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I've realized that I do this dumb thing where I make friends with attractive girls out of the vague hope of making something happen You're a male. You don't just sit and "vaguely hope" something will happen. You make it happen. If you misread the girl or there was nothing there, NEXT.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 01:30 PM
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The contemporary hypertrophied muscle aesthetic is a creation of the corporate Leftist-Progressive media Ever heard of Michaelangelo's David?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 09:58 PM
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I'm sorry, but social norms suggest that if someone makes a significant effort to talk to you, you talk to them back You make some good points but this point is more nuanced. So many young guys out there are completely clueless and scared to approach a girl, to make that first step. "Day game" as these PUA call it can pay dividends precisely because even with guys that approach, they assume only a bar or club at night is the proper venue for it. Anyway, in big cities even if the girl responds to…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 04:03 PM
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Occam's razor says that guys don't fuck fatties because <drum roll> . . . fatties are repulsive.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 07:54 AM
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"Nice" can be a vague and catch-all term. "Nice" as in "you're too nice to fuck" can mean "supplicating beta" while in your case maybe it meant "affable and charming."
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 07:22 AM
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"Niceness" does not gain any level of attraction to a woman When a woman says "I wish a guy would cook dinner/get me flowers/do nice things for me" what's missing is "I wish a hot guy would submit to me and cook dinner/get me flowers/do nice things for me."
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 12:14 AM
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Her: "I was sexually assaulted in my past, so I'm cautious about getting close with men." THIS, or a variant such as "My last boyfriend really hurt me bad so I don't want to get into another relationship too quickly."
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 12:12 AM
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Unfortunately, the shaming is often effective: "Ewwwww, she's too young." (in reference to a 18-year-old) I eventually realized whether I am 22 or 42 or 52, I'm always going to find the 18-year-old hotter than the 30-year-old. In general, men will find younger women more attractive than the older one. If men did not chase young women and instead valued older women for mating, civilization will collapse in a generation or two as the birthrate plummets and increasing numbers of weak babies are bor…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 11:28 AM
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Note I said the caste system "roughly correlates" with skin color. The caste system originated in the invasion of India by newcomers who happened to be lighter than the original Dravidians. I didn't say the caste system was "based on" or "originated with" the difference in skin color between Indians or some intrinsic notion of "whiter is better." Krishna and Raam are blue. You do realize you linked to a Wikipedia reference that says "citation needed?" Sorry, not conclusive. Also, if you read the…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 11:42 AM
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You can argue that it should be easier for men because that would be fair No, actually I wouldn't. Men are supposed to compete for the youngest, most fertile women. Women are supposed to be picky and choose the best man that will commit to the and not sleep around. The above is a biological/social rule that exists in every society, past and present. That's why even in today's freewheeling anything goes, casual sex is everywhere culture, the man still has to make the first move, has to take the i…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 01:35 AM
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Why are sluts shamed but studs are heroes? Sperm is cheap while eggs are precious and to be guarded. It takes zero effort or game for a woman to sleep with tons of men while a man who can do such a thing needs some damn good game. From a biological perspective, a woman's "game" is to find commitment from the highest value man she can find, one who will hunt food for her, protect her and perhaps sacrifice his life for her. A man's "game" is to impregnate as many women as he can. It's best for him…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 12:58 AM
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Women are front-loaded in life, while men can steadily improve their financial and social position. A woman's single best asset, her youthful looks, is a fleeting asset. Every woman pretty much realizes this. Although life goes on, there is a certain sense of loss.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 12:54 AM
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If a woman is acting up, she has already lost control of her emotions. Maybe we all should control our emotions, but stuff happens. The quoted woman is just being honest and asking to be slapped down after the fact. Frame control. There's tons and tons of stuff out there on that topic. submit and agree with them It's just like training a horse. You don't need to be overtly dominant but never ever lose frame.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 04:44 PM
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I had lived in this bubble in the military where my circle of friends were all fit, our wives were submissive, and we all led and owned our shit The military has a significantly higher divorce rate than the civilian world.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 03:13 PM
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Summary of video: Father finally gets son to say "I'm sorry" for no reason at all and says now he is ready for marriage. Interestingly, in the comments section many woman are complaining the video is implying women are irrational and emotional and "get upset for nothing." And this comment from a woman actually expresses a red pill truth: "That's sad that men feel they need to say sorry for nothing. Sorry but I want my man to challenge me and stand up for himself if I'm being psycho, cause I know…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 03:04 PM
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All straight men want to boink the hot 16 year old babysitter, but they don't act on it and neither do they feel permanently miserable they're stuck with a post-Wall wife. Nor do they blame it on their male urges to reproduce honed over 10 million years of evolution. "Hypergamy made me do it" is the old "devil made me do it" excuse. Women are wired to be hypergamous but there is a conscious "thinking" element involved. Women with Ivy league degrees and PhDs didn't exist for 99% of human history.…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 01:03 PM
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True! Again, attraction is not negotiable. Another variable for women is that their MMV (marriage market value) is lower than their SMV (sexual market value). The pool of men that will have a ONS or short-term relationship with any given woman is always larger than the pool of men that are willing to commit long-term to that woman. In the long run, the majority of women want/need long-term commitment from a man. Many women in their prime don't make that logical connection and refuse like a prima…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 02:36 PM
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You make some good points. But there is a difference. All a woman has to do in the mating game is sit back and take offers, at least when she is young and hot. Meanwhile, men have to learn the rules of the game, be pro-active and aggressive, learn to get rejected a million times and seek out pussy. So when a mid 30s year old single female doctor or tall girl says "Woe is me, I have dating troubles," it's not because she was "too shy" or "overlooked." She rejected all the offers that came her way…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 02:07 PM
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Our ancestors all used to be Chad Thundercock. This is backed up by anthropology . . . During hunter-gatherer times, which is 90% of human history, pretty much all men were all Chad Thundercocks compared to civilized man, with maybe one or two guys being the uber-Chad Thundercocks. Sexual relations were pretty fluid, marriage didn't exist. Uber-Chad Thundercock might get to bang a given tribal girl 80% of the time with sloppy seconds given to the lesser guys. Every single adult male had to be ab…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 12:44 PM
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Saying "women refusing to date a man who is shorter is a selfmade problem" is akin to say "men refusing to date a woman who is fat is a selfmade problem". Completely different scenarios. Fat is fat is fat, and any man of any shape or size is going turn down that meatball if given a better alternative. That is a given. A tall woman is taking her own intrinsic characteristic and using it as a yardstick to evaluate men. She has every right, it's her choice. But then to say "Woe is me! I have dating…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 12:31 PM
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I was thinking of wiretapping laws that prohibit recording of telephone conversations without the consent of the other party.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 11:26 PM
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Oh these kinds of women are rare Thus a unicorn? Top alphas usually get these women. Men in high level finance and the like Because a man making good money is naturally an "alpha" and not necessarily a "beta bux?" But she lets me off the leash She "lets" you? Gives you permission from time to time? we've had the conversation that if she wants to go, she can go So you had a face-to-face conversation about this? Dread game is all about the unsaid implications of misbehavior. Oh, and ANY woman will…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 09:01 PM
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and record everything. THIS. Thanks to digital technology you can get tiny pen-type recorders that can be hidden in your pocket. I would advise against recording telephone conversations though.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 05:33 PM
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Just don't. There is no way to 'properly' break the rules. The rules you broke were "no examples from fiction, lyrics, movies" (in an original post) and "no spamming" (self-promotion, etc). That said, the key to promoting your blog, You Tube channel or whatever is to first build rapport and reputation in an online community with quality posts. Then you might say, "Oh BTW I have this YouTube Channel."
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 02:04 PM
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TRP talks about the ideal marriage relationship as being like a captain/first mate type relationship. The captain leads. But when the first mate says "iceberg ahead!!!!" the captain listens. Jumping into a fight with zero training is like driving straight into that iceberg at full steam.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 02:01 AM
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Report questions. Report any of the rules from the sidebar Can you clarify? Did you mean to say "Report stupid questions. Report violations of rules from the sidebar" ?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 01:25 AM
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I wonder if there should be a "no examples from the animal kingdom" option similar to "no examples from fiction or lyrics" in the report menu.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 03:27 AM
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The title of the video: "Be a Man. Get married." Sorry, that tells me enough what's going to follow.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 09:47 PM
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I understand that little boys are greatly influenced by the conventions of social media For young people under a certain age, texting emoticons have become the preferred means of communications. Society has regressed back to hieroglyphics.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 12:38 PM
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offered an unforgettable experienced and vanished Pretty vague. If panties didn't drop at the end of the night, you just had a nice platonic "date" with her.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 01:56 AM
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Neo Marxism basically, looking at society primarily through a socio-economic class-based analysis.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 12:45 PM
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I agree the above viewpoints have merit, but when someone asserts "porn causes psychological damage," they're making an assertion that concerns a field of human endeavor that is driven by empirical facts. It needs to be backed up with hard data, not a mass market Kindle book. Or else it just becomes pop psychology.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 02:47 AM
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Just made my point, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 02:36 AM
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Still doesn't prove the link between "psychological destruction" and porn. I mean, looking at a picture of bacon makes me salivate and sets off my dopamine receptors.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 02:22 AM
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To state porn causes "psychological destruction" is to make an assertion of scientific fact. Granted, psychology isn't an exact science but it is driven by empirical evidence, testing and peer-review of results. Peer review has nothing to do with an individual's psychological well-being (or lack of) and the decisions they might make because of their mental illness. If the individual should choose to seek professional help, then said professional would be well-trained and well-versed in the knowl…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 02:20 AM
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psychological destruction pornography does Do you have any proven basis for what you are saying? (i.e. peer-reviewed, data-driven published articles in respected journals of psychiatric science)
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 10:12 PM
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There should be a "Captain Obvious" option in the "report" menu.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 11:07 AM
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Hamstering gold from a response to that sub-reddit OP: "The 40-year-olds are at a mid-life crisis and want a 23-year-old that will spend all their money."
