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People losing socialization due to social media, unironically, so then they end up making these stereotypes based on warped views of what they see happening among those who do/can socialize.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 11:04 PM
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My view is that young women- late teens and early 20s- do, but that changes. What do I know though? I’m a 19 year old virgin who’s never been in a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/22 02:27 PM
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Heavily values strength over cardio Politically independent but slightly more right leaning Doesn’t show niceness because he thinks it’s weakness Those are a few I’m sure 90 something percent of redpillers share.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/22 09:16 PM
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Maybe, maybe not. It’s still toxic crap that can lead to warped ideas about people.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/22 02:36 AM
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Sad because my friend is a big fan of his so now he might go down the redpill trap.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/22 01:42 AM
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No but they’re becoming more mainstream
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 07:58 PM
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No but they’re both still bad. Redpillers have sex but that doesn’t “fix” them. They’re still sexist people who view everything as transactions and numbers ratings.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 03:09 AM
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Sigma males are in her bed /s #Sigmagrindset
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 06:54 PM
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I don’t think emotional labor is a gendered term. I’ll have to look more into it though; I’ve never heard anyone use it in real life or online besides people saying it’s meaningless or dumb phrase.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/21 10:26 PM
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Video games- mostly men who play them. Can be addicting. Add nothing in terms of what’s generally looked upon as good for adults to have (financial wealth, social status, muscle, humor, intelligence, etc). Social media- causes people to compare themselves to others and therefore feel FOMO/jealousy. Can be addicting. Is easier for girls/women to gain popularity on because of our gendered social constructs about complimenting, showing affection, fitting into groups, and more. Internet- has a lot o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/21 10:15 PM
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Unironically video games, internet, and social media caused this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/21 06:34 PM
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Find something you like about yourself physically. For example, I like my curly hair and my weight (140 lbs).
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 05:31 PM
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Your hate is directed towards the wrong ideology/people. It should be towards right wingers and traditionalists who want to keep men “in their place” as stoic and tough.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/21 10:50 PM
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Well yeah nobody’s gonna say “I want to restrict women.” The argument is that it’s the “pro lifers” real motive that they don’t admit out loud.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 04:02 PM
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There should be a significant difference but unfortunately there isn’t really. This sub is slightly better but has the potential to be great, which it isn’t.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 04:00 PM
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Because I’m not masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:10 PM
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Brutal. I need to stop coming back to this sub. It has destroyed me as a not masculine autistic straight man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:23 PM
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Wut
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 04:45 AM
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I've seen enough. He's a sexist douche.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 06:59 PM
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How is Peterson the "antithesis of the red pill?"
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 06:47 PM
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He's not as famous, therefore not as dangerous. I'd wager at least 50% of straight men/boys aged 16-24 in the US know of Jordan Peterson.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 06:20 PM
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Peterson is pretty much the human embodiment of the redpill. He’s dangerous to society, and it’s concerning he’s as popular as he is.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 02:31 AM
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For men to become as hypermasculine as they can.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 07:19 PM
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Redpill is worse because it’s more believable. It was easy for me to shake the blackpill off but the things I’ve read on redpill places i’m worried will always shape my beliefs somewhat. It makes me sad.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 07:16 PM
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It's addicting, it just is. It's hard to say why. I hate it for poisoning my brain (and many other susceptible young men's) but unfortunately I don't think I'll ever truly break out of it's beliefs. I spent too damn long on the board that they did irreversible damage to my psyche I'm afraid.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 11:31 PM
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The SMV thing is so dehumanizing. It goes entirely against my candidate’s (Andrew Yang) slogan- Humanity First. Makes me cringe and unfortunately it seems to be becoming more mainstream/popular to rank people based on attractiveness.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 07:19 PM
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It is. It’s all about “out-manning” (not Peyton or Eli lol) everyone else and trying to be the most alpha guy around, which means often burying unique things about oneself to become that ideal Chad that very few are in actuality.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 08:56 PM
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Unfortunately the large majority of people in our society our like what OP described though: they “see you as less of a man” if you don’t conform to very specific and rigid roles/attitudes. Like Betty Friedan said decades ago, and we did have in the late 60s-70s, I think it’s time we need another “sex role revolution” in America.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 07:55 PM
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It is toxic masculinity and the patriarchy that causes most of the societal men's issues- which are real and are under-discussed in America, I'm not denying that at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/21 04:17 PM
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It already has
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 03:35 PM
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Join the YangGang. We believe in humanity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/21 04:45 PM
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This is a horror story and sadly I see situations like this becoming more prevalent this decade after the pandemic subsides with young men who have been online during this time who discovered the redpill going back out into the world/dating scene and trying to implement the "alpha male" PUA strategies.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/21 03:02 AM
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Best: don’t eat desserts so much. Worst: everything else.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/21 09:59 PM
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Sith ideology? So there’s only two- a master and an apprentice?
/r/ExRedPill05/03/21 09:58 PM
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It’s good for the most part but the transitioning of minors leads to some people who just don’t fit rigid gender norms to possibly mess up their bodies long term.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/03/21 04:50 AM
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I also see this decade as being regressive. Nobody will admit it- or only a few will- but we're going backwards with sex stereotypes/roles, and the increased acceptance of transgender people, while good for true transsexual adults, is not helping with that. Just my opinion. I could be wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 09:13 PM
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Brings awareness to men’s issues
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/21 01:57 AM
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So much for “left wing male advocates.” He fits the bill as much as anyone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/02/21 05:36 PM
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What about him in your view? To me he’s really sincere, but also likable, and goes into the bullshit and why it is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/02/21 02:08 AM
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Is the title of this sub satire? What you're saying doesn't sound left wing at all, yet you're being upvoted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/21 11:00 PM
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Male suicide rates being much higher than female is something not talked about enough. The cause of this, I think, is the culture that tells guys to "be a man" and "pull yourself up by the bootstraps." We have to fix that in this decade; unless there's a big social/political/economic revolution, I see the disparity going up, sadly.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 08:25 PM
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Fuck. I have no advice. I have mild autism and can't imagine what severe autism would be like. That seems awful. Hearing stories like yours make me so mad with the world. I hope you find someone, as cliche as that may sound. Sorry.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 08:23 PM
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Have society be more accepting of guys who aren’t super masculine and aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:27 AM
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Getting dressed up and made up and it feeling really special because you rarely do it while women do it much more often and it’s more socially acceptable for them to do so. Sometimes called the “pink fog.”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 11:57 PM
