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| 2 | What's the point of approaching if you can't take them out on dates?You need to get your life in order before you try to bring someone into it. This is just a distraction. Quit fucking around, once you're stable this pick up stuff will be much easier and more fun. | /r/seduction | 31/12/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Woman asking: How can i seduce a guy without anything sexual involved?You used the word seduce and posted in a seduction subreddit where the main goal of people here is hooking up. What did you really expect? My answer to your question is just show interest in however you want and when something sexual starts to happen, say you want to wait. Some guys will not be okay with that and some will. You just need to be upfront and honest about it once things seem serious. | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Why does texting fizzle out?It depends on how she's texting. Don't ignore her if she is texting you but don't create the conversation. Or force it. Get to know her on the date then things can change if it goes well. | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Why does texting fizzle out?Why do you feel the need to let her know your thoughts? | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 08:00 AM |
| 4 | Why does texting fizzle out?Lol what is it like knowing nothing about life ? I wish you luck. You'll need it | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Why does texting fizzle out?Again, I never said not to text at all. But if someone like OP is wondering why they stop responding it's because he's relying on texts too much. You're never going to seal the deal in text, you're not going to make her fall for you in text either. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 06:50 PM |
| 8 | Why does texting fizzle out?I didn't say it doesn't, just don't rely on it to win her over. Use it as a tool but spend the work and effort in person. Girls who are texting a lot are also texting a bunch of other guys. Spending time with her is for you alone. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Why does texting fizzle out?Yeah okay bro enjoy your tiktok dates. I'll be fucking my wife. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 05:53 PM |
| 19 | Why does texting fizzle out?Texting should only be used to make plans, not form connections. Get off your phone and make your witty comments or smooth moves to her face. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Does height really matter?Who cares! Why do you care? Insecurities are showing in you, especially when you brought it up to her. Some girls may take height seriously just like some guys take other physical aspects seriously, that's their problem not yours. If someone isn't into you for any reason they have that right. No one likes insecure people though, it is a bad and toxic trait. It's not like you can change your height so why waste anytime worrying about it. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?Do you just want to fuck or are you actively looking for a relationship. If you just want to fuck I'd take it easy with the lectures and just make your knowledge make you more interesting. Only get deeper into it if she is into it. If you're looking for a relationship you will want someone who appreciates your intelligence and maybe even is up there with you so you should for sure dive into it. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 11:32 PM |
| -1 | My dates rarely ask me questionsWhy are you so focused on yourself on a date? It sounds like you don't even care what they have to say and are just waiting to talk about yourself. They can probably pick up on that and is leading to bad conversations. Maybe show some genuine interest in them and they will reciprocate. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 03:49 PM |
| 8 | Anybody have a go to approach for 18-19 year old Gen Z girls? This age range puzzles me.I think it's a sign he doesn't know how to interact or relate to girls his age so he's trying to go younger. He's 24 according to his post history. This whole post is weird. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 12:25 PM |
| 11 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meLol the single guy complaining on Reddit about meeting people trying to give advice. If you can't like yourself how the hell do you expect any women to like you? Nah bro keep doing what you're doing I'll go back to fucking my wife. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 06:34 PM |
| 5 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meSo what, who gives a fuck what people think. If you are living the life you want, what makes you happy, then you don't have time to waste with that negative energy shit. Anyone who says that shit to you isn't worth being around anyway. Karma is a bitch. Once you start living your life for you and not for others, things will change. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meYou need a life that someone would want to share. Going to bars to make out with women is not a passionate hobby. Live a full life that makes you happy and girls will see that and want to join you | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 06:10 PM |
| 15 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meQuit playing the game then. Be yourself and you'll attract people that like that. If you're being some fake bro to fuck chicks then you'll only attract girls who like fake bros. It's not rocket science. You seem to think the whole world is black or white. Newsflash, everyone is different and likes different things. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Do all women adjust thier clothings when you pass by them"I'm not even looking but I notice this" Sounds like you're looking to me. If you're looking and trying not to maybe you are coming off creepy? | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 12:38 PM |
