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The 16-28 age group is a tough one for most men. You’re still maturing, growing and becoming the best version of yourself. You should be steadily working to become better. Don’t let a little discontentment get you completely discouraged…let it be motivational. Men 100+ yrs ago didn’t settle down until they were very established (financially, spiritually) and mature—do you consider yourself to be established and mature?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:00 PM
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The 16-28 age group is a tough one for most men. You’re still maturing, growing and becoming the best version of yourself. You should be steadily working to become better. Don’t let a little discontent get you completely discouraged…let it be motivational. Men 100+ yrs ago didn’t settle down until they were very established and mature—do you consider yourself to be established and mature?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:43 PM
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It sounds like she may already have a boyfriend. I’ve had girls like this before. They just strictly want sex and a good time.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 07:27 PM
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You’d probably have much more success with women once you quit caring about what they (or anyone) thinks of you.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 03:33 AM
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I used to accidentally call girls different names. It used to drive them mad whenever I slipped up & did this. I’ve even had girls hit me when it happened. I can tell you why it happened in my case and why it possibly happened to you. I would spend a lot of time with my girlfriend, then for like a day or so I’d be with another girl and I was so used to saying my gf’s name that I’d blurt it out without effort or thinking about her. So this chick is probably just used to saying her main squeeze’s …
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:43 PM
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Yes, I was once in the same boat as you. Approaching 30, had a very stable life (owned home, car, truck, 401k..etc.) by the time I was 25. I didn’t drink or do anything else so I didn’t do the party scene either. I had a few hobbies but nothing really serious. I had it all seemingly together but in the still of the night, I would wake up and have these deep thoughts—almost visions, about life. Deep down I had a gaping hole inside of me. All of life’s joys could distract me for a moment but I sti…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:46 PM
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Has there ever been a woman who had actually lived in a traditional gender role, then abandoned it for a non-traditional gender role? Like are there any women who were once a stay at home mother who ruled her castle (took care of all things domestic) while her husband supported her & the children but gave it up to go work a corporate job and split the bills 50/50 with this husband? I don’t know of too many. I thinks it’s hard to ask people this question because very few have the experience neede…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 07:48 PM
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Sounds like whatever you tweaked about yourself, your personality after swallowing the red pill isn’t working very well. Think about it. Time to re-evaluate. On your current relationship. Yes, if I were you, I would emotionally detach myself from her in order to prepare for when she officially makes it known that she’s banging this other guy. I would continue inserting using her for sex and begin thinking about greener pastures. Don’t be butthurt about it...especially to her face. Act as if it’s…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 03:10 PM
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Don’t hurt yourself, brother. It may not seem like it now...but this trial will only make you better going forward. What matters most, is how you respond when tested. We don’t think of it this way (because we’re too consumed with societal codes) but we should be thankful for hardships that don’t involve either us or our loved ones being killed. It’s not too often that we meet a true challenge in life. (When I say challenge, I mean like when you go up against something that truly test the fibers …
/r/askTRP09/09/19 08:36 PM
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Or maybe choose better mates to have children with??
/r/askTRP03/08/19 01:38 PM
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Hell no, don’t leave this woman—who is your child’s mother over her FB search history!! WTH is wrong with you, man? I have FB and I’m married. Do you think I haven’t searched my ex’s profile out? It’s a pretty common curiosity. I think you need to address your insecurities, bro. If you were owning your own shit, you wouldn’t be sweating whether or not to next your baby mama over her FB search history. My advice to you would be to work on yourself....and I promise, all the rest will fall into pla…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:54 PM
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Take some time to go in monk mode & work solely on yourself....not scoring another piece, not fixing a relationship. Be a bit selfish with your time & energy for a change. You fix yourself—you’re current problems will be reduced greatly as a side effect.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 01:14 PM
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I second anything by Hemingway. The man came up in a time when most men and women were still naturally redpilled. So his writings exude that.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:58 PM
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I definitely disagree about men being better off without marriage...at least up until a certain age. I think once a man hits 45-55 years old, the sex drive isn’t what it once was, so there’s not much of a sexual benefit anymore in the equation. You mentioned endgame and how the red pill really doesn’t have one...and I disagree. Red pill, at least to me, is about staying true to your real true masculine self. So for me, I feel my end game is to raise a good, strong family. That’s a challenge in t…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 05:43 PM
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I’m not in a situation similar to yours. I have a good friend who is though. You spoke about your married friends who speak poorly of marriage. I’ve been married twice. I’m married to the mother of my two children. Even in my first marriage, which obviously ended in divorce, a quite nasty one I might add, I still look back to this day and say it was a good decision. My first wife added a lot of benefits and value to my life. Marriage isn’t some Disney romance story. It’s a partnership. She can b…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 02:11 AM