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I believe you but I’m worried that’s only older women and/or people in general are becoming less empathetic and we’re actually going backwards when it comes to gender stuff- like girls want more masculine guys than in the past, which is sad for me as a shy autistic man. Related to that, I’m worried I’ll have to “wait my turn” until I’m like 25 at least while women my age are “exploring” (I’m 18). I hope all that is bs and that a similar-attractiveness woman (my standards are don’t be obese and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 05:03 AM
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If so then that’s depressing. I need to get off this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:35 PM
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I believe you they get uncomfortable and make stereotypes but the violent and harsher bullying of men/boys who don’t fit the norm is usually by guys.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/21 05:20 AM
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Bruh I am a man I don’t want to disregard male problems, that’s why I’m here (that’s why they brought me here, that’s the business I do!- quoting the great Paul Pierce) I agree with you the women belong in the kitchen thing isn’t really a problem anymore, as it’s become socially unacceptable to say that and/or if you do, as you say, it’s a joke.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/21 11:53 PM
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1st one is true, 2nd one isn't- #Believewomen just means believe women because often times in the past they weren't, 3rd is true, 4th is a joke I think or an extremist view that doesn't really matter to everyday life, 5th is mostly true, 6th IDK I don't go on there, 7th have some valid points.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/21 09:03 PM
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"Feminist rhetoric" isn't anti-male. This place is supposed to be left-wing, right? That sounds like an edgy conservative take. Feminism is for people of all sexes, sexual orientations, and races.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/21 05:15 PM
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This is maybe why some people crossdress. It's estimated around 10% of adult heterosexual men are crossdressers- and many of them do it pretty realistically and in public occasionally. They're an underrated minority- if you're not one or you don't know one, you're likely unaware they even exist, because usually their "femme personas" are much different than their everyday male selves. It's a fascinating phenomenon that, sadly, I think is dying, in part due to transitioning young people has becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 07:57 PM
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The idea that if you’re not masculine enough physically and mentally, whatever relationship you get into will not be genuine and will just be her “settling,” and she’ll always want to cheat on you.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 06:24 PM
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What do you think about the decline of heterosexual crossdressing men and the increase in MTF transsexuals at younger ages? I for one find it sad. I’m very left wing (that’s why I’m on here, duh) teenage guy and have found some very interesting male crossdressers and crossdressing groups/conventions online (never been to one IRL yet) over the years. It’s an underexplored but surprisingly big community, and I’m afraid they’re dying out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/21 05:20 AM
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It is. Men, women, and maybe even some non-binary people have these beliefs/views.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:58 AM
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Women idk but there are guys from my high school who I follow on Instagram and/or twitter who I assume have discovered the redpill. These are some “clues” or characteristics: went from being average guy or nerdy to caring a ton about weightlifting and protein does the stock market and investing, talks about finance and getting rich refers to girls/women as hoes, bitches, sluts, etc starts becoming more withdrawn on social media because, they won’t say it, but it’s “building frame” by not posting…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/21 03:39 AM
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Yes of course. You shouldn’t care what’s considered masculine or not. If someone does, that’s sad. Bullshit gender rules are not set in stone, they were created by men in power to keep women and “low value” men in their place.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/21 03:35 AM
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No. I don’t care if it promotes fitness; most people/things do. I would’ve known to take care of my body without discovering these places. Nothing about me is improved by the redpill, and many things are worse. It’s completely f***ed my brain.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/21 03:32 AM
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Lots of straight guys my age are insufferable because they’re homophobic, sexist, intolerant, etc. much more often than LGBTQ men and women of any sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:25 AM
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For being skinny, being smart, and being nonconforming. So basically me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:23 AM
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That’s a really toxic and unhealthy way of looking at men/masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:18 AM
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I relate to a lot of what you wrote and unfortunately more and more young men will. I'm usually anti-censorship but I do think it would be good if Reddit permanently banned r/TheRedPill. It just messed up my mind so much and I'm afraid I can never go back to being an actual, legitimate feminist that I still believe myself to be.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/21 04:48 PM
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God I wish I could go back to before I knew any of this stuff. I dread so much having to take weightlifting seriously. I did it in the past for like 6 months 3x a week and could still only bench 1 rep 85 pounds by the end when the pandemic started (yes you read that right- 85 as in eighty five). I like being skinny and it's not unhealthy like being fat is- why is it imperative to "just lift bro" to attract women? Boomers and gen x'ers were able to have successful social and romantic lives withou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:36 AM
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What do women even find attractive visually? I’m 5’11”, white, and skinny (130 lbs) and can’t get a girl that I’m attracted to. My only standards are don’t be obese and have decent hygiene. One time there was a thing with an obese girl and luckily I got to experience kissing but I ended it cause I wasn’t attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:06 AM
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I went to one of my high school’s homecoming dances in a dress, wig, and full makeup. I think that’s pretty “not caring about social conventions” yet it got me nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 08:05 PM
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No no no. This “nature of women” stuff is terrible; it’s turned my brain into that of a misogynist. I’m ashamed of it constantly, as someone who likes to think of himself as a liberal and a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 11:03 PM
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UBI
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:46 PM
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People in general, at least in America, are unhappy because of the economy/stagnant wages and expensive housing and education, social media, and political polarization.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:40 PM
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Rip
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:17 PM
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"High Value Males" "Low Value Males" why can't we just treat people as humans and recognize their individuality? #Humanityfirst
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 02:10 AM
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I've never heard it IRL but seeing it online I don't like it. I also don't like referring to women/girls as bitches, whores, sluts, holes, or hoes. All of those have always made me uncomfortable and still do.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 01:32 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:43 PM
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That’s kind of mean to call people with bipolar disorder train wrecks. It’s like calling someone with autism or OCD a train wreck. I don’t think bipolar is something you choose.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/21 08:05 PM
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I got a scale that says I have a body fat percentage of around 9% but I’m not muscular at all. I’m 5’11” 130 lbs. do you think the scale is inaccurate? Cause women are still not into me and I’ve been this physique for a while. Or do you have to be sub 10% body fat plus muscular? If so then rip. I lifted weights for like 6 months 3x a day in this performance PE class and was still below newbie levels after that (when the pandemic started so the school ended therefore I stopped weightlifting).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 06:25 AM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 05:28 AM
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Just don’t use online dating. There’s like 4 times as many straight/bi men as there are straight/bi women on the app so your chance of success is pretty low. People need to wake up to this fact.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 07:38 PM
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That sub is going to have a bad effect on men this decade- guys who are unsuccessful romantically will turn to it and then try to become cold, stoic “alpha males” that the sub suggests all men have to be. I’m scared.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 07:36 PM
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Thanks but unfortunately for autists like myself this is way harder than for most people.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/20 11:46 PM
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It’s probably the most important thing for me because I’ve never gotten any.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:14 PM
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It's happening because we're going backwards with gender stuff. No one will say it but I think it's true. If you're not a frat boy "douche" or you don't try to be, as you go through high school and college you'll become an outcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:29 PM
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Based
/r/ExRedPill16/12/20 01:54 AM
