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Discussionbonerdude420/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 04:14 AM
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bonerdude420/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 04:22 AM
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bonerdude420/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 01:00 PM
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As long as the body fat is low you're already a 10 in body shape. Guys who only do jogging or football or swimming and they don't even do it more than a couple of times a week, and exclusively for fun, not for physique. They just like kicking a ball, they don't care at all about "body goals". You think these guys just fuck around with mild activities. The truth is they are at the gym 6 hours+ a week to look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 12:22 AM
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I even meet girls who say shit like "you can't be that short, so-and-so was 6' and you're taller than him" I'm 6'3" ( a proper, barefoot, non exaggerating one). And plenty of times a girl has asked how tall I am only to say 'nah, no way, u have to be at least 6'6" my boyfriend is 6(1-3) and you are way bigger than him!" One time a girl got her self proclaimed 6'4" boyfriend to stand back-to-back with me and he was 6', maybe 6'1" at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:17 AM
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Attention seeking behaviour (dressing provocative or weird, heavy social media use, dramatic personality) Low inhibition / high risk tolerance (partying, high extroversion with strangers, drinking, smoking, drug use, poor language) Lack of close female friends, yet seemingly talks about bad experiences with men a lot Short term orientation (for example uses heavy make up, nails, tan and accessories to stand out but has shitty diet, sleep, skincare and exercise, poor financial management, bad gra…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:59 AM
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It's about the cultural assumption of agency. The default belief is men do things, women have things done to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:41 AM
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r/mgtow is literally aesop's fox and grapes story. Except it's incels and women. It's about protecting their ego from their own socialisation failure, not going their own way. Men who do go their own way are much more likely to be active on hobby/interest subs rather than needing to bitch about women non-stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 01:03 AM
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This is how I feel. I have no strong opinions on using/abstaining from porn. But 'coomer' as it is used on reddit is a bizarre example of everybody is the hero in their own story. Those that use it routinely to put others down are losers without much going for them, so they move the goalposts of 'winner' away from established measures to 'doesnt jerk off'. And therefore they are winners, others are losers. Makes sense in their own echochamber, but they are weirdos
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:55 PM
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To all the girls that doubt. Can you tell a fuckboi apart from a virgin man? Yeah, pretty obvious right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 01:15 AM
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zero self awareness in this post
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:51 AM
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The part I disagree on is east Asian cities really are safer, and feel a lot safer. They have absolutely zero tolerance for anti-social behaviour. Western countries just accept homeless schizophrenics shooting up meth and harassing passers by on the street as normal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:37 AM
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Her arrogance is pretty much a prerequisite to enrol in a stem degree. It'll pass (maybe) .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 01:17 AM
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My own anecdotal experience disagrees with you. I've been both sides of the fence. I gave up a high travel/hours/stress job that paid 200k when I had my kid (14 months now) to split parenting duties 50/50 (im doing a phd now, so I set my own hours). Looking after a home and child is orders of magnitude less demanding and stressful than an intense career. This is the easiest time of my adult life. I couldn't imagine there's any serious profession out there that is easier than parenting and home d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 11:52 PM
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Video games are as passive as film/tv
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:28 PM
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Bunch of virgins giving sermons on how to get laid Now a bunch of poor people giving sermons on getting rich
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:02 AM
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Just speculating since I don't agree with the term 'used up' (although I would never personally consider a promiscuous woman for other reasons) Maybe the novelty of most romantic endeavours has passed and gone. So romantic love has been replaced with utilitarian relationships (which many men resent)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 01:59 AM
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Very unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 10:57 PM
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Women like smarter men, but not necessarily smart men. He should be up to 1 standard deviations smarter then her, because she will admire his intelligence. But more than that and it's hard to communicate to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:12 PM
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GreenSatyr's reply says you encounter situations like this because of the person you are. Your reply partially acknowledges this but deflects away from your own behavoir claiming this is the way young women are. Young women are not like this at all. When everybody smells like shit, trying checking your shoe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:43 AM
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It's weird you project this onto younger women, when you clearly are not emotionally mature nor healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:10 AM
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How can you be dominant over others when you can't even manage to control your own actions? You sound like a middleschooler
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:08 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 05:45 AM
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Surprised at the comments supporting it. Insecurity can be attractive apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:56 AM
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I watch porn. Ive never had problems with relationships or sex. You were the problem. Porn is fine for normies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 08:39 PM
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Only me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:53 AM
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Women change the dynamic of male spaces. Often for the worse. Women also often try to enter male spaces for disingenuous reasons. Men who have experienced this gatekeep as a defence mechanism to maintain the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:15 AM
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If anything this thread shows women don't understand active and passive dating strategies. They make the assumption they can continue their passive strategy if they have the right qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 03:59 AM
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my guess (just a guess) is a completely passive strategy and poor girl-game skills
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 06:57 AM
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I am, I can't speak for everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:35 AM
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All our choices carry risk. And not accepting any risk has its own costs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 04:56 AM
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only stupid and immature right men are publicly politically active. The majority are invisible also. Here's a good example https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bradley_effect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:32 AM
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The part I strongly disagree with is that conservative women are so because their family or religion. People on the left love to be so publicly. Any conservative with nuance keeps most their opinions to themselves. Most young conservatives are invisible conservatives but their views are organic. I'm slightly conservative/centre. I've been surprised a few times by how non-political women will come out with views wayyyy further right than mine once they realise I am not left
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:16 AM
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Most criticism a person experiences isn't constructive or thoughtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 01:08 AM
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women will say nice things to each others face and bitch about them behind their back. men will talk shit to each other to their face and then say nice things about them behind their back
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 01:00 AM
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Not sure ego is the right term, since I find women in general have lower self esteem. But I do see an increased sensitivity to criticism. They're just not as exposed to confrontational and explicit criticism like men are, so they don't become as numb to it. People act nice to women then talk shit about them behind their back EDIT: slightly related anecdote. I used to be a manager in commercial construction. There were so many customers in that business who would yell, swear, threaten, slam table…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 12:50 AM
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In before 500 replies of "oh yeah? Well these particular men are pessimists!!" PPD doesn't understand distributions or medians. Good luck OP
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 09:00 AM
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It's actually a lot more like the fox and the grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 09:06 AM
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Believing 80/20 is cope for those in the bottom 20%. It's easier to accept being in the bottom 80% than truly at the bottom Source: go for a walk in a busy place and see all the ugly, old, fat, poorly dressed losers that still have a gf/wife with them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 12:00 AM
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https://imgur.com/tbnOQGH
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:19 AM
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You see the same cope from women and asians. "Only a beta, sexist, pedo, jew, engineer, nerd, fat loser would ever date an asian. So they're not really competition"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 12:45 AM
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cool. then i got nothing to worry about for the next +20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:53 PM
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My kid is nearly 1. so I can't comment on if we're good parents. But I have a few thoughts. The first few years kids build the foundation of their future personality. And it's the time you have full influence over their experiences. So giving them a stable, happy home will instil your family values for the times when they need to make their own choices. Giving strong values is the best thing a parent can give to a child Also, they grow fast. I know everybody says this, but in a year an adult bar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:44 PM
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you're probably not far away. Mine was up twice a night at 3 months then 1 by 4 months and through the night at 5. I don't think there's a technique, just patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:35 PM
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Girls, go fuck an incel before they shoot up the place
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:08 PM
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White girls instinctively must know this. That's why they can't wait to tell you how they're actually 18% Swedish, 13% French, 38.5% Irish and 51% dutch
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:03 PM
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This is a career-ending move now as you are discovering. lol. give me a break. he's 22
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 01:03 AM
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The push to get people off reddits red pill and onto their own domain is entirely motivated by their need to monetise it further. The effort per $ return on trp as a business must be down there with waitressing for tips.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 11:20 PM
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Partially agree. I'm 33 next week. I'm better looking, fitter, better dressed, more cultured, richer, more accomplished, more confident than myself in my early 20s. Yet, if I was single I doubt I could keep up with my inferior younger self on the market. Being young, being an unknown, a work in progress is more fun, more interesting and more romantic. Most women are moved by dreams of the life they want to build. Much fewer go for the ready made product given the choice. Adding to that, access t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:55 AM
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My normie brain had to take breaks reading some of the takes in here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 10:11 PM
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this is a strawman question created in poor faith. I have a daughter, I am happy for her to grow up and make her own choices. It's possible she can be happy or miserable in a tradcon marriage. it's also possible she can be happy or miserable with career success. The more likely outcome is, she, like all normal people will have relationships, a career, and will need to sacrifice both at various parts of her life to balance her needs with the needs of her family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 08:05 AM
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As a side note. What is described as calculated abuse on reddit is typically the other party just not having the mental tools to have their needs met in a relationship through effective communication. Theres very little calculation or intent, bad behavior is from poor self control
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 04:17 AM
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Hitting a women is the definition of failing shit tests in the most extreme way. Not passing them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 04:13 AM
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who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:49 AM
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ayyyy lmao at calling this guy alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 10:00 AM
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im good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:40 AM
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I see this in media and online. I never really seen it off-screen. Women who don't like men are generally outcasts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 01:13 AM
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Rightly or wrongly I never really view other men as a threat or competition either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:04 AM
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I can't speak for all men. But I've never felt the need for friendships as close as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 11:09 PM
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rubbish
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:57 AM
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they should call it Boomerdate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:36 AM
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you can convey so much more than just looks with photos and OLD profile. This is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:32 AM
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It's because of the penetration of the internet and discussion groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:49 AM
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This isn't a truth/lie issue. It's a basic communication issue. You can tell your story with complete honesty in infinite ways. Some will make you look interesting to a match, and some will make you look like a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:47 AM
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Because the groups of users that occupy r/thebluepill and r/theredpill are so embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:42 AM
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Overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 07:58 AM
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I don't really understand the pressure women are under. And I would say, generally there's not that much pressure as a man. But if you do make an effort to look good, women do not have the slightest clue what goes into it. You can work out HARD, and do it religiously for years, force feed yourself daily as if you have an eating disorder, and avoid all kinds of foods. But there's an assumption you got that fit from occasionally kicking a soccer ball in the park or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 02:11 AM
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No. only you are confused. statistical distribution is a thing, and it is exactly the thing being discussed in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 11:35 PM
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This is also an example of somebody not understanding a distribution
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 07:26 AM
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Before having kids you have all these aspirations for your future kids potential. Then you go into your mid pregnancy scans and they start carefully counting how many limbs, fingers, eyeballs etc she has and looking for any signs of stress or disability. Then all your aspirations crash back to earth, what matters is she is healthy and happy. As for the girls in the video. There's a life of experiences they've had which shape those choices. If you want your daughter to be stable, it starts at day…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:38 PM
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This post is so juvenile. You'd need to be pretty starved of attention to think having a woman work for your attention is the end game for your relationships. It's such a low bar
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:12 AM
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Maybe some women mistake their husbands for their children...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 01:00 AM
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My theory is men suffer from it more because it seems like (IME) a lot of them don’t lean on their friends and female family members the way many women tend to lean on ours. That you wrote this line proves to me that you don't understand. But if you need to insist that you totally do understand the male experience and I just don't get how you know exactly what we feel. then sure, you must be right, because you said so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:35 AM
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My theory is men suffer from it more because it seems like (IME) a lot of them don’t lean on their friends and female family members the way many women tend to lean on ours. We can't. You'd need to emphasize to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:30 AM
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Do you think you fully and I mean truly empathize with her experience? No. And I am sure that is a cause of frustration for her. Just like it is for men. I think men suffer from this more, either because they are less understood or maybe they are more needy to be understood. I couldn't say objectively
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:23 AM
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I will counter as a non-AFC. I have frequently experienced lust, desire, respect and even sympathy from women throughout my life. But almost never empathy. Even my wife who knows me better than any person on earth struggles with it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:15 AM
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I think you're describing the thought process of a person that doesn't exist or is an extreme fringe weirdo. That is not what men talk about when they talk about empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:34 AM
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no u
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:12 AM
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I am sure some members of civil rights groups, unions, women's liberation and other activist groups spoke in those terms at some point also (many still do after the fact).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:08 AM
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You don't think civil rights groups, unions, women's liberation and other activist groups protesting/complaining about the backlash they were receiving on the path to their goals was a part of the process to reach their goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:45 AM
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I'm not american
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:55 AM
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Yes Compatible relationship values Do you order a comprehensive certified Cuntfax Report from the Department of Many Vaginas (DMV), or do you just take her word for it? Do you even have any way to validate or verify how many different men a woman has slept with? I don't need to verify or even ask. you need to be completely off the autism spectrum to not be able to tell a girl is a hoe or not within a very short time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:50 AM
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Don't date anybody who let's their politics make up part of their identity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 12:27 AM
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Same reasons men who can find a date offline use it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 09:22 AM
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"why aren't girls throwing themselves at me. reeeeeeeee"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 09:17 AM
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They want it to feel seamless. Like it "just happened". They're telling you they don't like the feeling of sharing social discomfort of somebody who clumsily escalates. Don't bother arguing with women about relationships. It's like a woman telling you how to piss standing up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 05:44 AM
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lmao. this account and others posting in OPs thread / other OP threads only ever post in OPs threads. and only ever post praise hmmm.... /thinking face
/r/seduction19/05/19 07:28 AM
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Being a doctor has become a crutch for you to get some level of success. Try develop your self image separate from being a doctor. Tell girls you are less successful than you are and try to attract them. If you can then you'll get past this insecurity about girls intentions
/r/seduction12/05/19 10:12 PM
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You don't understand the female experience any better than they know yours. Regardless. Who cares? What are you going to do about it? Change sex? Whinge about it? Keep score in your head to excuse your own failures?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 03:37 AM
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I'm 32 and married. I still have women pursue me or show interest. But it's different. My utility is so much more important, if a girl likes me now she's likely thinking of how the rest of her life would look like if we got together. Where do I live, what's my education, income, genetics, generosity etc I didn't have any kind of relationship resume in my teens to early 20s. Any girl I was with just liked hanging out with me in the moment, not planning the rest of their life. Relationships are mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 05:06 AM
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Underrated response. I bet those same girls made the same comments to the guys she did bang, but they responded differently
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 10:53 PM
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agree. readily available online porn predates the spike by 8-10 years. Videogame addiction by even more. The timing fits much closer to the rise of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:20 AM
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everybody is the hero in their own story. I am sure they do some galaxy-brain tier mental gymnastics which makes it the ethical choice in their own mind
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 01:22 AM
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I had to take breaks reading this because of how cringy it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 10:22 PM
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I bought an expensive ring, didn't effect my finances or lifestyle at all. I've never gave it a second thought. She didn't expect it, but likes it, I guess mostly because it blew her expectations away. It's a flawless d colour from tiffany but not big, so you'd probably think it cost 10% the price if you saw it. It's worthless but so is a tonne of other shit we spend money on. If you don't want to do it, don't. But a lot of the anti diamond circle jerk on reddit is just low income cope
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 08:00 AM
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Observe autism in action from my ivory tower
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:44 AM
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I think there's a miss communication, I agree with you. I'm also much better than then, but I had to do something about it rather than just wait until I'm older to be attractive. It's about agency not patience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:28 AM
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Attractive successful men at 25 will be attractive and successful at 35. If you're a loser at 25, just getting older won't fix that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 09:57 AM
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RP (and to some extent PP) whinge about the death of tradition. But women never stopped liking traditional acting men, it's mostly men not living up to traditional expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 04:56 AM
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Cross-cultural marriages that succeed do so despite the cultural gap and not because of it. There's some upside, but mostly it makes things more difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 05:43 AM
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Sex is about human companionship not just physical. Normies do not give a shit about any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 09:34 AM
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lack of empathy. They buy into a victim narrative and remain oblivious to the struggles of people not like them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 12:08 PM
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Working out, having multiple hobbies, being financially well off These are things you should be working on regardless of if you want to pursue women or not. It determines your quality of life. On that theme, nobody cares if you choose to be single. But you should still make yourself attractive, it's good for your physical and mental health, self esteem, professional and personal relationships (including non romantic) Hell, being attractive isn't even a pre-requisite for a relationship. Plenty of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 11:28 AM
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I've known plenty of female incels. I don't think they're incels because nobody will have them, but they are socially stunted. They just can't get themselves to meet and demonstrate interest to suitable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 12:39 AM
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Used to post. But lost interest because if you're not in the first 10 comments it wont be read (i'm guessing because of the massive comment trees which come from the first couple posts). I also think the conversations are often dominated by fringe weirdos I just can't relate to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 11:30 AM
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That's being an adult, live with the outcomes of your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:31 PM
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What's fair is whatever is agreed on between 2 consenting adults
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:19 PM
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I agree it could leave them with emotional baggage which harms future relationships. But the scale of damage isn't comparable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:38 AM
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going mgtow because you don't like your gf is like cutting your head off because you don't like your hairstyle. Just dump her and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 12:25 PM
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I don't think these are constructive male spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:57 AM
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Virgins who say they doing "monk mode" is a favorite of mine. It's not fooling anybody, it should be called "incel mode"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:22 AM
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The single child policy has been the biggest driver of women's rights in Asia in recent history. Families which would normally have many children but divert all resources to their first born son could no longer do this. So the generation of women from the 70s/80s onwards have their families resources pushed to them instead. China has quite high rates of female higher education and executive level employment compared with the rest of Asia. Abortions/infantcide happened in poorer/rural areas where…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:09 AM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:07 AM
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Came to see Atlas sperg out over gate keeping the umc title. Wasn't disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:15 AM
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http://redditmetrics.com It doesn't give as much data as I'd like. But it will show it's relative influence on reddit as a whole over a period of time Edit: Relationships is up, Bluepill is down, askmen is stable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:04 AM
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In terms of reddit influence, it objectively has lost significant steam and is on a downward trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:02 AM
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askTRP has also been on a similar decline. From #1785 to #2489 in terms of reddit influence. Interestingly askTRP started to decline a year before TRP proper
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:02 AM
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I doubt it. The organized reddit influencers MO is to push simplistic things up the chain on all. Not write 1000 word monologues as TRP is known for. Furthermore looking at the data, TRP had a stable growth period from 2014-2017. It's only now its influence on reddit is in decline. Remember there was a few years where PUA was a massive trend. Then attrition got hold and it's not a thing anymore. I see TRP in early stages of the same decline
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 07:59 AM
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Genetics, health/fitness, youth, education level, social class, wealth, social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 06:01 AM
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I doubt I could pick it from a G VS2 to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 03:31 AM
4