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Ok, I’ll check it out. I haven’t heard of this film until just now. Looks like it has a good cast though.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 12:14 PM
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Please elaborate.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 03:49 AM
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Take it from a man who’s happily married with two kids....I was once in this same phase. You’ll eventually get past this phase of anger and will move into the acceptance phase. Once you have truly accepted these truths, you will develop a new set of rules for women and life in general. You will now be ready to thrive and dominate within these new rules. Congratulations on knowing and understanding something that probably the majority of men will never have the opportunity to. Instead, these men …
/r/askTRP05/07/19 03:42 AM
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Good advice. Oh and the visuals on this advice is great. Thanks for taking the time to pass this along to us.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 04:17 PM
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Well, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with communicating with her. I wouldn’t ghost her yet. Don’t over communicate though, that’s the woman’s job. Don’t send 2-3 texts to her 1, you know. Don’t instantly reply like you’ve been sitting waiting on her message. Take a missed call, you know, add a little mystery and allow her mind wander.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 11:19 PM
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I know it’s tough out there for a younger fella. Women basically start out at the top of their SMV and men have to climb and literally earn their peak SMV. The sooner a young man can learn and accept this, the better off he will be. About this girl, it’s possible that she likes you...but I think there’s more important stuff to notice here. For example, do you see how she said that the gym was more important than seeing you? She said she’d rather rest & relax (take care of herself) than see you? …
/r/askTRP01/07/19 11:06 PM
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Damn, she literally said stop trying so hard?? Oh shit, that’s harsh af! And if she was this blunt with you...it must mean that she’s not very interested in you. She already is considering you as an orbiter. You give her a ride, you keep her company but only when she feels like it, y’all can text but only when she has time, she’s already telling you how to behave around her (to chill). Pretty soon she’ll have you going out to pick her up for a ride home after some Chad just raw dogged her buttho…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 10:24 PM
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Let this serve as an example to all current and future fathers alike. This is why your family (wife & kids especially) needs you to be the strong and steady rock that they cling to.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:44 PM
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I’d say you weren’t much of a man during your children’s upbringing. I’m sure you’re even willing to admit this now. Being what it is, that’s the past, no sense in dwelling on that anymore. Just forgive yourself and sincerely ask your family to forgive you for failing to be the man that they needed you to be. Most of the pain you and your family are feeling is a direct result of your decisions and behaviors. That’s painful to hear and even more painful to admit to yourself. You need to make amen…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:24 PM
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Wow. There’s a lot to unpack in this post. On one hand, I’m envious of you and on the other, I feel pretty bad for you. First thing that ran through my head when I started reading this was that you allowed your family to live in a totally separate city and to me...that’s a HUGE NO-NO. You see, now you are having to resort to (or at least attempting to) strong arming your wife. This is another no-no in my book and is a very last ditch effort. (I could explain why, in my experience, this is not a …
/r/askMRP27/06/19 10:41 PM
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Are you jealous because people are getting laid and you aren’t? -OR- Are you jealous that people (in this case, women) are giving it out so easily? Reading your post, I couldn’t quite tell exactly what you’re feeling jealous about.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 09:06 PM
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Man, don’t you hate it when a younger guy is settling in life just because he probably wasn’t brought up in pro-masculine environment. I see it way too often. I have this burden to try to help these young fellas out. As a man, I guess I just see it as my responsibility. Many of them start to straighten up with a little masculine wisdom and direction.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:07 PM
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Rejecting a woman will make her your mortal enemy. She will hate you for the rest of her existence. I say, if she’s attractive enough to get it up (and c’mon, that don’t take much), then go ahead and give it a try. I think it ends worse if you reject her.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 06:47 PM
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If I had a dime for every chick that told me she’s rode the CC, I’d have about....nothing. They all act innocent and angelic because they know you’ll eat that up like Nikki Minaj’s booty. See, it works!
/r/askTRP19/06/19 02:04 AM
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Sounds like she’s got you right where she wants you.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 02:02 AM
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Well, I’d say it would all depend on what my intentions were with her. If I wanted to LTR her, I would have to stand up for myself and let her know in a calm but serious and stern manner that this type of behavior won’t fly with me. I’m letting her know that a man of value will drop her quicker than a sack of bricks if she’s not being an asset for me. A lot of guys act like this type of stuff doesn’t bother them....that or they instantly react and they’re way too emotional about it. Most women h…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:30 PM
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Sounds like you need to get as many people as you can (parents, past teachers, advisors and other upstanding people who can vouch for you), and have them email, call and stop by to speak with the teacher and the dean about this issue. Remember, you pay their salaries (indirectly) and you demand to be treated fairly. I have found that people are not willing to do what you want when you are taking them on solo. Get more people to back you up or they’ll never see things your way.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:03 PM
