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This sub has really lost its point if it’s defending Crowder in this clip.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 06:45 PM
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You need something to be passionate about. Work and fitness are musts, but what actually gets you excited. Meeting people organically that way is absolutely the best.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 02:34 AM
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Nearly 1 in 4 American women have had one, so statistically if you‘ve ever actually had sex(guessing not) you most likely already have.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 09:04 AM
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How old are you out of curiosity?
/r/askTRP02/08/20 07:57 AM
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This might be the shittiest humble brag I've seen in a while.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 02:05 AM
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Empty parking lots mean exactly jackshit, and following that conspiracy whackjob hashtag doesn't change reality.
/r/MGTOW27/04/20 12:24 PM
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What do you do, out of curiosity? That way I can oversimplify it with zero personal knowledge and talk mad shit.
/r/MGTOW27/04/20 12:22 PM
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READ THE FUCKING SIDEBAR. Judging from your responses I would swear you’re being purposefully obstinate.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:49 PM
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Do you make this many shitty assumptions with everyone, or are am I special? No, I’m not talking about those WHO reports, but from people who are actually working in the field right now. I am a nurse in a regional medical medical center ER. We are already being inundated with very sick, positive screened patients with Covid symptoms but lack the resources to test all but a small percentage of patients. I certainly never said I’m a physician, but one of our Docs updates us from his former classma…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:51 PM
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I work in healthcare so we get daily WHO and CDC reports, I'm also interested in a personal level so I read on my off time, including the anecdotal triage reports. Sorry guy, but splitting hairs over word choice is super irrelevant, and pointless. I'm also not "flipping the fuck out" about smoking, Covid, SARS, H1N1, or anything else. Listening to bro scientists on this sub or anywhere else with zero personal knowledge of a subject is irritating because I'm dealing the community ramifications li…
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:49 PM
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Of course Italy has a large high risk population, I'm referring to the triage reports of people that are not in the high risk populations requiring intensive care. Numbers vary of course, but this is a novel virus and as such, is extremely hard to predict. The epidemiology report I read recently predicted up to 10x worse than this flu season. Regardless of numbers, it important people are aware and take such measures, not just blow it off with misinformation.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:23 PM
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I appreciate the effort here but you're dead wrong on a few points, and spreading misinformation right now is the last thing we need. It isn't the flu. Read some triage reports from Italy, you'll understand.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:10 PM
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I'm a ER nurse so I've got all the overtime I could ever want. Plus daily bonuses just for showing up. Edit: Jesus Christ there are a lot of uninformed fucks in this thread spouting off complete nonsense. If you need an easy to digest way to get information, listen to a recent Joe Rogan with Michael Osterholm. He's a legit epidemiologist that actually understands this stuff, and he completely shits on the "It's just a flu" and "This'll blow over in a couple weeks." Legit scientists are not sayin…
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:07 PM
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Absolutely. I've seen a lot of young, ripped dudes being treated like a shitty, yippy dog on a bejeweled leash by their overweight LTR. Fear of potential loss is hell of a drug for women.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 06:08 PM
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>This is your fucking pay gap ​ Shit man, well said.
/r/MensRights13/07/19 06:04 PM
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>What sort of avenue should I take with this? ​ What sane man thinks "Well gee, I already torpedoed my previous encounters, how can I bring up the wreckage from the bottom of the ocean and fix it with minimal effort?" ​ Dude, move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 11:52 PM
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Why are you hanging out with your ex, why is she on your phone, etc. You're leaving some stuff out guy.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 04:10 PM
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Literally, and not figuratively, no one gives a shit.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 04:09 PM
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Find something you love and do it. It’s easy to be confident and feel value in yourself if you are pursuing something you love that is a challenge. That way it’s natural and as a plus, you’ll naturally gain people that add value to your life.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 07:40 PM
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Very well said. This is the long form of the "Excuse generating bitch" comment below. OP, stop blaming others and listen to this wise poster.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:01 PM
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Why are you getting worked up about a commerically made up bullshit holiday?
/r/askTRP15/02/19 06:52 PM
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I had a long response written up, but never mind. You are an incredible cunt.
/r/MensRights15/02/19 05:48 AM
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Let me assume that you live in the U.S. or maybe western Europe? You sound like someone who's stuck in the throes of late stage capitalism and all the shit that follows. A good way to check your expectations of the world is to go somewhere completely alien and new. If you really have money I'd suggest trying out a new place (not a tourist trap filled with fat Americans). I work in healthcare and at least twice a year do a medical mission to a different part of the globe where we do stuff like bu…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 02:01 PM
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Why are you concerned about this person?
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:29 PM
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Don't have kids.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 01:33 PM
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You're going to meet a lot of people in your life, and the vast majority of them are going to come and go. Think about if people add something positive to your existence here, or are easily replaceable living cutouts to avoid feeling alone. If it's not the former, I would say cut it and move on
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:14 PM
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I don't know what's satire anymore.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 06:45 PM
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TRP is for asking how to get laid, not for specific advice an endocrinologist is more likely to have.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:58 PM
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Do not fuck around with sleeping less. There is increasing evidence it plays a much larger role than just physical rest, including clearing out damaging metabolic waste out of your brain, hormone regulation, and more. Check this out if you're interested. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pwaWilO_Pig
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:13 AM
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There’s some raw truth right there.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 05:10 PM
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You took a $5,000 loan from a “plate” that in actuality has been your girlfriend for the past several months. You dumb fuck.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 11:30 AM
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Whining about a cut on your dick when you're a baby is such a feminist attitude. What's the point of this? Not who you're responding to but maybe because if I had a son I wouldn't want his dick mutilated to fit in with ancient historical practices. Set down the kneejerk RP buzzwords and think for a moment.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 02:29 PM
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Are you this socially retarded in real life, or just online?
/r/MensRights31/07/18 12:24 PM
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Does anyone here suffers from this too? What can I do to fix it? You know how teachers say there are no such thing as dumb questions? This is a fucking dumb question.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 07:06 PM
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Have you not read any of the sidebar?
/r/askTRP29/07/18 06:52 PM
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Move on. If she wanted you she would have wanted to meet without her chump.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:31 PM
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No shit, I'm talking about why a thoughtful response about changing views is not liked.
/r/MensRights12/07/18 02:26 PM
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Why the fuck is this getting downvoted. Edit: thoughtful discourse is a no go. Got it.
/r/MensRights12/07/18 01:27 PM