I spent $20k on my wifes. And it's a D colour VVS1 very simple design from Tiffany. So there's no way an untrained eye could pick it from a $2k generic ring. Nobody knows it's worth a lot other than me an her, and every conversation I've heard from others about rings is about getting the most carats per dollar and at a very different price range, so it'd be awkward for me to talk about. Saying it's worth that much isn't the right way to put it anyway, because it's not like it could be resold for…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 11:30 PM
2

well shit... i don't know... maybe ANECDOTALLY that is my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 05:07 AM
2

you do know what the word anecdotally means right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 04:17 AM
2

what the hell do you mean source? it's not like this stuff is on the radr of universities or reseach institutes. However -Asian culture is far more driven by social classes - see https://geert-hofstede.com/ on power distance. confucianism is driven by social class -Women are far less likely to work full time, especially after children and in some countries that would be a deal breaker for marriage -China and Japan are #1 and #2 respectively in the luxury goods market -China and some other asian …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 03:27 AM
1

Anecdotally it's very very common. But they're not the TV stereotype of a blood bimbo who wants an allowance from old men. They're regular girls. Twice as common amongst asians
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 11:44 PM
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I'm married, been together 9 years. Very happy. I'd love to live a different life concurrent to what I have and try different life paths, but it's impossible. You can have the life you want, but not all lives you want. Considering that I am confident I've made the best choice for my long term fulfillment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 01:34 AM
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A tall, athletic, good looking, rich guy talks to a girl. During the conversation he makes a joke. The girl really likes him. If you asked her why she'd say 'because he's so funny and I really like funny guys'
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 01:00 PM
1

Lifting has dimminishing returns. The benfit you get from working out 4-8 hours a week is about 80% of what somebody who dedicates their whole life to it gets. Then you still have 100 odd hours waking left for other stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 10:54 AM
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and yet most women in the civilized world make considerable effort to groom themselves in a way which is pleasing for men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 08:34 AM
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'love marriage' is still a bit of a novel concept in China. Most marriages are largely transactional and heavily determined by parents, economic agreement between families and social class. Girls are old fashioned, but have old fashioned expectations of men. Families are almost always led by the mother. Having said that, I just got back from there and it's the only place I was routinely approached by women. I felt if I was stationary and alone long enough a girl would come try to talk to me. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 10:58 AM
6

I get along with and am attracted to people with similar values to myself. That simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 04:45 AM
2

I guess the ideological demand for college rapists sometimes outweighs the supply
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 12:45 AM
4

Some nerds are incels. Some professionals are nerds. Not all nerds are professionals. Not all nerds are incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 01:12 AM
5

You don't need to be married to be unhappy. plenty of single people, dating people, polygamous people are miserable also.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 08:28 AM
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if you dont agree with marriage, don't get married. The world will keep spinning
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 08:23 AM
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Here's when I found TBP, made a comment, and quickly realised these are not reasonable people. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/3qsccm/how_many_terpers_have_to_go_abroad_to_asia_to_get/cwhzc5e/ BPer saw a man look at a girl in Asia, assumed he is a pedophile with no evidence, which is an absolutely disgusting thing to do. Downvoted to oblivion for not agreeing. That is the culture of that sub which still persists today. Members don't see it because of the second part of my comment. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 01:07 PM
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As a casual observer it's pretty obvious to me that a large portion of TBP has an unhealthy relationship with and view of men. And for members to participate regularly they must at least be comfortable in an environment which is bias against (or worse) men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 12:52 PM
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Passionate love wears off when novelty does. It's gradually replaced with a family type of love. You can still cultivate moments of passion. But it's not like you're going to get back the feeling of getting a nervous feeling to knock on the front door to take a girl out when you've been living together for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 07:53 AM
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It's not a number, it's poor values that put you off. There's a correlation between the 2, but I don't care to try find out a number because I can observe values pretty simply
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 07:50 AM
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You fill your life. Work, learning, activities, socializing, goals beyond women. You need things you care about achieving other than girls
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:31 AM
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No, you're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 10:46 PM
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You're the confused one here. Umc has the world "middle" in it. By definition it cant mean social elite. Umc are regular working people who have done better than the pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 10:36 PM
2

Probably the most inaccurate flair on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 10:33 AM
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I was dumped when still a student in university and she said it was because i was poor. I'm wealthy now. She did me a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 10:08 AM
5

I guess your glass really is half empty
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:48 AM
4

Abundance mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:10 AM
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Nobody's obliged to do anything. But actively hiding your past could effect the long term success of a relationship. Most people easily navigate whether their bf has a capacity for violence or if their gf is a cheater based on the attitudes and values they display rather than need to interrogate them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 02:19 AM
2

Any article that uses that many terrible stock photos can't be worth reading
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:13 AM
4

I don't even understand what he's saying. I just talk to girls
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 06:42 AM
2

PPD is useless at understanding the difference between upper middle class and ultra rich multi generational elite apparently, based on the discussions going on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 11:10 PM
1

need and appreciate aren't the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 01:06 PM
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-Get rid of the taxation thing. No politics at all on Tinder. Doesn't help that there are very few conservative young girls, and even fewer of them on tinder. -your 'funny' line isnt very funny, and it doesnt say anything about who you are. If a girl wanted to initiate talking with you, I'm not sure what she'd say. -Get rid of the shirtless selfie. You're not ripped enough to pull it off. Girls can see from your clothed pics you're reasonably fit. -Better lighting / more brightness in your pictu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 12:03 PM
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Only trash women get male strippers. Couldn't care in the slightest what they do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 01:43 AM
2

Well the test is when they laugh when you're not being funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 01:53 PM
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Ever been around a girl who is very attracted to you. Everything you say makes her giggle, even if it's not a joke. Afterwards if somebody asked why she was attracted, she'd say 'because he's so funny' and she really really likes funny guys. But in reality you're funny because you're attractive, not attractive because you're funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 01:45 PM
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If you're very attractive and high status you do better showing more comfort/beta traits. The highest value men are assumed alpha and display comfort
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 10:46 AM
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PPD women are not an accurate representation of normal girls you're likely to encounter IRL. I don't think they're lying, they're just a poor survey sample
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 10:05 AM
3

I feel that way about the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 08:50 AM
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Same way college grad includes everybody from BA in Medieval Dance to Dr of Brainsurgery
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 02:34 AM
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he obviously didnt max himself out. Or even scrape the surface
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 05:32 AM
3

jesus christ. enough with these threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:55 AM
1

It's cultural/symbolic/tradition and relevant to your social circle/social class I'm not sure why you need to find functional uses for it. You're not buying a pickup truck
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 11:27 PM
3

about the same as me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 02:44 AM
2

I thought revenge fantasies were a red pill thing.... but some of the comments here about what they think a typical stem grads life is... bp obviously have their own revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 10:34 PM
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Nobody can challenge this view. Even if a feminist explicitly said "I hate men", ppd feminists would say "I don't really see how this means she hates men" The burden of proof for misandary is a lot higher than misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 10:52 PM
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I normally think very highly of women as most in my circle are good people. If I read too much ppd it damages this view a little, at least temporarily. Not because of RP rhetoric about them because that is easily dismissed, but how they portray themselves and arguments they make here. I'm visiting less as I get it that we're not normie's here. The people who use this kind of forum are a poor representation of reality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 03:53 AM
1

a mix. there's no specific 'good' or 'bad' beta traits or alpha traits
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 10:22 AM
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either
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 08:34 AM
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Id argue a mix of alpha and beta traits will beat a 'pure alpha' 9 times out of 10
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 07:57 AM
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Probably Believes It
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 01:05 PM
1

well, you know what they say. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 01:13 PM
1

Rp accepts the world as it is in the same way feminism is about equality. Only in theory, never in practise
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:37 PM
2

Go post on r/equalattraction you may be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:38 AM
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Id say its more; the grass isnt greener on the other side, its greener where you water it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:46 AM
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this is straight up disingenuous. 99% of discussion on the wall is around the 30 year mark, and you know that as well as anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:45 AM
1

But my mom says I'm cool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 05:39 AM
2

