bonegrrl Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-5	My observation of Anti-male bias in the Kanye West / Kim Kardashian stories in the media This	/r/MensRights	18/02/22 06:40 PM
-7	My observation of Anti-male bias in the Kanye West / Kim Kardashian stories in the media I didn’t read all of this because clearly you do not know a thing about Kim Kardashian, other than what you have seen in the media.	/r/MensRights	18/02/22 03:43 PM
1	Have you ever received flowers as a gift? As a (non binary) female, I have given flowers to my dad once, (I don’t think he cared for them because he had/has a clear, cut and dry mentality of men and women roles), and not long ago to my partner. Actually, I once bought my partner a bouquet and then, on a separate occasion, a single rose, (cause he mentioned he liked roses). He was grateful for them, which really made me happy.	/r/MensRights	15/02/22 10:42 AM
1	Just falsely accused of rape, in need of advice. I’m aware from having reported. Nothing I can do but deal with the trauma. But if there were a hint of anything, or if there is anything said other than “I did not do that”, that’s proof. That’s how I know.	/r/MensRights	02/02/22 05:04 PM
1	Just falsely accused of rape, in need of advice. You’re welcome.	/r/MensRights	02/02/22 11:37 AM
15	Just falsely accused of rape, in need of advice. First get a lawyer. Second, make sure you know the laws about rape as a minor to another minor where you live, not because I believe you raped anyone, but because you should know that. No legal action will likely be taken against you considering you were a minor and too much time probably passed. (I do believe there should be no statute of limitations, but in your case, it might work in your favor, considering it is a false accusation.) Third, be there first to tell people in your life. Fuck him…	/r/MensRights	02/02/22 10:46 AM
3	Billie Eilish is all about body positivity. Except for men. Fuck, I thought she was a little better than that. But she is young. I hope she goes through life learning and growing and changing her views to not think this is way.	/r/MensRights	31/01/22 12:02 PM
6	Is there anything a man can do to protect himself against a false accusation? This is actually a really sad subject because there are a lot of females out there who are actually pretty dope and won’t falsely accuse their partner for “harm done”, just like there are a lot of men out there who won’t actually harm a female. But we have come to this crossroad of needing to protect ourselves legally, so is any relationship even real at that point. I’d never accuse my partner of anything and he would never do anything to harm me. It’s about basic trust. If you feel, in your gut…	/r/MensRights	30/01/22 12:56 PM
12	Is there anything a man can do to protect himself against a false accusation? Never be alone with women, but trust your female friends, who you shouldn’t be alone with because they’re women, to back you? (I’m not saying don’t have women backing you, just seems silly that rule 0 is don’t be alone with them…any of them, it seems like, but ask them for help when you need their voice.)	/r/MensRights	30/01/22 12:47 PM
1	[deleted by user] Mmm…I see what you did there. Thank you. This actually puts huge perspective on my way of thinking. Should have been obvious, but sometimes I can be a bit oblivious. Humanism for the win.	/r/MensRights	27/01/22 12:33 PM
1	[deleted by user] There are still some huge feminist issues to deal with, but feminism, as a whole, is toxic. Humanism is a much more equal ism.	/r/MensRights	27/01/22 11:17 AM
0	Saying that men can't be the victims of violence in relationships because they are physically stronger, is like saying that police can't be bullied in the workplace because they carry guns Obviously my wording and point are unclear. It would be hard to gauge the exact mathematical degree of force being used to defend oneself, so let me say this, there is no need to use extremely greater force for an excessive amount of time towards someone who is of smaller build. The idea is to defend and get away. Don’t break a jaw bone with one swing. Unless she’s trying to kill you, then break a jaw bone. As for recordings; yeah, nine times out of ten, if a man was caught hitting a woman who h…	/r/MensRights	27/01/22 10:51 AM
-1	Saying that men can't be the victims of violence in relationships because they are physically stronger, is like saying that police can't be bullied in the workplace because they carry guns No, if you bitch slapped John Cena and he kicked your ass to oblivion, he’s in the wrong. Also, YoU tYpInG tHiS wAy dOeSn’T mAkE yOuR pOiNt VaLiD. My argument goes for EVERYONE. If you are stronger than someone and have the means to sucker punch them into being a vegetable, it doesn’t mean you should. Equal force for force given. I will say this, I am not encouraging anybody to harm anyone, I’m just simply saying, IF the situation were to arise that a female were to hit a male, with whatever for…	/r/MensRights	27/01/22 01:09 AM
