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Hahaha sorry is your baby momma drama
/r/MGTOW24/10/19 02:34 AM
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I don’t think marriage is primarily about access to female sexuality in general as much as it is about access to a single female whose sexuality hasn’t been tossed around but I’m not a man and maybe I am really erroneous to say that. I definitely agree that women have reasons to marginalize slutty women! but I would disagree that they are selling the same product. It’s like saying that McDonalds and healthy five star restaurant are competitors because they both sell food. Are you eating to satis…
/r/MGTOW30/09/19 12:55 AM
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I don’t believe slut-shaming came from a place of jealousy. I think shame is the way society labels controls deviant behavior and it can be for good or bad. For example, we can shame people into quitting smoking, wearing seatbelts, covering their private parts. MGTOW complain much about women and how useless they are but I believe that slut- shaming is what once prevented women from becoming useless to other men. It is the same culture that made married women with children something to envy. And…
/r/MGTOW29/09/19 09:01 PM
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I am a reformed feminist and I don’t think all feminism comes from a place of wanting to be lazy or have less competition. Society today preaches that being independent from a man is respectable so we never learn to prioritize finding relationships or the traits and behaviors that will lead us to a good one. It takes a lot of sifting through bullshit to discover that men are a gift in life and that being a married woman of the house is not an oppressive role at all but a position of respect and …
/r/MGTOW29/09/19 08:54 PM
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Yes, exactly. It’s their way of seeing what they can get away with and how much respect you have for yourself because they’ll mirror it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/19 04:54 AM
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Did you mean to say anyone would prefer to be poor than to not be born? Sorry are you in support of single motherhood rather than abortion or contraception? I think that’s what your comment is suggesting but it was a little hard to understand I’m not suggesting we kill poor people, but instead that people who cannot support a child don’t have them. Quality of life can be debated but you have to at least be able to feed and clothe them. That’s not asking too much in an age where you can easily no…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/19 03:20 PM
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I dunno. It’s like you said no chance she’d realize anything so why waste your time. She’s going to only hear the part where he asked her out and wanted something from her he didn’t ultimately get and feel she won something. Rationalization hamster. Like for example how she believes the man has to pay for the woman but yet she asked him out so her traditionalist logic doesn’t extend to that part tho???? Plus She’s not worth 20 euros even.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/19 09:29 PM
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I totally agree Unfortunately Being a single mom isn’t considered without dignity these days. Neither is hooking up with a deadbeat. It’s allllll the fault of the man and the woman is absolved of all responsibility and even given applause and respect for having to deal with the situation as if she didn’t have her equal part in creating it. Power and responsibility are two sides of the same coin and it really irks me how women wield the power of being the mom( the legal and financial perks/social…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/19 06:37 PM
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I don’t think men should be able to force a woman to abort a child(that would be quite frightening), but I think they should be able to state that they would Not have the child if they were in power to choose and therefore be absolved of legal/financial duties. Then the woman can make a hard choice. If the woman still wants to have the child, she can have it alone. I think far less women would opt to have a child under those conditions, and that would be a great win for children. Sometimes I thi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/19 06:29 PM
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How do you tag someone in a post? I listened to 20 minutes or so and they briefly mentioned that in a woman’s twenties they think they’ll have casual sex but then settle down the way everyone else does but then realize this causal sex thing goes on in perpetuity. Then they were discussing the “sex recession” and how people are actually having less sex than they would in committed relationships even though people are hooking up more. Talked about tinder as a time waster and that this world of inf…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/19 06:12 PM
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Yes okay thank you. That’s a helpful example!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/19 04:54 PM
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I agree. I also don’t think he should have wasted time asking her out again if she clearly friendzoned him and isn’t even pleasant to be around
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/19 04:51 PM
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I wrote a whole long post but then re- read the thread and understand your position better now based on original comment so nvm here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 04:29 AM
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Wait what do you mean when you say pre-red pilled guys blamed other men? Could you elaborate please if you don’t mind?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/19 03:32 AM
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Respect is earned not given. still I would say the onus is on both for sucking hard as people generally but where it certainly and without a doubt falls on the woman is when they choose to allow a child fathered by these assholes to develop and be born into the world. She is the sole person in control of this decision and women make terrible ones at the expense of children. If you’re going to choose to have sex with assholes, I really don’t care. When people are irresponsible enough to create ch…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/19 03:31 AM
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Yaaaassss thank you. Why is this so hard for people to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 02:57 AM
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Thank you so much for this! I loathe the one-sidedness and the total lack of assuming responsibility we see so often. Especially with regard to single moms. They are almost glorified now and while I understand there are extenuating circumstances (husband died), most of the time these children are left without a father because the woman picked a terrible person to have unprotected sex with. At least be real about the fact you made a mistake and then I can accept you’re doing your best and respect…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 02:55 AM
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That’s like your opinion man Hahaha no jk You are probably right that prudes are bad in bed. Practice makes perfect. As a person who has sex only within the confines of a LTR, there was much to be learned and practiced. Obviously makes sense there would be a correlation between practicing something and being better at it, and it’s hard to catch up with a slut! But over the course of your life with one man, listening to his wants and needs, and being open to trying, I think you can. They’ve got a…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 12:37 AM