Take a break from the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 06:26 AM
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They like the idea in theory. But when their partner reveals themselves as emotionally vulnerable they may become less attracted for completely unrelated, coincidental and unknown reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 04:23 AM
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It was very boring
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 06:02 AM
1

28 is still 10 years of adulthood, which is a very very long time. by 28 I had traveled very extensively. It also leaves lots of room for more children. Most people will have 2, some may want 3 or even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 01:07 AM
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Optimally I'd say 28 man, 26 woman. First kid by 30/28
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:10 AM
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A website called everydayfeminism writes an article about why anti feminism is bad......
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:37 PM
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Not necessarily. South East Asians, and to some extent mainland Chinese assume all white people are rich and have difficulty to decipher what social class white people come from. Although it is obviously as case of her leveraging her (relative) youth vs him leveraging his race The stuff about him only offering himself not green card, whatever is just a misunderstanding on what asian marriage is/means and that girls in her position will not explicitly state their needs/requirements, instead they …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 10:16 AM
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Old white men idealize low social class Asian women at their peril.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 09:54 AM
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I don't agree with most of these. Seems like a list of things you personally don't like. Toxic femininity would be things like; double-speak, hostility by proxy, gossiping, shaming, isolating people close to her from their support networks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 02:46 AM
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I agree with you, even if you're more attractive than your 20s, the access to the lifestyle of your 20s becomes more difficult. But to CYV, I think the existence of Tinder changes the landscape a little. an older guy can still do very well there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 02:39 AM
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I used to give a lot of ridiculous opinions the benefit of the doubt that they may have came from reasonable, normal people. Seeing photos like this make me realize I've spent too long reading, and given too much credit to the average reddit commentor
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 12:32 AM
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30 Male Married We're high income, spend a lot but never impulsively. Pool our money together and rarely check/think about our financial position.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 11:12 PM
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If she's genuinely going through something it's in both our long term interests to help her through it. If she's physically/emotionally removed herself from the marriage then we may as well legally remove ourselves from it also. The longer you spend with somebody, the relationship becomes both romantic and like family, so you stick by them. But being married isn't a free pass to make your partner's life miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:00 AM
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You can live whatever life you want, but you can't live all the different lives you want. I chose to be married, and have a great life, but part of that choice includes sacrificing something else which I want. I wouldn't cheat, but of course I am still attracted and tempted by girls when they show interest in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 05:06 AM
2

I couldn't take a good photo of myself to save my life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 12:46 AM
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Lying, blaming others for whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 08:22 AM
2

Red pill theory is about making peace with the world the way it is and long term self improvement The average red pill reddit user is a loser who is bitter with the world for his own failings
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:39 AM
3

Did you just assume my mother's gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:20 AM
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You sound like a real catch. The world keeps spinning
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:18 AM
2

Neither men or women have much empathy for the downsides of being the opposite sex. this post is a good example
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:10 AM
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When i first spoke with my now wife about sex she said she was saving her virginity for marriage. But we still didnit later that night
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 11:27 PM
2

what taste are they filtering? guys that dont like nose rings?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 03:21 AM
3

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 01:07 AM
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They are both good imo. But movie stars fandom comes a lot from their characters/performances and movie star lifestyle not necessarily their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:57 AM
1

I didn't say anything about oiled homos. I agree with PPD on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 11:27 PM
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I agree with this. I'm a fence sitter for most things, pills included. I'd hate to be with somebody who considers themselves an activist or is very politically involved
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 10:52 PM
2

Nose ring is an instant nope from me too. I couldn't understand why girls get them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 09:57 PM
5

No girl will ever compare to his 2d waifu
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 09:16 PM
4

you should probably just go your own way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 12:02 PM
4

you're more likely to be hit by lightening than meet somebody 'pill-sphere' aware IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 12:01 PM
1

Is this a leading question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:13 AM
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The only thing in the known universe with more solipsism than the way this thread is presented is the way you view your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 07:07 AM
1

Most men feel invisible to women. Their existence as a sexual being is not acknowledged and it is depressing to them. The sum of all the attractive parts of a man. But often in TRP it just means self interested and short term orientation If you didn't like me/respect when you were more desirable/socially powerful, don't expect me to like you when I am more desirable. as above It's up to women how they feel about this. Getting the best mate is fine, branch swinging/trading up is a risk to the man…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 03:53 AM
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On paper I'd be Chad. 30yo, 6'2/185lbs, fit, deep voice, decent face, 100k STEM/management job, masters education and traveled the world. But in reality I'm just OK. I'm not cool, and although I am good socially I much prefer time alone. Have lots of 'beta' values; I am very patient, polite and non-confrontational. The way it affected me is I became more and more passive in the SMP the better I became, didn't approach or try to win girls since I was in highschool, but lots of girls have chased m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 11:49 PM
6

The average Indian guy has below average social skills, combined with a tendency to be pushy, many come off a 'creepy'. The harmful stereotype comes from a series of similar experiences from similar people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 06:35 AM
0

Lol. Is this real life? What am I reading
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:59 AM
3

Because hyperbole
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:12 AM
4

Water finds its own level
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:17 AM
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OP is sexist by low expectations. This is the kind of consent argument you'd have about a mentally handicapped person or child
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 02:28 AM
2

There's a whole lot of posts in here from accounts that have a long history of shitposting and posting in poor-faith commenting to the effect "The pill that's opposite mine are always posting in poor faith"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 11:09 AM
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-Attention seeking behavior, attention seeking dress style, attention seeking social media use -Has a poor opinion of men in general -Substance use. Drugs, binge drinking alcohol, smoking -Vulgarity All things any reasonable man should screen for regardless of slut status EDIT: Posts minion memes on facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:31 AM
2

Regardless of social media. Supply and demand still applies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 02:54 AM
2

All that matters is picking your own partners to your own values, other people can do as they please
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 01:38 AM
1

They can, just not with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:09 AM
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I didn't know about any pills while single. But reflecting on my life so far -Teens/early 20s I wasn't very attractive and BP leaning values. Felt unsuccessful and frustrated with women. -Mid twenties I was much more attractive and more RP valued. Lots of girls made effort to chase me rather than vice-versa. Didn't matter if they knew I was in a relationship or not. Pretty broad range of types/women -Late twenties/early 30s (30 now). I'm married, probably objectively more attractive than 5 years…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 12:44 AM
1

Isn't that TBP in a nutshell?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 11:50 PM
2

He shows his winnings. Does he show his losses? For every 10 people that claim to others they make a living gambling, 9 of them aren't
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 11:35 AM
2

my wife is a teacher and it works out really well. Pays well here (Aus), hours are really convenient and can easily move to part time whenever we have a family. Wish my own work was as accomodating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 01:07 AM
2

You screen for values and behavior not a specific number.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 06:50 AM
2

My point was more, if you missed out on being successful 20-25 and now you're 35. You are better off being a successful 35 year old than trying to become a successful college student and let og of what you think you missed out on. But FWIW, I agree, you can live whatever life you want and it is all achievable, but the path you pick will shut doors to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 09:33 AM
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If you build 1000 bridges and chop down 1 tree. Are you a bridge builder or a logger? There are tens of millions of people who describe themselves as feminists, so you can easily cherry pick a few that support any cause you could think of. But mainstream feminism, the loudest feminism, the feminism you see without looking for it (and the type that finds you without asking for it) is a female interest/lobby group, and they couldnt give a shit about uncomfortable jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 06:28 AM
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I'm 30 now with bachelor in engineering and an MBA, but I am still very bitter and get upset about how much pressure my highschool's staff put on me to leave school and apply for apprenticeships during my last 2 years. It was a working class area, so they probably thought/think they were doing the right thing for me, and I have to wonder how many others just followed their advice despite their ambitions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 12:18 PM
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there's strong women who are independent and then there are "Strong independent women"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 11:39 AM
3

My initial reaction is hoax as well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 05:52 AM
9

'I am insecure therefore everybody is insecure'...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 06:19 AM
2

low effort troll thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 07:55 AM
2

2 people isnt a sample. major selection bias and apex bias. even if you're correct, this is a terrible argument
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 11:34 PM
4

I agree. Equal rights are just part of being in a civilized society. Freedom to pursue whatever kind of partner we want is a basic freedom and separate from any political beliefs. Doesn't mean you have the right to the partner you want, it's on you to be attractive enough to get that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:09 AM
5

Most couples support each other. Not one or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 10:05 AM
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Lots of reasons I guess -Japan especially acknowledges and caters to 'herbivore men', losers, omegas etc in their entertainment industry -In some countries like Vietnam, Thailand, Philippines they can leverage off their citizenship to increase their SMV -In some places Asian girls have 'white fever' -Across cultures it's harder to spot what a loser looks like. If you travel abroad, pay attention, it's not as obvious as in your home country. -Most Asian countries value beta qualities higher than …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 07:24 AM
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I think you've purposely emphasized the feminist bit to be purposely inflammatory. But giving you the benefit of the doubt; why do you feel describing yourself as a feminist makes you deserve better than if you did not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 02:17 AM
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A few points -You never 'make it'. Life is a work in progress. So if you're waiting until you're ready you are likely to miss the best opportunities of your life -Settling young sacrifices your chance to be with different/many girls. But if you are a true romantic, it's also a great life to grow your life as a team with a girl from the ground up. Like many things, you can have the life you want; but you can't have all lives' different paths simultaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 01:00 AM
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You're getting downvoted, but this is a lot of text for an absolute minimum of content. I'm struggling to see how readers can pull any value at all from OPs post. If OP actually is successful, I don't think he has much insight to how it came to be.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 08:03 AM
1

This is not an accurate portrayal of most (or even many) men. It's also not what negging is, this is not how negging is taught to men who do want to learn it and it is not socially acceptable to mainstream society. It's also unreasonable for any normal man or woman to think insulting a girl is likely to lead to getting them into bed If you experience this with any kind of frequency then you are scraping the bottom of the barrel of men who have no social abilities or awareness at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 06:38 AM
5

People have options/advantages proportional to their own worth. If the only men interested in you are losers... well... Most women have no problems dating and securing relationships with decent men who are similar in looks and values to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 06:06 AM
2

I just like the girls I like. I don't conduct a hormone level test first
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:19 AM
1

If you think all men's goal is to get the highest n count you have a poor understanding of men and should probably take a break from reading the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 10:51 PM
3

A man can only have different values to you if he is a weak, insecure failure. That is some top tier ego defense mechanism if I ever saw it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 11:56 PM
3

Since this poll was taken on PPD, id expect TBP and TRP to be EVEN MORE homogeneous than this poll suggests. Posters here have to have some tolerance of opposing views so are likely to be more open minded than the main subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 06:52 AM
2

Your appetite outweighs your talent. Either lower your standards or improve your value
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 11:13 PM
3

everybody has options proportional to their value
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 09:27 AM
2

If it's what they want, of course it can
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 04:49 AM
4

What exactly needs solving? We're already in the ideal situation. Men and women are free to pick their relationships based on their own priorities and compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 01:32 AM
11

This is pretty much my view. I have no issue with self defense. But I see plenty of examples of fights posted to reddit where people argue 'self defense' means 'they hit first, so the other guy can fracture their skull', that's not how self defense works. If somebody significantly weaker than me, who wasn't a threat to my safety hit me. I wouldn't see any need to retaliate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 12:11 PM
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Go back to all the slut threads recently. How many BP posts accused men of being insecure (shaming tactic) rather than accept part of the smp/rmp doesn't want what they're selling
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 05:17 AM
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Both sides blame and shame the customer rather than owning their shit. In theory RP should be about making peace with the world the way it is then succeeding within it. But in practice you're right, they spend more effort complaining about it than doing something about it Edit: and if I had a penny for everytime this 'woe is me' circle jerk is upvoted and celebrated by trp then defended on here as 'well that's just the anger phase' holy fuck I'd be rich. It's the red pill not the anger pill, sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 05:08 AM
1

If you're unhappy with a man's behavior in a relationship, next him. I don't understand what being a selfish idiot has to do with being alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 07:29 AM
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Ambition is attractive. However there are women who associate 'ambition' with being domineering, aggressive, abrasive, condescending and confrontational. If any of that helps your career, that's fine, I know my own career is often gladiatorial. But leave it at work, don't treat your partner like an employee or business rival. To me, your mention of political activism is a way bigger red flag than any career ambition. It doesn't matter if your politics are the same as mine or not, anybody who see…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 06:29 AM
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I agree. Girls who say men are 'intimidated' by them are protecting their ego.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 06:14 AM
2

Lots about our personality and values is communicated indirectly. No noble prizes are awarded for guessing if Snooki is a virgin or not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 03:36 AM
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This has been brought up a lot in previous threads. Please define slut shaming, because the majority of responses in the previous threads could be summarized as 'they can do what they want, but I won't pick them', this is screening not shaming. Also, almost no man would openly shame girls offline as it is not socially acceptable and do more harm to him than the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 03:31 AM
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Do I really need to see the homeless guy on the streets bank account to know he is poor? We express our values in every way we present ourselves and interact with others
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 03:24 AM
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i wouldnt recommend a woman date a drug addict, drunk, violet or criminal man. Whats the problem? Both men and women have rights to screen or reject people for whatever reasons we want, 'fair' or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 09:30 AM
1