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 12:32 AM
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One way to interpret the above statistics is that single moms have poor judgement in the first place and tend to choose the same bad boy types that pumped and dumped them. Only a small minority of women are single moms because their husband died prematurely. I'm not wholly convinced of the OP's very subtle insinuation that the new boyfriend of a single mom is inherently bad just because he is a male.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 12:25 AM
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Okay, the boyfriend and mother in this particular situation were horrible but how does this logically translate into the idea that a woman's new boyfriend/partner/fuck buddy is worse than the mother? The mother in this case chose to take this new man into her life. Nor does the article say the new boyfriend took the lead and initiated the punishment for the kids.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 12:19 AM
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especially if you haven't even hung out more than a couple times Sorry, you lost me there. If you're interested in a girl sexually, you don't just "hang out" a couple times. ABC . . . always be closing, always be escalating. Your post has potential to be good advice but seems more like advice on "How to orbit a girl with texting and hanging out."
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 09:28 PM
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See rules, no examples from fiction.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 12:48 PM
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Just the fact that you're looking at her image instead of in real life idealizes her. Makeup is already a layer of illusion. Photography adds another layer of artifice. Lighting, ISO grain, colors, shadows, background blur, setting . . . it's all artistry just like a painting.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 01:08 AM
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https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/aug/23/interpol-japanese-baby-factory-man-fathered-16-children This man took surrogacy to its logical conclusion.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:53 PM
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not give a fuck and fuck everyone else. That is the beginning of wisdom for so many guys.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:49 PM
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If you think you’ve gotten it all figured out (with women One of the prevailing themes of TRP is that men are constantly in the process of "figuring out women." Hence the lively debates and back and forth on this forum.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:47 PM
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The state has a rigid stance on marriage In ancient times a marriage was a contract between a man and woman. In modern times it is between a man, woman and the state and guess which party has virtually no rights but plenty of obligations. A married woman has no obligation to keep house or offer regular sex. On the other hand, a man that marries has now contractually obligated himself to follow the state's laws on the marriage relationship, including its dissolution. Marriage is all risk and litt…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:44 PM
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How can you not give a fuck Because you're a guy, the male of the species. Men in the past hunted woolly mammoths and defended their homes and women from barbarian hordes and died horrible deaths doing so. It is in the nature of men to be stoic and NGAF about some whining woman and her petty concerns. Yes, that's a million more women guys over 30 won't have access to if their name is not beta bucks or Mr. Brad Pitt. Oh, is that the rule? Need to have a ton of money and be Mr Brad Pitt? Over 30 g…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:27 PM
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nothing really ever happens Elaborate on this "nothing really ever happens." It is the role of the male to escalate, to make things happen. Every step that notches things up is taken proactively by the male, from asking for the number to unhooking the bra. So my question is, is "nothing" happening because you are getting shot down when you try to escalate or are you passively expecting things to fall into your lap?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 12:22 AM
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Well, one doesn't have to be gay or celibate to have a Mission. In many instances attention from the opposite sex naturally falls into a man's lap as a result of personal achievement. I guess its a causality issue. A (pussy) follows B (achievement), hence B was done solely or primarily to achieve A, thinks the feminist. The female mind will never understand how a man can be utterly consumed with his Mission because obviously all men only have sex on their minds.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 04:24 PM
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whether you are trying to become a successful author, a top banker or playing a guitar, its either directly or indirectly for access to women. Pussy is the strongest currency in the world. No, men don't go out and conquer brave new worlds, invent things and build companies for "access to pussy." Sure, on a certain level guys are thinking about the increase in social cachet the achievement will bring them. But the idea that pussy is the single biggest motivator for men to achieve higher things is…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 01:16 PM
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In classical economics it's actually called "self interest" or "selfishness" and there's no moral judgement attached to it. It is assumed as a base point for any analysis that every single individual is "selfish" and a "utility maximizer."
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 03:45 PM
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The American electoral system was never designed to be directly democratic, from the beginning. The Electoral College which actually casts the votes to decide the next President was originally selected by the state governments. The Founding Fathers feared the 'demos,' or mob rule, and saw the Roman Republic as their model, i.e. representative government where the temporary passions of the people are filtered through layers of representation.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 03:40 PM
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Well, there's whatever the judge/state law says and then there's whatever the credit reporting agencies say. If you have a strict policy of no co-mingling credit cards then none of her debts appear on your credit report.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 10:21 PM
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I might add, never open a joint credit card account. A soon-to-be ex-wife can easily rack up the charges or take out cash advances (to pay the divorce lawyer) and you'd be almost powerless to stop her. Too many divorces result in both parties ending up with bad credit because of this scenario.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 04:08 PM
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No, most men are not productive Well, somebody had to build all the buildings and highways, grow the crops, create works of art and literature, think up all the inventions, start companies, formulate ideas and all the rest of the stuff that makes up modern-day civilization and everything else that led up to it. Whether it's laying a single brick or planning an entire city, somebody had to wake up every morning and decide to be productive. Interesting factoid: 85 to 90% of all Wikipedia entries w…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 05:24 PM
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I know we have this notion that somehow women are the common enemy and there is this sense of a brotherhood among some guys, well, this isn't true at all Meanwhile, the vast majority of TRP posts is advice from guys to perfect strangers on how to improve their life and get ahead. Most guys are not your friends Given the average person has a larger social/work circle of maybe 100 or so individuals and a close group of true friends under 10, that's mathematically true. Low SMV guys will use every …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 04:06 PM
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In that era, diaries were often written with the idea of future publication as a possibility, especially by those planning political careers. TR was probably thinking, "God, I want to fuck her brains out" as he wrote how some girl looked like an angel to him. At least with his relations with Alice, TR seemed pretty RP.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 01:06 PM
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Although he was married and had an affair here and there, he put his career and interests above everything. Especially women At age 50 MacArthur had a 16 year old Fillipina concubine named Isabel Cooper.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 12:40 PM
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Well, she was a catch, a strikingly beautiful upper class WASP with blue eyes and blonde hair. Oh, and 18 years old when Teddy met her.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 12:20 PM
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It might have been your IDGAF attitude that made the difference, not whether you paid or not.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 03:13 PM
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The title of the post "Being Broke . . " seems to imply OP has nothing when in fact he has his own place, assuming it's not mom's basement.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 03:07 PM
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t seems that most the people who post on here are very anti having kid Seems like an over-simplification of TRP. The message I got from TRP regarding marriage or having kids is to "hedge your risk very very carefully (choose the right girl, know TRP Marriage, maintain frame, etc) if you choose to go down that route, but ultimately it's your decision."
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 03:12 PM
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Funny thing is, for most of human history people lived in small tribal bands or villages and were always surrounded by kinfolk, from birth to death. No single woman or man was your only companion.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 02:40 AM
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Seems like the responses are level-headed for the most part, following a sort of "agreeing to disagree" spirit. To each his own.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 08:56 PM
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About 5:35 into the video, this gem: "As a group we know more today, but as individual our ancestors were superior to us." (Accompanied by picture of puny modern human next to Alpha caveman)
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 03:29 AM
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all these theories about interacting with women apply to a very specific breed of women. ANd that breed is the minority. Theories such as hypergamy, alpha/beta dichotomy, maintaining frame? Seems to apply to the majority of females out there. "PUA game" is just one small corner of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 01:17 AM
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Funny, I didn't get that vibe from TRP. No, I don't imagine every girl's Alpha to be a tattooed band member. I imagine an "independent" career girl's Alpha to be an investment banker who is 6ft tall and making high 6-figures. Spend some time in Manhattan, the hypergamy capital of the USA, and you'll meet plenty of those types.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 01:14 AM
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True, but note the OP carefully laid the foundation that both sexes have "built-in wiring" regarding the roles of the sexes. Humans have been around for 100,000 years in anatomically modern form and have evolved over millions of years before that. 98% of that time was lived in a short and brutish existence. Feminism and women having "fabulous careers" has been around for barely a generation or two. The "independent" career woman just wants an even bigger Alpha than the other girls. That's the on…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 09:51 PM
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Do you tell her it's out of bounds/verbalize in any way or just hard "next" her?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 02:44 AM
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To reiterate, TRP isn't some movement and we're not trying to "awaken" or "unplug" the sleeping masses. TRP is what it is, just the sharing of age-old wisdom about females and life, knowledge that our forefathers took for granted.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 10:35 PM
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Why we put the pussy on a pedestal in the first place My theory: the invention of clothing and grooming led to pedestalization. When previously sweaty and dirty cavewomen learned to shave their hairy armpits and cover up their private parts, they began the first step to cloaking themselves in the 'feminine mystique.' Matriarchy never really existed as any sort of lasting social order. We were sexually dimorphic, with the male being stronger and more dominant, before we were even humans.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 10:30 PM
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I think Shakespeare said it best in his St Crispian's Day Speech in Henry V: We few, we happy few, we band of brothers; For he to-day that sheds his blood with me Shall be my brother; be he ne'er so vile,
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 03:25 PM
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The readership these articles target isn't someone who is already on TRP. Rather, it is aimed at the general public, partly to illuminate what TRP allegedly is about and partly to discredit/impugn/disparage TRP. It seems more productive to critically parse the rhetoric the authors use to carry out that end. Another strategy would be to comment in the discussion section at the end of these articles. I think several weeks ago here there was a discussion about the "Swallowing the Red Pill" article …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 06:17 PM
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I think the headlines speak for themselves: mostly ad-hominem attacks ('conspiracy nut jobs' 'trolls') and dropping loaded words ('misogynists'). Attacking the authors' appearances is just an ad-hominem attack.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 06:00 PM
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nobody loves their life in their 40s if they don't have love Because love is so precious and penguins mate for life and live happily ever after. a man's social skills and level of confidence doesnt increase without limit. No one said it does. Everyone declines and dies eventually but men can and will improve incrementally in many ways. Social skills and confidence are one of the many variables of a man's attraction. A man can progress in his professional life and skills well past his 30s. Unfort…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 03:09 PM
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does this mean that women will finally have to take the same physical fitness test as men and be held to identical physical standards? Don't you know that the enemy bullets will fly slower for a woman soldier? And if a wounded soldier needs to be dragged out of harm's way, he'll be the skinny and featherweight guy?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 10:58 PM
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Here's my theory, based on a bit of speculation and anthropology: Ever meet military guys that served together in battle, living for 6 months in a foxhole in Afghanistan? These are true brothers in arms that will take a grenade for each other. The life and death bond between these guys is so intense an ordinary civilian cannot comprehend it. Today, only a small minority of men serve in the military but for most of history the normal state of a man was bonding with fellow comrades-in-arms. 90% of…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 01:23 PM
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One of the big takeaways about the Wall is the truth it reveals about the existential condition of being a woman. No, the Wall doesn't mean that the majority of post-Wall women are doomed to a lonely existence with only feline company. The Wall reflects the reality that women are front-loaded in life: their single best asset comes early and declines, first slowly then rather rapidly. Likewise, their life trajectory can easily follow that downward spiral (in their perspective). Rather depressing …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 02:42 PM
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That still leaves the next two variables negatively influenced by age:first, the capacity of a female to pair bond, her un-jaded 'innocence' so to speak and second, her ticking biological clock, if she wants to find a LTR and have children. Sorry, a post-Wall or near post-Wall woman has too many strikes against her: faded youth, jaded demeanor and rapidly declining fertility. I ain't taking such worn out goods and neither are many men out there. You can, if you want (assuming you're a male).
