| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?My ex did this shit. Every time I made a point in an argument that he didn’t agree with, he would do a cruel imitation of my voice in a mock high pitch and repeat back what I said in that voice. It was humiliating and just took the confidence out of me everytime he did that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 08:58 AM |
| 24 | Always keep your coins snatchedMy dad is my financial guru, and he is the one who taught me and my sister to have a portion of investments and savings and keep it secret from our future husbands. He always says, having her own money empowers a woman to live a life on her own terms - and truer words were never spoken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Dating an LVM is Labor: Quit from the Thankless Job ASAPThank you for this post! I agree, the real cost of being with an LVM is the loss of time, losing your prime years with a worthless pos is nothing but a thankless endeavor. I was with my ex since I was 22 and I am 26 now. 4 years of my youth wasted, and for what? Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 06:55 AM |
| 184 | What do you ladies think?If your business model depends on another human being exploited, it’s not a good business model. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 02:14 PM |
| 15 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menI mean, marriage is honestly the best deal for men as compared to women. Despite that, LVM will make their wives slog at home, leech off of them for their money, abuse them, ill-treat them, cheat on them, and finally abandon them when they are dying. On top of that, they also have the audacity to shame women for literally everything they do - for their body type, their hobbies/interests, the way they dress, the way they talk... everything. They want to take advantage of women throughout their li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 12:12 AM |
| 270 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menIt’s so funny when men’s retort to women having high standards is - you gonna die alone, no man is going to want you, blah blah. Um sir, SCIENCE has proven that men live longer and women live shorter lives after getting married. Not just that, unmarried/single men have a higher chance of suffering from depression, heart disease, and other obesity-related conditions. WE don’t want you. I will happily die single - but definitely not alone. I will die fulfilled surrounded by my 3 cats and 2 dogs an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:34 PM |
| 138 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).Pretty sure he must have consumed 70% of the food (they have gluttonous appetites as is, and he must have had the entitlement of ordering the more expensive dishes too since he was “paying”), but is demanding 50% from her. If nothing, men certainly have the audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:43 PM |
| 13 | I don't have a good title this is just hilariousHow is this even normalized among men??!! As an Indian I grew up using water and so did my partner. How do people walk around with poop flakes in their butt all day? 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 01:09 PM |
| 34 | Feminist brings receipts on disparate prison sentencing between men and women, especially for domestic crimes. MRAs in Shambles.Infuriating. I remember reading the book “Provoked” (real story, also made into a movie) when I was younger and being horrified by the fact that Kiranjit Ahluwalia killed her abusive cheating husband after 10 years of physical, sexual, mental, and emotional abuse. She had no intention of killing btw, she set fire to his feet so that he would know how the pain felt and also so that he couldn’t run after her to beat her. For that, she was sentenced to life in prison because he died of 40% burns. F… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:36 PM |
| 2 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼Omg! First of all - what a splendid reply! Can’t believe you had to clarify that you didn’t actually date 100 men and that was satire 🤦🏽♀️ Men love to call themselves sarcastic and pride themselves on their “dry humor” but half of them wouldn’t know sarcasm if it hit them in their faces Edit: Just wanted to also add that I am a fan!! Love your energy Economics_Egirl, and may you continue to slay such scrotes with your words, sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:47 PM |
| 4 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼What’s worse is they claim to serve as an inspiration to young men who blindly do follow these strategies. It’s no secret that married men lead longer, healthier lives, and for married women it’s the opposite. Science has literally proven it. Yet these self proclaimed life coaches continue to propogate the “women bad, work on yourself kings” myth. Good for us, the LVM take themselves out of the dating scene on their own. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:10 PM |
| 24 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼Amen sister. These are usually the kind of men who pull the ‘im not ready for a relationship’ shit and waste 3 months of a woman’s life just because they want some sort of ego boost | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:39 AM |
| 50 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼If he thinks women are a distraction, he shouldnt be dating and wasting those women’s time 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:35 AM |
| 11 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessThe new wife is a single mom who had also lost her husband to cancer a few years ago and wanted her son to have a father figure in his life. He met her on a dating site for widows/widowers. She is nice to the girls but prioritizes her son over them in everything (which was kind of expected tbh) and he now complains that she constantly fights with him and verbally abuses him. The girls still live with their dad but do harbor resentment towards him for his decision to prioritize his companionship … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:20 AM |
| 149 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessMy heart goes out to the kids. 🥺 I hate it when there are girl children involved and the men use “well the girls need a mother to take care of them especially as they mature” as an excuse to remarry. STFU, you don’t need to marry a woman to buy tampons for your daughters and teach them about puberty, I have seen many single HV dads who do their girls’ hair, buy them tampons if they have to, teach them about puberty, all of that and more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 07:25 PM |
