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bonerjamsfap/r/seduction17/10/14 02:56 PM
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bonerjamsfap/r/seduction23/09/14 05:39 AM
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I had a lot of success on Tinder, sounds like you haven't. Nothing wrong with what you're saying it's just aggro and one sided.
/r/seduction14/02/17 04:54 AM
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This is great advice, especially talking about what's unattractive due to life choices, not so much personality and looks. I think the advice in your last paragraph works for some people, and it will attract a large demographic of women, but it's not for everyone. Being hip and trending for me would be fake. I have passions, and women who are interested in them will be attracted to me, but it's not always mainstream music or what's currently popular. Still I enjoyed reading this and found it mor…
/r/seduction13/01/17 10:29 PM
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You can do whatever you want with the knowledge you get here. There are a lot of insecure men here who don't care how their actions affect women, or just other people in general, and use it to try and boost self-esteem. I studied seduction and it's great, but I don't lie or manipulate. Now I have a great girlfriend but you're not done there. You have to re-seduce throughout relationships. It's a worthwhile pursuit, use the information as you see fit.
/r/seduction28/05/16 02:33 PM
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Pretty much just described the friendzone. I'm friends with girls I wouldn't have sex with and I don't believe in guys and girls not being friends but if you think having sex with a friend is similar to receiving a million dollars... I mean... might want to prioritize. Bank heist analogy? Not really sure what's happening there. Also it's more not attempting to seduce them because you know she'd be disgusted and disappointed you were pretending to be platonic. Faking it is fucked up.
/r/seduction26/05/16 06:37 AM
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He's a redpiller, until he kicks that habit he's hopeless.
/r/seduction24/05/16 12:07 AM
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I've even heard people call it "dating without benefits" smh. My current girl has a couple of these guy friends who are probably into her. It's easy to not give a fuck cause they're obviously not a threat and it's amusing to watch their frustration when we're all hanging out.
/r/seduction24/05/16 12:05 AM
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Probably shouldn't tell the girl she looks exhausted... just saying.
/r/seduction18/05/16 04:19 PM
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No...NOOOOO! I need to assume women are shallow boring creatures who don't have anything interesting going on in their lives so I FEEL BETTER ABOUT MYSELF! Don't put them on the pedestal, PUT THEM UNDER YOOOUUU! I'M SO LONELY!
/r/seduction13/04/16 04:56 PM
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That's what you'll find out when you seek help.
/r/seduction29/02/16 11:52 PM
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Sounds like you need some therapy.
/r/seduction29/02/16 10:30 PM
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If this is a first date suggestion then you probably haven't established enough comfort with them, or they're not attracted to you, or their dog just got pneumonia and she's self conscious because she's worried that the pseudo disease she is having adverse emotional reactions to might actually be a sign of some deeper mental issues. Ok the point is there are so many reasons this could be happening but if they're saying they don't want a relationship then you have probably brought up this topic. …
/r/seduction15/01/16 04:47 PM
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Don't think too hard you might pull something.
/r/seduction08/01/16 10:22 PM
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It was a joke man jesus.
/r/seduction08/01/16 08:16 PM
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For all those foot fetish bros out there. Just a little ammo for the spank bank ya know?
/r/seduction08/01/16 05:27 PM
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Yup. This is needy behavior to wonder why she isn't responding right away. Go do something you enjoy, whatever gets your mind off of it.
/r/seduction08/01/16 05:25 PM
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It makes me sad so much of this subreddit believes in this. There are so many ways to go about this "game". This is one of the more manipulative and desperate ways I've seen, but to each their own.
/r/seduction08/01/16 05:22 PM
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Cause he's a clown.
/r/seduction08/01/16 07:13 AM
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Seriously Julien is a fucking chode. Sure if you're a complete douche who tries to get with everything that moves you'll get laid. That guy is going to die alone.