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Second
/r/askTRP18/05/18 12:53 PM
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I second this. Food industry should be a standard for young people to be involved in, if only for the learning experience. I normally follow the RP “don’t shit where you eat” mentality, but this is an exception to me. The OP is a 21 year old virgin, he needs a good proving ground to make mistakes and learn for himself.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 10:23 AM
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The OP is a 21 year old virgin. He needs to make mistakes and see for himself, he doesn’t need a wife.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 10:20 AM
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Man, you need to step outside yourself and see this for what it is. You started a relationship at 18 fucking years old. You're now getting into your sexual prime and you want to stay with the same girl after she already proved unfaithful? Read the sidebar, you're a textbook example of beta oneitis.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 12:51 PM
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Well don’t worry about it champ. You’ve already been friend zoned so there no chance for an issue.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 03:46 PM
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How old are you/her? This sounds like some real adolescent bullshit.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:46 PM
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This has nothing to do with frame, this has to do with someone shitting where they eat, and getting friendzoned.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:41 PM
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Please explain how a TA getting involved with a student is not an issue?
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:38 PM
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I applaud you for getting over the fear of approaching, but for fuck's sakes man. You need to work out the way you interact with people, especially at a holy place like the gym. Pacing around, sperging out, interrupting people to give incorrect critiques, "I had to say bye!" It all sounds creepy as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 02:22 PM
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Do not listen to this guy OP.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:09 PM
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I disagree, but ok. I found your third sentence perfectly sums up this thread, where people are defending a post that is comprised of utterly generic, motivational buzzwords and phrases.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 01:38 PM
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So criticisms are not allowed unless you've deemed someone has had a long and storied posting career? Many of us use more than one account.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 12:03 PM
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The amount of brigading in this thread is remarkable.
/r/MensRights28/01/18 06:46 PM
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Try hard was in the way he described is actions. I'm not sucking this guy off just because he GASP had the nerve to talk to a woman in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 04:14 PM
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Agreed, the writing style and story is way too try hard.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 11:59 AM
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This guy is a troll. Look at the post history.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 01:04 PM
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This makes me sad that this stuff isn't common sense.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 01:41 PM
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No we wouldn't. You have some serious cognitive dissonance going on if you can't see the problem with wanting to be abused and SIMULTANEOUSLY not willing to allow a penis inside her.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 05:42 PM
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She's extremely submissive and she begged me to hit her, choke etc. Yet, no penetrative sex occured so far because she said "it's too fast"... Alarm bells anyone?
/r/askTRP17/09/17 03:27 PM
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Well said.
/r/MensRights08/09/17 08:36 PM
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Bingo. I came here after splitting up with my wife of 7 years. A few years later I'm thankful for the best lesson I've ever learned.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 01:05 PM
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Good for you bro. You've crossed a river many, many, many of use here have crossed and you did it clean, keeping your respect for yourself. Just remember, there's a lot of stone cold alphas here (at least self reportedly), don't try to be too cool all the time. Remember you're allowed to mourn the ending of this time in your life, and its okay to feel. TRP doesn't expect robots. You are not allowed to let those feelings master you, you are to use them to push yourself harder, run faster, take a …
/r/askTRP04/09/17 12:27 PM
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It's a group text, chill out. Have you read anything on the side bar? still how do i protect myself and demand respect? You protect yourself by not getting into potentially physical altercation over a means of communication preferred by teenage girls. You never demand respect, it doesn't work that way. You earn it. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 12:57 PM
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Fucking a slut raw? Not too bright are you?
/r/askTRP27/04/17 08:26 PM
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She already is showing red flags champ.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 02:21 AM
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Any inhaled substance could be a possible carcinogen, however, there are no reported cases of lung cancer secondary to smoking marijuana.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 12:11 AM
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There are zero sources for the second claim.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 10:02 PM
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Yeah, not buying the Chad thing pal. Also, do some goddamn reading on the sidebar. Tapping someone on the shoulder wearing headphones and asking "how was your weekend?"sounds awkward as fuck.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 11:00 PM
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Have some self respect. Any illusions of plating and fucking her are just that, illusions. Your oneitis means you're still harboring feels, and you're going to get burned BAD if you are involved at all. Stop communication, move on with your life.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:47 AM
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Its easy.....you ignore them. Takes zero energy on your part and they will get the picture.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 09:41 AM
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HAHAHA "SHOVE YOUR COCK WITH WITHIN 120 SECONDS BRAH" Where do you come up with this stuff?
/r/askTRP18/12/16 04:42 PM
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Very well rounded answer. OP, read here if nothing else.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 04:23 AM
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Sounds like she was giving you mediocre sex for a free place to stay and/or eat. Say that out loud and then think to yourself, "Is this worth it?" Pro-tip: there is vagina all over the place, look elsewhere.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 01:50 AM
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Your girl cheats on you and YOU sleep on the couch? For fuck's sake man, have some goddamn self respect. I understand hiccoughs on the road to redpill redemption, but it's clear you haven't internalized a thing here.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 04:28 PM
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What the fuck... of course not. You're rolling dice worth decades of your life and thousands upon thousands of dollars, not even to mention your health in regards to STDs....based upon what? The word of some 18 year old slut?
/r/askTRP04/12/16 01:31 AM
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Very normal. You gotta calm down beforehand.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 04:54 AM
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It's not wrong. But prepare yourself to not win this battle.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 11:21 PM
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Agreed, but no one made that point.
/r/MensRights14/11/16 08:48 PM
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Whether or not I agree with it, I find these arguments strange, because so often it's people on the right (or typical older white conservatives) complaining liberal kids are too lazy, won't get a job, won't lift a finger, etc. Then when these kids actually do something in the form of protest (regardless of how effective/ineffective it is), the same neo-cons tell them to "grow up." There's no winning the extreme dichotomous thinking that pervades this country. Furthermore, this isn't a men's righ…
/r/MensRights14/11/16 05:15 PM
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That's not particularly true at all. Every interview with a protester I've seen is how they are against Trump and his policies, not protesting Hillary didn't win.
/r/MensRights14/11/16 05:12 PM
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What is the point of this thread. Did you want validation for your decision? There are other responses that could have made you not look so butthurt.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 10:22 PM
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I understand now. I would recommend whichever is the furthest from your day to day normal.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 05:23 PM
1