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Hey Thanks for saying that. Most people have said its harsh and uncaring but honestly I think if you love humans, you hold them to the highest standard they can reach and what I’m seeing in today’s world is not it
/r/askTRP05/01/19 12:26 AM
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Isn’t most of what people post on reddit their opinion, with differing levels of informedness ? I’m always willing to hear arguments otherwise and change my perspective when someone’s point is better than mine, which many times it has been. I’m learning. So far though still don’t see the advantage of going after easy women and being that interested in sex that you’d lower your standards just to get it (for either gender)
/r/askTRP05/01/19 12:22 AM
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Lolol yes I see your point. I am shaming men but women too! I don’t think anyone wants a woman who is a hoe either. Plus the commenter above already went against the narrative when he suggested that men DO indeed love hoes so I was piggybacking off of that and suggesting the alternative that no one likes people who are sexually indiscriminate, man or woman and agreeing with him that we are all the same but disagreeing that means we all love hoes and instead saying we all love people who have sta…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 11:23 PM
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Indeed, sir. However, You should evaluate my comment regardless! Shouldn’t have to say whether I’m female or not I don’t think. Just consider what I’ve said and agree or disagree and rationalize it. If it’s wrong tell me WHY just the same. That’s literally the biggest benefit of learning and debating on reddit is the anonymity. That people do not kiss your ass or the opposite because of the way you look.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 11:12 PM
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Women are attracted to Chads with high number counts about as often as men are attracted to sluts. It’s about self esteem and searching for it in someone else. I truly believe it’s a myth that men are more valuable the more sex they have. For a woman, That would mean sharing resources and constantly competing or accepting a partner having sex with multiple partners. Why would a woman want that? This is a sincere question. Same with men. It means increased chance of STDs, sharing with other Chads…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 10:22 PM
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Yes, this is a big part of it. We need good men raising young men and women to understand that discipline, structure, and even suffering are a part of life to be embraced not to constantly run away from. Everyone wants the gain without the pain and our increasingly permissive social values make it seem like it’s not just perfectly fine to be mentally weak but something others will give you pity and attention for. Anxiety is a part of a life. Do you think a lion questions why it feels anxious abo…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 10:14 PM
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We’ve created a culture of entitlement. The whole world is going soft and making excuses for all kinds of things that used to be condemned in the past. People are growing up in single parent households increasingly or in blended families where they aren’t being raised with the same values— commitment, integrity, hard work, dependability, fortitude. People truly believe suffering is not a part of life and it cripples them.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 10:10 PM
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Condoms do not protect against all STDs? Also this is purely anecdotal, no idea of the statistics, but I’ve seen plenty of women willing to take the 500 bucks a month when they are upset you didn’t make them girlfriend status. It’s not about money for some women as it is the power of having a man who rejected them or used them by the balls. I would never give them the chance. Also if getting pregnant means ending their fun, why are their so many posts about not only single moms but literally vis…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 10:04 PM
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I love your response and will take this advice to heart. I want my good man to wake up next to me every day enthusiastic and at peace. I want him to keep taking days off to spend with me when I have breaks (I have a lot as I’m a teacher). I want him to hurry home every day to a great big hug. I’ll do whatever it takes! My parents have been married my entire life and I have witnessed the tremendous effort it takes but also the great position of respect they have in our family for their lasting co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/19 01:08 AM
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Thank you for your response! Makes sense to me. What about STDs and such? I would imagine men would enjoy having sex with multiple women before marriage but not as MANY as they can. It just seems dangerous to me and a lot of work, time and energy! Is it not? I don’t know I’m not a man in pursuit of those things. I agree with you that men hold the keys to commitment and resources and that they’d want a woman who did not give away her key to sexual access.! Strange question which I have just now c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/19 12:27 AM
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I would have to disagree with the part that all men and women are the same. They tend to share some fundamentals in common perhaps but I think I’m a little more discerning with my people and the ones I like and humans vary so greatly in intelligence, attractiveness, mental health, kindness, empathy, humor. The things that drive us are very similar, though, I agree. But the ways we choose to get it says a lot about us as people and that’s where I think it matters to distinguish one person from an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 06:09 PM
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This is a serious inquiry— is all men really want to have sex with many women who easily give up sex? Or is that what people want men to believe they want so they happily watch the destruction of the family believing they won just like feminists believe they have “won” something? I thought men wanted a dependable woman who would appreciate them and support them through old age. A woman to raise their children and to give them safe and loving sex with a body that only that man was privileged to. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 04:44 PM
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This is a level of depth and understanding I have literally only begun to develop after reading this comment and another message I received so forgive my lack of understanding but Is the idea that feminism is just a tool and feminists are just puppets in part of a bigger agenda to consolidate power for the people pushing it? Do the people at the top not value the family unit or marriage or do they just not care that it’s destroyed for the people they rule over? Is that what they want for themsel…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 04:37 PM
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Yes, My early twenties and his late twenties. Five years total. This is wonderful and empowering advice. I will take it thank you so very much!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 12:49 AM