0	Saying that men can't be the victims of violence in relationships because they are physically stronger, is like saying that police can't be bullied in the workplace because they carry guns Wholeheartedly disagree. Force absolutely matters, as most men are stronger than the women they’re with, (and most women in general), therefore could do way more damage.	/r/MensRights	26/01/22 09:12 PM
16	Saying that men can't be the victims of violence in relationships because they are physically stronger, is like saying that police can't be bullied in the workplace because they carry guns My dad had always said to me, “If a body building man goes up against a body building woman, the man will win because he is stronger, but if a body building woman goes up against an average man, she’ll win, because she’s a body builder and he is not, therefore she is stronger.” It’s all relative. Typically, yes, men are stronger, but that does not give women the right to physically abuse them. Like Whoopi Goldberg got flack for, which I absolutely agree with, if a woman hits a man, he is allowed…	/r/MensRights	26/01/22 04:44 PM
16	Johnny Depp lands first major role after being 'cancelled': Embattled actor to play King Louis XV I think it’s ridiculous that females can just say whatever they want and get away with it. There either ends up being no investigation, which is bullshit, or if there is an investigation and it turns out the female is the abuser, then nothing happens. The same thing happened with Cardi B. She drugged men and stole their money. If a guy slipped a pill in a girl’s drink, there would be hell to pay, even if all he did was take her money. Unfortunately, every case needs an investigation. I say “unfo…	/r/MensRights	26/01/22 11:01 AM
12	Johnny Depp lands first major role after being 'cancelled': Embattled actor to play King Louis XV Didn’t they find overwhelming evidence that she was, in fact, the abuser?	/r/MensRights	26/01/22 10:35 AM
3	And update to my old post How to hand Misandry? Well fuck, first of all, you are awesome and exactly the kind of person I help fight for. You are doing the right thing in having a discussion with X and Y, but it sounds like they are set in stone with their ideas and that’s really unfortunate. You’re stuck between a rock and a hard place, because on the one hand, if you say, “I’m a man and all I have done is helped you and will continue to do so, but wtf?” you’d be seen as offering help with a motive to be able to say you are a good person and…	/r/MensRights	25/01/22 07:34 PM
4	Getting dads tools for their birthday is like getting a mom a clothing iron for her birthday I hadn’t thought of this, but to be fair, I think it’s situational. My dad loved to do some form of building, he still does, so tools was always a good, safe bet. When you are ten and all you see your dad do is build a shed, build a patio, put up a fence, replace the cabinets, make 3 new rooms downstairs, redo the entire bathroom, etc, it’s hard to think he wanted anything but.	/r/MensRights	25/01/22 04:20 PM
5	Getting dads tools for their birthday is like getting a mom a clothing iron for her birthday Perhaps a good amount of fathers, but not every father on the planet. Some dudes just love tools.	/r/MensRights	25/01/22 04:13 PM
14	'I woke up to her hand in my pants': TikTok star Jack Wright, 18, accuses influencer Sienna Mae, 18, of sexually assaulting him FOUR times She shouldn’t get away with this, and I hope she receives the punishment she deserves.	/r/MensRights	24/01/22 12:15 AM
12	I think I got sexually assaulted. I don’t know how to feel. I see a lot of people saying that you chose to get drunk, that you chose to have sex, that you said everything was fine when in your head it wasn’t, I’m surprised people didn’t ask you what you were wearing, honestly. This is the same shit that’s said to women, which is why reports don’t take place. Although, not every assault would do well with legal action; every assault is a valid one. I once told a guy to stop when he was trying to perform anal and he said, “it’s almost in,” and so I just le…	/r/MensRights	23/01/22 10:42 AM
-5	how come women are allowed to force child support on a man who used to proper protection? or even rape Wait, are you asking why women force child support on someone who raped them or if they raped the guy? Just clarifying…	/r/MensRights	22/01/22 07:13 PM
3	Red flags in men You couldn’t if you tried. They’d kill you with those machetes on their toe beans.	/r/MensRights	21/01/22 05:44 PM
2	Red flags in men Yes. Allergy medicine. 🙃	/r/MensRights	21/01/22 05:08 PM
2	Red flags in men Nothing. Nothing at all. I was in a fb feminist group and said “females” in my comment rant and was assumed to be a man… I corrected the person real quick.	/r/MensRights	21/01/22 05:07 PM
4	Red flags in men Who the fuck wrote this? A female with zero life experience? I say female as a “female” because I’m non binary and hate the word “woman”. And having a lot of female friends isn’t a red flag. That shit needs to stop. Men and women are allowed to have female/male friends. And a lot of people don’t believe in marriage. And…and…and…I could break this down all day. Even the valid ones where it’s like, “tell you to shut up/chill/calm down,” women do that too. Like…ugh. So dumb. Just be and a healthy r…	/r/MensRights	21/01/22 05:05 PM