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Well, it’s likely that she wanted you to see those text messages. Been with many women who were cheating on their boyfriends or fiancés. Never did they unwillingly get caught. Some spent so much time & energy on me, I couldn’t believe they weren’t getting caught. One girl would spend weekends with me at a hotel out of town so we could go out without her fiancé (or his friends/family) seeing us. I was always asking her “Has he asked you what’s going on?” but never once did he inquire into her per…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 04:08 PM
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If she’s just a plate....then why are you even sweating her loyalty?? You just got what you want from a plate (NSA sex, right?) and I would be more than happy with that. Now, if she was your main squeeze....this would be some major disrespect that deserves to be reconciled. But that’s a big “what if” because she’s not your main squeeze, right? Side note: I once (or at least I noticed it once) had a girl do this. And I was pretty sure she was talking to another guy. Anyways, we get in my car to g…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 12:57 PM
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Work on yourself & stop worrying about your woman. If you do this, things always work themselves out. Besides, even if you tried, you can’t change her or anyone else.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 06:02 PM
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It depends on what you want—after all that’s what really matters here. Do you want her to be your gf? Or just a plate or fwb? If you wanted her to be your gf, like a LTR, you should have asserted yourself whenever she was going out with another guy. You know, like say “my girlfriend doesn’t go out with other guys”. Instead, ( & I’m guessing here) you bit your tongue and went against what you truly felt. And now it looks like she’s off to making you jealous for declining her offer. Or is this jus…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 11:34 PM
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Busy reading DC comics? Single. Parents Basement. No experience. Next.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:32 AM
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I agree. Most definitely!!
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:56 AM
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HurricaneHugues, just of of curiosity—are you single (not married) & without children?
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:54 AM
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For starters, in both of your replies you state that I either alluded to or said directly that it is his job to fix this wife of his. Never would I have said or inferred this. No need in waisting time talking about it. So back to the response, I can see both sides of the coin as a legitimate solution to his problem. However, I think you’re reading too much between the lines. This guy had time to vet this chick enough to know that there were red flags. I also don’t believe as you seem to think th…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:50 AM
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The woman is not his problem, she is merely a symptom of his problem. He has been letting people walk over him for some time now. He needs to focus on bettering himself and stop worrying about fixing her. It’s like cleaning up the blood from a cut on the skin. The blood dripping is causing you a problem. It’s getting everywhere, on your clothes, on furniture and people are looking at you crazy. The solution isn’t to quickly address the blood but to address the actual wound itself. The woman will…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 11:40 PM
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Spot on, brother. I did hard labor at first as well. It’s a part of who I am today. The friendships, the stories. The ruggedness. Never underestimate what calloused hands can do for your sex life.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 08:38 PM
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I completely agree with this response. Also, it’s not a great look saying that manual labor is beneath you. I get that you think you’ve put 8 years of your life into schooling and you would like to put that education to use....but in the real world, hard work gets you places. If you work hard, you’ll always be taken care of.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 06:09 PM
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Ok, let me just start off by saying that you’re going to get a lot of posts saying “drop her” or “next her” or something to that effect. I have noticed that many men on this sub cannot deal with their problems so their first instinct is to run. I propose to you a little different idea. Women, just like yourself, have also been incorrectly primed by society to be a horrible spouse. But as a man, you can fix your problems if you so have the desire and willpower. Women are like mirrors and can help…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 12:52 PM
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If it’s any consolation, a young Benjamin Franklin swore off his at the time girlfriend when he went to Europe. He thought the idea of a LDR wasn’t ideal for either of them so he broke it off. He later went on to marry this gal and they go on to have a family together. It’s funny how things work themselves out. I guess what I’m saying is....what you’re doing is the right move, even Ben Franklin would agree.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 03:37 PM
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The quick answer....start taking better care of yourself, both physically and mentally, and this other will usually work itself out.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 01:51 PM
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Women push you regardless if you even realize it. If you’re a great leader, they will want to push you in a positive manner such as being helpful. You’re lost in schematics and theories you’ve read on the internet. Do some living to test these theories, brother. Fact is that if you have a woman who upkeeps her domestic (& other feminine) duties...then my friend, I’d say she has a man that is leading her. You think it’d be better if I was making her breakfast? Come on, let’s not be silly.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 02:58 AM