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I'm not in an area with weights. I was earlier and I did it for a bit again then the place closed. In January I'll be back to where I was before soI'll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:54 AM
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Thanks. Why do you browse this sub if I may ask?
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 11:29 PM
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I did a weightlifting class in high school where we did lifting 3 times a week, crossfit-type stuff 2 times a week. The weight days it was only like 20-25 minutes of lifting though. I did the class on and off; should've just done it my whole high school "career" but whatever, I have bigger regrets. Longest I did it in a row was like 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 10:01 PM
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Single.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 09:58 PM
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What does dial diet in? I feel like my diet is decently healthy- I eat all the food groups at dinner and breakfast + lunch combined, I have dessert twice a week, I have red meat maybe once a week, I drink only water and coffee with skim milk, I have fast food maybe once or twice a month- but it’s not super strict and I don’t want it to be. Is that a requirement for males in 2020 to have a chance with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:25 PM
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I've been here for a while unfortunately. I wish I had never stumbled upon the redpill, lookism, and incel boards but I did a few years ago and have been addicted ever since. This place isn't very toxic as far as these places go so that's good I guess. Though some of the posts are depressing for me as a "beta" male who's shy and not masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 03:53 PM
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So I have to be an athlete? Ok I'll try. I stretch and jog every day but I guess I need to go harder. Thanks for the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 03:21 PM
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Thanks. For me it hasn't gotten me anywhere but I'm only 18, autistic, and it's the pandemic era.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 03:20 PM
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Yeah I don't claim to be fit. I was just asking if it means not fat, cause I'm that, but I'm far from being an athlete. And I have zero success with girls either as friends/acquaintances or "getting" a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 03:39 AM
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I got a scale that's supposed to measure body fat % and it says I'm around 9-10% usually. However I kind of doubt it because pictures I've seen online (I know you're not supposed to compare to others but whatever) show guys with that percentage having visible abs, which I'm far from. Where did you go to get your body fat % measured? I've considered doing it at a nearby wellness center but haven't gotten the opportunity plus it's kind of expensive for a college freshman without a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:53 AM
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I can run a mile in around 8 minutes, do 10 pushups in a row with good form, but can't do a pullup. Do I fit whatever this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:50 AM
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What counts as "in shape?" Being not fat, or being muscular? I have a BMI of 19 but can't even dead lift my body weight and my bench max for one rep is like 75 lbs. I have no muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 01:47 AM
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Based and forcepilled
/r/ExRedPill14/12/20 10:59 PM
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F*** this hits
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 11:22 PM
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I wish this were true and not just unicorns and/or virtue signaling platitudes.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 05:40 AM
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Ok confidence. Extroversion nope. I have autism and anxiety which has made me quite an introvert. Face- used to have acne, now have some acne scars. No bald spot but my hairline’s been receding for a while now. Idk if my dick is small; who am I supposed to compare it to? Not too skinny. Degree is NA as I’m 18. Worked at a grocery store for a few months in high school, that was my only job. Maybe should’ve stayed with it longer. So yeah there’s other factors. I think my not being muscular and bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 02:23 AM
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Being a healthy weight does nothing in my experience. Have been for a few years now and still have never had a relationship or sex. For my generation it seems young women/girls mostly want ripped guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 08:59 PM
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Getting a small “loan” of a million dollars when starting out professionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 08:53 PM
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HumanityForward
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 05:34 PM
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This is depressing. I still wanna get married idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 05:04 AM
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Niceness, patience, and similar political/social views.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 04:58 AM
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Based and Yangpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 04:32 AM
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Maybe but for justifiable reasons. I don’t feel ashamed of my masculinity because I don’t have any 😎 checkmate, atheists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 04:30 AM
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IMO redpill is more toxic than blackpill because it at least can be seen in real life when you're in your teens and college so it's much harder to just dismiss and laugh off. The shit sticks with you- Chad, hypergamy, looksmaxx, AWALT, whores/sluts, etc.- and you start noticing it and applying it to people around you. It's awful.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/20 09:28 PM
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The idea is that majority of young straight women want to be dominated by a stoic, ripped, career-driven man who doesn't express his feelings if they're not conventional "man feelings." So you should do whatever you can to achieve that through bodybuilding, having an abundance mentality with women, play the stock market, and get a job that you can move up in and is high paying, even if you don't like it. Then you have to keep up this facade both physically or mentally because the minute you show…
/r/ExRedPill03/12/20 09:24 PM
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I'm convinced FDS is at least half men LARPing.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/20 09:18 PM
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It made me sad and angry. I wish I had never read it.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/20 08:59 PM
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Same for me. Lookism and looksmaxx are arguably just as harmful as redpill and incel boards.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/20 06:45 PM
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Me too man, me too. Redpill, blackpill, and looksmaxxing boards have f***ed up my psyche.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 06:09 PM
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I want to be "rebluepilled." I discovered the redpill and blackpill a few years ago and have been addicted to the content ever since- including lookism, looksmaxxing, and incel stuff. I hate all of this because it has warped my mind. I now think things like "she's just going to go for the ripped alpha Chad" and it deeply disturbs me as someone who likes to think of himself as a liberal, feminist, and good person, who was raised by liberal feminists. I don't know if it's possible but I want despe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:11 PM
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I'm a straight teen male who almost went down the trans pipeline. Now I am happy being a non-typical man. But I was pretty close to doing it. I feel like widespread support and information about transitioning, while good for some people, kind of encourages gender roles and stereotypes. A lot of boomers and gen x'ers are crossdressers or genderfluid- men who are usually married and successful but have a "femme" alter ego- and comfortable with that lifestyle. An article should be written about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 03:24 PM
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UBI. Andrew Yang wants to increase marriage rates and birthrates, something a lot of people are scared to say, or oppose for some weird reason. He's by far the best candidate in this past election cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 03:17 PM
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There’s too many men, too many people, making too many problems! And there’s not much love to go round... -Phil Collins
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 10:24 PM
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What about a transsexual who passes and successfully transitions in their 20s into stealth mode?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 09:27 PM
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Yeah that’s MW1 which is from late 2007. Proves the point that 08 was kind of a turning point in many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 10:10 PM
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I don’t watch anime and have no desire to. The only video games I play are NBA 2K and occasionally the old SWBII and Skyrim, those two mostly for nostalgia.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 10:06 PM
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Incels don’t watch porn. They’re usually the guys who are all about NoFap, how coomers are degenerates, and the porn industry is evil/cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 10:05 PM
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Cod before MW wasn’t as big a deal, 2K and FIFA were smaller in terms of all the online stuff and VC.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 10:03 PM
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I want to but I don’t know any. Also if they’re obese I won’t date them. Sorry. That’s my only physical standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 10:02 PM
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I don’t think so but my breath does according to several people even though I brush my teeth twice a day, floss, and only drink water, milk, and coffee, and have never had a cavity. I use deodorant when I get up and after I exercise, I take a shower every day, and I wear clean clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 10:01 PM
2