I wouldn't accept either of the girls you listed here. But no question, being overweight is an immediate, non-negotiable dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 03:37 AM
1

What do you consider a high N-count and what is your reasoning? It's about values, not a number. I'd have no issue with a 28 year old who had sex with 10 people over the course of 10 LTRs. However I would have an issue with a 20 year old girl who has had 10 FWBs Having said that, most girls who have sex in committed exclusive relationships will have an N-count under 5 or certainly under 10 What actions add another number to N-count? anything that leads to orgasm What specifically happens to a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 03:33 AM
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Perhaps he only tolerates it rather than not care. Also, you only commit to one person, how many men have veto'd you unknowingly to you (a lot) Nobody will reasonably argue that a high N count girl wont get commitment. However it does devalue her to mainstream society men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 08:09 AM
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A woman isn't in a position to know if a man cares or not. We know it's not socially acceptable to say it publically, especially to a woman so we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 07:35 AM
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Just don't say it if you don't really mean it. There's nothing worse than a girl telling you 'you choose' then being disappointed because you made the 'wrong' choice
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/17 06:50 AM
3

selection bias. Most men would not consider seeing a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 06:40 AM
2

I would say many girls who think men are insecure they 'won't measure up' are often insecure themselves that men will reject them based on their past and are projecting. If anything, most men are over confident in their ability and assume they are the best she ever had. Pill sphere aside. Most 'normie' men still care. Not because they think sluts destroy society, or they 'won't measure up', but because most their sexual experience was in a relationship and prefer women of the same life experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 05:55 AM
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I keep reading this everywhere on here, is it actually true? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 05:28 AM
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i disagree. In most discussions on high N count women, BP talks about male insecurity rather than compatible values.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 05:27 AM
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Some mental health problems such as Borderline Personality Disorder have known correlations with sexual promiscuity. Regardless, high n-count is a deal breaker for many men. dealbreakers don't need to be justified
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 12:13 PM
2

If you're with somebody compatible with your values, it doesn't matter either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 11:52 AM
2

This list is good and not onerous to pass. There's nothing specific about who he is or his achievements, it's just for finding guys who show what they are rather than say what they are and are confident/not cynical about dating.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 06:32 AM
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I mean she looked/had personality of the stereotype. But her life and actions certainly don't match the assumptions a red piller would make after meeting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 06:08 AM
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Purple. Have a sister 4 years older than me who was the typical hot girl stereotype. She was a pain to live with, but I don't think she fits the red pill narative. I was a late bloomer/awkward in highschool but successful with girls in adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 05:23 AM
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As a follow up, I'd say social class is defined by values not by money. My partner is a teacher, and many of her coworkers are trash, and many are NAWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 02:03 AM
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because my social sphere isn't defined by money. It's people of similar values to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 12:33 AM
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I like girls of similar relationship etiquette and values to myself. I don't really care how others perceive her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 04:06 AM
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If tbp was about making fun of trp, I'd post there. But it's not, it's a sjw circlejerk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 07:37 AM
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I'd say this is mostly a myth, most successful women don't have problems with finding men, but for the ones that do: They make the mistake of thinking men rate women with the same criteria that women use for men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 12:22 AM
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Monk mode is fine if you had a healthy sex life before starting. But most guys say they are in monk mode to protect their ego from their own inceldom
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 08:52 AM
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This is the dumbest wall of text. Don't be passive aggressive and try play a woman's game. First levels of dread plus compliment/directly show appreciation for her domestic work is far simpler and more effective
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 08:19 AM
1

It's not broken and doesn't need fixing. If you're not happy, you're the one that needs fixing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 07:11 AM
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If you think 'looks dont matter' is mainstream dating advice... im not sure what to say. You're either willfully ignorant or have a learning disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 09:39 AM
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it will optimize your potential with women. There's a difference. You'll never be better than Le Bron James at basketball, but if you do the right training for an extended period of time you can be much much much better than you are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 08:59 AM
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I wouldn't believe you and it's likely your standards for yourself are actually quite low/you over rate your own achievements. Nobody will ever reach their full potential in all those aspects at the same time, we only do our best
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 08:54 AM
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Get in shape, get a good job, present yourself as well as possible, develop hobbies, read, travel, learn which girls are receptive to the qualities that you do have and be a nice and generous person to everybody you can while setting the boundaries that any reasonable person would expect. Be your best self you might argue lots of this is a part of RP, but it's also common knowledge. Lots of stuff in TRP works, but the stuff which is specific and unique to TRP is the least effective or actually d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 08:47 AM
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RP core theory is good, but the majority of TRP subreddit are losers, autists and neckbeards. which has become more and more about reinforcing a victim narrative BP would be great if it did what it says it does; making fun of TRP. But actually it's place for triggered tumblr users to be outraged at losers, autists and neckbeards I guess I'd happily be either if their content and users was actually consistent with their purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 11:31 AM
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It's not competitive to get into the 20%, most people are in terrible shape and don't have their life together. Get an OK job, work out, dress well, quit any major vices and you're basically there. Considering that, I don't have much sympathy for the bottom half of men
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:10 AM
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Feminists spend their lives complaining about the state of things until they're legislated to their liking. Men accept the world for what it is and direct their efforts to achieving their goals, and building the life they want within that world. So many here spend all their effort complaining about women as if they are a feminist. But go look outside, millions of men are enjoying women and being treated like kings, building the lives they want. The problem is you, go do something about yourself.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 12:14 PM
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Women want the most attractive man they can get, water is wet. Jesus Christ. This is one long-ass convoluted rant about your own unattractiveness
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 12:04 PM
1

You travel to experience, not take the same postcard photo a million others have. Your experiences abroad are far different from what your familiar with in your home country
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 04:46 AM
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Asia is great because it's foreign in every sense of the word. You don't have the same comfort bubble and familiarity of Europe or English speaking countries
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 04:39 AM
3

this is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 08:02 AM
13

You're not accounted for by TRP or any male dating advice because you are unappealing/undesirable to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 05:03 AM
2

I do admit on the severely autist ranting posts of TRP I'll flick through a couple pages of their post history, most of them are Indian.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 06:10 AM
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It works for me now, but being that skinny and that much taller than everybody else at 13/14 years old worked against me a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 01:15 AM
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1- puberty. I was 6'3 and 130lbs at the start of highschool, so a bit of a freak. By the end of highschool I wasn't any taller but only added 10lbs. From 19-21 went up to 185 which is where I've stayed. Also limited opportunity. I studied engineering and the campus was dedicated to math and science. Easily 10-1 ratio on campus and 20-1 in my classes. I also had standards well beyond my own attractiveness. By my early 20s it was fine as I became far more attractive and socially competent. but I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 01:11 AM
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Most of them. I'd make the same comment on the men that claim they were 'divorce raped'
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 06:12 AM
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I agree in so much as if women were the ones working the extra hours, killing themselves more, dying earlier, workplace deaths, education gap, homelessness gap, prison gap, medical research funding gap, etc, etc we'd be hearing about it daily in politics and the media. But men are terrible at staying on point about their issues. Go look in the mens rights subs on reddit. 90% of it is frivolous garbage like a feminist made a mean tweet, or their obsession about statutory rape against teen boys. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 11:19 AM
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Also, if you're attractive you can like as much dorky stuff as you want, and be open about it. It's only held against you if you are the stereotypical unemployed geek in bad shape with poor hygene
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 02:03 AM
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I may be on my own here, but I see oral as equally or even more intimate than piv
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 01:53 AM
5

sometimes you have to do the thing you dont want to get the thing you do want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 08:06 AM
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The way I see it, TRP should be a toolbox to pursue the life you want and have the confidence to achieve it. Wife and kids, serial monogamy, spinning plates, fucking hookers in Cambodia, who cares. Go get the life you want, it's all achievable and has been done by millions before you.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 06:32 AM
1

Men and women get along fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:21 AM
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Do what you want, nobody is going to stop you. men aren't a hivemind that must share the same goals or values
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:03 AM
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I'd say it is a combination of 3 factors; physical, social class and personality as determined by the mainstream society. How in demand is that person's traits by the opposite sex. A very brief (and incomplete) criteria may be Physically; signs of good health (skin, hair etc), fitness, youth and facial symmetry. Social class; self presentation, profession, wealth, income, communication skills, education level, peer group and family, are their hobbies/interests active or passive. Personality; emo…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 09:34 AM
1

Australian
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/16 09:58 PM
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The term 'divorce rape' is ridiculous. There's nothing analogous between going through a bad divorce and being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/16 02:45 AM
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Don't take TRP too seriously. It's a fringe movement of guys who missed out on the teens/early 20s they wanted and are in a state of arrested development trying to reclaim what they missed out on. Most men's lives follow a more normal progression and a good supportive wife with children is a good life to have. A hot 20 year old will be attractive to all men. But very few men will want to chase them indefinitely. You should speak to your husband about what kind of life he wants to live, and how h…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 12:00 AM
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If you take away the edge-lord tone there's nothing really bad in Gardrothards comment. Despite her emphasizing how manipulative it is, there's nothing manipulative about appreciating his career without acting like a gold digger or making an effort in bed. That's just a normal relationship effort And despite her emphasizing how beta and blue pill it is, there's nothing wrong with a guy who has a career. It's just purposefully imflamitory I will make one comment though, I think the stereotype of …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 10:58 PM
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I'm not rich but easily meet OPs/this post criteria. I wouldn't say attracting somebody wealthy is any different than attracting somebody not. The above points are good advice for all women. Remember that water will find it's level, most people end up married to those in similar social classes to themselves, so the best way to marry up is improving yourself. I think the OPs age is relevant for this Q. Her criteria isn't super high, if she is young I'd say find a guy studying/early career in a go…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 09:23 AM
2

This thread gave me autism
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 06:21 AM
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How many girls want to fuck you? Would more girls want to fuck you if you were rich? If you answered yes then money increases you SMV. The rest is hamstering because you are broke.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 09:11 AM
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people who post in thebluepill are tribalist to a specific political world view. If it was just about teasing redpillers when they act like spergs like they claim I'd be their most active member
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 08:06 AM
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guys who read the sidebar and lift obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 07:58 AM
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That's fine and reasonable, because you're not expecting the world to change for you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 06:35 AM
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If you believe that, you might need to take a break from online echo chambers. It's one of the most common ways people live their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 06:31 AM
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The way TRP uses the term 'beta bux' is an ego defensive mechanism when comparing themselves to normies that are in LTRs EDIT: it's also a defense mechanism when comparing themselves to guys with better income than they have
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 07:36 AM
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I don't get it, trump was heavily criticized for a long period of time for those comments
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 10:11 PM
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-Job quotas irrespective of performance -Affirmative action university entry -Feminine learning environment in schools -Silenced and shamed against express their issues because of privilege ( which most men don't have anyway.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 02:25 AM
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Identity politics
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 11:16 PM
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This post is spot on. But I have some sympathy for their view on race because a white loser will still slay in Asia. So not all things are equal
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 03:54 AM
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I believe the idea conservative places are racist is largely a myth. They have less political correctness so it's easy to say they're racist. But overall they are people who care about values above all else. It's large cities/progressive areas that care about social class and identity above all else.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 03:48 AM
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This should be q4rp not q4men, since most men don't believe in what you've wrote. But slightly off topic I'm sceptical about the stereotype mail order brides run the day their green card comes. Lots of Asian cultures believe you love the man you marry rather than 'you marry the man you love. If there are any stats on the success rates (success defined by divorce rate not fulfillment) of these marriages I'd be curious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 03:30 AM
2

There's nothing wrong with the way things are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 01:12 AM
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Oversimplifing it a bit, but A mans success/fulfillment can progress from A-Z. TRP is mostly populated by guys at A-G If you discuss T-Z it will likely be ignored or downvoted in favor of simpler ideas because thats where most the readers are at. TRP talks about fitness, but if you want to talk about it in depth, there are better places TRP talks about finance, but if you want to talk about it in depth, there are better places etc etc Treat TRP for what it is, including its limitations
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 07:00 AM
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I'm not much of a gamer, but. When women enter a predominantly male space. The whole social dynamics change. You get guys some falling over themselves trying to get the girl's attention, and others that were enjoying the activity upset that the focus is now on the girl, not the activity, or upset they were enjoying 'male bonding/socializing' which has been changed. They might lash out, or say very inflammatory things to try keep girls out of what they were doing. Some girls antagonize this with …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 06:34 AM
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Agreed. Confidence is built through achievements. Forget 'acting' confident, go do something you can feel proud of
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 06:26 AM
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Who cares about ideology? She wants to meet single men, most single men have an online profile. It doesn't have to be her only avenue, but it's convenient and there. Millions of happy successful relationships started online. Additionally, this is red pill WOMEN, not red pill. Online dating offers women good opportunities
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 01:05 AM
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Nothing wrong with online dating. Nearly all single but looking people have at least 1 profile out there
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 12:50 AM
1