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 07:57 PM
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I didn't make up the term "the Wall." I didn't make the decision to apply the term "the Wall" mostly to women. But some clever wit coined the term and it has stuck. Colorful metaphors stick and become popular precisely because they speak to the truth, even though they might not be precise. Imagine a Wall. A tall and stout brick wall. An unsurmountable obstacle that you run straight into it and SMACK it hits you. That image ("the Wall") aptly describes EVERY woman's inevitable decline. No, it doe…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 06:32 PM
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Want to see jaded? look around this fucking sub for that. Men arent immune to it. Being jaded and cynical actually makes a man's game much stronger. Contrast a 19 year old boy who thinks his girl is The One and acts likes a puppy vs. a 34-year-old man who says "next" after his woman crosses the line. Regarding Hollywood, I'm not going by tabloid cover shots or airbrushed images. It is just reality. It just gets harder and harder for "hot" female stars to get offered leading lady roles in Hollywo…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 05:48 PM
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I'd have to disagree with you on that one. The Wall applies more to women because their single greatest asset is their youthful good looks and it comes early in life. The appeal of a man to the opposite sex is in his "masculinity." Masculinity is not just about looks but what a man has done with his life, what he has accomplished, the way he carries himself. Also, men age differently. The same man at age 19 who was a 140 pound zit-faced dweeb can look dashingly handsome at age 35. The Wall hits …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 04:43 PM
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If you drop off the radar for long enough, you become what's known in the industry as a "ghost." An 18-year-old for example or someone who's been in prison for 20 years will pull up no credit history at all. Unless you have a very high income, it might be hard to as a ghost to get a big loan such as a car loan. Of course, not an issue if you're a "cash only" sort of person.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 07:57 PM
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In the United States, three big private companies maintain your credit history: Experian, Transunion and Equifax. The credit card companies or banks do not maintain your overall credit history. Rather, they request it from one or all of the companies if you apply for a loan or credit card. In turn, all the banks and CC companies report your record with them to the big credit report agencies. Hence, the big three function as a clearinghouse for all the credit history data. I think the general pas…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 04:56 PM
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Ah, my original post was about both men and women borrowers. But now that I think about, the men were usually more or less upfront and their bad credit a lot of times was due to a business going under or other hard circumstances. The women on the other hand had excuse after excuse. One young woman told me, "I was so excited to get a credit card at age 18 I just went on a shopping spree."
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 12:04 AM
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In egalitarian, third wave feminist Iceland 2/3 of all births are out-of-wedlock: http://www.newyorker.com/culture/photo-booth/the-independent-mothers-of-iceland The rest of the West is creeping in that direction too. Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 11:11 PM
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First step to getting a sense of classic yet casual style: do a Google Image search of "Steve McQueen"
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 11:02 PM
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Thanks for the "avoid looking providerish" tip. Too many guys don't realize that "Mr GQ suit game" can snare the wrong type of girl. About not wearing heavy boots, I think good stylish boots such as Red Wings convey masculinity because it's a look women can't copy without looking "butch." It's like lifting: it's masculine and even if a woman can do it, she looks ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 10:48 PM
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Nah, I already had a rough idea. But seriously, all you need is DOB/social security # and any business that needs to check your credit on the spot such as a car dealership or mortgage bank can do it.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 08:23 PM
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It really felt like being the eye of God for a moment, pulling up 8 to 10 year's worth of intimate financial history of a person. Maybe about 5% of the time there were glitches such as mistaken or mingled identity or false collections claims, but most of the time it was the moment of truth. And so many people tried to claim so-and-so unpaid utility or credit card bill wasn't their fault. Now if only there existed an N-count report.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 07:25 PM
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Great insight! Reminds me when I was in the mortgage business and running a credit check was like pulling the curtain back and piercing the illusion. A potential borrower might swear up and down their credit was perfect but the credit report didn't lie: bankruptcies, arrears child support, charged off credit card debt all showed up.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 06:58 PM
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Reminds me of the joke: What's wrong with fapping? You're having sex with someone you love.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 02:11 PM
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Women want to be admired and valued and held in high regard Yeah, I laughed after the above quote. Put them on a pedestal! Be nice to them!
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 03:41 AM
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Well you asked. I'm just saying the closer you are to the marriage state, the more marriage-like risks you take on without receiving the benefits. What are the benefits to being legally married vs being in an almost, sort-of-there condition? If you have kids and have a household established, not being married in the eyes of the law is like not having that final veneer of respectability. You might say it doesn't matter to you or your mate but the kids quickly pick up on this intangible thing "lac…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 03:32 AM
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Yes, and the judge will err on the side of caution because who wants to be the magistrate that denied a RO against a man who ends up shooting his ex-girlfriend. Not that having a RO or not would have stopped the shooter, but stuff like that makes the front pages.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 01:40 AM
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Once you have a "domestic situation" involved it becomes more involved than a cut-and-dry property rights case. The judge will consider the facts of the situation: how long you've lived together, children involved, etc., and treat it like a husband-wife situation. In the state where I live, a temporary restraining order can be obtained ASAP with no hearing. These TROs can easily become permanent if not appealed. The courts tend to favor the "victim" and the man (it's almost always a man) can be …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 11:55 PM
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Culture/social mores/upbringing CAN have an impact and shape human behavior. My favorite statistic: out-of-wedlock births in Scandinavian countries are over 60% while in Japan it is a barely negligible 2%. Are Japanese women unicorns? Hell no. AWALT. But the Japanese "shame culture" and "group conformity" culture is powerful enough to shape female behavior in a certain way. Sure, maybe Japanese women are having ONS and casual sex at rates no different from Western women. Maybe not. But at least …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 11:40 PM
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The closer you get to a quasi-married situation, the closer you get to dealing with all the burdens of being married. If you cohabit, a vindictive female can take full advantage of the state domestic violence laws to slap a restraining order on you and have you kicked out of your own house. If you have children and a household established, you can't just walk out or threaten to walk out in 15 minutes flat. If you get incapacitated temporarily, a non-spousal partner cannot make financial or medic…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 11:27 PM
3

Do some international travel and your perspective of women will change even more radically.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 07:34 PM
3

Are we supposed to care what "others" think about TRP? (Besides the danger of getting banned for being so-called "hate speech?")
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 07:32 PM
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if you have no family you're doubly fucked. It's implied. You state that it sucks to be alone and without family "you're doubly fucked" (whatever that means). What then are you trying to say?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 06:07 PM
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Because of course getting married and having a family is guarantee you won't be lonely in old age. Because absent a huge inheritance at stake, your adult children will regularly visit you in the old folk's home. Because you can't find fulfillment in hobbies, intellectual pursuits and volunteering in the community. Men die before women anyway.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 05:52 PM
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What does it mean to be "lonely" anyway? One of the commentators noted "part of a human being's biology is not wanting to be alone." 90% of human history people lived in small hunter-gatherer bands of 30 to 50 individuals. Everyone helped each other (and was in your face 24/7). Privacy or extended solitude did not exist in such a society. The idea of a nuclear family or being a monogamous couple did not exist. Even in agricultural societies, the norm was that of huge extended families. Hence, th…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 05:50 PM
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There exists a universal archetype found in both western and eastern cultures of the stoical, graying and wise hermit that seeks solitude in the mountains after living a full life. This figure isn't one to be pitied. Rather, people admire this person for their worldly wisdom and seek them out for their knowledge and path to peace. Such a person is always depicted as a man. Never a woman.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 12:41 PM
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Women have a tendency to extrapolate their condition to men: "Poor guy, he's not married by xyz age." This attitude unfortunately has become the dominant, knee-jerk assumption of society.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 12:35 PM
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Meanwhile, in countless museums there exist depictions of rape and violence against women: https://www.college.columbia.edu/core/content/rape-persephone-gian-lorenzo-bernini-1622-1625 We might laugh at the hysteria over a movie poster but throughout history those who think they know better have defaced, destroyed and censored art because it outraged their sensibilities
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 10:03 PM
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So true, reminds me of older actresses invariably complaining about 'sexism' and 'lookism' in Hollywood as they hit or approach the Wall. Funny, not a peep about such pressing issues when they were hot young things.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 09:55 PM
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I think you prove the point I'm trying to make, that words such as "race" can have virtually no meaning or any meaning someone wants. "White race" can mean Western culture, can mean blonde white people, can mean Teutonics only, English-speaking Americans only, whatever you want. King Tut of Egypt—genetically most similar to the English—is but one tiny example I heard a little about the King Tut genetics controversy. As seen on Egyptian tomb murals, both elite and commoner ancient Egyptians looke…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 02:35 AM
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"European ancestry . . . ." "Brown person?" What exactly is that code for? Blonde blue-eyed white only vs others? DNA testing and linguistics show that Indians from the sub-continent are Aryan. Hindi belongs to the Indo-European language family which English and Russian and Italian belong to. But a blonde Finnish speaker is speaking a completely different and unrelated language. In late 19th century America Italians and other swarthy Southern and Eastern Europeans weren't even considered "white.…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 01:09 AM
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Women brazenly lie about their age all the time. The entire cosmetics industry is about enabling women to visually fooling men into thinking they're younger and fertile. A woman lying about her age is committing a greater transgression than a man lying about his age because she is making a misrepresentation about her fertility. I guess the equivalent "sin" would be a man lying about his finances/social status. So use your judgement and don't even bring up the age issue if it doesn't come up.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 02:12 PM
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the barrier for the age dynamic is whether you're older than her dad or younger than her kids. There really are no "rules." It is about attraction. Attraction isn't negotiable but on the other hand it is highly variable. If you date online, that "Age" categroy is the first thing they look at without knowing you in person and it can matter. Hence, I'm more of a real life interaction person.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 02:08 PM
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Meh, to each his own. Substitute "chunky slightly overweight women" instead of "35+ women" and the same stuff can apply too. Not my cup of tea either way.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 02:45 AM
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OP seems a little fishy, with its general theme of "older women are better." What does it mean to "peak sexually" anyway for a woman?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 01:45 AM
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It's like a frog getting boiled slowly in a pot. Man meets single mom, thinks "It'll just be a quickie." Gets great sex, keeps on hitting it. Meets the kids. Gets slowly involved in their lives. It just slowly builds. . . .
