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Fair enough, I also have a personal bias against generalizations. I'd much rather spend a sentence describing someone, than generalizing. But, that's just personal preference. From now on, I'll include HB, but also a description.
/r/seduction28/03/14 12:30 AM
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Shit, I'm just taking things too seriously. Will watch though, just for you.
/r/seduction28/03/14 12:29 AM
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Thanks, yeah my writing is oddly stylized. Still, I appreciate the read
/r/seduction27/03/14 01:15 AM
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I don't know Dennis: anything you could recommend of his?
/r/seduction27/03/14 01:15 AM
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Exactly
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:03 PM
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I'm a to-the-point sort of guy
/r/seduction25/03/14 08:33 PM
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boom
/r/seduction25/03/14 05:47 PM
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I think porn is an oversexualized business. Either way, how one perceives sex depends on the individual. Making generalizations about men vs. Women is useless.
/r/seduction25/03/14 03:24 PM
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What constitues a poet?
/r/seduction25/03/14 03:22 PM
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Carpeggio, I agree with you. It's a safe assumption that everyone looks for shortcuts. Seduction is no different. However, the things I have learned from PU have helped in infinite ways. I am more attractive to professors, teaching assistants, and my peers. Some of my friends are better and smarter than me, true. However, I'm the one getting hired to work at internships. Seduction has made me more presentable. I've been talking a lot about social capital. I think your analogy can be transposed o…
/r/seduction25/03/14 02:21 PM
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Perfect, and if you ever have any questions, feel free to ask them.
/r/seduction25/03/14 12:51 PM
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What is it? Pretentious, I'd never disagree with. I am pretentious by all means of the word. Creepy, I don't think so. But, humor me.
/r/seduction25/03/14 12:40 PM
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It depends on the girl. If you're opening up a set with a lot of people, speak faster. It makes it easier to get to everyone in the group. You fire off the standard, "get to know you questions." I set a goal to get through those questions in about five minutes. However, picture the scenario. Cute girl, sipping on a coffee alone, and a stranger approaches. If I started talking too quickly, it'd seem panicky. I talked slowly, to keep my composure. And stuff like this is almost completely subconsci…
/r/seduction25/03/14 12:38 PM
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That's exactly what happened, THE_CUNT_KING. She's conventionally a 7.5. She's a few inches shorter than me, I'd guess 5'6". Further, as described, she knew a lot about style and clothes, at least regarding the styles I like. Short hair, and large hazel eyes. Her cheek bones were high and asymmetrical, but they worked well for her jaw line. I found her attractive. At least, I found her attractive enough to approach.
/r/seduction25/03/14 12:34 PM
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Thank you for reading it. Practice definitely makes perfect, especially regarding conversation. I read a lot, and the dialogues help me understand how people talk - movies, TV, and any other medium, helps immensely. Practice talking for a week by yourself. Then, after a week, try approaching at least one cold set a day. Slowly increase that number. After a month, you'll see your anxiety start to dissipate.
/r/seduction25/03/14 12:32 PM
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Thank you for a thorough question, I have ambitions to become a chemist specializing in polymer synthesis. This is a scientific crossroads. In polymer synthesis, you consider how organic components interacting on the micro world affect the macro world. Everything, I believe, can be manipulated and analyzed. It doesn't go without ethical questions. Depending on whom you ask, I outright manipulate my peers by using subtle social hints, and understanding their emotions. I will not disagree with you…
/r/seduction25/03/14 12:27 PM
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I disagree, women crave sex. Culture made women the targets. You see, men chase women, hoping to prove themselves. It has never, and will never be, the other way around. Anyways, the reason's is deeply rooted in sociology and history. And regarding the stereotype of romance, men adore it too. Don't pretend you're not ecstatic when someone you're into gets you a gift, or does something kind. Further, consider any break-up. Generally the women move on faster than men. We wallow in the mistakes, an…
/r/seduction25/03/14 12:11 PM
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When I was young, like most people, I believed I was inherently special. I believed the world would be kind to me, and that I was brilliant, and wouldn't need to do any work. For the most part this was true, until college. Real school work, matched with real social interactions, matched with real responsibilities kicked my ass. My point is, I was under false pretenses for a long time. Learning seduction is valuable. It allows you to better communicate with, not just women, but your friends, cowo…
/r/seduction25/03/14 05:35 AM
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Alluded is analogous to "hinted." And you're right, a smile is a psychological showing. It can depict a lot. And yes, if someone has good hygiene, we can extrapolate they keep their dorm clean. It's simple logic. Now, I won't disagree with you. Over-analyzing is wrong. But, I'm not over-analyzing. I'm simply inferring from my know-how in psychology and anthropology. Correlation does not imply causation. How I had my hand on her back is what's important, not the fact that I did. And people are gr…
/r/seduction25/03/14 05:29 AM
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Yup, such a great read. Vonnegut is a boss.
