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He says he will help more ‘after’ the next baby is born. But why can’t he help more now? By the time a “next baby” comes along he will be even older (not that 40s is old), with diabetes, and whatever ailments diabetes brings along with it. Girl, between your full time job, your health and wellness, a child, a marriage, your parents/family, etc etc… it’s a lot. Don’t get trapped with a 2nd child that ‘outnumbers’ you as a mom, as you may be raising your kid/kids alone.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/22 08:59 PM
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IDK, Elon Musk married Grimes. Men like all sorts of women. Be healthy, happy, and enjoy having sex with them. And you will do ok. 💜
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/22 05:13 PM
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You have so much going for you! Congratulations on being independent and stable. It’s a good feeling. Keep the good feelings coming, don’t let negative self talk creep into your mind about “why” things are not happening soon enough. You can speculate all day long that you’ve done something wrong or xyz must not be good enough or he would have proposed already… but It’s only been a year, and there’s a lot of risk involved (kids, properties..). Time is your friend. You don’t want to give up so muc…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 03:22 AM
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It’s definitely a good move to tell them you’re staying fresh for your husband. They will respect it or they can move along. The right one will 100% happen for you. Just as long as you are not holding onto the wrong man. Drop the ones who don’t fit, make yourself available to the one that is meant to be.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/22 07:24 PM
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I love that my husband is smarter than me! He makes great choices and always has a plan B just in case. He’s amazing. My life is EASY because I have a smart husband. I don’t have to think as much, because I know he’s got everything covered.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 02:32 AM
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It’s quite simple actually. You are ready to settle down and have a home and a baby. But is he also ready to purchase this home now, have a wedding, give you and your children all the things you need and deserve? You have a vision of your life, is he really living up to what you’re ready for? If the answer is NO… then please make a graceful exit from this relationship. Stay friends if you want, but move on. Find the man that fits your lifestyle and your needs for love, protection, and comfort. Y…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 01:40 AM
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Leave as fast as you can. While you hang on to this angry, moody, unhappy man... you are not opened up to finding who you are truly meant to be with. Let go of this one, and catch the right one.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/21 01:12 AM
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Take him to the cleaners. Get alimony, get child support, take as much of the business as you can. Demand the home so your kids can continue living where they are comfortable, demand he pay off your car. Get a great lawyer and go crazy with your list of financial demands. If he’s been taking advantage of you all these years, NOW is your time to get what you need for the kids. If you don’t do it now, before the divorce is final, you’ll be screwed. Don’t let him make you feel that asking for child…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 08:08 PM
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There’s no way they are jabbing me with it!
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/21 12:31 PM
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Most malls are for teenagers who like cheap trash. If you want to shop at a mall, shop at upscale malls that have dept stores like Neimans, Nordstrom, S5A, Barney’s... only shop upscale. Only shop luxury. Drape yourself in clothing that make you feel unstoppable.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 09:58 PM
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I’ve met so many great people through Meetup, many who I consider to be a BFF now. ;) It’s important to have friends and people to experience new things with. I’ve done so many fun activities (I.e., recently me and a group did Axe Throwing) and have tried so many restaurants and bars that I probably wouldn’t have gone to. I highly recommend meetup to everyone that is looking to expand their social groups or just have a variety of options of things to go do with others.
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 08:21 PM
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I have so much success on Meetup.org meeting like-minded women. I haven’t found a RPW group yet, but the groups I’ve joined have been great and helped me to expand my IRL social circles.
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 11:03 AM
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A question for my fellow Fashion Obsessed...... Does your husband ever get annoyed or laugh at you (lovingly, hopefully) for having so many packages delivered? Or do you hide your finds? Have them shipped elsewhere? I love buying clothes/shoes/handbags/accessories/gifts, and I do so a lot on sites like AliExpress and Taobao where it takes for-ev-er to get, but everything is so much cheaper, AND since it takes so long I forget what I’ve ordered and it feels like Christmas every day that I get a n…
/r/RedPillWives01/02/20 02:16 PM
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There’s something about your behavior you need to modify in order to keep a good man. You deserve a captain and you will have him. You just have to figure out what is pushing them away. If you already know what it is, then you are ahead of the game. Just work on modifying that behavior. It won’t happen overnight that is for sure. It will take time and feel very foreign at first. But stick with it, and it will become normal, and there will be an even better you, who is attracting excellent men, i…
/r/RedPillWives29/07/19 02:11 AM
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Married since 2015. I was 31, he was 38.
/r/RedPillWives16/05/19 10:11 PM
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Men can be very disappointing on holidays. Especially these Hallmark holidays that are way more important to women than to men. My advice is for you to set the example. Go all out for Father’s Day. Give him presents, coupon books, a basket of all his favorite things, whatever will make him happy and know that you love him and appreciate he’s the father of your baby. Set the tone for how you want it to be.
