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a eternally-hostile man hater or a "princess" who objectifies her dates as walking wallets. So you put bad women down... a woman putting other women down But don't like a woman who shares the same view as you who puts the same bad women down... Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:45 AM
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First, you're probably doing something wrong. Being successful vs not is only a comparison against yourself. You were broke and you did average and now you're successful and you do worse? Error. This does not compute. This would mean either your not counting other factors and the whole big picture something else is going on OR women prefer broke men. We can use common sense and eliminate the idea women prefer broke men. We know that's not true. Did you get fat? Are you more stressed out? Do you …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:39 AM
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Women's standards are far too low.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:28 AM
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You're mixing up different men's complaints and pretending it's one man. Smh. This is why you're so confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:31 PM
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True just the ones that do almost always end up getting it. Not many 18 year old virgins who make marriage a priority end up never married with cat babys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:53 PM
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Also said better ones. All the girls I've dated have generally treated me really well. Not bitchy or rude or anything at all. Very sweet nice people. I can't say the same for most guys I know who are nice and their girlfriends are total bitches, even the nicest ones are crazy demanding and rude to them at least some of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:44 PM
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Guess I won't believe my lying eyes because a stranger online says so. I mean that's how i originally got dominant as I got older the more and more like that I got, the hotter and better quality women and more of them I got. All my nice simp friends get almost zero women and the ones they do are total shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:28 PM
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So why do all the most attractive women like them? Usually only loser women end up with simp men as last resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:03 PM
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That's from a man's perspective. And yes there's quite a few who are trying to get married right away... and with few exceptions they all get locked down ASAP. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:23 AM
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It will serve you less as you age. Virgin 18 year old... wife material. Virgin 30 year old, mega red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:12 AM
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Agree. If they aren't those things they don't want to be a wife or have a man commit to them. And that's fine. They should be happy with casual sex or bottom tier men making commitments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:11 AM
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I don't know why you mentioned it. Again. Your confusion is your problem. It makes zero context in the discussion. Generally I reply to the things people say. So that would be directly applicable. Why don't you just admit you used a big word you don't know the meaning of to sound smart? You think stoicism is a big word that makes you sound smart? Wtf. 🤣 anyone who went to college at minimum knows what that is. Clearly that's not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:22 AM
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Well if you read the part about stoicism then you would know why I mentioned stoicism. You either cannot read or you didn't read. I cannot help you with either problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:19 PM
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True but I mean I'm not here to look at some dudes jelly rolls. He can post up whatever he wants but I'm not going out of my way to askm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:10 PM
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It doesn't surprise me they are brokie losers. They literally tinder for $20s.
/r/seduction07/08/24 09:54 PM
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Right. Personally I don't want any advice from someone who isn't pro on some shit. So instead of people asking men who have good results, they just want feel good wind blown up their skirts by other dorky incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:51 PM
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Yeah i hate it. I've rage quit dating apps 2 or 3 times, like once I had 15 matches or something in a short period on tinder and half were only fans, a quarter were sex workers and the last few were like the "buy me a pizza tonight" girls. It's not so much that this happens but it's more my time is valuable to write 15 first messages only to figure out it's trash match not even a real person really dating. I'm on various other sites some of which I do really well on better than tinder but this t…
/r/seduction07/08/24 09:48 PM
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Yeah. People are usually so off on their looks and their social skills it's hard to answer. Like if someone says they are a 9 but can't get any girls number I'll have to assume they likely come off as a creep and have zero social skills. Nothing else could really explain that. But is the dude really even a 9? Idk. Maybe he's a 6. Or maybe his face is a 9 but his body is chubby and he's short. Idk. I typically only go off the results people say. I'm 37 and I just banged a fucking 20 yo college gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:26 PM
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I mean some minor points of things that wouldn't work but seems ok otherwise I wish women cared about being attractive to men more and they really did think about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:01 AM
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They really prefer to be treated like children and objects. It makes them much happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:58 AM
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It used to be good pre simp OF takeover. Now it's useless trash. That being said i generally hookup with about 2 women a year off it, they message me based on my profile. I don't go around actively messaging anyone. But I'm also attractive and have lots of porn girls linking to me because I've worked with them in the past. But in terms of value for time, it's the worst, use anything else. Especially if you're just a normal dude.
/r/seduction06/08/24 07:43 PM
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Fuck girl one and get her into the idea. Go out and find girl two. Then bring up to her you already know the right girl. I've had tons of threesomes and 90% of the time this is how it goes down. Women are very bad at aggressively pursuing other women. That's why even though most women are bi or curious they hardly ever act on it because they wait for a girl to come at them... so if neither make a move nothing happens. And that is likely to happen to you if you plan on just relying on a girl to g…
/r/seduction06/08/24 01:42 PM
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I'm not 45 just yet but I'm no longer a fuck boy. Sooo that's my point. Less older men are jack asses where almost all young ones are jack asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:10 PM
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And you got married and the rest is history? Congrats. Well as an 18 year old I was a total fuck boy just like all the guys at school and college. So it's ridiculous to think women are best served by dating young men unless their goal is to get pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:05 PM
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Ignored my question. Did you get ran through by dumb ass young men? Yikes. Only an idiot thinks some 19 year old trying to lose his virginity is a good prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:52 PM
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True. I'm with that. But still they will be willing to pay to show themselves off. Hey if men want to change that whole paying for dinner shit they should make more money so women wine and dine them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:45 PM
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So all the 18 year Olds into you were all very mature respectful serious men? Lmfao. Surely that's not remotely possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:43 PM
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I have been in numerous 10+ year age gap relationships. I've never met anyone like that. Usually couples were very supportive. Only single old women and simp and incel kind of men whined and cried and got mad about it. That being said, many people who are being "protective" generally cannot verbalize a reason for it. Because it logically makes no sense. "How dare you mature man being a gentleman treat my young daughter well. She should be sleeping with pimple faced 20 year Olds who only want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:36 PM
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Agree. Women would rather pay for dinner with a rich man than to have a broke man pay half for dinner. Thats why I think the gold digger shit is silly. If you're rich, women will pay you to get your attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:26 PM
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Lmfao. He should have learned this the first time he saw a rap video. How's he not know until now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:25 PM
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Error error this is not right. If she's a slut I expect sex immediately. If she's not a slut I'd wait. Slut had a lot of shades to it but it's safe to say anyone under 25 with more than 3 bodies is not someone I'm going to "wait on".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:48 PM
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Only ugly old women and simp men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:13 PM
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Hooked up. But what's dated have to do with anything? If I meet a girl for a dinner and a fuck what's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:13 PM
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Reddit is not an example. I'm pretty much just talking about IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:12 PM
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She is the most liberal ive dated. She's more apathetic moderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:10 PM
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Don't you think there is "many" 18-25 men who "know it all" and think they have the answer to everything while they virtually have 0 life accomplishment? Yes but they aren't nearly as bad in my experience because everyone tells men basically "do it yourself". If a 20 year old woman steps out of line generally people just kind of roll their eyes or say good job but no. If a 20 year old man does this, usually they are berated and told to "fuck off loser, until you get your own then you can do it y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:37 PM
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I mean if you assume then why are we talking about it? Should I assume you're not a murderer? But then question you about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:29 PM
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Um what. How much talking do you think goes on grinding in a club... Silly response. I treat them in the context of their behavior. I don't owe anyone anything because they certainly don't owe me anything either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:54 PM
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Well they just resent they have to vote so as not to get overrun with feminists. Some don't vote. Some expect their man to tell them who to vote for. Some just vote against all feminist stuff because they are against it. My gf now is the most liberal girl I've ever been in a relationship with and she's anti voting because "little girls don't need to worry about boring lame stuff" or something to that effect. My most recent ex wanted to vote and she said "the man should tell the woman who to vote…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:51 PM
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Just plow on without a second thought. 50/50 it's a lie. Move on because you don't want to take a chance and/or only want women who actually want you and are straightforward not game players. (This is my general choice but not always) Those are really the only two good options imo
/r/seduction05/08/24 03:43 PM
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Lmfao yeah exactly. I mean if I date a club slut I treat her like a club slut. If I ever find a nice girl I treat her like a nice girl. I'm not here to change anyone, I'm here for the ride. 🏇
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:38 PM
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Your typical 18 to 25 year old woman has not accomplished anything at all on a general scale. Maybe they did well in school or a sport but they have zero life accomplishments. If they were in a room with 100 people 40+ they should be smart enough to stfu and listen because they likely know nothing in comparison. Yet many of these women are "confident" they have much to add and have no problem telling people they know the answer to everything, like they are so smart and powerful and amazing. Whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:35 PM
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Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:31 PM
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I read a few comments saying most people offline don't really care about adult age gap relationships This point i think is right in general but I do think quite a few old women and loser type men get butt hurt about this. > I don't see many men give a damn about a woman's n-count I mean i literally had a bunch of people over men and women and they were all dunking on this dude who has a girlfriend he calls wife material and says shes a rare good girl and everyone is pretty sure she's a total ho.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:30 PM
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I agree. As a man I'm confident because I've done things right over and over again. What have these women done? Nothing. It's fake confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:25 PM
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like in America during the 1800s where many men got drunk and routinely beat their wives... Even this is such a warped view already. There is no evidence to suggest that the majority did this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:22 PM
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Well that makes no sense. Why would lots of men date them when they are young and not when they are older? Clearly they can't be very ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:26 PM
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women have access to average and above males post "wall" So why do some women post wall claim they don't have access to men? Why do men also say they do not date these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:05 AM
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Various reasons. I find it strange this seems so weird because I know lots of women who hold this kind of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:03 AM
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It certainly wasn't a popular opinion back then. Even most women were against the vote back then. 🙃 Again, it wouldn't surprise me you haven't heard this. Women generally are not outspoken about view points that go against the popular narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:20 AM
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Yeah. I date around alot and one of my friends always talks about getting laid all the time but I've never seen him with one girl. He's known me through like 5 different girlfriends. It's kind of sad because when I'm single I tell him let's go pick up girls and he says no no no but he must be intimidated or something.
/r/seduction05/08/24 04:55 AM
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I've always found it irrelevant. I never had a bad experience about dating a woman who was less educated than myself due to education reasons. If anything I've found some educated women to be ultra annoying know it all types where I don't think that's common among uneducated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:51 AM
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Women don't usually go around promoting unpopular ideas. So that doesn't surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:46 AM
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I think women politically think women should vote but they actually personally think they shouldn't. Women don't really like to say things that go against common public narrative. But in private one on one they will be like "yeah probably it would be better if women didn't vote"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:43 AM
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It's not that no men want post wall women. It's that the men with options do not want post wall women. The invisible incel orbiter types are more of the kind post wall women have access to, and so if they maintain their same standards, no men who meet their standards want post wall women yet many men will gladly date post wall women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:30 PM
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I mean my mom and my gf both think women shouldn't vote at least to some degree. Most of my exgfs also agreed with that as well. So I mean I think it's hilarious when people say women won't want to date a man who thinks things like that... uhhh... has never been a problem for me. Imo most women believe in red pill ideas in private... yet there is an extreme shortage of red pill men and it's very good way to attract higher quality women is to be outspoken in this area. Women may say "women should…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:27 PM
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In general all women are like this. My experience is: planet earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:26 PM
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What laws give women power in a relationship? Women are the ones desperate for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:11 PM
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Yes in a way a small amount of this contributes but it's only one of many factors that contribute and this one is very minor because it assumes everyone dates their age. I'm 37 and I'll put in plenty effort and overlook things for a 21 year old. I don't put in any effort and I overlook nothing if she's closer to my age. That doesn't make me less horny in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:00 PM
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Wrong. You mean in dating. Once the relationship starts the man has more power at that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:57 PM
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Whole point is... why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:04 PM
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If it was though, and she was spending her day serving you She only cleans up for me? Just doesn't also clean up for herself? So like she wears dirty clothes because she's too busy doing my laundry to do her own? Very weird. Either way, this doesn't sound bad at all. You think its bad someone would do your laundry for you? Sounds like an A+ girlfriend to me as opposed to a lazy pos like you suggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:34 PM
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Why would she sit around all day? Do you consider cooking, cleaning and doing errands to be sitting around? Damn I should just be a house cleaning service so I can get paid to sit around... you know because they don't do anything... smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:25 AM
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I agree with you. And i think it's relatively easy to change these desires assuming its towards more attractive situations. Ie from fat to normal but not from normal to fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:23 AM
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But clearly you don't like that person as much as someone you would be happy to accommodate financially. That's the point. You're telling me if the ultimate perfect woman as you imagine her, fulfilled your wildest dreams... but she made little to no money or said she wants to be a stay at home... you would be like eh nah peace out bye Felicia? Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:01 PM
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Sure. If you're not willing... how much do you even like her anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:43 PM
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All men with stay at home wives are paying for them. When's the last time you paid alot of money for something you didn't want or need? And were you happy about it? Lol. Seems common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:42 PM
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True. And only a man who really really really wants her is going to pay her bills for her. When any Joe blow will "split" the bills with a doctor. Meaning he can kick back and be financially rewarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:43 PM
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I can't help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:14 PM
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Yeah i know. Rich guys are known for dating the ugliest overweight women. Lmfao. Denying reality doesn't change reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:09 PM
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Except the men women find the most attractive make more money than they do. And the women who are the most attractive to men usually make much less money than they do. So this is the way it has to go to have a relationship where both people have a very high desire for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:58 PM
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Yup. And most couples are not really that into each other. The man has to be paid to stick around. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:47 PM
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Someone is paying for a service either way. There is no alternative. Either the man wants this woman so much he's paying for her.... or the woman wants a relationship so bad she's paying for it to make up for not being desired much by the man. There is not really any other alternative common in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:36 PM
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Not all of us can grasp basic concepts. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:25 PM
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So do you treat things you pay for that you want and need better or worse than things that you need to be paid for as in incentive for having them? 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:22 PM
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I wondered how far the point had to be jammed into you before you felt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:18 PM
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Pay for something you don't want or need. How often do you do that? 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:56 PM
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It's cheaper to hire a maid fyi and they usually do a better job than the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:23 PM
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They are willing to pay alot of money for her. All the other men are on here arguing and complaining about getting her to split a bill... that's how little they are willing to go out of their way for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:04 PM
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Will they? Or I don't think many men want a stay at home wife. These two ideas don't seem to make sense together. Why does it matter how many men may or may not want a stay at home wife? Men who do, are willing to pay for one. They are in general better quality men who care more. And yes many men want this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:36 AM
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It can. Some women don't work or are quick to drop their work for a man. This is ideal for finding a man who values you enough to take care of her. When women pay their own way, men who don't care much will be the ones trying to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:57 AM
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It makes more sense for women to not work. They will get better quality men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:54 AM
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Right. Good luck telling women to try and do anything different when it comes to dating... youre talking to a wall. Not that I agree with you even but women do what women do, even when it clearly goes against their long term interests. They behave in very short term ways. And that's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:53 AM
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You cared enough to comment twice now. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:53 AM
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You cared enough to comment. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:14 AM
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Maybe look into some of the poly groups on here and ask your question and you will get better responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:33 PM
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Again. You should ask women these questions. I told you every possible thing I could tell you about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:31 PM
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Again. You would need to ask them. Why would I know what they find attractive about me? I can only guess because I'm hot, wealthy, socially skilled, intelligent, good fuck w a big dick... just my guess, I hear these are things many women like. But again I'm not a mind reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:23 PM
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you can’t separate 8bn people into two neat little categories! Challenge accepted: Men and women. Mic drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:21 PM
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I mean i agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:20 PM
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I wonder, do people really ask how many people you've slept with? I mean i wonder, do any people not? Seems a mandatory conversation to have any kind of relationship at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:19 PM
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What's that have to do with body count? And why do ultra hot wealthy desirable men get the best women and the most women? Negates your point. No woman who wants exclusivity looks to Leonardo di caprio yet he dates women most men couldn't ever have a shot with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:17 PM
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Women want the exact same thing someone who could be a fuckboi but doesnt have a super high body count I see no evidence of this. Most virgins give it up to fuck boys so if you want a virgin, slamming though many women is the most likely way to achieve it. That's my 2 cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:47 PM
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Just as men are jizz makers, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:42 PM
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So go date a single mom. You have my full support and approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:34 PM
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I have zero desire to give up any degree of autonomy As a man i agree. I have multiple fuck zone women and a gf who treats me well and is ok with that... I have zero desire or incentive to make any serious commitments or go out of my way for a woman. So I can understand your point. It's similar. Although to me, I'd do it for a seemingly perfect woman, but anything short of 99% there is not going to sway me at all. And realistically I don't expect to ever meet a woman that good so 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:27 PM
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And you have your revenge... Conversation misses the point. There is no revenge about it. So basically whole thing is just blithering on about nothing. It's simple value equation. Hot young childless (and sometimes innocent) women are the most valuable desired women. If I work real hard to have my choice, I'm always going to choose that type. It's just being practical. If a woman was told by a genie she could have any man in the world would she wish for a fat ugly small dick broke man? Probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:22 PM
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Didnt misinterpret. Desperately trying for a gotcha and failing miserably. Have yet to get a response that they want to f their own mom. Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:25 PM
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Only to the man whose kids it is. Otherwise less. I don't "need" a woman to parent someone else's kids. I "need" a woman to parent my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:24 PM
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or alive Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:23 PM
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Not the same question. She has zero dating value. She has value as my freaking mom durrrr Are you romantically interested in your mom? You find her someone you would like to be in a relationship with?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:28 PM
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I've only dated i suppose "pick me" girls. I pump and dump the rest. Like I'm going to share a home with someone who isn't easy to deal with and takes care of me. Lmfao I don't hate myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:27 PM
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Ofc. I don't want to date her though. Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:25 PM
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So you date a fat 60 year old woman. You have my full support.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:21 PM
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There are tons of attractive women in the United States with great personalities 🤣 as someone who dates these women... they are few and far in-between and still very lacking. Ie where are the virgins? to manipulate a woman in a poor socioeconomic situation Any man who isn't a loser is successful. The average woman is broke. Therefore it's most likely these successful men who work on themselves like you suggest are manipulating women in a poor situation even if they stay in their country. The hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:53 AM
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When she no longer can inspire penises to become erect and is not needed as a mother to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:46 AM
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Yeah exactly. If you want kids with a hot woman just try and raw dog one at a party or club. Tbh this is the best way to do it. To actually date one is a joke, they aren't necessarily terrible people but they generally have so many options they think everything just works out because they are pretty. As an attractive man I feel this way often and can only imagine it x100. But this makes them terrible to date and form a relationship with usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:18 PM
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If I ask and she tells me then I know that at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:01 PM
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Again... missed the entire point of my last comment. You're just talking to yourself. None of this is a response to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:12 PM
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And I will reiterate once again, that you called the women who don’t marry the first man they date “failures” Are you not a native English speaker? Are you not a native English speaker? You seem to not understand anything that is not straight forward robotic style language. Are you AI? I believe that is against reddit rules if you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:40 PM
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I'm only willing to wait as long as the fastest she's ever had sex. If she made one man wait a week and one 6 months, I'm only waiting a week. Generally 3 or less ill count as acceptable. After that, she's probably no different than any other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:36 PM
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Slut. Expect what I want fast with no commitments or I'm moved on. And I did actually meet a woman like this before and immediately moved on. Both no sex and commit to a slut. The worst of both worlds. Yuck. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:34 PM
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This
/r/TheRedPill01/08/24 11:51 AM
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But many of the same men also don’t like it if they are not getting sex in the first few dates. If she's a virgin I'm happy to wait. I don't wait for sluts. I also associate this with BP since the BP men I know seem to have this issue, I don't know any RP men who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:45 AM
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There's nothing wrong with dating a girl with a hot body with tats and fake tits. You don't need to date chubby normal girls if you don't want to.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/24 11:42 AM
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men who disrespect the women they fuck So a good man would be very respectful to a prostitute? That's someone you would recommend a virgin dates who won't waste her time? Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:44 PM
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But just smiling when passing somebody by is creepy to me. Literally like everyone is doing this in general. I'm always thinking people who arent are weirdos. I'm also quite attractive but I mean lots of women, men, old people etc are smiling at me everywhere I go. I also smile at everyone I see in general unless I specifically do not want to catch their attention. There's all sorts of studies that say smiling people are rated more attractive trustworthy etc etc. By not smiling first and seeing …
/r/seduction31/07/24 05:39 PM
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I agree. But this ignores women's same problem... nobody is owed a relationship or marriage or anything like that. If women get pumped and dumped that's all they are entitled to, no man owes them to stick around or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:36 PM
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But why are you comfortable opening a woman but not smiling? Big mistake. People are way more interested in someone who smiles. It's like meeting people 101.
/r/seduction31/07/24 04:15 PM
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So how do you even talk to someone?
/r/seduction31/07/24 03:56 PM
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No. It's the reverse. Making eye contact and smiling means she most likely is definitely ok with you saying hello to her. It's a crap shoot if she doesn't look at you or looks but doesn't smile.
/r/seduction31/07/24 03:33 PM
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You should make eye contact and if they smile and keep it then say hello. There is no need to come on strong, plus your success rate will skyrocket if you only approach women who smile and make eye contact at you.
/r/seduction31/07/24 02:18 PM
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Id think this hypothetical man either is upset and wants divorce or he already knows and it's an arrangement albeit kind of a weird one if she's so upset by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:14 PM
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when you immediately also say any woman who does is a failure. I didn't say this? You seem confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:59 PM
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Idk. How does one even get that far in a relationship with someone who feels this way? Why marry? Plus what's the ages? 60 and 20? 70 and 30? 80 and 40? I mean idk I'm hot so I could be an old fossil but why would I be ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:59 PM
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I'm 37, and girls in their 30s are crazy desperate. You don't even need to go on a date with them. In fact I don't think I've gone on one date with a woman in that age bracket. 30+ and I'm banging through a ton of them. The younger girls on the flip aren't desperate however it's normal because they grew up in hookup culture so they are ready to have sex immediately basically that's just how you get to know someone. That's my experience anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:51 PM
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I just know for a fact that with most of the girls I've met sex is off the table before we're dating "seriously". In my experience women are very rarely looking for casual sex. Have you tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:29 AM
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Why would you have to pretend? Why does everyone assume casual sex is lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:20 AM
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Look at that, you’ve gotten with a few low n women in relationships that didn’t last. So you married the first man you dated? Or are you a failure?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:10 AM
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Um well just casual sex. I'm not dating them silly. My last serious girlfriend was a beauty queen 16 years younger than myself where I was only her third sexually. Ofc I'm not dating prostitutes and porn stars duh. I just fuck them for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:01 PM
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What if I have sex with prostitutes for free? I've had sex with numerous sex workers and never paid because I don't pay. They fuck me for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:34 PM
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How are you going to tell me what I find special? 😂 Why dont you just talk to yourself if that's what your going to do. But I've never been in a serious relationship with a woman with more than 3 bodies. So my behavior backs up what I'm saying. I only don't give a shit about sluts because they are sluts so they don't matter. They are not my responsibility and they are only as good as a fuck hole basically. Im worth more than being committed to a fuck hole. Yuck. That's for loser men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:44 PM
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When you find a “nice girl” who doesn’t have sex quickly and kept herself chaste, you’ll be lying to her when you claim to view having sex with her as special. How so? That's the only time it's special.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:23 PM
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It's no more meaningful than taking a dump if she's easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:44 PM
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Wym? I would prefer to date a woman who doesn't have sex immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:30 PM
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Tell her the truth. However I don't find your example realistic. Why would I decide I don't want to date a hot girl without fucking her first? I'm generally open minded and prefer not to decide shit until post nut clarity. So I don't forsee a situation with a hot girl I hit it off with saying no way no how. I don't really care much though. Yeah it's dick move to lie, it's a stupid move to trust a man you just met and sleep with him. Basically she deserves what she gets. Why would it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:58 PM
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It boils down to mental issues. Other people have correctly said she has other options she's pursuing but I'm saying if that's true, reaching out to you and then "being busy" means she's a very confused woman and has no idea what she wants. So if I were you I'd move on and not look back. You worry too much about being a match on paper. I'm a successful man myself and I wouldn't date a lawyer in a million years. But you do you. But women like this are fucking nuts best to move on. Find a woman wh…
/r/seduction29/07/24 08:04 PM
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This is dumb and opposite, because it will make it sure he will never be interested in you. Yeah right I'm going to think about committing to a girl who doesn't cook clean be faithful to me or even fuck me good. 🤣 what a joke. Why would I be interested in her? I wouldnt. The thought process is close but leave it to women to do everything backwards. You should cook clean do those things and show off that you are ltr wife material, you should not have sex with anyone in order to motivate him to ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:52 PM
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Maybe if you read the post before responding you would know what it's about. But clearly you've read it and it hurt your little feelings boo hoo and now you will pretend English is too complex for you. Hey better to appear dumb than weak. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:38 AM
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It's a numbers game. When only women who were virgins were marriagable, there is likely more men total than marriagable women. Women are the prize. Today only a small amount of men are ones women consider acceptable. Therefore men are the prize. Especially if many women want the man in particular. Women have nothing to differentiate them from the next and are replaceable. Men who are of the kind most women want are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:29 PM
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Agree. I've never been into a girl who opened me. Either they are not in my league and shooting a shot or I just find it yes a compliment but off putting for someone I'd want a relationship with. But I always have the mindset of "why not". Never once turned into more than a one night stand or bar bathroom quickie. I highly suggest to women I know and care about to never under any circumstances approach a man. If they like a man, make eye contact and smile. After that, if he wanted to he would is…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:03 PM
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It's funny because all these broke 20 year Olds are worried about gold diggers... the men with actual money don't give a fuck. I mean say I was some typical makes $35k a year guy and got in a terrible accident and was disfigured and was paid out 10 million dollars. I had the choice to date a woman at my attractive level, so big gnarled wart nose and she weight 300lbs. But she just loved my company. OR i could date a 10/10 girl as long as I provided her a nice lifestyle... um 😅 true love isnt tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:39 PM
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So why isn't everyone a shitty lawyer or a project manager at linked in? I guess people who don't make money are really dumb if they could just be a PM.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:51 AM
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my body and my looks are obviously a part of me Wouldn't your work ethic, intelligence, leadership, ambition... also all be part of you? Money just happens to be a measure of those things, albeit not totally accurate but it works in a pinch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:21 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:09 AM
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Misogynistic means too many things to know what you're saying. Do you have any examples of mainstream manosphere content?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:08 AM
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I don't think that many women even encounter any manosphere content. So what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:11 AM
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The reason girls have crazy standards and you have to compete with so many Chads... is because Chad's aren't quick to settle down. I can only speak for myself but every cute girl I'd already a whore. So I'm going to be out here fucking everyone forever most likely. If I ever found an actual girl who kept her legs closed I might settle down. Which would take me out of the competition. All the hot Chad guys should have done been married off and making families but since women as a whole are so low…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:10 AM
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I don't really see how it could.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:03 AM
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Wrong. Would make it way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:09 PM
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I'm not sure how to respond to this. Stoicism was mentioned above. You will have to read. I'm not your mommy here to read it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:53 PM
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Can't do anything about simps. I don't simp. I also talk shit about simps. That's all I can do. 🫤
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:39 PM
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The point is credentials are meaningless if you can see the answer with your own eyes. That is entirely the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:53 PM
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Agree. I'll take a girl out if she's HV. Otherwise coffee it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:34 PM
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That's the point. People with phds say women have penises. I can use my own common sense and declare... accurately they are wrong. Women do not have penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:30 PM
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I mean I tell women my intentions from the jump. Never has been an issue. I don't know of any man who lies about it. Tbh it's not necessary. Women these days just jump into bed without any reservations at all. To me that sound crazy any men are lying at all. Never did it Never seen it Never heard of it. But on the other hand. If you're fucking a dude on the first date before you even know someone, I have zero sympathy for you if you thought this was leading to anything... youre a certified moron…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:28 PM
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Not all RP "saw the same videos". I didn't even know I was RP until I joined this group and had to select a label.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:22 PM
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Lol oh jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:03 PM
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I don't mind once and awhile fielding your questions but you essentially stalking me on here making sure to respond to almost every comment I make on every topic is just annoying. It was nice. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:45 PM
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I mean you could be successful at imagining things and then imagining things how you want and then you are "very successful"... now that is a rabbit hole and surely people are not accepting this definition. You can imagine anything you want and you succeeded at nothing. 🤗 I think most people would accept this definition. The average person does not think a person who keeps getting fired from fast food jobs as successful... but ya know maybe he imagines that this is his life goal, to work at and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:43 PM
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That's many men's individual conclusions but it's not all men's. What does that even have to do with RP though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:38 PM
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“Believing your own eyes in the face of fake information” is not even a remotely faithful summary of the pill scene from the movie in any case. Writing more doesn't make you right. But thanks for providing an even more in depth summary. Although it's somewhat ruined by injecting your personal opinions into a summary which a good one would stick to factual representation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:28 PM
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Taking the red pill doesn’t make one more successful... How so? It's impossible to have actual success if all you do is make believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:25 PM
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Did above. It's not going along with the narrative and embracing the truth. If you saw the matrix you would know that, very simple concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:24 PM
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RP has fuck all with men getting their dicks wet. Did you see the movie? I'd suggest you watch it first before trying to understand what the actual concept of RP is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:14 PM
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The RP is the concept from the matrix. It is defined by the example of the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:04 PM
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A RP man might prefer it. It's still RP. It doesn't have to be. What's funny is how many independent men of their own volition come to the same conclusion. It's really not weird that, if you care about body count and fertility and looks... it's the only logical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:16 AM
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They also worship and fear the "sun monster" (climate change) and are obsessed with sacrificing babies. (Abortion) 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:36 AM
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RP has nothing to do with anything you said. Have you watched the matrix movie at all? RP is simply believing your own eyes in the face of fake information. The fact that many individual men hold their own view that women over 30 are "expired" is simply their own opinion. It is not a RP view.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:35 AM
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The majority of men who prefer women who lift or do body building are also men who lift and do body building. Those women are still most often smaller than the men who prefer their aesthetic. Similarly I’d say that most of the men who prefer bbw are also bbm themselves. But even still, the wider male population does not prefer body builder women nor bbw. Im not so sure about this. Hypergamy is not “more is better,” it’s “higher socioeconomic status is better.” To be ultra literal about it. (Whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:35 AM
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I don't entirely disagree. But it's nowhere near the level of women's preferences. Almost all women prefer taller men who make more money. This is a very direct statement with clear hierarchy that most women clearly and measurably fall into. Men wanting to date a woman smaller than them does not. One many men do not it's not nearly as monolithic. Secondly smaller is not a "This is better" feature. Thirdly, many men will ignore the preference anyways ie it's not important. Because of these facts …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:18 AM
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Not at all. Cite one quality which men in general prefer with a high degree women are better at or have more of? Examples would be how women prefer taller men who make more money than them. Delicateness, one I don't buy it because many men do like body builder type women and bbw... neither are delicate in any way shape or form. Two delicate is not a more is better. Quality. It's like saying brunettes are better than blondes or vice versa... how so? It's not apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:06 AM
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I believe men prefer varying aesthetics... Right. This is why men are not hypergamous. I believe men prefer varying aesthetics of curviness and muscularity... I mean personally I like rail thin types. Again men prefer varied aesthetics. They don’t prefer women to look “bulkier” than themselves. Right. So what's something men as a whole in general are looking to women to be better or have more of? I still didn't see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:49 AM
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Are men hypergamous because they prefer women who look more delicate than themselves? But do they? You will find numerous men who like muscular women as well as bbw women. It's appears to not be an example of this. Also "more delicate" is not necessarily a better thing. Where height is seen as universally better. Is being delicate universally better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:41 AM
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And I already said that women generally prefer men taller than themselves. OK and I don't get what else needs to be said? It's a perfect example. You keep trying to introduce other factors to just cloudy a simple straight forward example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:29 AM
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You listed multiple qualities all mixed and matched. Do women as a whole in general prefer men taller than them? Yes or no. No story time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:20 AM
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Men as a whole have little preference for height. Many men prefer short. Many men prefer tall. Most men would accept any height woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:28 AM
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But men don't actively prefer that. Some men do. Some men don't. It's hardly a general preference. Only women seek xyz more than them. What general and important male preferences are xyz more than me? I struggle to think of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:46 AM
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Women prefer men who earn more, yes. I'm not sure where we are missing the point. And what do you think hypergamy is? Is it not dating someone with higher socioeconomic status or more desirable qualities than oneself?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:34 AM
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The preference exists. Why would there even be a preference outside of similar height? Oh yeah because hypergamy. When one person looks at another they are looking at one person, not an average. If the average was way higher or way shorter is not relevant if women insist on "taller than them".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:26 AM
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So 25 year Olds with no kids have no preference on a man's income? You gave a very narrow example with a cop out Do women in general prefer men who earn more than them? Yes or no. Not story time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:23 AM
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"Hypergamy" isn't real, and even if it is, men are as hypergamous as women are. So what do you call women who want to date men taller than them, who earn more than them? Or do you disagree this is in general preferences women have? The redpill way of trying to convince women to "lower their standards or stay single forever" will never work. Not red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:29 AM
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Bye 👋 this was a weird angsty conversation, wish I could say it was enjoyable but it wasnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:11 AM
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Women are like that does not mean anything substantially different than all women are like that. WALT means the same thing as AWALT. Yet it still misses the point because it's not a term that was invented to be totally 100% accurate. It's a term to break someone who is in the middle of rationalizing illogical thinking. An emotional man is not going to accept you saying his girl isn't special. It's too much emotional burden for weaker men to take. Because it's how they rationalize non virgin wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:09 AM
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I mean- there's no discussion about... Murder ...in the comment thread I responded to. So since you believe in murder I'm not going to listen to your comments. 🙃 the logic is strong with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:09 PM
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There was no discussion about communication and consent. So you just assume. 🙃 You're so smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:46 PM
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You believe the majority of women want a dude to randomly stick it in their ass dry? Or slap and spit on them without discussing hard limits? The answer is no. I do believe the majority of women like those activities and other freaky non vanilla activities when they communicate and consent to them. If you don't know what communication and consent is I'm genuinely concerned for you and anyone you have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:34 PM
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Do you even read what you write? Smh. Clearly emotionally triggered or just trying to make some gotcha point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:30 PM
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literally doesn't understand porn sex Lmfao. What? Porn sex is somewhat scripted. So there's actually lots of communication and consent. A little common sense should make that obvious. Vanilla sex is when you just do typical things and little communication is provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:26 PM
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I mean essentially it's that it's common for the word "all" to not literally mean "100%" and a normal English speaking social adult knows this. Socially stunted confused or non English speakers don't. That's really the story. That's why I propose most of the people on here may be autistic since that's a common feature to not understand any nuance, sarcasm, conceptual kinds of literary ideas. If they don't understand "all men" and "all women" then it's not surprising they also struggle with datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:19 PM
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I mean only socially inept men argue about that with women. Normal men just sit back and know it's not about us even though the word "all" is used, because we are not bozos and know how to communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:13 PM
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Yes and no. The only difference between all men are rapists and all women will divorce you and take half your money... is that only a very small proportion of men are rapists. Where 50% of marriages end in divorce of which most are initiated by women. However in some contexts it does make sense to say all men are rapists... and sometimes this gets said... and only socially inept men get upset about it. 🤣 when clearly it's being used in a similar way as this is. Good example is "girl when I'm wal…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:43 PM
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There is a reason it's All though in this context. It's generally most applicable to things you cannot prove or know till after the fact. Ie if you marry a woman she will divorce you and take half your stuff. Yet one does not know if a specific woman will divorce you until she does. So the generalization is more so about to say all women. It's like schrodingers divorce. She will never divorce you, until she has then it's happened. So it is usually used in the most correct way to accommodate thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:26 PM
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majority of men in my country are short by American standards So normal size. 🙄 Like I know you're trying so desperately with that word "majority" I mean if it's not the majority it proves the truth of the generalization. Finding an exception proves the rule. It's strange how you don't seem to understand the concept of what a generalization is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:58 PM
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General majority. FYI women do the exact same thing and make the same argument. Do you also complain about when women do it? Only some loser socially inept man is going to assume "men suck" means the woman is saying he sucks. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:50 PM
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Also, lots of pretty women dating short fat men in my country... So a majority of the women you know date short fat broke men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:58 PM
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Never meet people who are that literal. Only on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:57 PM
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Well here's one. Any others?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:15 PM
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So all women you know date short fat broke men? 🤣 every single one? 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:13 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:12 PM
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Good shit test. Nobody buys it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:31 PM
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Most people are mostly average.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:30 PM
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AWALT does not mean 100%. That's such a hyper literal nonsense take. Does 90% of posters on reddit have autism? I'm seriously thinking this may be true. "I know one..." yeah, one? Why don't you know 20? If you know just one, that's called an exception. Exceptions prove rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:26 PM
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I was about to say almost the same thing. The preferences of the bottom 50% of women are irrelevant since nobody sets out with the goal to date that low.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:21 PM
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Very enlightening and thoughtful. Bless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:19 PM
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I want kids but you mistake not wanting to change diapers of an infant with not wanting to take care of kids. In general men are more suited to older children and women to younger. So you know I could say the same thing "do women even want kids when they stop teaching and disciplining teenagers who say f you? And just give in and say yes go sleep at your bf gfs house" it's primarily moms who stop raising kids once they get older so did they even want kids? Also most women are not ones I'd find s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:16 PM
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Simple reading would suffice. Try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:11 PM
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I've never met one who held both views ever in my life. I find it shocking you know so many.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:58 PM
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What's that have to do with women or men responding to anything? I'm talking about myself in that scenario. It's not some teachable moment for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:11 PM
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So what kind of woman does a man who hates working women and stay at home women want? A boyfriend? Lmao. Genuinely curious how you could not want either and not be gay. Nor have I ever heard the same man not like either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:10 PM
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OK and so the same man, said eww you're a girl boss and then when you stayed home the same man said wow another trashy gold digger? I find that hard to believe a single man said both things about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:55 PM
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Well I'd imagine it's in incel since it is to some degree a dichotomy. 99.9% of women will decide to work or stay at home. They essentially have to choose something. If a man had an issue with both, I'd imagine he's a delulu incel since no woman would be acceptable to him. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:28 PM
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Nothing I said was about women responding to or even being presented "suck it up buttercup" so I don't really see what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:27 PM
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What you're missing is there are two types of men. One prefer one. One prefer the other. The issue is that people often want to be the person the person they likely want despises. Ie most "girlboss" types want a traditional man. Issue is traditional men want SAHW types. More broke kind of men usually want a working women but working women usually want a man who out earns them. Other types of men do as well but broke men looooooveeeeee a working woman and are highly over represented in the ones t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:23 PM
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How is what I said not relevant to those under 40? But I'm assuming relevant to those over 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:01 PM
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Please keep conversation relevant. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:52 PM
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Collectivism regarding physical characteristics... yeah. I'll repeat it since you must not saw but I said I only identify with people who share my ideas and values. Short of that many men do not give a fuck about forming a collective of any kind regarding useless physical characteristics.... unless they are weak men then they are seeking help. Women love to form women groups, because even the best ones struggle to compete on the open marketplace, so most women buy into collectivism simply for be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:40 PM
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This because men do not at our core believe in collectivism based on physical aspects. So for example: For example, red pillers around here frequently cite men's mental health as a serious issue This isn't a RP view. This may be some individual RP view, it's not inherent to RP in any way. You have men who are killing it out here at life and are fine not "playing on a team" in any way. I'm personally this type. If some man cries and his gf dumps him I'm just going to remove myself from dealing wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:02 PM
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I have the idea that idgaf I'd rather be single and respect myself and I'm not going to serve an independent woman I'll only help at my discretion a woman who serves me and low and behold women will sign up for this. If they didn't though I'd just be single than jump through mental hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:02 PM
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You must not be attractive either physically or personality. I have little problem dating younger women. Ex was a 21 year old pro model and pageant queen. Sounds like it's a you problem and not a we problem. You do know women are dating men right? Some man somewhere is dating or hooking up with women... lol hilarious you think no men are at all. Ok buddy. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:58 AM
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It's true lol Women: we don't need men Men: ok we just going to ignore you Women: who going to carry this and help pay for this and take me on dates and and and... It's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:55 AM
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It's not pointless to the individual. YOU cannot FIX society. You can fix yourself though. That's why there is the saying, enjoy the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:42 AM
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Lmfao. Good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:19 AM
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I live off investments. I had live two live in girlfriends. Now I have one live in at my primary residence and a live in fwb at another residence. I also still actively date. Also it's not 0.001% of men that have a good income, in shape, good looking, social It really is. Maybe your standards for those attributes are low. I'm not counting $60k as good income fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:19 AM
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It's an either or. Sort of one or the other hypothetical. Why would I even want to date a dude? Since I'm a straight dude? Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:49 PM
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I mean I did ok as a blue pill and when I took on red pill ideas (not from anyone red pill just learned from experiences) and now I kill in dating for the most part. To me it's no doubt about it RP because RP is simply do what works. If BP did better then that would be RP. So it's also definitional the case as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:47 PM
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What's so great about lives in mama's basement type who plays video games all day and is fat and is an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:36 PM
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Well usually I'm pulling out out of her ass... after I stuffed it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:08 PM
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I mean I think it makes them uglier though. Or they could rely on more than just looks. Why don't they try being other things men find attractive besides just "hot"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:05 PM
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Agree. These are women who have to date total shit heads because those are the only attractive men they can get (meanwhile they don't even consider unattractive men). On the flip, men who don't work on literally anything and are total bums, fat, don't shower, basement dwellers etc... they bitch and moan because nobody wants them. Rightfully so. If I was a girl I'd rather date an attractive guy who treated me like shit than a "nice guy" ogre.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:05 PM
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Most were young. Didn't need anything. The ones that were older had nice skin. Like above average because they didn't have the amount of stretch marks or cellulite one would expect for their age body etc. But then add daily moisturizer and spf and boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:02 PM
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They were very minimal because most were not models or anything until after we had been dating. Once they didn't need a job and I have some connections in the industry (assuming someone has talent looks and hard work) I was able to give them a shot and they ran with it. But nobody can see facial moisturizer so i don't see it having anything to do with putting on a fake face to show off. It's literally just keeping healthy skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:55 PM
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I don't count skin care or tweezers in the same ballpark as makeup. It's entirely different. And no they didn't use 20 different things because i paid for all their stuff so I had an idea of what they were buying and how much it cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:38 PM
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Yes except for the fact that there are hardly any older HVM. I can speak from experience that there is like 20+ young beautiful women for every me. I tell girls to fuck off left and right, similar to how young hot girls tell men to fuck off, and I'm never short of attention from women. Even OLD is like this for the most part. I get regular decent tinder matches and such from much younger women. One messaged me saying she's independent and I just stopped talking to her immediately because there's…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:30 PM
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Normal hygiene stuff. SPF... yeah that really makes a woman showing off to wear... spf. What are you even asking about? Even dudes wear spf. Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:21 PM
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They mostly just used tweezers and a facial moisturizer. General health and cleanliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:05 PM
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What is a terper anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:54 PM
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Yup. That's what stoicism is. We have another highly educated woman in the midst. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:49 PM
2