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Well, I’ll tell you...I used to never read the Bible. As I have matured and grown older, I find myself yearning for it’s wisdom. It helps me stay steady in an ever shifting world. I’m actually reading the book of Daniel right now. I’d like to read the entire Bible eventually. There’s something really perplexing about the Bible. You can read a chapter or verse and derive an entirely different, but still a very valid interpretation of what others understand the verse to mean. And as you read, more…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 10:50 PM
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I think this will hold true for most case. Of course, there will be outliers.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 03:23 PM
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I have always said this—Women push men. A good woman who lovingly cares, provides and sacrifices for her man (who does the same for her) will push him to become the best version of himself. Now take that same man, but give him a woman that becomes contentious, unfaithful and self-serving and it will make him a shell of the man he could and should be. I’ll give you a real life example. My wife likes to wake up every morning before I do and make my breakfast and coffee. I get ready and then I come…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:33 PM
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This is true. Good point. I initially thought of depression as well.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 07:08 PM
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Here’s what I find odd—if you’re not interested in having sex....then why are you here asking us why you can’t have sex? I would have loved to have been 21 yrs old and had little to no desire to have sex. I could have accomplished so much other things that actually would have mattered in life. If this is, in fact, the truth...then you have been gifted a superpower that will give you an edge over 99% of other 15-30 yr old males (& probably females too).
/r/askTRP24/05/19 07:00 PM
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I would say for a 20 year old....you seem fairly mature. Let’s see-you’re disciplined enough to manage going to school while maintaining a job. You’re disciplined enough to manage your physique...you must be hitting the gym & watching your diet. You can see that most people fixate themselves upon goals that bring them mostly only short term pleasure. I think you’ve got a pretty good head on your shoulders. I know you’re young and sex seems pretty high up on the list priorities right now BUT I ca…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:59 PM
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Stop masturbating. Sounds too good to be true, huh? Every time you release that load — you lose out on natural hormones that give you a drive to accomplish things in life.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 12:17 AM
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I’ve been in this same situation - should I date during my divorce proceedings. I also single handedly screwed by marriage up by cheating multiple times over the years. I highly recommend not cheating on your spouse—most likely, it will make you lose feelings towards you wife & eventually you’ll lose attraction & fall out of love with her if you do. Now back to the dating question. It all depends on what you’re looking for. Are you looking for sex or are you looking for a potential LTR where you…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:32 PM
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Make sure she keeps reporting back to you whenever he messages her again. Don’t seem like you’re overly worried about it. Give her the chance to bring it up to you instead of you hounding her about it. Also, you said that it’s made things awkward at the gym. I don’t see why...if anything, y’all should be making this dude feel awkward. Guys have hit on my ol lady in front of me from time to time. The key is to not be too threatened by it...perhaps crack a joke (preferably at the other mans expens…
/r/askTRP27/04/19 07:46 PM
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You let the finest piece of ass you’ve ever had go over something that was in her past? Just curious what was so bad that made you drop her just like that?
/r/askTRP13/04/19 04:50 PM
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Oh I got you. Not sure if you’ve replied already but I’m that situation I’d probably say something along these lines “Yea babe, come on by”, assuming you want her to come by. Just keep it short & simple. Sounds like your dread worked & now she’s horny for your love sauce.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:27 PM
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Yeah man...you need to work on your dread game. Dread is especially needed in a LTR to help keep her emotionally roller coaster running. Sounds like you gave her a little bit of dread by not texting or calling her when she expected it. Sounds like you might have sort of lost your cool a little bit (lost frame, possibly) & she’s trying to make you eat that mistake (another shit test). I think you just need to game her a little more...just to keep her a little excited & to keep things fresh for y’…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:18 PM
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I’m sure you may already listen to Roosh V - but I highly recommend the episode “The Serenity of Stoicism” by Roosh. I listen to it every few weeks/months just because it’s full of good wisdom.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:06 PM
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She’s telling you what she thinks you want to hear. Typical female behavior, honestly. It’s in the same boat as “that’s the biggest dick I’ve ever had” or the infamous “you’re the first to ever make me cum during sex”. I personally cannot remember a girl that didn’t tell me these things. It’s kind of women’s way of complementing you...even if it’s not entirely true. Bottom line-I take it that she really likes you.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:59 PM
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Not all women under 35 have tattoos. I always had a soft next rule for chicks with tattoos. I screwed around with several girls that had tattoos...in fact, some of the best sex I can vividly remember was with a chick who had a tatted up back. But when it comes to relationships, I don’t have tattoos & my woman won’t have any tattoos either.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:53 PM
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👆🏾👆🏾Money. The best thing about having men as friends—they won’t sugarcoat reality to make you feel momentarily better. Instead they give you the harsh reality, in hopes that it will have a long term positive effect.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:53 PM