That's good, where are you going in Feb?
/r/askTRP13/11/16 04:47 PM
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You'll be amazed what you can do with motivation. I had three jobs last year, along with school full time and volunteering. I was spinning 3 regular plates along with cycling in another. I had maybe one night to myself free a week, but it was doable. So shorterm? Absolutely. Longterm? That's up to you, I got pretty burned out after a while and took up an LTR to focus my time.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 04:35 PM
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it sounds like you're pretty aimless and need some new perspective. This may seem simple, but have you tried travelling? I'm sure you're work schedule is heavy, but it sounds like you have some financial flexibility. It's astounding what going to someplace totally foreign will do your perspective. On one end it may help you find something new about yourself, or on another maybe you can just meet new people you would otherwise never get a chance to interact with. I'm not just talking about women …
/r/askTRP13/11/16 04:27 PM
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Here's your advice OP. Move along.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:55 PM
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Honestly I think it's perfectly normal to feel uneasy about the procedure. From an outside perspective you're getting a part of your body mutilated. This body part is also the most sensitive part of a man. I'm sure I would be nervous too. Let me ask this, did you look at alternatives to your alleviating your phimosis? It's not very uncommon in men, and I know daily foreskin stretching regimens with warm water can work if you are good about consistency.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:53 PM
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Sounds like you don't need a LTR, you just need plates. If you say "You're working too much and not sucking my dick enough" there's no way you're going to win. This girl doesn't sound bad, just drop down to plate status and move on.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 04:16 AM
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Please think long and hard on it. I would talk to your dad and anyone else who has enlisted previously, (also, getting married twice is successful?). Going into the military has many many facets to mull over either for or against, doing it for pussy is about the worst possible reason.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 02:02 AM
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This is incredibly unrealistic. Unless you live in an Amish community or some other incredibly sheltered area, most women you meet will enjoy commiserating with other females and dancing. Setting this expectation that a woman dancing when her man isn't there is an immediate no go is absurd.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 05:40 AM
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You're oneitis isn't anywhere close to dead and you want to communicate and fuck around with her? You're setting yourself up for trouble bud. Cut all ties with her and focus on others.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 06:46 PM
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What does that have to do with this group of women cheating?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 02:00 PM
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The wake up stories like these make me get a pride boner.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 12:55 AM
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She isn't a plate. A plate is someone you fuck and nothing more. You keep your abundance mentality and women find you more attractive as a result. You mention not having sex and setting up boundaries for ANOTHER LTR. Sorry bud, but you are making a huge mistake. The oneitis you still harbor is going to come back in full force and you can expect a similar result next time. Set sail for clearer waters, there's far too many women to get hung up on one you've already blown it with.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 05:18 PM
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This person is a plate, not a LTR, why would you care about her history? If she serves her service as a plate, no problems. If she doesn't then you know what to do.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 07:08 PM
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I thought the same. Baby Gap dudes don't look good. A bigger (read tall or broad) guy wearing a short that shows his stomach when he lifts his arm looks hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 05:58 PM
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Why do so many want to eat seconds off the table they've already had explosive diarrhea all over? There's literally billions of other women man, take what you've learned from your situation, move on and apply it to the next one.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 07:13 PM
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You never turn off this narrative do you?
/r/askTRP01/07/16 09:46 PM
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It's a great way to improve your mindfulness, your physique, your breathing skills, and a great way to meet women. What do you think?
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:39 AM
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This isn't his wife. If he nexts or throws a shit fit he'll look incredibly insecure (which is it).
/r/askTRP26/06/16 08:04 PM
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It isn't the same and you know it. Your oneitis for her (whether you admit it her or not is irrelevant) is the reason you want to move in. I have no idea where you live but I can 100% guarantee there is somewhere else for you to live that isn't filled with someone who took your virginity. Move along friend. Nothing lays there except problems.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 04:20 AM
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Check out Thich Naht Hanh and his writing on mindfulness. Super easy to digest and incredibly useful for anyone in their daily life.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 11:16 PM
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You were being reasonable in the thread up above, but now with the generalizations and buzzwords you've killed any validity to your argument. Good job kiddo.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:59 PM
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Anecdotal evidence doesn't hold much weight then, because I occasionally (maybe once every few weeks) smoke weed. Meanwhile I know plenty of bros who hit the club or bars friday and saturday trying to score women, and spend tons of money (doing it wrong yes, but still). The point I'm trying to make is that being smart about your life choices doesn't have to be a zero sum game, mature people can make decisions and engage in behavior without it derailing their entire life.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:57 PM
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Did you just read the sidebar and decide to be "alpha" by using a bunch of buzzwords? The strawman argument is hilariously hypocritical as well.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:53 PM