Huh? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:28 PM
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I prefer this style too because I don't view people in an emotional state as being able to contribute to fact based or intellectual conversations. So it's a great way to identify useless contributors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:58 PM
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Has nothing to do with testosterone. Has to do with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:35 PM
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See OP. They do it all to one up other women. I've never been in a serious relationship with a woman who wore makeup on a regular basis. I've also mainly only dated models, pageant girls, music video girls... none of them wore makeup on a daily basis. They were all super attractive and had good self esteem and didn't give 2 fucks what other women thought about their looks. Clearly i have a type. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:34 PM
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That's correct. However every woman's trash... is just trash. You're still thinking about in the top 35% now. What about men in the bottom 50%? Essentially no women are choosing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:11 PM
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Why wouldn't I? All evidence points to this conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:08 PM
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Well that's fine. It's not typical though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:07 PM
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I mean my ex was a model and I could buy her a fancy dress or some $7 pos from Walmart and she would look amazing in both. Fashion is cool but it's largely pointless. Just be thin and wear a sundress. Game over.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:06 PM
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Point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:32 PM
1

Again. No idea what you're talking about. But feel free to continue commenting to yourself about whatever you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:45 PM
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Because all the women I date after I get to know them I tell them and they want to me to fuck them like that even more than I just normally do. Why wouldn't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:04 PM
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What are you even talking about? None of that has anything to do with RP. I think you're talking about mgtow maybe? That's something quite different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:03 PM
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I mean good try, that's not what red pill means at all. But whatever. Another uneducated woman making assertions about things she doesn't know like she's an expert. Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:52 PM
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Because essentially im as much of an actual expert as one could be in this area.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:51 PM
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Not sure where you get that. I don't think that follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:49 PM
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That's woman logic. Can you spot a porn actor walking down the street? No? Then that's not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:48 PM
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Well that's not typical. I believe you and I believe some small minority of women agree with you. Most dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:43 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:42 PM
1

You mean incels. Nobody gives a fuck about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:41 PM
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Women don't need incels. They need actual men who can do things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:39 PM
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No. I mean I could literally just say to my gf do this and she will do it. Nothing illegal. Yall just are blind order followers. That's why women almost none at all work in real areas of leadership or risk taking. They cannot stand doing anything themselves but tell them to verify applications and put them in a pile... sure all damn day they will do that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:37 PM
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Lmfao. I'm an ex adult actor. I've never been with one woman ever who wasn't into porn sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:34 PM
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I mean children live and breath too. I think they are comparable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:15 PM
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Yall do though. It's hilarious. It's funny how many women are trying to get me to like help fix this or pay for that or they are scared of this or whatever... when I treat yall like men yall just cry. It's hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:14 PM
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I mean you don't. Yall need men for basically everything. And bullshit like "this one woman once was independent" is nonsense. No man would even use a dumb argument like that. Which is my point. The things yall use for arguments are not arguments. Weak men just give in but I mean I don't accept that BS. But I mean I worked in an office once and every day at least one woman is crying. I'm like wtf. This is ridiculous. It's like child level bullshit. My gf knows how I am. If she's like in need of …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:24 PM
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Sometimes yes, ive pulled chicks off tinder before they came straight over and fucked. And it's also on a spectrum. If every dude hits it on date 3, you're a bozo if you will wait 6 months to hit it. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:15 PM
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They don't act like ones, so it would be dumb to just assume they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:12 PM
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I'm saying Tom dick and Harry went out on a Friday night and hit it. So why would I make all sorts of commitments... to hit it? By doing that I'd have to take a big self esteem hit and admit that I am not good enough where I need to do all this that and the other thing to get what Tom dick and Harry got for doing nothing. Totally disgusting. I wouldn't want to be with someone who expected me to behave as if I'm trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:10 PM
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It's fully practical to me. If she didn't provide me with something special... (ie everyone hit it, therefore it's not special) then why would I "pay" much of anything for it? It's called economics. If every Tom dick and Harry can hit it for nothing... why would I pay? That would be degrading. It's not degrading to fuck a slut, it's degrading to wife a slut and legally commit your finances to her and or to be monogamous with her. That's embarrassing as fuck to put in so much effort into getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:54 PM
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Well they aren't so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:49 PM
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Yeah but not all beta bux is abuse. Some men may not be the most attractive and then they make more money and they date a woman who is declining value a bit and they are able to do much better. Some women will find this man truly attractive and are not just in it for a paycheck and/or they will respect the tradeoff and be a good loyal gf or wife. This is just fine. If a man is ok with the situation and the woman is ok with the situation and it's not some abuse thint... good for them. It's just t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:44 AM
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There is nothing wrong with friendzone fuckzone or beta bucks. The issue with beta bucks is when it turns into financial abuse level shit. Ie divorce rape, theft, gambling/shopping away dudes money, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:31 AM
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One: I mean if I don't what to fuck you why am I even with you? Three: Just He'll no. Four: Not the end of the world because I'm not going to let her access my financial stuff in the first place. Five: A little annoying but I'll go for the ride and do all the dumb shit again. Two: Not even a bad thing. Really do not care at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:32 PM
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Never. I have a woman do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:12 PM
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This whole problem just goes away if you have a big boy job and just have a stay at home woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:41 PM
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I agree with a lot of this. And it's deep dive into psychology. Very nice. Where I disagree is the following issues: Women being dominant. I think there are issues with people being able to see a woman being dominant. Yes she could top but the man is often physically stronger so she only is dominant because he allows her. Same with the act of p in v. All variations are male penetrating female and penetration is dominant. So I'm not sure this could realistically translate. Also. Women make this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:44 PM
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"We" is made up. There is no "we". There is how men view women and how women view men. Men view women negatively in general and women don't seem to care much one way or the other... in terms of importance compared to other factors. This is why women's opinion is mostly silly because they would never make this a primary or even top 5 consideration in mate choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:40 PM
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OK so you think an average woman with a stick can defeat an average man with a stick? Smh too out there to even discuss. I'd have though everyone would simply know this... because I never met someone who didn't know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:26 PM
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What's wrong with you? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:21 PM
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I mean you're trying to comparing modern living to thousands of years of development. Are women suited to building houses made out of stone and cut down trees? Not particularly. Are women suited for combat in terms of protection from wild animals and other people? Not particularly. You are also mixing up about the "picky" sex because a man who already built himself a castle and who has formed a bond with a few men for protection was highly desired and thus could be picky yet he has no reason to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:13 PM
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This. The only thing you missed was that men cry like a baby after they cheat because... they are a man child. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:04 PM
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Your woman doesn't fuck you, you go buy her flowers and help with the dishes and shit. Nah. If my girl don't fuck me, she isn't my girl. Simple. Why would i bend over backwards for someone who won't even have sex with me? What's changed? You mean one sounds nicer tone and one sounds meaner tone? Please tell me you're not one of those smh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:24 AM
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Ever see most successful men ? They are all ugly and their bodies are breaking down. Most of them have to eat bad diets to maximize their glucose intake because glucose fuels their brain, Stopped reading after this... total incel never met real people kind of vibe. Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:34 AM
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Usually red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:27 PM
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If she's attractive? Who cares? It's not like I will even see her again or spend any time with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:12 PM
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Why is it crazy? Wouldn't most men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:48 PM
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I have high standards. That's why I wouldn't commit to any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:41 PM
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I mean I still would wait now... if she was a virgin. I'd love to settle down but playing the field is far superior than settling with someone who isn't on my level.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:40 PM
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18 and 22. I'm 37 now. But I've not met any beautiful virgins in a long time. I've met some ugly virgins and many women of ill repute since.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:11 PM
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I personally waited about a whole year to have sex with two different virgins. I just think you're trying to date men who don't share your values if they just want to jump into bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:00 PM
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So how would not wanting to do nice things for someone who doesn't do nice things for you be toxic? I mean personally I hate cuddling with someone if there isn't regular sex with them. Can't stand it. If my gf wasn't fucking me, I would refuse to cuddle or sleep with her. I'd also feel pathetic to buy her flowers or open her door or do anything to help her. Why should I act like a "simp/loser"? I never promised to act that way or anything so would it be toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:35 PM
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Nowadays if you are virgin that doesn’t help much. Most (like 99%) wouldn’t want to wait for you if „exclusive” sex is so cheap. You end up being an old cat lady. I’m a virgin by the way ;), that’s why I know what I’m saying. You also said you are quite ugly. That's a whole other thing. Frankly, as a woman you're competing against everyone else. The market is sex is cheap and therefore women need to be highly on point to get marriage from men who many women want to be with. Otherwise you need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:31 PM
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That's why they are supposed to wait for sex until marriage. If she did I would have married her. She didn't. Later on it doesn't make sense for a man to marry so much
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:37 PM
1

Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:03 PM
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I mean she dresses like a hobo so probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:23 PM
1

So you have the right to do something yet the right to do it is toxic? I personally wouldn't have any overlap in between a right and toxic. Toxic would be something you don't have a right to do, ie abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:12 PM
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I haven't had any issues other than hardly any women meet the criteria. When I do meet them or ones very close they usually seem to appreciate a man who shares their values and respects and believes in what they are doing... as opposed to men who just try and talk them out of it or whine and complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:10 PM
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All have serious issues and are undateable. I'd rather be single than permanently stuck with any of them. I would fuck any who were looking cute and happen to be in front of me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:08 PM
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It happens. For me slump busters are like a 6 but my type or a 7 and not my type. And I'm not genuinely embarrassed of her looks but more so how she acts. I'd rather fuck a cute weirdo than an ugly nice girl. One girl I know is like a 6 but she is ULTRA cute feminine looking in terms of her body and totally my type. I have hit it with her here and there over the years but I never go out with her in public because she dresses in like baggy boy clothes and looks grungy. She looks like a lesbian me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:05 PM
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How is it toxic while also agreeing with "Nobody has a "right" to someone else's time money effort attention body... "? I'm genuinely curious how that is even possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:59 PM
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Because the value proposition of marriage goes down with her. Here is an example from my life basically: when I was in high school with my hs sweetheart I was broke and scrawny, but I'm attractive and social so it was no problem to date but i felt like a somewhat normal dude. My gf over the years did some things that turned me off about her but nothing I broke up with her for. Then I start going to the gym, I learn about life and get more confident and capable, my income starts going up and ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:58 PM
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If you mean toxic as not a weak simp who let's a woman walk all over me, sure. Nobody has a "right" to someone else's time money effort attention body...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:42 PM
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No I'm saying no sex no chores. Why would a man care how some woman who doesn't even fuck him feels? She doesn't care how he feels so fair game. She wants to start it, now it's his turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:31 PM
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Well my gf doesn't work or pay any bills so yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:19 PM
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This is why you should be a man instead of a simp. Your woman doesn't fuck you, you go buy her flowers and help with the dishes and shit. Nah. If my girl don't fuck me, she isn't my girl. Simple. Why would i bend over backwards for someone who won't even have sex with me? 🤣 Never was a problem ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:13 PM
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Because it's a shit test. Women love to have sex with a confident capable man. They also even when not in the mood want to take care of a confident capable man. When you act like a wimp or a child they don't want to fuck you... but then it flips the whole thing over... why do men not have empathy towards the sexual needs of women? She needs you to be a man she can respect, not a crying child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:59 AM
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Yes. It's very important factor. And a good way to find out about who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:53 AM
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If that's true. No women should have this as a complaint. Yet why are women complaining about this? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:20 PM
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You are moving the goalposts. Your original claim was that men crying under any circumstances is “so fucking lame”. It's not moving the goal posts when I posted it prior to this, see prior comments. Maybe you should read people's arguments instead of put words in their mouths or create straw man's. It’s a natural response to upsetting and high-stress situations, and suppressing it in favour of “another way to handle emotions” does not yield positive outcomes... Crying is a natural and response t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:18 PM
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Citation needed that the differences between men and women... Either you've known men and women or you live in a cave. I don't need to cite literally every study that's ever been done that show men and women have different outcomes in almost every measurable thing there is. ...on the permissibility... Youre arguing against yourself here. I said it's not a moral argument I'm making. Nobody is permitting anything. Why? Is there anything moronic about assessing sexual compatibility beforehand? Beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:35 PM
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And how does a man not cry in highly upsetting situations? By repressive coping. How often do you think this even happens? I said above or if not here recently elsewhere that if I lost an arm or my immediate family died I'd likely cry. How often do these situations happen though? Lmfao. Also, again, where is the proof that all instances of not crying is repressive? Your prior proof in terms of that definition did not support the claim. There are many ways to handle emotions, crying is not the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:30 PM
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Men and women are different. You're also trying to make this a moral argument. I'm engaged in this conversation as a practical argument. If a woman doesn't want to get married go be a whore. I'm not going to say otherwise on this topic. But it's frankly moronic the women who engage in premarital sex with the goal of getting married. It's laughable and those women deserve being unmarried if that's how it shakes out for them. I don't want to be married so women wanting to marry me is irrelevant. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:56 PM
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Defined in your link as: a pattern of dealing with life characterized by downplaying problems or misfortunes and maintaining an artificially positive view. Nowhere does it mention crying. Firstly, you are citing consensual painful experiences. Most pain is non-consensual and is not conducive to mental health. Proof consent matters? I'll put forth that all pain can lead to emotional growth. I don't see any connection in the consent aspect. Genuinely lost as how it's relevant. I would say that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:49 PM
1

What contradiction is there? It perfectly fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:56 PM
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The suppression of crying on the basis of it being “weak” and/or “unmasculine” tends to amount to repressive coping. Proof? Crying also has a direct self-soothing effect and relieves physical and emotional pain.. People get tattoos, they also participate in physically painful and taxing things like marathons, why do you assume reducing pain is of utmost importance? You think that objective biological outcomes are less important than performance in an arbitrary capitalist economic system, social …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:53 PM
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Link is extremely vague summary. It links to other data which is not about crying but repressive coping. Not crying does not equal repressive coping. It could in some cases be but they are not the same thing, not even close. And even if there was a benefit to crying, it's a female centric model to only care about say health. Do men who cry make more money? Do they have more social respect? Do they have better access to women they want to date? Even the proof is not enough to prove anything even …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:01 PM
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Not sure what question you're talking about? I have yet to see proof it's emotionally damaging. I have seen proof in terms of my life that it's extremely fulfilling and useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:43 PM
1

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:00 PM
-1

Off topic. Ask a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:59 PM
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I think he's a total 🤡 most of his arguments make zero sense. They do for like wimpy beta types but not for any other kinds of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:10 PM
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This is pure nonsense. Yall women cannot help but justify premarital sex. You're all obsessed. Biggest reason men don't want to marry is yall have premarital sex. Smh. Women will always woman and justify being easy. Smh. There was a reason why women used to be property because it's literally the only way to not have as many hookers and whores and sluts. You all are incapable of anything that does not involve casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:06 PM
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I mean I'm 37 and I've hooked up with numerous women 10+ years younger and have had multiple long term relationships with women 10+ years younger. I think they are crazy, young women clearly like older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:58 AM
1

True. That just means the one cow is trying to date out of her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:55 AM
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Yup. That's why you can't be having sex before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:28 AM
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Relationship you're right. Marriage youre wrong. Women who don't wait for marriage are exactly why nobody gives a shit about marriage. I'm not buying the cow when the milk is free. This saying wasn't invented from nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:27 AM
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And that's what one needs to do. Otherwise quit complaining and just if it happens it happens. It's not mens responsibility to marry a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:25 AM
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Terrible book. Un read it. Pretend you never heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:37 AM
0

Annoying works but if you want to run around playing mommy to crying men go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:35 AM
0

Clearly not that many as less are getting married than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:33 AM
-6

I mean if she has sex though she's giving it away for free, so why buy the cow if the milk is free?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:19 AM
4

Oh yeah I got you. Yeah. True. Although I think many men are not trying to get married to anyone so ltr isn't because a woman isn't marriage material. It's just because maybe they are very rich and don't believe in modern laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:12 AM
1

I don't see how it's related but sure that is a concept that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:07 AM
5

Well I agree wife material and ltr are different things. But that's why a woman should know up front what it is the man wants with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:59 AM
4

I always fuck any girl I want to fuck. I'd never say no if I wanted to say yes. What's the point?
/r/seduction18/07/24 01:42 AM
0

Totally agree. I wish women would keep their legs closed but sadly this is extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:36 AM
-6

refusing to live together until marriage. You mean sleep together? Men don't buy the cow when the milk is free.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:34 AM
11

Terrible advice. They should bring it up immediately. Spending any time with men that are not the one will severely hurt their chances. She's going to date 3 ltrs and all will say ehh no thanks... then she leaves on to the next wasting yet more time. I've had women do this to me, I just tell them to move on. All the while getting older and racking up bodies. Yeah that sure won't help them. They need to be single and only put effort into men who talk marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:33 AM
5

My advice as a woman to Emilies here: Date to marry. Like bring it up on first meeting if need be. If he agrees, great. Boot him if he doesnt. Will it narrow down your dating pool? Yeah. Will it scare off a good number of guys? Absolutely. But this filtering needs to be done. Agree. That this is what one must do. And that it absolutely will narrow one's dating pool. That being said, many people do not marry these days, you would have to be a moron to assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:30 AM
1

How’s she supposed to feel anything if she’s dating a boring, flat, emotionless stone? What happened to the directive to make women feel excitement? I don't think these sentences mean what you think they mean. Simply read it carefully and they answer themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:08 PM
1

So I guess there are situations in which it makes sense when discussing the concepts. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:57 PM
2

So why have you identified yourself as blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:49 PM
3

Exactly. It only is useful when discussing the specific concept. Outside of that it's just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:26 PM
2

Not being in control of emotions is weak... but then if you're in control of your emotions why would you cry in front of your girlfriend? That's weird. I'm just in control of my emotions doesn't mean I don't have emotions. Just I don't really behave based off them. If I'm angry and want to punch a wall I won't punch a wall because I'm in control. Same with crying. There is no benefit to behaving off emotions. I've numerous times succeeded at things because I'm in control of my faculties. So yeah…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:25 PM
1

How will he approve if he doesn't know what I'm saying? I don't get it. This seems extremely complicated now that you're introducing mind reading to the scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:37 PM
2

The first, I really don't care. If she's that young, I have an instant problem with him. So how do you think that would fare if say a married couple of 3 years came in and she's 20 and he's 49 and yall either accidentally killed him and leave her a widdow or say he's a legit killer and he ended up seriously hurting or killing one of yall. Is that worth it? Who even is that even protecting? Personally I never get in unnecessary fights because I've done sport fighting and I know there are legit ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:36 PM
0

So which man here is giving me approval? Weird you think the other men in the thread are doing it when nobody has. Guess you have no idea what you're talking about. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:52 PM
5

You can call it whatever you like. I mean you deflected the question. Do you still have a problem if say a 19 year old girl went up to a silver fox and said "hey daddy, you know I like older men" and the interaction progressed from there? I can speak to personal experience that just as many young women go for older men as older men for younger women. What if they were already together and came as a couple? Just curious. Terrible in bed. Extremely possessive. Extremely jealous. Soul crushingly pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:49 PM
2

I haven't cried since I was 18. I'm 37. Nothing particularly bad has happened to me. That would warrant crying. If I got in an accident and lost a limb, sure. My immediate family died. Sure. I'm not really sure what other situation would make sense to cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:26 PM
0

Because I don't like whiny crying men? Do you like whiny crying men? I personally don't think I know anyone who does... even the men who are whiny and crying can't seem to find anyone who likes it. Maybe you should PM them all your contacts since yall such a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:19 PM
1

Denial of what though? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:16 PM
4

You support huge age-gap relationships with barely legal women, and we beat the fuck out of guys who even try. This is what I'd call white knighting. What if a young woman tried to hit on an older man? Or if she was really happy an older man was interested in her? Do you have a problem then? If she wasn't happy some dude was being inappropriate with her, why would it matter the ages? Either he's inappropriate or not. Like a 24 yo guy could slap a random girls ass but only if he's 50 it's a probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:15 PM
-1

Why should it be ok to cry though? I hate when men cry its so fucking lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:55 PM
0

Its not a paradox. It's testing men and men fail and women don't like it. Same thing TRP been saying forever. Women will ask you to cry and share and display more emotion. If you do it you fail. They know you're desperate to be weak. Fail. OP you're missing the point they say this as a test. Not because they want to hold you while you sob.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:47 PM
1

What's strikes you as so opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:43 PM
4

I mean short of some kind of analytical situation, or very specific bro bro situation, no alpha would ever call themselves alpha. I've never called myself alpha but numerous people have called me one, men and women. So just the fact he was throwing the term around for no damn reason when like 3 times earlier I seen him crying. I'm just like oh brother wtf. He definitely displays follower behavior and not any form of leadership so I mean idk what the fuck he's talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:42 PM
0

Plenty of girls who do those are who I date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:05 PM
4

It's an example exchange similar to one that happened. It was not anyone's gf, just a single girl in our friend group and the dude was a stranger. He hit on her and he got all white knight protective when the girl clearly did not want any "help". Not too overbearing but enough to get his way. And he turns to me and is like "we need to be men and protect women". As soon as he leaves to go hang out with his gf away from the group she starts talking all nasty about how she liked that guy. Later on …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:53 PM
17

My experience is opposite of what you suggest. The only perpetually single guys I know are ultra blue pill and that's why I attribute their singleness. One recently got a gf for the first time in many many years though, props. But he talks to women as if they are both strong and independent and completely helpless. That's a big blue pill standard thought process. "Don't talk to a lady like that, she's a lady deserving or respect how dare you hit on her and say sexual things" them 5 minutes later…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:33 PM
5

Mina by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:25 PM
0

I mean that's what I do. So some of us do exactly this. Would I tone back some things for a HVW? Sure. But when I say HVW I mean, virgin? Perfect 10? Much younger than me? OK I'll make some considerations. But I'm still the prize and I still could replace her faster than she could replace me. New Young women are entering the dating pool every day (every girl turning 18), attractive men of means are exiting the dating pool every day (marriage or death).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:21 PM
1

I usually just keep a list of sketches and then I'll only even go there when all my other opportunities are not available. They are like if I'm horny and I call down my list and they are all that's left. But I'll hit them all up at once since they are sketches so idgaf if I end up blowing them off for someone else.
/r/seduction17/07/24 12:39 PM
1

AKSHUALLY All I needed as a response. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:43 AM
1

Thats not how words work. You said you were 25 and that means you're a gen z, and gen z correlates with being sad and lonely and having far more mental issues than prior generations. So therefore since you said you're 25 and that correlates with these studies then you are sad and lonely and struggle with social interactions due to mental instabilities. Fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:29 AM
8

Economics is a study of human behavior. I'm saying this as someone with an economics degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:21 AM
1

which happens to be linked to What does this mean "linked to"? 🤣 Does that mean just make things up?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:19 AM
1

you made an argument for matriarchy and justified all of feminism better than anyone else could Don't even say the word patriarchy or feminism. Generally, the 35 year old men that I've met are a lot more reasonable and wise than I am, I don't know which retards you hang around that it takes them 35 years to reach the level of development of an english lit student or a random Taylor Swift fan, which coincidentally happens to be an accurate average of an 18 year old girl. I didn't say anything abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:25 AM
1

I grew up figuring these things out on my own. So it took awhile. I didn't learn from Tate but wow I wish someone was saying these things when I was growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:18 AM
6

I mean whether you steal say $200k from fraud or by gun, it's still criminal and the same criminal penalty for say writing a fake $200k check to defraud someone out of $200k or goods/services should apply. It's the exact same criminal element with the exception of that it defrauds someone where one could argue there is a relationship similiar to a fiduciary relationship where the woman abused someone using intimate manipulation and that a wife (or baby mama) has some duty to the man in such a si…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:03 PM
1

HVM is just someone that women want. Do all the men you know in real life that women seem to like, give women money and drugs? Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:01 PM
0

Jeez how much money did you send this guy? Lmfao Nah I totally agree with some of his stuff like... Life is a competition and people who sit on their fat asses and don't do shit deserve nothing but a shit life. That's how it is and that's how it should be. OR of course you will be depressed if you live a depressed life and it's in your power to not be depressed. As someone diagnosed with clinical depression I learned how to live an excellent life and lo and behold I have no further issues with d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:40 PM
1

Again I don't know enough about some of these business to comment. I only know about the first part and I told you my opinion. Tate does say many good things I agree with so i don't have any problems there either. You could be totally right about crypto and stuff, i wouldn't know. Nothing he's done compelled me to spend any money. But who am I to say it's good or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:33 PM
2

They may pick better ones in terms of someone they get along with but I can't imagine a scenario where they are also hotter and more successful. That just sounds ridiculous to me. I usually see them pick men more in line with themselves and it can work out better but it's always men who like gave up have little drive in life etc. Sure they are nicer but nobody else really wants them that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:30 PM
1

Idk enough about crypto or anything to comment on it. I do though know about cam girl kind of stuff in general and I think those men are shit and fuck em. And whether tate did what he did or not they would have chatted some girl somewhere anyways and paid money so what's the difference anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:24 PM
2

I also think there may be more to the story. Like one woman I know her new husband seems good from like an Instagram perspective but he's a total doormat and everyone makes fun of him constantly. So I mean he doesn't seem like an upgrade to me because I can't see why any woman would date someone like that but whatever. I'm just saying he may seem better but I still have a hard time believing if I met the guy would I also think it or would I be like wtf 😂 idk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:21 PM
2

I mean ok sounds good. You're literally the only person who says this and I believe it's happened. I don't believe it's typical though as I've never seen or heard of this happening before. But kudos to your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:58 PM
2

I don't offer anything except me. So I guess that's good enough. Having lots of options of women is definition of HVM. So I'm not sure what else is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:56 PM
1

Men who are using sex workers are POS imo so good. And I'm not familiar with any aspect of hustler u that had him paying any cut. I looked into it. Looked like it could be a decent place to learn some things for people who didn't already have any good opportunities there were onto. Never saw any pitch about it paying out. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:54 PM
1

Usually they are men they never would have accepted in the first place. Therefore their standards have gone down or why didn't they date them in the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:03 PM
2

The fact I have numerous dating options is the back up. That is by definition the answer. You're basically asking a marathon runner how do you know you're worthy of a gold medal in the race... how fast did you go how long did you train etc etc... the simple answer is.... they won the gold. Period. Nothing else actually matters. Whether you like the specifics of their performance is irrelevant, they won the gold they got the gold. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:00 PM
2

I see women say this, even the ones I'm talking about. I've never met someone that admitted they down graded. Often they will use nebulous reasons to say how better they are. Yes he's ugly and makes almost no money and nobody likes him but he's the best man I ever met. Ummm ok sure 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:57 PM
2

Maybe my attitude in the fact I believe women are independent people who can determine what they value for themselves. It's not for me to say what makes me so great, that's for the individual women to determine for themselves. Not sure why you chase me around on reddit asking me the same dumb question and getting the same answer but keep asking. How should I know why women want to spend time with me? That would be a question for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:40 PM
3

I never heard any compelling reason why a man would date you? Does that mean there is none?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:33 PM
3

Nobody is owed anything and it's my money to do with as I please until such time it's in someone else's bank account. Spending my hard earned money as I see fit is not cruel. Just because many are raised entitled is not anything I'm concerned about. Any kid or person I'd leave money to would feel the same way or I'd make sure to not leave them one cent, blood or not out of principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:30 PM
2

Well I think logically it's a diss. But I can see why someone would not even think it. But if some low of low thought I was on their level, it means they think I'm also low of low. So that's why I find that offensive. To me I'm used to girls being surprised I'm into them because they think I'm out of their league (which is its own unique problem). So when someone thinks I'd stoop so low they seem like they are delulu or trying to "neg" me or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:26 PM
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As I said, it's not about them shooting their shot or having an interest in me. What's offensive is when they try and justify how I should date them and say they are on my level or we are a good match. You shouldn't be offended if an ugly dude shot his shot but if he said you're both the same looks so you're a good match... now what do you think? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:30 AM
3

I can easily date and be in relationships with childless women. So why would I bother with a single mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:16 AM
2

Oh so you're not talking about normal guys who don't like single moms. You're talking about specifically like that. Yeah idk there is better things to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:06 AM
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Women raising their children annoy you? Women who get in my face and justify bad decisions who simultaneously are offensive saying I should date well below my league ie single moms... they annoy me. You guys aren’t better. I don't think the typical man makes a parody of a song about single moms. Ive never met one who did. I do think the typical single mom I meet gets in my face or does some kind of single mom bullshit because that's what I've seen over and over. We also know how to use condoms s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:37 AM
-3

The marriage part throws me off. But the rest sounds good. I've tried some elite and exclusive dating sites and the girls are way more attractive and higher quality in general... but they are still crazy low quality overall. I wish they had a tinder but no fat chick's, no single moms, and rude girls who just were assholes got banned easily (send me door dash and ill send you my phone number smh). I understand the ratio of men to women would be ridiculous but that's why you charge $2500 lmao. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:31 AM
0

They are bad. If they were good they would go out and talk to girls. Instead they hide at home and pay for sex services. So I really have nothing but shit to dump on them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:19 AM
2

I agree it's not a perfect metric. However it is an easy to calculate metric. So what it lacks in accuracy it makes up in ease of use. It is quite good though in some respects where it's both accurate and easy to calculate and has little weaknesses. One being with women, specifically in your example with a body count of 100. She is factually a slut. So it's a good metric to determine that. I can say that being in the high digits for a man can be he's fucking every ugly chick or hiring prostitute…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:04 AM
1

Yeah but those men are bad men. So idgaf really about them. They wanted to spend all their money instead of go out and talk to girls. They are losers. And they would hire some chat girl with or without tate being involved. Because the supply of chat girls is so great.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:46 AM
5

Because single moms are really fucking annoying. I've had women get in my face about not dating them over being a single mom. They also bring a lot of drama usually. Of the 5 I know for a long time.... 4 are lots of drama. I personally don't even socialize with them. At parties and stuff I just ignore them. Either they personally cause drama or in the case of one, her ex always shows up randomly and gets arrested and shit like that and it's been like 5 years since they broke up. Smh. So since so…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:43 AM
5

Why would anyone be jealous of a single mom? 🤣 The ones that do get married 99% get with lower value men. Ie uglier or broker or just weird incel types... I only know 5 single moms that are in my extended friend group and out of all of them only two have gotten married and both the husband's are total jokes, super low value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:33 AM
1

Was going to happen anyways. Whether he did it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:22 AM
4

Maybe depends. My assumption was more thinking about more typical situation. Could be different if something out of the ordinary happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:19 AM
7

This would probably change the estate and inheritance though. I agree. I wouldn't leave them anything or as much as biological children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:49 PM
0

Hoes preying on men are bad... but preying on hoes is good. It's like burglars are bad but kicking their ass when they break in your house is good. So Tate is strong willed and used them hoes... which is a reversal because hoes use men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:47 PM
0

I don't agree. To me my "pair bonding" was always based on logic. The objectively best girls I've ever dated who also treated me the best, I had lots of feelings for and ones that were not that great or didn't treat me great I had little or no feelings for. So to me it's simple. My BC is 300+
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:45 PM
1

Until you quote where I said that conversation over bye-bye
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:43 PM
3

