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I think these days its hard not to have two income coming in unless one partner is bringing in a substantial amount. I understand why she might be frustrated but I personally feel she should try to be understanding.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/15 04:37 PM
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Yeah don't get a hitachi unless you want her to never be sensitive to your touch again haha. If she likes being spanked during sex consider a soft imitation leather whip or paddle.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 06:43 AM
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Personally I don't like vibrators because I don't want to get accustomed to that because I'm concerned I won't enjoy sex as much. If anything I think a remote controlled vibe would be great however because it would put you in charge not her. For clamps it depends if you want one that is adjustable or not.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 06:08 AM
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a collar and nipple clamps with bells on them
/r/askTRP26/07/15 06:00 AM
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Well it sounds like your gf isn't very thoughtful. My SO is down on his luck this summer and I've been only taking him out it only bothered me when he didn't do anything for my birthday, but I don't mind taking him out because he took me out in the past. I think it probably depends on the people I could see how not everyone would be comfortable with the woman main provider situation.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/15 04:53 AM
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Yeah the flow varies so much between people so you never really can be too sure but like roteBart2015 said if you are ok with it then she will be receptive to that.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 03:02 AM
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To add about the period sex, sex feels better on a period so unless she is embarrassed about having period sex there is no reason why she would avoid it.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 08:19 PM
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That sounds like a really great relationship situation under the circumstances, I like the driving-you-to-work idea for a little bonding time. I will be graduating into a pretty intense STEM field this spring so its good to hear from you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 04:26 PM
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but wasn't this post about you being paranoid and feeling like youre on a truman like show?
/r/askTRP24/07/15 11:24 PM
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Huh? This is a hypothetical question based on something I may encounter later on. I never implied not treating someone with respect and gratitude, obviously if I am concerned about making a SO feel like they have a more dominant role in a relationship I would have to respect them otherwise my concern would make no sense.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 11:16 PM
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see a psychologist
/r/askTRP24/07/15 11:11 PM
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I think the grey area for a man who stays at home is, who does the house work and takes care of the kids? And would that cause any disturbances in the dynamic? I read a story about a woman who's husband lost his job and stopped looking for jobs but still expected her to work full time and do most of the housework. Obviously this caused a strain on their marriage. I can imagine a man being upset if his wife didn't work and also didn't keep up with the house, but can this go both ways?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 09:45 PM
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I guess I was more concerned about a SO feeling this way on their own without any nose rubbing but I guess if a SO developed these feelings I could help him build up his confidence to where it previously had been.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 08:28 PM
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Thats a very good point I wouldn't want my SO to feel any less of himself because of a difference in paychecks. I think I was also thinking about more extreme cases like stay at home husbands. For example if an SO lost his job and the woman was the only one working. I would imagine the roles being confused.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 08:21 PM
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Being introduced to weightlifting was probably the best gift my SO gave me it changed my attitude and my body and we both reap the rewards from that.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 06:03 PM
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I actually think I have gotten good advice.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 08:41 PM
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If you can't pull the type of girl you want then you should improve yourself. I knew many attractive indian guys at my high school with all different types of girlfriends. I don't want to place myself specifically but I do live in Illinois. Also who cares if she is nerdy or not blonde if she is hot and not crazy?
