| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | Great at parties, shit at daygame | bong-water | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 12:22 PM | |
| 6 | How to show that you value someone? | bong-water | /r/seduction | 13/08/17 02:27 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | WSB got me laid last night.Draftkings will go back up, just wait for football to start, and march madness. | /r/seduction | 14/05/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | How to show that you value someone?By affection, I really meant attraction. Affection is used kind of broadly on this sub. | /r/seduction | 13/08/17 06:38 AM |
| 1 | How to show that you value someone?Is value the same as comfort? Do you need her to be comfortable around you before showing value? | /r/seduction | 13/08/17 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Great at parties, shit at daygameRight, I guess just showing interest in someone else is enough to attract them. I feel like when I try to get people talking about themselves it turns into a game of 20 questions though and it feels odd. | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Great at parties, shit at daygameWhenever I did coke I didn't give a shit about anyone and I just wanted to do more coke. Pretty easy drug to make into a habit if you can get it for cheap and easily. For most people that's not the case though. Definitely gives a boost in confidence. | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Great at parties, shit at daygameBe glad that's the only thing you got into man, I did the same thing. I just took far too long for me to realize that it hurts more than it helps. Now I have to entirely rebuild my life. You're doing a good thing, after a couple months you won't even think about it, I turn down drugs all the time and before this Id of never. | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Great at parties, shit at daygameYa, I just don't do well during the day. It's not even that I don't do well, it's that I don't even approach or feel like socializing with anyone. I'm pretty negative and depressing normally, I just feel boring, you know? | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 05:39 PM |
| 7 | Great at parties, shit at daygameMaybe if you're 14 and just started smoking. Smoke everyday for 6 years and then tell me you can't be dependent on it. Out of all my addictions, other than opiates, weed was the hardest to quit. Plus it makes you boring as fuck. Watch the people who smoke and drink instead of just drinking at parties, they're slower and less energetic. | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only person that finds infield videos creepy as fuck?I mean, you're already on the internet to learn how to get laid, so I don't really care how creepy infield videos are. | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only person that finds infield videos creepy as fuck?I'm pretty sure it's legal to film anyone in public in most states, regardless of consent. Just depends what you do with the video that would make it illegal or legal. | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only person that finds infield videos creepy as fuck?What does that have to do with the argument? | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20?I'm 5'4", have no problems with women relating to height. Just be confident in what you got and you're gold. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20?I feel like you just suck with women if you are this negative about them. You seem like a very sad, powerless person and you're looking at the world through cold, dead eyes. Get your shit together and you might have a better chance, because I can't say Im anything like your descriptions of "alphas," but I sure as hell get good pussy. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 12:26 PM |
| 8 | Go talk to an old personConfidence helps with girls so you just disproved yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Moves that have worked for you?You have to read the situation correctly. If she really likes you, but you fucked up by being clingy, this will definitely work. This exact method got me laid last Friday. | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 11:59 AM |
| 24 | Moves that have worked for you?If they already have interest in you, ignoring them, or flirting with other girls around them. They'll grab you by your dick and pull you into bed. | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Short guys of seddit, does being under 6 feet hurt your game? If not, what's your advice for shorter guys?I'm 5'3" and I've been pulling like crazy lately. Attraction has nothing to do with height, maybe being tall is a slight advantage at the most. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl who has been 'just friends' with me suddenly comes on to me.Jealousy,she might be somewhat attracted to you but not enough that she wants to fuck. If you keep going after other women and ignoring her you might end up fucking her. I've been in a similar situation and I ended up getting laid last night doing exactly what I said. | /r/seduction | 16/05/15 08:51 PM |
| 7 | Went to a nightclub last night - not sure if I'm ugly or not now :/Shit, my friend gets laid all the time just because he's black. | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 07:29 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop putting girls on pedestals?Start talking to more girls at once. One day it'll just happen, your self esteem will get high enough and you won't give two fucks if a girl doesn't like you back or care enough to act and treat her differently than others | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 03:16 AM |