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This is it. Times have changed. A woman this age would be considered prime birthing age 100+ years ago. When you have children with a man, who’s going to take care of you & your offspring better than the father of your children? So women back in the day knew this & made it work. It’s like a question I heard Roosh answer a while back. Someone asked “Are women disloyal” and his answer was basically was that you take a woman who lives out in a cabin located in the desolate woods with her husband & …
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:48 PM
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Yeah. Least she had the decency to let you know she was breaking up with you. A lot of women would just wait until you walked in on her having sex with another guy.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:35 PM
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Yeah. And also, I couldn’t blame him for getting upset about it & showing some raw emotion, if that’s what he did. I mean, it’d be expected.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:33 PM
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Ok, I know you’re getting a ton of replies so I’ll try to make mine short & direct. My first thought as I read this was that she got bored. You look good on paper but women, especially young women, care about the tingles you give them. You said she rarely shit tested you. This leans towards confirming her boredom. Women like feeling the highs & lows, like a roller coaster, of the emotional spectrum. Also, try to take some time to properly get over this girl. Process what has happened, learn to a…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:12 PM
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Oh yeah, I pulled out most of the time too. On a second look, I see I should have added that. She has to be fresh off her period or about to start it in order to not pull out. Yea, I know that tRP guys would be scared to try it. But really, if you’re a quality man, it’s likely that your gf or wife is to.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 11:52 PM
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That’s true. From my experience, I usually didn’t have unprotected sex with women that I didn’t think could be my future wife. If it was a ONS, I always strapped up. I have two children as well but I am married...& thankfully she’s a good woman & a great mother.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:57 AM
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I would agree but wouldn’t you RATHER have the condomless sex though?
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:25 AM
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Easy. Condomless sex. Even better if she’s not on the pill. Get a girl that is in tune with her body & knows her cycle well. One of my first gfs was this way. She knew exactly when she was fertile (it’s extra creamy during that period so you’ll know to) & would tell me to be extremely careful or sometimes I even wore a condom. After her I’ve had to help other girls get in tune with their bodies so we could have the best natural sex as humanly possible. This method works. You’re woman will love i…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:24 AM
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Probably lower than that....but I think that’s the lesson here.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 04:53 AM
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Mind blowing stuff here. There must be more back story here that we’re all missing.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 04:47 AM
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Harsh truth
/r/askTRP09/03/19 07:32 PM
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I agree with your father. I had my first at 28, second at 30. I wish I would have started a little earlier. I also think babies are healthier from younger women. And so I think that is what matters the most...the woman’s age. I’d say cut a woman off at 35-36. It gets risky after that age, just look at the stats.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:44 PM
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That’s kind of what I’m thinking. It could actually be a win/win for him. Think about it. He probably gets the hottest chick he’s ever bagged - a win. Also, once she divorce rapes him, he’ll get a red pill but instead of the pill form...it will come in the form of a suppository. So he’ll get red-pilled in the process. Another win. So I say go for it!
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:31 PM
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I wouldn’t worry too much about how many penises have penetrated her. It’s really not worth your time & sanity. Besides, unless a girl really wanted to hurt your feelings...she’s not going to tell you the real number anyways. The best thing you can do, is find a woman that adds value (cooks, cleans, nurtures) to your life, so that you can invest in her and add your value to her life as well. Worrying about the exact n-count is like stressing that you may not measure up...& to me, that’s a lot li…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:22 PM
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She actually does sound like a thot that wants to you to believe she is a “good girl”. She’s interested in you, bro. But quit hounding her for her time...keep playing it cool & let her come to you.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:00 PM
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Be on the lookout now. You’ve just pissed off a guy that has nothing to live for. I predict he’ll take a shot at your life within 2-6 weeks. If I were you, I’d go to the police and request to be admitted into the federal witness program so you can assume a new identity and start over in life. Your life isn’t over yet. Do this while you still can.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:44 PM
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I don’t think you’re too far gone, brother. In fact, I think you’re in a great position. I sometimes wish that I would have stayed single until I was around my mid-30s. Then found me a younger woman, 18-24, and help make her the best woman she could be-for herself, & for me. It sounds like you were exposed to a toxic version of what a relationship is. One of my biggest strengths is learning from others’ mistakes. Use what you saw in your childhood as a primer on what you do not want to experienc…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 10:18 PM
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You talk about how the old you couldn’t have the caliber of women that you can now attract. What you need to remember is that the old you was a loser. The good thing about life is that you are not the man you used to be. You have matured, increased your personal value as well as your SMP value. Another thing. Worrying about women’s N-count after a certain age is kind of pointless. Would it be nice to find a woman who is a virgin or only been with one guy...sure. But it’s not reality. There’s not…
/r/askTRP27/02/19 10:21 PM
10

