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bongtokent/r/seduction16/07/15 03:12 AM
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Oh I’m aware they are treated differently. If you think a woman cant know how to brush off the extra attention and still be a genuine person who wants a real connection with a partner that makes you an incel. Someone with breast implants may be a shallow person but natural big tits exist too and just because someone gets treated nice because of it doesn’t mean they fuck all men they meet or jump from man to man.
/r/seduction24/08/25 01:15 PM
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And this thread and sub in general highlight perfectly why they’re dissatisfied.
/r/seduction24/08/25 01:07 PM
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Your incel is showing.
/r/seduction24/08/25 01:05 PM
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This comment shows why it isn’t “your turn” anymore. Don’t treat women like an object.
/r/seduction03/08/25 01:44 PM
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Nah this sub transitioned from seduction to an incel support group like five years ago
/r/seduction03/08/25 01:43 PM
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Between this post and these comments holy shit has this sub become pathetic.
/r/seduction03/08/25 01:42 PM
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Being fit and sorting your life out is to get you confidence. You see average guys pick up girls because they have confidence. If you’re wanting confidence there is no magic thing you can tell yourself to make yourself confident. Working out, having money, and a hobby you love will make you confident though.
/r/seduction29/10/24 05:05 PM
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This isn’t a girl he’s afraid of like you. They were in a situationship aka sleeping together and he ghosted. Dude has no interest
/r/seduction17/10/24 05:34 AM
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If all she says is “poodle” she ain’t interested my man. But also there’s plenty of follow ups there you’re just refusing to see opinions other than your own good luck with the ladies with your shit attitude. 🫡
/r/seduction28/08/24 10:48 PM
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I mean it depends on the exact situation. See her walking her dog. “That’s a pretty dog what breed is it?” Girls love to talk about their pets.
/r/seduction28/08/24 09:12 PM
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Questions are great as long as you’re not coming off as interrogating her and it’s an open needed question that requires thought and conversation to answer.
/r/seduction28/08/24 07:09 PM
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You’re trying to game a girl you’re dating. That’s your first mistake. Be a person.
/r/seduction26/08/24 07:40 PM
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I mean Jesus dude I can’t tell you how to say hey to someone. Just say hey and give her a generic compliment. “I like that shirt” or something and keep trucking. If she wants an actual conversation you’ll know.
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:43 PM
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I would start with talking to her in person. It’s creepy af to add someone on social that you’ve never spoken to or even gotten their name from them before. Much less to slide in their dms
/r/seduction26/08/24 05:27 PM
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That’s because your brain does it subconsciously without you thinking about it actively. So to a dumbass like you that doesn’t understand science it seems like you just looked a random direction. That however isn’t usually the case.
/r/seduction24/08/24 09:00 AM
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Because most women believe it or not are looking for a lifetime partner they can have kids with. When you come off as stupid or not knowing how to spell all they think is “eww my kids are going to be this stupid”. When you’re smart it’s “holy shit we could have successful smart babies.”
/r/seduction19/08/24 11:25 AM
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The world is your “oyster” says the guy trying to pressure girls alone in the woods into a date. Fucking boredline rapist waiting for his first victim right here
/r/seduction18/08/24 02:16 PM
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Any man regardless of looks and charisma is a strange man when in the fucking woods. The fact that countless people including women tell you this and you’re still just like “lol no I’m the shit” You make people uneasy and nervous and are too dumb to read the room thinking you’re full of rizz. YOU are the reason women choose a fucking bear over a man in the woods.
/r/seduction18/08/24 10:38 AM
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Spoken like a date rapist
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:57 AM
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As comfortable as possible would be not having to dodge a strange man while alone in the woods.
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:57 AM
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My man sitting here replying to himself trying to convince us whipping his dick out is a good move and works.
/r/seduction30/07/24 07:17 PM
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Welp I just found the reason you’re not having luck. That mindset seeps into your behavior during interactions whether you notice it or not. Also chances are that guy out in way more effort you just don’t see it. Also how do you know all these people are having threesomes? Sounds like you’re making stuff up to be butthurt about to me. Which again seeps into your personality and interactions with women.
/r/seduction29/07/24 12:21 PM
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They’re not working because you refuse to believe the problem is you. If you truly believed others had success like myself you would see that’s the only difference. You need to work on your mindset and attitude as it affects your personality. Hippos. Yep. I see why you can’t get girls. Quickly reverted back to that incel mindset.