| 22 | The friendzone is a gift, fools.Isn't giving emotional support a large part of being friends with anyone? | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 08:30 PM |
| -4 | Snapchat game?Naw bro, they'll hit me up first and I just don't know how to keep it interesting. I don't like snapchat, the only reason I use it is because that's how these girls like to communicate. If I'm not on top of it then I'm at a disadvantage. | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 05:38 PM |
| -4 | Snapchat game?Naw dude, you can't ignore the impact snapchat is having. It gets you laid a hell of a lot faster than only talking in person, my friends are walking proof. I didn't ask for advice on snapchat game to be told to stay away from it, I wanted actual advice for using snapchat. | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 03:32 PM |
| -3 | Snapchat game?I'm 18 so it's unavoidable dude. I don't know how to converse over this stupid app, if it wasn't a necessity I wouldn't use it. | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a short guy to be alpha?I'm not talking about how you walk, although you should definitely walk like you're the shit. Fake it til you make it does work. Just be real to yourself in the end. Don't fake like you're so hard and all that, that's unattractive. Your actions will show that you're "alpha" not your words for the most part. | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 10:36 AM |
| 3 | Is it possible for a short guy to be alpha?Fuck ya. I scare the piss out of people at my school and I'm 5'3". Just don't be a fake ass douche bag. Be assertive and don't ever let anyone talk shit on you, stick up for your friends and people in need. You gotta lead people too, make plans and shit. | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Just got brutally rejected 14 times in a row, I feel pretty shiity right now...Good fucking job man. Don't feel like shit, that's all it is. Rinse and repeat, keep doing the same shit and you'll be improving on a daily basis. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 01:58 PM |
| 3 | PSA: Got drugged last night... Guys, even you must be careful with strangers, even if they are beautiful girlsThe point is that edibles can seriously fuck your shit up. I know people who've had crazy panic attacks from them. Edibles are a whole nother dragon than smoking, although I think OP is overreacting, don't undermine how powerful weed can be. | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 07:06 PM |
| 10 | Some girl gave me a fake number. Jokes on her, turned out to be the number of one really cool dudeWhat the fuck is whatsapp | /r/seduction | 13/10/14 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What reasons do you guys use to bring a girl back to your room/house? And no, I don't play an instrument unfortunately.Idk I wasn't a fan, I tried a lot of different things. It always ended up giving me one giant hit the first rip then jack shit after, even when I packed it to the point I could barely get the lid on. Vapes just aren't intense enough for me in general though | /r/seduction | 26/09/14 11:04 PM |
| 1 | What reasons do you guys use to bring a girl back to your room/house? And no, I don't play an instrument unfortunately.Pax's blow dude. I was very disappointed. Only vape that lives up to its name is the volcano, other than that I'll stick with my bong. | /r/seduction | 26/09/14 10:59 PM |
| 0 | How to approach my Crush? (She likes me too)Start talking to her and escalate, seriously. Do not go up to get and be like "i know you like me, I like you to" that never works, I learned that a couple times. Flirt with her in class, get her phone number, and the rest is history. | /r/seduction | 01/08/14 06:50 PM |
| 2 | [FR] 5'7 Asian went to club and made out with at least 4 girls. Only K-close. For first time in my life I felt God Mode.Also the most common race on the planet. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Should you apologize to a girl because you were an asshole when she rejected you?"Beta" and "Alpha" are bullshit terms. Morals outweigh getting your dick wet. The friendzone doesn't exist and if you think it does you're the one that's "beta." | /r/seduction | 29/04/14 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Don't underestimate the power of "Hi, what's your name"?I always say, "Hey, who are you?" Not that it's all that different, I just prefer it. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 02:14 AM |
| 2 | WTF? Success at first try!There are four main characters in South Park.... | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 09:49 PM |
| 1 | WTF? Success at first try!Praise Gab! | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 09:48 PM |
| 1 | My Hookah StrategyI prefer buds. When bud is processed into wax it loses some of the different thc compounds, thus it isn't a complete high. They put me on my ass, sure, but the high isn't as full as when smoking true green. I keep my tolerance somewhat low so that I don't need dabs to get fucked up. I could smoke a single joint and be ripped. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 03:11 AM |