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I understand this and I agree. Men are at a huge disadvantage if they choose to marry and have kids and it is only going to bite us women in the ass and already has begun to. As I said in my previous post, I think it will be in my best interest not to spend more time trying to engage when everything I say is mistrusted (however with good reason) so I will leave this be . Thank you for extrapolating on that point, what you said helped me to put it in to perspective
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 12:46 AM
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I understand that now, thank you. I appreciate your succinctness! For this very reason I will not say anything further as it has no value here! Carry on men carry on
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 12:43 AM
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You don’t know exactly what my plan was. This confusing response is evidence of that. I don’t know that you’ve understood me at all and I think I’m guilty of making assumptions and severely misunderstanding you as well.you are right that I don’t know you or what you stand for. From what I’ve gathered, you dislike women because of what they’ve done politically , which is a slightly different conversation from the one I intended about love and sex but intertwined of course. I’m willing to listen a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 08:28 AM
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I understand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 06:05 AM
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There is no way to win with the AWALT mindset and I understand that women did the same thing and vilified men but that is just my point above. We’re all screwed from enjoying the stability and fulfillment of the family unit now thanks to feminism. There’s no need to be a pick me girl when no men need to pick. I know there’s no point in trying to convince you that’s not what I’m here for just as you can’t convince a feminist that good men exist so I’m not hurt by your assessment. We act entitled—…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 05:37 AM
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Thank you for your insight! I started dating him when I was young and my SMV was higher. I cared more about keeping and appreciating a good man than exploiting my SMV, which is temporary and a false sense of power that leads to nothing. The more I read in this sub, though, the more I am convinced that feminism has truly destroyed the beauty and benefits of marriage for men and thus for women. I’m a teacher so I am by no means rich but I make my own money and am almost debt-free. However, no matt…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 03:53 AM
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Yes. If they were redpilling , they’d be remorseful and not bitter. They still take no responsibility and feel entitled.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 01:58 AM
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Really? What do you think if you’ve been dating since your early twenties? (The man’s late twenties). I’ve read that marriages are more likely to succeed when both parties are 28 or older.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 01:57 AM
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What is an incel??
/r/MGTOW26/12/18 05:19 AM
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Hahahaha !!
/r/askTRP07/12/18 02:59 PM
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What if you’re hot & smart/high-earning ? I think that’s the women they were referring to. Nerdy/High-earning but less attractive women are just screwed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/18 04:08 AM
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Don’t stick it in crazy . You’re giving her too much attention as it is. Blockttttttt
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/18 04:07 AM
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Hahaha! It probably does feel different because it’s been visited a few more times. Tinder girls aren’t quality. Neither are party girls at the bar. Read that in the sidebar. optimize your time. Level up
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:26 AM
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It is far less legitimate and requires far less game and barely any presence. There are 26 million users on tinder, with the explicit purpose of meeting others. 1.5 million dates per week. That’s far more than are occurring from approaching random women on the street who may or may not be single or open to meeting a stranger. But if you two are having problems, guess you’re the first two men I’ve met. I’m sorry to hear, that sounds terrible. Then again the men on reddit talking about their feeli…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 08:16 PM
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Is that why were all here? You have to have quality. Not interested in girls who fuck fuckboys, too easy
/r/askTRP06/12/18 04:36 AM
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It’s your fault. Hang around better quality girls. Not going to find any kind of mental stimulation or quality at the bar
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:28 AM
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Anyone can get laid on tinder. Don’t source your confidence from that, literally anyone can get laid every night. It doesn’t reflect on you well. You should have been working harder to save money instead of giving all of your time to girls who give a shit about you. Now you’re living at your parents house. Stop whining and get out of this rut. Any girl who sleeps with a man that lives at his parents house is pathetic ... then again that’s tinder like I said. Anyone can get laid. You’ll be fine, …
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:26 AM
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Hahaha wow you two argue like women. Try less
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:18 AM
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Yeah, don’t overthink it. That’s what women do. When you’re feeling insecure, don’t see her. Let it pass, go work out. Enjoy her and know you’re worthy of enjoying her and she’s lucky to enjoy you, as she seems to recognize !
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:15 AM
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Disagree. Be a man not a fuckboy. Girls don’t want to date a guy who posts on social media more than she does. That’s so feminine. It looks like you’re looking for the validation of others too often. You sound childish to me based on what you posted, OP. Your presence should make girls want you, you have so many insecurities. No girl wants to deal with that or will be attracted to it
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:12 AM
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I think it is charming to give validation as it only is a compliment to yourself. If you’re spending time with a girl, she reflects on you. At least that’s how I’ve seen it. If you’re too worried giving her a compliment will inflate her ego, she’s the wrong girl. Find one who plays along and reciprocates and is receptive. She should appreciate your attention
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:09 AM
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Agreed, next. She’s seeing how much of your time you’ll waste for her
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:07 AM
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She just wants your attention and even if you’re doing it just because she has “nice tits” you’re giving it to her. She wants to see how much you will take and right now you’re taking it just because she has a nice body. Implies you aren’t talking to nice girls with nice bodies. Drop her
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:05 AM
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