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I would agree with you if a hypothetical person was a habitual user. However, the cost of going out and drinking can be as much if not more than buying a small amount of weed. Again, I'm speaking in regards to moderation, obviously excessive anything will be expensive.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:51 PM
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This is some solid middle school D.A.R.E. program shit right here. If you are an adult capable of making adult decisions and have goals, this all or nothing mentality makes no sense.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:48 PM
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This is a personal question because everyone physiologically handles drugs differently. Everyone also has different versions of excess and moderation. For me I am able to enjoy my occasional foray into a few different (non-habit forming) drugs. I also work full time in a respected position in the healthcare system and the two worlds are kept separate. If you are unable to keep certain parts of your life exclusive then maybe it doesn't work for you.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:45 PM
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I'm not sure how thoughts that are independent of your own automatically makes him a junkie.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:42 PM
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Why do you see it as different? How is occasionally smoking weed any different from have a couple beers every once in a while?
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:40 PM
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Examples? I can attest to the first one: because lifting weights improves testosterone levels, improves self esteem, and makes the opposite sex more attracted to you. Seems pretty obvious. The other three, I've never seen mentioned on this sub.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 05:21 AM
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Everyone at a festival is horny and juiced up, regardless of drugs. Go for it.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 02:04 AM
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Thick Naht Hanh is an incredible zen Buddhist that focuses on mindfulness. Any of his books are wonderful and easy to read.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 06:02 AM
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You've salted the earth here pal. Legitimately best bet is to break it off and start fresh. Make sure you read read read sidebar and spin plates. Right now you've made a lot of mistakes, learn from them and move on.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 05:40 AM
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Don't look for logic here. You're expecting her to play by your rules, and she won't.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:32 AM
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I say go for it. You're old enough you should be aware of the implications of STDs and children. If those two FUCKING MASSIVE risks are worth not wrapping up over, I don't know what is.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 03:13 AM
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This is not Red Pill. This is dogshit.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 12:54 AM
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I talk with anna about everything. Why? Save your talk for male friends that wouldn't resort to gossipy tattle telling.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 04:51 AM
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There's not a specific spreadsheet to follow here. Every girl will be slightly different, but the same basic setup works: be more bold rather than more indecisive. Most initial dates I go on end with making out outside wherever we are, more often than not second dates are when I deal the deal, defeats the standard first date ASD. Good luck brother.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 10:39 PM
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Why do you need to reply at all? That person should be dead to you. You don't text dead people.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 08:42 PM
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You yourself admit you still have feelings for this broad even after 7 months. Your oneitis is still chugging and you want to be in a position to communicate more in the hopes of fucking her? Come on brother, think. There are literally billions of women on this planet. Go find some of them to bang and never think of your ex again.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 09:44 AM
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My time is too valuable to waste time playing the "Don't confirm just show up" when somone could be a a no show. I always give a "Still on for tonight?" Not needy, and to the point.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 09:03 PM
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I met a girl online and we started having sex on the second date after I got way too shitfaced and threw up everywhere Solid intro My original intent was to plate this girl....We spend a lot of time together because we're very comfortable...She's probably a 5, maybe 6.5 when she gets dolled up to go out. That doesn't sound like a plate. That sounds like every shitty LTR. General consensus on here seems to be to avoid girls with high n-counts and she had told me hers is 43 including me Okay, this…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 05:00 AM
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Holy fuck no.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 08:32 PM
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Don't take literally everything here as 100% gospel. If you literally never text for any other reason than logistics people will think you're a socially autistic. Respond playfully. As long as you aren't in an endless series of validation texts you're good.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 04:23 AM
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Gaming tinder is like a shotgun. Maybe a bunch of pellets will miss, but a couple will for sure hit. The point is keep firing. There's no secret thing. Having good photos, keeping it short and simple to get the phone number is basic. Once you get the phone number it should be all over.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 04:20 AM
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Not be to be dick, but you're wrong.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 04:16 PM
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It's awesome. Fantastic to incorporate with isometric exercise.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 01:51 AM
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Context? Age? I'm guessing you're very young. I can say with little info that 4 months is a very short time. As soon as she started to go radio silent you should have tapped the brakes in a major way. Asking "Why are you ignoring me?" will make a women drier than the Sahara. If I had to guess once you transferred into LTR mode and out of plate spinning mode you slipped back into beta mode. She sees this change and no longer wants anything to do with you. So after a week she told me I'm not the m…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 10:59 PM
1