| 1 | My Hookah StrategyNot as satisfying, and the high is different, less intense, more chill. I've hit a lot of vapes and not many of them were very effective. The pax for instance, sucks dick and is $250. The vapir mini vaporizer is like $100(I got it for free) and that thing was fucking awesome. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 12:59 AM |
| 1 | My Hookah StrategyEspecially when they don't know what the fuck they're doing. NO, DON'T LIGHT THE ENTIRE BOWL ON FIRE! | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 12:58 AM |
| 1 | My Hookah StrategyThat's not actually what shotgunning is, you can only do it with a cig or a joint/blunt. You put the cherry in your mouth and blow smoke out of the filter while you and the other person interlace your hands so it creates a little tunnel, other person puts their mouth at the end of the "tunnel" and gets a large amount of smoke, you may burn your lips your first time. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Any older virgins successfully turned it around?That sub is disgusting. | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 04:20 AM |
| 2 | When i'm drunk I have amazing game yet when I am sober i have horrible approach anxiety. How do I act like the drunk me without being drunk all the time?It's insanely addictive and is soon to be banned I'm sure, remember mephedrone? | /r/seduction | 03/03/14 06:04 AM |
| 5 | When i'm drunk I have amazing game yet when I am sober i have horrible approach anxiety. How do I act like the drunk me without being drunk all the time?Yeah, just abuse a benzo that's 10x stronger than valium, that'll do the trick. | /r/seduction | 02/03/14 11:02 PM |
| 1 | How smiling changed my lifeYa, I'm 5'3 | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How smiling changed my lifeHow short? | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 02:09 AM |
| 2 | How smiling changed my lifeWho Hash you say? | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 02:07 AM |
| 1 | 10 pieces of pickup advice for shorter menWhoever made that is probably ridiculously insecure...or just a massive troll. | /r/seduction | 14/10/13 02:02 AM |
| 2 | I'll be honest...Girls only come on to me when I'm a mean condescending asshole.I think the difference is that when you're acting nice, you act calmly. When OP acts nice, he seems needy or is too energetic, and when he's being a dick he chills out and stays calm. So I believe that you are almost exact opposites game-wise. | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 10:49 PM |
| 2 | What is a guy who is a 10 (in girls minds) like? What is his life like? What does he do? How does he act?So, basically no flaws what so ever. | /r/seduction | 25/09/13 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Game doesn't work for meNot having anxiety is only a fraction of inner game. Maybe you should stop treating it so much like a game and more like you're trying to get laid and be a social god. | /r/seduction | 10/09/13 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Posture/Self ImagePut your thumbs in your pockets and point your fingers at your dick | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you approach women who are taller than you?5'3" here, my height hasn't really effected me socially since I've gotten to high school. Just look/walk/be confident. | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected for a second date by a girl in my class with a 3 page text after she already agreed. Did i handle this right?Naw I use it when I break up with someone. | /r/seduction | 05/09/13 06:54 PM |
| 0 | Got rejected for a second date by a girl in my class with a 3 page text after she already agreed. Did i handle this right?In my experience the friends thing is bullshit, I've pulled that plenty of times and I never meant it. | /r/seduction | 05/09/13 04:01 PM |
| 2 | [FR]: Finally asked a girl outThen be direct bro. | /r/seduction | 04/09/13 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Ultimate Openers: Interesting and/or funny, with a slightly patronizing edge- qualifying interrupts to get the convo going...Not really, to be honest. I pretty much almost stuck my dick in crazy, then found out that her previous boyfriend was charged by her for statutory rape. Then, around the same time I found this out another kid that had just graduated from my school shot himself in the head because his girlfriend also charged him because her dad found out, he ended up in prison for 6 months after having sex with a girl that he was absolutely in love with. When he got out he blew his brains out. Sad story, supposed… | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Ultimate Openers: Interesting and/or funny, with a slightly patronizing edge- qualifying interrupts to get the convo going...Trust me, I'm not stupid...anymore that is. | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Ultimate Openers: Interesting and/or funny, with a slightly patronizing edge- qualifying interrupts to get the convo going...Dude, that's bullshit. I'm not that experienced and definitely not all that skillful, I just think quickly. I'm not even 18 for fuck sake, and in that situation what I was saying during the opening isn't what pulled them in, it was my hands (literally) and how I acted physically. That day I dressed to impress and got my confidence up as best I could. High fived everyone in the mall and just started working magic, I barely had sarged outside of school or my neighborhood at this point, I guess I w… | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 09:18 PM |