Yes and no and depends. Yes. A big portion of men are definitely unavailable to them for serious commitment due specifically to their past. These men tend to be the ones with options... often meaning the more universally desirable men. No. Plenty of men will still marry them. Although they may not be their first choice. Depends because it's also how they conduct themselves and the specifics. I can tell you I've dated women who know how to be mature and respectful about their past but more often …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:15 PM
1

I mean you can also never 100% know people's motivations. They can tell you but it could be a lie or not the full truth. So I personally do not worry about it at all. I mean my gf likes to spend time with me so she must like my personality, she likes sex with me so she must like my body, she likes the lifestyle I provide for us so she must like my success... what else do i need to know? Clearly she likes many aspects of who I am. That all works for me. She also says as much along with other more…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:09 PM
1

Right exactly. And tbh I find it more opposite. Not every situation but if you self made your success... your behaviors and personality and hard work is 100% represented in the money. So to me if a woman didn't find my success attractive I'd be extremely turned off on her. I worked hard and I want someone who likes that. You know? Simply liking my genetics seems so surface level because yeah I'm attractive but short of keeping in shape I did nothing for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:51 AM
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Yeah I mean a lot of it is just they don't like the words. Doesn't even matter the content. Its just basic trolling. Which is the point because if trolling triggers you it means you're emotionally attached to nonsense and you automatically fail at dating and masculinity if you're constantly falling for this kind of shit. That's why I like it so much because I can't stand dudes whining and crying over silly words and when I ask specifically what they are talking about they cannot even articulate …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:34 AM
1

🤣 wtf kind of drugs does this shit you wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:43 PM
1

I mean quote where I said that. You're just making stuff up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:39 PM
1

Men and women are not the same. 🤣 silly. You got jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:36 PM
1

Well that's not what I think nor what I said so now I am playing a guessing game with a very confused person. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:34 PM
-1

genetic traits that one does not choose... So women who want a man who would be strong and protective are just as much hypocrites unless they are muscular themselves and going to the gym and learn how to throw a punch so they can make a man feel safe. Otherwise she needs to accept a wimpy man who would run from a burgaler instead of protect you... or she's a hypocrite.
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:33 PM
1

No, that's what you think... Quote me. I have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:08 PM
6

High body count men don't have to accept high body count women. Those are left to low body count men. If a man has a high body count that means he has lots of options. He can choose what he wants and men typically prefer lower body count women. Men with low body count tend to because they don't have lots of options and so they are the ones who likely will have to accept high body count women. This is not a "double standard" or hypocritical in any way... it's no different than if a woman wants to…
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:06 PM
10

Just say no. I'm a bit stingy with what I spend money on until I know a woman is highly interested and committed to me. Often fucking is a good indicator. I'm not going to pay to induce someone to fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:25 PM
1

Wym a dog? I've been called a dog for sleeping around so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:22 PM
0

Everyone is. Just most. My girlfriend is worthy of a relationship for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:16 PM
-2

Then why do I have a "trophy gf"? My girlfriends is much better than average in numerous ways. That's why I only pump and dump most girls because I can do way better than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:16 PM
2

I mean, in a way most men are paying women whether they like it or not. You're just mixing up two uses of the same word. If you mean paying with some kind of value one way or another... paying for dates or paying for flowers or paying half the rent... yes all men do or pay into a relationship. If you mean paying like actually pay $x dollars for xyz service, that is substantially different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:07 PM
-1

No I just have high standards. Most women don't come close to meeting them so they are just good for sex and nothing else. But I have always been in a relationship because I do find some awesome girls to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:46 PM
-1

Spot on. The average woman isn't worth more than for sex. So on average, most girls I fuck I'm just keeping as a hookup or fwb at best. They aren't suitable for anything else. You do somewhat miss out on the reason. Yes them being boring no charisma is one thing. But she can also be a 10 and really fun but maybe she fucked the whole town or already has kids... unfortunately for myself, and many men, she's still not going to be suitable for a relationship with things like that going on. So part o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:43 PM
40

This makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:54 PM
2

It’s like if a dude goes out to bang a prostitute, she’s attracted to you for your money initially. Well I don't think it's really a good comparison because you pay a prostitute. A rich man doesn't pay you to go out with him. He simply has money in his bank account. It makes the scenarios very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:44 PM
1

I agree in general but think one thing a little off. It's not that "genuine" attraction doesn't exist. It's that all attraction is genuine. You could have fake attraction and that would be like pretending to be attracted. But I get this alot because I'm well off and on many posts people say girls just like me for my money. But logically that would mean no rich man could ever date anyone who is "genuinely attracted" to them. So that seems silly to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:51 PM
1

I mean it's just men and women lowering standards lower and lower and lower. I'm personally not interested in that game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:00 AM
1

Is that what you think? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:59 AM
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The average woman is not worth a relationship let alone marriage. So what am I supposed to be interested in? Sex. That's all most women are good for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:37 AM
2

Right. That's not bad it's just more of a story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:13 AM
1

I truly believe it would be in her best interest. And divorce stats are relatively meaningless. The institution of marriage is a total shit show. I don't think it means anything important
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:11 AM
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Well no. Girls should not be a joke at 18. They are or at least should be and often are way more mature and need someone on their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:53 PM
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so why should men owe women any social, personal or relationship duties and obligations We don't. Frankly only very weak men think this. Idgaf about some girls princess fantasy. I'm not marrying any girl. I'm not cleaning the fucking house like a woman. I'm not going out with some club slut who thinks it's ok to wear a dress up to her parts and grind on men drunk when I'm not there. Just dump them. That's their problem if they can't get with my program. Tbh many women get it and are nice normal …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:00 PM
1

Well idk where you live and how you live. It's possible it's not very high pay. But glad he's doing well himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:35 PM
1

To whom? To themselves. As I said it's a self pursuit. Independence is not bringing something to the table in a relationship and contributes nothing. Just as if I have some hobby a girl I date doesn't like or value in any way. It's my sole pursuit and contributed nothing to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:20 PM
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Yes absolutely. I think people over estimate how "great" 18 year old boys are. They are a joke. I was 18. My friends were 18. Smh. I would never recommend a girl date an 18 or in general young man. They all suck. Even the best ones suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:19 PM
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I haven't had issues because it usually doesn't take women who make lower to average salary more than a short time before they also see themselves as working for free and then they are quick to change their situation to something more ideal. My current gf worked and actually made decent money but when I showed her she could live a lifestyle equal to about $150k by not working she was like... "why did I want to have a job anyways?" LOL. People I think are very obessesed about some salary dollar f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:53 PM
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He gets a lot of money in our joint bank account in a community property state. Is that worth anything? When that happens things are different. Then it depends on your incomes. Do you believe this is proportionate to how much more they make? Yes. If he makes minimum wage, you will have married a wife because he going to be in a maids outfit dusting the house. Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:28 PM
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Older men will alpha widow a woman and break her heart. Your forgetting the loser guys who dont have her heart to break in the first place. Ie the girls break up with their hs sweetie because he just wants to video game and smoke pot and is satisfied working some dead end job. You're not counting how often that happens with unproven younger men. It happens alot fyi. You just hear about alpha widows because it's more flashy... the story is about some poor girl being heart broken instead of a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:26 PM
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At some point though people are "wasting" their time... and their job should be viewed as a hobby and not counted. Your degree is a self interest activity. Does your husband get a degree too when you graduate? No? For example I earn quite a high income and work low hours. And so if I date any normal girl, some have had very demanding jobs but they make say $35k a year. Imo it brings nothing to the table so I can't help but view it as a self serving hobby. And thus I can't rationalize it that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:19 PM
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I agree. I just assume women with lots of makeup must be ugly asf to need to put so much on. All evidence suggests that's true. And girls I've dated have said they think that's true too. Thinking back... every single serious relationship I've had... all of them wore little to no makeup and were naturally attractive. Some had even been models, pageant winners, and similar kinds of things... they were like "fuck no I'm not wearing makeup in real life, that's for ugly girls" The hottest women I per…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:07 PM
2

If you think I'm literally saying be the king of a country you have more problems that are more serious than dating you should be focusing on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:59 PM
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I mean you title it 25... so you're just as guilty of this. Why not 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:47 PM
1

I shouldn't have to... This is exactly what I'm talking about. This is not a masculine line of thinking and it's very unattractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:35 PM
1

What do you mean? I think many do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:29 AM
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Karlie. 😍 wow. Don't even need to read the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:39 PM
1

I mean I'm not leaving a girl unless I made exceptions for her when we first got together. Ie too slutty but ok. Or if she goes downhill later ie too fat to fuck. So that's my 2 cents on realistically how it's going down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:57 PM
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Good post. Common interests is almost not even important. Having like one thing checks that box. We both like comedy movies... check. It's satisfies. I'm almost entirely concerned with sharing values and morals and lifestyle preferences and having good sexual compatibility and attraction. Literally nothing else matters. Idgaf what music a girl likes or any of that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:41 PM
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Looks matter. They aren't everything. Sorry I know this isn't popular but acting like a fucking man is the most important overall skill in dealing with women. Maybe in a night club it matters less but in terms of hookups relationships sex everything. It is number 1. An ugly ass king is powerful, capable, can protect and provide... he doesn't bow to anyone. You can whine and cry and say it's not fair because he has money... like it's some totally separate concept to attraction (it's not)... and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:35 PM
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Women want the vote (shit test men failed)... women respect men less. Women give men another chance in regards to next issue (shit test men failed) This goes on and on. Today men as a whole have failed these shit tests so much, men as a whole do not deserve respect. Women however are absolutely desperate for men who will take charge, say no, succeed despite their annoyances... Women who can't even find men like this are absolutely desperate for societal conquests and cultural oppression as evide…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:30 PM
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Well I'd hope it's more thought out than being a madly in love thing. Generally though it's helpful for planning to plan a lifelong commitment does indeed last for your life together. 🙃 This would be very helpful for financial purposes, no need for prenup etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:53 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:51 AM
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I like this and I think it would be popular for people to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:46 AM
1

Wouldn't that be solved when he's in jail? The post didn't make any sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:44 AM
1

There are multiple levels of quality. Average woman is worth basically zero. There are dateable decent girls, many men call these "high quality" but they are really average quality. These are girls who look appealing enough to date, slept with a normal amount of men, probably won't cheat on you, are nice to you... this is average, not high quality. I know men are out there getting treated like shit or getting no play and then stumble on a girl like this and wow she's awesome... meh she's actuall…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/24 07:41 AM
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I don't think you understand the words you're saying. So I'm going to leave it there. Look up analogy. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:19 AM
2

How is it rhetoric?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:15 AM
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I dont see how any of that applies. Do you know what those words mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:13 AM
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And have you read rule three? You seem a little "out there".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:10 AM
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Unless you were being rhetorical/satirical. I mean 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:05 AM
4