| 6 | How do you become self assured, self confident and charismatic?Stop caring what other people think. Be selfish with your time, do things that you enjoy. Don't be afraid of failure. | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Dating as a 5'7" male is brutalThey just like me for who I am This is the key to this whole subreddit. All the other shit can only get you so far but if you are full of shit they will notice | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Flirting with “Low Self Esteem” WomenAlso, you're complimenting her CHOICE, which is process she went through. This is great advice and what I did often while single. Look for where she put effort into her look and get specific, have a conversation about it. If her makeup looks really nice or the outfit is well put together, let her know. I've had success playing girls off each other in a group, commenting on them all but whispering to one that they outshined the rest. (I actually ran that joke on to each of them saying I was lying… | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 10:18 AM |
| 2 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?Read my second response. You use failures as lessons and build upon them. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 03:08 PM |
| 9 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?I used to have really bad social anxiety and forced myself through it. You have to practice and accept failures. Make small talk with random people you encounter, baristas at Starbucks, someone in a line with you, etc... The best scenario is a pleasant conversation, worst is 30 seconds of awkwardness that they completely forget about as soon as they walk away. Learn from any mistakes. There really is nothing to lose by trying and you slowly build up a wall of confidence. Know that you never have… | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 01:29 PM |
| 85 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?You will never be a confident man if you are basing that confidence on your interactions with other people. Real confidence comes from within. Once you figure that out, the rest will come easy. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 11:58 AM |
| 3 | I’m Boring On First Dates. How Do I Fix It?Do you have passions or hobbies? A job? School? Don't worry about what she's into, you can find that out on a date. But it she asks you questions you should have answers with weight behind them. "I really like movies" vs "I really enjoy movies, specifically this director or that director. Have you ever seen this movie?" See how one is boring and one actually is a conversation? | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 01:49 PM |
| 10 | Girls think I'm gay.Girls have assumed that of me often as I have a bit of a feminine personality and energy. Something I've accepted and embraced. When I was single it really helped stand out at shows/clubs when talking to women. I can't even count how many times I took their attention away from beef heads saying cheesy pick up bs to them and ending up with their number or more. I still get asked that even after marrying a beautiful women, people are weird. The worst thing you can do is try to change who you are b… | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 12:25 PM |
| 11 | You guys who can hold deep conversations with girls mainly and men, how to make friends, what is the secret?Find hobbies outside of school. Exercise, sports, concerts, museums, travel. Basically create passions that you actually enjoy. Once you have a passion or two they will naturally come up in conversations and lead to a deeper conversation. Plus you could meet people while chasing these hobbies that enjoy it with you. You can't build a house without any materials, grow yourself first then try to get others to join you. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Got ignored multiple times cold approachingYou can cold approach a girl at a party who hasn't given you attention but she is there to socialize so is in the right mindset. Approaching a girl walking through a gas station parking lot is almost never going to work unless you are a model getting out of a limo, otherwise it is extremely creepy. Especially an anxious guy saying excuse me FROM BEHIND. Just don't do that to women. It's rude and won't get you anywhere. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotYour post is missing important details. How is your life? Do you have a good job? A nice clean place? Do you workout? Any hobbies that you are passionate about? Are you happy with yourself? Would you date you? All of those are important to women when you are going into your 30s. | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 12:26 PM |
| 2 | How does someone become mysterious?Unless you're open to a fault, don't try to be something you're not. That will come across worse than any mysterious persona you could pull off. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 06:33 PM |
| 7 | Hot Girl Shit Tests: Barely RespondingRemember, theyre just a hot piece of ass. You are a confident, successful, ambitious man No, she is a person. He is a person. Treat them like people, not objects, and maybe they might be more open to having a conversation. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 12:15 PM |
| 5 | Three (3!) girls asked me for my number this weekendBoth nights I was having a lot of fun and felt really comfortable This is the key point anyone struggling should take note of. This is what girls are attracted to. Confidence isn't about being sure of yourself, its about putting yourself first so you are comfortable in your own skin. That oozes positive energy that girls pick up on and makes it way easier to engage conversations. | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 12:12 PM |