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 09:33 PM
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Discipline, ambition . . . loyalty, courage . . . all traditionally masculine traits cultivated in a masculine environment such as among medieval knights, Spartan warriors, policemen and the military. However, relations with women are a completely different thing. Which is why bringing women into combat is disastrous, but that's a different discussion . . . .
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 09:31 PM
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Eternal vigilance is the price of liberty - Thomas Jefferson
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 01:26 PM
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the single motherhood trap This point needs to be elaborated on. It is a trap because their end game is to snare a male provider for their children from another man. In other words, YOU the hapless male with a good job gets to be the unlucky cuck. The single mom uses sex as a gateway drug, and then slowly entangles you in her life. Eventually she "forgets" the birth control or if the male is inexperienced he "falls in love" with her and imagines she is "the one" despite her obvious bagggage. Sin…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 12:59 PM
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Nope, no contract in the sense that two parties agree to do xyz and try to hold up their end of the bargain. The wedding vows ("to cherish and love forever, blah blah") sound like a contract but it's all unenforceable poetry, fluff. The real contract is between you and the state and it's all one-sided: you legally marry and thus put yourself under the jurisdiction of your state's divorce laws. Even prenups are just contingencies in case of dissolution of the marriage.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 01:54 PM
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Also, the woman should have her own attorney to advise before signing so she can't claim ignorance or coercion. The fact that the woman needs her own attorney for a prenup is implied of course but it does need to be stated explicitly.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 12:56 AM
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I think the best strategy would be for marriage to be a contract drawn up before signing, with each party defining the terms of breaking the contract. Okay, one of the implicit exchanges in a marriage is regular sex. Wife stops putting out and starts to use sex as a weapon. How do you enforce?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 12:52 AM
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Ah, so you're saying there's two possible scenarios. In the first, the guy's SMV is very high compared to the girl's. She hangs on hoping for the ring. Meanwhile the guy is in the comfort zone with regular drama-free sex, until one day he decides he's done and leaves. In the second, the woman is moving ahead in life, ready to settle down but the guy is going nowhere in his career, etc. He wants to commit but he's a bit aimless in life. Either way, the woman is making a poor choice.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 03:08 PM
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Some degree of "pursuit" is required because in every culture, the man makes the move, the man escalates. However, you do it in a way that suggests you aren't supplicating her, trying to impress her, making her number one in your life. Rather, you are the prize. She is just a side distraction to you. Hope the above doesn't sound too abstract. So, for a concrete example: Let's say there's a girl you're interested in. You're trying to nail down a date with her. She's a little wishy washy, says thi…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 01:09 AM
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Observe their actions and not their words more closely Female desire for sex is like a volume knob, while for men it is an on/off switch Female sex drive is different not lower or higher than a man's. Women do learn early to use sex as a weapon/tool to control men.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 01:01 AM
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There is only one single documented incident of smallpox infected blankets being given to Indians: during the French-Indian War by a Lord Amherst. One single incident that can be proven outside of folklore, urban legend, fiction or rumor. If you know of any other (from reputable sources), please tell me. 90% of all premature Native American deaths were from European diseases passed indirectly. (Germs, Guns and Steel, Diamond).
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 02:46 AM
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Step 1: Dump free grain and other food on Third World country which is impoverished but not suffering from famine Step 2: Local grain prices get depressed due to free food Step 3: Local farmers lose their land and livelihood and become destitute Step 4: Repeat Just giving foreign aid can result in unpredictable outcomes and perverse incentives Haiti for example has hundreds of aid agencies working there and has received an infinite amount of foreign aid and yet is the poorest country in the West…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 03:51 PM
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with the aim of annihilating the groups themselves. That being the keyword. All of the above (disintegration of Native culture, institutions, language, national feeling) happened piece by piece over a long period of time to the Native Indians but I don't think there's any historical documentation that shows the intent of the American government was total annihilation of the Native Americans. A frontier settler whose entire family was just raped and scalped by a Comanche war party might have felt…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 08:00 PM
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Well, the current SJW position (not saying you are one) takes that Indian=good/white man=bad position. Genocide and ethnic cleansing are modern terms that shouldn't be lightly tossed around and stamped on every instance of one ethnic group fighting or pushing out another. The result can be "genocide fatigue" where when the real thing happens, people don't care. The American people's settlement of North America (and the subsequent loss of Native American sovereignty and land) wasn't really a geno…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 07:36 PM
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I actually studied the background to the Indian Removal Policy extensively in a US History class in college. It was a Realpolitik sort of decision that ultimately saved the Union from fracturing for another generation. The southern planters were greedy for Indian land in the South, land the Indians had been guaranteed in perpetuity earlier. Other Americans didn't believe in removal or other harsh measures. The issue could have fractured a fledgling republic. Andrew Jackson made the decision to r…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 07:16 PM
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I guess you're not familiar with the Battle of New Orleans and what would have happened if the Americans didn't prevail.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 06:43 PM
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I guess you don't understand the academic peer-review process. It's one thing to say "I have a Phd and therefore XYZ is true" vs "I have a Phd and I wrote a peer-reviewed and published article that says XYZ." I mention Phd because that's a minimum qualification to get published in a respectable academic journal. A published scholarly paper isn't gospel truth but it carries a certain authority as opposed to a website blabbering about 9/11. It can be questioned or rebutted with other well-thought …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 01:14 PM
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A moron with a PHd in evolutionary psychology named Gordon Gallup managed to have that idea published in a peer-reviewed journal. For some reason, I couldn't link to a HuffPost article that had an excerpt from the book "Why is the Penis shaped like that?"
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 09:39 AM
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Funny, I was going to add "AWALT, btw." I'm just saying culture/social expectations/morals can be a strong force. East Asian societies are "shame societies" where outside appearances are everything. That doesn't mean shit doesn't go on underneath the surface; it's just very well hidden. 2% vs 60% is a huge freaking difference and shows how powerful societal norms can be in regulating behavior (or at least outside appearances). 2% vs 60% is the difference between societies where fathers and husba…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 09:13 AM
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Culture and social conditioning can shape behavior to a certain degree. The out-of-wedlock birthrate in Japan/South Korea is about 2 to 3%. In Scandinavian countries it's over 60%, a figure that approximates the out-of-wedlock birthrates in the African-American community.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 05:28 PM
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In my experience tier 2 cities tends to have less "foreigner fatigue." If you're from the west, you're positively received and almost a near celebrity.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 05:23 PM
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In the big cities such as Shanghai, Seoul and Tokyo, Asian girls are are blatantly hypergamous regarding a man's social status and wealth. Openly CCing is frowned upon and kept hush hush but AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 03:24 PM
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There's a school of thought that says the simpler the better. Why use a million dollar word when a one-dollar word is shorter and more punchy? Quantity over quality: would you rather write an erudite and obtuse academic article read by a total of twenty scholars or a catchy Tweet shared by 20 million readers?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 05:17 PM
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There's guy out there named Kirk Maxey who has fathered over 400 children running around the U.S. Midwest: http://www.newsweek.com/genetic-lessons-prolific-sperm-donor-75467. He started donating sperm in the 1980s when it was lightly regulated. Now he's become an advocate for tighter government regulation of the business. Seems like pulling up the ladder after you made your way up.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 01:25 PM
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I thought of that possibility. However, give the rest of what the journalist says he probably has a popular conception of both authors: Austen=romance and Dostoevsky=Christian morality/good vs evil.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 09:37 PM
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The Romantic poets such as Blake and Shelley made the young women of their day swoon. But that's because their SMV was sky high: they were famous literary figures, the equivalent of being modern day rock stars, reality stars, athletes all rolled into one. And they were members of the aristocracy, with estates and titles. That stuff will get even today's woman tingling. The "Byronic Hero" of the Romantic movement was a dashing, masculine yet cynical and brooding male, who might be moved to tender…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 07:06 PM
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First line of Pride and Prejudice: "It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife." Hypergamy laid bare.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 05:45 PM
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Like most mainstream media coverage of TRP, the article doesn't really address the truths expressed by TRP but instead devolves into ad hominem attacks , insinuations, mischaracterization and petty moralizing. A quote from the article: What the boys of The Red Pill need, in all honesty, is a massive dose of Romantic poetry. They need a dedicated course of treatment in the novels of Jane Austen and Dostoevsky, combined with significant therapy in negative capability. They need to learn that love …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 03:13 PM
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Keywords being "how much of a mistake it was." If the rest of her peers are CCing into their 30s, then the girl marrying young thinks she's made a huge mistake and missing out. If the cultural milieu is one where the average age of marriage is 22, the girl marrying young might feel very lucky. I met many couples from the older generation (age 70s and up) who married young (age 19, etc) and stayed together for 50 years or so. Some people point to the high divorce rate among younger marriages (18 …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 01:44 AM
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Somebody needs to start a discussion on the phenomena of the girl who spends most of her 20s in a LTR with one guy but ultimately doesn't get commitment in the form of marriage. Whether she rides the CC or not after the breakup, what's the deal? Why did she waste her best years on this guy? How much has this experienced embittered her? Why should you be the guy to white knight her and marry her when someone else got the best of her youth and beauty?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 09:09 PM
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I'm not interested in having a relationship with a single mom let alone meeting her kid. The single moms have a way of just creeping into your life once you get started (like any girl that decides "tag, you're it!"). They spend one night at your place, leave a piece of clothing here and there, a toothbrush. You swear you won't meet the kids but the day after some great sex, "OMG big emergency, can you pick me up and BTW I'm with junior." You end up like the proverbial frog getting boiled slowly …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 06:30 PM