So why should a man be a stepfather? I don't need to run around claiming other people's kids to care about fatherless kids. Just like you don't need to bunk with a homeless to care about homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:02 AM
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Yes. It's really a 50/50 flip of the coin. Best prepare for this possibility from the beginning. It's just as common as cheating. And there is literally nothing anyone can do. It's not like you can even call the police but you just have to live with him. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:00 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:54 AM
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Wtf are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:53 AM
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Right. And they don't actually care about homeless unless they actually bring them home to live in their house with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:52 AM
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If Is much easier to solve fatherlessness than homelessness. Sure is. Its called a condom, or keep ya pants on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:41 AM
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Not at all. I'm saying you can find something a problem but not personally inconvenience yourself for it. It's nobody's job to clean up someone else's mess. Yeah single moms are on a whole a shit show in numerous ways. I didn't contribute to the problem though and I'm not going to help it either. Tbh fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:35 AM
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None are suitable for a serious long term monogamous relationship. Mary is awesome she's a virgin but average is just too low imo and low sex drive puts the nail in the coffin. Susan is acceptable for a fwb on rotation just because she would come when I call. Cute enough. Jessica isn't anything special but too unavailable for anything really. Stars align for a hookup once or twice a year is the most I'd entertain with her. May, chunky and is annoying with the money stuff. Love she's not into clu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:32 AM
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I know right? It's like all the people who complain about homeless too. Like they don't even share their house and their king size beds with them, king size is plenty of room to cuddle up with an unhoused person. All talk. They really don't care or they would make little Jimmy bunk with some homeless men. Let one live on their couch. If they won't clean up someone's mess at their own personal inconvenience, they don't care. Fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:25 AM
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Doesn't matter. All else equal it is impossible for a single mom to be better than if she's childless... yes ALL. Every time. 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:13 AM
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Dig them up... from your own research... in a day... yeah ok. I'm ready whenever you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:12 AM
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Nobody who reads this believes you have zero preference about something with huge ramifications. You honestly just sound whipped and making excuses and justifying just like single moms do. And that's exactly the main reasons single moms get so much hate. Smh. I would hate to do mental gymnastics like you're doing so for that reason alone I'd stay extra far from any single mom because frankly your behavior is very off putting. Like serious kill me before I'm afraid to say the sky is blue and cand…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:11 AM
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Yeah I'm still waiting for how you know most John's are violent men. Is that your experience as a hooker?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:26 PM
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Why would they be really privileged being a hooker? Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:22 PM
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Look you're the one not answering the questions. (Which you already did and now keep back tracking). In a situation... You're single. Your friend says... I know two cute girls... I don't know much about them, I want to set you up with one. I know one had a kid and is a single mom, the other is not. Do you choose the single mom because it's a plus or do you choose the childless woman because it's not a plus? Very simple. Only one is true... 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:58 PM
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Not really... Thats the key. Didn't ask about the ones she had. You're clearly emotionally attached to your family and aren't really willing to discuss them other than you love them, which is understandable. But you have to realize... I don't know them or love them or anything. So to me I feel comfortable making a blanket statement about single moms. Where you don't seem inclined to because any statement would be inherently about your wife. But we already agree. It's not a good surprise for a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:42 PM
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Nah tell me in advance. Do you wish she had 3 kids instead of two when you met her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:10 PM
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OK so a random response to my response. Single moms are always not as good as women without kids. That's a fact. Sounds like you agree then. 👍 Where did I ever say it was preferable? OK cool so it's not preferable... therefore it's not a "positive" in no way is it good if you go on a date and she's like "I have kids" that's not a good thing ever under any circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:46 PM
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Not only do they do it they justify just as bad as the single moms do. How is it better than having your own kid? It's not... but they will say it over and over how it's amazing and the best... but they never say how. Total simp behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:09 PM
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Says who? I trust and believe the numerous sex workers I intimately know. Over some stranger just saying so. Got a study that most John's are violent? I'm waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:08 PM
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So why did you even have your own? I'm glad you all are a family but if two was awesome... why didn't you ask her to get pregnant with another man for the rest? Youre telling me her having two kids from someone else and ig two with you... IS PREFERABLE to her having four kids with you and none with another man? I just cannot think of any reason that could possible be better or preferable. If so would you recommend men send their wives out to have other men's kids so they could enjoy this optimal…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:07 PM
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I'll have to disagree with you dude. I had nothing but positives come out of a single mother. I mean if you count other men's kids coming out of her as a positive then sure. 🤷 Not sure what the rest is even talking about tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:36 PM
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Johns are very likely to be abusive. Prostitutes are routinely hit, threatened and raped (even by very narrow definitions of rape) by clients. They are the opposite of "simps". They can see 10+ men a day. Each man is statistically not likely to be abusive... but adding that many together they are very likely to be abused regularly. Basic numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:29 PM
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This makes no sense to me. I'm coming from the angle of I've dated and been fwb with escorts before. Usually they say the typical John is more shy reserved polite beta type... the average sex is ultra vanilla and boring. So your idea about how wild it is would not apply to the majority of John's. Secondly, I can just say normal girls I've dated have been into many wild things. So plenty of men who do not use escorts are doing all the wild things you're talking about. So if anything in my experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:54 PM
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It's because people in general are live and let live... until someone rubs something in your face. I don't date single moms. I don't think much about it or talk about it. However, I've had more than one single mom tell me "single moms are actually better than women without other guys kids because..." it doesn't matter the reason but I've heard numerous justifications. Frankly it's laughable. There are no positives to dating a single mom. Everyone knows this. You just grind people's gears when yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:33 PM
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The point is to prevent people from rushing into a supermarriage without first having demonstrated their ability to maintain a regular marriage for some period of time. As in my drunk driving example. Seems pointless. If you can't super marry as an alternative it makes little sense to do it later. Why is rushing into super marriage a problem anyways? Why are you so sure it's something to even be concerned with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:09 AM
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Why not make them cut their toes off or become homeless together? I mean just seems like arbitrary nonsense since those things would probably show even more commitment than you suggested... so maybe super duper mega marriage? (I'm not married to the name... or super married to it either lol) SuperMarriage is created for a couple to demonstrate to society that they have a higher level of commitment to each other than regular marriage. That's it. Is this even a problem? I don't get it. The whole p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:47 AM
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But you have to marry first to get super married. Smh. That's why I say it defeats the purpose. Part of super marriage is possibly getting divorced attempting to fulfill the requirements. Drive drunk for 7 years and then after that with magic you can drive drunk and never crash or get a dui... it makes no sense. If you don't want to crash or get a dui you're not going to participate in the scheme at all from the jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:33 AM
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How is it a higher level of commitment if you get divorced? I don't get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:23 AM
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I think yes. Quite a few of the comments I get are frankly pure autism... or what I assume to be. I mean I like to joke kid wordplay sarcasm... and I'll say something like "yeah and she sucked my dick all night and all day" and I'll get a question like "how do you stay hard so long?" And I'll say "it's a joke kid haha". And they get mad and say I'm lying and stuff like that. Like wtf. It's not a lie, it's silly and any average person would know it's not literal. I don't think it's trolling becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:22 AM
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What is the problem it does solve?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:06 AM
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Yeah I mean to me it defeats the whole purpose. I don't believe in divorce nor do I think it's acceptable to risk my financial future on someone else's whims. So to me I like the idea of super marriage however to do it I'd have to risk divorce and my financial future anyways... so completely does nothing for someone from my perspective and is useless concept. Solves none of the problems marriage has since you have to get married first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:57 AM
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Anyone who wants a higher level of commitment wouldn't want to enter into a flawed ridiculous lower level of commitment. It's like if you're really committed to eating vanilla ice cream you will eat a snow cone first... but why? It's kinda similar but it's not even close to the same thing. Marriage and super marriage I suppose are kinda similar but they are no where near even close to the same. The thing I think makes super marriage attractive is the thing that makes regular marriage terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:48 AM
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That defeats the whole purpose imo. The whole problem with marriage is the divorce. So super marriage solves nothing if you have to be married regular first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:37 AM
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Why would you be regular married first? So she can divorce rape me before we get super married? Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:30 AM
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Basically men are criticized for any standards and any behavior so like you can be an incel... literally a diss, or a player and you're taking advantage of poor innocent women who go out looking for casual sex... I mean anything. That's both the good and bad thing about being a man. You should just do you and not give a fuck. It's a test. Men don't give a fuck about silly people's silly opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:40 AM
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We don't have many catholic or orthodox churches where I'm at. We have a few but not alot. I found the pentecostal churches to be quite serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:41 AM
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I'm flexible. I attended a medium size church and a mega church both weekly. I traveled going to New churches regularly and attended multiple Bible study groups. So many denominations. I didn't find lots of young single women in general. Many were super modern liberal, obese, covered in tats... so I just already counted them out. The singles that seemed to remain were not virgins. Most said they don't know any friends who actually wait and it's common in the church groups to have pre marital sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:12 AM
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Well I come off as a masculine mature man... not simply a hot guy. But I also meet lots of young women so I mean I do meet plenty of party girls too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:47 PM
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Most young women who date me say they specifically do not want to experience dating someone their age because they think boys their age are useless. They don't like video game bozo porn addict McDonald's eating immature kinds of men. They rather someone who talks about kids family living together doing things besides sitting around at a friends house experiencing the world. That's the stuff I'm into and so I find we are usually more on the same page. So you mean take away their experience of dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:39 PM
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simply saying it's part of the human experience It's not part of most people's experiences fyi. I'll leave that for others to deal with. I'm way on a whole other page. Sounds like you don't want anything serious... I do prefer serious connections and that's why I'm not dating down in the dumps. I can do better... so I do. You're the one who has constantly brought up looks and casual situations... talk about a vapid relationship... jeez. This is exactly why i generally avoid older women. Young wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:07 PM
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Why would we not be equals because we are different ages? And also why do I care either way? Seems irrelevant to even think about. And what's wrong with addictions... I mean I don't have any addictions so why would I date a junkie or alcoholic? Weird you're recommending that...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:03 PM
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Again... I've not been fooled so guess it's not as common as you think. And it's not really the primary reason. So even if a woman looked 20... so what? You mean you're not emotionally mature enough to handle what we've been through I mean it's just common sense. I can date a 20 year old and not have to deal with it or I could date a 35 year old and have to deal with it... deep durp... only a moron would choose to deal with issues when they could easily just not. Why don't you date ex cons and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:51 PM
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I mostly date 18 to 25. There is no confusing a 22 year old with a 42 year old... frankly that's joking right? There is no confusing a 22 year old with a 32 year old even. And I mean really you're again missing the whole point. Its not even about looks primarily. It's one part... because even if a woman is a super hot youthful 40 year old... if I want a long term relationship, it would have been more valuable to me to date her when she was 20... not right before she is about to start to show her…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:34 PM
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I mean I'm pretty good at knowing. I've never guessed very wrong before. So doesn't seem like it would happen. But I'd break up with someone who lied to me so 🤷 it's mostly an Instagram phenomenon where you can't tell someone's age. IRL it's not that difficult if you're up close.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:15 PM
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But the idea that a dude can't find a young vibing woman over 30 is downright ridiculous. Completely misses the point. Smh. Probably could find plenty of older women I hit it off with. I actually prefer younger women for numerous reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:59 PM
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I mean in a way it's true but also not quite how you put it. I generally want to start a relationship with someone young... but if prefer it to last rather than trade them in for someone else. However if it doesn't work out, again I prefer to start something with someone younger. The other thing is how serious is it? If a girl doesn't bring anything special to the table, I really don't think I have an obligation to commit to her in any way. So it also depends on that. Are you just some schlubby …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:55 PM
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Why would the exgf I dated dictate who I date going forward? Should she at least not date men who make more than him or are taller than him too? Lmfao how ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:49 PM
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Um but if what you say is true... I'd meet them but they would deny me. I'm telling you I never meet any.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:09 AM
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I always kill at house parties usually because everyone knows me and I'm well liked also easier to talk and get privacy. Always been amazing for me overall.
/r/seduction09/07/24 11:24 PM
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What does that matter? If a church has zero single marriagable women... what do I have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:20 PM
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Why would I be ashamed? I'd be ashamed of being with someone older... duh. Nobody is proud of getting with some old lady who slept around already. That's called settling. Wth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:19 PM
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That doesn't say what you think it says. 🙃 I like how you provide a partial quote and the entire quote. Why not read the entire quote? Methinks you don't know what human trafficking is. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:07 PM
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Quote me. I personally see zero relation to the topic. You're derailing the conversation with pointless... frankly disgusting criminal talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:41 PM
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Tell me you have an unhealthy obsession without telling me you have an unhealthy obsession. Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:29 PM
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I mean this is just out of touch or trolling. I spent my late 20s and early 30s going this route and that does not work... at all. Totally pointless. Small churches have usually zero marriagable women. And large churches almost exclusively have underage girls and fresh home from college girls. Neither are dateable. The fresh from college ones are not virgins or are very modern minded. Might as well date any young woman... they aren't any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:27 PM
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It's not a personal attack but genuine concern. You're on an unrelated topic, unrelated comment spouting off about human trafficking. Normal people don't do that. As evidenced by you being the only one doing it. Clearly you have hang ups about sexual abuse and I wish you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:56 PM
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Again... this situation stems from violently forcing women to engage in sex work. We're you molested as a child or something? You seem to think normal people are doing this stuff. I'd seek a professional if I was struggling with that issue because it's a pretty big one. I wish you luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:49 PM
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Locking down any women is not the problem. Simply finding a virgin is the problem. I never meet any and I meet lots of young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:42 PM
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He's not arrested for human trafficking for being with younger women. Smh. They run a porn business and he allegedly coerced them with physical violence to engage in sexual business. facepalm so uninformed...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:41 PM
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I think you posted on the wrong comment. The only fans business chats are elsewhere on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:58 PM
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I mean I'm 37 and primary date women around 18 to 25. Both for serious and casual. So for me that's where I get the idea from. Never had any issues or shortage or anything. Literally 99% of them were much younger. I only made a few exceptions and they were like perfect 10 older women basically and when i say older, basically my age. So it's not like I couldn't get an older woman either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:11 PM
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I mean I wouldn't. Living at home for a woman is not a bad thing or strange or even unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:24 AM
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Well I figured a famous one was a good example... better than "Joe" lol. but mixing it with good old fashioned male ego in rating themselves higher then they are. I mean objectively I'm 1% and I have a 6 pack. So those are two factual things to go off of. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:26 AM
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True. But it was quite common for successful men to still marry young women. See even John Jacob Astor 4th (the rich man on the titanic) he was 47 and his wife Madeline was 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:42 PM
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I mean statistically age gaps were more common in the past. So idk what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:09 PM
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If one man settles for a virgin... he therefore didn't settle with a hoe. The fact they divorce and she hoes around later doesn't mean the man didn't settle for a virgin... he settled down with a virgin.... that is unchanged. The daughter never married as a virgin... so in comparison the daughter made a man settle for less than mom did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:08 PM
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Ignoring because irrelevant. If she was a virgin until her wedding day it doesn't apply... clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:40 PM
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If you have less bodies than your mom when she was married and she was a virgin... 🙃 How can a woman have less bodies than her virgin mom on her wedding day but have more bodies than the past decades on her wedding day? Wtf are you on dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:38 PM
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You mean the data I posted that is from the same source of the data you're talking about? None of the stuff you posted is about hoeflation. It's related but not really about it. So I can see why you're confused. Who is a bigger ho? An ex escort who hasn't had sex in a year... or a girl who monkey branched 3 boyfriends and has been actively having sex? The data you're talking about does not take that into account therefore it's not suitable to hoeflation. It's suitable for other conversations. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:25 PM
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They might have less sex overall but they have more premarital bodies. I posted the data. This makes them more of a hoe. Thus hoeflation. An ex escort who hasn't had sex in 1 year is more of a hoe than a woman who had two boyfriends in the past year. And that's the flaw in the data you are referring to specifically when it comes to hoeflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:22 PM
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Usually they just think I'm hot. Everyone says I look about 25. But I have really good skin and am ripped and muscular. I don't let people know I'm wealthy until it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:19 PM
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I mean if I'm meeting and dating 18 19 20 year olds.... why wouldn't i?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:42 PM
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Idk if I said this to you or someone else... but I'll say it again. You're clearly not understanding the concept of hoeflation... try Google and when you figure it out feel free to come back and discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:41 PM
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Um. So most women are lawyers and doctors and engineers and such? Lmfao. You got jokes. Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:40 PM
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Prenups are too little too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:38 PM
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37 but i almost exclusively date 24 and under.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:33 PM
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Um it does... if in the past a decent amount of women waited till marriage and now almost none do... that is by definition hoeflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:32 PM
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Again. General data that does not directly speak to hoeflation. Data you posted speaks to 12 months prior. So would an ex prostitute who hasn't had sex in 12 months would count as not hoeflation according to your data. That's a joke. Ofc it's hoeflation. Same with an only fans virgin who posts pictures of herself masterbating... hoe... but also would count in the data you post. Your data is not directly relevant to the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:31 PM
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Like most average normal women she doesn't have such accreditation or anything. She can get the same kind of job she had before at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:25 PM
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Well I'd suggest if you're worried about alimony... the stay at home isn't the issue... it's the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:13 PM
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Because you're citing very general data that doesn't specifically matter to the topic. If women are having more bodies before marriage... that is specifically data about hoeflation. That's the information I've presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:12 PM
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All your down sides are about divorce and being a wimp. So if you don't marry and have a backbone it makes way more sense. My gf stays home and it's definitely the way to go. Tbh I wouldn't have it any other way. What purpose would I have for a working girlfriend? But I'm not marrying her so I don't have to worry about alimony or anything like that. I have a backbone so I don't do any house chores or anything. I'd laugh in her face if she even suggested it but she wouldn't because she knows I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:49 PM
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Data suggests otherwise. https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability#:~:text=Things%20looked%20very%20different%20at,less%20reliably%20than%20do%20women).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:36 PM
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That's not true at all. Nor does the data show that either. You're just making up things related to the data essentially. https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability#:~:text=Things%20looked%20very%20different%20at,less%20reliably%20than%20do%20women). This data perfectly shows hoeflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:35 PM
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I mean I'm 1% wealthy man and attractive yet I have a difficult time finding a virgin. So I'd say there is hoeflation... many men used to be able to find virgins to date easily for marriage. Here I am far exceeding what men in the past had to do yet women these days I meet are much more hoe than what my father and grandfather had to date. That is hoeflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:31 PM
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I mean that alone proves hoeflation. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:27 PM
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🤣 it's maybe maybe not because in certain ways it's true and in other ways it's not true. So more virigin women are available to date than ever before right? Why are almost no women waiting for marriage then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:53 AM
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Hoeflation does not mean there were no promiscuous women. Smh. You should Google the concept a bit before arguing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:37 AM
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Maybe. Maybe not. How many women save themselves for marriage these days? How many in the past? Do you think no women did that in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:36 AM
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Hoeflation is a comparison between two times. There is no such thing as hoeflation in one specific time. Smh. The recent past vs now... in comparison... there is alot of hoeflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:58 AM
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Ok and how is your points arguing against hoeflation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:51 AM
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"Could" ... most didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:43 AM
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How do you figure? I've stopped talking to girls who don't know how to flirt before. Like what kind of relationship is that to have? I couldn't nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:30 AM
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Hoeflation is real though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:28 AM
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I mean it's a learned skill for women too. You have no idea how many women don't know how to flirt. It's ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:41 AM
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No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:39 AM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:07 AM
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No. I want to have multiple women who are mine to have sex with at one time who don't sleep with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:41 AM
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Because then I don't get what I want? Seems obvious. Don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:38 AM
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I mean it hasn't changed much in the last 20 years so since I've learned how to do it how it is, then it's my arrangement to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:08 AM
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I wasn't not able to do anything. I'm saying if I have to make the first move and pay for dates and make my gf feel safe and all the things a man is expected to do... I can demand that I can also have sex with other women and she cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:34 PM
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To do whatever I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:17 PM
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I mean fairness is clearly not involved in romance. Why do men have responsibilities women don't? And you can say technically they aren't there but practically they are. Men have to ask women out, pay for dates, protect women etc... sure you don't have to but see how many dates you get waiting for a woman to pick you up. Lol. It's already not fair. That's just how it is. Why would I be worried about making it fair? I already went through all the hard part, now its my time to get what I want. All…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:36 PM
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What's "fair" got to do with it? The concept of "fair" has no place in romantic relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:23 PM
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TRP doesn't say anything of the sort. Some man said that to you and that's his opinion. Personally I'd share that. Rich men can definitely get hot women just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:45 AM
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Way ahead of himself if he was broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:25 AM
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This is copy and past from another commenter. What proof are you talking about? Yeah 55% outearn , as in make over 60% of the household income and more than half of those make all of the income. 29% make about the same. So 84% of marriages women went across or above. 16% went below and it only took 50 years for that number to jump from 5% to 16%. 6% of marriages have women as sole breadwinners 23% have men as sole breadwinners. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:55 PM
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That sounds more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:53 PM
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Good point. Even if she wanted someone more successful than her... she may not be able to find it. Statistically that is very rare anyways. So to her maybe she's just like fuck it I never meet many eligible billionaires so 🤷... idk how much she's worth but it's enough she's not meeting many more successful eligible men on the regular meet cute at a coffee shop or anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:29 PM
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How is one example proof of anything? One bot was posting on reddit. Therefore you are a bot account since you're posting on reddit. Fact. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:27 PM
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maybe that worked at some point. does not apply nearly as much in the zoomer generation. But muscles won't fix that imo. I date lots of 18 to 24 year olds... I'm 37. They mostly complain yall young men act like pussy boys and very feminine. They don't complain anything about yall not being "pretty in the face" or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:50 PM
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Women mostly care about how you make them feel. That's the ultimate secret. Everything else either gets your foot in the door or helps them start with automatically feeling a certain way. If you make a woman feel safe, loved, sexy, protected, confident... she will want you more than anyone else. Most dudes totally fail at this entirely. Sure she's more likely to feel safe by someone big and strong... unless he's a big scardy wimp. Just one example. But she might assume based on his physical appe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:52 PM
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Additional zero understanding about women. Smh. That's absolutely not true at all. I'd take a big sword slash on my face any day and it wouldn't hurt my dating life at all, 0%. In fact it would likely help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:40 PM
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Would have to see that stat... Men significantly out earn women. Are you suggesting women specifically seek low income men? That would be the level of dating strategy to make something like that true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:27 PM
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Statistically it might be generally different, but I have a different point of view. I can agree with that. I'm statistically ultra high earning and so the only point of view is from a high earning man. I can't really offer a view point of a more average earning man. That being said, I can recognize I'm an outlier and not pretend all men are wealthy. Also isnt it true more women are higher educated and will probably close the paygap or out earn men in the near future? In a class of job maybe, ie…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:09 PM
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I mean statistically men earn more than women. Women marry men 2 years older than them. Women have children and don't work or work minimally then. It's essentially impossible to even imagine an outlandish scenario in which most women date low earning men. It's simply not possible. No matter how many exceptions you personally know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:53 PM
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Two sisters is all the people you know? That's sad. Or sounds like a minority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:49 PM
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I mean it is. Both most people claim to have the opposite experience AND statistics show it to he opposite. So I don't see how it could not be an exception. Yall just like sugar baby boyfriends. Most women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:00 PM
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I mean it shouldn't boggle anyone's mind. She likes something about him, she's rich and attractive and well liked... so she can make literally any choice without fear of consequences... so she liked something about him and dated him... It wouldn't surprise me if part of the draw was stealing him from his wife... I think that's a thing she's into. You cannot fully explain a crazy rich famous hot girls decisions. It's literally full on delusion land and she has the power to surround herself with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:42 PM
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And yet "A 6'3 conventionally good looking guy who makes..." 250k "...a year is still..." vastly "...far more appealing." Your error is making every comparison possible except an apples to apples comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:37 PM
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Exceptions always exist. Again... the fact you can find a few examples proves this is not how it works for the majority. That makes it the rule. You. Are statistically not likely to find a super hot rich woman who will pay your bills. Someone has... someone will again... likely not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:07 PM
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The exception proves the rule. Give me examples of 10 of your mates who are broke and ugly dating doctors and lawyers who financially provide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:59 PM
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I doubt it's because "you are too successful"... it's due to literally everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:16 PM
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I see in some way sure but in another no. Because women who say this and are at their worst... can never be at their best later. Women's desirability in numerous factors always on on the decline. She can't go from her worst... say abuses drugs and gets gang banged by random men... to her best, now she's very desirable wife material. It's not possible. When a woman says you can't handle my worst then you don't deserve my best... it's a joke because it's all downhill from here basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:39 PM
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I mean I prefer to bang women that only bang me. So I'm not into sharing. But I'm into non monogamy like I'll have multiple fwbs and gfs but not if they are fucking other dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:30 AM
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All your points come down to the same thing. You don't even know what negging is. It's when a woman is rude and stuck up at a man "I'm better than you" type of rude behavior... just point out something... ideally objective that makes her possibly not qualify for your standards. It has nothing to do with anything else. I'm assuming that's why you're so upset about it thinking men just go talk to some nice sweet girl and they go "hey you're ugly" for no reason... and I agree that certainly doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:27 AM
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ideology focused on attracting women is gynocentric ideology focused on completely avoiding women isn't? They both use the word women in your definitions... so they both are about women. facepalm reddit is really going downhill... Think about this... So all straight men who fuck are gynocentric...? Count me in. 🤣 But logically that makes women who fuck patriarchal right? (or is it peniscentric? Ha)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:06 AM
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Idk that's my experience anyways. Maybe you're less fun or interested in dating? You're not comparing apples to apples. Do you do better as a doctor or as I guess it's a resident? Whatever it is when you're not a doctor yet but not in college? Money makes a man more appealing in numerous ways... but if you don't make use of it then 🤷 like you could be super wealthy and amazing in every other way... if you sit in a room playing video games all day no shit you won't get any results. Lol. BTW. A 22…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:01 AM
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You've fallen for women are wonderful thinking women are just perfect people. In my example you don't hold her to the same standards.... If a woman says "I'm the most beautiful woman in the world and way too beautiful for you. Do you find this sociopathic? Is this coming as a friend giving an honest opinion? The point of negging is teaching a polite man how to deal with a rude woman. If the man was not a polite sort of man from the beginning he would never need to learn this. I'm not sure how yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:55 AM
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So you're telling me when you're hanging out with many young women and have nothing to worry about except going to class and partying... that's better for dating than... sitting in an office with a bunch of men? facepalm You're a damn genius! 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:02 AM
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I mean yea. That's how I see it too. It's Biblical to be RP essentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:05 PM
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You're right, an insincere compliment can also be manipulative. Wrong. All behavior where you have a goal outcome is manipulative. negging relies on preying on her insecurity. Negging is more honest. If someone has a huge nose... they factually have a huge nose. You're conflating facts and honestly with manipulation. If a woman says "I'm the most beautiful woman in the world and way too beautiful for you. When she factually has a big nose and you say... well to be honest you have a big nose ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:39 PM
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So how is giving a compliment to try and get a woman to like you less manipulative than to say a negative to a woman to get her to like you? Are women just children and simple word tricks take away all their agency? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:54 PM
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Why would dread game or negging or assuming women behave like children be "misogyny"? Those things work. If they work they work. A fact, cannot be misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:11 PM
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This is just play fantasy. TRP has nothing to do with misogyny. I've personally never seen any of this? Do you have examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:00 PM
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You're mistaking an individual RP person youve spoke to and the concept of TRP. The concept doesn't suggest anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:58 PM
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Hookup. I don't get along with them but they make my pp hard. Relationship. I do get along with them and they make my pp hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:32 PM
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I mean essentially that's your first post is just gobbley gook when you claim things like being successful does not help with women. Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:25 PM
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Just people whining and not doing anything. Probably the most unattractive thing a man can do. So doesn't surprise me he can't get laid. My friend group this girl just started dating a guy like this and then she dumped him as soon as she realized all he does is "someday I'm going to be rich" "I'm going to start going to the gym" "I'm going going to do..." yet he makes no moves on anything and we all just laugh at him for being a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:18 PM
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TRP is black pill now. I mean it's not. Words have meanings. If you're not going to use them it's difficult to communicate. But this is actually what you want so you can straw man every point basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:14 PM