/r/seduction24/07/24 02:38 PM
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Your attitude and mindset are certainly in your control. Your hygiene and appearance also is. I’m telling you I have success and you just refuse to believe it.
/r/seduction24/07/24 01:53 PM
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Man idk what to tell you. I’m 5’9 and literally have no problems. Even dating taller women. I really think the only missing factor here is personality or attitude.
/r/seduction24/07/24 01:51 PM
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Only with that defeatist attitude. I’m 5’9 not only do I date plenty I’ve dated plenty taller. Hit the gym. Make them feel you’re a protector even if you’re short.
/r/seduction24/07/24 10:41 AM
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If you have enough time to practice hitting on girls and reading the internet for advice you have 30-60 minutes a day for the gym. Low fat and carb isn’t really important. Eat 1g per lb of body weight in protein and count your calories. Stop eating at 2200-2500 if you’re not losing weight drop that number but you should.
/r/seduction24/07/24 10:39 AM
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It’s almost like the guy pretends to be something he’s not in the beginning. Everyone is attracted initially off appearance. You don’t know who a person is off just meeting them. Y’all keep treating women like shit though. Fucking incels.
/r/seduction22/07/24 06:40 PM
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No they fall for guys preying on them. Guys like you and I’m definitely a man. I just know how to communicate my intentions without leading women to believe it’s going to turn into a relationship.
/r/seduction22/07/24 05:03 PM
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They don’t admit it because a lot aren’t. They just fall prey to guys that lie and gas light them. Like you. Have fun being “used” your whole life.
/r/seduction22/07/24 12:47 PM
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Says the dudes who think being jacked and have nothing to talk about other than being a “chad” is deep. Yall constantly talk about only praying on women for one night stands but it’s they who are shallow.
/r/seduction22/07/24 12:21 PM
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This thread is nothing but incels in denial about their shitty misogynist “I’m a chad” personality being a deal breaker. She was attracted to you based off looks and hoped your “cocky/chad” mindset wasn’t a major personality trait. It was most likely a reoccurring joke and theme to show how “alpha” you are so she decided to cut loose because Buck that childish incel shit.
/r/seduction22/07/24 12:20 PM
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If you’re talking at least semi regularly it’s never too early to say “hey I’d love to chat face to face”
/r/seduction20/07/24 10:45 PM
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As someone who looks like a basic gym bro with no tats but is a massive metal head and anime nerd you never know dude. Don’t judge a book by its cover I’ve met some huge metal heads I would have wrote off as a “glamour girl” some people keep their look generic for career reasons.
/r/seduction17/07/24 10:07 PM
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And if you just put a little effort in you can have just as much success with non professional photos. Just put in some variety and have a good bio. I got more likes and matches than I cared to try to keep up with. 2 good selfies, 1 good selfie with my dog, a group photo at the gym with some friends, and a photo of me at the gym. No $500 headshot required.
/r/seduction15/07/24 04:16 PM
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Your incel is showing bud.
/r/seduction13/06/24 02:28 PM
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If a girl is trying to comfort themselves when talking to you then you should probably stop.
/r/seduction30/05/24 03:22 PM
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You aren’t being honest dude and it’s obvious. Girls who sleep with a guy after he clearly says “I’m just looking for a friend I can fuck” aren’t the girls to fall in love with you after a few fuck sessions. Maybe on a rare occasion but definitely not over and over. You aren’t being honest with them.
/r/seduction29/05/24 07:59 PM
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Well of fucking course you ignorant tool.
/r/seduction29/05/24 07:58 PM
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Most girls now want you to ask them on a date in the first few messages. Which is bizarre to me. I have a bunch of matches and I’m not trying to meet a lot of people every week.
/r/seduction23/05/24 05:34 PM
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Yes it is. Don’t listen to 95% of what this sub says. If she breaks eye contact first sure that’s cool. Looking away immediately shows she’s not interested or straight up creeped out. Unless she looks away giggling or some shit but that’s a rare scenario.
/r/seduction22/05/24 12:50 AM
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Says the guy spending thousands to try and approach women. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction02/05/24 11:04 AM
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Lmao you are so clueless. Those people coach people who are already good at what they do. They’re refining skills. If a coach hasn’t managed to teach a kid to get a ball in a hoop even once after a year. Yes that coach is worthless. I have never ever heard of anyone having game after coaching. You know what does work? Working on yourself and developing yourself as a person.