Abundance mentality brother. An hour away is a long (most would say not worth it even for LTR) distance away. For an initial tinder meeting that's way too much of an investment. Keep looking, there are 23438247932847 more women on tinder.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 10:50 PM
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I feel like the shilling needs to be turned down a tad here.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 01:46 AM
1

You're a virgin bro. You could have been with an ugly chick or the world's hottest, you're still going to be nervous your first time. Try not to sweat and realize people don't care that much. Now go fuck that slutty chick from class.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 04:05 AM
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She denies sex because she's on her period Your orbiter alarm bells should have been ringing at max volume by this point.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 03:47 AM
2

Do instead of tell. You can build sexual tension much more with body languages and cues. Women feed off nonverbal communication. There's no need at all to say "we should kiss" if your attitude cues telegraph the point.
/r/seduction04/11/15 09:13 PM
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The "I'll be happy once X,Y,Z, is met..." mindset has ruled over me my whole life. Getting dumped by my wife and having to review myself made me come to the conclusion that external happiness was for the birds. You're capable of being happy every single day, you just need to realize it. What helped me immensely is learning about mindfulness, and reading books by Thich Naht Hanh. Amazon search, I've all the top results. All are easy to read and digest, and can lend you some wisdom.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 06:21 PM
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I found one through a recommendation. He works with the local police department and other public safety offices, but he also has his own private practice one day a week for anyone to meet with him. I like him because he doesn't sugar coat stuff, tells me stuff straight and when I fucked up. The guys comes off as alpha, but obviously has education and a background to back it up. I would recommend looking through that avenue in your city. You don't necessarily have to be a cop or in public safety …
/r/askTRP01/11/15 12:56 AM
1