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Unfortunately, she might decide you'd be a nice BB provider and "accidentally" get pregnant by you. Then it's 18 years of child support for baby #2, for starters. The first daddy avoided child support because he was a lowlife thug who is in prison now, but if you're an upstanding citizen you WILL get a judgment against you, your wages WILL be garnished. Game over. Tom Leykis also had a segment where he said to avoid single moms PERIOD because some jurisdictions have forced men to become obligate…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 12:02 PM
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I would add TRP is about "codifying" (i.e. putting in written form) the truths about women that men pick up in bit and pieces as they go through life. We sometime deny it, can't put a finger on it or even ignore it because of BP conditioning. TRP puts it there in front of your face, "in print" so to speak. Words tend to order the random thoughts in our brain. It's like an "ah ha" moment where the subconscious truth suddenly becomes self-evident.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:50 AM
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If Canada gave up international trade, you guys would have no cane sugar, orange juice or coffee, for starters. There goes your morning breakfast.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 02:50 AM
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It's more of a nudge nudge "You should find a good Christian wife soon because that's the wholesome thing to do as a young pastor" pressure. Everything is implicit.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 02:31 PM
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I think real child porn is shared and downloaded through bit torrent streaming, etc. You don't just ho-hum scroll through webpages.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 01:16 AM
1

In this age, it seems like most relationships are based on the guy providing basically everything for the girl (i.e. shelter, clothing, safety, financial security, and other shit) while the woman basically only provides sex... That's they want you to believe. Oh, and that sex always comes after said gifts are delivered.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 12:39 AM
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The Christian girls go for the bad boy who seems reformable, the one who claims he comes to church to mend his ways, the one seemingly hovering between the abyss and salvation. Or, the Christian girl goes for the Alpha church guy: a) the young, newly arrived pastor b) or one of the group leaders who is also a Chad. A Christian girl never goes for the good boy who has always been there for her and has accepted God since childhood. Incidentally, it's an unspoken rule among many Protestant churches…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 12:12 AM
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The more legitimate ones seemed to have gotten married relatively early I grew up on the East Coast, close to NYC, went to a big liberal state school. Then after college moved to a Bible Belt state and met tradcon types I never even knew existed. Every single one that seemed sincere already had a fiance by senior year of college.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 12:02 AM
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There are no "hot girls" out there. Girls can be attractive, cute, "my type", etc. There's no category of uber-beautiful women called "hot girls." There are attractive women that gravitate to the clubbing/hedonistic life style. The flashing lights, pounding music, alcohol and stiletto heels and mini skirts might make them seem "hot" but the next morning they're just females that fart and take a dump like the rest of us.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 11:16 PM
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I understand all young Mormons are encouraged to go on a mission. A reformed Mormon told me the church elders give the young males and homely girls overseas assignments, while the hot young girls are given assignments in Utah.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 08:53 PM
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But the female capacity to have multiple orgasms must have some purpose? Sort of like the penis plunger hypothesis. There's some degree of deductive reasoning involved as opposed to solid, smoking gun evidence.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 08:41 PM
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It's like proving the reason why humans don't have body hair or ended up walking upright or sweat. You observe the physical evidence, assume some behavioral traits and deduce things. Gorillas maintain exclusive harems and have small testes. Bonobos screw each other like crazy and have massive testes. Humans? Somewhere in between, with medium sized testes and a penis that works effectively like a plunger, even though "traditional morals" say one man, one woman.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 06:51 PM
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So true. It's one thing to verbally proclaim AWALT. Having the physical proof in your hands takes it to another level.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 03:48 PM
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The deep dark past of unrecorded history (which makes up 90% of human history) really explains the sexual behavior of today's humans. Why do many men really want to just LEAVE after the act, instead of cuddling? Because sex was often dangerous in the past: gang bangs, tribal kidnappings, secret tryst with the alpha male's woman . . . even the surrounding woods was filled with nasty predators such as sabre tooth cats. For those who poo poo the powerful forces of evolution, consider that modern hu…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 02:36 PM
1

One useful thought experiment is to think back to why or how you came to this sub-reddit. Bad relationship? An ah-ha moment about life? There was a fork in your life and you ended up here.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 05:43 PM
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You NEXT her, you pull that same winning move she has and flip the script. This is the single most powerful move a guy has as his final option to save the sinking ship. Specifically, right after the girl has the "Dear John" talk with you, CUT OFF ALL CONTACT. Don't even come by the next day to pick up your toothbrush from her place. Don't answer her texts or phone calls. Total radio silence. It might be hard to resist. But remember, she chose to end things. Either two things will happen: 1) she …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 10:54 PM
1

A red pill medical student would be supremely confident in himself, knowing he has a prestigious and well-paying career ahead of him. In any given day he would spend time working out in the gym and also hitting the books. Most medical schools are affiliated with a larger university. The RP medical student might take time during the day to chat up an undergrad coed in line at the campus coffee shop. He might have a quickie with another stressed out, no-time-for-social-life female classmate and th…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 08:42 PM
1

Horizontal markets in business refers to a vendor providing a variety of services to a general range of customers. Example would be Aramark which provides uniforms, food and facilities maintenance to hospitals, prisons, etc. Vertical markets are about servicing one niche in a particular industry, such as providing pipes to oil drilling companies.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 07:11 PM
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What would a niche look like? It could be that a guy enjoys painting and enjoys the company of women between 30-40. I think you're addressing only one aspect of success with the opposite sex: finding a pool of eligible partners. Your approach could be summarized as "find a specific niche and play indirect game." Painting women? Teaching? Why not just approach?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 07:08 PM
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You cannot generalize the world In the case of single moms, I will. Don't have time to hear "her side of the story" or go looking for exceptions to the rule. Next. The other guy can LTR-up the single mom. I won't.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 02:42 PM
2

It's fascinating. AWALT but culture, custom and social pressure can make a difference. In Asian cultures, being a reliable beta provider is enough to keep the marriage sustainable indefinitely. Dead bedrooms are almost taken for granted after the wife pops out a kid or two. The flip side is that a married man going to a hostess bar with his business colleagues isn't considered to be cheating.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 02:55 PM
3

"Death solves all problems. No man, no problem." Joseph Stalin
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 01:03 PM
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The NYT is so blatantly blue pill in so many ways, I sometimes wonder if it's deliberate. There was a recent article trying to portray over-35 bachelors in NYC as being pathetic losers who can't/won't wife up: http://www.nytimes.com/2016/01/08/fashion/mens-style/new-york-bachelors-yearn-for-more.html?_r=0
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 01:37 AM
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Maybe go to Asia and marry a 30yo gir I just laugh every time I hear someone from the West giving this advice. Asian girls, especially from the developed economies of Japan, Korea and Taiwan, are the most blatantly hypergamous women out there. There's a saying among Chinese women: "It is better to cry in the back of a BMW than smile on a bicycle." In Korea, it is said that to marry a Korean girl you need three keys: car keys, house keys and keys to your office (i.e. corporate job). In most Asian…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 01:16 AM
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Thanks, OP confused me. Thought it meant "don't be too absent (scarce) from her life" or else she'll flirt with other men.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 09:31 PM
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In American English, we say "pussy whupped." "Hen pecked" is an oldie but a goodie.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 01:21 AM
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I studied history in college. The academic discipline of history is about studying primary source materials and formulating a cogent thesis that illuminates a historical truth. It's not really about uncovering some vast conspiracy by the elites to "control" things. I think if you have a broad understanding of history, economics and political science, it gives you a "big picture" view of things. The American education despite its flaws does try to teach critical thinking, in contrast to the rote …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 06:34 PM
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Sounds like a double standard Call it what you will, but that's the point and so what? Men get shipped off to die in foreign wars, women don't. Only 40% of all men in history have current descendants, while the figure is 80% for women. Tough experience makes a man worldly and wise, while a woman becomes jaded and hard. Naive innocence is attractive in a young woman while a young man with those qualities is a loser virgin.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 05:58 PM
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Then, according to your previous postings, time and experience will mature the 20yr old into a good wife-mother candidate? The empirical evidence says otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 04:35 PM
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Age also makes a woman jaded and incapable of love. (Men too, but women perceive such men as being 'mysterious' and 'worldly') A selfish stupid woman at 18 is going to be stupid and selfish at 28 or 38. Except the world is less likely to give her a free pass.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 04:28 PM
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You'll have to date her another 5, hell maybe 8 years to even get a hint of what she will be like as a long term partner much less a wife and mother. I'd say personality and life experiences are what makes a woman a good mother. A good mother is: (1) one who knows the logistical/physical aspects of taking care of children. This can be learned. (2) is nurturing, kind, patient, a good role model and teacher. Now, (2) is highly dependent on personality and experience. A person's core personality pr…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 03:37 PM
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Even then, you dont need these things in common because opposites attract Then why are you asking "What could you have in common besides sex?" I guess we're both agreeing it's about attraction that matters, not common traits or lack of common traits. Hence, if a 22 year old female is attracted to a 35 year male old so be it.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 03:28 PM
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the same way humans have been doing it for thousands of years. Step 1: Have sex with girl Step 2: Girl gets pregnant and has baby Step 3: Now you two are father and mother. I think you're implying the nuclear family marriage has been around for thousands of years. First, one point of TRP is that the traditional mores and rules of the past are GONE, thrown out of the window by the modern woman. So, what happened for "thousands of years" in traditional societies is irrelevant. Actually, for thousa…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 02:28 PM
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At 20 she's a full fledged adult Yes, other variations include "She's such a babbbbyyyyy!!!" At age 18, (in today's military) even a female can make the decision on her own to enlist and die on a battlefield, let alone date a man of her choice.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 02:17 PM
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what the hell could you have in common besides sex Fundamentally, it's about attraction, not having things "in common." You could have a million things in common (school, hometown, ethnicity, favorite foods, etc.) with a girl but if she doesn't feel the "tingles" then it's "Let's just be friends, we have so much in common!" A Chad comes along and he has nothing in common with her but it's straight to the sack with him.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 02:15 PM