/r/seduction02/05/24 10:53 AM
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Paying so much for something that is worthless. Coaches are just hype guys. If they actually taught you skills to grow confidence and game they wouldn’t t have repeat clients. It’s the same as people who swear by chiropractors “oh I’ve been going for 7 years.” When the reality is if you’ve been having to go for 7 years that chiropractors hasn’t done jack shit.
/r/seduction02/05/24 10:45 AM
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This is sad.
/r/seduction02/05/24 10:36 AM
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Right!! It certainly couldn’t be his personality!!
/r/seduction26/04/24 06:18 PM
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That’s an extreme take of what I said. You can be an absent parent without needing to be gone 24/7 and not contribute financially. Which is what a dead beat would be.
/r/seduction26/04/24 05:20 PM
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They haven’t talked about a relationship and she said he likes to play mental games. She KNOWS he just wants sex but wants to change that. She isn’t going to listen she knows his intentions.
/r/seduction26/04/24 11:07 AM
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Bro bitch spent 13 years raising HIS kids while he played football kept promising to retire to help with family life then pushed it off three times over three years when he kept saying he would retire. HE was the selfish one.
/r/seduction26/04/24 10:56 AM
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She stuck with him through a “normal” football career. It was after his “I’m retiring to spend time with family”. Then him coming back and saying “Actually I’m gonna play a few more years”. She waited until she thought she was supposed then had enough. She is richer than Brady. SHe didn’t need him to amass millions for his family
/r/seduction26/04/24 10:53 AM
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Tom Brady got dumped because he refused to prioritize his family and wife because football.
/r/seduction26/04/24 04:03 AM
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Texting is the worst area to try and apply game as you can’t apply tone or emotion as well. Don’t try to neg and don’t be needy. Match their energy level and ask questions without straight up interrogating them. That’s it.
/r/seduction26/04/24 04:02 AM
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Went from almost no matches to 10 in one day plus more that liked me but was a no go for me. I’m also extremely picky considering I like Alt girls and live in the Bible Belt so that’s a lot for 30 minutes of swiping. Photos are definitely king
/r/seduction24/04/24 02:45 AM
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I’ll add to this as a guy with a bunch of results. Use chatGPT to write your profile bio. Feed it your interests and what you’re looking for. Tweak it to make it more human but keep it as a whole. For example. “Write a short dating profile for a 28 year old male into X hobbies looking for hookups/commitment/whatever and make it laid back and funny. “ then tweak and use the result. You can even throw “this bio brought to you by chatGPT” and you’ll get a laugh. Side note Facebook dating has surpri…
/r/seduction24/04/24 02:25 AM
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It’s the culture now a days. Girls aren’t afraid to admit they just want hook ups. Especially on dating apps.
/r/seduction22/04/24 05:00 PM
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Bet I know why
/r/seduction22/04/24 05:00 PM
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Not dude you commented on but as someone about to turn 34 and been through my fair share. It’s definitely easier for hookups now but harder to find long term commitment.
/r/seduction22/04/24 02:50 PM
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What even is this sub anymore
/r/seduction22/04/24 02:48 PM
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Bro. Read this post as unbiased as possible then move on.
/r/seduction12/04/24 11:52 PM
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No is no
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:29 PM
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So you think every woman gets off the exact same with the exact same method? You’ve got to talk to the girl you’re with.
/r/seduction08/04/24 12:57 AM
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“Limiting texting” that’s what he means. Texting isn’t a game. Respond when you can. don’t respond instantly but don’t take hours every time. That doesn’t mean ghost all day. Girls don’t like that shit no matter how much you guys tell yourself they do. Girls want to feel valued. If you’re not texting at all you’re showing no interest and that she has no value to you. That doesn’t make her throw herself at you it makes her move to the next guy that does.
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:00 PM
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Fair enough I just assumed because of all the people that have been behaving that way when posting here lately. My apologies to you sir for assuming.
/r/seduction30/03/24 11:01 PM
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Best advice and he downvoted it cause he didn’t agree or is afraid to commit to your advice. That sums this sub up in a nutshell.
/r/seduction30/03/24 10:06 PM
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The biggest advice I can give you for charisma is be true to yourself. Develop hobbies and interests that you love. Love yourself and don’t be afraid to talk to people. Start small with one friend you feel really safe with and work on being more vocal and outgoing around just them. Then work it up to another friend or acquaintances. Flash a smile to any girl you make eye contact with even if you aren’t attracted. People love someone who has things going on and who know who they are.
/r/seduction08/03/24 06:17 PM
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This attitude and mindset is why you’re a volcel. That’s right you’re not an incel. You’re voluntarily celebate because you don’t care to change your toxic mindset.