Tinder is a numbers game. Most of the time you get fuck all. It's like shooting a shotgun, a couple of the pellets are going to hit.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 12:59 AM
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The biggest thing to remind yourself is women play their own twisted rules. Why should you expect them to play by yours ?
/r/askTRP30/10/15 03:11 PM
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My work partner of a few years was recently the victim of a murder suicide (her psycho husband killed her in front of their 6 year old son before the dad killed himself). Gruesome no matter what, but especially because I had been partners at work with her and formed a really strong bond due to it. My now ex wife's response? Nothing more than an "Oh..." All my male friends, co-workers, and everyone else called me personally to wish me well because they knew she and I had been partners and had bec…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 03:05 PM
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No, I didn't listen to shitty music, before or after TRP.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 05:32 PM
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I don't think you would be spiteful to do that, do you feel that way? I deleted everything of my wife for the same reasons you should, so there's no trace for the next fish to get hung up on. It's not out of spite, or even hate (well maybe at first), it's just moving on. You have your memories, those you can't delete as easy.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 01:02 AM
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a) I don't need reminders of her in my face like that. I've removed all material things of hers from my life, and I'm going as no-contact as possible as is Obviously this would complicate things between me and the ex, though, and since I'm in a beneficial situation with her right now, I'd like to strong along the easy sex for as long as I can. I don't think you know what the fuck you want. Why are you concerned about her feelngs since she's "just a plate". It's obvious she holds some sway over y…
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:33 AM
3