/r/seduction25/03/14 04:57 AM
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It is all natural. Understanding the game and seduction makes you aware. Knowing what's going on is crucial for success. I'm not a natural, at all. Having the right tools helps a lot.
/r/seduction25/03/14 04:56 AM
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Practice is the only way I got over anxiety. I started doing things I was terrified for, and eventually approaching became easy. This involved eating food I didn't like, or didn't want to try, and doing things that terrify me - roller-coasters, scary movies, etc... You'll get better eventually, just keep going!
/r/seduction25/03/14 03:17 AM
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Amen!
/r/seduction25/03/14 03:15 AM
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Thanks, and no problem. Like all things that can be gamed, manipulated, and analyzed, seduction does not function on a cold set of rules. There are guidelines and tips which, if followed properly and succinctly, lead to great success.
/r/seduction25/03/14 03:06 AM
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Hahaha, I'm reading everything I type in his voice. It's hilarious. Thanks for a laugh.
/r/seduction25/03/14 03:05 AM
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Batman or Bruce Wayne?
/r/seduction25/03/14 03:01 AM
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Welcome to this thread. In what ways was it an eye opener? Maybe I can offer clarification, or further share the experience. I'm pretty free tonight, listening to music and redditing.
/r/seduction25/03/14 03:00 AM
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You should have seen it mate. Our lips locked, while I held my phone behind her head with the timer going. When the fifteen seconds passed, I slid my phone down, and backed away. In all seriousness though, I just wrote a quarter minute because it felt longer than a few seconds, but shorter than half a second. It was, per definition, a quick make out.
/r/seduction25/03/14 03:00 AM
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I got this one. We have psychological responses to our surroundings. When you're scared, your body puckers up, you cross your arm to defend yourself, and prepare yourself for what's going to happen. When you're happy, you'll smile more, be more open, and be more receptive to your surroundings. When you're flirting, and are attracted to someone, your body shows this. Her posture will turn towards you. She'll glance at you with big doe eyes, her pupils dilated like an acid trip. Her cheeks will se…
/r/seduction25/03/14 02:58 AM
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I'm sure there are more than a couple of us. I'm pretty busy, but one day we should meet up!
/r/seduction25/03/14 02:51 AM
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Thanks, and I do too. I'm seeing her this Friday, so I'll say how it works out.
/r/seduction25/03/14 02:50 AM
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Thanks! I'm a big fan of writing, compliments like this make me happy.
/r/seduction25/03/14 02:34 AM
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Cold day approaches are a lot of fun. You'll be met with surprise and hostility. It's a lot like learning to drive, or at least it was for me. My first time behind the wheel, I was terrified. I have attention issues. Anyways, it was a cloudy day, as all summer evenings are in South Florida. My dad is in the passenger seat, explaining to me how to change gears - it was a manual - and the rest of the car. I did my best to do as told. On the drive home, we went through a residential district. Anywa…
/r/seduction25/03/14 02:34 AM
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Nope, no frat. I'm generally more introverted. Groups of less than six appeal to me. And I'm at UCF in Orlando. Why?
/r/seduction24/03/14 11:08 PM
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I'm going clubbing this Thursday, hanging with Maddy on Friday, and rave on Saturday. Sometime next week I'll post how those go, assuming there's something worth writing.
/r/seduction24/03/14 10:06 PM
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Over time, and after immersing yourself into the game, you realize that women want sex just as much as men. Coming to terms with that makes the aforementioned realization easy. And thanks, I'm pretty active socially. I've just realized decided to start posting. So far I've received incentive to continue posting. It's a good exercise writing out my experiences. And smoking is purely social. It takes me about a month to go through a pack, maybe I smoke a cig every two days. Usually I give them awa…
/r/seduction24/03/14 09:31 PM
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Thanks, daytime approaches are a lot of fun. If nothing, you make another friend. So.