1

Go get a job in 100% commission sales. Pound the pavement, do or die. You learn fast. Why sales? You learn so much about everything that applies to everything else in life.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 03:39 AM
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1) 10,000 hours rule is simplistic and has been debunked: http://www.businessinsider.com/new-study-destroys-malcolm-gladwells-10000-rule-2014-7 2) It's the journey not the destination that is the point.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 09:29 PM
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There was an article recently in the NYTimes about FARC guerrillas in Colombia that have been living in the forests for decades, men and women living in tribal-sized groups. The guerrillas weren't stone age tribespeople but previous members of modern Colombian society. Their social order "devolved" to one where marriage didn't exist. Rather, it was "free love" and temporary pair bondings. http://www.nytimes.com/2016/03/19/world/americas/colombia-farc-rebels.html?_r=0
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 01:50 PM
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Even humans have the mammalian diving reflex. http://ideas.ted.com/science_of_freediving/
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 01:45 PM
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be filtering out the genetic tendency to 'independence'. Independent women do not pass on their independence genes at Lost me there. Any support for the existence of such a 'gene'?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:22 PM
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They loved everything That's really broad. I love it when my home team wins. I love eating a good Sunday brunch. I love little puppies. I love the feel of the wind in my face when I drive a convertible.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:50 AM
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They loved with passion endlessly Ok, but loved what? A woman? Or rather the field/subject/art they devoted their life too?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:34 AM
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Substitute the word "love" with either "anger" or "hate" in the OP's posting and it still largely makes sense (or no sense, whatever way you see it). Love isn't that special.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:19 AM
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People that scream "censorship" seem to forget it applies to governmental action. Reminds me of when the Dixie Chicks made a derogatory comment about President Bush. Got immediately DROPPED by all the major country radio stations. People screamed "censorship" but it wasn't.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 12:54 AM
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The eternal dilemma of the woman doctor. Worked so hard, sacrificed her best years and then finds herself on the north side of 30 and making more money than many of the men she meets. And, she sees the massive boost in the sexual market place only her male classmates get and can't help but turn bitter.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 01:08 AM
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The fact remains that every single female is "front loaded" in life, in that their single best asset is their youthful beauty. It comes early and it declines. Maybe the peak comes at 19, maybe 22 or 23. Maybe they can still CC into their 30s and 40s but the decline is a fact of life. And they are quite aware of it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 05:00 PM
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To their 60s? There's a little thing called menopause and it hits way before 60.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 04:56 PM
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Actually, if you're an American taxpayer the money you're paying is barely covering the interest on the spending by the government. Its all entitlement spending for the present mortgaged by the future.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 04:50 PM
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Couple takeaways: 1) It is true societal trends can move in a way that disfavors men. For example, in the Scandinavian countries out-of-wedlock birthrates are over 60%. Daddy is no longer necessary because the state is the daddy. Not sure what my answer to these trends is . . . 2) Whether its overestimating their MMV or dating the wrong Chads, women learn their lesson too late. Sure, they can still pull ONS as divorced 30-something year olds but can they get long term commitment? They find out i…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 02:09 PM
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Schadenfreude is nice and all, but at the end of the day does it matter if these fatties, divorced moms and former CCers are having their cake and eating it too if YOU don't care to date them?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 02:00 PM
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There has to be a more condensed and efficient way to learn. No, there isn't. In any disciple (law, physics, biology, auto mechanics, whatever) just looking at the condensed notes and outlines won't make any sense.You have to read the whole book, make your own outlines, do real world exercises, try, try, fail, try again.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 08:19 PM
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I am willing to put the work in Ok, whatever you read that you find useful, jot it down. Cull out whatever you find to be BS. Soon, you'll have your own TRP rule book. Nothing will ever be spoon-fed to you in life after you graduate from potty training. If you start a new job and assume the same clueless wide-eyed demeanor, your co-workers will start to question your competence. If you start grad school and start mooching on everyone for the "outlines" you will swiftly lose everyone's respect.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 07:37 PM
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If you're a young single male, don't live in a podunk town. Move to the biggest, busiest city you can, where there's literally tons of females to pick from.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 02:17 AM
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I guess I just don't get how women became this way. Are millennials to blame? feminism? Both males and females are not wired for long term relationships. See "Coolidge Effect" (males) and "hypergamy" (females).
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 01:14 AM
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TRP is not a movement Yep, I said to my friend just think of TRP as locker room talk, codified (i.e. written down). I mean "locker room talk" in a positive light, as in frank wisdom about women shared "just between the guys." As in all locker room talk, there's always someone that will whine, brag or spout nonsense but they eventually get down voted.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 12:18 AM
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I want to grow old with a good woman . . . and then a unicorn came out of the woods.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 03:53 PM
2

If you live in China then you're quite aware of the ultra-hypergamous Shanghainese-girl reputation. City-bred girls in China are pretty blatant about their hypergamy. Wendy Deng (and her gold-digging, rags-to-riches story) is looked up to as a role model in that country.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 03:49 PM
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When you make a woman laugh, you're making her open her mouth in a state of uncontrolled ecstasy.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 11:26 PM
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Well, most of humanity's 100,000 years of history has been in a hunter-gatherer state instead of modern society or feudalism. In these small (50 or so individuals) and egalitarian groups there was neither 1:1 marriage or harems monopolized by powerful men. The theory then is that these groups practiced "free love." However there would have existed stronger, more alpha men. Maybe the alpha guy got sex 2/3 of the time from a given woman, and the weaker guy got it 1/3 of the time. In the end, it st…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 03:41 PM
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Some of the simplest jobs require a human. Try teaching a computer/robot to tie shoelaces or give a haircut.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 07:41 PM
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I admit I don't. I do know AI chess simulators use a brute force method of rapidly cycling through all possible outcomes. Now if they invented an AI that could play poker (including bluffing, reading other players, etc), it would be time to head for the hills.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 07:40 PM
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Anyone familiar with the binary logic of computers/digital technology would realize computers are far from becoming true "thinking machines."
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 06:36 PM
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An American economist visited Communist China in the 70s. A government official showed off a dam under construction. The economist expressed surprise the workers were all using shovels and pick axes instead of bulldozers and power equipment. The official said to the economist, "This project is to create jobs." The economist said to the official, "Why don't you use spoons instead of shovels then?"
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 06:33 PM
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It is like playing Dread game without playing Dread Game: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o_Ycw0d_Uow
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 12:26 AM
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Ottoman Empire's decline had many reasons, including the above. There are stories of weak sultans living in the golden cages of their harems, drugged with hash-hish and an endless supply of nubile slave girls captured from the Balkan territories.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 12:03 AM
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If he took a fancy to your wife Droit du seigneur, lord of the manor gets your wife on YOUR wedding night. Probably after a few kids and years of hard labor your wife at age 28 wasn't a good piece of tail anyway.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 12:01 AM
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The birth of Western civilization or more correctly I should say rebirth did not happen till around the 1600s. True, novel concepts such as humanism and individual liberties started with the Renaissance and flowered with 18th century Enlightenment philosophers such as Locke, Hume, etc started to base advancement on merit. European cultures of the past tended to be highly stratified. In the history of the world, genuine meritocracy probably didn't exist until the English-speaking New World got se…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 11:57 PM
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Castrating boys to make them lifelong alto sopranos is one teeny, tiny aspect of classical/patriarchal/Western/whatever civilization. Irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 11:17 PM
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I think 95% of us for much of civilized history were farmer/peons who married the good village girl next door, had ten children with her and then died at age 45. A common man had as much chance of being a eunuch as being in the top 5%. Eunuchs that guarded harems often amassed great political power. If the emperor was weak, they were often the real power behind the throne. In China, the eunuchs usually came from peasant families and were raised from boyhood to serve their eunuch role. They gaine…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 11:13 PM
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But if PUA culture encourages a man to approach, approach and keep on approaching women, wouldn't that at the minimum build up his social skills and confidence?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 03:02 PM
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Why do guys want fast big cars Meh. The original pioneers and go-fast guys in the auto industry such as Henry Ford, Enzo Ferrari, Carroll Shelby tinkered with cars and machines because they had the personal passion, curiosity and ambition to do so. Sure, their labors produced machines that were purchased by mid-life crisis males, but "man hobbies" exist because men are into them. Reminds me of the computer geeks who eventually built Silicon Valley. Almost predominantly men who tinkered with comp…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 01:49 PM
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It's a line from "St Crispian's Day Speech" from Shakespeare's Henry V. Really captures the camaraderie of men in battle and struggle. For most of human history, that WAS the condition of men. Nobody went off somewhere far for college or a job transfer, so the guys you knew from childhood were your brothers for life. Now, even guys that fought together in the Navy SEALS leave the military, go their own separate ways, and end up searching the rest of their lives for those old bonds of brotherhood…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 12:07 AM
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There's probably a difference between guys out there that are quietly MGTOW and guys that have a need to go on forums and proclaim they're MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 09:15 PM
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Yeah, in all fairness single women on the hunt are going to maximize their return on investment. Just an obvious fact of life. TRP is concerned more with the subtle expressions of hypergamy, such as when a female in a LTR with a man gets restless and decides she can do "better."
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 07:17 PM
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Whaling crews, voyages of discovery, caveman hunting expeditions . "We few, we happy few, we band of brothers."