/r/seduction08/01/16 07:12 AM
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Ya man it's fucked up. She actually pushed me away saying she hated herself and didn't want to see me suffer while she worked through her problems. We always had problems of her stringing along guys because of her consistent fear of losing me and I got so fed up with that. She ended up seeking advice from her adoptive mom, and her adoptive parents are amazing people so that's good. Her mom said she should trying growing on her own and becoming more independent. So we split and I was torn up but …
/r/seduction25/12/15 12:48 PM
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This right here. I just got out of a year long relationships with a girl who has only had toxic relationships. I thought "it must have only been the guys, she got lucky this time finding me". Well it turns out that's not the case. She has severe abandonment issues because she was adopted but she was the only child her birth-mom gave away. Her blood sisters stayed with her biological mom, and that cuts deep. She reconnected with her birth mother who ended up asking for money from her adoptive par…
/r/seduction24/12/15 04:58 PM
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If someone is smiling with their eyes than it's generally legit (eyes squint more). Either way just be excited, nice, and honest with what you want. That's a good place to start.
/r/seduction27/08/15 08:26 PM
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Red Pill is garbage.
/r/seduction27/08/15 08:15 PM
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"I would consider myself 11/10, but some girls would probably put me at a 7-7.5" Hahaha, oh man, that's... I don't even... (facepalm)
/r/seduction01/03/15 05:14 PM
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Then get the fuck out of here. I feel robbed reading this stupid fucking thread about how you're to good for this subreddit.
/r/seduction18/02/15 04:20 PM
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Completely ridiculous. If a robot could sound awkward it'd be in this video.
/r/seduction14/01/15 09:20 PM
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More fun than being a runescape addict neckbeard.
/r/seduction12/11/14 11:55 PM
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Wtf?
/r/seduction10/11/14 10:21 PM
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First of all nice work, that sounds like a good time. Enjoy the meal and enjoy some good conversation with her. If you feel like you two are vibeing ask her for a tour. When I'm ready to escalate I just grab their hand and look in their eyes. It's usually really easy to tell if she's interested, and if she doesn't shy away then just lead her to the bedroom. If you get her in her room offer her a back rub. I'm talking get her on her stomach, straddle her back and give her a good fucking back rub.…
/r/seduction27/10/14 11:19 PM
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It's not too late, never too late. Just go up to her and say hi my name is "pasparagus" and shake her hand. Then talk about whatever and ask for her number. If she's attracted to you it will work, if not then oh well.
/r/seduction27/10/14 11:16 PM
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If a girl is genuinely interested asking for a date too quickly isn't an issue. This girl sounds luke warm in interest. I honestly get tired of ambiguity so I would just ask her if she's interested in going out sometime, if she says no oh well you save yourself time and effort and if she says yes than cool.
/r/seduction27/10/14 11:14 PM
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How do you know it's a blatant lie?
/r/seduction27/10/14 10:20 PM
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Need more information. How did she flake? Did she have a valid reason? How long before the date? She may be wanting to go out or she could just be milking your for attention.
/r/seduction27/10/14 10:19 PM
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So listening to this stupid recording is going to make my dick more efficient, how does that work?
/r/seduction27/10/14 10:18 PM
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Stop worrying about being a weirdo and approach her.
/r/seduction27/10/14 10:17 PM
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The gym is tricky, but what you need to do is find a way to naturally start conversation with her. Maybe you see her go to the water fountain, well you must be thirsty now too. Just start casual conversation and then after a minute or two, don't drag out the conversation too long, suggest that you grab some coffee sometime. If she agrees nab her number and then figure it out from there.
/r/seduction27/10/14 09:31 PM
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These claims are retarded.
/r/seduction27/10/14 09:24 PM
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If you download reddit enhancement suite it adds a feature where you can tag people (this means whenever I see a post of yours it will say your user-name and then the tag, riskitforbiscuit, next to it).