/r/seduction24/03/14 09:22 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction24/03/14 01:18 PM
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Like anything, you need to practice. There was a time where I couldn't speak to anyone, neither men nor women. I eventually got over this hump, and I said the most outlandish things hoping to attract attention. This too failed, resulting in slaps and at one point having heels thrown at me. However, I persevered through it all knowing I'd eventually be comfortable. Communication is something everyone can learn. It just takes time and practice. Like seriously practice acting surprised, ecstatic, c…
/r/seduction22/03/14 01:22 PM
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Anna was my target. However, I wouldn't be upset if I didn't have her. There is no reason to deal in absolutes. Being outcome independent leads to good investment policies. When applying for work, you sent out your resume to as many places as possible. However, there are some jobs that you'd be more content with than others. This is the same thing.
/r/seduction21/03/14 09:27 PM
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Thank you for pointing them out, and I agree with you. People adore believing they came up with their own idea. In both of those lines, what I did was create an idea. I made her realize that for the night, I could guide the festivities. This had already been shown by my actions - the dancing, the flirting with Tai, etc.... Excellent point, and definitely things people should keep in mind.
/r/seduction21/03/14 08:30 PM
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These names are pseudonyms. Rest assured, these are not the same people.
/r/seduction21/03/14 07:51 PM
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We were on our way out when he opened the fridge. I simply asked him to get me one, while he was on it. John has a tendency of being arrogant, and selfish. It's why I included it. In fact, depending on the situation, getting a beer for a friend might be alpha. If a friend finishes his drink, and you know he wants another want, you bring it for him. It makes you look good for being a good friend. So, no, getting someone a beer is not bad/beta. It depends on the situation. Also, thanks for the com…
/r/seduction21/03/14 01:20 AM
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Girls don't like douches. Girls like guys with something to give. Douches are good at pretending to be valuable, but that's it. If you can crawl under their skin with politeness, and destroy any false sense of pride they have, you can deal with douches. Also, thank you!
/r/seduction21/03/14 12:13 AM
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A lot of failures, some people are better than others. I was just dangerously bad at social etiquette. What I mean is, I'd constantly say things I shouldn't say, I've had heels thrown at me, slaps launched, the whole deal. So for me, it's taken a few years. Sorry I can't ensure that it's a quick lesson.
/r/seduction21/03/14 12:11 AM
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Definitely, I have a large number of complete failures and embarrassments in the field. With time, I've fine tuned my timing. Thanks for the compliment :)
/r/seduction20/03/14 10:54 PM
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Wouldn't have it any other way. Honestly, artistic girls like her are the best in bed. ; P
/r/seduction14/03/14 02:38 PM
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Go for it! Hanging out at the beach at night is awesome. You always find cool people, too.
/r/seduction14/03/14 11:16 AM
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Thanks :) I'll definitely be posting more, if the stories are good. Now that I've gotten a bit decent, I want to start sharing! The support helps
/r/seduction14/03/14 11:16 AM
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Women speak with their eyes When their eyes are wide opened, slightly twinkling, then you're set. It's my favorite IOI. If you get these eyes, all you have to do is ask for a kiss - or however you do that. Anyways, describing the "bambi eyes" is a bit hard, The eyes dilate, she talks more slowly. It's hard to describe. Um... when I'm not on my phone I'll look for examples. maybe someone can do a better job.
/r/seduction14/03/14 02:24 AM
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I'll comment about what I do to escalate. Naturally, touching is the most obvious. I realized a few months ago that how and what I touch doesn't matter, as long as it's acceptable - hips, shoulders, waist, etc. As we walked, I held her by the waist. As we talked, my hand would be on her arm. I played with her thighs. Nothing extremely sexual. The best way to escalate, I've found, is eye contact. The "bambi eyes" or "anime eyes" that everyone talks about is the sure fire way for success. When I s…
/r/seduction14/03/14 01:32 AM
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Yup, that book helped me more than "The Game"
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:03 PM
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stellar.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:49 PM
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Thanks, I appreciate that. Also, great name! :)
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:48 PM
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Thank you, I've been in the game for a while. I think it's time I stop lurking. Tomorrow I'm going to a party, maybe I'll get lucky. If I do, and it's an interesting story, I'll post it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:48 PM
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