| 6 | Asking a girl I went to middle school withoutI don't know what would be the best way to get into her DMs without sounding weird. Definitely don't say anything you said in this post. Just see what she's up to these days and ask her out. Stop overthinking | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 12:49 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I'm telling you that there would be a tuna foot lover out there somewhere for you if that was truly your passion. Also having a passion for something, no matter how silly is always a good thing. Maybe you prefer only the freshest caught tuna, maybe you catch them yourself. You'll probably find a whole group of tuna foot people you can hang out with. That's the point about being your self, if you are truly happy and passionate then that will be attractive to people. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 09:24 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]I've made this comment on here so many times and it falls on deaf ears. It's just a different form of insecurity, they just lump all the usual things people worry to much about into the word beta. The fact that anyone, OP included, has to ask this question just screams insecure and they need to stop giving a fuck what anyone thinks and just be themselves. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 05:21 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Using words like "simp beta like behavior" and having absolutely no grammar or punctuation would make me not reply either. | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 06:01 PM |
| 51 | [deleted by user]Pretty sure not giving a fuck what people think of you is the motto of this subreddit. Why do you care? Is your campus the size of a high school where you are seeing only the same people all the time? If you are going around being an asshole or something to these girls then maybe that would be a valid issue but not being an asshole should be the other motto of this subreddit. | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | It's crazy how important social circle and status isA social circle is proof of value. They see it as "hey if these all these people like him and are cool then he must be a pretty decent person." Having no social life other than going out solo does not look good. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 12:31 PM |
| 1 | What's the best way to maximize results from cold approaches?Stop comparing yourself to others. Don't worry about failing, just learn from mistakes. Also don't make landing the girl your goal, make having a successful interaction the goal. If you succeed in having a positive connection with her then move forward with sealing the deal. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 03:27 PM |
| 15 | Body countNo. Just no. Nobody cares. Especially women. In fact it will turn women away from you. This is a horrible mindset to have and will lead you nowhere in life. | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 12:28 PM |
| 25 | I (21M) feel like a loser because I'm still a virgin.This post is what's wrong with you. You are whining and complaining about stuff that does not matter. This negative energy you are spewing out will definitely be felt by anyone you interact with. Stop comparing yourself to others. There is no rule about when people have sex, when it happens it happens. You should stop wasting time worrying about having sex and work on improving yourself. | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:37 PM |
| 4 | How to ACTUALLY attract a womanThe OP is saying the guys on here GIVING advice are pieces of shit, not the people looking for advice. The people spreading this stupid mentality of treating women like objects are definitely not in relationships. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 05:18 PM |
| 2 | How to ACTUALLY attract a womanI too am in an actual loving relationship and only stay subbed here to correct horrible advice. I've seen so many posts that basically say "be someone you are not and treat women like objects and you will get laid." No! Be yourself, accept failures, and learn from mistakes. Literally nothing else matters. Even if you are an asshole, you will figure that out pretty quick if you actually use failures as learning experiences and maybe (hopefully) become a better person. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | How to be more comfortable with sexual tension?It's okay to not be that guy. If you don't enjoy it don't force yourself to do it. Not all women like that either. It's better to be yourself and attract someone who likes the real you instead of try to be someone you're not and attract someone who is into that. I would just work on showing interest in your own way, ask them on a date to do something you like to do. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 12:11 PM |
| 1 | So confused right nowI mean technically yes but what I meant is you are basically stuck in the same building as them for 4 years as opposed to the whole city. Less embarrassing if you won't see them again | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 10:45 PM |
| 1 | A tip for approaching women.Hi I'm Ashenome, I'm trying to practice my small talk. Can you help me out? | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | A tip for approaching women.Another way of saying that is treat her like a normal person, not a prize or a trophy. Cause ya know, she is a normal person just like anyone else. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 09:56 PM |
| 3 | So confused right nowPeople seem to overthink situations like this often but with you being in HS I can say you are definitely way over thinking it. Clearly getting into a debate over who remembers who isn't a really interesting or fun conversation. If anything you should have changed the subject after she said she didn't with something more relevant or interesting but it would have been better just to talk about something else from the start. I have no idea what HS is like now as it's been about 16 years but I imag… | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 09:46 PM |
