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The capitalization made this seem like the honest title of a podcast by men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:46 PM
11

Exactly. They have to shame women for not being to married, so at the end of the day marriage actually will appear to be beneficial to women. Men benefits a whole world, meanwhile women avoid the shame.
/r/askFDS20/04/21 08:21 AM
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Men are bonding through porn and through the objectification of female bodies. These pornsick men are pickmes, but they want to be picked by other men. They’re indoctrinated and incapable to understand why the hell would somebody choose to be a decent human being instead of jerking off to other people’s suffering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:40 AM
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I looked it up and apparently there is (I’m in Europe). But since HPV doesn’t cause symptoms in men, they not looking for ir scan the virus, only the illnesses related to it (eg. warts on the penis). It seems like if it doesn’t matter he can pass the virus to a woman, causing serious health problems.
/r/askFDS09/04/21 08:02 AM
1

Yeah probably. But I wouldn’t feel any better if they would resemble me :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:58 PM
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I came here to say this. I’ve never been to the U.S., so this whole racial problem is something I only know about from movies due to the cultural hegemony of the States, and I’m pretty sure I can’t fully understand. But I can’t wrap my mind around how is otherwise OK for him to follow, save and exchange other girls pics. If those girls were AA women it would be ok?? I don’t think so. It seems like she gaslights herself into believing it’s a racial problem, although it’s not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:59 PM
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gIvE hIm A gOLd, bOyfRieNd of tHe Year!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:21 PM
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Also in fictional TV shows no one is getting raped. The actors just pretend it. They pretend the violence, they pretend to suffer, they pretend the pain. That’s acting. In battle scenes no one is getting murdered for real. Yeah, porn is different. In porn the penetration is real. The pain is real. The tears are real. You can see on the porn actress’ face how hard they try to pretend they enjoy the brutal violence they have to endure just to get paid. In porn the pain is real, and the enjoyment i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:13 PM
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It’s also not a flex, Nigel. It’s how you cope with your emotional insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:21 AM
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Omg. So relatable. I found myself in discussions with where I was talked over about feminism multiple times. They never ask. They never curious. They think they have nothing to learn, although they never opened even an article related to feminism. Now I took a vow to rather bite off my tounge than engaging in a feminist topic with a man. No. Once I was lectured about my OWN BODY. A man had the audacity to tell me he has been with more women than I did, so he knows better the female body (and I’m…
/r/askFDS04/02/21 10:27 AM
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I think there are situations when explaining yourself or saying something witty is about desperately trying to make a good point or impression, and silence is the power move. But there are circumstances when a good comeback is somehow about self respect and power, and staying silent is weak - especially because women was expected to stay silent historically. Of course you shouldn’t explain yourself in paragraphs, but a one-liner putting a scrote to his place can be effortless and priceless. It c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:32 AM
2

This is genius.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:19 PM
4

Well, I don’t know. But I think he is bad news.
/r/askFDS16/01/21 10:25 PM
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Like my dog. She is not allowed to eat up anything from the streets, and she knows it. Yet, she handles every bite of trash as different from the other. Every time walking my dog, I have to be alert, because if she finds something she probably tries to eat it. The scenario always the same, she tries to eat up, I yell ‘NOO!!’, people will stare at me and she acts with innocent puppy eyes, like: ‘Sorry, I didn’t know it bothers you’ ‘I told you thousands times don’t eat up anything from the street…
/r/askFDS16/01/21 11:17 AM
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That’s his sex life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:21 PM
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Too relatable... I also would add a mattress without sheets. And duck taped computer cables.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:37 AM
10

Omg this, and “don’t be like that” are so triggering to me. I get so mad when I hear it, but I should’ve got a calm, cold and ironic answer:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:41 PM
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A couple of weeks ago a man on the bus was coughing, pull down his mask and spit on the BUS FLOOR. He has a woman with him, and after the spitting she affectionately put her head on his shoulder. I couldn’t believe it. The bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:23 AM
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My ex’s wifi network was named after a model who is only famous for having huge breasts. I felt disturbed about it. I tried to cOmMuNiCaTe, but he said it’s just a “joke” and I shouldn’t be bothered. So I changed my computer’s screen background to a slideshow of half naked, big, manly celebrities with full beards. My ex was skinny and boyishly lacking body hair. Guess what. In a couple of days he changed his WiFi network’s name to plain digits. It was pre-FDS, but I already knew that men are not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:45 PM
11