Women in their late 20’s are going to have baggage. If they were such a great catch, they would have been snatched up already.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:18 PM
3

Be thankful that you got a look behind the curtains...without her knowing you did so. Now you have insider knowledge and are in a better position than before. It’s amazing how fast a young man can wisen up if you add a little sobering heartache to the situation. It’s how most guys become men. Any pain you’ve felt, is just growth. The biggest thing is now you are acutely aware of how this woman is playing you & her boyfriend. She’s completely oblivious to it. Use it to your advantage. Be thankful…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 08:28 PM
1

All in all, it’s probably a good move dropping her from your plans but...you don’t want for it to get in the way of your plans. Like I’m sure you had plans to stay up railing her all night long on this trip. I hate to see you lose out on that.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 01:08 AM
0

I think you were a little hard on her. But it’s hard to know the dynamics of y’alls relationship. But what I can tell you— I also can almost guarantee that more happened than what she let on. Women do this, man. They tell you something that could be interpreted as somewhat innocent but they know that it was wrong. Like they may tell you that they danced with a guy for 2 minutes but immediately left because she felt uncomfortable and because she loves you. She tells you this for 2 reasons. #1: to…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 01:06 AM
3

Relax bud, it’s a joke
/r/askTRP15/02/19 10:45 PM
1

I think you could have handled it much better. With that being said, the way you handled could still easily workout in your favor if you continue playing your cards right. We could talk about how you could have handled it but the main thing is how you handled yourself going forward. You just let this woman know that you have standards, you expect your woman to uphold these standards or there will be repercussions. If you keep voicing what you want from your woman, if she is really into you, she’…
/r/askTRP15/02/19 09:08 PM
9

Red Dead Redemption II on Xbox One.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 09:00 PM
1

So that must mean you’re what 12...13?
/r/askTRP15/02/19 05:17 AM
5

I was living in Germantown, TN right out of Memphis. Married 6 years. Together for 7+ years. No kids. I’d say a lawyer is worth it unless she is willing to negotiate with you directly & in a fair manner as well. My ex-wife wasn’t. One thing to note here is that I screwed myself in court. We had to each fill out a financial disclosure for the court. My ex wife filled out hers the last minute, in front of the judge. She left off her 401k & other valuable assets. I, on the other hand, was completel…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 08:38 PM
9

Financially, how do you see yourself coming out of this? Is it a no fault or are y’all taking it through the court system? I am always interested in seeing how current & future assets get split in marriages without children. In my case, I had to pay her half equity in my home that I owned before her. I also had to split my 401k & make alimony payments for 2 years. She was broke when I met her. I helped put her through 6 years of school. I used a little raw over the whole deal but I now view it a…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 07:35 PM
5

Try to stay away from tattoos. I used to think I wanted one when I was a teenager but I could never decide on what to get. I go to the gym 5-6 days a week & I’ve noticed that most of the guys in there have some form of a tattoo. How would tattoos increase your SMV when everyone has them? Check out Athlean X on YouTube. Example of a clean cut guy-who I believe is a rarity these days.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:39 PM
3

I have a buddy who is a total nerd & he never gets laid. I hang out with him sometimes & we’ll go grab a bite to eat. I’m always trying to hook him up with girls who I think are in his SMV range....& he almost always has something negative to say about these females. They’re too old, too young, fat, skinny etc. He told me once that he doesn’t do red heads. What I’m trying to say here is that even though he doesn’t get laid very often, he has the highest standards I’ve ever seen. I think he eithe…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 08:56 PM
9

Don’t worry. It’s all just a fairytale he’s living out on the web.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 10:00 PM
1

Don’t do it, bro. Compliment the pics of his gf & drop it. There’s no way I’d bang a crack whore look a like, anyway....let alone my boss’s crack whore.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 08:33 PM
1

I’d slowly phase her out of your life, bro. I would say drop her instantly but she did do a noble thing by letting you know before anything happened....which is to be rewarded by not instantly ghosting. This way she won’t be so reluctant to tell the next guy.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 09:45 PM
0

I know marriage can seem like a losing battle for men because of the legal ramification aspects. As men, we see things in the linear sense...so why gamble future resources for a little bit of pleasure? My advice for any man who’s contemplating marriage is to find a woman who meets a certain set of requirements. Some of requirements (for my 2nd marriage) were: Does she have a healthy family. (Are her mom & dad happily married? Are they successful? Could I look up to her father?) Does she have a g…
/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:15 PM
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The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything. -Friedrich Nietzsche So that should settle whether or not you want marriage. As far as kids, I’ll tell you why you want them too. Women have a biological need to have children. It is literally their purpose of existence. Society tells them that they could instead sell their time in exchange for money and feel fulfilled....but this doesn’t last long, especially for women. Get married, …
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:48 PM
1

Young Bruce Jenner is that you?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:29 PM
1

Young Bruce Jenner is that you?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:29 PM
8

Depends on which state you live in. If you live in Alabama or Arkansas, then it may be too much sexual tension between you guys. Also, did you know that if you get divorced in Arkansas, by law she is still legally your sister? A lot of people don’t know about this.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:26 PM
7

“lifting for 2 straight weeks now”
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:23 PM
1

Clarification needed here: Does she want you to literally move out of the country with her? She may just be daydreaming about traveling abroad like most people who feel unfulfilled do. It’s a phenomenon right now. People think America is the source of their problems or at least that it’s holding them back somehow. (Christian society, the patriarchy, capitalism, conservatism...etc.). I guess the grass is always greener. If she is dead serious about this, then yes, absolutely next her or at least …
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:21 PM
5

It’s all to do with social media. Majority of these chicks wouldn’t even be able to enjoy themselves because they would be too concerned with the best type of filter to use for a selfie. It’s like whenever you hear about someone falling off a cliff to their death...all because they were busy taking a sweet angled selfie.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 06:37 PM
1

No, not necessarily. I would just blame it on the liquor (but no apology though) & hope that it all goes back to somewhat normal. You said she dumped you so I’m not sure that you have too many options with her. You need to work on becoming more masculine though. You need to hit the gym & books. Work on yourself & in no time you’ll enjoy spending time alone, doing things that you truly enjoy...things that add value to you & your life. Then some woman (or probably many) will see how desirable you …
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:09 AM
2