| 39 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.This is a good time as any other to share the story of our domestic help. She was married at 16 to an abusive alcoholic POS who beat her up everyday. As if that wasn’t enough, he even beat her kids. My mom and I helped connect her with a female divorce lawyer and one of my proudest moments was paying her legal fees with my own salary (I had just started earning then). She dumped his ass, moved away to a different part of town, supported herself with the money she earned working in homes, enrolle… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 04:55 PM |
| 7 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.For me the biggest lesson here is “choose your partner wisely” because if things turn to shit, you best believe that the institutions and society will support and protect the man, no matter how LV he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 04:38 PM |
| 25 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.Uhhhh no the kids deserve their parents’ love, attention, and time. The kids taking care of these kids deserve to be in school, studying, playing with their own friends, enjoying their childhood instead of taking care of someone else’s kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 04:25 PM |
| 13 | Men want to trick you into doing it ALL but won't even pay for your dinner or celebrate your birthday anymore. Dont fall for it.A couple of my male friends claim they look forward to their paternity leave so that they can put the baby to sleep and play video games all day. When I pointed out that they would also have to take care of the house, cook, clean, and do chores, their response - “gotta leave something for my wife to do then”. Such men don’t even deserve to have a child, let alone paternity leave. For anyone wondering, yes they are single 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 04:15 PM |
| 427 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessBarely a month after my beautiful aunt died from brain cancer, my LVM uncle brought up the topic of remarriage. In the months leading up to her diagnosis, she would feel tired constantly, was unable to do household chores, threw up everyday, suffered heavy uterine bleeding that even her clothes would get soaked with blood. Despite such serious symptoms, all he did was hire a maid to take care of the household chores and take her to a GP who recommended paracetamol for her headaches. After my mom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 03:48 PM |
| 4 | This sounds like my last relationship!“Babe it hurts my feelings when you tell me about all the horrible shit I did to you” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Mom has the best FDS strategy for financesAgreed! I will be able to afford an apartment on my own and even live on my own in EC but currently I don’t want to, because my first priority is paying off my debt and to that effect, I would prefer living in the lower col city. However, it is very likely that I might live there after I get married because it has lots of opportunities in technology (my boyfriend’s and my field). My mom’s advice was that don’t stress about paying for rent and stuff if your husband wants you to move there and don… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:25 PM |
| 8 | Mom has the best FDS strategy for financesYes, I should have clarified. I am in a long-term relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:31 PM |
| 4 | How do you deal with feeling unattractive?First of all, it is not your fault. You are perfect just the way you are, and your SO needs to appreciate you for your uniqueness. It’s weird that he follows cam girls and insta models and calls them his top girls. I always think feeling attractive comes from within, but there are some things we can do to get there faster. Whenever I work out or do some activity, I feel good about myself (the endorphins do their job well!!). Face masks and a good skin care routine (cleansing, moisturizing, tonin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/20 02:35 AM |
| 46 | At first I hoped this is not real :/Bear in mind - this guy is at HOME all day yet cannot be bothered to get his lazy ass off the couch and make himself a meal. I bet she works harder than him, takes care of herself, works out and prepares her meals diligently while this guy just leeches off of her. Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:53 AM |
| 50 | What does a HVM in his early twenties look like?I dated a couple of disgusting LVM when I was in my teens/early twenties. I met my now boyfriend when I was 22 and we have been together for over 2 years now. Here are some key differences that I think sets LVM and HVM apart: Makes an effort to listen, care and emotionally support you Puts in effort to be with you, and show you how much he loves you Introduces you to his family and friends, and integrates you effortlessly into his life Even if he doesn't believe in or like doing certain things, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Wives/serious daters of FDS-What do you think of your SO attending bachelor parties?This reminds me of my boyfriend and his group of friends. They recently had a bachelor party getaway and went to Smoky Mountains Tenessee where they drank, ate and talked. The best part is, I had no reason to doubt or be insecure. A wholesome group of boys. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 02:24 AM |
| 22 | Seeing stuff like this a lot more on Twitter. Women are waking up. 👀While I know partner abandonment rates are higher for women i.e women are more likely to be abandoned by men in case of illnesses, I didn’t know how much. Is there a source for the “six times as likely” bit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 02:49 PM |
| 9 | Would he rather be with her?Your comment is everything I feel and cannot put into words. Thank you! I get incredibly mad everytime someone talks about my boyfriend’s ex. After some self-reflection, I realized that it wasnt the right approach. He is with me because he loves me and wants to be with me. Also, by bothering about her I am just devoting my mindspace to her which IMO she is not worth. 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/19 12:09 AM |
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