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Not having a wing is a poor excuse dude. I go out to clubs by myself regularly. You'd be surprised but if the set is going well girls rarely even ask who are you here with? If they do sometimes I'll just tell em by myself, other times if I'm feeling cheeky I'll point to some old dude in the crowd and say "with my dad. We're having a lil father-son bonding session", which almost always gets a laugh
/r/seduction24/05/18 03:20 PM
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Nah contrary to what you might assume dancing at clubs is not mandatory. I hate dancing myself; only do it if I'm with a high-energy girl but never just go out there by myself. As Mystery said: "the dance floor is a trap". You can't talk out there cuz it's too loud and trying to chat with a girl who's dancing is a big no-no because you're coming from a lower-energy state than her, which you never want to do. So just avoid the dancing. Get there earlier when more people are just standing around a…
/r/seduction24/05/18 02:42 PM
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Actually it doesn't matter. There's nothing wrong with asking for the number so long as it doesn't come across as pleading or unassertive. Saying "can I get your number?" or "mind if I grab your number?" is a lot more natural than "give me your number / write your number here". The latter sounds arrogant or even a bit sociopathic if you don't have the right body language and vibe behind it so if it feels off to you, don't do it.
/r/seduction24/05/18 02:29 PM
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Maybe you're right. I was pretty buzzed and high on life. But I've been on the other end of the spectrum watching guys with hot girls on their arms and feeling jealousy thinking that should be me. I know what that's like and I could see people just standing there not having any fun checking us out. Trust me the black men don't like when a white boy like me steals their women. I've been told as much by several black women in the past. And what feels so off about my post? Is this level of success …
/r/seduction10/07/16 08:23 PM
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For day game direct is great. Keep doing it if that's what you're about. At the club girls are expecting that and it's just so common it doesn't stand out. Not that's it's necessarily bad or doesn't work, but it telegraphs a lot of interest up front and forces her to make a decision right then and there as to whether she's into you. This can work in your favour if you've built up good social proof and are in a good state, but if you try warming up like that she's probably just gonna brush you of…
/r/seduction10/07/16 06:48 PM
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Texting is only for relationships? Lol ok. I've had a couple dozen ONS and fuck buddies over the last 6 years and all of these "relationships" were predicated on texting. This list is so kindergarten level basic it's not even helpful. r/seduction is truly the blind leading the blind it seems
/r/seduction10/07/16 12:26 AM
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Why does this sort of shit get voted up? I mean good for you but this offers zero value to anyone... beyond the comfort I guess of not being the only guy to get shut down by a girl. Only reaffirming my suspicion that this forum is full of newbies who have yet to lose their virginity.
/r/seduction10/07/16 12:19 AM
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Way to change the subject. I brought up a solid ass point you couldn't dispute so you link me to random dude with a speaking disorder trying to sell some stupid PUA program? GG buddy GG
/r/seduction10/07/16 12:12 AM
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I thumbed up ur post because Aeon's was incredibly lame and he's in the wrong calling you out like that there... but I think ur confusing him with me because I'm the one who said "my standards are higher now" lol
/r/seduction10/07/16 12:09 AM
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How to tell this forum is full of disgruntled virgins? Ppl downvote massage being the best transition to sex. Some of you kids don't know shit man it's pathetic
/r/seduction07/07/16 02:14 AM
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Well if you wanna be all inner game guru like that then it shouldn't matter what you say at all lol. I could go up to a girl and just smile without talking and that COULD work but it doesn't mean it's an opener I would recommend to others. If you're gonna say something is the "best and most effective" you should be prepared to back it up with evidence.