Oh I should have added: Of course this chick wants to knock your boots, bro. I’ve never had a chick friend that just wanted to get drinks with me...or if I did, I didn’t know it because I ended up screwing them & ruined their plans.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 02:56 AM
3

Geez bro, you went the whole time leading up to that date without building the sexual tension before the date?! What a wasted opportunity. You could have been laying game, build anticipation & attraction leading into the date. That way when y’all meet, you know her panties are already wet & all you have to do is slide up in there. Lesson learned I hope.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 02:51 AM
2

Father Time is one of the greatest weapons a man has in his arsenal. The reason you called her 50x is because you let your emotions get the best of you. Chicks get off on making dudes lose their nerve. It basically makes them feel like they own you. First thing you need to do is get your emotions in check. I always err to the side of caution which means you are better off showing too little of your cards (emotions) than showing too much to women. You are way better off staying mysterious instead…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 02:41 AM
2

I wouldn’t be so down on yourself....least she let you know it was over before she went out riding the CC. You say she’s contacting you...if it were me, I’d be interested in one thing only with her....of course that one thing is sex. Don’t let her know you are a wreck right now. Instead use that energy to invest in yourself. Time to plate this broad. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 01:47 AM
24

Wow, what a bitter red pill to swallow....& at such a young age. No wonder this man was so wise.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 06:19 PM
1

How does this seem like he played it right? I mean, it seems like he doesn’t get what he wanted....which for me, is the ultimate end game here.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:04 PM
1

What a beautiful story. You deserve to have a statue of yourself built here in the manosphere.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 10:10 PM
4

If you are naturally a social butterfly, then consider yourself extremely blessed. The last part you wrote about being financially free is a HUGE deal for men. I was telling my cousin this just last week. He’s 24, working as a pizza deliverer & rents a room at his older, married brother’s home. He’s been depressed because his gf is moving to Orlando to work for Disney & she doesn’t want him to come with her. I told him that it’s clear that she thinks she’d be supporting him & that would weigh he…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:25 PM
0

Ok. AWALT is a fact. With that being said, all women aren’t the same. Don’t confuse the two. Also, you say that your woman (or women) would bounce if she saw a better opportunity. My question is, why give her the reason to look for better opportunities? I tell you one thing that has always worked for me...and that is VISION. Whenever I’m in a LTR, I always get my woman on board with me, to help me achieve some of my goals. Even though they’re my goals, they usually benefit her in some way. Like …
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:28 PM
2

I used to do the same thing when I was younger. The woman I’m with now though, did something (like going to a party at her friends house where her ex fiancé would be) one time & I called her out on it. She at first acted like WTF but then I explained that she could go but it would basically change our relationship. She played the “don’t you trust me” card. I said of course but you wouldn’t want me out partying all night with my ex and her friends. After that, I said nothing else about it & let h…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:30 PM
2

I’ll tell you what I do with mine. I flip the script on her. Instead of you hamstering, it is a lot easier on you (& quite frankly, easier on the relationship) if your woman is the one doing the hamstering. I believe it’s more natural for the woman to do a little worrying. It gives her something to occupy her thoughts but it also serves as motivation to better her position with you-whether that be treating you better (cooking, cleaning etc..) or perhaps it means she takes better care of her self…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:18 PM
1

Sounds like she’s trying to lock you down...which isn’t a bad thing for you. However, you are the man here & so you should want things to be on your terms. I wouldn’t give her all of your free time...especially this soon. A woman’s imagination is your best ally. If you turn her “dates” down, it could peak her curiosity, which benefits you greatly. I think giving her a little less time with you benefits you more.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 05:14 PM
22

I think most people feel this way on some levels. What gives me a little confidence whenever I have feelings like this, is I try to remember everyone is playing the same game, everyone is learning this as they go just like me. I’ll give you an example I recently experienced. There’s a military documentary on a group of Marines during the early stages of the war in Afghanistan. I first watched this when I was a teenager, maybe 17-18-19 years old. Back then I thought, man these Marines are a well …
/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:02 PM
4

I’ve find the correct answer. No need to look at this thread anymore. Thanks!
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:02 PM
1

You sound very similar to my 1st marriage. I was young and way too sensitive. Something would bother me and I wouldn’t bring it up. Then I would proceed to dwell on whatever bothered me, which only makes things worse. If upset, I would mumble or say things under my breath....but rarely approached my wife like a father would his child, in a manner that is not just calm and caring but is also serious and firm. I would advise you to try to control your negative emotions better. Try not to be so sen…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:07 PM
2

I don’t have much to offer with this comment however, I really enjoyed reading this post. So keep up the good work.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/18 10:25 PM
3

Man, that was a good read! I thoroughly enjoy reading what the older guys here in tRP have to offer us younger fellas. There is a lot of wisdom & practical life lessons that can be learned from post like these. I feel like wisdom in the past used to be passed down more naturally, almost inherently, among different generations of men. So most men sort of were naturally at the top of this pyramid, in respects to women, that is. The modern world has eliminated (or at least interfered with) this tra…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 06:29 PM
2