That's why it can be good to take girls out. There are activities you may enjoy that you need a partner for.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 11:25 PM
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She can believe whatever she wants to, you dont need to avoid doing things you like, or do things you don't like in order to manipulate how she feels about you. You should just go have fun/live the way you want it. If they come along for the ride, cool. If they take it the wrong way or don't bring value to you the way you are to her, next her. No big deal, no big loss
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 07:49 AM
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Do what you want, but do it because you want to not out of obligation or as an attempted covert contract. I wouldn't because fine dining isn't my scene. But if it was of course I'd take a girl there. When you see a girl, you do the things you enjoy and bring her into it to sample your lifestyle. You get into trouble when you fake your lifestyle to try impress the girl.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 04:54 AM
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Q4Men. Most replies by women. Lift your game PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 12:05 AM
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weirdo who can't grasp simple social norms
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/16 07:09 AM
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Feminists/women have always encouraged men to show weakness and vulnerability as a solution to emotional stress because it works for them and always has. I have no doubt they genuinely think it would be good for men. They just couldn't understand men are treated differently and acting like a woman with your emotions has social repercussions (sometimes from the same people that encouraged you to act that way). But it's fine to show vulnerability as a man, don't bottle everything up. Women that ca…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 06:41 AM
3

Almost all 'monk mode' and 'mgtow' are incels + ego preservation. You can't give up what you never had in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 06:34 AM
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80/20 rule comes from guys who are well below average believing themselves to be above average. When they get the results of a below average guy they come to the conclusion that above average isn't good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/16 11:40 AM
3

well if you slap somebody/act like a cunt i don't think you deserve to die. but that's besides the point. He shouldn't have KO'd her because it ruins HIS life not because of any favor to her
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 11:00 AM
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Saw the video. He hit her in rage, not in self defense. Most jurisdictions consider 'reasonable force', just because somebody slaps you doesn't give you right to kill them in 'self defense'. So if this girl were to die he is looking at serious time. Both parties will regret acting like morons for the rest of their life. A stronger man could walk away confidently and go on enjoying his life. This guy is the textbook opposite of stoic
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 05:52 AM
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not sure why this was addressed as a question. It's more of an upset rant. You answered it yourself in your post. It's a shit test. A man will push for sex and how the girl responds will help him to form the view of what kind of girl she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 05:13 AM
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The troll threads here are an epidemic.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 06:52 AM
1

If you're really attractive to somebody and you're confident (comfortable with silence) girls will put a lot of effort to keep the conversation going. If they're not into you they wont
/r/askTRP03/11/16 04:28 AM
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You're thinking too much. The average relationships poster wouldn't know a redpiller if they were married to them. The majority of reddit thinks redpill is Fedora wearing woman hater (which is often true). If you follow constructive rp advice in real life people react positively, if you act as the disgruntled virgin stereotype reddit thinks trp is they wont
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 02:16 AM
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Despite all the replies to the contrary, your job is a problem. Low paid, blue collar work shows you are low social class. Some guys pull off the 'starving artist/musician' trope and get girls, but you are way too old for it. You might be thinking about tonight, but girls are already planning the rest of their life. Not having money is OK, but low social class is not You're also slightly short and overweight so unless you have killer looks you're not going to inspire lust in girls with options.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 02:09 AM
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Do I read correctly that he doesn't actually have wealth now but is afraid of women stealing the hypothetical wealth he will earn later? If so, lol. Prenups are meant to protect pre-marriage wealth so are completely useless to 99% of men because most couples get together young and (relatively) broke. You can't/won't convince him marriage is a good idea. He will either come around or he won't. You'll have to make a call if its worth sticking around or not since time is on his side. But if the 94 …
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 07:34 AM
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Hi. Rarely post, because I'm male. Occasionally lurk because I'm married with a girl that shares most RPW values and have largely traditional roles
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 01:31 AM
1

It would mean we don't share the same values and are not a suitable match
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 09:06 PM
3

... that wasn't the question
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 08:22 PM
8

Loved separate from our utility
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 12:06 PM
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This list is just tips for putting effort into a relationship. If you equate that with a broom up your ass, I don't envy your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 02:43 AM
1

They don't actively lobby. But they're in love with ideas like 'marriage strike'
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 08:18 PM
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I didn't make any comment on the value of either movement, I just pointed out a pretty fundamental difference. One changes themselves, one lobbies society to change for them. A more accurate comparison would be MGTOW/MRAs and feminism since they have more expectations/lobby towards of society to change to fit their world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 05:54 AM
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RP is about changing yourself to fit the world's idea of success Feminism is about changing the world to fit your ideals of success
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 02:31 AM
1

yes, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 10:42 AM
5

Design your life the way you want it; whether that is spinning plates or wife and kids. RP is about (or at least should be) building yourself up and having the confidence that you can live life on your terms. Your post is dripping in fear, insecurity, low confidence and validation seeking.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 11:01 AM
2

What the hell did i just read
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 06:38 PM
0

Like seeks like. In my circles all the best men are pretty low n count (as far as i know) as theyve spent most their adult life in LTRs, but would do very well in the smv if they became single
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 06:49 PM
3

Its not nearly as rare as you think, since guys with low n counts, either through selection or forced will not openly talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 06:46 PM
2

It was between this and erectionman4000
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 03:40 PM
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Its the same thing where they idolise oriental girls because of their traditional values. But in the same breathe talk about how you shouldnt ever pay for dinner. There are still tonnes of traditional girls out there (not only eastern), but the more traditional she acts, the more traditional her expectations of a man will be. And RP does not even remotely promote traditional male actions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 05:10 PM
1

Electical engineering grad here. Some anecdotal evidence. Gender ratio at university was about 20-1 and most guys were single until they graduated. Now most my classmates are married or in LTRs, none of them were 'post wall' and all of them are about the same SMV, the 4s and 5s got with 4s and 5s, and the 8s and 9s with 8s and 9s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 04:57 PM
1

no i wouldnt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 11:15 AM
1

6'3" tall was a rake through highschool about 135lbs Got to 180lbs in early 20s but skinny fat. Had a noticeable improvement in how women acted around me. Got fit in mid 20s. Still 180-185lbs but about 12% bf. Didn't really change anything but I feel more confident than when I was skinny-fat. 29 now still 185lbs and about 12% bf Becoming materially successful had way bigger impacts on how I was perceived than any physical improvements.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 05:54 AM
2

Surprisingly Emma Watson is the one that acts like somethings up her butt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 04:58 AM
5

thebluepill is one of the most tribal subreddits on this site. water is also wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 12:18 PM
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lots of men are late bloomers who understand what it is like to be invisible/unattractive to women, but don't treat it as a death sentence and self improve
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 11:34 AM
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It's a bit of dumb comment in the context of Chinese marriage since they have introduced what are effectively 'anti gold digger' laws into their marriage act. It's one of the few places that goes to some lengths to protect a mans assets in a seperation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 11:31 AM
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no she doesnt
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 08:39 AM
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MGTOWs are incels + ego preservation. 'They didn't reject me! I am rejecting them!' 'going their own way' is disingenuous as well since all they do is whinge about women. That's not going your own way, they're as obsessed with women as any other group
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 10:23 AM
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men aren't some kind of hivemind or have man union where we decide what 'we' want. One guy might care about promiscuity another might not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 09:03 AM
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I wouldn't consider a LTR with a promiscuous girl, but I wouldn't ask her N-count then dump her on the spot. I'd stop advancing if her values or lifestyle weren't what I was looking for. If I was explicitly asked by a girl if I care, I'd say no since it's the polite/less controversial thing to do. I don't think girls are very aware of how they're being considered/judged by men for LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 09:00 AM
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"You can't turn a hoe into a housewife" - Ancient proverb
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 09:17 AM
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I doubt anybody would seriously believe/argue TRP doesn't have a lot of members with issues about women. The argument is normally are these people new and 'in the anger phase' or is this representative of their culture. All I can say is I know if I make a low effort post about how women suck and same about my appreciation of women. I know which one is getting upvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 08:17 AM
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These pill forums are the only time I've been online and dying of curiosity to see what people and their lives actually look like. I'm gonna assume it's what I expect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 04:13 AM
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Just a small detail I want to mention as a guy who works a high pressure job. If a girl asks what's wrong and the reply is frequently 'work stress', it's not work stress. It's a get out of jail card when you don't want to escalate the conversation or start an argument. Girls hear this reason, feel reassured it's not them or the relationship and believe you just need time to chill (and time alone is often the goal of the guy). He might even rationalize to himself that it's just work stress
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 12:50 PM
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I agree with this 100%. I don't think her ideas around friendship are too unreasonable, but she is without doubt very controlling. Rather than look for a guy that shares her values, she twists guys with different ideas to submit to her own.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 12:08 PM
1

