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| -1 | The REAL way to deal with Shit Tests from women, from an actual womanShit tests are easy. Simple rule, imagine a guy said it. Either challenge directly and calmly or walk away. If you can turn it round so they get laughed at even better. But never do the escalate self depreciation thing people often recommend, that's so lame. They are basically asking are you a beta, often they dont know they are doing it, it is evolutional, they cant help it. | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How to take down social barriesDon't do it over a text you wuss. Ask her our for a coffee but in person, and forget the get to know you nonsense. | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with a girl rudely telling you “fuck off” or “walk away?” Do you just awkwardly retreat? Seems it puts you in a weird predicament either wayJust say I like you you're a straight talker. Then move on. Worse case no repercussions, best case you passed the test and they will find you later. | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if friendly or flirtyDon't fuck around with the touchy stuff. Get straight to the point and ask her out on a date. That way you'll find out if she's serious or just wasting your time. | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 11:50 PM |
| -3 | The Ultimate Seduction Technique - The Infamous VibeThis isn't seduction it's let the woman choose you. Fine if land whales are your thing. | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Book suggestions?Day bang? | /r/seduction | 18/03/19 04:06 PM |
| 2 | How to ask a girl out?Imagine you were asking one of your guy friends, just do that. | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 05:19 PM |
| 2 | I can approach and talk to girls just fine, they just aren’t interested in me at allUse your brain and be more selective then. Approach girls that give signs of interest. Or seek out places single women will be found. | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 11:58 AM |
| 1 | I [M25] can't get a date or hookup, and no idea why!great guy Think it is unlikely you will be able to get valid advice based on such limited info. Could be you aren't as attractive as you believe or are too choosy. May be your concerns about making people feel comfortable indicate you avoid conflict which can be a turn-off for women. They will say they like nice guys but hook up with the ones that are confrontational and make them feel more alive. Do you make girls feel like they're alive? Try googling fractionation formulas, don't buy into the … | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 11:07 PM |
| 2 | I [M25] can't get a date or hookup, and no idea why!" ten counselors " you might need to expand on that one. Also try this test and report back: https://psychology-tools.com/autism-spectrum-quotient | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Question about No More Mr. Nice GuyIt means stop trying to validate yourself when talking to women. They will subtly shit test you in conversation to see if you will come across as insecure or needy. An I'm good enough mindset will stop you falling into that trap. | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe in hypergamy? And how can i ever be in a relationship if it’s real?What the eyes don't see the heart doesn't grieve over. | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Why girls love nice guysPeople are drawn to others that are confident and but make them feel relaxed. Being overly nice can indicate you fear conflict or are disingenuous. So you risk eliciting the opposite of disrespect and fear. Don't think you have to necessarily be consistent either, people arnt. Probably best to air on the side of not nice first and become nicer, rather than the other way around. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Girls mocking me or was it something else? U.K.Like I said last time, stop obsessing about it. Go out and talk to people. | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 02:45 PM |
| 2 | When Hooking up with a woman, is it better to go to her place or take her to yours?Depends whether you live on a boat. | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 06:30 PM |
| 2 | What is an attractive face?The 'conensus' is an average of all features. We are wired at an evolutionary level to look for that: https://mashable.com/2011/02/10/average-faces/?europe=true#LR.vg0ruJ5qE You might find some exaggerated features attractive at a personal level but that will be unique to you that could be traced back to early sexually related experiences. | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 04:52 PM |
| 68 | Struggling with the idea of an open relationshipIt's already over mate. Move on. | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 04:46 PM |
| 5 | In my conversations I feel I open up too easily which causes me to fail the Seduction principles. Any tips to follow?You are on the right lines, women / people generally have a high opinion of others by default especially ones that approach you. But they will then give you opportunities to prove them wrong. Law 4: Always Say Less Than Necessary The less you say and more mysterious you are, they will fill in the gaps with positive assumptions. Don't be afraid of short silences in fact they can be a good way of communication worth. And bizarrely people who never talk about themselves are often labelled as charis… | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 12:25 PM |
| 16 | I have a 95% success rate when I don’t really care about the girl I’m going for. This drops significantly as soon as I find the girl to be somewhat special. How can I work on this?Fap more? The reality is that you most likely 'care more' about girls that are more attractive (than you), and success rates with those drop off like a brick. So might not be anything you are doing. | /r/seduction | 01/12/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | If giving a girl too much attention comes off as needy, how can you give her a balanced amount just so she stays attracted to you/doesn't lose interest?This is the point you polarise by asking out. Wussing out with fake friendliness is the path to frendzone. | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Why did these customers act like this? Should I be insecure about it or was I paranoid? U.K.To quote Data from TNG, 'There is not enough information to form a valid hypothesis'. In situations where people are behaving strangely there are three options: option 1 - Get more info, go talk to them, give benefit of doubt and smile and say hi, they may be trying to get your attention or you may be mistaken. Intentions will be come clear, option 2 - Ignore, carry on never think of again. option 3 - Do nothing but replay in your mind over and over never reaching a valid conclusion. No. | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you?This is called being average, which is effectively the same as invisible. Although surprised no interest from less attractive girls the same age. That's probably a sign of the times with dating apps and stuff making it even easier for women. Or you're being 'nice' which will leave women dryer than an Arab's fart. To get noticed you need to be more Steve and less Stu: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9UefQYjG7rM Be assertive less passive make opportunities instead of waiting for them. Then stron… | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 05:29 PM |