/r/askTRP23/07/15 08:32 PM
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I appreciate your advice! I think I need to be more airtight in communicating what things are important to me and what things are not.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:48 PM
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I did he went out to dinner with my parents which was definitely noted and appreciated but I was hopeful for something a little more thats why I wasn't sure if feeling disappointed was acceptable.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:23 PM
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Thanks that was my point, a token or even a gesture would have been well appreciated. I just have been trying to be an equal partner and being reasonable with my emotions, I'm still working on it but I just needed to make sure I wasn't being ridiculous.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:16 PM
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You just graduated with a graduate degree in engineering and working to improve your physique. You have better things to do that waste so much time and effort just to get this girl to sleep with you regularly. I'm sure you could land someone just as good with less drama.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:58 PM
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Well unless you agreed to be exclusive you can't really say anything. You could address the exclusivity and be upfront and if she says she wants to be exclusive or tries to get in a relationship with you ask her why she feels the need to hang out with guys who flirt with her.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:32 AM
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No one ever worries about their fuck buddies hanging out with someone else man. If she is a fuck buddy she can do whatever she wants but you claim you are seeing her exclusively, also if you haven't specifically verbalized with her that you are exclusive she could be fucking the whole neighborhood. You could ask her to tell him she is sexually exclusive (if this is true), clearly if she hesitates at doing this she has other intentions with this guy.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:06 AM
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I'm guessing you are older if marriage is a common topic. If she says she wants to get married and have children that is a sticking point so if you don't want to don't waste your time because women don't easily waver on the topic of marriage and kids.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:01 AM
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That isn't specific to women. Its common that a child will desire a toy another child has whether or not they know it will be fun to use. This mentality can follow someone through life if they aren't smart. If you see a person who has a lot of friends or is being pursued by a lot of people you will think you also want to pursue or be friends with them whether or not they are a worthwhile person. Why not sleep around you say it like it's a bad thing? Sleep with whoever you want then when you grow…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 03:58 AM
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Try befriending your coworkers or your neighbors because they are generally the easiest to approach first. I actually just made a friend at the gym today by discussing deadlifting.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 03:49 AM
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Well then it's her fault for not realize what she was actually studying and what she actually wanted to do. How could you get bored by learning new things?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 08:04 PM
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Yeah I understand that but how is this a circle jerk of a post?
/r/askTRP24/02/15 07:56 PM
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No. Double dutch rudder? Isn't that only applicable between two guys?
/r/askTRP24/02/15 07:50 PM
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To a certain extent.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 03:26 PM
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Oh sorry I read that too quickly.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 03:09 PM
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Keep dreaming haha.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 02:48 PM
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Yeah but how many people do you actually "make bleed" in a sense. A small crop a little choking and hair pulling isn't bdsm thats the vanilla version of kinky. Most of the time limits are in place to prevent injury physically or mentally, you can't expect to go far without rules to preventing something really bad from happening. If all you want in your life is a little choking and a few innocent bruises then bdsm isn't for you. I understand that its hard to run into these people organically.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 02:45 PM
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I'd be lying if I said one day I wouldn't hope to raise a family. Most women want to get married but you can do something "worthwhile" and have kids after or do something "worthwhile" after you have kids. Having kids is at least a 18 year commitment but 18 years isn't a lifetime. It's nice to have more than one goal in life. Looking girlish has created some obstacles for me haha.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:57 AM
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Haha what you are referring to sounds like 50 shades bs.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 05:48 AM
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I guess I'm one of the few, I am aware of people in our age group are usually either "domly doms" or girls who consider light spanking bdsm.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 05:31 AM
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I'm just saying that some women are more interested in taking advantage of the marriage card than others.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:22 AM
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I don't live in a town large enough for there to be a real scene here.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:58 AM
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I see the discrepancy in how we viewed these posts. I read "those female 'engineers'" to refer to all female engineers not the ones that I mentioned. I don't agree that all female engineers will do nothing worthwhile. I personally believe that not everyone would be happier married and that includes some women. I think a good number of women look at marriage as a way to have someone else support them instead of a partnership both emotionally, sexually and economically.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 04:44 AM
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I suppose different people have different bdsm relationships, thats not really the bdsm relationship I have with my SO. I understand the "topping from the bottom" idea though, I guess red pillers would be more interested in slaves than subs haha.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:28 AM
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I wouldn't say they are exactly the same. My point was suggesting that a large amount of women with easy majors are looking for a Mrs. degree but it is far less likely that women trying to earn an engineering degree are looking for a Mrs. degree also because why try hard in college if you just want to end up as a trophy wife who does nothing. However, even a few of the feminism preaching engineering majors desire to be supported to.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 03:56 AM
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I think one of the reasons women enjoy the spectacle more than men might is because women generally have a vice called drama.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 12:51 AM
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I think its just polite to split the bill even on first dates or at least pay the tip, however I've seen articles about this before telling girls that men should always pay on the first date or two just preparing girls to expect men to pay their way all the time.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 11:54 PM
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While I don't agree to everything you just said. I do agree that there are a lot of women who really ride the spectacle until soon after the graduate then get married and never use their education which makes getting a degree a pointless waste of money for their family or the state whatever paid for it. My original comment was more about the hypocrisy women present.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 11:45 PM
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As a woman studying engineering the most disgusting thing is when other female engineers preach feminism but then behind closed doors express how they just want to be a house wife and not work. They want the best of both worlds.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 10:27 PM
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