Game franchises were bigger this past decade than ever before- CoD, Battlefield, Minecraft, Fortnite, NBA 2K, FIFA.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 08:01 PM
1

I didn’t say women are all attracted to muscular guys. I said maybe, cause that’s the physical area where I’m lacking most. It’s more probable that they’re turned off by my autism though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:49 PM
1

I do cause I don’t really have any friends who go to my college so any would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:48 PM
1

Yes. But I would rather be bisexual/pansexual than either gay or straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:45 PM
1

Tumlbr maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:42 PM
0

Vidya was less complex and addicting; porn was harder or more expensive to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:40 PM
0

I hope I can meet someone like you. I’m an autistic skinny guy who’s not masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:38 PM
0

Yes thank you! I’m good height, good weight, White, upper middle class, smart, but never had a girlfriend. I think it’s due to my autism and anxiety, not looks. The thing I’m lacking in looks is muscle though. Maybe that’s what girls are attracted to. I’m physically very weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:36 PM
2

Same. This fucking shit has ruined my brain. I’ve been browsing redpill, lookism, and incel boards for over two years now, often times over an hour a day. I hate what it’s done to me.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/20 04:53 AM
1

I eat two meals a day. Both pretty big. I have every food group in every meal. Chicken is the most common meat I eat. I also eat turkey often. I tend to avoid fried food. Maybe once every two weeks or so. I do admit I eat bread, rice, and pasta a lot, and more often than not the dishes have cheese. But I try to go whole wheat and not have all three in one meal. I also eat beans every day. There’s at least one, probably two, servings of vegetables in every meal. And a whole fruit, always an apple…
/r/ExRedPill21/11/20 06:10 AM
6

I hope I’ll be able to. It’s been so hard to make friends as an autistic guy who also has anxiety. All my friends and acquaintances in the past have been male.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/20 04:39 AM
15

Don’t care if it has some ok parts. It still f***ing messed with my brain and damaged it in an irreversible way. I want my self back.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/20 03:51 AM
3

Good comment. We should be raging against the machine, but not in the way redpillers do. I think we need to overhaul the current society cause lots of people are being left behind. Redpill is like “just accept that it’s female nature.”
/r/ExRedPill15/11/20 09:26 PM
6

I think sexism is a bigger problem than racism in current day America. Go ahead and downvote me. I’m sickened by the misogynistic ideas that men (and some women though less), including me, have. I’m on this sub and similar ones to try to detach from these beliefs and mindsets.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/20 02:05 AM
1

They get married less often also more bisexual and pansexual women than men.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/20 03:33 PM
5

Sports media people: Mallory Rubin, Mina Kimes, Katie Nolan, Jackie MacMullan, Musicians: Laura Jane Grace (if you count her as a woman), Billie Eilish, Tegan and Sara. Political figures: Marianne Williamson, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:50 AM
1

More women marry other women or nonbinary people than men marry men and nonbinary people.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/20 09:54 PM
0

Oof. Tough look.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/20 09:51 PM
1

Just hire a sex worker.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/20 04:38 PM
2

Wow that’s pretty incredible man! Sorry if my comment seemed mean or anything.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/20 06:19 AM
2

Unless you’re a weight lifter and that weight is muscle I’d suggest you lose some of it. 177 at 5’6” seems like a lot.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/20 05:17 AM
2

I still don't understand the mindset of wanting to think that. I would much prefer to think the other way- that personality matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:40 PM
1

Why would anyone want to hear the first one? That sounds depressing because only a small amount of people fit that mold.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:29 AM
7

Video games, porn, drugs, and other distractions that are harmful if done not in moderation and are seen as unattractive, appeal to men more.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 06:11 AM
2

Andrew Yang addresses this brilliantly.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 12:15 AM
1

I didn’t say the 50s. I mean the decades boomers and xers were in their teens and 20s.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 03:32 PM
4

It's so f***ing depressing reading the redpill subreddit, and I'm trying to stop, but it's like crack. As an average looking but socially awkward man (due to autism) I thought I'd still have a normal life but reading redpill/lookism forums disheartens me so much. It's basically like "change literally everything about yourself or else women won't like you." I've said this before: I want all of this pill stuff wiped from my memory. I'm generally an optimistic person but this stuff has made me thin…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 06:03 AM
1

All of this makes me sad. Just a few generations ago, we had people of all sexes, sexualities, and races be able to live happy lives. Boomers and gen xers. Racial/gender equality was around, and so were modern ways of living.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 05:59 AM
2

>I wish I wasn't a man ​ Is this a gender thing or an age thing? For me I sometimes think this way (not most of the time though) and it's cause I miss being a carefree innocent boy. If yours is related to being male maybe you should see someone about that. Hope it gets better.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 05:08 AM
4

Facts man. I wish I had never discovered any of this pill nonsense. I wish I could enjoy my hobbies and interests without having this gnawing thing coming up all the time in my head. I hate it.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 05:05 AM
1

OK the Barstool Sports thing was a petty jab. Removed it I'm a Ringer fanboy so I included that. I just project things (Barstool) I don't like onto people I don't like (redpillers). ​ Nothing is wrong at all with fitness. I exercise every day. I'm 135 pounds and 5'11", hardly a fat troll. But these guys and their obsession with lifting has made that the standard while in the past average looking guys who cared about their health but didn't bench press 200 pounds could have a normal life. Now it …
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 04:57 AM
13

Talks about spinning plates, Jordan Peterson, is super into weightlifting while when they were younger they were more of a nerdy type, says men he perceived as inferior are “beta” or “simps,” calls girls “chicks” and/or “hoes,” is a finance or business major, watches Alpha M, quotes Fight Club, is very particular about his diet, doesn’t care about politics. This is a huge list; obviously not every redpiller fits all of these, they’re just characteristics of redpill types that I’ve noticed online…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 03:57 AM
2

That so many people are in these situations it just makes me sad and mad at our society.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/20 02:52 AM
2

Society is broken.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/20 02:05 AM
2

Also technology. It's bad, when it gets to the level we're at now, unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 08:11 PM
1

I go outside all the time and join clubs/music/political groups but I don't hit on people or try to force social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 01:38 AM
1

I have autism and anxiety. It’s too much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 04:16 AM
5

I’m below average weight, average height, and I exercise every day- still get zero attention whatsoever. Just not being fat is not enough for people these days. They expect you to be ripped six pack masculine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 10:33 PM
1

why (if you're being serious I can't tell)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 03:13 PM
2

I hate society. BTW I'm not a fat neckbeard; I exercise every day, drink a lot of water, and try to eat somewhat healthy. I'm just not a ripped Chad and I doubt I ever will be. I wish average/skinny guys got more love. There's nothing unhealthy about it and back in the day they were seen as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 10:14 PM
1

What do u mean, "used red pill shit?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 01:59 AM
1

Well yeah current society is a mess. I blame it on technology/social media, unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 01:56 AM
1

I know you're kidding but don't people care a lot about consent? Even if it's not sexy, it's the right thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 01:05 AM
2

Maybe because most male zoomers are clout-chasing conformists. "It's lit," Barstool Sports, TikTok, trap/soundcloud rap, "No cap," lifting, protein powder and workout supplements. That's male zoomers in a nutshell. Millennial, Gen X, and Boomer men were more diverse in their interests and presentations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:46 PM
1