| -1 | Please help guys. I don't know what's wrong with me.My advice would be forget cold approaching until you have a few girlfriends behind you and more small talk practice. The smarter approach for an introvert is to recruit an introducer. The're the extremely extroverted people that seem born without social anxiety, can talk to anybody and seem to know everyone. The're not that uncommon or hard to spot, loud happy go lucky types, say hi continuously. They are usually a little shallow with tons of superficial relationships (where as the likes of you … | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Using the law of attraction to get girlsThere is no science behind it but there is an explanation. The brain is a problem solving machine. It will work away in the background and provide solutions to problems you present it. Those can include subconscious processes too anything from motivation to picking opportunity up in peripheral vision. So essentially it's a brain hack and there's no reason it could not bring results. | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 05:06 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate conversations betterSimple, ask girls out on a date. That's where you actually escalate. Expect to get no's most of the time but at least you'll get some yes's too. | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Useful Psychological Methods to use in the fieldIt works on me, 🐵 | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 10:40 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate in a short time?Take her out on a boat. Because of the implication. | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 08:34 PM |
| 5 | [Help]Confidence and determination almost destroyed after being rejected by an ordinary looking girlA large percentage like maybe even half will never give out their number to someone they just met, and hate guys who approach. Don't be so self centered to think it reflects on you. | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Not really seduction relatedMost if not everyone goes through an experience like this. Those that don't never do because they never take risks. It's far the end of the world, people forget even you will, but will likely come out a stronger person. It takes more balls to be honest and people know that deep down, so feel proud. You just know now to pick a better person to open up to. | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Islam is a diseaseChina #1! | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Watch this and see if you see yourself in them. This is a unique mirror for those of us lurkers who have little success.Most of what I take from that is you really need to ask a third party what your problem is, and believe them. | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 12:14 AM |
| 1 | need some advice/ pointers if possiblePalm reading routine? Guiding through crowded places. Getting attention and talking in loud places. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Dry humpThis is what hookers are for. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so hypocrite?I know it sounds a little Disney but when you find the right partner desire for others will deminish, at least for a few years. Regarding her chastity before you met. You need to take control of you mind like an adult. Don't feed doubt with attention and it will starve. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 02:34 PM |
| 2 | AdviceRead The Carisma Myth. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Useful Psychological Methods to use in the fieldGame really is teh abililty to hold a conversation with a stranger whilst not coming across as super awkward, and showing your intent at some point. 'Game' can be taught/learnt in about 4 minutes. Your results are dependant on lots of other factors, though This is r/seduction not r/how to be normal. It's like saying marketing is just pseudo science and easy. Yet business pays millions for it. Can't disagree most pua is bro science but you'd be limiting yourself and naive to believe 'just be your… | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 10:34 PM |
| -1 | Useful Psychological Methods to use in the fieldMore NLP, how about using certain words to subconsciously arouse in conversation. Like lips, wet, insert, erect. Generally talking about food seems to do the trick. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 02:55 PM |
| 10 | 53 years old...out of the game for years: is it all over?I've seen charts saying men's attraction peaks at 50, probably more to do with women will date someone much older, so you have bigger catchment than everyone else. Certainly its not over for you. Just take a look around. | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 01:15 PM |
| 3 | How do you start the actual hooking up?Don't make him guess, tell him straight you like him but don't want to get physical until at least two more dates. That way you can both relax and just have fun. Re starting, again tell him. Say you kiss me if you like. | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Good looking guy strugglingDeodorant? | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 10:42 PM |
| -2 | How to approach girls you already know, but just a little? It seems much easier with girls I don't know or know pretty well than girls that I just know a little.I believe it's called flirting. Try that? | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 09:59 PM |
| 1 | The Golden Rule of NutritionIf you can't cope with dieting try eating normal - 2.5k a day and cycling on average an hour a day. I'll never fail to lose the belly in a couple of months. Don't have to ride daily, aim for 3 to 4 hour rides at the weekends. Couple more times for an hour week days indoor or out to build your fitness for stamina for the long rides. Look up training for a century ride. Sitting on the couch feeling hungry is not the best plan. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/18 09:46 PM |
| 63 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.http://i.imgur.com/onVwta7.png | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 06:16 PM |
| 6 | Best way to stop being nervous when talking to womenJust remember they all have poop inside them. | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 10:13 PM |
| 1 | The loneliness is getting to me.It is not that unusual for your age. Maybe try meeting girls more like you? Or conversely, I've found it easier to be successful with women when I'm unusual, by that I mean not local. Consider moving to another part of the country maybe. Assuming you are in your home town. | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 09:06 AM |
| 1 | How to make a girl obsessed with you?Pay employees less money than they earn. | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | How to make a girl obsessed with you?Buy low sell high. | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Three questions.She's says we shouldn't be doing this etc. You say I know it's very wrong. But act like you can't contain your passion. If she continues then stop, them's the breaks, try again another night. | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Three questions.Negative reinforcement, withdraw attention. Agree sarcasticaly and carry on. Get physical but keep it above the waist till they reciprocate. Stop if you hear a no or stop. Get physical on the couch then suggest the bedroom. | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 05:18 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate in class?Start with only wearing sports wear for actual sports. | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 04:40 PM |
| 1 | I realised I'm a boring personWhenever there is a lull in conversation just repeat what the person last said as a question. Works every time. | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok to message a girl from your uni that you've never spoken to on Facebook after graduating?I know plenty of people that successfully scored with ex classmates sometimes years after. But they had actually spoken to them at the time. If you've never done that might be better to go through the mutual friend, at least ask them if she remembers you, and see what her reaction is first. | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 06:15 PM |
| 3 | What REALLY Attracts WOMENGrow a moustache. Bake her a cake, or something. Promise all her wildest dreams will come true . | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Highway patrol grants pussy pass, then soundly revokes it when the woman can't shut upI like how she tries the Jedi mind tricks @3:45 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/09/18 11:36 AM |
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