What is the point of a LTR if you can't trust the other person? Lying by omission is still lying. Next.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 02:02 AM
1

Why is he dragging you down? You're obviously aware of the strengths you possess, why let them bother you? it seems like I am bothering him when I correct my own posture. (By the way, I hate being aware of this, any suggestions on tuning other peoples posture out?) First, that's incredibly unlikely, its a bit of a leap to think someone standing straight will upset another person. Unless he's physically tying your shoulders down to the floor to fuck up you spine, I don't think he cares, and I don…
/r/askTRP14/10/15 03:46 PM
10

This sounds like a middle school text message.
/r/seduction13/10/15 04:53 PM
1

What the fuck does this have to do with this sub?
/r/askTRP07/10/15 04:23 AM
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I can't tell if you're a troll in hiding or what. If not you're really missing the picture here. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 02:11 PM
1

You being inconsiderate has nothing to do with ideology. Common decency is something you are supposed to have yourself, but blaming TRP as the boogey man is your own business.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 06:49 AM
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Seems like my story has been lived by several other dudes. Maybe more than several.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 03:36 AM
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They can't understand. They can't care. They're not in that fucking world. They're not men so they don't understand the struggle, the grind, the sweat that takes to become a man worth a fuck. Bingo. This is exactly the fucked mindset iceberg that sank my marriage. I struggled the last few years in the slog of becoming a greater man (working full time since I've had to pay and work for everything I own, going to school fulltime to get into a high value master's program, still keeping my fitness a…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 10:06 PM
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This isn't blue pill. These are deeply seated emotional issues that are (fucking HRT, really?) ruining his life. He needs serious, serious, help.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 05:38 PM
2

Why weren't you escalating during the movie? She obviously was interested, since you say she was pressing her ass into you. You spent 90-120 minutes not taking advantage of it. No big deal, I say try again and learn from your mistake.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 04:13 AM
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Its been along time since I had long relationship Well you're 19. No offense but any LTR that young is dogshit. It's not very unusual that the women in your age bracket aren't intellectually stimulating and/or capable of holding an interesting convo.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 10:21 PM
1

Yeah, it just sucks how during the day I can be lifting, talking to strangers, not thinking about her and be doing great. Then a few minutes ago it all washes away and all I want my old life back. It's this roller coaster that is the worst.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 03:28 AM
1

Meditation is something I've been meaning to get into, this seems like the perfect opportunity to put it to the test. Thanks bro.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:23 PM
1