| 16 | "Dont be friends with girls"Your issue was your own, not their fault for rejecting you. Instead of accepting that they only wanted to be friends you kept wanting to be with them, dwelling on it and not really being their friend at all. You were leading them on pretending to be friends as opposed to a girl leading you on to hook up. Don't blame the women for your self esteem issues. I've failed to hook up with a few girls and have created life long friends, through them I met my wife. You know what looks good? Being able to… | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Feel intimidated by attractive women, not sure how to fix it.Practice makes perfect buddy. What's the worst that can happen if you start up a conversation? 10 seconds of awkwardness? Try, fail, learn, repeat. Any fails will be a lesson, any positive interactions will be a huge confidence boost. There is really nothing to lose. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Just read a post from a female saying "You know he lame when he treats you well"You are not only generalizing women to the max but you are claiming you can't get laid without treating them as you say. My point was that not all women think this way and the ones that do have issues that would have them seek out men who ignore them and treat them badly. For me this subreddit is more about men bettering themselves inorder to land a woman, not on how to manipulate women to fuck them. Telling someone to start treating women poorly when that is not who they are, in order to have s… | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Just read a post from a female saying "You know he lame when he treats you well"Don't try and be something you are not. That will only be a short term gain while in the long run you will become unhappy with yourself. If you like the person you are, build on that and women will come. There are billions of people out there, not all of them fit the mold of this subreddit. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Just read a post from a female saying "You know he lame when he treats you well"Saying it takes mental strength to treat a woman like shit is just stupid. A true man will take care of a woman even if that means treating her rough some of the time. A person who is not capable of caring for someone or being cared by someone has internal struggle that they need someone else to pacify. Both need to figure out how to be happy on their own and then find a partner that can do the same. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Are compliments enough or am I doing it wrong?"usually starts with..." So you just say the same thing to every girl you're interested in? Why not try and be more specific or start an actual conversation. Show some personality to give her a reason to talk to you. Pretty girls get called pretty all the time, they aren't going to give you the time of day unless you stand out. | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 12:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you approach a girl for her Snapchat in public?This is one of the stupidest things I've seen in here. Your friends are idiots. Let them be the weirdos asking girls for their snap and you be the one asking them out on dates. The best outcome of this is when they see you in one of these snaps they wanted to see so badly. | /r/seduction | 14/05/21 12:54 PM |
| 2 | How to become more dominant?So when I try being more dominant it feels wrong, or at the very least I'm unaccustomed to it as it doesn't feel like an honest portrayal of who I am. And that more than anything I'm not a fan of. It doesn't matter how dominant you seem to be, pretending to be something your not will always be obvious. Don't do something that goes against who you are just for the sake of "seduction." The last thing you'll want is to be with girls who don't actually like you for who you are rather they just like … | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 12:30 PM |
| 5 | No success with Raw Cold ApproachingThe answer is totally BLCOK her path. That's it. The less options she has to move physically, the bigger possibility she will not move. Dude no, don't do this. Women won't respond to this positively at all, ever. | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 12:56 PM |
| 1 | No success with Raw Cold ApproachingStopping a girl on the street randomly to hit on them just sounds horrible. The situation has to to already exist for an interaction to happen, forcing it will just push them away. | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 12:54 PM |
| 8 | I've finally found the what truly makes me happy - WomenI hate to burst your bubble but seeking validation from women is not a true happiness. You are leaning on others for your own self worth, that will only lead to you having issues when you aren't getting what you want from them. However you are close to this happiness and what you said is the key, "they liked my true self." THIS is what you should be focusing on here. Focus on being your "true" self, always improving. I put true in quotes because I'm not sure what your not true self is but I imag… | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 06:39 PM |
| 4 | A girl I barely know randomly sent me a snap in her lingerie...Is this a common thing that women do on snap? Sending out a borderline nude to people they barely know for self esteem boosts? How should I have responded? Lol dude, did you really have to ask that? She probably sent it to a hundred guys and is probably following up with an onlyfans link. | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 11:13 PM |
| 5 | How do men release their emotions?I have a close knit group of friends that occasionally get into deep conversations after a night of partying and it does the trick. I basically hold very little back and they do the same. I do share things with my SO but those conversations don't always give me the same relief that my friends do. | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Things you need to stop doing if you become obsessed with every woman you start casually datingWhile accurate when just trying to hook up, a lot of these are valid feelings to have when trying to actually find a long term partner. I can check off many of those boxes when I met my now future wife. | /r/seduction | 07/01/21 12:55 PM |
| 2 | I (18M) finally successfully approached to girl (19F) and I think I'm too excited and worry will I fuck it all upListen man, stop worrying about everything. Just do what you want to do, what feels right. If you want to be the guy that immediately invites girls over, then go for it. If you want to go on some dates first, do it. You're only 18, you're going to make plenty of mistakes when trying to date/fuck women and that's totally normal. Being afraid of doing something wrong looks way worse than trying and failing. Figuring out what you want is the hardest part, then you just have to work towards it. | /r/seduction | 01/10/20 06:41 PM |