| 7 | [FR]: Finally asked a girl outTime to hit on chicks outside the workplace my dude. Also, still be friends with her, if I were you I'd stop pursuing her sexually, but don't be an afc like I was in the past and just stop talking to her completely. Be proud though, you have a set of nuts on you for asking out a girl at work. | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 08:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR]: Finally asked a girl outIf she's not going to class or anything ask her out right then and there just for a cup of coffee or something. | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Ultimate Openers: Interesting and/or funny, with a slightly patronizing edge- qualifying interrupts to get the convo going...You didn't do it correctly, you also have to get physical and be direct. One example would be in the mall, I'm under 18 so it is generally more acceptable to hit on girls in the mall, but this works for night game at clubs just as well from what I've seen. Example: Two girls walking towards me in the mall while I'm with a couple friends Me: "Hey you two, ya you I think I know you" Puts out hands, grab pull both girls in and keep their attention, to do this kind of shit you need to be pretty ener… | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Tip: Keep your phone on silentI don't believe that is a viable option, is it? Also, this thread is old as fuck why are you replying to me now? | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 08:16 PM |
| 2 | [FR] #-close and k-close, almost f-close. Hoping not to mess up!Don't overwhelm her texts. | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Ultimate Openers: Interesting and/or funny, with a slightly patronizing edge- qualifying interrupts to get the convo going...Walking around the mall I usually just use Tyler's approach and just point at them and say "you" repeatedly until I go up to them and start talking. Openers don't usually matter. | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever moved to a new city, knowing nobody, in their mid-to-late 20's and successfully made -real- friends? If so, how did you do it?HA, says the person who still even uses the word "nerd" you fucking loser. You think you're better than me because you drink, this is 21st century, not in the 80's anymore and you can stop being an insecure piece of shit because you aren't in high school either. Well, I'm in high school, but I don't preach to people about being oppressed because I smoke weed, what the fuck? The idiots on /r/trees don't represent everyone else that smokes, I'm not a part of some stupid internet gang. I smoke beca… | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever moved to a new city, knowing nobody, in their mid-to-late 20's and successfully made -real- friends? If so, how did you do it?I rarely drink, and I'm not of drinking age yet either so going to clubs wouldn't work anyways. | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone ever moved to a new city, knowing nobody, in their mid-to-late 20's and successfully made -real- friends? If so, how did you do it?FUCK! | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone ever moved to a new city, knowing nobody, in their mid-to-late 20's and successfully made -real- friends? If so, how did you do it?Laced weed doesn't even exist anymore, at least not in the west coast or around my area, it would just be a waste of money and the cartels have nothing to do with the weed business now. The only time I've seen laced weed, it fucking sucked. Shit got laced with Pcp. | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever moved to a new city, knowing nobody, in their mid-to-late 20's and successfully made -real- friends? If so, how did you do it?I'm done with hard drugs, I drink occasionally. It makes me really depressed, but sometimes if I don't get to shit faced I'll have a good time. | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 03:30 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone ever moved to a new city, knowing nobody, in their mid-to-late 20's and successfully made -real- friends? If so, how did you do it?Oh wow, I didn't even realize he was joking it sounded so scientific. | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 03:26 PM |
| 11 | Has anyone ever moved to a new city, knowing nobody, in their mid-to-late 20's and successfully made -real- friends? If so, how did you do it?WHAT! Did you just say alcohol is better than drugs in general!?! Coke, heroin and etc. I understand but how can you say that the same drink that makes people beat their children and choke on their own puke is better than a plant that makes you laugh and eat junk food? | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 04:03 AM |
| -1 | Has anyone ever moved to a new city, knowing nobody, in their mid-to-late 20's and successfully made -real- friends? If so, how did you do it?It would've been better if you were talking about drugs. | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 03:51 AM |
| 10 | Has anyone ever moved to a new city, knowing nobody, in their mid-to-late 20's and successfully made -real- friends? If so, how did you do it?I thought by definition a rave is a dance party thrown in an abandoned establishment. | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 03:50 AM |
| 0 | [FR] K-close girl from street with offhand commentAlright man, I'm telling you, everything you say I've tried or my personality does not fit in with. You can't really help me, I just have to see what happens in the future. My life is ok, I'm content with it. I'm just not happy, like I said I'm pretty depressed in fact. | /r/seduction | 10/08/13 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Tip: Keep your phone on silentAnd what if everyone else is hitting on girls and also have their cellphones on silent? | /r/seduction | 10/08/13 06:24 AM |