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Um all the pills are in regards to dating... so ALL straight man dating strategies revolve around women by definition. Even MGTOW is walking away from... what? 😁 women... everything straight men come up with that has to do with dating has to do with women. Not sure why you in your brilliance didn't realize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:07 PM
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You're asking why my comment in response to OP... is in response to OP. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:13 PM
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Going off OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:51 PM
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I mean rightfully so. I wouldn't respect a woman who would live with a man under a bridge. What a loser! That's a low value woman to accept that sort of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:05 PM
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every relationship is transactional. Oh if you look at it that way then yeah lots of idiots play stupid games and win stupid prizes. Ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:58 PM
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I mean do you buy things at the store you don't want? How could once accidentally engage in a transactional relationship? Don't you be like "I expect this this and this" from the jump? Personally, I'm like "I get sex when I want, you cook you clean, you make me look good socially, you dont cause drama, you dont get fat, all non negotiable things, here's what I'm going to do for you x y z..." boom. It's so much better and easier and way more conducive to romance imo. So I don't get how it's not w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:47 PM
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Depends on too many factors to say. Although a big one would be her contributing factors. If she got raped while out at a club in a tight dress with no panties underneath by herself... I doubt I'd have the same sympathy for her versus if it was a home invasion for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:53 PM
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I don't get it. It makes no logical sense. If you don't get anything from it, it's by definition not transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:49 PM
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Idk what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:20 PM
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I never heard of that. Why would someone be in a transactional relationship and get nothing from it? Wtf? That's not transactional if they get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:54 AM
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As much as dudes slut shame women, a lot prioritize hoe behavior, while putting the types the say are marriageable on the back burner for "if" they decide to settle down or get married. Hmm Men prioritize hot women. If you're ugly and otherwise marriage material... well the ugly part is why you're on the back burner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:46 AM
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Too many Mashup things going on here. When she does have sex with him, and/or indulges in his money he chose 2 spend on her, "she's a: whore, slut, 304, for recreational use only" "not wife material" and "she's a gold digger" "women only care about a man's money" Irrelevant to all other circumstances... if she fucks on the first date ever she's a slut. Period. Doesn't matter who pays what says this thinks that dresses like this.... she fucks she's a slut. It is essentially the definition of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:44 AM
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Clearly a very emotional man to get so offended when someone points out the logical flaw in your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:36 AM
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This is essentially an incel post. Your understanding of what women like is so incorrect you might as well just start hiring hookers right now. Things that men think women care about, but actually don't: Yes there are muscular rich men with prestigious positions who can't get a date lmfao 🤣 🤡 drugs are bad mmkay? Things that women actually care about: You list 4 things, two of which you can change. So why not just self improve that? Hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:34 AM
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Your whole post is excuses for why you haven't self improved. So you're not jacked... ok so? You don't go to the gym and eat right. Excuses? I'm at a peak where I'm not gonna look jacked unless I pump steroids... So you already have the physique of a competitive body builder? 🤔 and no girls like it? Wow. Your right, you must be absolutely hideous in the face, like lazy eye and pizza acne. Either you do not have that good of a physique and you're just whining, or you do have it and you're such a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:28 AM
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This is just some incel doomer nonsense. Mostly a misuse of the english language. Just because a relationship might be based on one thing does not logically follow it has none of another thing. It may be based on transactional things but why does that exclude love is involved as well? You didn't prove that in your post and it's not some obvious fact. Same in the reverse. You also assume it's so terrible but many people actually like arranged marriages and "transactional" relationships. I persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:20 AM
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Being traditional is already dead on arrival because women are not virgins... mic drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:35 PM
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Women don't date down financially. They will only date wealthy men. This won't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:32 PM
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I'm older than 30 but nah... not into 304s. I'd casually date them but not seriously or commit anything I couldn't get out of at any second for any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:11 PM
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I agree to a degree. Yeah why would I do something special for a cum rag? I wouldn't. On the flip... this isn't the only possibility... you completely neglect the choice to simply date a virgin or very low bc girl. Personally I believe any woman looking for marriage who isn't a virgin is a total joke because she's essentially a cum rag so why commit to her? I don't get it. But you say men like me are jumping mental hoops and that's why we don't like it... it's men like you who are grade A gold m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:10 PM
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Yes. I mean I practice unmarried polygyny. It's more and more popular. I don't see it so much women provide for the man. In a way I guess because modern women are "cheap" ie they come with some income assets etc. So they don't need to be fully taken care of financially but it's not some broke man with 5 wives... it's a rich man with 5 wives I think most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:07 PM
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TRP does not care about anything. It's essentially a framework of fact focus. You're really talking about other movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:05 PM
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I don't follow why he should limit himself to gold diggers. Why not just whoever he wants? I've personally had arrangements many times that I could step out... none were ever gold diggers. I mean I do make high income now but I didn't always. Still had arrangements. Women generally do not care who fucks their man as long as he comes home to them and makes them feel safe and loved and looks good socially etc. Those are much higher priorities. Also I think it makes most sense to match sex drive...…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:59 PM
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I'd argue they do have an obligation to fuck if they are married though... or why even pay her bills or anything? If I was married or in serious ltr and she wasn't fucking me I'd just cancel all my bill pays and not buy her jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:56 PM
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I agree. I always fuck around and never had any women complain. Like every girlfriend I ever had just accepts it and says "go do your thing I know what my place is in this relationship"... and if I was ever in a dead bedroom situation I'd just start fucking and dating other women. I don't pay attention to women who don't fuck me. They might as well move to Timbuktu idgaf. They aren't fucking me they are no concern of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:07 PM
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" bitter, miserable, angry doomers who stay single and alone and eventually even self-delete." Definition of black pill. You're arguing against something other than TRP. "Bottom-tier women's behaviors (sleeping around, one night stands, instant monkey branching, no pair bonding skills, ranting on twitter about how they want all men dead, rapant cheating, high body counts, being obsessed with money or status), are the way most women behave." Most women do at least one of these things. Not sure yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:04 PM
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I agree in a practical sense, meaning the overall quality of women in general is in the dumps. Any man should just assume he's wading through shit from the jump. The average woman is woefully pathetic. That's the facts of the matter. Just means an individual man needs to be more competitive than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:56 PM
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Good post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:25 AM
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I agree in general. But it's not entirely biological selection for mating. It's also just biological survival pressures. Ie men want to follow a capable man. They are more likely to survive if they follow someone capable. So men naturally want a hierarchy even without any mating pressures.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:24 PM
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No. I'm 9 years old. 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:03 PM
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Yeah I don't understand how it's fantasy if it's reality. Like I mostly date girls 10+ years younger than me... where is the fantasy aspect of it all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:39 PM
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Forget about fair. You either win or lose. There is no such thing as not playing the game. And you make it like men don't have the upper hand. Yeah I do a lot of things women find it hot and they put in less effort... yet I get to discard them at any time and get a new one as desired. They don't because they get old and decrepit. I am muscular and rich, I could be Hugh Hefner or Dan Bilzerian or whoever. Women do not get that option. Men and women play different games. Their game is easy but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:12 PM
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Why is it not conversation or shared interests? I usually get along well with women I date and usually we do have the same interests. Not sure what marriage has to do with it. I do not have a goal of being married. In fact I specifically do not want to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:43 PM
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As I said before it applies to both men and women. Nobody wants to be alone. It's just a ridiculous idea. Again acceptance is not happiness. Acceptance and happiness with you making dumb decisions is just delusional crap. You can weigh 400 lbs and say you accept it and are happy. That's bull shit. And yeah if someone was really successful and they fuck up, the can Acceptance it all they want and they can find happiness in other things but they cannot find happiness in their failure. That's just …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:05 PM
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I consider the perspectives of women who say they don't want to be alone. I don't consider made up nonsense because nobody wants to be alone. Like I said if someone really wanted to be alone they wouldn't be up in my face... they would be alone. Yet they are up in my face, therefore they are lying. If they think they aren't it's just delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:42 PM
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Cancer isn't a good equivalent since it's out of a person's control both in getting it and if it's cured or not. Women who are solo cat ladies there is a reason men don't want them. Yeah it's because men don't want a very happy woman 🤣 yeah they are too happy. No it's because they have issues of various kinds. Acceptance of having a shitty personality is not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:40 PM
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Not what I said. I said I don't take them at their word because all of the women in real life I know are not happy about being alone. They whine and complain how they want to find a man or get offended if men their age don't want to date them. I've personally never met 30 something cat lady that said she actually liked it and wanted to be that way. So yes I do take people I know face to face at their word... and I don't strangers online when it contradicts all the real people as well as common s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:36 PM
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I agree make the best of it but it's just lying. It's like the person with a face tattoo is telling kids it's the best thing they ever did. It's got that vibe when some 40 year old cat woman says it's the best to young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:33 PM
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Because they may say they are happy however all the ones I know in real life say they are not and its just cope. So when multiple older women try and date me but get offended I don't date post wall types basically.... come on give me a break. It's just cope. Nobody actually wants to be alone, men or women. And it would look just as dumb if a dude said "why do you all say incel like it's a bad thing? We prefer video games and weed and free rent with parents than women"... come on that's some bull…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:45 PM
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Why don't women take a chance and not marry? Yes it's a risk but it takes courage! Women who wont just be with a man and not marry are cowards. They won't do anything without someone else financially on the hook for them. Pathetic. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:16 PM
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More poverty people. That's all. The new generations absolutely love being poor. I'd assume so anyways because they always insist on making the dumbest decisions possible. Whenever I think they might improve they come up with new dumb shit to do. For example electric cars. You know how many morons I know who can't afford a good solid housing situation yet have a tesla? That's still for rich people! They are not cheap and reliable enough for a normal person to own. Stupid stupid stupid. Maybe I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:57 PM
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I agree. I'm 37 and don't have any issues dating much younger women. So seems silly to me girls saying nobody dates older men. 🤔 then why am I going on so many dates and having relationships with girls 18 to 25? So I know it's bullshit when it comes to me specifically anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:40 PM
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Incorrect, it is always an option. It is literally not up for a vote so no it is not an option. Really? Because according to the prevailing narrative, women have been walking away, and it's not women bitching about it. Never heard of this. I've only heard of mgtow. Not aware of women doing this You'll figure it out. Seems unimportant so we can just skip
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:54 PM
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Strawman. The appropriations bill drafted by Democrats would require women to register for selective service, but they do not have a majority needed to pass the bill, and Republicans have objected to women's inclusion. Thus, liberals support it, conservatives do not Not sure you're point. That's what I said. The option to have no draft at all is not currently an option or up for a vote. You may be surprised to learn that a) not everyone thinks like you and b) many women do not structure their li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:47 PM
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They are on reddit all the time. Ugh this girl can't pay her bills yuck. She wants to cook and clean but I will not have some mooch
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:44 PM
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That's because they suck in bed. Virgins are excited to try things. They need to be taught though. Experienced women are not excited to try things because they already tried most things and already know they don't like lots of stuff because they already did it with Tom dick and Harry but not you. Tom was too rough and hurt my asshole so I don't ever want to do anal again... but what if I'm more experienced and careful with anal sex? Nope. Tom ruined that for me. Meh. But there is no longer a nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:49 PM
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False equivalency. There is not enough support for or any bills up for "ending the draft". The only options are include women or don't include women. There is no other option. Practically speaking... if a super power landed troops on US shores, that's a good and valid reason for a draft. So im not sure support for removing the draft will ever gain significant support because there are situations in which it would make sense. I personally would be for making a requirement the draft can only be fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:45 PM
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Agree. I run into this all the time because I'm quite traditional and women will get all huffy "Why does your gf get treated like that but you won't date me?" It's most of the time this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:34 PM
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especially since virgins with less experience are far more boring and less adventurous. As a very experienced 37 year old man I completely disagree with this statement. They are usually way more adventurous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:29 PM
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Because if they don't like it, they shouldn't date me. Why do I care? Usually, women don't seem to care very much because they care about a lot of other things a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:47 PM
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Why does that matter? Whether a man is a Virgin or not makes no difference to whether he wants to be faithful to a woman or not. Seeing as this question is about a man cheating on a woman. It makes no difference whether the man's a Virgin or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:41 PM
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In my experience, I think a man will pair bond with a Youthful Virgin, far more than any other kind of woman. But that's besides the point, because there are more than those 3 factors at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:39 PM
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Well if she's a virgin she's trading her V for his future commitment. If she's not a virgin it makes no sense as she has little unique to show her commitment with. Short of having many kids and being a great mom, thats the only other thing, she has nothing worth committing to without either of those things. It seems silly to most people but the V is the only thing that makes male fidelity make any sense at all because that's about the bond moreso than being a mother is, that's more about worthy …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:44 PM
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Well I think it stems from egalitarian / complementarian ideologies because both rp and BP have people who believe both. Ie rp man who believes egalitarian then any woman who wants a well off man is a gold digger low quality. I pay half she pays half all good. But for example I'm complementarian and I wouldn't be interested in a woman who is anything like me. I want someone who complements me. But blue pill is the same way. Some will be like "of course she can choose to be a stay at home it's he…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:12 PM
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Because it works on weak men and most men are weak. OR the woman in particular is not very intelligent or capable. Those would be the two most common reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:53 PM
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Couldn't exist because not enough women pour cement, weld, build sewer systems, garbage collection, etc... so it would be impossible unless we were able to round up all the bull dyke types in the world it maybe just maybe be enough for a small tiny tiny city.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:52 PM
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Depends. When I was younger and had more normal income I always demanded to either be responsible for the apartment or not. 50/50 shit makes zero sense. Whether you're poor or rich I don't get this weird obsession with 50/50. Like if we break up, it should be predetermined who is tied to the apartment lease and who is not. It's not necessarily better to be one or the other. If you're on the lease pro is you get to stay con is you have to stay and finish the lease with or without anyone helping p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:47 PM
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OK but that's not the common meaning of it. Most people especially in RP will associate that with running around town putting in alot of effort into women jumping though hoops. Instead of just being fucking awesome so that women try to get with you and having an abundance mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:28 PM
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Whether you chase excellence or not is irrelevant to... you should not chase women. That does not mean don't date women, fuck women, etc it means exactly what it says... don't chase women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:23 PM
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Not average. Never been average. Just guessing from what I see of friends and acquaintances... average men hardly get any dates. When they do its some meh woman who treats them like shit. They often get pussy whipped because they are desperate for even a shitty girlfriend OR they don't really care about their girlfriend because they realize she's shit but the best they likely will get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:28 PM
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It's not the same for older man younger woman vs older woman younger man. So don't even try and compare. But I've been told the fact I always seem to make money out of thin air is very attractive. Like I just see opportunities and execute and before most other people even understand what I did. Women seem to find this attractive and say it just means I'm intelligent and have good skills to make deals and such. So I do think a capable skilled intelligent man is attractive genuinely... however if …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:16 PM
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You're not supposed to "chase" women unless you're trying to be an incel. That's the whole point of that saying. I'm not aware of any mainstream RP advice to "not date" wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:02 PM
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The most fitting situation to your ask... a drunk girl wanted to fuck me. Long story short I said no and took her home. She then harassed me for months and showed up at my house multiple times screaming how I need to fuck her and how she will say I raped her (thankfully I had recorded it). How I'm the worst person and an abuser and a million other things. Crazy part is I thought I was going to fuck her the day after because I actually liked her. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:37 AM
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Well it's a catch-22. Because people have a lot of help and community in other countries. Because they all have 7 kids, so everyone's got 20 anuntes. And 300 cousins, and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:24 PM
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What does this have to do with chasing dreams?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:58 PM
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Um so how do you propose we do this? Magic? 🤣 I think lots more women would have kids if we gave each woman $5 million dollars and a nanny a chef and a house cleaner ... I think my idea would work even better than yours tbh. And we could use magic too!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:44 PM
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And typically people marry in their own economic and social class, so it is rare to see a man who makes 500k dating some broke girl with nothing. Most women make basically nothing ie average and lower. So 50k or less. And most women don't own anything ie have a net worth of negative value to $50k where Mines multi millions. So essentially any woman I meet is likely to basically have very minimal finances in comparison to mine. This is a nonsensical suggestion to a well off man... just date a wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:43 PM
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RP doesn't say anyone has to do anything. RP is simply a facts based thing. This is a fact and you're right it would be the RP view. Men tend to like women who have woman qualities. Seems pretty durrr to me but then we get all these women who are like "I wear baggy jeans and have a pixie cut and I'm hyper career focused, im not good at cooking or cleaning and am a leader" ok great anyone can do whatever they want... RP is simply the fact most normal men will not find that woman attractive since …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:04 PM
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Every single divorced man I know either had to give their primary house to the ex or had to sell it. I'm not personally aware of any divorced men who kept their house. Do some? I'm sure some do. But it seems very common from my experience they don't seem to usually get the house. And even if it's purely 50/50 with marital assets... if i make a high income lets say $500k a year, in what world would a woman deserve $250k per year when she wasn't there eating ramen with me sleeping on a couch at a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:59 PM
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Imo wealthy men don't complain about gold diggers. It's broke men who do. I am well off and yes I won't mess with a woman if she uses my success as the yes/no factor to date me HOWEVER I prefer a woman who has a standard of a certain level of success in a man she dares. That is ideal. Broke men see all of it as gold digging. Smh. It's not. It's because they just hear "I won't fuck you because you're broke" when really it's just a basic standard women ought to have. And on the flip... would I rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:38 PM
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Yeah. Strangely so is my attorney because I paid one to discuss divorce laws with me and my financial situation and he said if you aren't religious or anything I shouldn't get married because I'd be taken to the cleaners without a prenup and I still might be taken to the cleaners with a prenup. So I can only base what I say off my attorneys recommendation and the divorces of people I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:27 PM
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There are no exceptions. It's female nature. This is why it's the same men who have the same problems. They can't find an exception because all women will behave generally the same with them... they need to change themselves. The man with low sexual energy and doesn't like to give his gf attention... is always going to drive EVERY SINGLE WOMAN to eventually leave him or cheat on him. That's why he always has this problem. The man who is very hot and sexually aggressive as his main focus will alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:23 PM
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I haven't quite monkey branched but I've essentially never been single because when one girl I'm with is acting up other women swoop in when they see her shit and stand on the sidelines trying to show off on their best behavior while my gf at the time is trying to show me her worst. Then nature just takes its course. And I'm just not one to not be with someone if someone I like has presented herself what bozo would say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:12 PM
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I mean when women marry wealthy men they seem to always get a ton of money when they contributed almost nothing. See all public divorces of wealthy men with just normal women. How are they getting million dollar plus settlements if the man had his success first? Just seems weird, almost like that doesn't even matter. 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:09 PM
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Yes. That's a good perspective to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:49 AM
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Well people tell me they know happily married men but when I meet them they seem like "yes maam" men. Which is weird because I meet bf/gf couples all the time which seem normal and nice. Some don't but some do. I don't meet any married ones that seem normal and nice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:09 PM
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Right. So if they are independent why do we need to worry about if they are cared for after the marriage? Women are strong and independent and it's ridiculous to think they need to have a man's assets or financial help.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:32 PM
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I'm not talking about technically fertile. I'm talking about natural fertility. And it's about timeliness not necessarily knocking up an 18 year old. If you marry a 20 year old you have a decade to have kids with no rush. If you marry a 35 year old you better be ready to jump on it. The big window is very attractive and valuable in mens eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:31 PM
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Well I mean I can only speak to my experience. I'm pretty well off. I've never met a woman as well off as myself who also was suitable for said relationship. Ie she was old or divorced or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:29 PM
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Some men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:28 PM
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If a woman was single wouldn't she clean for herself for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:27 PM
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Irrelevant. I don't date men. I couldn't care less. Young women seem to date older men just fine so they must like something. That's their right to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:25 PM
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Um yes. Both statistically and practically. Even if women and men were equally well off (they aren't). If someone's in the top 5%, most women they meet will have no assets because the average person has no assets. Now assume someone's in the top 5% ... when we are talking about younger going for first marriage people... almost all of those 5% are men. Women in the higher financial situations typically gain assets through divorce and inheritance. Usually meaning old parents, older woman... or alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:24 PM
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I mean personally I never met one married man that seemed better off for it. Not one. Ever. About half got divorced. The rest mostly seem like big simping. Let me see if I'm allowed to hang out this week. Let me check if I'm allowed to work a little extra. Let me see if I'm allowed to... no my wife said I quit eating steaks because we are going vegan. Like they have no say and just obey. I don't see why anyone signs up for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:20 PM
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I'm well off enough to worry about it. So that's clearly going to be my perspective. But it's also an example. Women like to claim they do house chores and it's worth like a billion dollars sky's the limit.... but the average woman does it for nothing. So I don't understand how it can be valued so highly in a financial way. Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:17 PM
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Division of assets primarily. Which is generally a mandatory outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:15 PM
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Most women have little to no assets though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:14 PM
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Because it's not about just looks. But even a good looking 30 year old looked better at 20. But also fertility. Prior baggage. If they have kids. Body count... lots of things at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:13 PM
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Marriage does not equal children. Why would being married and then divorcing for no cause not make you "lose your deposit" just as in buying a house? If you don't want her to be financially disadvantaged, why aren't you working less while she works more? I don't understand the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:11 PM
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So if she does that for say a pro sports player it's worth millions of dollars and if she does that for a broke guy it's worth... $2000 and a beat up old Honda? How valuable is that "service"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:09 PM
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Then there isn't any financial stuff to worry about. Do poor people worry about this stuff? Idk I'm not poor so idk what they think about it all. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:07 PM
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But if someone comes to the table already successful, and the other doesn't have as big a contribution.... they would not be 50/50. Go buy a penny stock vs by say apple stock. A small unproven company you can buy in big positions. An already established company you can hardly buy anything of. So if a woman comes to a well off guy, she is not capable of it being a 50/50 scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:06 PM
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As far ass assets owned pre marriage there are multiple ways to protect those, it's not really that hard if you set it up right from the beginning. But this misses the point. Why go through all this trouble when the exact perfect scenario is just not be married and be bf/gf? don't marry someone you far out earn if that is a concern? Not reasonable ask. Most women don't earn enough money to make this a legit solution for well off men. So in that way it's laughable. For low income people sure but …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:04 PM
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I didn't see any post from you about "businesses". Well co owners are often not 50/50. So if wealthy man marries a waitress who becomes a stay at home mom. Her contribution is very small in comparison because it's the same contribution a poor man's wife might make. So I guess she's just a 1% owner and he's a 99% owner?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:00 PM
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I don't see how this relates in any way. I think you're just redditing while hungry. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:57 PM
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Huh? Thats not the same situation. If two people open a restaurant and one person brings lots of assets first off they would generally own a larger share of the profits. But now both partners have duties and responsibilities. If one person no longer wants to maintain those responsibilities they will get sued and/or end up giving up all or most of their shares in some kind of settlement/exit. There is no situation in which they both stop fulfilling their mandated duties AND continue to get the am…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:56 PM
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Doesn't help if they owned assets pre marriage. Doesn't help if they far out earn their spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:52 PM
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Good thing you don’t have a wife then. Correct. I only keep a girlfriend. That way we are both equally invested in the relationship. I don't see your point about the rest... so if you break the contract why should you be entitled to anything? I don't get it. Again. No other contracts work this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:51 PM
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Nobody is talking about alimony. Why would a woman get the house if she is no fault divorcing in a typical scenario where the man is the bread winner? Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:48 PM
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you get bored of her that's not her fault and you should have to support her. However if she breaks her vows she shouldn't get a penny. Sure I agree with this. This is how it should work if there is no fault divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:44 PM
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If we weren’t happy and I wanted to leave, I would absolutely be entitled to some of the assets... That's not how any other arrangement or contract works. If you commit to buy a house on the other side of the country, you put down a deposit. If you change your mind you lose your deposit. Why shouldn't marriage work that way too? People who break contracts should be penalized and the other person should not be. And again your point doesn't address... why would caring for a poor man's kids entitle…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:33 PM
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Sure. That's what many men do. Just not marry. Marriage is a useless institution if both parties aren't held responsible for thier commitments. So in practice many women just become forever girlfriends which is fair to break up for no fault if they want. And then nobody has to pay anything. Win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:28 PM
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Right. I personally don't believe in no fault divorce. If I have to pay for you you have to be with me. But if you were going to leave just saying I'd expect to not have to pay for you. I agree children do need to be cared for but just think the same A B scenario still applies. Why would one woman get $10,000 a month in child support for one kid because she marries a sports star vs another gets $200 a month because she married a lower income man? Clearly $200 a month is sufficient for raising a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:23 PM
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Well it's more like if I'm financially responsible for you... you shouldn't be able to just leave and make me keep paying. If I'm still responsible for you financially you have to be with me. If you won't be with me I don't want to be financially responsible for you. I think that's a big part of it. Why should I have to continue my "death do us part" promises if you aren't going to? It makes no sense. And tbh women work now. Being married shouldn't entitle you to the other person's finances. Jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:52 PM
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Yes I think this is one of the trades that happens. I knew an ugly dude dated a "hot" girl but she had 3 kids. But he was like a 2 and she was a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:03 PM
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overall I'm on the fence about marriage as an institution. How so? Women no longer need protection. They can get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:25 AM
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Not quite. There's no extra credit for surgical intervention. It's natural fertility. Virginity... it's great when you're young, it's weird when you're old. No bonus points for holding out...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:24 AM
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My financial litmus test is that I'm not going to ever marry any woman and she will never have any more money than what my generosity allows. Gold diggers going to run. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:53 AM
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Well if buy being a "nice guy" instead of an asshole I got all the women. But that doesn't work. So.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:42 AM
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I mean I just told you. Think on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:15 PM
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Imo idgaf. I like to eat at nice places. I make significant income, I think she's cute and good company. I don't mind paying $300 bill. I look at it more like I'm paying for the experience of her company. The money is basic service of her being a date. The romance is natural but she owes me cute outfit and pleasant conversation. I owe her to pick up her tab. I like it this way personally and I can say I mostly have very nice romantic pleasant dates. I don't look at it as being taken advantage of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:34 PM
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Because I'm freaking awesome I suppose? Lol. But I always know up front no marriage. And I know up front if I'd ever consider children. And that's that. I yell them the deal. They accept. Things are cool. Then they pull some shit like you post about years later and I dump them. I don't dump them because I don't want them though. I dump them for being manipulators essentially. If you get with a dude who lays out logically the terms of the relationship and then you want something entirely differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:59 PM
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Many women care about a man's ability to provide for a family it would seem. I'm not sure how you would be a good judge of if women do this because I'm assuming I date more women than you do. 😅 your experience is just yourself or what women say to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:08 PM
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This mindset is a great way to find yourself unmarried at 35 only for your boyfriend to dump you for someone else. It's a great way to land a wealthy man like myself. I explicitly only date women like this. I've never dumped one without cause. Usually it happens around when they decide to give me an ultimatum or decide to no longer be cool without a ring. I don't date manipulators or liars unfortunately or uncool girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:55 PM
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Well if you're a man and it's about your wife most men would care a great deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:52 PM
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You claim you make great money - did making that money give you more women? Did you walk around announcing how much you made and they just fell to their knees? I mean yes. Pretty clearly so. That's why I find the "it makes no difference not even a little" frankly ridiculous. I worked as a software consultant and made my own hours and made about $50k a year. Now I work in we will just say investments and make my own hours and make mid 6 figure income per year. So super comparative in terms of hou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:51 PM
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I mean in America the average person is obese... so it's statistically impossible for most or the average 30 something year old woman to be super fit in shape hot... nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:32 PM
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Nope. Has to do with multiple things that all coincide in a decline at once. One being looks but there are many other things such as fertility and body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:31 PM
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Keep telling yourself that. Tons of slutty women out there who love attention from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:30 PM
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So not all else equal. Way to change the scenario. And tbh it's all bunk. Because I personally make a high income and work few hours. So no. Not all high income earners are working overtime. So all else being equal... stop dancing and answer the question. You clearly have an ulterior motive to not answer the simple simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:27 PM
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Idk they seem pretty desperate to me. I just went on a date with one the other day. She said she wants to get married and this and that... I said no. I want a blow job though and she was like ok. Literally anything I was willing to give her between marriage and my dick in her mouth seemed acceptable to her. Seems pretty desperate to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:25 PM
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Yeah. Men just do things that don't work just to do it. I also stack bricks to try and get laid... it never worked but I do it all day anyways... said no man ever. We cat call because it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:51 PM
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This post sounds like drug rant. Wall has little to do with looks. Yes they do act very different. I've personally seen it. Go date some 30+ year old women. Ones who take care of themselves and look very hot still... are the slimmest of slim minority. So you mean 1% of 30 year old women are like... xyz... yeah ok. That's no longer a general statement about women in their 30s anymore, it's about a sliver of an exception...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:48 PM
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I can say that by pushing onwards many times they end up dating you or hooking up with you. So I mean once a man experiences that it can work they will always consider it. It's just like cat calling. You can say it doesn't work all you want but I've done it and had women straight up just come over and fuck me. So yes it absolutely can work and therefore I'll always consider it a viable thing to do. Just like I have kept trying after a woman said no and we ended up in a long term relationship so …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:38 PM