I think you should just ask the person if they want an advance. If they don't, don't do it. If they do, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:41 PM
1

Never dated. Made out with a girl a few years ago but wasn’t attracted to her or living in the same area so I ended it. I don’t know when I will date because of the pandemic or who I’ll date (men, women, both, neither?) I’m attracted to women but I don’t fit the things that supposedly make men attractive- being neurotypical, being muscular, having a lot of money, having a social circle, being into men’s fashion, etc.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 06:03 PM
1

I wouldn’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 02:06 PM
1

I never joined the subreddit but I browsed similar places for several years. It did damage to my perception of the world. Any time spent in these places is too much. They are the definition of toxic masculinity.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/20 03:56 AM
1

It is awful stay away from all of it. Could permanently mess up your brain. Please do not go to redpill, lookism, looksmaxxing, incel, PUA, or manosphere boards. I would much rather be "bluepilled" than know any of this bs. I want to go back or at least have my mind cleared of this terminology.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/20 03:53 AM
1

It’s too late for me I’m afraid. I tell myself constantly that I don’t believe any of the redpill/lookism/blackpill/SMV/hypergamy stuff but it keeps swimming in my brain and my perception of daily interactions (among others, not even my own) is shaped by this f***ing concepts. I hate it.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 02:08 AM
1

I haven't made any actual friends yet despite joining music and going outside every day for at least an hour. Oh well. It's the pandemic era. People are nice to me though. They sort of were in high school but also sometimes not. By my senior year I stopped caring and just joined stuff I thought I'd enjoy, and I did enjoy it. I already am nostalgic about my senior year of HS.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 04:53 PM
2

Thank you. I hope so too. My dad said in college people will be nicer than in high school (I just started college a month and a half ago).
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 04:44 PM
3

I have accepted that I will never fit the masculine ideal. I've literally crossdressed in public multiple times with a wig, makeup, bra, etc. It just makes me sad reading redpill stuff that says women will never be attracted to you if you're like me (autistic, not masculine, have "beta" interests/political leanings).
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 04:10 PM
2

Yes I'm looking for advice. Thank you. I'm generally a positive person but when I think about this stuff I despair because I'm an autistic man who is not at all masculine in any way.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 04:30 AM
12

I hate the redpill. I considered myself a feminist before I found it, and I still do, but it's hard to when thoughts like "women only fuck hypermasculine Chad" and "men must be stoic bodybuilders and hold frame or else they're beta soys" are always in my head. I wish to go back to my mindset of fully being a feminist (aka "bluepilled") but it seems so hard now that I have these toxic thoughts. Thinking about this stuff and regretting finding it takes up so much of my time I can't stand it. I wan…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 12:01 AM
1

What exactly do you mean? Like no relationship with mother, too dependent on mother, had an abusive mother, or what?
/r/ExRedPill11/10/20 09:23 PM
1

Wdym
/r/ExRedPill11/10/20 06:11 PM
1

I’m the same. I used to think I’d have relationships as a young man but now I doubt it. The redpill crap has made me believe that because I’m a guy who isn’t masculine, women will never have “primal attraction” for me.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/20 06:05 PM
4

Same. I cannot look at humanity the same anymore. Shit like “whores,” “chads,” “hypergamy,” “AWALT,” “foids,” “looksmaxxing,” “frame,” “80/20,” “fuckbois,” “simps/cucks” is constantly in my mind. I hate it.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/20 06:03 PM
9

I just want this shit wiped from my brain. It fundamentally has messed with my psyche.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 05:55 AM
2

What if I like being a "nice guy?" No, I don't DM women telling them they're "whores" or the stereotypical r/niceguys stuff. I just consider myself a nice person and I don't want to change to be some hard alpha manly dudebro.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 04:53 PM
2

Same but I haven't read that book and I hope not to. I never even joined the Red Pill subreddit. I just visited it and similar places and now the ideas are constantly in my head. I hate it so much. I like to think of myself as a feminist but it's hard when shit like "AWALT," "hypergamy," are in my brain all the time. I wish I could just get it all erased from my mind. I want to be "re-bluepilled."
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 04:37 PM
1

Good job by yuo
/r/ExRedPill28/09/20 12:41 AM
8

I go outside for hours everyday walking, biking, or jogging. I can’t imagine not doing it. The idea of a shut in baffles me. I know I come from a place of privilege though cause I live in a safe area with low COVID rates and am well off enough that I don’t have to work.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/20 02:41 AM
15

Facts. Went to an outdoor concert today in the town that my little college is in. No other college students were there; everyone were boomers or parents with kids. Still had fun.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/20 01:14 AM
0

Around the same as general society
/r/ExRedPill22/09/20 04:57 AM
1

>tradcon
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 03:42 PM
2

Aiming pee in the toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 06:33 PM
3

I just have the redpill/blackpill/incel jargon in my brain constantly. Like "foid," "looksmaxx," "looksmatch," "Chad," "hypergamy," "currycel," "AWALT," "AFBB," "it's over," "hold frame," and more. I hate it.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 03:00 PM
5

I don’t care I want it all out of my head. It permanently f***ed up my mind.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 05:06 AM
2

I like them more than men generally. They’re less judgmental if you’re someone who doesn’t fit gender stereotypes in my experiences. Edit: to y’all who are downvoting me, respond and tell me why.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 05:31 PM
2

It's non-canon... all of it.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/20 02:06 AM
1

The reason I don’t have experience with girls/women my age is because I am autistic and I don’t understand normie interactions.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/20 11:46 PM
2

Sorry. I should've looked into it before my ignorant comment.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/20 02:54 AM
11

Unironically Internet/social media.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/20 01:02 AM
-8

If you're a young woman (18-29) in America pre covid the only way you weren't being approached is 1) you are a shut-in or 2) you're obese.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/20 01:01 AM
1

YES
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 07:53 PM
3

Same but I'm the opposite: 18 and never been in a relationship. Also never tried doing the actual redpill stuff like bodybuilding, approaching in bars, and cold showers. I just read way too much of it and now my brain is broken. I can't see women around my age and not think "hypergamous vapid whores/foids." I hate it. I still consider myself a feminist but these thoughts make it seem like I'm not.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/20 08:09 PM
2

I can't tell if you're being sarcastic.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/20 04:57 AM
1

Being a stoic manly man in all situations.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/20 10:27 PM
4

Legit laughed out lout.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/20 10:26 PM
2

You sound like an awesome person!
/r/ExRedPill04/08/20 05:02 PM
1

I'd just feel more secure in a relationship with a man or a trans woman. From what I've heard, cis women leave guys at any sign that they have a "better" guy as an option (taller, stronger, richer, etc.)
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 09:23 PM
5

cough cough Jordan Peterson
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 02:33 AM
35