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 02:42 AM
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If you include hominids such as homo erectus, it's actually 8 million years of evolution. I think anatomically modern humans have been around for 100,000 years.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 01:57 AM
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Hypergamy is CRIPPLING Japan, Korea and China. There's a saying in Korea that a man needs three keys to wed a Korean girl: car keys, office keys and key to a house.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 01:10 AM
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if you are choosing a female much, much younger than you, it's a bit worrying to think that the husband will die much sooner than her 1) A female will spend one night with an Alpha Chad rather than take a lifetime of commitment from a Beta loser. The closer a man is on the scale to Alpha, the less time he has to commit to a woman. 2) "It's a bit worrying." Whether a third party observer like you is "worrying" about a relationship with a big age gap is irrelevant, unless you are the young woman's…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 12:48 AM
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I know, I know ... huge problem in western, 'progressive' societies. Still, the closer the girl's age to 18, the lower the probability of such issues. Just don't go for the 'hawwwwt' girl.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 04:08 PM
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Absolutely nothing wrong with that if she holds up her end of the bargain by being faithful, loyal, nurturing with the children and you were her first. Modern men get a raw deal because women CC in their best years AND expect the support and care from a future BB husband.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 04:05 PM
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Yeah, I think medicine is one. Medicine requires true commitment and dedication. A lot of the 'careers' that women claim to have are just b.s. marketing, public relations, etc positions. When I was in college I worked for a telemarketing company that sold college alumni directories. We would call up the alumni and update their info (and try to sell a directory at $29.95 a pop). One of our accounts was an ivy league law school. The female alumni that were about 2 or 3 years out of school were all…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 03:38 PM
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Every year the pipeline gets replenished as girls turn 18. So, it's not actually an impossible goal.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 03:34 PM
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I feel like now, more women want to earn their fair share of the household income No, they don't. From my experience, unless a woman is following a career that is a true 'calling,' she wants and expects the man to be the main breadwinner and to be taken care of. Women realize quickly the corporate grind is just that and their college degrees in psychology and women's studies aren't that big of a deal.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 03:25 PM
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If you read the article carefully, it makes the point that real differences between the sexes don't exist and that 'stereotypes' perpetuate them: "Previous research has shown that many gender differences are small or inconsistent . . . yet people exaggerate the extent to which men and women are different from one another." That's a classic SJW feminist position. Sorry, nothing to see here.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 03:23 PM
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I don't know, I haven't been in the military myself. But these are guys that'll take grenades for each other.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 02:20 PM
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I guess what you're trying to say is: leverage your strengths and flip weaknesses into strengths.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 04:19 AM
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I crave female companionship You ever hear of military guys that spend 6 months with their crew in a foxhole in the middle of the mountains surrounded by Taliban? Now that is true brotherhood and companionship. This intense sort of male fraternal bonding is only experienced by the small percentage of men (in the modern developed world) that experience combat. Yet for most of human history the majority of men did experience such male companionship and loyalty. Men hunted wooly mammoths together, …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 03:38 AM
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"Don't marry the single mother with 3 kids from 3 different fathers" is one piece of RP wisdom almost every man instinctively grasps on his own even if heavily BP-conditioned. Listen to your gut instincts. We are all wired in many ways for RP behavior . . . beta programming by society has managed to effectively neuter it.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 04:21 AM
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There was no golden age were everyone was happy with traditional gender roles Yes, human nature is universal but our modern society is unique in terms of access to effective birth control, abortion on demand, dating apps, female careerism, breakdown of traditional mores, etc that have all combined to unleash the female nature in a very bad way. One of the big takeaways of TRP. Oh well, at least we modern men have Viagra and genetic testing and ways to expat ourselves easily (online banking, air …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 02:34 AM
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Chinese culture can be pretty frank about certain RP truths about women, with terms such as "leftover women" bandied about. I think East Asian culture is straight forward about the nature of women's hypergamy in regards to a man's money/occupation, while trying to be hush hush about CCing and women's sexuality. American culture seems to be less secretive about CCing by women, while denying hypergamy and promoting "true love" and all that Disney BS.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 01:42 AM
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The Japanese have a term for women over 25: Christmas cake. Value drops rapidly after the 25th.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 09:39 PM
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if it gets you in its crosshairs. In the US, "civil forfeiture" is one way.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 10:28 PM
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You're saying that women don't commit when their younger because they have more SMV Partly so for the above reason, but also because that's the modern trend nowadays. Feminism and the popular consensus tells the American female their late teens and early 20s are times to experiment, have fun, go to school . . . anything but start the LTR mate search. they'll learn their lesson if we as men grow some balls and teach them. Women unfortunately "learn their lesson" too late, after-the-fact.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 01:34 PM
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First line of the book: "It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife."
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 03:48 PM
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True, but women these days don't live up to their end of the bargain. They want to spend their best years CCing. They want to pursue a career and end up serving a "corporate boyfriend" during their most fertile years. Then, after she's had her fun, a woman wants a man to commit to her and play the provider role. Then she gets "bored" with the marriage and breaks up a family to seek new thrills, while grabbing child support and alimony prizes. The traditional marriage sought by some men entails m…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 03:45 PM
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There's a long tradition of associating batty women with cats (witches, etc). The more I study TRP, the more I am convinced that pre-modern cultures, despite their "backwardness", were much more wise to the ways of women
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 02:16 PM
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unlike most of us, it will be too late when she "gets it". Funny, I just had a conversation with my friend that when women make mistakes in the relationship game, they realize their mistake too late and after the fact. Examples include getting into a LTR with the wrong guy or over estimating their MMV. A guy making such mistakes? All he has to do is get up, dust himself off and try again.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 12:05 AM
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I think she recalled in an interview that when she was growing up her father told her "beauty fades, dumb is forever." Probably a red pill father.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 01:55 AM
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Yeah, I should have clarified. I interpreted it to mean not not necessarily every single box has to be checked. But, women in every single culture want to marry up, whether it's in social status, wealth, etc. Hypergamy, they're wired for it.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 01:47 AM
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Women don't date down, in any area Absolute universal truth found in every freaking culture.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 01:00 PM
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Women will choose the rich handsome guy Ah, but choose for WHAT? For marriage and eventual divorce rape? Meanwhile the "ugly guy" gets to have a quick fling no strings attached.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 04:26 PM
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A handsome wealthy man with a personality of a block of wood "Personality of block of wood" could be interpreted as cold aloofness and hence "alpha." If the man's wealth was self-made, he probably had alpha traits that led to his monetary success.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 04:23 PM
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If you're a heterosexual male it is your biological imperative to survive and reproduce. For 99% of human history a man with game who could have sex with many females WAS fulfilling his biological imperative. Now, with the availability of effective contraceptives and abortion, having sex with as many woman as possible at its best merely satisfies an immediate desire. On the other hand, because of the legal system "success" at impregnating a female just leads to financial liability.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 04:20 PM
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investment bankers I see what you're saying, but they do get divorce-raped a lot.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:58 PM
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Be attractive, don't be unattractive. It's not sexual harassment if the guy is a Chad.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:56 PM
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Sorry, my analogy was a little imperfect. I guess a better point would be to not take the mainstream media at face value. Yes, the underlying academic theory quoted by the author is correct in a purely hypothetical world. In the messy real world the author isn't evaluating suitors but CCing and dismissing past flings as "duds." A clueless BP reader would say "Yeah, she had to date all these guys to find 'the one' because they were duds. Why? Because she said so and it's backed up by math." The R…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:22 PM
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You can now be charged with sexual assault during a mundane social interaction. Sexual assault doesn't have to happen in a dark alley. Innocent until proven guilty, although unfortunately in these cases there's already been a trial by media.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:05 PM
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You're reading it wrong The OP is just a critical reading of the author's actual words and quotes that puts a different "spin" to it. For example, "The Wizard of Oz" has been interpreted as a commentary on the debates about capitalism and the Gold Standard that were raging in 19th century America. Not a single word in the book explicitly says so, but things such as the Yellow Brick road and the various characters are interpreted as such. There's even a RP reading of The Wizard of OZ that labels …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 03:54 PM
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It's called not taking a woman at her word. It's called reading between the lines. "Suitors" = "Chads" "Dates" = "ONS, hookups"
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 01:38 PM
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If you take what she is saying at face value, then yes. But if you read between the lines, the RP truth comes out. The suitors and dates can be translated as "Chads" and "fucks." In the beginning of the game, the writer isn't evaluating her "suitors" for marriage prospects. She's just CCing and having her fun, and hints at the risk of "missing out" if one chooses too early. She also hints at the risk of Alpha widowing: "And as you continue to date other people, no one will ever measure up to you…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 05:10 AM
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Great argument you made. Thanks, now I get it.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 05:04 AM
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Unfortunately, young women these days go by SMV assumptions instead of MMV assumptions. MMV is always a notch or two lower than SMV for a woman. That is, a man that will approach a woman for harmless flirting, ONS, date or even a so-called "long term" relationship won't necessarily marry her. "But how do I tell the difference between the two men?" wails the CCer as she jumps on Chad while friend zoning the Betas.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 12:06 AM
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women will always have the advantage Correction: Young attractive women will "always" have the advantage. Men control commitment, women control sex.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 11:27 PM
1

a woman does not need justification to ride the CC True. I guess a better description is to say the writer of the original article is "hamstering" her CCing by saying she'll find the optimal catch at the 37% level. She adopts the tone that the guy that finally marries her is the lucky one. Now THAT is hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 11:15 PM
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Nothing to see here, the OP is just an idiot. Ad hominem attack, huh? The whole point of the OP is that a female writer cloaks CCing in important sounding "statistics" and "math" to hamster certain behaviors. Mathematical models are exactly that, theoretical models that don't take into real life factors such as a) the woman is "hooking up" with these "suitors" instead of truly rejecting them b) this CCing is stretching into years and years c) and in the meantime, the CCer is getting older and ug…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 10:55 PM
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Even the original article uses euphemisms such as "suitors" and "dating" and "missing out." Given the WAPO is solidly mainstream, one has to read between the lines. Probably a Jezebel writer would be a little more in-your-face.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 09:57 PM
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Remember, women give out sex, men give out commitment. A man with his life in order and looking for marriage actually has lots of options.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 09:10 PM