| 1 | [FR] K-close girl from street with offhand commentLike I said, I'm confident so I don't really care about anyone else's judgements. Anxiety has always been a problem for me but not in the sense that I am afraid of what other people think of me. I don't judge other people, and whatever anyone thinks of me doesn't bother me. I don't feel, and that is the problem. | /r/seduction | 10/08/13 12:51 AM |
| 1 | [FR] K-close girl from street with offhand commentI already workout, I don't have low self esteem, in fact I'm fairly confident. I have no problems being social and I have a good amount of friends. I'm telling you that I have most likely tried everything that you have done that has worked for you. | /r/seduction | 09/08/13 01:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] K-close girl from street with offhand commentYou don't really understand. I've tried all this happy go lucky shit, I've tried being more optimistic, I've tried meditating and all kinds of ridiculous shit, but nothing is going to magically make me happy. I've always been pretty emotionless. I still laugh at things and smile, but I'm never really "happy". Honestly, I don't know if I've ever even felt such an emotion. I've always strived to "just be happy", but I don't even know what that means or how I can do it. The only things that keep me… | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Tip: Keep your phone on silentWell that is unrealistic, obviously that isn't what I meant. "Hey, someone is in my house, call the police I'm afraid they will hear me!" Via text message | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 07:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What should you say when they ask if you have a girlfriend?Not yet, winky face | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 03:54 AM |
| 1 | [FR] K-close girl from street with offhand commentI've always tried with therapy, in the sense that I tried to connect or explain how I felt, but no one has ever helped. I even tried to convince myself at first that it was helping even though it wasn't. With my first therapist it got to the point where I'd just sit there and play board games with him for 45 minutes, it was fucking ridiculous. Some of them were assholes, some of them just attempt to hold a regular conversation when they realize they aren't getting anywhere, and some of them just… | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Tip: Keep your phone on silentWhat if my friend is being murdered and I ignored their text to get laid? Call me ridiculous, but I think that you need to answer your phone for certain people, maybe I'm just anxious. | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 03:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] K-close girl from street with offhand commentIt's never worked for me, and I've seen at least 5 therapists at this point, plus a psychiatrist who is a dickhead and I've stopped seeing and have stopped taking my medication, which is one of the best choices I've made in a long time. | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 03:21 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Decided to try something new, can't believe it worked! F-CloseHoly fucking shit, that's incredible. | /r/seduction | 08/07/13 01:29 AM |
| 6 | F-Closing an 18 year old.Damn, honestly, if you care about her feelings I'd stay away. Just my input. A lot of girls don't randomly develope feelings for a guy after they lose their virginity to them like they think they would, but it is still a possibility. For your ages, that's a decent age gap, nothing really wrong with it, but she's probably not as mature and definitely not as experienced as you are yet so be careful. | /r/seduction | 05/07/13 08:00 AM |
| 22 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readNot enough hate | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 08:15 PM |
| 8 | When you become your best self you don't get the girl, the girl gets you.It's not, it's not different than the average person, that's why you should strive to be better than them as a human being rather than bitching about it on the internet. | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 05:48 AM |
| 13 | When you become your best self you don't get the girl, the girl gets you.When your daughter grows up will you see her the same way? Probably not, because she's your daughter. So shut the fuck up because you're being judgmental. | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 05:41 AM |
| 14 | When you become your best self you don't get the girl, the girl gets you.That's just pure bitterness. The world doesn't revolve around you and just because you've been turned down doesn't mean every girl is a dumb whore that you can easily take advantage of. It sounds like you're just a douche using a nice guy persona, but like you've read that doesn't usually work. You need to learn to stop being so judgmental before entering the game. | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 05:35 AM |
| 14 | When you become your best self you don't get the girl, the girl gets you.I think you're missing the point of seduction. | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 05:31 AM |
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