The burden of performance
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 07:16 AM
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Turn down your ego/arrogance, not your intelligence. Lots of people from both genders don't know the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 10:16 AM
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'yeah, you're right' then continue as you were, forgetting the conversation.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 12:10 AM
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RP advice here is appropriate - don't listen to what men say they want, look at what they do. Even for myself it's true. When I was reading through the replies to this thread, I agreed with most of them really strongly. But then I thought about the girls I've really liked throughout my life, and those qualities weren't as important in practice as they were in theory. Of the girls you know, which ones are pursued by the most attractive men? Which ones have commitment from them? What qualities do …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 08:29 AM
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both RP and TBP subs are extremely sensitive/upset about anything that does not follow the narrative, no matter how reasonable/correct edit: and on the same token will heavily support something that does follow the narrative no matter how ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 11:31 AM
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Rp because it's important to be masculine and have leadership skills to be attractive Bp because the majority of posts on the reddit are from bitter losers playing out revenge fantasies or r/thathappened field reports which should be mocked
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 12:03 AM
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I dont have any questions. I'm doing fine. It'd just be a more interesting sub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 10:01 AM
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r/relationships is garbage. I was thinking more a sub with advice in male's interests but without the baggage of resenting (and often hating) women and LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 07:35 AM
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are you critical of r/tumblrinaction if they don't offer an alternative to feminism when they post the ridiculous stuff that comes from Tumblr? disliking or making fun of something doesn't come with obligations
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 07:33 AM
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You can criticize somebody without the responsibility of offering an alternative. Having said that, I'd like to see a bluepill advise reddit, I thinks it's a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 06:12 AM
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not a woman here, but. The highly attractive men you are talking about are not red pill. for the right woman, at the right time, they will settle down and enjoy the stability and companionship that LTR/marriage/kids bring. They've had a much better experience with women through their life and don't have the same baggage about LTRs or marriage as an institution that you see on the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 01:18 PM
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Middleschoolers shouldn't write guides to being a genius. this shit is fucking embarrassing.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 12:28 PM
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My mum was BPD and schizophrenic. Childhood was abusive from when I was about 7 onwards. To be honest, even now I couldn't really say if it was really due to mental illness or that was just a shield for all the despicable shit she did. she would be reasonably controlled during most incidences if it was just me or my sister around, but became extremely schizophrenic whenever the police or some kind of authority showed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 01:11 PM
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This must have been wrote by a highschooler
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 09:19 AM
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In any economy, the price is where a willing buying and willing seller agree. Doesn't matter if people have unrealistic valuations of themselves, they still need another willing to meet those standards. And if they do partner with somebody, then their standards weren't unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:22 AM
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Men do shame women with standards the same way women do, just go look at trp/mgtow on any given day. It might not penetrate mainstream media as much as male shaming but it goes on all the same. Anyway, vote with your feet. Nobody is forcing you to date people you don't want to, so i dont see the issue of low smv/rmv people whinging about their position
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:13 AM
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1 in 3, maybe a bit less
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 12:47 PM
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Sounds like you're looking for easy/simple money, doesn't exist.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 10:28 AM
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Yeah. And don't underestimate how big an influence it is to a man to know a girl is really attracted to him. There's a couple girls in my past who were average looking, but explicitly told me they liked me a lot. All of a sudden I felt more attracted to them. It's attractive to be liked in that way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 05:27 AM
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Not ok. It's ok to take steps to end the relationship if it's no longer worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 05:24 AM
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You sound fine, act/present in the way which matches your personality. But at 35 you can't get the same results by being passive in the dating market. You have to get in a position where single men can meet and socialise with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 05:21 AM
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too much theory/forums and not enough real life. Take a look around you, most people get into committed LTRs of one kind or another and make it work and live happy lives. Even the most elite men that TRP aspire to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 10:11 AM
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no issues from me. the only person you risk hurting is the person you care about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 07:26 AM
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Girls behave likes that if they want, guys can next them if they find out. No big issue. All girls know this behavoir could be considered offensive by a potential LTR, or they wouldn't be deceptive/downplay their sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 07:00 AM
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you dont get to choose how other interpret your actions. It's up to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:40 AM
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this is completely off topic. it's a good example of male hypocrisy, but doesn't minimise the OPs point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:16 AM
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if you dont see the point, take a break. its not a responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 12:13 PM
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dont text about being fuck buddies if you've never fucked her. it sounds thirsty as fuck.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 12:08 PM
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I get frustrated at how many people think 'be yourself' is mutually exclusive to self improvement. It's not, you can be you and improve, we all do it. Being yourself means maintaining your core values and sticking by them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 02:20 AM
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Can't CYV. it's a ridiculous revenge fantasy by losers. The only women with something to worry about is prostitutes, it would take some of that market away. Why do men insist on pursuing women now rather than just pay for escorts? Because it's more than a physical release. It's emotional validation, it's ego validation about your own attractiveness and dare I say it's the romance of seducing a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 09:10 AM
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Lots of women are already remove themselves from the dating pool. But it's just like MGTOWs, only the least desirable give up on relationships. So it doesn't affect me/majority of men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 09:05 AM
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Regardless of your hamster, women don't want to get divorced. Most marriages fail, but most people are inept at maintaining relationships. Don't hamster away all the marriages that do succeed and either last for people's whole lives or end mutually and amicably. No woman wants to be a single mom or single in their 40s. That is a major loss of status for them. Women judge each other based on their family, among females the highest status is to be married to your children's biological father who i…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 02:47 AM
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not really. After I was satisfied with my own attractiveness and success I could see a lot of things from their side that previously I only viewed from my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 12:26 PM
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Of course becoming more attractive is important (which is not exclusive to red pill). My comment is more about how RP views the nature of women. When I lost the frustration it was easy to stop holding girl's behavior to such a high standard. Girls hurt me in the past, and I saw lots of examples that fit the RP framework. But lots of those girls were struggling with their own emotions just like me, had emotional immaturity just like me and I'm sure they would have liked things to go better as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 12:24 PM
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I've had the same thought. RP wasn't around when I was a teen, but if it was it would have really spoke to me. When I wasn't successful with girls, it was easy to view their motives as selfish and their behavior poor and untrustworthy The older and more successful I became with girls, the more bluepill I became. Once successful with girls I found them much more trustworthy and loyal and their motivations no better or worse than mens
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 10:20 AM
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Seriously recommend putting effort to bringing in more money than saving what you have. Saving has a limit and extreme diminishing results and it also impact your quality of life. No matter how tight you are nobody becomes wealthy on minimum wage
/r/askTRP07/07/16 05:08 AM
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I'm also an engineer, making money in that range since early-mid 20s. The advice I'll give is get into a permanent role even if it is low paid or hard work, then start applying for jobs you're 70%-80% qualified/ready to do. You will land one eventually if you are persistent, and within 6-12 months of doing the job, you get to a point where you feel you belong there. Once you're comfortable in the position, look for the next role you are nearly ready for. The good news is you don't work harder th…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:00 AM
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How could have been in China for that long but still know nothing about Chinese culture? You are ignoring plenty of major downsides of Asia/Asian girls my LTR is Chinese, and the cultural difference works for us. But there is plenty of downside. It's not for everybody.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 09:10 AM
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I'd recommend a couple things -Look for evidence of him being either short term orientated or long term orientated. Does he follow through things start to finish, does he have evidence of long term achievements? -How does he treat people when he is not obliged to be nice. It's already been mentioned to pay attention how he treats service staff. I think it's a good indication in both men and women their general attitude towards how they feel about people, are they negative or positive people. -Ho…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/16 07:10 AM
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Any guy who writes on the internet about being an alpha is engaging in some pretty pathetic validation seeking behaviour. Not sure why this post is downvoted
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 03:37 AM
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who gives a fuck about how some girl gets her kicks? Forget the retarded revenge fantasy and go enjoy your own life
/r/askTRP03/07/16 08:59 AM
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Nobody cares if you or MGTOWs have a marriage strike because you are low value men who wouldn't be considered for marriage anyway. It's like making demands to eskimos with the threat of refusing to supply them with snow
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 07:32 AM
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guy in the second picture would be 180-190 at the most (assuming he is tall) and has a realistic/achievable physique for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 10:42 AM
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My partner is high educated, she believes it boosts her attractiveness but it is completely attraction neutral. If I am listing the things I like about her or what attracts me to her, it wouldn't even get a mention.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/16 01:14 PM
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I don't get the point of this experiment. It's not surprising the only girls that liked you were white. Tinder is not used and is extremely obscure in Asia. And there are stronger social stigmas around dating apps (although general social apps like WeChat are very commonly used for dating)
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 10:03 AM
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I partially agree. I've known girls who were virgins deep into their 20s and were really lonely and physically attractive. They just didn't have the social skills, opportunities (limited social circle) or confidence to make anything happen. There are millions of potential happy couples that will never happen. I have plenty of sympathy for those girls, but their situation is quite different from male incels who are incapable of generating any kind of desire from women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 03:29 AM
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It's a strong case for the value of having high expectations and belief in the people in your life.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 03:12 AM
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Based on looks alone I agree. Based on the complete package I dont
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 11:09 PM
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Not designed for them, but it needs them there as role models
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 10:53 PM
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Why does it have to be rp or nothing? Theres far more options than that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 10:40 PM
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They learn. But the whole point of my thread is for a person who has learned, it's no longer an attractive place to spend your time. the mechanic that can fix cars isn't hanging out with the broken car club where everybody whinges that all cars are broken anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 12:54 PM
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It is not either/or, it is both. You should be self improving, and learning how you are received by different groups of people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 10:34 AM
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I agree that naturally brilliant people show less insight to their success. But even people who have done really well in life but were serious late bloomers would struggle to participate frequently in TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 10:30 AM
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What I am saying is you don't go to get your car fixed from a community of people with broken cars
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 10:26 AM
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Not at all. One 9/10 woman might rate you a 4/10, another 9/10 woman might rate you a 10/10. Find out who is receptive to what you offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 08:25 AM
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It's pretty much the blue pill 'just be yourself'. I think if people were more self aware they'd see it's not entirely bad advice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 06:57 AM
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It's not acting like Ghandi. It is abundance mentality. If you break up, you want her to go on with her life, because you plan to get on with yours
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 12:05 PM
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But there's nothing to counter. You don't gain anything or better your own life by hurting others, so why do it? This is the revenge fantasy of a guy who has 0 success with women.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 07:15 AM
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Just be straight forward. If you're breaking up you have nothing to gain or lose by playing games. Be a decent person, be nice and respectful but be direct and honest. Ghosting or trying to hurt somebody in a breakup is a weak thing to do.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 05:49 AM
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His whole monologue was so awkward I had to take a break half way through.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 12:58 PM
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Exactly my thoughts. I understand wanting to be child free, but they miss out on a major human experience. Even if it's hard or expensive or whatever other justification has been used in this thread, the most worthwhile experiences we get as people are the ones we work at or cause adversity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 05:18 AM
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Some people are there for reasons beyond improving themselves. Boredom, upvotes, hocking t-shirts. But I mostly agree. I'm interested/curious about a lot of the topics in PPD and TRP, but after a few threads I am 'pill fatigued' and barely care. I think it would be very difficult to simultaneously be satisfied with your life and discuss the common themes/topics daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 10:39 AM
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I've had merged finances with my ltr for the last 7 years, it's worked out really well, we haven't fought once about anything financial. I wouldn't give out allowances though, it's patronizing. We can both buy what we want, there's no policing. We trust each other to be mature with the money
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 04:15 AM
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I agree. Simplest advice I can give is focus on earning more rather than spending less. Most the advice in this thread will keep somebody out of debt, but won't make you wealthy, nor will provide the lifestyle or living quality most people want to achieve
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 08:51 AM
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If you're a positive part of people's lives, people can't 'turn public opinion against you' they turn it against themselves by speaking bad of somebody that people like.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 01:07 PM
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Who gives a shit? This piece is so sensitive about what others think about your lifestyle. Why is there any need to justify why somebody won't approve of your life? Let them Why refer to women and betas as 'enemies on the journey' they're not either. They're your allies, not your competition.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 09:13 AM
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They're far more practical about relationships. If you have good social status and a well paying white collar job girls will like you. Relationships are highly transactional. The higher her social class, the greater her expectations, which is why just being western is good enough in poorer Asia but not in wealthy asia They act more traditional in a relationship, and take good care of you. But you are expected to be traditional also.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 03:00 AM
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It's below beta. if you need to guard her, she's not yours in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 01:51 AM
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It's pretty immature to be considering how different university degrees will effect your sex life. Besides, no girl is going to be into you then change her mind because you're studying engineering, that just doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 07:47 AM
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because faster, efficiency etc aren't what you are trying to offer. The value in the product comes from it's humanity
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 12:01 PM
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Because of economics? google welfare economics and understand it. More efficient use of resources creates a bigger GDP pie to eat from. Even if it is sliced disproportionately, the owners of capital want return on their money and do so by reinvesting into other companies which creates more demand for labor. The skills required from that labor will change, but the demand will rise. Also as cantletthatstand has said below, all historical evidence shows technological advancements create jobs. This …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 11:16 AM
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see my reply to Blaat below. Service orientated jobs will never be automated because you are paying explicitly for the human interaction
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 11:13 AM
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There will be a stronger demand for service orientated jobs, which CANNOT be automated. For example personal trainers were almost non-existent 20 years ago, now they are common and will never be automated. Chefs have become far more prestigious during our lifetime and will never be automated. etc
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 11:12 AM
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I used to work as an automation engineer, and the sales pitch was always 'this robot can replace x amount of workers'. It was their job or mine. But it's not true to say automation is bad. It's bad if you rely on holding down a low skilled job which can be automated. But it creates more by using less resources. And thus increases the purchasing power of the overall population. This wealth doesn't just sit in a hole, if it is in a bank or whatever it is reinvested in stocks of other companies whi…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 05:56 AM
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The idea that the data for cohabitation vs marriage is evidence of afbb is just about the longest bow ever drawn. Maybe culteral differences became apparent after cohabitating, who knows, you need more information to infer anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 03:32 AM
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I kind of agree. If you asked me as an unsuccessful teenager about rp ideas I'd agree with it all without reservation. But as I became more successful, the less I agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 02:25 AM
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20 year old, not even close. Even if you can become more attractive by 30, having access and opportunities with that many young single girls becomes harder. Add on that the complexity of expectation of commitment which increases as you age
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 11:08 AM
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Individualism vs collectivism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 10:23 PM
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They say its for making fun on red pill, it is actually for being outraged at red pill (or anything not feminist)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 08:49 PM
