have low social status, I'm skinny and weak, I have a speech impediment, and I'm not very tall either.
/r/seduction19/11/21 06:30 PM
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This is all true but no women find me attractive or consider me to be 'their type', even though I want them to. No attractive women have shown any signs of attraction or horniness towards me. The only interests I have are Google Sheets, Marvel, and Rick and Morty. I'm a stereotypical skinny nerd.
/r/seduction19/11/21 06:23 PM
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Good strategy, OP, but this won't work for everyone. I wish women would chase after me. I don't have an instagram account, I don't have an established social circle, and I'm basically invisible to women.
/r/seduction19/11/21 06:04 PM
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Good advice but I don't have an Instagram account with thousands of followers.
/r/seduction19/11/21 05:46 PM
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I'm probably going to lose my virginity in college and I'll get off of my training wheels when it comes to talking to and seducing beautiful women.
/r/seduction19/11/21 01:33 AM
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What if she thinks my male friends are gross or losers? This is where the game gets tough if you don’t have a high socioeconomic status.
/r/seduction18/11/21 10:27 PM
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I'm not on a college campus yet. I'm transferring in August though. There will be tons of options for me to do night game on campus though.
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:57 PM
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Night game would be feasible if I was above 21.
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:44 PM
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I've been to public library and I didn't want to make anyone uncomfortable. It's basically cold approaching when you're doing it in a public setting like a public library. Maybe approaching girls will work well at a campus library, but not a public library.
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:36 PM
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Let's be honest here. When you're approaching an attractive woman as a quiet semi-loner nerd like myself it comes off as creepy. Look at that episode of American Dad where the cheerleader refuses to kiss Stan Smith because she's so repulsed by him.
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:30 PM
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It's over for me since I have no social media game or social circle.
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:22 PM
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take her on adventures and bang her brains out I'm sure that's what everyone wants to do with these young girls. Should I be 6'2" and have a nice jawline as well?
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:19 PM
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Your post is spot on. It never even began for loners like me.
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:14 PM
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Chad
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:12 PM
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I love the advice but I’m skinny and nonathletic.
/r/seduction18/11/21 02:55 AM
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Don’t approach at the gym. It’s seen as creepy.
/r/seduction18/11/21 12:35 AM
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I just want a smoking hot girlfriend who loves me, is horny for me, and has a high libido for me.
/r/seduction17/11/21 11:22 PM
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Either way it’s over for me. I’m a desperate, unkempt, unfit loser.
/r/seduction17/11/21 10:48 PM
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Or I could make classic “why did the chicken cross the road” jokes to women.
/r/seduction17/11/21 10:43 PM
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I tend to sperg on and on about population data. Women tend to walk away from me when I try to talk to them.
/r/seduction17/11/21 10:36 PM
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How do I be funny with a girl? I tend to talk about google spreadsheets and population data. That doesn’t make girls laugh.
/r/seduction17/11/21 10:29 PM
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It’s over for me. I’m not nearly as tall as you.
/r/seduction17/11/21 10:05 PM
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Yeah, but I used some selfies I took, created a new account to reset the algorithm, and I still get zilch. I’m going to have to pay a professional photographer or something.
/r/seduction17/11/21 09:41 PM
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I could use better photos, but would that really make a difference? I fucked up my algorithm by liking too many people, plus I hate looking at my face. Must be similar to how actors like Johnny Depp or William Shatner cringe at their own movies.
/r/seduction17/11/21 09:19 PM
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I'm not an attractive dude. I'm 5/10 in the looks department. I'm not photogenic. I get zero matches on Tinder or Bumble, as no woman wants to talk to me. I want lots of women on Tinder and Bumble to like me, lust after me, and talk to me, but we all want what we can't have. I wish I could help you.
/r/seduction17/11/21 09:17 PM
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I want to get laid so bad. What is the secret for men with high bodycounts? Men with high lay counts are above 6'0" in height, jacked, and neurotypical. I'm none of those.
/r/seduction17/11/21 09:05 PM
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I wish a smoking hot girl would ask me out. That will probably never happen. :(
/r/seduction17/11/21 09:02 PM
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No smoking hot girls have ever bat an eye at me. I'm a hideous, sub-eight failure. Good for you for at least trying to ascend with a smoking hot girl, OP.
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:52 PM
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No girls or women outside of my family think that I'm cute.
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:49 PM
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Working on learning how to make women feel safe, lustful, and loving of me is very hard due to my autism.
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:48 PM
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I just go walking and running and study in an online college so I can get a degree on my resume, get a job, and betabuxmaxx. I have nowhere to seduce a woman and ascend from the loneliness because I’m transferring to an actual college campus next AUGUST.
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:24 PM
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I go for a one mile mixed run and walk around my neighborhood once a day. I’m also a massive marvel and adult swim nerd, not pretty cool. The ladies want athletes. I like to watch reruns of Rick and Morty and look at google spreadsheets, that’s the pinnacle of what women would not consider to be fun. Women like men with a good sense of humor. I would be classy but I just have a Rick and Morty t shirt to wear.
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:10 PM
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Being fun, cool, and classy are only relevant if you’re above eight out of ten and are attractive. I’m ugly, skinny, and 5/10. Any move I make will instantaneously be considered creepy.
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:04 PM
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I hate that no woman wants to make the first move with me. I’m unwanted.
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:55 PM
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It never even began for me. I’m unattractive.
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:54 PM
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