They’re angry at feminism, which actually wants to get rid of the toxic and unrealistic gender stereotypes that a lot of guys can’t live up to (understandably) which lead them to be angry.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/20 09:58 PM
1

A reason I will probably date men when I start dating. Women seem to judge you more if you’re “feminine” and I’m a man with no masculinity whatsoever lol.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/20 09:53 PM
1

They hate men who don’t conform to their ideals: being extremely fit, conservative, quiet about his emotions, is straight, and doesn’t like pop culture. They call them “cucks,” “simps,” “soys,” and more.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/20 09:51 PM
26

Yes, but many of them are angry at the wrong things.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/20 09:45 PM
1

I'm not right wing at all haha you won't have to worry about that. I'm pretty far left. I support LGBTQ rights, defunding the police, stricter gun control, increased access to abortions, and UBI. The only thing I support Republicans on is keeping statues up (I think it's important to acknowledge history, even if it was bad) and banning TikTok (just never been a fan of the app and I think it's making my generation more shallow).
/r/ExRedPill01/08/20 06:17 PM
2

I did Taekwondo for over 4 years when I was a kid. I got my black belt and then started playing basketball so I stopped (which ended after my freshman year of HS lol, though my love for the game didn't). I do want to do it again though. I play bass guitar but I want to play electric guitar as well. What do you mean you're a twin btw? Like what's your weight/height and how much weight can you lift? Thanks.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/20 08:14 PM
2

Yeah I do like myself and my uniqueness. I wouldn't give it up.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/20 06:23 PM
1

Thank you bro, you give me hope. Only thing is my weakness isn't mental. After a few months of weight lifting as a senior in high school my max outs were still comparable or worse than some freshmen's.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/20 05:16 PM
2

Yes I know about pan people. In my experiences they seem to be attracted to ultra-femme girls and ultra-masc boys. Hopefully I can find a "unicorn." If not, I've already been planning on dating guys when I go into the real world. (And after the pandemic has calmed down).
/r/ExRedPill31/07/20 05:16 PM
4

I hate that redpill cares so much about gender stereotypes. NGL it's a brutal "blackpill" knowing the reason girls don't like me and probably won't for a while because I'm a shy weak crossdresser. I'm pretty much the definition of a "soyboy" or "betamale."
/r/ExRedPill31/07/20 01:41 AM
9

Nothing from that shithole is good. I want it all erased from my mind. I wish I could just cope in peace with vidya, music, books, exercise,, sports, and other stuff without knowing this shit existed.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/20 01:39 AM
7

we live in a society
/r/ExRedPill30/07/20 08:24 PM
42

I hate the redpill shit. I wish I didn't know what it was. I consider myself unironically "bluepilled," but I wish I was ACTUALLY bluepilled and not just saying that to "cope." Like I wish I could just forget about hypergamy, AWALT, AFBB, holding frame, looksmoneystatus, SMV, Chad, simp, nice guy, whore, cock carousel, x-maxx, beta/alpha, and all the other crap. I consider myself a happy and well off guy but sometimes this stuff bothers me. I wish I was "blissfully ignorant."
/r/ExRedPill30/07/20 08:23 PM
1

For me it's (diagnosed) autism & anxiety, my complete lack of masculinity (I've crossdressed with a wig and makeup in public and it's on my Instagram), my physical weakness (lifted weights for over 6 months as a 17 year old and still my bench max was under 100).
/r/ExRedPill30/07/20 08:09 PM
2

I never have and I'm 18. Is it "over" for me?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/20 08:07 PM
53

It’s ruining young Americans of all races, gender identities, and sexual orientations. Call me a boomer idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 06:46 PM
3

I’m still not going to try it. I don’t have anything against women, don’t get me wrong. I actually support feminism 100%. When I’m ready to date, I’ll probably just date men. It seems easier. And if women don’t want me, I’m not going to complain about it. Everybody is allowed to be attracted/not attracted to whoever. And I don’t fit any of the boxes of traditionally attractive traits in men/masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 06:47 PM
1

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 06:45 PM
2

Average men will NEVER have women behave this way around them Brutal, if true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 05:04 AM
2

White, at least average height, has been lifting for a while and takes it seriously, plays at least one sport on a team competitively, neurotypical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 05:02 AM
-1

They were created and originally enforced by men. Now, you can argue men and women contribute to patriarchal gender ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:27 AM
1

Sounds like autogynephilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 06:28 PM
8

The phrase toxic masculinity isn’t “anti-male rhetoric.” It’s actually pro male. Criticizing the restrictions placed on men by society in regards to feelings and expressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 06:17 PM
-1

At least in the US, expectations for “masculinity” are stricter and the punishment is greater if you don’t fit them than for “femininity” IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 10:27 PM
1

You’re right. I think class is the biggest issue these days though and it’s only getting more polarized between the rich and the poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 05:10 PM
2

No. Class is what matters in America. Not race, sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, or religion. Well they do to some degree but it’s overstated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 09:50 PM
1

There weren’t as many women in leadership positions back then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 12:16 AM
-3

Women are generally better leaders than men. There are less dictatorships, less wars, and less discrimination than there were 100 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:25 PM
3

WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 11:13 PM
0

Get rid of unrealistic standards of "manliness." Like destigmatize men who wear dresses, men who are emotional, men who aren't ripped, etc. Toxic masculinity I predict will be the second biggest problem in America this decade after climate change.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 11:04 PM
1

I personally don’t like TRP and probably never will because it seems to promote the idea that there’s only a very rigid way to “be a man,” which is an unhealthy and sexist view.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 03:32 AM
1

Zoomers are either influences/jocks who party every week or outcast autists. The “middle class” of social hierarchy is dying. Edit: why am I being downvoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:48 PM
0

Yeah, no. It’s men who put the patriarchal ideas about gender roles into place and who keep them tied down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:52 PM
2

Because men/boys have higher sex drive than women/girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:49 PM
5

Not right now. The pandemic thing has put a pause on dating and sex for people of all ages, races, and sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:27 PM
1

Feminist ally doesn’t equal simp. I consider myself the former but I don’t give money to streamers (or even watch streamers). And I don’t do any of the “nice guy mlady” stuff either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:42 PM
1

I’m not going to bother with the misogynist redpill crap. I’ve accepted it’s over for me as a balding autistic man. I don’t hate women (I actually consider myself a feminist) or believe in any of the blackpill stuff either. I’ll continue to try to stay healthy and try to make friends but I doubt I’ll ever have a gf, and I’m fine with that. Like OP said, for some guys all the lifting and seduction won’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:08 AM
1

No. In fact it’s the opposite. I used to be dumb and think it was. I hope teen boys who unironically think “feminism is cancer” will grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:57 PM
1

None. It’s all misogynist drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:42 PM
1

This. I’m male so I can’t relate but I know the realities of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:29 PM
1

Don’t shame men for being feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:17 PM
2