/r/seduction06/07/16 08:54 PM
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Yeah life's a bitch but i'll still fuck her
/r/seduction06/07/16 08:44 PM
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too much dude
/r/seduction06/07/16 08:39 PM
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One word dude: massage. This is the best way to transition to sex. You get her to lie down and start massaging her back but oh wait that shirt is in the way and you don't want to get moisturizer (stay clear of oils unless you know what you're doing - they stain) on your clothes now do you? And oh that bra strap is in the way now let's just remove that... you see where this is going. If you're not in an environment that is conducive to giving a massage then I recommend the "let's make out in the …
/r/seduction06/07/16 08:26 PM
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My question is where have you done this? This sort of low-key opener seems more suitable for day game. And also what is your success rate? You make a good argument but let's hear the stats man
/r/seduction06/07/16 08:17 PM
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Yeah absolutely. If you have weak points like that you're better off not drawing attention to them. Keep in my mind I'm 29 and am only now just moving out of my parent's house and have only been working full time for little over a year (was in school for a long time). Obviously I'm not gonna draw attention to these facts! Didn't prevent me from getting dates because most women honestly don't care what you do. If you need to rely on an impressive job title or having a lot of cash you have no game…
/r/seduction05/07/16 02:52 PM
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She sounds like a weirdo tbh. Maybe she likes you and this is her manner of flirting... honestly sounds too try hard for a girl though, more like something an immature guy might do. If you're not interested in her or annoyed by it tell her to cut it out, simple as that.
/r/seduction05/07/16 12:44 AM
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If you're waiting for girls to approach you're gonna be single forever man. Take it from a fellow good looking guy who was also being pursued by a lot of girls... in elementary school. I don't know if you didn't get the memo but girls stop taking the initiative when they reach high school. You have to lead and do the approaching pretty much 100% of the time unless you plan on being a hollywood actor or something. And a deep voice is a good thing, women love that. That's like complaining about be…
/r/seduction05/07/16 12:38 AM
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IMO it's not a bad line. Certainly a lot better than some of the popular MM openers like "who lies more men or women?" or "Do you brush first or floss first?" It's unlikely most girls would have heard that kiss line and even if they did, it shouldn't blow up in your face because it's not so obviously contrived as the ones I just mentioned. As you can probably testify, it's not a big deal even if they've heard it.
/r/seduction04/07/16 09:07 PM
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You need to learn the fundamentals. Go read the book The Game. It's relatively old now and has some outdated techniques which are no longer in vogue but it's a good introduction and very entertaining. Or if you're not the reading type, there's a shit ton of youtube videos out there. In your situation I think what you're looking for primarily is outer game (i.e. techniques, what to say, how to act, etc.) Since most of the stuff these days is focused on natural game and inner game, I would recomme…
/r/seduction04/07/16 08:52 PM
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wow ironically douchey comment isn't that?
/r/seduction04/07/16 08:30 PM
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If they're even looking that's a start. IME most will not even view your profile. Probably you have a decent display pic but not other good pics. Even if you have ONE bad pic, that can break you. Or your profile is just bland and not interesting or demonstrating value. I think the pics are the most important thing though. You don't want nothing but selfies and bathroom mirror pics. While we could care less if a girl does that so long as she's hot, it's a major turn off to chicks. I wish I was mo…
/r/seduction04/07/16 08:20 PM
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I guess in general I'm good at writing witty messages and text game and am pretty good looking and fit. I wouldn't say I have amazing game but I know enough to avoid the common pitfalls like pushing for sex too early or getting stuck in the friend-zone. But it was easier in the past and that's pretty much my point. My experience lately is exactly as you describe. 3-4 years ago if I sent out a flurry of 10-15 messages to different girls, guaranteed at least 2-3 would respond and I would likely en…
/r/seduction04/07/16 06:53 PM
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Is it really that NO ONE shows interest in getting to know you? Or is it just that the small percentage that does is made up of men who you would consider below your level? I'm sure that the majority of messages you get are indeed the bogus sex requests you mention, but surely some guys are still looking to actually date, or at least have enough tact to pretend to be lol
/r/seduction04/07/16 04:35 PM
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Thanks interesting story man. Glad to hear I'm not the only one! There's probably some truth to that Tinder theory, and that would coincide with the timeline of PoF's decline as well. I've tried Tinder in the past but quickly deleted it because I was nexting literally like 50 times in a row and it just wasn't showing me the type of girl I find attractive (namely thick and black lol). You're right that there is def a lot more competition on PoF than there was back in 2009 or even 2012, simply bec…
/r/seduction04/07/16 04:28 PM
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