| 26 | Being nervous but doing it anyway?Don't confuse confidence with cockiness. I think real confidence comes from accepting failure. Not giving fuck will not land the girl every time, it just means if you don't its no bid deal. Learn from mistakes and try again. Eventually you will figure out which qualities you have that you should maximize and those that you need to work on more. | /r/seduction | 12/09/20 02:24 PM |
| 2 | How to pickup women using mushroomsThe funniest thing about this post is he said get a haircut, I freaking wish I could get a haircut right now. | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 12:24 PM |
| 3 | Do I suck at Tinder messaging, or are these results the norm?You're missing the point, stop worrying about all this. Just be yourself and say whatever comes to mind. It's a conversation not a term paper. There is no normal and if there was girls wouldn't respond to all guys saying the same thing. | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Do earrings make a guy more appealing?You're missing the point. If you like something, don't let others dictate if you should do it or not. You do you. | /r/seduction | 08/04/20 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Do earrings make a guy more appealing?If you like it then rock it. If girls you meet don't like you because of your piercings then are they really worth pursuing anyway? | /r/seduction | 08/04/20 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Masculine v. Effeminate menI definitely consider myself an effeminate man and while single it was rather fun and easy to interact with girls, especially at clubs. I could strike up conversations with them that caught them off guard, complimenting their outfit and their look in ways no other guy in the club was doing and they always reacted positively. I'd get numbers left and right. Even pulling attention from macho guys that were trying their standard lines. It was fun times. | /r/seduction | 08/04/20 02:05 PM |
| 2 | How do I up my game to be more like a fuckboy?LOL what?? Get outta here with that mentality. Sounds like your best bet is hiring a hooker. Good luck buddy | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 08:14 PM |
| 1 | How do I up my game to be more like a fuckboy?Someone told you to engage them in conversations without talking about yourself and your response was "Why can't I talk about myself?" You should treat them like people not just sex objects. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I up my game to be more like a fuckboy?Dude you came in here saying you haven't had sex and can't talk to girls yet you are talking like an expert about relationships. You clearly don't get it so try to take some of the advice in here. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 06:58 PM |
| 0 | How do I up my game to be more like a fuckboy?Making sex your #1 priority will probably lead to a bad time. Get hobbies that don't involve fucking women and be somebody that people want to be around, then girls will come naturally. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 05:12 PM |
| 5 | How to get over the fact that college girls are judgemental and superficial?You are looking for girls to hook up with but don't want to play the game? You're describing finding someone you want to date but that doesn't seem to be your goal. If you want to date a normal girl, you probably wont find her at a party in college with a mindset for hooking up. Just talk to girls normally without trying to get in their pants and eventually someone will reciprocate. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 09:18 PM |
| 4 | Advancing a relationship"Hey "Girl I like" would you want to grab some food with me tonight at "cool place with good food"?" | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Forgot the name of the girl I'm meeting for a first date tomorrow - any clever way to get it?The only time I ever use my gf's name is when I refer to her when talking to other people. It probably won't even come up. Get her to add you on fb at some point if it goes well. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | How you even get a date after college?Sounds like you don't have a lot of free time and the little you do you are trying to date. Use that time to better yourself. Workout and grow interesting hobbies and be happy with yourself. Opportunities will start popping up at that point and you won't have to go searching as hard. | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Snapchat questionI would just have stopped responding to her when she offered Snapchat. I imagine her sitting there flipping through all the stories and snaps of her matches lol. Ain't nobody got time for that | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Getting more of a chill, laid back vibe instead of scholarly and serious?What helped me is realizing that people are usually too busy worrying about themselves to worry about what you are doing or saying. | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 04:57 PM |
| 4 | [FR] 18 years old, daygame at mall. First "game sesh" in years. Number close at the end.Why are you so heavily invested in this game stuff when it seems you are already able to approach random girls and have conversations? At a Forever 21 of all places! Have you tried just being yourself and not seeing any of these women as a challenge? I understand there is sense in this game but I see it as a tool to build confidence. An 18yo writing novels about hitting on someone at the mall just seems to be focusing on the wrong things. | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Is it bad that I find random girls online to sextThe validation is it. I used to do something similar until I realized this. Gotta validate yourself, you'll never get it from anyone else. | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 11:42 PM |