/r/RedPillWives13/05/19 10:54 AM
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That’s a really nice response actually. He’s not mentally or financially ready to be a dad yet. Give him time to get his career in order, otherwise you’re going to be struggling.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 12:19 PM
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The only thing men want more than Sex and Money, is Appreciation and Respect. Give him plenty of admiration and make him feel like he’s your hero. Most of all, keep his belly full and his balls empty.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 11:45 PM
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Keto (low carb) zucchini lasagna Fathead (lowcarb) pizza Stuffed peppers Chicken and veggies
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/19 10:14 PM
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Weight lifting! You’ll build beautiful muscle.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/19 10:54 AM
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Is he between the ages of 18-26? Yes? Ignore it. The more you say “no” the more he wants it. Ignore it. It’s not like he’s meeting up with them in real life, and I can guarantee if he’s even chatted with them online, it’s only because the girls were trying to solicit money from him. Is he sending them money? No? They have 0 interest in some dude who’s not paying their credit card bills. The sooner you stop making it taboo, the quicker it will become stale to him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 02:30 AM
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Be conscious of your Resting Bitch Face. We all have it. Our faces look varying degrees of angry to tired while at rest. So keep a little smile on your face always. It shines happiness and confidence -people find that very attractive. Most importantly, when you smile, you feel good.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 01:59 AM
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They like to call their aggression “Girl Power”.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 01:23 AM
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These women are nuts. Feminists are nuts. They create their own misery and then blame men for it, causing more misery. Then it’s just an endless downward spiral of more and more misery. Makes no sense to me. 🤷‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 04:50 PM
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You gave her solid advice that I hope she takes. Perhaps if this relationship isn’t salvageable, she will remember this lesson in her next.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 03:00 AM
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Congratulations to you both! 💜💜💜
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/19 01:20 AM
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Mom’s usually have good intentions, but damn their words can stick with us forever. Ignore her opinion, forget her opinion. She’s probably already forgotten she said it. Having any sort of anxiety over the opinion of others will only make you miserable. You deserve to be happy. Your hair is almost butt-length!? Wow, that’s long. Do you curl it? Does it have layers? Both of those things will add a feminine touch. Lots of opportunity there!
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/19 02:55 PM
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Well ok then! You got this girl! 🏆🏆 My advice: Hair.... it grows back, so if you currently hate it, it’s only temporary. My favorite thing ever are Extensions. Tape-in or clip-in, they add length and body. Makeup.... go to Ulta or the cosmetic counters at the mall. They will be more than happy to assess your skin type, skin tone, skin needs.... give you a makeover and usually give you some free samples. You don’t have to buy the expensive stuff, just use their recommendations when you shop for m…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/19 01:30 PM
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Try Keto! You will lose weight FAST!! You can even eat Keto at McDonalds. Just ditch the ketchup and the bun. Meats... cheeses... super easy recipes online. You’ll always feel full and you’ll lose weight quicker than you can believe. My advice would be to not buy a bunch of clothes in a size you are unhappy with. You will feel obligated to stay that size. Best of luck!! Check out the r/Keto subreddit. There’s lots of before/after pics, stories, recipes, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/19 01:13 PM
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He seems like a good catch! He’s on his way up, and you never know what kind of financial endorsements/incentives/etc he will receive in the future. As you climb your way to the top of your own industry, he will be there to offer emotional support, and it sounds like the sex is great too.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 11:47 AM
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If I remember correctly (it’s been 7 years), it was around $3,000 USD. I really felt it was worth it, because the quality of men is top notch and they are serious about finding a wife. But, yeah, that is quite a lot to spend. Sorry I don’t have any other recommendations!! I do wish you the absolute best! 💋
/r/RedPillWives06/03/19 01:29 PM
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I met my husband through Its Just Lunch. It’s a professional matchmaker service. It was expensive, but they do all the work for you, and only connect you with men that meet your financial/personality/attractiveness desires. I just looked and it is available in Sydney too. Best wishes to you! 💕💜💜💕
/r/RedPillWives06/03/19 12:59 PM
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Don’t starve yourself. Just eat less carbs. A low carb way of eating, (keeping your carbs under 20 per day) will melt the fat right off. Honest question, based on your limited experience with men... are you coming across as needy and desperate? That is a huge turn off.
/r/RedPillWives01/03/19 11:11 AM
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You sound like a wonderful Wife! You’re definitely doing the right things. I’m sure you will get a lot of great ideas on here, so I just wanted to extend warm wishes to you and your Hubby. Many blessings to you both.
/r/RedPillWives24/02/19 04:18 AM
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This is great advice. I wholeheartedly believe it to be true, and it reminds me of this quote I read somewhere... What do men need more than money and sex? Appreciation and respect.
/r/RedPillWives22/01/19 07:05 PM
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Congratulations!!
/r/RedPillWives01/01/19 02:55 PM
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You can be anything you want to be. You don’t have to tell him you come from dysfunction. Like attracts like... Men who come from good families typically expect their partner will come from a good family too.
/r/RedPillWives25/12/18 12:38 AM
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Husbands are the best.
/r/RedPillWives30/11/18 01:51 AM
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So she is not allowed to talk to her friend about an issue, but you are allowed to share your mess —-with the whole internet?? Wow, buddy, quite sad indeed. I agree with the post above— you are insecure. Before you can fix your marriage, you need to fix yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/18 02:29 PM
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It’s for friends.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/18 03:49 AM
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Girl, you need some friends. Isolation is only going to make you sad and insecure. Get on Meetup.org and find some cool girls to hang with.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/18 03:35 AM
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Why are you even arguing with your Hubby? Just say “OK Honey” and be on your happy way. You don’t have to have arguments. Now if he’s abusive in any manner -leave, of course. Resorting to tears and crying to “soften him” is only going to backfire on you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/18 01:17 PM
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EXTENSIONS!! They are for white girls too! Have your stylist dye them the same color as your hair. You will have long, full, gorgeous SUPER FEMININE hair. Your current hair will blend in with the extensions. Nobody knows. The 2 types used most amongst my friends are the Tape In and the Clip In. Clip In type is easy to clip on in the morning and clip off before bed. Tape Ins stay about 6 weeks before you have to retape. Google “Before/After extensions” for pics to see how good they look. They are…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/18 03:59 AM
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