/r/seduction05/09/23 07:12 PM
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You’re missing the point. I literally AGREE with what yoy said. I’m just saying out of the context of using it on women we don’t have to sit with other guys in this sub Reddit and pretend it’s super hilarious.
/r/seduction05/06/23 12:27 PM
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I mean I agree with you. Dude is acting like it’s the most hilarious line ever though and it’s really not. Again if you say ot well it’s going to be funny to a girl. Doesn’t mean we have sit here like “omg it’s hilarious “
/r/seduction31/05/23 11:09 AM
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If you’re five and never heard it before sure.
/r/seduction31/05/23 08:11 AM
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White knight if anything. Do you know what an incel is? They’re the ones who degrade women for being with everyone but them cause they’re a “nice” guy. Not the ones who stick up for women in a situation they weren’t involved in.
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:02 AM
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Beside her or more ideally at a 90 degree angle to her. You can still create eye contact easily, but she doesn’t feel like you’re staring at or watching her. This is especially true for dinner dates.
/r/seduction18/02/21 01:00 PM
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The day of you guys hanging out just text her and say “so are you ready for our first date?” Now it’s a date or she ghosts you.
/r/seduction06/07/20 08:23 PM
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Gym and hobbies. Gym gets your confidence up. Hobbies get your social skills up as long as it's one that causes you to go outside and/or interact. It doesn't even matter if it's a hobby that a lot of girls are into. Skateboarding, photography, pool, cars, hiking, or anything that gets you around people. Just getting out of the house and meeting people even guys is a huge start. You'll start to develop friendships. Friends lead to more friends then suddenly you've got friends, hobbies, and an att…
/r/seduction23/06/19 04:55 PM
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I don't know where he heard it from or if it is true. However I due know the reasons why people find yawning to be "contagious" is due to humans tenancy towards empathy. I know we try extra hard to empathize with people we like so that might be why?
/r/seduction14/09/18 03:30 PM
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Adderall
/r/seduction15/08/17 06:20 PM
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Actually most adhd meds Considering they're alot of them that are just amphetamines like Adderall
/r/seduction15/08/17 06:20 PM
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Almost all adhd meds, because they mostly all amphetamines or derived to work the same way.
/r/seduction15/08/17 06:19 PM
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He said his problem specifically was placing the order. What does he hide and make his sister answer the door too. Second this was a joke
/r/seduction26/07/17 09:24 PM
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Online ordering bruh
/r/seduction24/07/17 07:26 PM
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This is the most solid advice I've seen on this sub in a long time. Doing exactly those things is what turned it all around for me.
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:11 PM
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Seriously if it's a guy he'll lie if he wants her. If its a girl she'll probably lie if she likes you.
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:10 PM
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It's changed my life drastically over the past two years. Glad to see it has for someone else to. The quality of posts on here is getting hit or miss.
/r/seduction31/05/16 03:38 PM
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My magic solution was best friending a hot female who loved to drink. She became a great wingman and when you have a hot female hanging out with you regardless of what happens plus she's trying to help you.... It gets really easy to not give a shit.
/r/seduction31/05/16 03:34 PM
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Just a tip not sure if it actually works, but it seems to for me. Mix a little of your Cologne in with a bottle of unscented lotion. Apply lotion to areas you spray. Makes the smell last longer.
/r/seduction17/01/16 11:20 AM
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I'm pretty good at game, but realized on the last Bullet I'm bad about that one... Thanks guy.
/r/seduction17/01/16 08:33 AM
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It's not that hard, but why I accomodate when there are billions of girls out there. One of them I'm sure I dint have to accomodate for.
/r/seduction20/05/15 02:14 PM
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What if she eventually moves in or things get even more serious. He has to accommodate every meal the rest of his life.
/r/seduction19/05/15 10:24 PM
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Fair enough
/r/seduction21/03/15 02:37 AM
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I had a similar situation work out for me. The trick is what you said disconnecting and coming back. People down-voting just cause it's not worked for them.
/r/seduction20/03/15 05:06 PM
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I disagree. I've known this girl for 4 years now when we first met i was a nerd with no game. I professed the crush I had on her and immediately got friend zoned. We stopped hanging out for a while some time after that. Anyways now we go to the bar almost every night, and the other night she professed her crush on me. Then we had sex. Edit: In case people want to know what I did to change her impression of me. I went to the bar with her a lot. I mingled with her friends. I fucked a few of her fr…
/r/seduction20/03/15 03:50 PM
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