No. Too much effort. I’m not a shut in or unhealthy though. Just average looking and below average social skills. Then again I’m only 17. I may try in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:50 PM
2

female sexuality is celebrated In what universe?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:20 AM
1

Why do you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:41 AM
1

I have a 130 IQ (tested by a psychiatrist/counselor with a PhD when I was in my early teens). Take that as you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:50 AM
0

Yes that’s true, unfortunately. I say f*** society. I don’t give a damn what others think of me, if I’m not hurting them (which I’m not, by wearing what I want).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 07:04 PM
1

I’m very happy I’m male. As an autistic introvert, it’s nice that I can walk around wherever whenever and not be bothered. If I were female I’d probably get sexually harassed/catcalled, which would be scary. So yes, I would hate being the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 06:15 PM
0

Why couldn’t you wear dresses? I’m a guy and I do and I didn’t die.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 06:13 PM
1

My autism is high functioning but still noticeable I’d say. I’m fine with dating any girl around my age who takes care of herself (isn’t obese and has good hygiene). I shower every day, brush my teeth twice a day, use deodorant, stay clean shaven, use acne wash, wear clean clothes every day and change clothes for exercising. I’d like to think I have average hygiene/grooming. I’ll admit I’m guilty of not caring about my hair. It’s a curly, receding, mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 10:11 PM
5

Porn has unironically caused this. Bring back r/coomer, but without the anti Semitism and homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:10 PM
2

I think it’s probably like 90%. But I find their referring to people as plates to be revolting. The redpill, quite frankly, is a misogynist cult. I don’t care that they get laid more than me and most guys. Most of them seem like awful humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 02:56 AM
1

I’m a guy and I’ll admit I am not attracted to obese girls and/or girls with noticeably bad hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 01:13 AM
1

I have tried but it’s clear they aren’t interested. The only ones who are are the ones I’m not attracted to (which is only like 5%). IMO teens are more judgmental than adults and are more likely to expect you to conform to gender stereotypes (which I don’t at all). For clarity, I’m not bitter about this. I understand that I’m not entitled to a relationship and that people should have freedom to say no. I don’t blame anyone but myself and society/patriarchy in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:40 PM
1

I’m very proud of having autism so “hiding it” is out of the question. I’m comfortable with myself and don’t feel any shame. I feel bad about this but I feel no attraction towards obese people whatsoever. Somewhat fat people, yes. My standards are pretty low. I know it’s shallow (to rule out some people just because of their body shapes) but I can’t control it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 02:58 PM
1

I have no interest in anime. The closest thing I watched was the Pokémon show, and it’s been like 8 years since I watched that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:49 AM
0

You’re right. My style is admittedly pretty bad. Because I prefer “women’s” clothes, but I still try to be taken seriously as a guy, I just wear boring cheap men’s clothes from Target and Kohl’s. As far as exercise goes, I lift weights 3x a week and jog a few miles every day. My hair, unfortunately, is already heavily receding at 17. One of My great grandpas, who that’s where you supposedly get your hair loss genes from, was completely bald by 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:56 PM
2

Thanks for the encouragement man. Your story is truly inspiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:52 PM
1

I have mild autism but I also have diagnosed anxiety and OCD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:51 PM
0

read up on game That sounds like some redpill crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:50 PM
1

I was diagnosed with autism by a professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:49 PM
1

In the past I asked strangers on a website to rate me and most of them said that. I could PM you a pic maybe if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:38 AM
1

Will do. Thanks mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:37 AM
2

Wow good job bro! I hope I can be in a relationship some day, but if not, I’m perfectly happy with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 01:06 AM
1

Hmm that’s one angle. I’ll definitely remember this. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 12:02 AM
2

That’s great for him. However I’d provoke like a 3-4 on a number system of attractiveness- which i think is a stupid way to rate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 11:23 PM
1

My “greater goal” is to eliminate gender stereotypes. I really feel like American society is going backwards with the trans ideology politics. And I think men and women both would be happier without such oppressive rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 11:21 PM
1

What is- being an autist? In a good or a bad way (or neither)?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 11:19 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 10:04 PM
2

I mumble a lot my parents say. I used to attend social skills groups but these days I go to one on one therapy. I have to admit I’m lazy though when it comes to trying to improve conversation skills. I usually just don’t talk to people- i spend lunch in the bathroom or library, sit alone on buses, am always the last one picked for groups (if I’m picked). I have no desire to get into drugs and/or alcohol. I already have things that give me “pleasure”- vidya, crossdressing, music, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 10:03 PM
1

I believe you. I hope we can “make it!”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:59 PM
2

Awesome! I'm already excited to go to college- though kind of sad to graduate HS ngl (for many reasons)- and your comment made me even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:44 PM
2

Thanks for responding. I've embraced living on the outside so far and probably will continue doing so in college. I'm fine with not having a GF/friends, I was just interested in people's opinions on this sub (which I've been lurking for a while).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:42 PM
2

I like nerdy girls yes. My only standard is don't be obese and take care of yourself. I'm sorry but I feel no attraction to morbidly obese people. I feel bad about it but I can't help it. People throughout the years have said I do look pissed off, and I don't talk much, so that description is pretty spot on lol. I don't like anime. I try to be friendly; I've never broken a friendship. The few times I've made friends in my life I've kept the friendships until the other person ended them, they nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:40 PM
2

F
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:33 PM
2

Thanks for giving me hope! I don't feel like I can relate to boys or girls TBH. I am graduating high school in a few months and haven't made any friends, despite joining clubs, sports, music, etc. and trying to be somewhat healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:32 PM
4

I do have a lot of difficulty initiating and holding conversations. My appearance I'd say is mediocore. I'm 5'11" and ~140-145 pounds so I'm not short or obese. I have acne, which I went on accutane for, but that was a while ago and I've been off of it since August of last year. So it's returned. I do think I can read non-verbal cues pretty well. I know that not having a dating history is fine, but what's a bit abnormal is I've never had relationships with girls, even as acquaintances, whatsoeve…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:31 PM
1

OK boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:34 PM
5

Explain why many straight women remain married to heterosexual crossdressers. I don't think girls care that much about "masculinity."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:28 PM
1

If most girls actually think that way- that "submissive" men aren't real men- then I don't think I'd want to be in a relationship. That sounds like internalized misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:10 PM
1

I'm only 17 and have never been in a relationship but I would think that straight girls might freak out because they don't want to get HIV/AIDS (which is a homophobic assumption to think all men who have had sexual experience with other men have it).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:06 PM
1

The whole "alpha male" "macho man" stuff is absolute BS. It makes me laugh when I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:51 PM
-12

Most rapists aren’t male feminists. Where’d you get that idea? They’re often misogynists, criminals, and “alpha” male types.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 02:53 AM
2

Yes I think so.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/12/19 05:13 AM
2

How is the feminist community toxic?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/19 11:17 PM
0

Somehow I missed the message about being stoic and emotionless. I’ve never had any of this macho BS pushed onto me. I’m thankful for that. Sounds like a nightmare.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 09:25 PM
0