| 4 | How to Overcome the "Nice Guy Syndrome"If you're enjoying the fact that you're talking to a petty girl, then focus on the fact that you're enjoying it, not that she's a pretty girl and not that you're performing for her. She's there because of you, which means she's there for you. Yeah, so the fuck what that she thinks you're there for her, who fucking cares about that but her? Stop it. Quit being a fucking dick to yourself, quit not giving a shit about you want. This is what I need to do, not just with girls but people in general. | /r/seduction | 02/10/16 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Alright seddit, lets talk about making friends, having a social life, and building a social circle, especially after graduation!I used tinder. I found girls I wasn't into but had lots of common interests and still talked and went out with them. Through one tinder match I went from 1-2 friends and a boring as shit summer to a friend circle of about 40 that can barely fit in one picture. It's still not perfect but man what a change between this year and last. | /r/seduction | 18/09/16 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Becoming more sexual?Just have the same conversations with them but steer them towards the two of you doing all that together. From your random chitchat to the kinks. Then you date ideas and what to do afterwards. Even small things like "just wait till I do that to you" or something similar would get them thinking of you in a sexual way. | /r/seduction | 18/05/16 08:32 PM |
| 5 | Got this message from a female friend. I fucking love you guysThis did it for me | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 02:30 AM |
| 1 | What Women Are Universally Attracted ToAka just be yourself and don't be afraid of what people think about it. Assuming you're a good person, you'll find a girl that likes you for you. | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 08:17 PM |
| 2 | How to approach a group of girls?If they are wearing similar clothing I like to pick one and tell her she wore it best. Always get's a positive reaction. Bonus points if you do the same to another in the group. I've gotten busted doing that but both thought it was hilarious. | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 12:18 AM |
| 1 | A girl was offput by my quick interest, shut me down, and I shut her back down. 1 week later shes crawling back. A good lesson.What? Did you even read the post? He didn't text her again until asking her to the game. I'm not going to argue with you though, you seem set on making her out to be a bad guy here. | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 11:07 PM |
| 3 | A girl was offput by my quick interest, shut me down, and I shut her back down. 1 week later shes crawling back. A good lesson.She could have went to the hockey game, to dinner, drinks, probably on his dime and all with the intention to keep him as a friend but never say it directly. Instead she turned him down before he spent too much time on her. That's how dating should be, none of the circus and games that most people play. | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 10:24 PM |
| 3 | A girl was offput by my quick interest, shut me down, and I shut her back down. 1 week later shes crawling back. A good lesson.Besides the good response by the op I think the girl should get some credit for being upfront with him instead of stringing him to the friendzone | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 05:39 PM |
| -1 | To those who do well on Tinder: Please share your pictures with us.I have a goofy picture from a music festival that captures my personality pretty well, I also have a really twisted up yoga picture that makes me look like a pretzel. Every match asks about that picture. | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub.I am pretty good at acting myself, I think I'm afraid of failing. I know I shouldn't be, but that doesn't mean I can just shut it off ya know? | /r/seduction | 31/07/14 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub.Well its more me than them. I am unsure how to behave on a date so I just don't ask them out. I have plenty of decent chats that fizzle out. | /r/seduction | 31/07/14 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub.What am I doing wrong? I'm talking to matches but I'm having anxiety setting up dates and getting any further. | /r/seduction | 31/07/14 01:42 AM |
| 0 | Online: opening - make it or break it. Best openers?but.. that's.. my sense of humor, what's the point in making a profile that doesn't show of who I am, yeh?) This is why I stopped reading advice on how to make profiles. Why lie about yourself? | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 12:23 PM |
| 10 | What to do after a girl slaps you?What'd you say to make her slap you? | /r/seduction | 01/07/12 04:42 PM |
| 9 | What are some things I should do on a getting to know you type coffee date to escalate?To me sitting next to her gives off a "I want to fuck you" vibe while sitting across from her is more of a "I'm actually interested in getting to know you before I fuck you" | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 06:51 AM |
| 20 | How do you start conversations, and keep them?The issue I had was trying to start conversations, being too nervous and quiet, and then saying a few words here and there and that's it. Ugh, that sounds like me in every social interaction ever. | /r/seduction | 20/02/12 09:14 AM |
| 22 | The Complete Guide to Not Giving a FuckI always read this kind of advice and think, fuck yes its so obvious! who gives a fuck! Then I slip back into stupid anti social boredom and any interaction I do have is plagued with a constant need of acceptance from people. I did enjoy this article though and am going to try again tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 04:14 AM |
| -1 | My hot 17 year old neighbor wants to be FWB. I'm 26. Is this an awful or awesome idea?Just do it FFS. whats the worst that could happen? she gets annoying and clingy? awkward passes in the hallway? vs having sex with a hot teenager? Sounds worth it | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 07:34 PM |
| 19 | [fr] girl outside coffee shopI say hello and introduce myself, ask for a cigarette (my pretense for talking to her). must be nice, not all of us have this conversation starting habbit | /r/seduction | 16/07/11 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Looking for a good cologne suggestionYou aren't going to attract a girl by scent. Find a girl then pick a scent that she likes. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 07:44 PM |
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