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If a woman marries a man young , she might meet a single business magnate looking for a woman to "buy"... and she'll be already taken. She basically underbid herself on the SMV market. The 37% theory might be true in a limited time span context, such as the age 19 to 22 phase of a woman's lifespan. A woman marrying at age 17 is probably marrying too young. Unfortunately, today's women continue to CC well into their late 20s and early 30s and beyond. As for a woman meeting a super Chad looking to…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 08:09 PM
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the next asshole that came along No, the operative word is "suitor" according to her article. As if they came into her life like gentlemen with flowers in their hands and only the purest of intentions. The hamster keeps spinning.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 07:56 PM
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Thanks for the cursing, it really bolstered your argument and emphasized your logic. In some ways you're missing the point. The WAPO writer isn't "rejecting" the first suitors that come along in the true sense. She's getting wined and dined by them and having sex with them. "Suitors" means "Chads" who give her the tingles but won't commit to her. And unlike an abstract math problem, as time passes a woman ages. Each sexual encounter with a suitor makes her more jaded and "used up." A woman's dat…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 07:27 PM
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She references a statistical study called "The Sultan's Dowry" where a man (not a woman) has to choose among 100 potential wives that are presented to him one by one. Each of the wives has a potential dowry that varies. The man does not know ahead what the dowries are until he meets the potential wife. After some math, 37% was found to be the optimal number where a man can find a wife with a decent dowry without burning through all his options, or risk choosing too early.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 06:37 PM
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Experience and defeat (especially in the sexual marketplace) makes a woman hardened and jaded, while a man emerges with a stronger frame, with a worldly air.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 04:41 PM
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Sometimes a peek at a user's previous posts reveals their general thought patterns.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 02:28 PM
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On one hand you say AWALT, on the other hand you acknowledge the possibility that certain women may be able to suppress their natural impulses. A common theme of TRP is for a man to always maintain frame. The implication is that the social forces, conditioning, a man's frame, etc that keep in check a women's impulses is at best a stop gap measure and must always be maintained. Notice I use the word "suppress" when I talk about culture, social mores, etc. I didn't say "eliminate" or "negate." Do …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 02:22 AM
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rational thought The dominant emotion in this case is dread. Dread their looks and desirability will fade. It's a fact of life that everyone ages and yes, a woman's hamster might try to rationalize it away but that pesky dread keeps surfacing.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 02:01 AM
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So how reliable is AWALT really? Probably very reliable, but only when it comes to a certain type of woman. Oh trust me, AWALT. AWALT is based partly on the fundamental nature of woman's biology. Alpha tingles for example. . . it is based on the evolutionary pressures of 8 million years of hominid evolution that selected for strong males. Certain AWALT behaviors might not be as apparent in women who don't go clubbing and partying, but it is there. Things such as social mores and upbringing can b…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 01:30 AM
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The dogma of RedPill is don't get married Not necessarily ironclad dogma, but it's just an awareness that modern marriage carries a tremendous amount of risk to a man. Thus, you must balance the risk of your marriage and life imploding vs. the rewards of raising children in a two parent household. Life is full of risks. Going out and driving in your car carries risks. Risks can be mitigated and hedged. Have your ass covered legally (prenups, etc). Learn Marriage Red Pill thinking. Raise your chi…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 12:50 AM
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The Philippines might not be as degraded as the West in terms of CCing and rampant feminism, but unfortunately the nature of women is something that is universal. That said, Larry Hillblom of DHL went that route. I also read of a Japanese billionaire's son that took advantage of surrogate mothers in Thailand to sire over 30 offspring in a very short period of time.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 12:41 AM
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yet simultaneously destroyed my innocent & naive worldview that " Don't worry, loss of innocence and naivety in man just makes him stronger. What's bad for a woman isn't necessarily bad for a man. Loss of innocence in a man makes him worldly and experienced.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 12:36 AM
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1) See "Official Rules", regarding "moralizing" and "Address the community Properly." 2) TRP doesn't say "women are our enemy number one." TRP at its best is just a commentary on the nature of women.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 09:50 PM
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You were in the military? I assume you have had a security clearance? Then study CS, even a 6 month certification program. I assume you have the basic smarts for CS because you're contemplating aerospace engineering. Anyway, a security clearance (or technically, SC eligibility since you're a civilian now) is the FIRST thing IT recruiters look for. It's virtually an automatic hire for many positions. For those with vague thoughts of a "business career" one has to first learn either the technical …
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 03:36 PM
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"No, this is not respectful to my relationship," she says Shit test. A Chad doesn't respect the relationship, even if in the past it was "just" friendship. He has his needs.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 02:42 PM
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I think the correct term is "sex selective abortion." Infanticide is killing the baby AFTER it has left the womb and would be a crime nowadays. It MIGHT happen occasionally in rural India, but even in rural China abortion is safe and widely available. (Not commenting on the morality of abortion, just reporting the facts and making a slight correction to terminology).
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 02:23 PM
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Unfortunately for women, they're "front loaded" in life. The single best asset they possess comes early and then declines rapidly after hitting a peak. The rest of life is just treading water. Hence, some part of their insecurity might stem from the realization that the good times won't last.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 01:51 PM
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1) MGTOW aren't necessarily low SMV 2) Saying high SMV males go monk mode only "short" periods of time in an indirect manner puts the pussy on a pedestal because of course a high SMV male is always chasing poon. Actually, many men DO have other pursuits and chasing poon is just a side diversion 3) "If I wasn't born attractive . . . " Hmmm, I think one of the main themes of TRP is men can work hard and successfully raise their SMV. Women tend to assume they were "born attractive."
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 03:24 AM
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I'm sorry, but your post seems to muddle together two different ideas: MGTOW and protecting (or not protecting) women in Europe. MGTOW isn't just one idea, it encompasses a variety of life paths that don't put a high priority on poon chasing or poon worshiping or getting locked down by poon. Men have different reasons for going MGTOW: a nasty divorce, a singular obsession with his Mission, low testosterone, basic contentment with the bachelor life, a need to take a temporary break or maybe even …
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 02:53 AM
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In human society, this means too many men You might be on to something. South Korea also suffers from a gender imbalance with more males than women in the age 25 to 40 range ever since the introduction of ultra-sound to determine the gender of the fetus in the 1980s.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 09:52 PM
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Your point about the sexual revolution is true. Sexual mores are definitely looser in those cultures than a generation or two ago. But there is still strong societal pressure to present a demure front. Hence, the out-of-wedlock birthrates for both Japan and Korea are almost negligible, on the order of 2% to 3% of births. My observation of Korean society is that hypergamy on overdrive plays a huge role in the increasing numbers of non-married S. Korean women. South Korea transformed from an agrar…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 06:10 PM
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Brazil is serving as a perfect example for this effect - it has the most dysgenic fertility worldwide. I thought the East Asian countries (South Korea, Japan) qualified for this distinction. The below replacement birth rates of these countries are one easily verifiable manifestation. I personally have met many South Korean women who are over 30, highly educated with PHds and professional degrees and rapidly decreasing prospects for marriage and childbearing.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 03:20 PM
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Alpha Widow has a nice ring to it. It carries the implication that a female was so thoroughly debauched and then kicked to the curb so hard early in her dating life by such an Alpha that she will never ever be able to duplicate the highs and lows she got from him, even though subsequent males might on paper be "more Alpha" than him. Remember, females get hardened with experience, so it gets harder and harder to be "The Alpha" that "widows" her as she gets older.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 11:57 PM
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I think the theory is that if a man grows up with a younger sister or sisters, he tends to grow up "red pill" because he sees females for their true bratty nature. Also, he is used to constantly teasing and not taking a female seriously. A man with an older sister tends to be blue pill because he is taught to be subservient to a female. Also she'll condition him to be BP, telling him to "be nice" to girls. If the female sibling is a fraternal twin or not too much older, the upbringing can be a m…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:30 PM
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Ah, the age old "virgen/puta" dichotomy.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:24 PM
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Maybe another lesson is that "friendships" with girls can be beneficial in that you can be a detached observer of their true nature and silently take mental notes without actually getting emotionally involved with them.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 06:09 PM
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Just remember, at age 15 there are girls not even born yet you're going to meet in the future.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:29 PM
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http://articles.latimes.com/2008/dec/19/opinion/oe-stein19 Jews are well represented in Hollywood because when the movie industry was in its infancy 100 years ago, upper class WASPs considered mass entertainment careers a working-class, immigrant pursuit. By this time, many Jews were involved in vaudeville, and Hollywood was a natural segue. But what does it mean to "control Hollywood?" Is there some sort of organized conspiracy? Try to get 3 or more people to cooperate on anything. It's like sa…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 02:08 PM
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I personally prefer the word "gaming," as in "gaming the system." You're straddling the gray area but not doing anything outright illegal or immoral but it is enough to give you the edge.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 01:56 PM
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Legally, Lemon Laws are applicable only to new cars from the factory . Used cars out-of-warranty are basically "caveat emptor." Well, you can see where this is going regarding the women/car analogy . . .
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 01:49 PM
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I think the original saying is "lease depreciating assets, buy appreciating assets."
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:23 PM
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If you keep your grades up, research whatever scholarships are available and apply for them, every semester. Many of them are so obscure or small that often there's only two or three students applying for them. Or, students make the assumption scholarships are something one gets before starting college. Often, these scholarships are paid out like cash, instead of a tuition reduction. A savvy and smart student can get enough scholarship money equivalent to a part-time job.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:21 PM
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Travel sex doesn't count either.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 05:55 PM
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Just to start: The more the mileage, the lower the value. Why pay full price for a used one? There's always a newer, better one coming through the pipeline every year. If it is a rental, drive it hard and fast.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 05:54 PM
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The RP in some ways is a "test bank" that helps a man navigate the sexual marketplace (and life too). Like a good test bank, sometimes the answers are right in front of you, sometimes you have to filter the good from the bad, but essentially it's a tool that helps you when the test of the real world hits you.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 05:48 PM
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Is that even a plausible goal, "lifelong commitment?" My theory is that both men and women aren't wired for "lifelong commitment" with the opposite sex. Remember, almost 95% of human history has been living in small, hunter gatherer bands. If you "pair bonded" with someone for about 5 years, that's a significant chunk of your adult life, assuming a life expectancy of maybe 35 years at most.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 05:41 PM
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Nothing wrong with "research" that cloaks RP truths with an aura of scientific respectability. Well, as long as it's not my tax dollars being spent.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 04:59 PM
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Haha, why does the car analogy seem so fitting for discussions about the SMV of women?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 04:56 PM
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