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I mean I belong to a country club and hang out at the highest class night club in my city. So you're telling me maybe more low brow schmucks don't have this problem? A family member is a plumber and he had this issue with his wife and she's a nurse. Everyone gives him shit about it. I live far away and I've heard about how people give him shit about it. Maybe you're just oblivious or anit social? That's the only thing I can think of. Like you never heard of a girl in high school or college even …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:34 PM
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It's because women say so and men say so. Even you are participating in the frame by asking a question worded this way. Men don't really participate in collectivism on a masculine behalf but will if it's female centered. Which is why some men always do the best at everything. But then it also leads to stronger female movements and framing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:25 PM
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“if he makes more money, he will have more opportunities.” Because it isn’t always true. Give me a typical example of this. Joe makes minimum wage working 40 hours a week at a bank filing papers versus Joe makes $100 an hour working 40 hours a week as a VP of wealth management. Give me an example of how this would not be true. How could the better higher paid job possibly make Joe have less opportunities dating. Go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:13 PM
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Well I live in a small city and just yesterday a woman in my extended network was called out on social media for hooking up with two guys at a seedy bar. Another guy posted he saw her get passed around a small party. Like 5 other people commented. Imagine if some dude had married her and then this info all came out publicly? Sick. This is exactly one of multiple reasons men don't want a high body count woman. We wouldn't want to be with her and then all her dirt comes out publicly and we just ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:59 AM
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Most people do live in smaller towns, see population statistics. The average person lives on Smallville USA or suburbs not NYC. And every town I ever lived in (I've lived in quite a few) I've personally known of women with reputations. You must not be very social or something. Everyone else knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:36 AM
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If they say it's true it breaks some delusional frame they are holding. What exactly idk but some other concept is riding on it and if they admit to it, some other more important assumption logically breaks in their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:35 AM
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Literally in another thread a woman is telling me low income ugly men get just as much access to dating women as hit rich men. It's entirely personality. 🤐🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:25 AM
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Hey, I'm a multi millionaire and so I tell women this... hey baby, I can be traditional... you need to be a virgin to match my success. They get upset because they slept around. They say it's not fair. So I say we'll hold up baby, you're an egalitarian and modern, I dig it, so you can be my equal, so you must be a multi millionaire too because I don't date no brokie loser. They get upset again because they aren't on or near my financial level. 🤣 they can't win either way because they both fail a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:21 AM
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Broke but works? I think 100% personality. Not the scenario. All else equal. They both have the same personality. One works at McDonald's and one is say a doctor. I would say ambition/hard word will absolutely trump “makes a lot of money.” Again this just proves what I'm saying. Another quality you do agree is always better. I thought there weren't any of these? The one who does the best is the funny one. He isn’t ugly but no one would call him a model either. Not the scenario. Two equal people.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:15 AM
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Plenty actually. There are ones like that in every town and city.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:14 AM
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And you don't think this also applies with say success/finances? Two men are equal... one is broke, one makes is highly successful multi millionaire... you think they have equal options in dating women? Same with looks, all else equal, an ugly man has just as many options as an attractive man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:50 AM
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It's not simply gossip when half the guys you know say "damn bro I hit that too just so you know" nobody wants to have to hear that shit the rest of their life when they go places and meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:22 AM
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When it's high enough it actually is. You don't think people don't know people who know people? Don't be naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:01 AM
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Men are insecure for judging thier partner on thier sexual past especially in comparison to thier current relationship. I don't think this is it at all. Maybe for some men but there are lots of logical reasons why it's an issue. One being why buy the cow when the milk is free? Or another being statistically women with high body count are more likely to cheat. Or another being women with high body count may not be accepted by friends and family. There are tangible logical reasons why a man would …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:34 PM
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I don't see how they equal in any way shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:17 PM
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but I have found charisma and personality to be a better predictor of success This is exactly my point. It doesn't matter which specific factors you're talking about but you do agree. All men will have more options of women they could attract with more charisma? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:27 PM
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Or just don't get legally married. I'm not sure why hardly anyone accepts the obvious answer. Just have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:24 PM
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I mean kinda but not really. Marriage is protection for women. Prenup is expensive toilet paper. Protection for men is to maintain control of your assets. Men who think women need to be protected from themselves... I don't get it. Don't you know if you have good intentions? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:01 PM
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I agree. Yes most women are not special and thus why do they deserve special consideration? Agree. Why buy the cow when the milk is free? Personally I make any woman I'm seeing earn her "special" treatment. Ie she looks good, she fucks me when I want, she behaves how I want, she cleans my house... ok she can live with me, etc etc... but if she doesn't do those things I'm just dumping her. And I personally find this completely reasonable and logical. Where I don't agree is with actual virgins (ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:53 PM
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So then how do you explain why some men can get lots of women interested in them and some men cannot get very many?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:06 PM
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You sure like to dance. A handful of characteristics give a man broad appeal to the female population. Just period. Do you not agree with that as a general concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:55 PM
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I mean that's the nature of it. Women want to mate with the best men. This is just competition. Men always compete for everything starting as kids. Sports etc... it's no different.
/r/seduction16/06/24 05:49 PM
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It does work and quite well. So idk. Red pill is the truth. So by definition it has to work or it's not the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:37 PM
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when I have met plenty of men attracted to trans women I'm not even going to go there. I'm only talking about general typical situations. Straight men who date women. Not some fringe sub 1% scenario. To 99.9% of straight men, the primary factor about the person they date is that they are a woman. Period. A Trans or a bi or a this or a that is a fringe scenario and you know it. So while woman is the first hurtle that needs to be crossed, it isn’t the only or even the most important for some. If i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:19 PM
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It's not an all thing. It's a most thing. Or are you telling a fat shy broke guy will get just as many or more girls trying to date him than a hot successful outgoing confident man? Everyone in the damn world knows what the answer is. One has more women who would date him. An exception doesn't change the rule, it proves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:09 PM
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who then go straight doomer This sounds like black pill as far as I know. Red pill has nothing "doomer" about it. What's so doom about admiting the fact: women prefer hot successful fun confident men over ugly broke lame shy men? 🤔 it's simply a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:57 PM
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The red pill is just facts. Idk what there is to be upset about or victim mentality. I think it's opposite of victim mentality. Accepting the facts of what the game is puts you in the driver's seat to play, it's the opposite of being a victim. So I don't really get your post in general. I think it's more about I think black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:30 PM
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can you really blame what a reckless 18/20 year old girl does Yes if you consider them people. However it is what it is, and she'd treat you well, willing to have more kids with you, and overall you guys could see yourself being happy together. Would that not still be a win? Broken frame. You have no obligation to settle down. If no young un baggaged woman wants you for a serious relationship, you don't HAVE TO marry a 35 year old with 2 kids. You could just stay casual because you don't provide…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:26 PM
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The most important factor when deciding to be romantic with a person is that they are a female. Their female-Ness is the reason it's romantic. That is the first and primary reason for all straight men. Not sure why this confuses everyone so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:16 PM
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Good temper tantrum post instead of simply saying the fact a person is a woman is the most important factor for straight men. I'm wondering if you're gay because if that's not the most important factor then you would date dudes. Dur? Gay = men who date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:13 PM
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Wym? Incels who are red pill know what it takes... they don't do it. That's the point. Show me a confident physically fit successful man who puts himself out there meeting many women and isn't getting decent results. The incels aren't doing this but they know this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:10 PM
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Just because something supposedly has certain benefits does not make it factually correct. Correct. But it does factually get you those benefits. If saying the sky was green got you a million dates and saying it's blue made women hate you.... the red pill would say "saying the sky is green is how to get a million dates" I don't really understand what's so complicated. This does not mean they wouldn’t be even better off if they simply learn to act confident and flirt with women without internaliz…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:33 PM
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Red pill does not have a monopoly on telling men to act confident. You're the one that brought it up. But again. Red pill is simply if something works then that's what works. If objectifying women works... then that's what works. And tbh it does work. Women love love love to be treated that way... by a man they find worth their time. subjective judgment of what YOU find attractive in a woman. Again... you say a woman... why not a man? Being a woman is more important than anything else. All men e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:27 PM
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Confidence is attractive, and a man who feels superior to women and thinks he understands everything about them will probably act more confident. Well if that's what it is... then that's what it is. Just proves the red pill is correct. Again... if it works, then that is all that matters. But I also don't buy that because most men who feel superior to women have objective factual reasons to believe so. And again red pill would be superior at say making money not having children or being a mom ofc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:00 PM
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everything to do with how it teaches men to behave. Again I couldn't care less. I only care what works. If it works then that's how it is. 🤷 if you prove it doesn't work then fine... all I know is I personally have far more dating success than any man I personally know... I'm also the most asshole rude red pill man I know. When I was younger I didn't start out this way and I had poor results compared to what I experience now. So bring out the big guns. Show me a simp or white knight that pulls m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:29 PM
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Dehumanizing is a nonsense concept made up in regards to feelings. I couldn't care less about strangers feelings. I only care about results... and thus I get the results I'm looking for. But ill humor you... So why do straight men have romantic relationships with women and not men? Riddle me this... 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:09 PM
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W.... t.... f....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:04 PM
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I mean I'm not here to be polite. It is a pretty spot on comparison whether it hurts people's feelings or not. I think I said above... I'm here for results and nothing else. The whole point of red pill. Accurate and polite... ok accurate and rude... ok... not fully accurate... nope no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:00 PM
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Because men would do all the right things get more options as they age and women whether they do the right things or not, get less options as they age. You can word this 20 different ways but it's the same thing... Are you going to simp for a 2024 Mazda.... only for you to be like meh in 10 years? It's about perspective. Most men don't have that perspective when they are young because they never saw it with their own eyes. Once they are older... it's too late if they wasted all that time not doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:32 PM
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I agree that in dating advice for men it’s not necessarily relevant to say what men do, my point is that red pill pseudo scientifically prescribed negative behavior to women while leaving out that men do it too. Again... why would they say men do it too when it's advice for dating? Do you agree or not agree? You're saying you agree and then saying the opposite thing. Saying that a woman is primarily valuable for her physical appearance... Straw man. A woman is primarily valuable for her biologic…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:21 PM
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I mean my gf and all my exgfs loved the situation and all run around saying how great it is. So I personally am not aware of the issues, at least according to women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:16 PM
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A few points: Anyways, the reality is that everything the red pill accuses women of doing can be equally ascribed to men. Men and women both sometimes... Men who are red pill typically are not dating men. So it's frankly irrelevant and unnecessary to address what men do. Nothing is gained from a man giving a man dating advice by saying "all people may ghost you" instead of "a woman might ghost you"... that would also miss the nuance in how both genders might do the same thing but it's not exactl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:04 PM
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I agree and disagree. I wouldn't call it demi sexual though. Simply not clicking or not being into someone with a bad personality is just normal attraction stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:59 AM
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I agree. I disagree that it is an effective way to filter low effort messages and fuckboys. Taken only one step further, she could filter out this behavior as well by throwing her phone in the ocean. Not effective but it works. Same thing as what she's doing. Have horrendous completely off putting profile that nobody who reads profiles will like... 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:47 AM
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"l did everything but zero results" I mean I did everything and it's awesome. Not sure what you mean. It's blue pill people who try it yet still can't be a nice guy and get decent results.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:43 AM
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I'd prefer to stay single and play the field before I settle so low. I do occasionally meet and date women in the ballpark so it's not hopeless by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:34 PM
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I mean it's not really relevant to me. I could care less what they want. Not my problem. But to bring it back to the topic... it's still settling... So I could care less if a woman wants to settle for me, I wouldn't settle for her. That's how I solve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:38 PM
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I think in practice they are the same thing in this context. Ie im 24 I only date dudes with big schlongs... later... I'm 33 and I will date dudes with any size... Sure maybe it's a "preference" now but it was a "deal breaker" before. That's a big reason of why guys have a problem with it. If you just "always kinda wanted bigger than smaller" but just got with a smaller guy... it is what it is... let's be realistic. When your ex is nick named donkey dong... and you chose him first... yeah whole …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:22 PM
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I mean they were. Then they decided not to be. For example no young girl is born a "girl boss bad ass bitch" or whatever they call themselves these days. They decide to become that. Short of a minority of abuse situations... everyone else is a virgin and decides to just give it up to men who don't commit. So? Yeah. Most women could easily have met my criteria at one point if they so choose. Vs women tend to have criteria that is impossible to meet. Ie height. Which I'm not even really complainin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:15 PM
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Both. I have been with someone like that and wasn't disappointed at all. But had weird circumstances break us up. Since then, I've had arguably better chemistry with some women but they are always disappointing because I feel let down, gross, loss of interest to have to settle for someone I don't really want. I know what I like 100% for sure no doubt about it and I just could never accept less. So while I don't personally worry much about knocking a woman's socks off, I do think it's a valid con…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:04 PM
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Attracted to but not happy. They are disappointing in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:41 PM
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Being with someone who doesn't meet all of your preferences is not "settling" - it's literally impossible for anyone to meet every single one of your preferences; that's why they're preferences in the first place. A solid 50% or more of all women could meet my preferences... they just choose not to. Ie. Virgin, thin, sweet, loyal, cute... So it certainly is possible. And it certainly would be settling to be with someone not those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:32 PM
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So you're saying really hot men are the ones using escorts? So 6ft 3 ripped Chad who drives a nice sports car is using escorts because women hate how hot he is? Wait what? ✋️ how's that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:29 PM
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Me and countless other married women I know picked a zero/low body count guy... ...after you picked other guys. 😅 Mathematically it must be so on average or how could high body count men exist if nobody sleeps with them? Gee how Dat work?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:56 AM
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Not this again... 😅 they may not like it but they won't turn down a man they want because of it... and thus yall get with or try to get with the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:35 AM
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Why doesn't the same apply to men Men and women are different. That's why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:02 AM
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Oh its reddit so idk lol
/r/seduction13/06/24 12:05 AM
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Why does it sound so strange? The fact it sounds crazy to you seems really weird to me. What do you do then?
/r/seduction12/06/24 11:56 PM
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I don't say that. Men and women are different and I find it completely moronic to even try to compare. But I also don't date men so idk or gaf what the standards are or should be or how they compare etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:42 PM
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The women are being damaged by blue pill and pre pill men and themselves. If I go scoop some 18 year old girl, the 5 16 year olds who banged her in high school damaged her not myself and the are inexperienced enough to be blue pill or pre pill... ie Chad but hardly knows what's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:51 PM
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Weird point that keeps being brought up. Most men who care about dating women... wait for it... don't date men. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:49 PM
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Maybe. They are very dumb then, too dumb to date... and this is a lollipop in my pants. Smh. That level stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:35 PM
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And the point is? Again... are you comparing yourself to women in a war zone with no access to these things? Men with shoes are so much more attractive. Therefore men have to know how to shape leather into shoes, it's needed for them to be attractive. Or they could be like literally all men short of homeless ones in a war zone and buy shoes. Durr?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:08 PM
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Yeah seems like it. But I don't want that shit. Yuck. Seems like the hotter the girl the lower the standards sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:32 PM
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Not about a specific woman. Never been on a date with an ugly woman. The average woman has dated a man with no job or like minimum wage as far as I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:25 PM
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Um it's pretty common women who date like out of shape and or broke guys. So yes it's the one example of how most women's past dating is like 🤣 it's hard to find a woman who never dated any losers such that they are such a loser everyone could see it from a mile a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:18 PM
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Women are not picky enough. They mostly hookup with and date losers. I mean I love going on a date "wow you're so muscular and wow you're really successful. My exbf was fat and mooched off my money." Yuck. That's so fucking disgusting to hear. I can't do that... nope. Wtf is wrong with these girls. Total trash with no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:14 PM
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Doesn't help that much. Nor is that stuff that expensive if you do it yourself which many girls do btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:11 PM
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Idk what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:12 PM
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Normal life? The super hot feminine done up girl always gets the attention. Have you not been to literally any social gathering or a bar or any place public before? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:39 PM
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Well true. To me I'm picky enough I don't pay attention to women who are fat or over a certain age so that's where I got that from.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:38 PM
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But yeah nobody WANTS a pimp My experience is the reverse. Most women want a pimp. I've been propositioned a few times over the years... and turned it down but still. I think it's a big fantasy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:37 PM
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That's a sugar daddy relationship. A guy that pays for his wife's lifestyle is a bitch and not representative of what most men want Most men are broke that's why. These girls irl always have a line of men thirsty asf for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:34 PM
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I mean in the extremes... a poor woman in a war zone covered in mud can't even shower... versus someone with a stylist and all the hair makeup people in the world. Sure. This is just trying to justify your position because this does not apply at all in 99.9% of situations. Do you have Kim K's stylist? No? Are you comparing yourself to someone from a swamp? No? Then doesn't apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:28 PM
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Nobody care about woman making money except broke guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:51 PM
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Imo it's the 18 to 22 year Olds who are thin or athletic shape that can be picky and get away with it. Usually I just find women who aren't that a joke because nobody gives a shit what a chubby 35 year old woman wants or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:57 AM
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I agree. I'd say I'm an 8 and average height and my friend is a 9.5 and 6ft 2in model. I pull way more women because short of famous contracts he's broke... he's been on billboards before but it's not a livin large life. I'm very successful. Women usually just figure him as a bum and I get the girls. We wingman each other well because he causes a crowd but I hold the attention. So it works for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:32 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:07 AM
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not "every married women wants me" Never claimed this. Just claim that I sure do sleep with a lot of married women over the years. Clearly many men have the wool pulled over their eyes. Shit I'm probably slightly above average looking and not particularly feminine natured and if you are in fact what you describe and tried to hit on me I would laugh in your face then go home to my partner. I doubt I would hit on you. Mate most men in my social circle are fit, have jobs that come with status, have…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:10 PM
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but having a pimp is something women get groomed into or they fall into one who promises them a way out of bad times. Most modern day sex workers don't have a pimp, the internet has made them obsolete in many ways. Well as an experienced sex worker, you should know women aren't always as innocent as they like to appear. I'm assuming you're an experienced sex worker since otherwise you would just be someone talking about something they know nothing about. What kind of bozo would do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:03 PM
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Many girls are very nice and never do nasty shit... surrrreee very totatally believable and definitely what happens. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:01 PM
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adonis level man, who also happens to earn billions, owns half the world, and is super charming and charismatic. I'd say I'm a muscular masculine 8 and I'm a multi millionaire but nowhere near a billionaire. I'm your normal rich guy who lives in a town near you. I definitely am charming though, everyone tells me I'm smooth asf. But I do love how far normal people's assumptions are out of whack about what other people live life like. It really blows my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:59 PM
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yeah dude, women who slept with 0-2 guys in their lifetime will just jump into bed with any hot guy on the first date and do anal I'm not big on anal so I don't usually go for that on the first date but I've done it many times on the first date. Lots of girls are super into it. I don't think I've been on a date in a long time were we didn't have sex the first or second date. Second only usually if it doesn't really line up ie we have fun out and then have to go or whatever. I usually plan first …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:56 PM
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I mean I don't see why a random women would come up to you and ask you to pimp her out when if she's even mildly attractive she can find it herself. And this is why you get push back. I can't like undo the things I've experienced. No matter how unbelievable this stuff happens to me and therefore I believe it happens. Why is this normal to me (I've had man situations like this or even more unbelievable by average people)? The only explainable thing that makes sense to me and most people I talk to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:19 PM
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Yeah I agree about the counts. I don't date girls over 3 as a general rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:07 PM
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I agree they are better but they aren't any different in general. I meet these girls all the time. Was this supposed to be a mic drop moment or something? I'm not supid. Yet these girls still fuck on the first date and will do whatever.... they have no morals and a hot man can easily get them to do anything. chances are that she's pretty normal and would make a good and loyal girlfriend if your personalities, lifestyles, goals etc. are compatible. Yeah normal these days is wild asf though 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:06 PM
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I don't date men so I couldn't care less if they do crazy shit. Seems obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:44 PM
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So the whole post is about if they say this or not say it? Irrelevant if they do it? If someone says this I'd assume the situations I mentioned. But really it's irrelevant. I've had fwb who had kids and some had no issues lining up baby sitters and stuff while others always seemed like they had to kiss ever boo boo and could never meet up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:41 PM
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Except thats not what’s being said. Its strictly complaining about women prioritizing their kids. That's exactly what's said. What does "prioritizing their kids" mean in a specific instance?... hmmm... not having time for a date because little Johnny misses his mommy and wants her to stay home? Sally had homework and mom needs to do it with her so she gets an A+? What exactly do you mean if not situations like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:02 PM
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If your kids are your ultimate priority, being a in a stable normal decent relationship would be key right? No decent normal man is going to come in the picture and stay in the picture if you don't have time for date night because the kids... too tired for sex because the kids ... too busy for a weekend trip because the kids.... etc. They are kids not delicate 1000 year old papyrus. They can handle being baby sat or not having their every whim attended to. And single moms often raise entitled sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:57 PM
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I have met plenty. The problem is you. Or you're a doofus and can't tell the difference. That would also logically explain this. No, I can definitely tell the difference. What proof do you have that you can tell the difference? Personally I have a friend like you who says the same thing but he always ends up with the worst girls that I told him from the jump and he always says "no this one is special and different" but is wrong every time. I've seen many men do this... I've never seen the revers…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:53 PM
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I mean I objectively statistically am. Conversation revolves around it so it's necessary to mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:05 PM
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No, that's just because you think bottom-tier women are normal. Never met a normal woman. All the normal women people have told me to talk to were definitely not normal. Proving you attract bottom tier women. Thanks for backing up my point. Proving a delusional man thinks a "bottom tier woman" is a "top tier" woman. I called it as a shitty girl, he got it wrong. Where's the example of me calling it wrong though and a delusional white knight blue pill calling it right? I'm waiting for this to eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:03 PM
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No. Because the "normal" "decent" women you think you know act like fucking animals when presented with a hot rich man. And when you're a hot rich man, you see things and you see them often. An acquaintance just got married. He swears his girl is different and unlike any of the others... meanwhile... she hit me up a year before she met him and asked if I would pimp her out and we could make money together and travel. So yeah she's sooooo different and such a good girl. 🤣 Sorry but any dude who t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:46 PM
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''20% of men are having sex with the majority of women'' RP Never claimed everyone could do it though... 🙃 yet you also "debunked" this too smh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:18 PM
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I mean I'm 37 and banging 18 to 24 year old women left right and center. I guess I'm made up and don't exist. And ofc it has nothing to do with being hot and successful. You just debunked my whole life. Good job. Guess I won't be red pill now. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:12 PM
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Most. And maybe half will smile at me or make good eye contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:02 AM
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Idk exactly what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:40 PM
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Not quite but close enough I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:38 PM
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I don't know that seems like a pretty good first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:52 PM
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If she likes me then a ton. Idk 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:07 PM
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Not quite but close. White but mixed with some other things but look swarthy white.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:02 PM
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Bar, grocery store, tinder, anywhere really
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:29 PM
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It's not whose first choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:20 PM
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Yes very. This one girl was really into spanking and I spanked her ass and it left some bruising but not terrible. She said she was married after and i asked how she would explain it. She said her husband is dumb asf and she would just say she fell on the stairs on her ass. That was a big wake up moment for me tbh just how nasty these girls are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:18 PM
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As a good looking man, I'd say many would cheat. I've been with many married or otherwise taken women. Usually not even on purpose. I generally try to avoid cheaters... doesn't mean they don't hide it until we are done and "I got to get back to my husband before he worries where I am" smh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:10 PM
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Why? Plenty of women to have sex and kids with unmarried. What idiot will buy the cow when they can get the milk from 10 cows for free? Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:22 PM
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I mean, they would all be better off in the kitchen so ifgaf. I don't really listen to any women except when I have nothing better to do. It's like how much time do you devote to talking to a 4 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:51 PM
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That's why you just ignore women. My gf just said a bunch of words to me. I just said "i didn't listen to any of it I love you" That's generally how you should listen to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:46 PM
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What could have been a good topic is ruined by your public shit test fail. The bear thing is a shit test. Women just say that to rile up bozo dufus dunce boys. So congrats, you have no game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:40 PM
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Because it only benefits women. So they want it. It doesn't benefit men so they don't want it. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:37 PM
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Sexual teasing. Touch. Look you're talking... say something your polite brain says is rude and too sexual... say she starts talking about some news politics thing... "excuse me, I didn't come here to talk about politics, I'm distracted by those sexy lips... ...and what they could do" If she starts talking sexual keep it going... if she seems nervous be like "ok I think I can keep my cool, what were you talking about again" Reach out and grab her hand gently... she will keep her hand there or gra…
/r/seduction08/06/24 02:33 PM
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So if you're not good looking you need to lie to get sex? I don't buy it. And tbh I don't see any evidence that anyone lying and manipulating helps them get sex. Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:13 PM
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You are treating the women in you life as nothing more than pieces of meat. No amount of honesty is gonna bypass that. I'm treating them as human beings deserving of honesty. I listen to what they want and see if we want the same things. "Nice guys" on the other hand only care about what they want, they assume any woman they are interested in is looking for a serious relationship with them, or a hookup with them and then when they get shot down usually call her a slut or something like that. One…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:12 PM
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No. I absolutely would. In my experience women who do this have better lives. The ones who have not tried it and do all rave about it. I've not met one who decided it wasn't awesome asf. Girls I was with that things ended almost all regret it and come back like "what was I thinking!" So to sum it up, I believe women prefer and enjoy it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:19 PM
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Well as an outsider man or woman, looking in at someone else... we would have no responsibility. If a woman wants to date a man who is known for beating women, I'm not responsible when he beats her. I have every right to think she's dumb as fuck and continue walking on without a care in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:06 PM
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What happens in a normal relationship if she loses her job and is unable to financially contribute? 😅 To me what do I care what she does if we break up? I generally don't break up with pleasant attractive thankful women, so doesn't seem like a real concern. If she cheats or doesn't contribute that's her problem not mine. Isn't it? A woman is either contributing by being pleasant and feminine and support role or she's contributing financially. I am unaware of any situation in which a woman can co…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:04 PM
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Dear white knight, They treat women like disposable sex objects. This is how many women want to be treated. Maybe you should listen to and believe women. When they say they want to be fucked like a whore, they mean it. Their hobbies are crime and manipulating women into sex. Actually I've amassed my impressive body count in the hundreds by being completely straight forward. You should try it some time. Went on a date the other night and said "I am not interested in marriage I'm interested in a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:00 PM
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Yet we should care about... Um wtf are you talking about? Choose better is the same thing you say to someone who takes a hammer and hits themselves in the hand... make better choices basically... full stop. Nothing else is conveyed in the sentiment... or are you jealous a stupid person does a stupid thing and didn't involve you? I sure hope not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:52 PM
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I have been, and am currently in this kind of relationship. I pretty much have always been in this kind of relationship. I'm smart and always made high income for my age. My HS sweetheart worked but only very little like 10 hours and I paid for everything. But these days I wouldn't ever even consider dating a woman who worked. It's a deal breaker. Reason being money in small amounts is useless to me. If she makes $50,000 what benefit do I get? Nothing. Oh I don't have to pay for dinner. Big whoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:49 PM
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Choose better is when Idgaf that some dude beat your ass for the 10th time or some mooch man is stealing money from your sock drawer. It's more like this "Choose better 🤣" you get what you chose. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:36 PM
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Looks and just being smooth/confident to a lesser extent. So to some degree I think men are responsible for their bad outcomes but to some extent they arent. If you walk up to a girl all nervous and say "I'd like to ask you out" that's eww no way creep. If you're smooth and confident they are all 😍 But it does also come down to looks. You can simply be ugly or not a girls type and it's creepy but even creepier behavior from a hot man is welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:51 PM
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He wasn't afraid of anything. He was completely ignoring her. Why was him minding his own business offensive to her and I directly used the word at her and she liked it? Hint, I'm hot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:26 PM
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Red pill is basically the truth no matter how rude or un PC it is. If the red pill is gaining momentum it's only because society's nonsense has moved further from the truth. All men with impressive results are using the red pill knowledge to some degree. Sure lots of incels are red pill... so are most chads. Ultimately doing what gains results with zero other considerations is how most people react to the red pill. If me saying fuck you to every woman I met made them all want to fuck me, that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:12 PM
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Here's an example from real life. Friend says "I would never call a woman a cunt" girl nearby says "excuse me I don't like that language" and looks at him all nasty. I smile at her, she smiles back I say "don't be a cunt about it" she laughs and apologized saying she's just having a bad day and starts having a conversation with us. My friend is straight up pure average 5. I'm I'd say an 8. Why was just over hearing the word so offensive from an average man but a hot guy saying it directed at her…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:10 PM
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Main question is why is he divorces? That would play a big part in answering your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:34 AM
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I agree this is how it is. But for us men who are capable for bringing this out in women... boss babes with conditional femininity are bottom barrel. Because rare women are actually feminine and not boss babes first and thus at least I always pick that first. It's a stupid game because women permanently ruin themselves by being a boss babe at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:32 AM