/r/seduction26/10/14 08:45 PM
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It's a bit of a leap of faith but bring it up after some good sexy time. Ask her where she's at and then see how she responds. If you are serious about becoming exclusive then mention it, and if she's not into it then you either need to move on or accept that she will probably be seeing other people on the side. Stick to your guns even if it sucks at first, you deserve self respect. Don't go into the conversation thinking "Oh man I hope she's ok with this", go into it thinking "This is what I wa…
/r/seduction26/10/14 08:38 PM
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Tagged you "riskitforbbiscuit" good luck!
/r/seduction24/10/14 02:04 PM
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If this is happening with your friends, like your title suggests, then you need to forget about the stuff you're reading on here at the time. Friends are about opening up and trusting that they will like you for who you are and give you unconditional friendship. A true friend won't abandon you if you make a mistake, unless it's completely unforgivable. Stop worrying and just listen to what they have to say, then be honest with them.
/r/seduction24/10/14 01:59 PM
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Dude this was really hard to read. So I wouldn't call it an insta-date, more of a ok I guess we can hang out in the middle of the day. The kino sounded so forced. The whole awkward kiss line was really cringey, I would never use that again. Then you followed her off campus which is just getting creepy while essentially fondling her the whole way and trying to kiss her, which is still really creepy. She told you that you were making you uncomfortable and I can't blame her. You just met her and yo…
/r/seduction20/10/14 10:06 PM
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Is she actually a bad kisser? Just be honest, if she is but you like her then go with the more practice line. If she isn't a bad kisser I'd just say "I don't know what you're talking about".
/r/seduction19/10/14 07:57 PM
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Ha this is fucking awesome, I basically had the same thing happen to me two nights ago. Fucked until 4 a.m. Unfortunately she had to work in the morning so yea, no morning sex. Anyways just be sure not to get oneitis too hard, let it progress naturally and at a reasonable pace.
/r/seduction19/10/14 07:53 PM
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Clubs are tough man. I've been rejected so many fucking times at a club it's ridiculous, but at the same time I've had success too. I've only been single for about three months and the amount I've learned in that time is crazy. I get laid regularly now and I'm really relaxed when taking girls out. Point is keep going, don't get down on yourself, but remember to analyze or seek advice from friends. Also try tinder, fucking love that app.
/r/seduction19/10/14 07:49 PM
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Uhm... free is always better.
/r/seduction19/10/14 07:46 PM
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Lift weights hard, this naturally boosts testosterone. Especially if you do squats, I generally don't like to take girls out the day after I do squats cause sex drive is stupid high then and I can't be smooth.
/r/seduction19/10/14 07:45 PM
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Flakes happen, they suck! What that girl did was rude and if someone has the capacity to blow someone off without contact then you probably wouldn't want to hang out with them in the first place.
/r/seduction13/10/14 01:51 PM
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Smoking too much weed will definitely hurt one's game. It also depends on the culture though. I live in Colorado and if I have a good hunch a girl smokes I'll offer to take her to my place, smoke a little bit of bud, and go listen to music in my room. This usually leads to some sweet slightly high sex. The key is to not smoke all the time, and to not smoke too much when you're with the lady. Too high and shit gets weird.
/r/seduction06/10/14 10:01 PM
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I like this. I also really like that line you said about the double standards. You're a gentlemen!
/r/seduction04/10/14 03:29 PM
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When all you care about is sex with women you're going to get rejected a lot. If I was in this situation I wouldn't be so uptight because I enjoy hanging out with women even if we don't have sex. She most definitely wouldn't be the only girl that I'm seeing at the moment, and I wouldn't feel the need to make myself feel superior by playing silly mind games. Your outcome dependence is abysmal. If you were hanging out with other girls on the side you wouldn't be so desperate to get laid and be a d…
/r/seduction03/10/14 02:38 PM
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Sometimes this community is fucking awful. You're so worried about being in a position of power that you just blow off this girl because she doesn't want to get physical? You know what you should have done? Fucking talked to her. Ask her why she isn't interested in exploring intimacy, good god you fucked up.
/r/seduction02/10/14 06:47 PM
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Nice synapse, I feel for you man! With that kind of self reflection you wont be making mistakes like that for long.