I don’t think being fit matters. Just not being obese to the point where it’s unhealthy. Like if you’re skinny, skinnyfat, slightly chubby, I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:36 AM
0

Combines Bernie’s progressive policies with a relatable and down to earth personality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/19 01:22 PM
1

He doesn’t care. Top tier (white) men like him are the most privileged people in America.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/19 04:12 AM
1

Yang is better than all of them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/19 04:12 AM
2

Amen
/r/MGTOW25/11/19 01:46 PM
1

I need to improve all of those. F.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 01:46 PM
2

It is actually. Basically realizing the world is a mess, but not trying to change myself. Just letting loose.
/r/MGTOW25/11/19 05:28 AM
1

^
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:23 AM
2

The honkpill. Join me, brother, and we will cause Normies to freak out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:22 AM
1

The thing is I’m not skinny. It’s hard to understand. My weight sounds skinny but in actuality I’m fat. I guess I’m what’s called skinnyfat.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 08:38 PM
1

Yes I’m 140 lbs. but I’m still fat.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 07:02 PM
1

I’m not wanting to gain weight. I’m already fat as is. As far as program goes I do my schools performance pe class, which is lifting 3x a week and cardio 2x 20-30 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 07:01 PM
3

I’m a 17 year old boy. I’m 5’11” and 140 lbs.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 06:40 AM
2

I’ve been lifting since March and my bench max is 75. What am I doing wrong?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 07:05 PM
1

Why would one want to be a “machine?”
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 08:10 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:58 PM
1

Gym doesn’t really help lose weight. It’s all diet, and a little sleep.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/11/19 11:52 PM
0

It’s either LARPing or trans women. Very very few bio females go on Leddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 05:02 PM
1

That’s why I’m not going to use tinder unless I end up transmaxxing (pray I don’t).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 08:10 PM
2

It’s ironic then that people say incels/FA’s put no effort into dating if what you’re saying is true, about the “no effort” part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 08:10 PM
2

I’m making fun of people who say stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 02:52 AM
0

“I may be a Virgin but at least I’m not an inkwell.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 08:53 PM
4

The reason people hate incels is similar to why people hated Muslims after 9/11. A few rotten apples of a group most Americans don’t understand ruined their reputation. By now, thankfully, Islamaphobia is mostly gone, and hopefully in the next decade America wakes up to the fact most incels aren’t terrorists, misogynists, alt right, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:19 PM
2

Yeah it seems pretty bad- worse than being male tbh. I wouldn’t like to be in fear whenever I go outside. I actually like being seen as invisible- I can go wherever, whenever (in America).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 03:40 PM
2

A liberal small-medium sized city in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 07:44 PM
0

This kind of stuff is shocking to me. In my area of the country fat people are far and few between. Most people are gymmaxxed, or working on it. Me as a 5’11” 140 lb is seen as out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 04:36 PM
-1

Wow you’re incredibly sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:46 PM
-13

Feminism actually advocates for equality, not misandry. You don’t know what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 12:07 AM
4

LARP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:54 PM
0

That sounds like a misandrist group. Just like how some men’s rights groups become misogynistic, some feminism groups and circles are bound to become misandrist. That doesn’t mean the movement of feminism is based on and fights for equality of sexes. Not female supremacy. Feminists are our allies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:41 PM
2

This is because of the men in power though. Men spend so much time tripping each other up in efforts to be more “dominant” and “masculine.” Feminism isn’t to blame for the current state of males, patriarchy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:48 PM
3

Won’t expect me to be hypermasculine. Which is good because I’m not that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:15 PM
3

She would be against gender roles, patriarchy, and probably also be pro LGBTQ. Pretty much ideal GF. Idk why most of you guys are against feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:06 PM
1

Idk. Just saying an artist I find annoying, which is basically just her. I like almost all music.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:05 PM
3

I’m a guy and I’d rather be with someone else who likes U2, watching sports, and is a feminist than some right wing girl who listens to Cardi B and doesn’t know who Carmelo Anthony is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:47 PM
1

Then wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:39 PM
2

If men want to feel desired they should just crossdress.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:31 AM
1

You know I’m making a joke
/r/seduction05/10/19 09:00 PM
2

wizard of pussy Doubt there’s a 30+ female Virgin out there.
/r/seduction05/10/19 02:42 AM
-6

wizard of pussy Doubt there’s a 30+ female Virgin out there.
/r/seduction05/10/19 12:46 AM
24

wizard of pussy Doubt there’s a 30+ female Virgin out there.
/r/seduction05/10/19 12:44 AM
7

True about height. It really doesn’t matter. Manlets are coping hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 01:46 PM
1

Autism, anxiety, ugliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 01:44 AM
2

Exactly. Once I’m old enough I’ll become a regular escortcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 03:16 AM
1

I’m not even skinny. Idk how to describe my body. Not muscular at all. Just a blob- kind of feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 02:45 AM
1

Yeah you were probably fat unless that’s all muscle. I don’t think I’m even that fat. Does 5’11” 140 lbs seem fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 02:40 AM
1

How tall are u?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 02:38 AM
1

I’m not even fat. Is that all there is to it? Or do I also have to get into shape? Rn I’m just a 5’11” 140 lbs blob.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 02:28 AM
0

A lot of them aren’t having sex, having it with women because bisexuality is more mainstream now, or with literal dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:16 AM
1

Yes women have it easier in the dating scene. But we have it easier in almost every other facet of life. Stop making everything a sex war, like how some people do about race.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:11 PM
2

Rip
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 08:17 PM
0

Well a lot of idiots have made the designation as a hate group seem legit. Much of MRA is misogyny and pointless to actually solving men’s issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:48 PM
1

Not right now no way. Maybe in 20 years at least. I’m a teen right now so then the girl would be a literal child. I’m not attracted to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:44 PM
1

I can only bench 65. Is it over?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:38 PM
1

Feminism helps men by recognizing toxic masculinity and reducing it. Which leads to a hopeful demise of traditional gender roles and stereotypes. I think more incels should take up feminism- we’re really not much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:36 PM
1

That nightmare part hit home. Some people have found out I post on Reddit and it’s been social suicide (not like I was anything close to popular to begin with). If more people find out I might as well move away.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/19 11:07 PM
9

What else, Russian bots? Trans?
/r/BlackPillScience30/07/19 11:03 PM
1

Based but really dumb. You and I know nothing about women’s minds. Stop coping.
/r/Chadfish20/06/19 02:19 AM
-1

Volcel if you wouldn’t.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/19 03:10 AM
-3

How do you know she ditched the guy?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/19 03:10 AM
0

If you have any girls going for you you’re a Chad and I recommend to kindly GTFO my board.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 05:41 PM
0

I disagree with him but whatever.
/r/MGTOW26/03/19 07:35 PM
3

Half of them were born male.
/r/MGTOW19/02/19 06:47 PM
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