I hope you don’t mind me saying what I’m about to say. I don’t mean it to be offensive or anything negative, I just think you’re a man and that we men shouldn’t sugar coat anything (especially between like minded men). I read your post and it is very true that there’s no real leadership in our schools. What got to me though is the fact that you just quit & gave up because of this problem. It seems like you’re actually displaying some of things that are wrong with schools. You change people and s…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 03:14 PM
3

Bud, I am 31 yrs old, 6’2” - athletic, 190 lbs. I’m married with 2 young children. If I could trade you places, I almost would...if it weren’t for the ol’ rib (the wife) and kiddos. Trust me, it seems pretty significant right now that you are not getting laid but you basically in monk mode, fully investing all of yourself into building the man you will one day become. You’ll be 28-30 yrs old one day, and that will open the market way up for you. You’ll have easy access to the 18-34+ market. It’s…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 06:20 PM
1

Geez...what a loser. He hasn't quite had his balls thoroughly crushed enough by a female. Until then, it's back to his blue pill dream world.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:12 PM
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All though I would have worded it a little differently, this is some red pill wisdom right here "I strongly believe every man just needs to be with women for long enough until they demystify them from their blue pill program. How do you do that? You fuck as many as possible until you're bored"
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 08:31 PM
2

Great post. I'll be checking out that blog now.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 05:11 AM
1

What about "did you cum?" or "did you really cum or were you just faking it?"
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 07:26 PM
1

I can get behind & support this kind of logic.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 09:54 PM
9

It's nice to meet you, you Clayton Bigsby-like mf'er. Btw. That was one of Dave's best skits
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 01:16 PM
4

I agree with most of what you're saying. I can only speak from my own experiences & with that being said, I've saw some red flags. I think TFA is a good dude & no doubt has some valuable input. If anything, I see GLO's as more of a challenge to TFA rather than trolling. I don't see anything wrong with calling someone out. In fact, it would be a bitch move if GLO didn't speak up because he was afraid of offending someone. GLO thinks TFA doesn't appear to be a power lifter so why should he be advi…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 02:01 PM
5

No, this Family Alpha definitely has red flags...he bailed on his super hyped up 30 day challenge that a friend and I were taking part in, about 2 weeks in the guy just disappears & leaves us without challenges for approx. 3-4 days.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 09:35 PM
5

You know, funny that the OP mentions the Family Alpha. You see, a while back the Family Alpha posted a 30 day challenge (where he would post a different challenge every day) in which a coworker (very new to tRP) & I decided to take part of....& a major red flag went off when the guy disappeared for like 3 days half way into the 30 days of challenges. So we're doing each day's post religiously & actually enjoying them quite well.....BUT then the freaking OP can't even last his self subscribed "ch…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 09:25 PM
13

Another thing that is crazy to me is that the bf feels like their relationship is serious enough to pay for her tuition (which is pretty freaking serious) but is seemingly ok with just a text to end the night with. I'm not too big into texting & I may be a little old fashion but I usually talk to my main chick before I call it a night. I'm sure she probably dictates their communications & this is her probably all doing so her bf doesn't interfere in her CC riding time.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 02:30 PM
6

Damn good point! That sounds exactly like something a hamster would do.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 02:01 PM
1

I can second the woodwork. I love it, man. You get to build awesome & unique things with your FREAKING hands (& kreg jig of course)....& women really love it. I built my girl's parents 2 Adirondack chairs last year for Christmas & I can't believe how much praise it's gotten me. Every time I visit them & go somewhere they are....they make sure to tell everyone how handy I am & brag on me.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/17 11:32 PM
4

"Be Like water, as Bruce Lee said- took me 29 years to realize what he meant" You are 29, right? So you learned about this saying the day you were born? That's amazing.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 09:52 PM
4

Are you serious that you have never owned a TV? That's fascinating. How old are you?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 07:16 PM
4

Not only do they target the easier prey but I remember learning in a psychology class that one of the most effective ways to advertise to men especially, is to make them feel insecure about something & then pitch your product as something they need to fix that insecurity. Men long to feel that they're capable & needed so advertisers play hard on that insecurity all of the time.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:29 PM
1

That really sums this situation up nicely
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 03:46 PM
6

First thing I'd like to address is your wife's weight. This may have something to do with her health....unless she's 5' or less, 100 lbs seems way too skinny. This may also be why she can't seem to keep up....she has no physical energy reserves. Her weight might even be the reason you seem to have lost feelings for her....is she so skinny that she's become less attractive to you?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 12:26 PM
1

Geez....sounds like she straight up punked you out like a bitch....& not only did you allow it....you then rewarded her by continuing to care for her & clean house. Seriously, back in the day I'd do this same shit to my gfs & not only would they let me get away w it but would often continue treating me like a king. Dude, it sounds like she's got you bro.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 08:09 PM
1

But you left out whether you popped that cherry or not!
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 07:39 PM
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