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Yes but none of these ways... with the exception of the "my ex was abusive" but I never took this as I should protect them, I took this as a red flag and usually not get in a relationship with them. What psycho only dates abusers, or just stays in an abusive relationship for a long time? Serious mental issues. Not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:21 PM
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You're right, they're not. But why would I commit to a woman who doesn't commit to me? That's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:32 PM
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That's what I want. Her to not know how sex works and to learn with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:02 PM
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How so? It's a cute saying to sum up my beliefs... and ones many other people share to some degree. Just because you don't doesn't matter to me at all. It's ignorant if you didn't think anyone cared about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:37 PM
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Be more confident. Just imagine someone girls call an asshole... and act like that.
/r/seduction03/06/24 04:50 PM
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It would take someone absolutely out of the ordinary to make me consider it. The would need to be far wealthier than myself AND young and attractive all at once. Which generally it takes time to make money so young wealthy people are basically unicorns. No I'm not a virgin but I'm wealthy and good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:25 PM
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You may feel that way. Many women think their first time is special and important. Many men value it as well. That's just facts about people. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:17 PM
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I wouldn't marry a non virgin woman under any realistic circumstances. Those things... waiting for marriage, monogamy, marriage... they don't really make logical sense if the woman isn't a virgin or in weird situations which would not or likely not apply to me. Ie Arianna Grande, far wealthier than I yet also when she was young... technically that might loop around many of my issues but realistically im not going to plan to meet, let alone get serious with the next exception. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:15 PM
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You got it. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:47 PM
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Not fat. Either a virgin OR is ok with one sided open relationship. (No hymen no diamond) Significantly younger than me. Short and petite. Long hair. Pleasant/submissive/caring Don't give a fuck about job or education.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:20 PM
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Not even sure if this is a high standard. I agree. Is it even a high standard? I know it's increasingly rare but I think one can rightly expect a "standard healthy human" for a mate, no exceptions. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:30 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:27 AM
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I suppose if she wants to pay a chef to fulfill her role that's fine. Most women don't earn enough to do that. Especially if she also doesn't want to clean either and hire a maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:09 PM
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Sure they change over time so they remain complimentary... the entire existence of gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:08 PM
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One person must cook or they both must share cooking. Since I personally bring traditional masculine benefits to the table, I would want a woman to contribute... that's one of the things she could do to contribute. Since I am high earning, unless she's a 1% woman, her job isn't a contribution that's complimentary to me. But cooking would be a contribution that's complimentary to me. Maybe a man who stays home and cooks would find it the reverse. I wouldn't though. I'm too busy sometimes to cook …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:04 PM
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This has nothing to do with traditional roles though Um what? That is the entire point. It's 100% of it. What are you even talking about? Traditional roles are because they are complementary. If they weren't complementary they would not he traditional roles... you will have to explain why they are not related because they basically are definitional to each other as far as I ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:10 PM
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No. But that just shows you have no idea what complementary roles even means. You're very self centered if you don't think about how you can provide value to your boyfriend/girlfriend. So even if you were a great cook, I think most people would find a selfish self centered attitude a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:39 PM
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So you live in a basement and are clueless to how many people live? Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:27 PM
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Idk about other guys but I'd rather be single and just fuck girls or have a fwb than be in a relationship with a girl who can't cover the female role bases. If I was going to attempt to try though I certainly wouldn't pay for dates or anything like that if I have to cook for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:18 PM
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Well I'd imagine all living people out and about walking around adults are capable of feeding themselves thus why they are not dead or hospitalized from Mal nourishment. But you seem to think there are adults that just starve for some reason. Never heard of this being a widespread issue women have dating.... "all the men are so scrawny withering away unable to eat" says id bet literally no posts on reddit. Well you can say they are a load of shit. From my perspective relationships without compli…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:11 PM
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How so? Are you not familiar with traditional gender roles? Is this an autism definition of "cooking" you're struggling with? I'm not even trying to be an ass or anything. To me this is like basic stuff I figure anyone would at least know of that it's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:55 PM
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Feed oneself and hold down a kitchen are two different things. Clearly I can feed myself since I'm alive and typing. Duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:32 PM
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I agree. It's pretty stupid to worry much about. Shared morals and values is way more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:29 PM
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How is that relevant? I'm a man. I can hold down the man things so I expect her to be there with the woman things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:28 PM
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Yes if she wants a relationship. I can't be going out of my way for a girl who can't hold down the kitchen. What a joke. Tbh most fuck buddies cook so it's like this girl is yelling at a brick wall, nothing going to happen. Most women like to cook for a man they are interested in. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:12 AM
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Clearly it can mean many things. See the movie for the literal meaning. Maybe you're not aware of what a concept is? https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/concept Cheers. Learn something new every day. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:07 PM
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Whoa... deep. When's the movie come out?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:04 PM
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What's that have to do with anything? I'm sure a Trans made some of your clothing in some way shape or form... are you dressed in Trans style? Smh. Doesn't negate jeans are jeans are jeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:57 PM
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What does that even mean? 🤣 what does trp have to do with Trans? You seem quite down some rabbit hole somewhere skeevy on the internet. Come up and see the sun, touch some grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:48 PM
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People who are bitter, paranoid, and materialistic are incapable of producing healthy and useful ideas... Your claim negates your post. No reason to read or respond when you also claim this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:46 PM
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Tell me you never watched the matrix without telling me you never watched the matrix. RP is from that movie. I'm pretty sure they didn't discuss bullying or what ever other nonsense claims you're making.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:43 PM
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Where are these women? 99% of the women I meet are hos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:38 PM
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Well ignore all the financial subs on here... it's bad idea to discuss investments with fake wealthy people. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:00 AM
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Idk why that's hard to believe? Weird. It's the internet, everyone comes on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:51 AM
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Probably true. I'm a rich 8 so I wouldn't know but I could imagine it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:46 AM
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Again... No such thing as red pill strategy. If there was I'd say it was pretty red pill to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:15 PM
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Emotional labor is a personal problem. Why is scheduling an appointment for the CEO less emotionally taxing than scheduling an appointment for a family member? The fact you care more is your problem and has nothing to do with anyone else. Tbh it's a somewhat minor legit thing that has been turned into a massive over exaggeration to justify one person doing things like the dishes to compare with someone who works in finance. Which as someone who has worked loosely in finance, I don't think much i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:52 PM
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Does she have a vagina? Then don't be vulnerable with her. If you want to cry in front of a woman, might I suggest a prostitute? Or your mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:15 PM
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Join a private club, country club, cigar lounge, winery/storage... key is something exclusive and private. Memberships on the basic side range from $500 to $5k join fee and $50 to $200 a month. That's pretty typical for your basic places. Weeds out the I don't have a job people or people who can't figure out to spend a few bucks or they find no value in socializing with professionals. There are definitely much more exclusive and expensive places but you definitely don't need $70k fee to get into…
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:14 PM
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Wrong. I've always been good at business and I can say I've picked up many a girl from yelling out my car.... with the top down on my nice sports car. Sorry but money always helps and never hurts. Just because most guys when young are broke, try being the one that isnt... it sure helps when you can take a girl on a real date and have a nice apartment at age 18 and drive a nice car. Money never is everything or even most important but it's always an icing on the cake. Every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:59 PM
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considering that lying or at the very least concealing the truth is a red pill tactic No such thing. Red pill is devoid of tactics, value statements, strategy. It's a way of viewing facts. Watch the matrix if you're not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:37 PM
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"Go for" in terms of casual sex? Nah not so bad. "Go for" in terms of wife an experienced girl. Yes terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:35 PM
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Well from what I've seen women say, it seems to be a pretty common thing many women experience, usually more than once. So I'm not sure your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:47 PM
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It's a touch grass issue. Everyone knows women do not like getting pumped and dumped. I don't believe there is a study on it. But maybe meet some women who engage in hookup culture and it's pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:08 PM
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This very wrong. Women need HIGHER standards. Evidence? When you meet a woman with a body count of 20, she fucked 20 dudes and had low standards they all ditched her. The only women with high standards are women with a body count of zero or 1. The rest are rolling in the mud.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:25 PM
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So what I just said. Post isn't about them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:48 AM
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But it could be relevant to maybe 40% of men who have the potential. Sure 99% of them will waste the opportunity but it's there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:22 AM
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But post says... who self improve, hit the gym, focus on building their wealth and becoming established in life by 30 The average guy isn't this. This would be above average. If he's in great shape and rich, he's not average. So the man discussed in the post is the one young women would be most likely interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:48 AM
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Most women don't want the median man of any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:21 AM
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Younger women in their prime (18-22) do NOT want these older men. These men are not in any way shape or form attractive to the college aged women that they missed out on dating. I mean myself and my two closest guy friends are all dating 10+ year age gaps. So I'm not really sure if you actually get out and touch grass much. You're right in that older women are desperate but it's because they have to compete with younger women. In a closed eco system of 10 men and 10 women all the same age, the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:04 AM
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If you're a virgin, waiting means serious. If you're not a virgin, having sex soon means serious. You're conflating the two. What man wants to wait for something you already did? Like what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:02 PM
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I mean I could care less who dates older women. I just am not going to get serious with one. Like what's the point of being serious with an older woman? I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:38 PM
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Option B. But honestly it's not important either way. Option A would be acceptable as well if she meets my other requirements. The things addressed in the question are not very relevant to what I look for in a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:52 PM
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Whoops yes I misread. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:50 PM
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I mean I don't think this is an actual choice that could possibly exist. If true just on the body count factor, either option A is a ho, or option B is a prude born again Christian or something. Right? Like if it's 1 then B is a prude, if it's 20, A is a ho. So I don't think this is as apples to apples a comparison as you think it is. That being said, the primary focus of a serious long term relationship vs a casual one, is having children. Woman A has more fertility. None of the other factors a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:11 PM
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What are the results and conclusions of TRP? There are none. It's just simply not accepting what people tell you and think for yourself. Have you not watched the matrix? He can either live in fantasy or wake up to reality. Reality is results.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:10 AM
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TRP isn't an approach to dating. It's a way to view information. For example you could show me 10 studies about how to make money but if I personally tried something different and it works ill do that. Because I value my own experience and expertise above a contradicting expert. The reason being results. Results are king. If what I do has the best results it factually is the better option. TRP still doesn't conclude I continue doing it my way though. It's not a value judgement. Maybe I prefer to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:52 AM
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You're halfway there, try this: flirts a bit and comes on to her Now I don't wouldn't want you to think I'm hitting on you... pause I want you to know that I'm hitting on you.
/r/seduction26/05/24 09:02 PM
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TRP is not what you're saying it is. 🙃 Does nobody watch the matrix anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:47 PM
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Some do it in innocent convo. Just comes up. Some do it because they are alpha widdow and the dude is on their brain constantly. Some do it as a shit test to try and see how you react.
/r/seduction26/05/24 07:44 PM
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The currently accepted framework is that lesbians don't fuck men. So if they fucked a man, they are just confused bisexuals. Therefore, most self described lesbians will fuck men and vwahla it's a giant shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:36 PM
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So you’re hypothesizing that straight people abusing a straight person makes them gay. I'm not doing anything of the sort. OP said that and I was following up to clarify if they thought that this reverse situation would convert gay people straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:30 AM
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So conversion therapy works with the support of gays? Is that your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:23 AM
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So the same could be said in the reverse to make them straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:17 AM
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My big takeaway was: Obviously women who have experienced severe violence from male partners or family members are likely to become lesbians So if you can beat a woman gay, we have to assume you can beat a gay straight? So yes to conversion therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:12 AM
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Well in the absence of new evidence, we shall have to rely on the anecdotes. I can tell you it's not common for straight people to have gay sex, so why would it be common for lesbians to have straight sex? 🤔 Certainly it's common. Lesbianism is a shit test because 99% of lesbians would date a man who passed the shit test. Everyone knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:28 PM
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If they do they would be insanely rare since I've met many self identified lesbians and none of them ever only had sex with women. I trust women and they say they are lesbians, I have no reason to doubt them. So I believe the typical lesbian life experience includes sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:12 PM
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I've never met a woman who has only had sex with women. I've met self described lesbians who also have sex with men plenty of times. Brought a few home from a gay bar myself. So depends on your definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:02 PM
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Find me a lesbian who hasn't fucked a man and won't ever fuck a man and I'll give you 💰 lesbians are a shit test as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:15 AM
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I think most either encourage them to simp or to be a fuck boy. One or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:52 AM
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It's imaginary. Just go get a job? If you didn't meet a man, you would have a job. Nobody is entitled to live without getting a job. The fact you haven't worked is irrelevant. Last time I checked even dunces with no job experience are getting jobs in fast food and gas stations and such. So again. He doesn't want to so what you want with his money? Go get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:49 AM
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Really? Seems very important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:36 AM
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I don't feel anything. What does a woman's dreams and goals matter to the subject on hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:42 PM
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Doesn't matter. Why would a man marry a non virgin? I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:41 PM
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No misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:40 PM
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I personally find women who had premarital sex unmarriagable. Just because you sin and repent doesn't change anything. You can forgive the person who killed your father, yet not invite him to your family supper ever night. You can forgive a whore yet not marry her. I think it's ridiculous it's even a conversation. Imo short of very specific situations and very willing participants it's wrong wrong wrong for men to just generally accept not virgins for marriage. While the old testament is the old…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:08 PM
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Lesbian couples are more likely to engage in domestic violence and they are the ones doing it since it's a female female relationship, so obviously a female must be the one doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:38 PM
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I have. I usually just tell them point blank, that I think while virginity and waiting is awesome, in this case I find it laughable any man would do that and they can either reconsider or let's end it right here right now. The more abruptly you do this the better. Some girls think this is what men want and when you make it clear it's not what you want they will back off. Some girls do truly think this is the way to go and props to them but I'm not a beta cuck simp so I'll immediately excuse myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:36 PM
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It's only weird if you listen to what women say. If you ignore what they say and base everything on what they do, it all makes perfect sense and the world of dating is completely coherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:28 PM
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Right. I was caught up on what she said because all lesbians engage in heterosexual sex before they become lesbians. So which lesbians would be left if only pure female only experienced ones were left? None.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:24 PM
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That makes no sense. If you can "get" a lot of a certain type, by definition that's your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:55 PM
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Why would an above average man date a normal woman? He likely... and i certainly want an exceptional woman. An exceptional woman cannot be both exceptional and financially successful to a high degree. With extreme and ultra rare exceptions. Ie Ariana Grande or someone famous at an early age. Although I'd still argue they come with other issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:27 PM
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Not so. They likely are on the same level in terms of SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:23 PM
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The typical normal woman shaves regularly. So if that's the regular normal thing, not shaving is out of the ordinary. People notice. It's an especially political thing because feminists have associated women not shaving as a part of their movement. Purposely not appealing to men as much as possible. That's why people assume you might be making a political statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:22 PM
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I'm like fuck finally one dude on reddit who actually gets it. Ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:42 AM
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Yes mine is relatively similar actually. My ex used to follow their tik toks and suggest things from it or show me stuff all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 11:04 PM
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And so what is wrong with that? I never said that men do not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:57 PM
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Why would a man want an ugly old woman when they have lots of options? I don't think you understand men very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:41 PM
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Well if you're married how do you know she's not just with you for the money? I mean unless you're a broke dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:36 PM
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Idk what that's supposed to mean
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:35 PM
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He only gets women who truly want him. Since they don't get to put their fingers in the pie. So love and freedom. Best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:27 PM
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There is no such thing. Women this successful are low quality. Ie old, unattractive, divorced, have kids... So they aren't a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:24 PM
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It's about genuine connection and companionship. I mean most people who get married don't have this either. Lol. As evidenced by all the divorces, cheaper to keep hers, and dead bedrooms... all of those are fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:23 PM
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Well of course. Why would a man with many options choose someone likely extremely unattractive just because she has money? Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:21 PM
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Similar life. Agree 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:58 PM
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Go to a hearing. Yes. When weighting the decision to take the kid under their roof camping or go to a hearing for another child... it's an easy call.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:17 PM
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Height doesn't matter when you're laying in bed. Honestly short dudes with a tall girl everyone always going to assume you're way richer and have a huge dick. You boss bro.
/r/seduction23/05/24 04:54 PM
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You can go to court and try... My point exactly. If I have a career and kids under my own roof, how much time do you think a man has to spend simply trying to enforce... homework needs to get done before play time? As one example. Technically you're right, in practice realistically you're wrong. But if you think you can spend say 5 hours trying to prepare for, wait for, be in court... only to have to do it multiple more times for the same issue... I think the man must be 80 years old and retired…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:37 PM
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Less. It's not usually equal. Nor do court's generally give men primary custody. So he still usually has to pay, even if it's less. But I'm just saying from a man's perspective, the more I feel shafted financially the less I'm inclined to do anything else with the woman or the child. Imo if the woman is even as far as very irresponsible it makes the most sense to disown the child and just try again with another woman or not at all. It's more about sometimes money is a bad thing. Ie I'm pretty we…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:21 PM
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Are you not aware men have much higher levels of testosterone than women? And it causes many physical differences in development? I'm not here to teach 3rd grade, I'd assumed everyone who is a human knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:47 PM
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I mean logically it doesn't seem possible. Make a man angry and upset and he is just as likely to come around as when he's not angry and upset. This is what you're saying right? This is like human behavior 101. Everyone knows that cannot possibly be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:41 PM
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The few percent different is a huge difference. Such as one carries a child and one sprays and prays. Lol. That actually makes a big difference. Forget there is also a thing called testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:39 PM
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I agree. But it actually creates an incentive to only have one parent involved. It also creates an incentive for abuse situations. I think in general children would be far better off without child support. In theory a woman could be homeless without child support. But if that's true, is she really a fit parent? She would then be on welfare and other assistance in general kid or not. Child support creates resentment and gives one parent a stick to hit the other one with. Certainly not a good way …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:31 PM
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You could also say that men, by not paying child support, punish the child (who is the only one blameless) for his choices in life (having unprotected sex). I agree and disagree. I agree in the fact the child's needs are of top consideration. I disagree in simply throwing money at a single mom (it doesn't necessarily contribute anything to a child if the mom doesn't want it to), either rewards or punishes the child. Parental involvement I believe is more important to a child and increased involv…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:18 PM
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Women in general tend not to understand generalizations. Possibly due to smaller brain size? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8726594/#bibr33-0956797621996664
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:10 PM
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Show me the statistics Women initiate 70% of divorces. Well known stat. Don't tie your life to an unsuccessful person? Easy solution Agree. I'm top 1% wealthy man. There is essentially no such thing as the same woman who is also going to be a suitable match. Thus marriage is not for rich men. That's why I say it's for broke men. It's certainly not a good fit for me. Where am I going to find say a 25 year old woman worth 10 million plus? 🤣 who then I also happen to like and get along with. This c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:39 AM
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Someone should not get married to a person they think is a gold digger or if they are unable to trust their future spouse. Well statistically if 70% of divorces are initiated by women, you would have to be a moron to trust your wife with the ability to take a chunk of your finances. Statistically when women can take a man's house, they do. if someone chooses to marry a person, then they are agreeing to tie their financial future and goals with that person, and therefore they are both entitled to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:19 AM
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The prenups that get thrown out are like back of the napkin “I keep everything earned after we get married and the stay at home parent gets nothing” type things that obviously are one sided The whole point of the prenup is to be one sided. It's to protect from a gold digger or other kinds of abuse of the marriage contract. What's the point of a prenup if she can just cheat on me and leave and I have to pay her $1mm instead of $5mm? She shouldn't be entitled to anything. Yet you're not allowed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:32 AM
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Yes. Attraction is more complex than physical looks, money, confidence etc. It's a numbers game and if you can't take rejection you cannot win. Period. Even a "perfect" man will face rejection. Whether you have a 50% success rate or a 1% success rate... both men are dating and getting laid and having relationships assuming both talk to significant numbers of women. The dude with 50% won't get any play if he doesn't talk to anyone. The dude with 1% will fuck 100 women if he talks to 500 a year fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:09 PM
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Pre-marital assets generally are considered to belong to you and are protected in a divorce. You can also get a prenup specifying exactly what belongs to who, you just both need to have legal advice when doing so. I mean this sounds good. It's not as straightforward as this unfortunately. For example they come out with prenups... now they throw out lots of prenups, especially when one person is very wealthy and the other is not. And not wanting to risk ending up on the street just because she st…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:39 AM
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Essentially all that do are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:35 AM
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Yeah, if a woman had the impetus to change the world she would just do it. You don't see men whine about a glass ceiling. Men just start new companies or make big moves. Women just whine about their boss who didn't give them a promotion yet won't do anything about it. Women are just very passive about life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:30 AM
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Many women are having kids out of wedlock these days. And marriage specifically allows a woman to take your house. If the man already has lots of assets, she's just being a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:26 AM
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Choosing the bear is a shit test you and all the literalist bozos failed miserably. Smh. Try and relax and smile. Jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:15 PM
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I'm a man approaching 40 and I get confused for 25 all the time. I think women are more likely to be confused for being 18 when they're up to 30. But no 50-year-old woman will be confused for 30. But for men, that is a possibility. Men have much better and stronger skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:02 PM
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It's salty men and salty women who say this. Men who wish they could and women who wish they were the young top of their game ones. That's all. I generally don't socialize or give a rats ass about simps and ugly old ladies with bad personalities so 🤷 what do I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:00 PM
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I mean at first they might just bring it up. But what is there to say? I already know what I'm willing or not willing to do. They can't change my mind. I make a lot of money. I'm not willing to get legally married. Period point blank. Unless they can match my wealth, marriage is 100% off the table. It's not an attainable goal and thus it's not happening. So they can talk about it all they like but it was like this before they met me and it's still like this now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:58 PM
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I regularly date younger women. For every 20 year old I can date I could get at least 3x as many 30 year olds if not more
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:51 PM
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It's usually an ultimatum presented to me and I don't like that especially when it's way out of my gfs lane so I dump them. Usually I say I'm not getting married. Or if I don't see kids in the future with a particular woman. They then agree that's fine. And then years later they demand it, and I just dump them. Because I mean they weren't marriage material or mom material from the jump so better to kick them to the curb for not staying in their lane. If I just call them on the bluff it's 50/50 i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:01 PM
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Wrong groups. More women lose their V than play lotto.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:09 PM
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Most women, even those "selling it" are getting little to nothing for it. Not millions. Yes its happened. But there are more lotto winners in the world who won 1mm than women who sold their V for 1mm. No doubt about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:59 PM
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Either they are property and their Dad or someone throws it away or they are individual persons on their own who throw it away. Someone is responsible for that decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:39 PM
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The most valuable thing a woman has to offer that sets her apart from everyone else to secure a husband... and most women just throw it away. Smh. This is sick. Why would a girl sell it for even thousands of dollars versus use it to share a special lifelong bond with a husband? Crazy. Sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:51 AM
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I am against all working women. I'd never date a woman with a job. Of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:21 AM
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Stupid idea. This is for poor men who are simping. Will not work. Basically just real life only fans. Pay a girl for a date who will then turn around and spend that money to take her actual boyfriend out on a date. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:48 PM
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None of your assumptions (of which there are many) appear to be valid from my lived experiences. That's why none of this males sense to you. "Alphas" dying alone from drugs in a brothel in Thiland at 56... this is nothing I've seen or heard of. To me this is what an angst beta would do who doesnt even have the beta bux. In my experience alphas don't even use brothels so... just the whole thing makes no sense to me what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:42 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:13 AM
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The fact you only think ugly people use reddit means clearly you must not be the exception. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:12 AM
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There are lots of high earning single men. If you want to date one you can. Women who get higher educations and work at careers set up their life assuming they will be with a poor man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:33 AM
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Pretty accurate right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:27 AM
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Why not? Sometimes I'm bored, like when I'm taking a shit or when my gf is sleeping or stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:26 AM
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Yeah she's not attractive at all. Well below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:25 AM
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You have no tastes then. Pearl is below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:18 AM
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I'm both. I've never dated below a 7 ever. Usually 9s on average. I find pearl to be like a 3.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:25 AM
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Are you a big bodied woman with a plain face? You seem personally offended most men don't find her attractive. My ex was a beauty pageant winner. My other ex is a working professional model. My current gf is short and petite with model feature face. Pearl imo is not attractive enough for me to personally be into because I can do wayyyyy better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:24 AM
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Um no she's pretty beastly. I think most men agree and thus post said opinion on the internet every place pearls looks are talked about. She even says she knows she's not hot or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:09 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:04 AM
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She's definitely below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:03 AM
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I personally only date women just like this. Always have always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:03 AM
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She's definitely below average. That's a deal breaker no matter how much RP she may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:02 AM
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Some men want one thing, while some men want the other. Generally it breaks down into two main categories: Men who want career women... tend to either have lower incomes and need a woman to pay her own way OR they want the ultimate DINK lifestyle ie two doctors no kids. Men who want traditional style women... either tend to have higher earnings or be more family focused. Ie just have one used car but feel fulfilled from the traditional lifestyle. So depending on the kind of man you want depends …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:06 PM
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Thats what I'm saying? Of course I have lots of interests... what normal person doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:14 PM
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Why would we do everything apart? Is that what people do all day? Binge watch one or Two TV shows all day and blast one genre of music nonstop?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:43 PM
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I agree. And I get this alot with age gap dating... "surely you have nothing in common" ... like umm we don't watch the same TV shows and listen to the same music? facepalm yeah because that's the most important thing in life of course. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:20 PM
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29 dated 19 32 dated 23 34 dated 18 Those are the more longer term relationships with age gap. I'm also sleeping around sometimes and the girls I'm hooking up with are 18 to 25 primarily. Although I make exceptions for very hot or fun women of other ages. I'm 37 now. But when a girl hits me up who is more my age I just don't feel a burning desire to make any effort tbh. But when a 20 year old hits me up I actually am like let's go out and I'm excited and optimistic. So that's just the filter if …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:46 PM
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This is actually a great comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:55 AM
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I mean I think you can fall in love without sex but from the outside it doesn't appear any different than a close friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:53 PM
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I get what she's saying 💯. Sex is the primary thing that makes it a romantic relationship vs just a friendship or roommate... and I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:14 PM
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Never met one who wasn't. If girls I've met don't care, why should I care what some redditor thinks? Just saying my lived experience says women don't care much about that. So that's what I base it off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:12 PM
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because of financial reasons My point exactly. If a man can't even keep a roof over his head he should be working more not wasting time dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:11 PM
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And none of the options were the man being poor Op said: lives with his parents. Hmm yeah all the successful men live with their parents smh. No. Dude is a loser. And should be undateable by any sane woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:28 PM
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Two of them actually were fine with men who didn't earn as much. Of the other three two said the man was essentially a total loser incompetent doesn't even make enough money to take care of himself. So is that what you think is important? Choosing the biggest loser possible so you can pretend you're great in comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:50 PM
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I agree. I have never seen an example marriage that I actually was like "thats what I want" Either they divorce or appear completely unhappy. So what am I supposed to be wanting? Both are shit. I think at least from the man perspective the ideal is be single and just move through semi long term relationships. Have kids at some point but don't bother with marriage and assume you will be doing the separated parents thing at some point one way or another and that's that. Seems way happier too. Sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:38 AM
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They want a woman who is not "tainted" (low bodycount.) .... The women who ride the cock-carousel and now ready to settle down... ...These losers are then waiting to in line to marry her. Your process doesn't follow. Tradcons wouldn't marry a cock carousel woman. You even say such a thing. You're talking about cucks. Cucks gonna cuck. You're not presenting anything new.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:30 AM
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You mean because I said that the man who made less was also suitable? Maybe you misread what I wrote. It's ok to get confused sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:27 AM
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