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I agree with all your points, but I can offer a couple of counter points. Women are judged harsher for being single later in life than a man. It comes from a man having more options to define himself, where society will judge a woman's family as an extension of themselves. Secondly, although women and men can both make a living. For most people, doing so is a burden and not an advantage. Not many of us are working our dream job, we're tolerating it as a means to other things. A man is expected t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 06:55 AM
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Your tin foil hat is on too tight, it might have cut off the blood to your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 08:33 AM
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People managed to survive before social media likes. I think the world will keep spinning
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 04:26 AM
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The law (at least in the western world) protects a woman's economic entitlements in the case of a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 05:47 AM
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Yeah, nailed it. I was about to post something similar. It's not a threat because leaving the relationship is a lawful thing to do, it's a man's right to have conditions to his commitment. A threat would be 'if you don't do X, I will do Y' where Y is not a lawful thing (ie bodily harm, take resources/finances away illegally, illegally violate privacy).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 05:46 AM
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I agree with the macro comment. Feminism and relationships is like unionised labor/collective bargaining
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 11:01 AM
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Men arent picky enough, so they refuse to next a girl who is into toxic identity politics. Maybe they should control their thirst It's perfectly reasonable for girls to next a guy because of his association with trp if she has a problem with it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 03:21 AM
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if you've never kissed a girl, it isn't called 'going monk mode' it's called 'incel mode'. You have to be giving something up to be a monk
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 12:10 PM
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The greatest advantage to men in the dating market is they are judged holistically, and there are so many avenues to increase our attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 10:44 PM
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I don't know much about RPW but I think it is misunderstood and incorrectly associated with TRP. As in, people assume they are women who date or want to date red pill guys. I don't think so, they are girls who want high betas or natural alphas / warm alphas They don't have the same goals. But they are both about understanding the forces and mechanics to the dating market and using that to get what they want. But the relationships TRP and RPW are aiming for are totally different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 06:35 AM
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I'm not even red pill and I wouldn't. Every normal person believes and supports equality. But if a girl starts self identifying as a feminist and participating in identity politics, I picture a tumblr account, fluro died hair, loud obnoxious confrontational personality and betty boop tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 06:23 AM
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They hate when girls are seemingly sleeping with every man... except for them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 11:03 AM
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Well, if I was with a girl and found out she had a tumblr account about identity politics. I'd be out of there fast. So I can empathize in that way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 03:28 AM
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Some dudes need mandatory theory breaks where you go outside and communicate with real people for some perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 03:10 AM
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Huh? I didn't call him alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 04:05 AM
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I don't think success and anger are sustainable. If you're on top of your game, you'll get what you want, it may be spinning plates or wife and kids. But if you get the results you want from the other sex, it's impossible to remain angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 03:00 AM
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There's a wide range of "nice guys" and red pillers. Are we talking about the warm alpha chad who still visits his grandma, or Elliot roger supreme gentlemen. Are we talking about a yoked guy who is career orientated or a whiny kid who posts on reddit everyday about how all women are inferior?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 02:54 AM
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I keep a decent size reef fish tank, and that branches into a minor interest in photography also. I like gardening, growing vegetables. Travel several times a year, so spend a lot of time researching the world or planning another trip. Play videogames in my downtime, but im not a gamer, 90% of the time it will be super nintendo or some other game 15-25 years old, dont really enjoy new games. Do a lot of sport and excercise, but feels more like part of my routine than a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 10:40 PM
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yeah sure, being right is worth being stabbed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 09:28 AM
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regardless of whose fault it is, it doesn't change that somebody got unnecessarily hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 09:19 AM
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The Brit didn't exactly look like he is confident or willing to fight. So verbally escalating wasn't in his interests. Regardless, it's a bad idea to escalate period. If you didn't start the fight, and kick his ass. You're still going to have a worse day than if you just chill and leave when you can without fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 08:17 AM
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Dude, the racist language isn't cool. Anyway, the British did the right thing. Why would you escalate a conflict with a stranger over nothing? Getting in a fist fight in a foreign country is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 08:08 AM
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I confess, I only live up to half of my name
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 02:11 AM
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Fundude not living up to his name
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 12:36 AM
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I'm engaged, purple pill, non religious, 29 year old man. Nothing is ideal, because ideally I could live multiple lives moving in different directions. Instead we need to choose the best of our options which is what I've done and made the most of. We're both high educated professionals. I make a higher income. She does pretty much all domestic work, but I'm happy to share as much as she wants. We've pooled our money together from near the beggining of our relationship, our financial position has…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 10:01 PM
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it doesnt matter if they have an inflated SMV. It's like being upset somebody is trying to sell a 2nd hand Toyota for 100k. They will either let it sit on the market forever or reduce the price to what somebody is willing to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 01:07 AM
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Just walk. There's nothing to prove and no lessons to teach
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 03:08 AM
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Just the politically incorrect ones I will judge a girl on her sexual past I will judge on weight I'm likely (but not always) to avoid girls who self identify as femenists. It's ok if they believe in core femenism (and so do I) but a girl who identifies as a femenist comes with relationship hangups/baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 10:49 PM
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Everybody is free to pursue the relationships they want, even if some people get left behind. Shaming doesn't work, nor is it ok. This is a different side of the same coin of guys who complain they can't get laid because girls are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 04:05 AM
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So your definition of the cock carousel is a woman who has ever had sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 03:14 AM
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Not really. Some, sure. But in all my social circles, the most attractive girls settle early or show preference for LTRs. It really depends where you are looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 01:10 AM
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For the record, most girls (not all, but most) will settle with a guy of similar SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 12:52 AM
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I'm pretty fit but not big. 6'2 and 185 with ok definition. Work out 4 times a week for roughly an hour, pretty balanced exercise, no intention to get yoked, eat very lean, good foods daily, mostly thanks to my SO who does all the cooking. In my late teens/early 20s I was as skinny as 6'2 and 130 so it's a major difference
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 11:47 PM
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They're entitled to have whatever standards they want. But not entitled to success with those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 10:52 PM
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You underestimate the strain that cultural difference puts on a relationship. Also, contrary to red pill beliefs, less educated and cultured women are MORE difficult to cooperate with. But what you're actually asking is if it is better to have a structured power difference so that the girl is completely dependent on you. It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 05:53 AM
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I'm a man of the same generation. And I knew, even when I was 12 if I had a fitter body, things would be better, I grew up in the action movie era ffs. I knew if I were more confident, smart, suave and successful things would be better. Only somebody with a severe mental disability can get away with claiming they didn't realize that until they were browsing the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 06:34 AM
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So he's saying the difference between mainstream self improvement and redpill is bitterness. Men who self improve and remain as positive influences and role models are by far better leaders, more 'alpha' and have a better world/life experience. So redpill embrace poorer results due to differentiating their insular little community. That's fine, it fits a purpose. Like minded jaded men to bond. But RP claims to be results orientated. This is clearly feels over reals
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 05:37 AM
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29m in ltr
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 03:04 AM
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Thoroughly agree. When guys talk about a girl dating an 'asshole', there's a good chance that guy is just as nice or nicer as a person than the one criticizing him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 07:05 AM
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Seriously. Normal people don't do this. Normal people don't find pleasure in making fun of "betas" behind their back.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:52 AM
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Imo there's some major analysis paralysis here. Take a break from thinking how women should behave in theory and get some 'in the moment' experiences with real people. Most people find a way to fumble into adulthood and build meaningful relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:18 AM
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i dunno. Most the hate for TRP is due to what is said under the guise of "the anger phase"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 06:32 AM
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implementation is where TRP and wider world split apart quite dramatically. You could have also said there's a gap in the comment 'get fit' between mainstream (get fit) and TRP (get as yoked as humanly possible)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 04:51 AM
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Be nice to strangers. It's good for them and you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 09:58 PM
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Take a look in the mirror, give an honest score. That's the level of girl you can attract consistently
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 09:55 PM
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Red in some ways, blue in others. Less than 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 09:53 PM
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You're conflating secure woman and stubborn bitch. it's not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 11:17 AM
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Men are rated based on the pool of eligible men. Alphas represent the elite men. If men as some kind of hive mind collectively attempted to raise their status simultaneously the standards for what constitutes an alpha male would raise accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 07:46 AM
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An important part of maturity is making peace with the world the way it is. Then make the best out of your own life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 12:47 AM
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Sounds like the ladder theory which buzzed around the internet over 10 years ago. Which for any internet historians is an interesting prequel to red pill theory
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 12:38 AM
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It's not a problem that should be solved on a societal level. Body autonomy and freedom of preference and expression is important It should be solved by individuals. If they dont get what they want from the SMP they have 2 options, reduce their price (standards) or increase their worth (smv)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 01:18 AM
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In my own experience it matters a lot. You can sugar coat it by saying they care about the good career not the money, but in the end they mean the same thing. I was a full time university student that stacked shelves at a supermarket for my bachelor's degree. Returned to study a master's part time while working as an engineering manager a couple years later, and how I was treated by the same demographic of girls changed massively.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 11:11 PM
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lol. what is this shit? People travel for fun. Is this saying any girl who had fun while single has set her expectations too high for being with a dude? How fucking boring or useless is a guy who can't be captivating to a woman because she's been out of her backyard?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 12:14 PM
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what does it matter? You don't need to frame every situation as alpha or beta. Shit happens, if you're not doing well, get whatever you need to fix yourself in motion
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 12:10 PM
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I was cringing so hard reading those lines I had to take a break and come back to it. There's 2 answers to this. Either say 'yeah, cool, he must be lucky' then keep hitting on her, or react like it's stupid of her to bring it up 'why are you telling me this? I'm not asking you out, we're just talking', then continue hitting on her But sometimes, it's just your queue to bail and find the next girl. who gives a shit.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 11:46 AM
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There's no magic bullet answer. Shaming tactics aren't the sole thing keeping Asia thinner than the west. And things like penetration of fast food and urbanization will make a difference, which is the case for the 2 countries you posted. Also specifically to China the one child policy plays some role, where traditionally the eldest son is babied (little emperor) and the other children are much spoiled. One kid per family is a game changer, and parents are less likely to be as harsh as before. It…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 10:01 AM
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Its a huge part of it. In Asian culture its socially acceptable to fat shame, and they do, brutally. The Asians are thin by genetics thing is a myth, those girls are policed on their weight by their mothers from a early early age.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 10:26 PM
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My dad is pretty much the red pill prototype. Low education, focused his energy on getting jacked (lol) married young, cheated on my mum with who knows how many girls. My mum was emotionally abusive and toxic. They broke up. My mum is a crazy cat lady, my dad is mid 50s still trying to spin plates. I honestly feel theyre both miserable losers and the lesson i got was what not to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 10:20 PM
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Its the same as girls, a girl has to meet a minimum benchmark or preference in terms of looks, the rest is behaviour. Red pill commonly judges women by things unrelated to looks like submission and N count
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 10:14 PM
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I dont know what sigma is, but yes. Girl groups are actually pretty hierarchal. Theres constant politics and manervouring, its just not as overt as men. Introduce a new girl to an existing one and watch happens. So group has a mother hen (alpha) and the follows (betas) Omegas are cat ladies or tom boys without female friend circles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 10:12 PM
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Lol. I think thats all that needs to be said. Im not really sure how he got from A then B then C then K then Z
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 10:08 PM
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whole idea is obviously silly, and such a system wouldn't be determined by genetics anyway. Is Kim Jong Un genetically superior to other North Koreans? Then why is he so powerful?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 05:00 AM
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Well covered, I agree. OP is juvenile. And once you start making and spending decent money, it is not practical to deal in cash anymore. Not to mention to opportunity cost for having a mattress stuffed with money that's doing nothing for you.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 10:32 PM
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I believe in red pill as much as SMP dynamics are fundamentally what drives relationships, and attraction and pair bonding instincts are not too far removed from other animals. I seperate from the red pill because i believe civilized society can and should control and master over many of our basic instincts. For example, we are wired to consume as many calories as possible because we evolved with food scarcity before farming, but we shouldn't continue this now. I also don't believe in resentment…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 09:46 PM
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If she's as hot and popular as you say freezing her out as some posters have advised won't work, she will just get attention elsewhere. Instead agree her 6 month rule is cool. Then proceed to seduce/arouse her as normal. If shes attracted she'll break her rule (sometimes immediately)
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 01:44 AM
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I have a lot of experience in China. What the OP says is pretty much true. A few additions. Game counts for very little. They have a very efficient way of hooking up. If you meet enough genetic and social class criteria you succeed, if you don't, you fail. It's a big reason why Chinese hit you with a list of personal questions as soon as you meet them, everybody is sizing each other up. It's also why luxury brands are so successful in China, people make extreme efforts to signal higher social cl…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 09:11 AM
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you can only marry one person at a time. So unless there's a huge gender imbalance the market is fair and balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 11:46 PM
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There is no problem with how things are. The SMP finds its selling/buying price the same as any market place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 10:40 PM
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Haha, looks like she was trying to evoke that response from the bear. But it didn't give an f. Bear is a Chad
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 03:53 AM
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Lol, feel bad for you if your instincts responded to this banshee. Most dudes would be on the bears side this time
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 03:48 AM
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I agree. It's not about physical release it's about their place on the social heirarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 03:03 AM
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I completely agree with all your post. I have a disconnect where they feel revenge on random people is a rational or connected recourse for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 12:45 AM
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I gave my reasons for why it happened also without claiming women created this monster and I don't think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 12:28 AM
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'we don't support this but.....'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 12:19 AM
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"winning" is less about who is right and more about who has dominance in a relationship. Girls will defend indefensible positions if they feel they are higher smv than you, and apologize over anything (and mean it) if they feel they have lower smv
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 12:04 AM
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I'm surprised even in a more moderate corner of the internet like this there's still people lining up to justify this. Women have 0 responsibility for this person's path. It's a combination of a culture that encourages a victim mindset, is inherently entitled and has easy access to dangerous tools. He felt like he was entitled to the life he wanted, which he isn't. He felt that made him a victim, which it doesn't. And he felt revenge is a legitimate recourse for being a victim. It's not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 11:08 PM
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Well, im in my late 20s and in a ltr, i personally dont care. But for any aging dudes, in this case the red pill is right, actions speak louder than words, and in the wider world, men do well on the dating market as they age
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 09:43 PM
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sound well adjusted to me, good to go!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 12:45 PM
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there's more to it than money. If you think that's the only thing you gain as you age, I pity you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 12:19 PM
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there's more to it than money. If you think that's the only thing you gain as you age, I pity you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 12:19 PM
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you needa log off the internet and get your mental health in check bro. If you can't find anything you appreciate or like about women, it's not them with the problem, it's you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 09:52 AM