This! So well worded. 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:03 PM
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He doesn’t want them to turn into boring home bodies by giving up his exciting adventurous lifestyle which is drinking beer and watching football at his friend’s place.. I can’t believe somebody seriously wrote this down. Are men okay??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:04 PM
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I think this is exactly what is already happening. Slowly, step by step. But it’s happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:44 AM
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Because he is trying to talk out himself throughout gaslighting you. You are confused because it doesn’t add up. His so called intentions and actions are not correlated. When you want to get rid of something, you just delete, you don’t send it to someone else.
/r/askFDS04/11/20 03:14 PM
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Ughh. She is awful. You can see she’s is mentally ill, lacking self awareness and self-reflection. I feel pity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:44 PM
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Omg I know this joke from the ‘90s. My grandfather who grew up in the communist block thought it was funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:18 PM
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Mine is a quote from Samuel Beckett. Ever tried Ever failed No matter Try again Fail again Fail better. I understand it’s not the common American-type “nothing is impossible” or “you can do it” kind of inspiration, and probably that’s why it fuels my bravery. It has its own doubts, and so do I.
/r/askFDS13/10/20 09:16 PM
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THIS. This is my major problem with a lot of sexual jokes my male friends, colleagues and family members say. I usually don’t let them slip, which usually leads to an argument, but I have difficulties with describe the feeling to them. Also it’s very easy to them to say “it was just a joke”, “you lost your sense of humor” “you overreact”, but at the same time it feels like for me as a betrayal. Like the revelation that the enemy is not outside, it’s in my inner circle, it’s around my dining tabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:10 PM
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I would bet it’s not just ‘someone’, they usually do things like this in groups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:06 PM
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She is very very stupid for posing as the helper of men and savior of underage girls. It’s proven that these kind of seemingly innocent things (animated pedo porn, sex dolls, etc) are not working as prevention, on the contrary, they’re fueling violence toward women and girls. I also bet similarly bright Reddit commenters elsewhere find this “wholesome” 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:29 PM
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It’s called cognitive dissonance reduction. They know we’re right, but they can’t face the truth, so they act like we were insane, low life entities. It’s easier than admit that they’re the real problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:39 PM
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Yes. From the beginning to the end.
/r/askFDS28/09/20 11:59 AM
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You have been played. Learn the lesson, read the handbook.
/r/askFDS27/09/20 12:11 PM
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Yes!! I had the same feeling. That sub while branding itself as a level up group, claiming that the ultimate goal of looksmaxing is to gain power, in reality is full of interiorized misogyny and serves nothing but the male gaze. Humans are the only animals where the females are more colorful and have to put all the efforts in how they look. This is not nature. This is patriarchy. Imagine the power we could have if we don’t have to spend our time, money and energy on our looks. Women has to wake …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:50 AM
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“Feminism is great but don’t date feminists” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:54 PM
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He calls you his wife but rejects the label of a relationship? It’s pretty shady imho. You shouldn’t have play house with him, it made him feel safe. He doesn’t want chase you anymore, he expects wifey things from you, while he keeps his options open.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:53 PM
7

An electrical outlet would be quite occasional you creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:44 PM
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There is cellulite on women’s bodies because it’s going get bigger during pregnancy, and this is the characteristic of the skin which allows it to grow and shrink back in a very limited time. This is the most natural thing. It’s not a flaw or a fault or something to be shamed, but just literally how female bodies work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:35 AM
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They don’t even expect the same from men. I never forget my grandmother telling us after family lunch: “girls come to help cleaning up, boys free to go to play”. That was the point when I knew I born the “wrong” gender lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:14 PM
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I’m pretty sure there are a lot of women out of the States (like myself) as well. We might be Caucasian, but in a different spot of the global inequality, so we could just shove libfem ideology up in our ass, it won’t help us neither.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:39 PM
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Sex is not right, not duty nor work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:11 AM
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Feminism doesn’t aim women’s liberation anymore, it’s a lifestyle choice for woke bros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:12 AM
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Someone in the original thread actually looked up the “””feminist””” OP’s profile, and found out he is a regular john, who pays for using women’s body, and calls him out, saying he is just trying to validate his misogynistic attitude by sex-positive feminists. Busted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:28 PM
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I live in Europe and one of my friends went to this premarital counseling with her fiancé, and all the counselor (a priest) did was trying to make her confess her (non existent) abortion, and kept saying abortion is wrong. My friend said it was a total bullshit and a complete waste of time. (But she had to attend, because they wanted to get married in a church.) I also doubt in churches’ premarital counselings because religions are inherently patriarchal. Churches are parts of the institutions w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:27 PM
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It’s not shallowness, it’s boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 09:57 PM
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I think this aesthetic is kind of ironic. It uses the vibe of a prom or an engagement - rites of passages of the beginnings. The execution is overdone, because it tries to go against the stereotype: divorce is failure, it’s the ending, and a divorced women is worthless. The message is divorce is something worth celebration, it’s the new beginning, and the divorced women is free, fresh and autonome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 09:42 PM
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They like to refer to bIolOgY so much, but they generously forgot about the fact that among primates not every male mates, but every female does. From the perspective of nature and the surviving of species females are high value; males are abundant. Patriarchy is the system going against the rules of nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 09:34 PM
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I had the same feeling reading Why Men Love Bitches. In the relationship/marriage part the bitch have to do so much emotional work to get the things done and protect the men’s ego at the same time, I couldn’t relate and also got me questioned why relationship/marriage worth it in the first place. The pure FDS approach is more sympathetic for me. Looking for a HVM instead of playing along a whole life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 09:16 PM
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FDS criticizes males when they demand certain things from women regarding looks, emotional labour, sexual favors etc., while they don’t measure up to the same standards at all, and don’t even try to level up. When they have nothing to offer or in exchange, just high expectations and pure male entitlement. Some women prefer tall guys, some don’t. Don’t worry too much about your teenage look, because this will naturally change over time, as you get older, and also don’t worry about your high, as i…
/r/askFDS30/08/20 09:02 PM
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It’s also a great tactic because this way you left him wondering, what’s wrong with him. If you confront, then he knows, but cold uncertainty is what he deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:42 PM
3