-1	UK: Fury as AA says it does NOT 'prioritise' a lone woman over a man at roadside: Customers 'CANCEL memberships' as breakdown firm confirms it does not give priority 'based on gender' Uhhhh, yeah. The “feminists” that don’t have equal rights in mind for both women AND men, aren’t feminists at all. Feminism, of course, is a woman’s movement, but it’s a movement of being equal. If you are a feminist who is not also supporting men’s rights, well then, you’re kind of just an asshole.	/r/MensRights	21/01/22 04:01 AM
2	UK: Fury as AA says it does NOT 'prioritise' a lone woman over a man at roadside: Customers 'CANCEL memberships' as breakdown firm confirms it does not give priority 'based on gender' Likewise.	/r/MensRights	20/01/22 07:51 PM
5	UK: Fury as AA says it does NOT 'prioritise' a lone woman over a man at roadside: Customers 'CANCEL memberships' as breakdown firm confirms it does not give priority 'based on gender' Honestly, I actually first heard of it many years ago. There’s a whole movement around the word. But yeah, the us ve them is pretty frustrating. I’m here to just get along with everyone, as it seems you are too. :)	/r/MensRights	20/01/22 07:11 PM
5	UK: Fury as AA says it does NOT 'prioritise' a lone woman over a man at roadside: Customers 'CANCEL memberships' as breakdown firm confirms it does not give priority 'based on gender' Ahhh, humanist! That’s the word! I knew there was another word that seemed less toxic in vocabulary than feminist. Although, I do consider myself to be a (equality for all) feminist, humanist is probably way more accurate.	/r/MensRights	20/01/22 06:01 PM
-11	UK: Fury as AA says it does NOT 'prioritise' a lone woman over a man at roadside: Customers 'CANCEL memberships' as breakdown firm confirms it does not give priority 'based on gender' You say “they” like it’s all females. You sound like the feminazi’s saying all men are rapists. There are females fighting for men’s rights. Those are the true (female) feminists.	/r/MensRights	20/01/22 05:34 PM
1	How has feminism helped men? Honestly. It makes me want to tread lightly on even saying the word “female” and anything having to do with them or a movement involving them. Like my partner said to me this morning, there are men who are to women, what angry feminists are to men. I don’t blame them, but both parties with that train of thought are wrong. This only fuels the fire, keeping it burning until we realize we can actually just have conversations in understanding one another and coming to a balance. We can all be femini…	/r/MensRights	20/01/22 11:54 AM
1	How has feminism helped men? I actually didn’t realize I was until you pointed it out. Thank you for understanding what I’m saying here. I also can’t believe I’m being downvoted. All I wrote in here was how I support men. Like, that’s literally the whole post. I don’t understand…but again, thank you for getting it.	/r/MensRights	20/01/22 08:46 AM
0	How has feminism helped men? Agreed. A lot of men are feminists. Thanks for pointing this out as a correction.	/r/MensRights	19/01/22 10:55 PM
1	How has feminism helped men? True, true story.	/r/MensRights	19/01/22 10:54 PM
2	Reported this tweet i came across the other day. Twitter refused to take it down. hmm i wonder what would happen if the roles were reversed… Wtf?!	/r/MensRights	19/01/22 06:49 PM
2	How has feminism helped men? If necessary, of course I am completely on board but it’s circumstantial. There are certain factors one would have to take into account, right? The biggest factor being jealousy. If every time a female gets pregnant and the man decides it’s because she has been sleeping around and therefore demands a pregnancy test, well then no. There should be rules to it, but how the system would determine that is a bit muddy. But if there is obviously clear evidence that a child would not be someone’s becaus…	/r/MensRights	19/01/22 06:48 PM
-3	How has feminism helped men? You aren’t wrong in saying that these things are not being addressed in a more timely manner, however, to assume that all feminists, or the act of feminism isn’t pushing for men’s rights would be wrong. Sure, there are a greater number of people (females) who are man hating “feminists” but it would then be bullshit to acknowledge those folks as part of the feminist movement because that’s not what the movement is about. To me, being a feminist means accepting not only women, but men too. I don’t…	/r/MensRights	19/01/22 02:04 AM
1	'Either Marry Or Money': 22-Yr-Old Woman Threatened, Filed Fake Rape Cases Against 8 Men; Arrested You cannot lump all feminists into this. I am a feminist and I think this is a HUGE issue for men, and I would love to see more done to women who falsely accuse men of rape. This is NOT okay. The system needs to do better in punishing women.	/r/MensRights	01/01/22 01:09 PM