/r/seduction29/09/14 09:22 PM
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Sounds like a good time, see where it goes, play it cool! Always good use of the word reticent.
/r/seduction29/09/14 05:48 AM
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The principle behind the theory is to prevent from looking needy. If we wait three days, then we can't possibly look needy... right? I don't really agree with it, and I focus more on clarifying on a time for a date when I first get a girls # in person. This way they are expecting a text at a certain time.
/r/seduction29/09/14 05:44 AM
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Candy?
/r/seduction28/09/14 06:12 PM
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What's the worst that could happen?
/r/seduction26/09/14 09:54 PM
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Don't stop, you're killing it.
/r/seduction23/09/14 08:35 PM
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I found this book to be extremely helpful in understanding what women seek out and why. I only recommend reading sections 3 and 4. They cover love and trust, as well as sex. Seriously, read it. If you're too lazy to read this stuff some other guy will and you're putting yourself at a disadvantage.
/r/seduction23/09/14 05:40 AM
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That shit was deep man. He was all like "piss on your spit, or piss on your shit, life is crazy, I'm deep as piss covered shit". Yeah people please don't do this stuff. And holy shit the photo shop on the camera blog article. That....is...brutal. This guy has to been trolling.
/r/seduction23/09/14 05:30 AM
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Depends on what you want out of them. Are you only interested in sex and it's not happening after three dates, cut contact. Did she flake on you without a valid excuse, cut contact. Did she flake twice but with valid excuses, cut contact. Is she lying to you? Cut contact. Is she manipulating you (getting you to take her out and never paying for anything), cut contact. Is she using you to make someone else jealous, cut contact. Is she trying to prevent you from seeing other people but not interes…
/r/seduction22/09/14 09:55 PM
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If I'm drunk enough to have serious beer goggles my dick is in a coma.
/r/seduction22/09/14 09:45 PM
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He's being down-voted because he's showing a complete lack of respect for all women, which is a major turnoff unless you want to get girls with daddy problems.
/r/seduction22/09/14 09:43 PM
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Let him act like a fool and look real smooth as he scares all the women away. Who cares what he does, him acting like an asshole will only make you look like a great guy.
/r/seduction22/09/14 09:26 PM
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Ya #closes are pretty meaningless. The other night I got this girls # though and asked her to repeat my name to me three different times within a very narrow window. I then texted her my name and asked her to read it to me. Once I knew she was not going to forget my name I asked what she was doing tomorrow. She said work, I asked what she was doing after work, she said nothing. I then stated I was taking her out, which she agreed. Too bad my lazy ass didn't hit her up after that, she did text me…
/r/seduction22/09/14 02:19 PM
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First of all Johnny, drop the man, the legend bullshit. If you're coming here and asking these kind of questions you're just another AFC. This is a good step though, admitting your weakness and willing to improve upon them. You're forcing yourself to look like this pick up king but we all know it's a farce (at least for now). Project who you are on the inside, not this mythical guy you're trying to create.
/r/seduction22/09/14 02:17 PM
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I work with developmentally delayed individuals as well. Unfortunately the ones I work with aren't super endearing and mainly just freak people out, (invade personal space frequently and can have a temper). That being said if a girl asks what I do for work it's ridiculous how much they open up once I tell them what I do. I swear their inner mommy genes fire up and they can't resist, it's awesome.
/r/seduction22/09/14 01:34 AM
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I think you're misinterpreting the meaning of scarcity. Scarcity implies a man is not having success with women and it creates a mindset of neediness which is extremely unattractive. Here you state that scarcity is a situation where there are more women then men and hence the man is now more scarce. While this isn't completely wrong, it takes the general PUA scarcity terminology and relabels it. That being said you have sound advice, although it's pretty damn obvious that locations with more wom…
/r/seduction21/09/14 03:21 PM
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Only send 1 text for every one of her texts
/r/seduction04/09/14 02:08 PM
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