Great advice here
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:50 AM
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Good on you bro. I'm in the same boat, except I'm only 6 weeks into no contact after my wife called it quits on me. I've been following the RP hard, but still have moments of weakness where I think if I ran into her and could somehow show her how much I've bettered myself in this short time she wouldn't be able to resist taking me back. That of course is total bullshit, and is the remaining vestiges of my needy side kicking up an unrealistic fantasy. Not real life. Good on you again, I hope I ca…
/r/askTRP16/09/15 05:03 AM
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Jesus dude, stop having these conversations over text. If you want to escalate you need to be in person. Cut the convo short and tell her where you want her to meet you/when/etc.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 06:31 PM
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Spot on. When my wife told me she didn't want to be with me after a staggering 8 months of marriage, all I could think was why,why,why. This is the why I've figured out, though the OP has written it in an easy to ingest form.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 04:34 PM
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Logically, I understand the change that occurred is permanent. And logically I couldn't have so little self respect to take relationship scraps from her, knowing my trust in her would be nothing. Even now, several hours after I posted this thread, now I feel square again. My problem is just getting through those weak periods. I feel like I'm pretty on track in terms moving forward, it's just the interim sucks.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 02:38 PM
1

Yeah I understand time heals all, I just keep slipping up mentally on the way there.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 02:33 PM
1

What the fuck are you doing staying married to this woman for? Your environment sounds fucked up. Does this sound like a good place for kids to be?
/r/askTRP29/08/15 10:09 PM
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Nice work man. I'm curious to see what your opener is if they don't initiate first? To me, any women that opens up the contact is ripe for the picking. Initiating takes more finesse obviously.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 05:45 AM
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My question is how to keep her as a plate? (Great sex, good fun, nice to talk to). And be her "safety net" somebody she can talk to, and I can bang her. Not going to happen bro. Do as the others said. Cut contact, and move on.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 10:51 PM
2

The oneitis for my ex definitely is still an issue. Even after mindblowing sex with a girl several years younger, my mind lets the feeling and images of my ex creep in, unbidden. The more time I've spent having fun by myself, the less this has been occurring.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 09:06 PM
2

Absolutely, it's been applying the things read in real life without overthinking is taking me some practice.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 09:04 PM
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Gotcha, thanks man. Its weird, getting back in the game after such a time is like having to relearn this shit all over again.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 06:15 AM
2

Thanks man, makes sense. This will be the biggest change for me, remembering I don't need to fix things like in a LTR, just next them and move on
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 04:00 AM
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How are so many people this fucking gullible? This read like a teenagers romance novel. This is fake.
/r/MensRights13/08/15 01:01 AM
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This is bullshit, and it's hilarious anyone would believe it.
/r/MensRights17/07/14 03:33 PM
13

Let me start by saying massive weddings are a ridiculous waste of money. I'm getting married in a few months at the county office. Then our immediately family is going to dinner. That's it. That said, TRP or not, you come off like a massive douchebag. Disagreeing with practices is perfectly fine, but you sound like you need to so some self reflecting. You come off as incredibly bitter and whiny. Down vote away, but these are the impressions I get from you.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 09:51 PM
3

Cherrypicking and twisting the discussion. Nice troll.
/r/MensRights12/05/14 06:25 AM
3

You sound like a fucking psycho.
/r/MensRights11/05/14 09:43 PM
1

I read through articles here and stay silent. This fucking pissed me off.
/r/MensRights21/06/13 12:27 AM
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"Thinking back to when I used to do that sex stuff with dudes (it’s been a glorious 20 years now – YAY I’m gonna throw me a party!), I recall that, even when it was a dude I liked a lot, a fine-looking dude, a kind, fun, respectful, feministy dude; even when it was a dude I loved; even when I was feeling lusty and frisky and horny; even when the experience was delightful and orgasmic, even when it was full of warm-fuzzies and fireworks; when I had sex I always felt, every time, like I had lost a…
/r/MensRights29/05/13 01:30 AM
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Valid =/= useful
/r/MensRights22/05/13 09:28 PM
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