bookish_cat_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
32	How to avoid resentment?	ADVICE	bookish_cat_	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/23 01:28 PM
19	Tips on getting husband to want to spend time with me again?	ADVICE	bookish_cat_	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/24 03:03 PM
14	Pregnant and feeling less support than I currently need. How to handle in a loving way?	ADVICE	bookish_cat_	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/22 12:16 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Tips on getting husband to want to spend time with me again? You’ve somehow articulated what I need to hear for the last 1.5 years. 🥹 Thank you again!	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/24 07:56 PM
5	Tips on getting husband to want to spend time with me again? You truly spoke to my heart. Thank you, I do think what you’re referencing is the root of my pain.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/24 07:01 PM
5	Tips on getting husband to want to spend time with me again? Sure thing! Currently, by the time by husband gets home from work all tasks except our child’s bedtime (my domain) are completed. Once bedtime is done, the plan is to read the Bible together 5 nights per week. However, since I get up the earliest to start childcare and work I’m usually exhausted by that point. If we do end up reading, that’s about all that happens - he usually goes on his phone and we go to bed. On nights that he spends working on his hobby, he has a lot more energy and stays up…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/24 05:16 PM
10	Good for the boyfriend, ngl Exactly, it’s definitely normalized, which I don’t believe is a good thing.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/08/23 03:41 PM
12	Good for the boyfriend, ngl I’d be curious on the actual data behind the claims. Honestly, lots of men in my experience watched porn — all those that I used to know did. I didn’t even think it was possible to meet someone who chose not to (thank God for my husband!). I genuinely (and mistakenly, without knowing any better at the time) believed that women had to simply deal with their male partners watching porn. Even if someone doesn’t “go to the whorehouse,” porn use is so pervasive and the majority of the drivers behind …	/r/RedPillWomen	17/08/23 03:41 PM
9	Good for the boyfriend, ngl Out of curiosity, how so?	/r/RedPillWomen	17/08/23 02:07 PM
3	How to avoid resentment? A 5 month old does not “tantrum” akin to a toddler, and studies demonstrate that babies do not associate crying with “getting what they want” until they are a bit older. Studies also show that babies’ brains can be negatively affected by “crying it out,” and responding to their needs actually quells anxiety over time instead of feeding into it because they encounter a secure, consistent caregiver. Plus, my baby literally will simply NOT stop crying until I am back home. It’s not “coddling,” but …	/r/RedPillWomen	30/01/23 12:31 PM
1	How to avoid resentment? It’s something 😂 I do appreciate your idea, though!	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/23 05:18 PM
8	How to avoid resentment? He is against spending more money on her :( The other troubling piece is that our baby can spend no more than 1 hour without me without her freaking out. She has literally cried for a full hour and only stopped when I came home. I feel like I’m between a rock and a hard place, although I agree that this is a great suggestion!	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/23 04:44 PM
5	How to avoid resentment? I would agree with this possibility, but this was always an issue — he obsessively pursued his hobbies before the baby, which I didn’t care about because I did my own thing. He dialed it back a lot since the baby (I.e., spending several hours instead of from 3am until dark on every possible occasion he was free), but it’s hard because I’m still practically housebound.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/23 03:47 PM