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It's hard to put in black and white terms unless you're cold approaching strangers just with the purpose of sex in mind, which not that many men actually do. You only outright get rejected if you overreach normal social cues. You meet new people all the time without intentions. If you can read simple social cues you'll know if making an effort to pursue her sexually is worth your time. And your success as a ratio will be extremely high. It's not strictly a numbers game, it's about being percepti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 05:28 AM
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I was with him even through that, but even at 23 a dude shouldn't be bragging about a 7 year old car and "swiss watch" which is probably a $200 swatch. Lol. But real, fake or exaggerated, I found this story pretty fun.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 04:43 AM
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I agree. I think men's attractiveness peaks in his late 20s. But by our cultural standards, men have more opportunities than women accrue non physical attractive qualities. These values are easier to gain as we age, which stops a total crash in our dating value once we start to wrinkle and gray.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 04:38 AM
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Socialization against the exploitation of teens is an important part of civilized society. They still get plenty of opportunities to mess up their life in adulthood
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 12:17 AM
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Im not even convinced many men are cognizant of the downside of being a man. They're certainly not good at prioritising or communicating it. But this thread does prove the OP's point. There's a few users here who show contempt for even discussing the male experience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 11:35 PM
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Neither of you are showing much empathy for the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 11:02 PM
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This post and the replies are sad and funny. Ffs, go outside and look. There is an overwhelming amount of peoplle in long term relationships, and despite bitter red pill hmastering, theyre not all miserable or just there for beta bux. If so many people can achieve it, you can too. Dont worry about competing with 6'5 CEOs, lift your game to compete with at least an average Joe
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 09:48 PM
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Honestly, both the above posts are bad answers and most girls will see right through it. You may as well wear a sign that says 'overcompensating'. As long as you keep your cool when you answer it's not a big deal. If the question messes with your frame it will show. If you don't emotionally react to it or react slightly playful and just say 'yeah, only have a little experience' or 'i don't have that much experience' you'll send signals you are trying to downplay your experience rather than exagg…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 07:45 AM
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This is a great post and touches on 2 of the biggest problems there The need to follow the narrative AT ALL COSTS, constructive thought that adds to or challenges the existing narrative is not welcome. and 2, the cult of identity, who says it counts for more than what is said
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/15 07:33 AM
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You're using male evaluation criteria to judge women. It doesn't work like that. 'doesn't lift like you'??? that's like a girl looking down on a 10/10 man because he 'doesn't have as good tits as me'
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:51 AM
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Then start small. Focus on getting out, dressing as if you did have something to do. Hold down a job you can manage and take pride in your work. It will generate confidence so the next step is less daunting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 01:35 AM
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Well, I'm not really rp, I just empathize with the theory. In real life people would consider me a natural, but I see myself as a late bloomer. I was a bit of an invisable guy until my early 20s. I built confidence through achievements and it snowballed. I started by getting a good job (engineer) which gave me money which I used to travel and take up hobbies which made me more confident and interesting which lead to me coming out of my shell and future successes. Simple goals grow into bigger th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 01:22 AM
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Of course you can man. Learn ways to develop your social toolbox, then live the lifestyle you want to live
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 01:02 AM
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You are right, and in the same boat as many on trp. It's about building self esteem and social power more than sex. Otherwise trp theory would focus around getting value for money with sex workers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 12:55 AM
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I'm not doubting your accomplishments man. But you can see how simple it is to exaggerate or lie. If you're going to compare yourself with others. better to go outside. Only millionaire supermen on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 01:05 PM
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there are a lot of serious geeks over there. And a lot of users that talk a big game they obviously can't back up, but it's the internet so.... i dunno... who cares? Take all field reports or bragging with a grain of salt unless proven otherwise. People either state, exaggerate or lie about themselves and their achievements to try to make their argument more credible. It might be true, maybe not. You've done the same thing in your OP after all. Just ignore that part of their writing and judge wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 12:43 PM
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It's your right to screen girls based on whatever criteria you want, no argument from me. But I don't believe in the black boogieman like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 03:48 AM
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You can learn something about about a girl by the quality of a woman's previous partners. But it's nothing about if they were black or not. You're insecure about your package, you can overcome your own shortcoming
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 03:28 AM
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Everything we do is a cost/benefit calculation. Sometimes consciously, sometimes not. It's a life skill to get it right and balance risk and reward. But without doubt most people are too risk adverse and conservative in their actions. Remember sometimes there is risk in not taking any risk. The risk is often complacency.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 03:04 AM
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Women seek to date up in material success as that study shows. Nothing controversial there. But they are not as opportunistic as trp portrays them. Additionally everything we do is a cost/benefit analysis. how secure is the branch swing? Is the grass truely greener? How will this impact me logistically (marriage, living arrangements), how will it impact me socially? People also consider (even overvalue) sunk cost such as the length of the relationship they are in. Women are more risk adverse tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 10:54 PM
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heh. I admit, I'd be fascinated by a 'this is what the red pill looks like' trend. But I'd expect it to be the same as feminism a mix of attractive and unattractive. The 'this is feminism' pics showed there's a few attractive ones like you posted, but also the exact ones you'd expect to be feminists; obese chicks with died blue hair and Betty Boop tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 12:31 PM
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hahahaha yes. so true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 07:53 AM
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I agree. This is a copy/paste of a comment i made on a similar thread earlier this week Alpha and beta are not mutually exclusive. You can have alpha and beta traits simultaneously. Just because you are kind and generous doesnt mean you are not confident and assertive etc. This is a massive oversight by TRP. Firstly guys think if they simply remove beta traits they become alpha since in their view they are opposite. But in reality if you stop being "nice" without increasing your alpha characteri…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 07:40 AM
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I agree with singlewoman. Red pill teaches 'to be alpha, don't be beta', but stop acting beta by itself doesn't make you an alpha male.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 03:20 AM
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I spent a while working in robotics, we made automated solutions for agriculture and manufacturing industry. Part of the sales package we pitched to prospective customers was the net present worth calculations based on how many workers they could make redundant. It was the basic selling point. But if they kept their job, me and our suppliers would have lost ours. It's a dog eat dog world. Robots are bad for low skilled workers but create massive job opportunities for skilled workers. As we becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 05:26 AM
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Fake tits look terrible. Surgeon almost always ducks up the nipple placement making them look like googley-eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 05:59 AM
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This is stupid, you've clearly had very little experience with women. Women are extremely territorial. They never want you spending time with other girls, guys get away with it because the girl's perception is your smv is far superior to hers and thinks they won't do better (ie aversion to becoming an alpha widow) You can have a ltr without oneitus or cheating. You just have to set boundaries on your expectations of her and project you are confident and willing to turn your back if they mess up.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 03:54 AM
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Imo alpha and beta are not mutually exclusive. You can have alpha and beta traits simultaneously. Just because you are kind and generous doesnt mean you are not confident and assertive etc. This is a massive oversight by TRP. Firstly guys think if they simply remove beta traits they become alpha since in their view they are opposite. But in reality if you stop being "nice" without increasing your alpha characteristics you just become a socially awkward weirdo. Similarly if you already shownstron…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 09:44 PM
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It happens in any echo chamber that avoids challenge from outside views. Hell, it's not only outside views that aren't welcome. Any views at all that don't fit the narrative aren't. Doesn't help the most extreme and ridiculous posts normally come from endorsed members. And they are pushing for a culture of seniority over content and intellect. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3k8uxw/roles_respect_and_responsibility_acceptance_as_an/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 09:46 AM
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I think they often are so deep in their own echo chamber and theory they forget to take a breath, log off, go outside and see the world for what it is. And despite claiming to be about the logical dissection of the logic behind sex and dating, most of the posts are about either venting or bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 12:25 PM
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You make the assumption 50k jobs are more enjoyable. They rarely are.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 01:10 PM
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'Fucks' aren't some resource that we can collect or invest in. It's stupid to treat it so utilitarian. A lot of it is the confidence, admiration, esteem you generate by seducing a woman. If it's just about blowing a load, jerking off is free
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 01:04 PM
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It's likely because they are familiar with American culture and believe splitting the bill is the culturally polite thing to do, the more familiar and confident they become with you, the less willing they will be to pay. Reddthrown is right, old fashioned women have old fashioned expectations of men
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 01:00 PM
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Good luck with it man, hope it works out as you hoped. Like a couple posters in this thread, I've had a similar experience. I was dirt poor, I mean comically poor, pretty much a poor student stereotype. Went from working part time for 10-15k through uni to over 100k within 2 years of graduating. I'm late 20s now and not crazy rich but doing very well. It doesn't work out for everybody. burn outs are really common for people in their 20s in high paid jobs. And a lot of others find the money isn't…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 12:41 PM
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There are plenty of good women in Asia and Eastern Europe. And western guys who are losers in their home countries do get a boost in their value abroad. But guys who are naive and think these girls are ideal are idiots and will get hurt. Things that are too good to be true are. Also, "old fashioned" women have "old fashioned" expectations of their partners, which a lot of these men aren't willing or able to provide
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 09:00 AM
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More exposure/experience with direct conflict rather than indirect conflict
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 04:02 AM
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Very good reply. Actually, most replies here have been solid. I'm curious how this thread would go down @ TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:59 AM
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What really blew me away is how strong the support he got in the comments. Autism overload in that thread. So much of it is like a parody of itself Also, the parallels between this post and defense of any criticism to how tumblr feminists operate are too strong to ignore
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 09:03 AM
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be your best self. Even if you change, you are still yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 12:07 PM
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In the end, water finds it's own level
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 01:08 AM
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Girls love nice guys, but attraction is still a non-negotiable. Also, a guy describing himself as 'nice' is much like a girl describing herself as hot. Very frequently self deluded
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 01:06 AM
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Because feminism isn't primarily a movement for women. It is a leftist movement. And given a choice to support left politics vs a woman, left politics wins every time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 12:32 AM
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You act entitled. Make peace with the world the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:09 PM
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If you are so utilitarian in 'reaching a goal'. You might need to consider what the goal actually is. Every decision you make is your brain performing a cost-benefit analysis. You might get stronger on roids. But they have their own cost. Even something as simple as the self esteem from doing something the hard way might be reason enough to sacrifice some strength. And that too can be strategic. It's not the most strategic way to get huge. But what if that isn't the only goal you measure yoursel…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:57 AM
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i agree man. they've internalized the theory too much without experience. Any dude who has experience with LTRs knows, you can be vulnerable sometimes, as long as it is in moderation.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 12:36 PM
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Just want to correct you on materialism. Asian culture is status driven, goes back to Confucius principles and is still strong today. Asian chicks will starve themselves to save money to buy a $2000 handbag. good looking Asian girls have way higher financial expectations than white girls Also, on submission. They are will 'appear' that way to others when you meet as a couple. But they are matriarchs of the highest order behind closed doors
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 09:22 AM
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Mechatronics engineering, studied from 2004-2008
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 10:02 AM
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I am an engineer and agree with this. I did it because I wanted to make money. If you want to spin it in terms of red pill theory, talk about utility of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 09:23 AM
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I am an engineer and never had to do any of that crap
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 09:19 AM
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I was waiting for the part where he tells us taking steroids lets you walk on water and telepathically communicate with animals
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 12:30 PM
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As long as its in moderation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 02:07 AM
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Im with you, OP. And the more i read trp the more i feel it is self help for autists. A couple examples in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 02:04 AM
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You are exactly the overcompensating person described bt the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 02:00 AM
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Both are important in different ways, its not simple to prioritise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:13 AM
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RP should be inclusive, open minded and not tied down by doctrine. Only what is effective and what isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:58 AM
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Nice guys who are attractive quickly get tied up in LTRs or marriage. Its true for the majority of my peers. So while they do exist, they dont have a long shelf life on the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:55 AM
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I thoroughly agree. Im a regular dude who never had problems with women or maintaining relationships, ive lurked both pills for a couple weeks and found red pill theory is pretty consistent with what ive learned through my own relationships. Most of it resonates strongly on some level. But the majority of redpill userbase are obviously inexperienced yet writing tutorials about stuff they havent experienced, writing field reports that are difficult to believe actually happened, bitterness over se…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:52 AM
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They want somebody nice, who is also attractive in other ways. Not rocket science. Its a criteria, not the only one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:34 AM
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As in your post, for a long time she graded herself the same way she judges men. If you asked her what makes her a good partner she'd talk about her education and salary. She 'gets it' much more now that those things arent as important as she thought but still considers it unfair that she is judged superficially compared with men. Which i agree, it is unfair, but thats still the way it is. Girls with phds or big salaries often think it boosts them from a 5/10 to a 8/10 or whatever. Truth is they…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 05:05 AM
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Red pill theories by themselves are pretty accurate, or at least informative. But the amount of redpill users who understand and apply them correctly are outnumbered by those that dont. even worse nobody challenges them about it. Dont get me started on the wieners that convince themselves that becoming aware of sexual strategy automatically makes them an 'alpha' (another very poorly understood concept)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 02:15 AM
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This is exactly what i came here to write. My partner is high achieving, it doesnt make her more attractive but does make her a better choice for raising my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 01:31 AM
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Fact this post is only 53% upvoted is pretty strong evidence of the disconnect between redpill theories and the users who use this board.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 04:11 AM
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well then, i guess it is settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 10:12 AM
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Women have some behavioral patterns that overlap with each other and other's that don't. The way I see the red pill use AWALT is an extreme form of confirmation bias. Woman does something bad? AWALT!!!! It's compounded by the fact most red pillers spend more time reading about women online than actually socialising or forming relationships with them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 07:48 AM
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overwhelming majority
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 02:31 AM
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The toxic part is the black and white approach towards AWALT and AF/BB, both are serious redpill hamstering that can be easily disproven by turning off the computer and going outside. It is confirmation bias gone mad. Silly stuff like 'don't get married, 50% of marriages fail, AWALT', while ignoring that they're simultaneously implying that 50% of marriages succeed. And if they are so aware of social strategy/management, why aren't they confident of having the tools to maintain a successful marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 01:10 AM
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probably 10% are straight truth, another 40% are exaggerated truth and half were conjured up without ever leaving the keyboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 01:01 AM
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There's no point rationalizing it to argue it. It doesn't need to be rational or logical. The point is men are free to their own preferences. What women want them to prefer doesn't matter, what women think is logical/rational doesn't matter. Goes both ways. Guys don't get a say over if girls like tall/rich/athletic/whatever guys, it's not up to them, their opinion is worthless on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 01:05 PM
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For a community OBSESSED with what is 'alpha' and what is 'beta', I'm not convinced they have a good grasp of what it actually is. Their definition of alpha is stuck in highschool tropes. Men who are/were true leaders of men, by large majority married and had children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 08:08 AM
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I don't get why you care about their criticism so much if you really are as awesome as you say. Also, it is your assumption they call you a douchebag for the reasons listed. Who knows how you actually behave to them.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:04 AM
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Could work if you are the legitimate 10/10. Otherwise you'll just price yourself out of the market Points 1, 2, 4, 5, 10 are creating hurdles for him to jump that other girls won't put a guy through. Guys who are attractive, have alternatives themselves and won't bother, only the less attractive men will jump through the hoops. I agree with points such as 6 and 8 though. It requires no investment from the guy and you can screen effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 01:02 PM
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Betas dont have any more career success now than they did 5000 years ago. Those with strong masculinity still assert themselves into leadership positions (management) and have significantly more career success than weaker men. If you dont have strong career trajectory you're probably not as alpha as you think.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 04:08 AM
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