It happened a month ago and the guy is still thinking about her, who is a great lover and a great person, and the mgtow commenters keep saying she is “post wall”. So pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:32 AM
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Omg. “Sentimental value” 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:56 PM
37

Yes! Fight Club is about toxic masculinity. They don’t get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:24 AM
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It’s such a common behavior in every aspect of life. I can see the pattern. Does this strategy have a name (besides ‘being an asshole’)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:50 AM
5

Her laugh makes me laugh :DDD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:50 PM
40

Genius show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:33 PM
10

I wish I didn’t spend my twenties with the lowest low men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:07 AM
3

Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:15 PM
1

I think this girl doesn’t showed him her true colors. She usually very nice with guys, very flirtatious, and she is very attractive conventionally. Only a couple of guys see through this. But she is very aggressive with girls, when they are under her in the workplace hierarchy. I’m not the only one she bullied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:50 PM
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I just tried to be fair with him, portraying a realistic picture. I think he is a great guy, but having a 27 old girl whom he secretly texts it’s an enormous flair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:46 PM
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Thank you for your elaborate answer! Otherwise he has lovely friends, adorable family. Even his ex wife is nice (they didn’t divorce because of me), and he has a normal relationship with her, and I’m not jealous. I think if I’d snoop and find normal friendship stuff, I wouldn’t be convinced, not just because he could delete messages but the way he acted during our confrontations. As other FDS members pointed it out, he didn’t consider my feelings and he put their “friendship” before our relation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:44 PM
1

Even if I wanted to, I couldn’t, as his phone is locked. But even if I could, he could have deleted the revealing messages. I have an ex who didn’t lock his phone (as the sign of trust lol) but kept deleting the messages he didn’t want me to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:33 PM
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Absolutely. I made this post because I felt lost and alone. This community means a lot to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:28 PM
3

I will do this until another incident happens. I already wrote a long letter concluding not I did choose to end the relationship because of this third person, but he did. I won’t send it yet, but from now on I will focus on myself and if another incident happens and he acts the same way I’ll leave. Heartbroken but with integrity. Why men are like this :(((
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:26 PM
2

They knew each other before, as I knew this girl as well, way before me and my BF got together. I didn’t really realized how close they are, maybe because I didn’t consider this as a threat, or maybe because he didn’t tell me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:37 PM
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We were together before (about a year ago), but I ended the relationship after a month or so because I realized emotionally I was still in my previous relationship. He was heartbroken but he waited for me. Our relationship is officially two month old, but we have a longer history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:34 PM
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You are totally right. I also find it ridiculous that she use her “hard life” as a shield to excuse her really shitty behavior. She poses as a victim so she can’t hold accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:30 PM
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I’m definitely not the cool girl, but she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:27 PM
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I wasn’t familiar with this term. Thank you for the insight. She already told him (according to his words) that she worries I might “prohibit them to contact each other”... Like it was some tragic Romeo and Juliet friendship... I’m so angry I can’t even articulate. He of course doesn’t see through this manipulation, instead he tries to manipulate me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:26 PM
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The girl is counting on him in little, work related favors (ie. my boyfriend helped her with her contract) and they share mutual sport hobbies. They don’t consider this inappropriate apparently, the environment and the society neither. I find it difficult to explain to people why this kind of age gap is inappropriate in a so called friendship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:21 PM
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I agree, this age gap is incredibly creepy. But we live in a very patriarchal country and within the male oriented field we work in, it’s not considered that strange among others. So he can get away with this “friendship”, and I think he could get away with a relationship like this as well... I have to tell in other situations he acted very HVM. He was there when I was sick. He came to rescue me when my car broke down. He prepared me meals when I was overwhelmed with work. He always offers his h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:50 PM
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I hope Mom “life hacked” his dinner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:30 PM
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I think it’s a satire, parody for LVM excuses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:28 PM
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He is “here again” and doesn’t have a friend who would take a decent photo of him... and this pose? I assume he practiced a lot... Pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:04 AM
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